Relationship Pain | Navigating Challenges, Setting Boundaries, and Finding Peace

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 63

  • @sacredgem8732
    @sacredgem8732 Před 8 měsíci +7

    23:38 I truly wish I had had access to these kinds of talks years ago when I was much younger. It would have had such an impact on my life. I used to feel so bad when I would try to better my life and people would say I’ve changed. Id have so much guilt. It took me years to overcome that and not fall back into old patterns and actually stick to making the progress I knew was right for me. Thank you for sharing your journey and wisdom.

  • @katalinkolozsi5172
    @katalinkolozsi5172 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This video was the answer to my prayer today. Thanks for the help! ❤❤😊

  • @kylehaynes9834
    @kylehaynes9834 Před rokem +19

    This was incredible! Thank you for the affirming Godly community over blood relation. Tabitha’s prayer was beautiful. Needed this 🙏🏼

  • @msprettysunshine
    @msprettysunshine Před 11 měsíci +7

    I was led to this channel. The sharing, teaching, relatability, and tone are on time and target. Thank you God. Thank you for this couple.

  • @denajoyner5049
    @denajoyner5049 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I have been watching for a couple weeks now. And thank you for all your wisdom and input in my life that I need. I'm 67 years old, I'm a widow. I'm looking to be married again. You have truly Been a blessing to me.
    And l pray to God continue to use you all for his glory. Thank you.
    Dena joyner

  • @reginalove6201
    @reginalove6201 Před 3 měsíci

    Right on time EVERYTIME❤

  • @nikjoy6585
    @nikjoy6585 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this episode. I'd struggled with this for years. Felt like because they're family and I'm a believer, I should just deal with it. God is teaching me emotional boundaries are good

  • @MyChosenChild
    @MyChosenChild Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you! I am on my personal journey to get my advice from the LORD!

  • @jedidjab4346
    @jedidjab4346 Před 3 měsíci

    I really enjoyed this topic.. I can really relate to these feeling of persecution, manipulation, hate.. I started avoiding them in my 30’s but it caused me so much trauma already 🥺

  • @gloriabell9231
    @gloriabell9231 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Your ministry is such a blessing and you two are such a beautiful example of a true marriage of wisdom and love. Continue to inspire God’s people. Thank you!

  • @chelseareynolds7031
    @chelseareynolds7031 Před rokem +5

    Right on time as usual! Thank you both

  • @lenci9524
    @lenci9524 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video. GOD BLESS both of you!!!❤

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit Před rokem +3

    This was so encouraging ❤ Thank you guys for your testimonies and wisdom.

  • @sandrashavers1516
    @sandrashavers1516 Před 4 měsíci

    so encouraging

  • @amandaplata9851
    @amandaplata9851 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I really needed to hear this today, thank you!

  • @user-hw4lp8dl6n
    @user-hw4lp8dl6n Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this video! May God bless you both!!! I'm learning a lot from you guys :)

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913 Před 3 měsíci

    Yo!!! God bless you guys

  • @user-oe3bj9ft8y
    @user-oe3bj9ft8y Před 9 měsíci +1

    😭🙏🏼 this is exactly what I needed to hear. It was the first thing that came up this morning.

  • @assefameshesha1388
    @assefameshesha1388 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love this couples, just found out your channel

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci

    Yes it does

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci +1

    GOD is protecting me

  • @tarshapatriz3632
    @tarshapatriz3632 Před 7 měsíci

    This truly ministers to me. I know I’m going to revisit this one in particular as needed. Love your ministry! Thank you for your obedience🙌🏾🙌🏾💙

  • @sheeshee1053
    @sheeshee1053 Před rokem +2

    Tabitha, you are my mentor

  • @preyonce
    @preyonce Před rokem +2

    Great message, amen!

  • @mrs.wilson2275
    @mrs.wilson2275 Před rokem +3

    This was soo good and right on time for me!!

  • @christymccartha7201
    @christymccartha7201 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you both for being voices I too can listen to!!!!

  • @rachelcook3606
    @rachelcook3606 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for this great message ❤

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci +1

    A close door is because GOD allow it!

  • @JustJazzyNJesus
    @JustJazzyNJesus Před 6 měsíci

    HALLELUJAH!!!! Thank you!!! God bless you both 🩷🩷🩷🩷✝️

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes people will fall off , we loose some and gain Godly friends. , church families..

  • @KimoraMyliaa
    @KimoraMyliaa Před rokem +1

    First time viewer! This came up right on time for me. No searching just on my home feed, Thank you

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 Před rokem +2

    FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
    JOHN 3:16

  • @rebkatesfaldet5050
    @rebkatesfaldet5050 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow God bless you all❤

  • @ashleyhamilton6757
    @ashleyhamilton6757 Před rokem +1

    This was tooooo good!!

  • @brownsuga985
    @brownsuga985 Před rokem +2

    Great message

  • @DivineGraceSocial
    @DivineGraceSocial Před 11 měsíci +1

    Jesus didn’t cut off anyone so I don’t think we cut them off we pour more and pray more! Exactly what he said!!!

  • @bargainhuntmom
    @bargainhuntmom Před rokem

    Wow this message...

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci

    This is good

  • @vimbainashemusic
    @vimbainashemusic Před 6 měsíci

    The Spirit les me to your podcasts this one especially and I realized I had a major soul tie with this one guy that I had been sexually intimate with. Even though things didn’t work between us I was holding on to him in many ways and couldn’t shake him off my mind and thoughts. I went through the practical ways of letting him go as you suggested … the clean sweep and all! I repented and renounced and reset. Thank y’all for allowing God to use you to help me a young Zimbabwean woman living in Canada.
    I have a question though. How do you break a soul tie with someone if it ended in the conception of a child

    • @reginamcclay6701
      @reginamcclay6701 Před 4 měsíci

      You can be there for your child because the child is innocent. A child need to have a relationship with both parents. You can be a mature adult and set boundaries so that the child can have a parental bond. Leave toxic situations alone. Why open up a can of worms. Your heart should be tied to that child, not rekindling a poisonous relationship.

  • @kikijames333
    @kikijames333 Před 7 měsíci

    Its ok

  • @cherubinn5
    @cherubinn5 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joneicyasimmons709
    @joneicyasimmons709 Před 5 měsíci

    I wanted to know what does it mean if a man is intentionally (purposely) hurting his spouse’s feelings and in what way should their spouse respond?

  • @lbfaith
    @lbfaith Před 6 měsíci

    4:43 I think it’s also because she was able to lean on her man of God when she was feeling the temptation. I’m speculating. But that’s rare to never have backslide. Since my husband isn’t quite the man of God he should be or even wants to be I’ve felt myself go back many times bc I’m living with someone and have become one with someone who at the time equally yoked in the world standpoint but I grew spiritually. Or try to. It’s hard to continue when he doesn’t make it know that he prays. Or studies. Anytime I’ve seen him engage is with watching yt pastor like Jennings. 😅he gets mad when I tell him he’s gotta read the Bible as well. I’ve told him about 3 times in our decade of marriage. Each time he got mad.
    Any advice on how to handle a spiritual slacker or better yet when one grows spiritually becomes unequally yoked from their partner

  • @user-ir2of1pc1s
    @user-ir2of1pc1s Před 6 měsíci

    Ken and Tabritha how do I deal with my neighbor? I have a problem with her

  • @user-ir2of1pc1s
    @user-ir2of1pc1s Před 6 měsíci

    I have a problem with that

  • @malianalamositele1870
    @malianalamositele1870 Před 10 měsíci

    Would you be able to do a podcast on Lust please

  • @lbfaith
    @lbfaith Před 6 měsíci

    13:53 how do you deal with being used in a marriage for the Christian. Like what if they married u for the sole purpose of you serving them n it’s pretty much one sided.

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 Před rokem +1

    REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
    JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

  • @sarareyes7207
    @sarareyes7207 Před 10 měsíci

    I love you both and have learned a lot from your episodes but honestly it bothers me that Ken brings up how Tabatha had to get herself together in the first 2 yrs of your marriage in almost every episode. I don’t know exactly what was going on the first 2 yrs of your marriage but I’m sure it was not just one sided. What about forgiveness? Doesn’t scripture tell us that love keeps no record of wrong(1 Corinthians 13:5). And if the Lord is able to cast our sins into the sea of forgetfulness then why do you Ken have to bring up Tabatha’s faults in almost every episode? May I suggest focusing on the amazing blessing that you both are to each other and how God is now using you to help other relationships because of what you have gone thru together?