How to ACTUALLY be motivated & disciplined to achieve ANYTHING you want

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  • čas přidán 28. 04. 2024
  • You're more powerful than you think. A deep dive revealing the TRUTH behind my mindset for success.
    My main channel: / wamyy5
    // Quote from James Clear I saw on May 1, 2024 that I found such a coincidence to my thoughts in this video:
    "People can help you in many ways throughout life, but there are two things nobody can give you: curiosity and drive. They must be self-supplied.
    If you are not interested and curious, all the information in the world can be at your fingertips, but it will be relatively useless. If you are not motivated and driven, whatever connections or opportunities are available to you will be rendered inert.
    Now, you won't feel curious and driven about every area of life, and that's fine. But it really pays to find something that lights you up. This is one of the primary quests of life: to find the thing that ignites your curiosity and drive.
    There are many recipes for success. There is no single way to win. But nearly all recipes include two ingredients: curiosity and drive."
    Filmed: 2024 04 25
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Komentáře • 52

  • @kerenbanget1
    @kerenbanget1 Před měsícem +17

    i have been living in low mood, no desire to do anything for almost 2 years. I've learnt a lot about managing feeling , motivation etc, watching endless "psychology hacks, etc".
    your video concludes everything i ALREADY knew. SOMEHOW i still cannot move a needle, but i feel better everyday. thanks for your video.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +4

      Slow progress is better than none so you're still making progress. Keep your head up!

  • @c0co808
    @c0co808 Před měsícem +25

    Hi Amy! I just wanted to comment that I’ve already tried implementing some of your tips, and I’ve already cut my screen time down from 10 hours to 2 hours, beat my social media addiction and I have a nearly 4.0 GPA
    Watching your videos are the best thing I’ve done ❤

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Wow that's amazing!! I'm so so proud of you ❤️ Thank you for being here and for working so hard !!

  • @trngi1685
    @trngi1685 Před měsícem +26

    Absolutely! It's spot-on! Many creators of such videos often emphasize motivation and systems, but the core reason behind it all is truly the driving force behind habit formation. It needs to resonate deeply because during our most challenging moments, it's our "why" that sustains us, especially when it springs from our innermost being.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +5

      YES! I love the way you phrased that. Your summary is so eloquent and helpful. Thank you for watching and sharing!

  • @missgirl3410
    @missgirl3410 Před měsícem +24

    The mindset conversation is so important, you're definitely beyond just a studytuber at this point!!

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +4

      Thank you for your support! Glad this was helpful :)

  • @GahImaGhost
    @GahImaGhost Před měsícem +9

    Dude, found your comeback video two days ago, watched it the next day, and found this truly inspiring. Have you thought of starting a podcast? I truly enjoy how well spoken you are and how insightful you are to the topics.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Ah, thank you so much for your kind words! I consider this channel to be my podcast :) I appreciate your compliments and let me know what else would be helpful to cover!

  • @Tahani2006
    @Tahani2006 Před měsícem +6

    Points i learnt:
    1. Your motivation should be intrinsic
    2. Think of your 'why' when you struggle to choose between something productive and something unproductive
    3. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who acheived their potential. Embody their characteristics (the hard work they put in), instead of beig motivated by them. 9:21
    4. You have to believe you can do anything you set your mind to

  • @raghadbadran6060
    @raghadbadran6060 Před měsícem +1

    Your honesty is the best 💗

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před měsícem +2

    Hi Amy, just wanted to say this was a really great and refreshing perspective, as ive really been working on motivating myself to do all the things i need to in order to be fulfilled and have a meaningful purpose. However, i really liked how you described the interchangeable aspects (im assuming) of motivation and discipline within the realm of having a true purpose as i probably already mentioned. But case in point; its up to us as individuals to want to be of value and not just a servant to what our biases tell us otherwise. It might seem arbitrary, but that is how we as people will be able to understand what makes us feel worthy.

  • @SID_597
    @SID_597 Před měsícem +5

    Loved the topic like always, God bless ya! 💛

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Glad you enjoyed it ♥️

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před měsícem +1

    Great insight on reframing discipline as clarity of goals! Tapping into your unique 'why' can naturally fuel the drive to make choices that align with your true priorities. 🔥

  • @aurostar9805
    @aurostar9805 Před měsícem

    Thank you sm for this ❤

  • @user-zy7yi9se7m
    @user-zy7yi9se7m Před měsícem +1

    This is the best video ever. Thank you so much. It made my day. I was feeling low. Now I got so much clarity.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem

      You are so welcome - you can do it! :)

  • @Listen_To_Think
    @Listen_To_Think Před měsícem

    Great video and tips. Thanks!

  • @celgmartinez
    @celgmartinez Před měsícem +1

    I really loved this video! I will be referring to it again and again. We need more people like you in this world 🌎 ❤

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem

      Aw so sweet of you - thank you! ❤️

  • @aslyruiz6598
    @aslyruiz6598 Před měsícem

    Loveeee u so much thank for your effort keep doing it

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před měsícem +2

    I wanted to also say that im prone to binge scrolling through CZcams and other social media, but at least i am becoming self aware of that particular habit, and whenever i feel like im on social media too much; i usually like to sketch/draw and look up new recipes to cook/bake. It might seem silly, although at least they're tasks that are constructive and encourage accomplishment ;)

  • @aurostar9805
    @aurostar9805 Před měsícem

    I could never relate to a youtuber before but now I feel like I have a better idea of how to approoach my challenges , you are really a hero to me rn thanks ❤

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for taking the time to hear advice that can help you ❤️ Wishing you the best :)

  • @shanvitiwari8832
    @shanvitiwari8832 Před měsícem +2

    Wow Amy you had a secret channel too😅❤
    Btw subscribed this one too✨️

  • @jannarosetarroja6042
    @jannarosetarroja6042 Před měsícem +3

    Hi Amy, I love how concise and practical your tips are. You make it so easy to remember and thank you so much for that. I would also like to know your CZcams channel of your singing covers. Let's hear that.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem

      Yay thank you! My singing channel: czcams.com/users/asharp5

  • @STUDYatmosphere-0135
    @STUDYatmosphere-0135 Před měsícem +2

    Great content Amy !! I'm so grateful to have the videos of a creator like you sharing awesome and EFFECTIVE tips that help us REACH OUR POTENTIAL ! !
    "the SECRET to straight A' s NO MATTER WHAT " is the 1st video that i came across from your channel , that video made me CURIOUS about your channel , i subscribed your channel and started to see some more content , then TRIED it out , that's when I realised ' you aren't like others ' u shared EFFECTIVE tips .
    Then you named us "A team" it made me feel so SPECIAL [ i really son't kno y ] , then i also subscribed to " Your A+ Life " because I knew that u would share helpful tips only .
    THANK YOU SO MUCH , AMY !!
    💖

  • @otavioalexandre7575
    @otavioalexandre7575 Před měsícem +1

    nice video and great tips. thanks

  • @coach_jae_3533
    @coach_jae_3533 Před měsícem +1

    I like this channel so much. You could definitely be a coach. I would pay money. Usually I watch videos with no regard as to how many followers they have. After watching 4 straight videos, I thought, she must have 300k followers. Not yet, but that speaks to the value you’re putting out there. Thank you

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem

      That makes me so happy to hear! Your words and encouragement made my day. It's truly hard to keep putting in so much effort and time into videos when it's not paying off monetarily yet, but your comment reminds me of my mission. Thanks and hope you stick around!

  • @myraagam6280
    @myraagam6280 Před měsícem

    Oh my god 😨😍😍🥳😍😍🥰🥰!!
    Wamy such an amazing video ❤
    Totally loved it 😍
    Thank you so much for giving those wonderful tips ❤
    Hope you post many amazing awesome videos like these ❤❤🎉
    Keep shining 🌟
    Peace ✌️❤

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem

      Thank you for continuing to watch my videos and listen to my advice :) Great job bettering yourself and your life ❤️

  • @Bren12602
    @Bren12602 Před 7 dny

    4:40 drive

  • @rua005
    @rua005 Před měsícem +1

    اعتذر عن كتابة تعليقي باللغة العربية اتمنى ترجمته
    ولكن شكرا على النصايح وخصوصا فيما يتعلق الامر بالانضباط
    لقد شد انتباهي الدقيقه6:50

  • @Yunki86
    @Yunki86 Před měsícem +1

    hi...I love your content and I'm very grateful...today I have a question for you. I am a student who recently moved to America, I am a junior in high school, I would really like to go to a UC university but I don't really know what to do with the collage application. . And by this I mean the 4 essays that we have to attach together with the application... I haven't really learned how to write a good essay so I don't want to risk doing something wrong also for the reason that this is my third language... I dream of being accepted to university and I want to achieve my dream but I don't know how to do this and I'm very afraid of not being accepted... please help me😢

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 Před měsícem +1

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  • @RbBr-go8id
    @RbBr-go8id Před měsícem

    ily & your content. More on how do you pick yourself up, i think i need more preachy Amy on this😂

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Noted! I will add this to my list :) Thank you!

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Much love!

  • @inejunta6569
    @inejunta6569 Před měsícem

    remember, being naturally smart means going through the struggle and studying... then convincing people that you didn't.
    And trying to convince other people even if they won its because of some "negative" quality their trying to dissociate from themselves. I think try hard (going hard at a skill) verses throwing people under the bus/ gossiping/ trying to manipulate people into failing or sucking up to others to win...are two different things.
    Just saying... going to that length to win really shows...they did eevrything in their power... so no... they tried pretty hard.

  • @mortonsalt5055
    @mortonsalt5055 Před měsícem +1

    how would you motivate someone who is stuggling with connecting with others? like how do you make your connections and friends? a lot of studying is staying lonely.

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Ahh sorry to hear that and I definitely understand being lonely myself as well. Could you please provide more details as to why you feel it's hard to connect or make friends?

  • @aruntiwari3906
    @aruntiwari3906 Před měsícem +4

    Let us not let our life *slip* cause *YOLO* 🤟

  • @neko9375
    @neko9375 Před měsícem

    I have a question do you have spotify podcast?

    • @YourALife
      @YourALife  Před měsícem +1

      Not yet! I'm posting my podcast to here!

  • @GMATIQ-TutorCoach
    @GMATIQ-TutorCoach Před 2 dny

    COMPLETELY DISAGREE.
    I wrote this same comment in another video. I do think this person has good intentions, but her videos truly exemplifies the Dunning Kruger Effect. She has neither a background in psychology nor learning, but she feels very confident that she knows what she's talking about. I see this with tons of learning "experts".
    Although what she says here may sound true. And you may believe her because she's doing well in school, but her beliefs have no basis in modern science.
    We are mainly motivated by our relative status within our environment, and not by our status in wider society. So, even if we know that we are privileged, we won't feel that way if our immediate environment doesn't reflect that.
    This video is similar to books pushed by Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dad, Poor Dad). It may make you feel good temporarily. It may motivate you to study for an hour, but your drive will soon evaporate, and you'll go back to your old routine.
    If you truly want to see a difference, you need to make systematic changes to your life. You need to consider that our brains or bodies are merely organic robots with specific programming. We are not rational. For example, we may want to jog every day because we know it's good for us, but we can't. We can't because of psychological constraints built into our DNA, which were set 10,000 years ago. If we jogged back then, we would have wasted valuable calories and quickly died off. Similarly, studying is a waste of calories to our primitive brain. You can't study because your brain thinks it's useless.
    If you want ideas on how to really learn how to study, you can message me. Although it's a bit self-serving as I'm a tutor/coach, I can truly show you real ways to effect change.
    *Btw, to figure out how to study, people need to stop listening to people who get As. It makes no sense if you give it some thought. It's similar to asking students who got into a top school about how to get into college. Some offer consulting services on how to get into college, and people pay them thousands. It's absurd. If you think about it, how would the newly accepted know? They aren't privy to the college application process. They have no basis of comparison. The people who you should actually consult are admissions officers who see hundreds of applications and actually make the decisions.
    Similarly, this person really doesn't know how she got good grades. Yes, it seems absurd to say this, but this is a big topic in psychology today. You really aren't in control of your brain/body. It may seem like you do, but you actually do things because you're preprogrammed to do so. You don't realize you're doing it because it's all automatic. She doesn't realize that what motivates her are the grades itself (as well as these videos).