Struggle of a Single Mom with an Autistic Child | Lhakpa Choedon - ​⁠

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Komentáře • 608

  • @TashiPassion
    @TashiPassion Před měsícem +40

    She is not just a great Mom, she is very honest and truthful. And most of people don't know that lots of inventions are done by Autistic minds. They have very sharp mind and can be very focused. So, respect all with Autism

  • @tibetan_sonam8615
    @tibetan_sonam8615 Před měsícem +21

    God gave her this child becuz god knew she will take good care of him…Be strong and avoid negative comments and people.

  • @tseringlhamo4583
    @tseringlhamo4583 Před měsícem +58

    I am so sad to hear your story. I know what you are going through. I am also a single mom. It’s not easy to say but be strong, you are a pillar to your son. When he grows up he will be proud of you. Although he is an autistic child, they are more sensitive than others and he can definitely feel your love. Wishing you both a happiness in life. Everything will work out.

  • @pasanglhamo9442
    @pasanglhamo9442 Před měsícem +67

    I am here for A for Ball. Nowadays its very hard to find the people who is very transparent and honest like you. Honesty never dies. Always stay like this and god bless you. We love and respect you ❤

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před měsícem

      I respect for who helping for other beings practically. Mom like this I put in garbage 🚮 I think you enjoying her videos... Always Tu and Likpa all that words from her videos .

    • @pasanglhamo9442
      @pasanglhamo9442 Před měsícem

      @@tenzindorjee1909 if you dont like her why are you still watching her vidoes? Who is forcing you? You are just jealous of her. How do you feel when someone says i will throw your mum in garbage? Does that hurt you? If so same for her. She is also human like your mum

    • @pasanglhamo9442
      @pasanglhamo9442 Před měsícem +5

      @@tenzindorjee1909 why are you watching her videos if you dont like her? Who is forcing you? People like you who dont have anything to do in your life have nothing to do with her. Dont compare yourself with her. You are just too jealous of her. Do you like when someone said to your mum i will throw her in garbage? If you feel bad. She feels the same. She is also human being. Be nice to someone.

  • @tenzinydonchen429
    @tenzinydonchen429 Před měsícem +34

    She is loving mom,beautiful and very smart ❤️❤️❤️👍

  • @freetibet8133
    @freetibet8133 Před měsícem +65

    Thank you very much Bhuchung Kata La for interviewing Ms. A-For-Ball. I believe she is the most popular CZcamsr in Tibetans. God bless her & her kids lives. We all love her so much.

  • @Tseyang10
    @Tseyang10 Před měsícem +41

    She is really a strong mother . Very honest & straight.

  • @TheTsedorlama
    @TheTsedorlama Před měsícem +179

    She is awesome mother. In a Tibetan society she is a one of best mother, ❤❤❤

    • @Samurai-ke5ie
      @Samurai-ke5ie Před měsícem +7

      Want to be like her ?

    • @tenzinchoeden3166
      @tenzinchoeden3166 Před měsícem

      @@Samurai-ke5ie i got two words for you . Suxk it

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před měsícem +5

      Yes I want !

    • @tenzintopchoe112
      @tenzintopchoe112 Před měsícem +4

      I also want to be like her.she is amazing ❤❤❤

    • @tenzinpaldon7041
      @tenzinpaldon7041 Před měsícem +21

      Ur world is too small to see nothing but her as the best mother. There r lot of other mothers who have much harder life but since they r not on social media, u can’t say she is the best. I know she has an autistic son but she get everything free from the French Govt. In our society(India) there are mothers who have child with special needs who have got no help at all. They struggle to meet their ends meet. So there is nothing special about a for ball. She became famous of talking rude rubbish sexual things on CZcams. I guess that sums up her followers😂

  • @devloggirl_
    @devloggirl_ Před měsícem +32

    She is really strong mother and women ❤she direct and honest.she is funny also.

  • @Zey909
    @Zey909 Před měsícem +21

    Nyinjey … thank you so much for sharing your painful memories. You are really strong women. I really wanted to give you one tight hug for you ah lhakpa 🥰😍. I wish you will get succeed in drukta dream. He is very lucky son

  • @Peaceful33517
    @Peaceful33517 Před měsícem +95

    Thank you Bhuchung lak for covering Lhakpa lak’s life as a single mother with Autistic child. We need more awareness in our societies that Autism is not a disease it’s just that their brain functions in different ways and little slower but not less.

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před měsícem

      A lot of tibetan single mother in India. Poorest than Lhakpa (phakpa). What you want to say about them?

    • @Peaceful33517
      @Peaceful33517 Před měsícem

      @@tenzindorjee1909 Lhakpa is on social platform and I follow her as a very honest person who is not afraid of our society. I don’t know about poor jhichak poor people as I didn’t say that I am a millionaire lo… I am sure you are jealous of Lhakpa lak…

    • @Peaceful33517
      @Peaceful33517 Před měsícem +2

      @@tenzindorjee1909 what you mean by that? She is on social media platforms and I follow her because of how honest she is. Looks like you are jealous of her popularity. Injjay about your thoughts…

    • @user-bt6fv3dq6q
      @user-bt6fv3dq6q Před měsícem +4

      @@tenzindorjee1909you should never compare a parents struggle with one another , shame on u

    • @ten_hype4207
      @ten_hype4207 Před měsícem

      y, you mean that our society don't treat them properly.

  • @longlivehhdl5479
    @longlivehhdl5479 Před měsícem +17

    I think all her old friends must be friends with her always. like shame on lobsang 22 becuase she show her attitude but in reality she live on someone else money which is big shame...

    • @Tenzma
      @Tenzma Před měsícem +1

      Are u here to support Aforball or belittle Lobsang22. Please keep ur hatred for Lobsang22 out of this important Topic. Shame on u for keeping His Holiness name as ur profile name and defaming a Tibetan girl. 🫨

  • @user-lq1wu8sr7v
    @user-lq1wu8sr7v Před měsícem +99

    Tibetan community should support our tibetan people like her😢

    • @taidelek9994
      @taidelek9994 Před měsícem +11

      Why ? Have she done anything for society or for Tibet cause

    • @user-lq1wu8sr7v
      @user-lq1wu8sr7v Před měsícem +9

      To being a བོད ་པ།

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před měsícem +14

      @taidelek994 , Oh WOW!!! all people have to do something for community tangibles and have to be seen by you.
      She has been a role model for 1000 more people. She needs our support ❤. First you must do your assignment !

    • @kalsangdolma9312
      @kalsangdolma9312 Před měsícem

      @@taidelek9994why. Have You did Tibetan community service and you have disabled kids. Shut up

    • @tashitsentso3851
      @tashitsentso3851 Před měsícem

      Right ❤️

  • @tenzinphentok
    @tenzinphentok Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤❤ she is the real mother she have been through a lot n lot that no other momma ever has. Love n support for her

  • @karmawangdu3637
    @karmawangdu3637 Před měsícem +4

    you are real hero, god bless you.

  • @tenzingkunzang6909
    @tenzingkunzang6909 Před 7 dny +1

    She’s a strong woman🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Tenchi143
    @Tenchi143 Před měsícem +1

    So touching,emotional and very inspiring..lots of love ❤

  • @metokla7781
    @metokla7781 Před měsícem

    Amazing video to watch! Very inspiring to watch and learn!👍👏🙏❤️

  • @tseringdolman2807
    @tseringdolman2807 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing her story. She is always strong and good heart inside and outside . Love you alwys my friends

  • @SarvaMangalam22
    @SarvaMangalam22 Před měsícem +1

    As a mother I completely feel the emotions and pains. I appreciate and respect her for sharing the journey to the us viewers. Very strong woman.

  • @passtens
    @passtens Před měsícem

    Thank you for being you! Best wishes to you and your son. Stay strong and keep going. One day at a time..

  • @whopawmo
    @whopawmo Před měsícem +3

    I’m glad your Daughters are very thoughtful and help you in need. I hope you get what you pray for. Stay strong and we’re all rooting for you. 🫶🏼

  • @tashichodon1692
    @tashichodon1692 Před měsícem +24

    She is strongest lady in Tibetan society
    You are the best Lhakpa la. Praying for your dream to come true

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před měsícem

      Hahaha..... What a funny comment.

    • @tenzintopchoe112
      @tenzintopchoe112 Před měsícem +1

      Wat something smelling hahaha​@@tenzindorjee1909

    • @tenzinchoeden3166
      @tenzinchoeden3166 Před měsícem

      ​@@tenzindorjee1909 is the ex bf of lhakpa . She dumped him hence the sourness

  • @tseringkhangchen2641
    @tseringkhangchen2641 Před měsícem

    I'm a big fan of her..makes me so emotional. Thank you so much Bhuchung la for inviting her in your show🙏

  • @samtenpalmo1323
    @samtenpalmo1323 Před měsícem +1

    She is very strong mother and honest mother too. I really appreciate her great patience with her little son ❤

  • @tseringsangmo
    @tseringsangmo Před měsícem +1

    Loads of luff nd support to Lhakpa nd more power to all the beautiful moms who has an autistic child or children

  • @tenzang5830
    @tenzang5830 Před měsícem

    So much love and respect to acha lhakpa .. thank you to the channel..

  • @kelsangyoudon8272
    @kelsangyoudon8272 Před měsícem

    Superb Lhakpa la, hats off to you... you are a great mother. Being a mother to an autistic child is not an easy task. Love you... give my big hug to your son... I really like your attitude.

  • @tashiphuntsok3721
    @tashiphuntsok3721 Před měsícem

    You are doing awesome job. I wish your son can get help asap. My prayers are with your family.

  • @JampaKhundok
    @JampaKhundok Před měsícem +16

    Be strong and stay strong, Lhapa Choedon la . One day, you will have a better life, and your son will be alright. Don't worry . Love you as how you are !!

  • @sonam2182
    @sonam2182 Před měsícem +2

    She is a inspiration woman 👩‍🦰hats off to Aja lhakpa ❤❤❤much love from Bhutan 🇧🇹

  • @angela2979
    @angela2979 Před měsícem +1

    A FOR BALL I watched your videos three times . God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cyoung4063
    @cyoung4063 Před 29 dny

    Extremely strong woman you are 🥰 I am praying for your son already . ❤️

  • @tseringtsesang4724
    @tseringtsesang4724 Před měsícem

    She is super mom and very strong woman. God bless ,Acha

  • @WaNgMO542
    @WaNgMO542 Před měsícem +4

    She is so genuine and amazing especially very patient mother ! My role model ❤ Thank you Kata la worth to watch !

  • @phurbudolma8610
    @phurbudolma8610 Před měsícem

    So emotional. Yes, I feel it. Be strong lo. Tsering. Our prayers and best wishes with you dear. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖👍👍👍💐💐💐

  • @user-no2rb5fh5g
    @user-no2rb5fh5g Před měsícem

    Thank you so much bhuchung la. dukdak was so lucky to have a mother like you.God always bless you both stay strong 💪🏽 tse… ring one day your dreams come true 🥰👍genla

  • @jetsun685
    @jetsun685 Před měsícem +31

    This is to all the haters and who have posted negative comments here. First and foremost my heart goes out to you for judging her and pointing fingers at her. I suppose u are someone with no private parts in your body, for that again my heart goes out to you. She smokes. she drinks. uses swear words but that doesn't make her a bad human being nor is she failing as a mother. She's in no shape or form promoting foul languages or smoking and drinking. This is her life and her struggle. If u have problem with that then don't watch, if your life is so pure good for you but my humble request is please don't be a coward and hide your identity behind and post all the negative comments. At the end of the day, she has feelings just like you have too. Please also remember that your life might be very happy and satisfied today but you never know what tomorrow holds for you. So please think twice before pointing fingers and judgemental. Thank you.

    • @yangchandolma309
      @yangchandolma309 Před měsícem +3

      ངའི་སྙིང་གི་སྐད་ཆ་དེ་རང་གིས་ལབ་སོང་། ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ།

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před měsícem +1

      I agreed with you and thank you

    • @hellohi_____________4089
      @hellohi_____________4089 Před měsícem

      @@yangchandolma3090k

  • @user-yu1ei2fp5v
    @user-yu1ei2fp5v Před měsícem +13

    Makes me cry. Big salute to Lhakpa la. Superb mom, superb human being. Just live and peace to her

  • @ngakyi2361
    @ngakyi2361 Před měsícem +1

    Super mother I love to way she is doing on her children God bless you n your cutie pie kid duktak ❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️will be ok one day your duktak 😍😍😍

  • @nimadorjee8267
    @nimadorjee8267 Před měsícem

    The best, touching, honest and most inspiring episode of Aha. Thank you very much.

  • @tsomotsering1787
    @tsomotsering1787 Před měsícem +5

    May A for ball dream come true.🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @BhuchungTsering-pz3dd
    @BhuchungTsering-pz3dd Před měsícem +6

    Bhuchung lak thanks for invite Afor ball in your channel lhakpala keet it up God bless u always

  • @deckyiboom204
    @deckyiboom204 Před měsícem +3

    You're fighter , strong, honest, supermom and good human being. You're giving 100℅ unconditional love❤ care and compassion to your son .
    There's no doubt the day of your success and dream coming soon . One day Dudak will stand🧍 in front of you handsome 😍 independently boy. God bless from Delhi❤

  • @Lob-sang584
    @Lob-sang584 Před měsícem +1

    She is very strong mother she is an inspiration for all young single mothers …..very pure heart 👏👏👏 keep going Acha …n love you so much be happy and healthy ❤❤❤

  • @Jutho529
    @Jutho529 Před měsícem +2

    Stay strong!I know what you are going through. I can feel your pain.

  • @Me2yota
    @Me2yota Před měsícem +1

    First time watching your channel. Here for this amazing human, who loves sticking out and speaking up in our rather conservative society . Lots of thank you for covering a heat tht we need not the heat that will destruct.

  • @tenzinnakshoe4308
    @tenzinnakshoe4308 Před měsícem

    I just wanna say Aforball is the GOAT. Best interview. Made me go thru all types of emotions. So happy that I never judge her. I always knew straight forward people are the realest.

  • @user-pu8kd8cm2r
    @user-pu8kd8cm2r Před měsícem

    I think she’s a brave mom, frankly,truthful and I truly understood her emotional as a mom.

  • @tsangsejourney
    @tsangsejourney Před měsícem

    Priceless program

  • @tuetara4119
    @tuetara4119 Před měsícem +3

    I feel fr you Acha.. when dukda grown up n watching ur video m sure he feel so proud of u.. Buddha blessed u n stay strong lo.. lots of love n hugs..

  • @Babytenxyvlog
    @Babytenxyvlog Před měsícem +1

    Very excited and waiting ❤❤❤❤

  • @dolkartenzin3523
    @dolkartenzin3523 Před měsícem +3

    This whole interview being raw was very engrossing and as usual, I really liked this ep.

  • @lhakpachoedon7637
    @lhakpachoedon7637 Před měsícem

    I love you AForBall.....Dukta is very lucky have a mom like you who is caring, loving and hard working. You are very mom. I love your honesty and straight forward.....

  • @Loveandcompassion12345
    @Loveandcompassion12345 Před měsícem

    She is very strong women, we the family always watching her vlog and live, god bless her son Dukdak We always support u🫶

  • @tibetanyoutuber23
    @tibetanyoutuber23 Před měsícem

    She is the best , kind and coolest Tibetan mom.may god always keeps her strong n happy

  • @tsetendolker5943
    @tsetendolker5943 Před měsícem +2

    Thanks for interview my favorite person❤❤❤

  • @Rising_Donlhavlog
    @Rising_Donlhavlog Před měsícem

    M here for A for Ball,acha lhakpa la.i watch her every vlog n i really feel that she is a great mother who never gives up easily in her life.❤

  • @Choetsam
    @Choetsam Před měsícem +1

    She is superb mom ❤️❤️awesome women👏👏honest person❤❤❤

  • @rinchenbhum2538
    @rinchenbhum2538 Před měsícem

    Lhakpa you are working hard for your son, keep it up, we wish you all best.🙏🙏👏👏

  • @charlierana4420
    @charlierana4420 Před měsícem

    She is so straight love it 👍❤️

  • @thintamo3880
    @thintamo3880 Před měsícem

    I love acha lhakpa ❤ she is very good nd strong mom in the world, acha lhakpa don’t cry plz lo always good. Bless you. God bless❤ I watch your video I also be crying😢 i no mom life is so hard I no I no always

  • @norlha4168
    @norlha4168 Před měsícem +3

    Bhuchung la thank you .that interview is awesome ❤

  • @Behappy69500
    @Behappy69500 Před měsícem +1

    A for ball love you 😘 you are the best mother ever ❤️😘

  • @immigrant-nurses
    @immigrant-nurses Před měsícem +2

    I just love her for being real! I pray that Drukdak gets his therapies and get better every day. Stay strong acha lhakpa la❤️❤️

  • @dikeyyangzom2561
    @dikeyyangzom2561 Před měsícem

    Hats off!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @tenzinwangmo5464
    @tenzinwangmo5464 Před měsícem +1

    Best interview ❤

  • @tenzinphuntsok2521
    @tenzinphuntsok2521 Před měsícem

    Big fan of her after listening of her story...cuz she is going wid her own flow n that's rare quality,,

  • @dekyitashi434
    @dekyitashi434 Před měsícem +9

    Lhakpa la we do understand what you are going through in your life. You are doing your best with love and care for your kids specially your son. You are brave and straight forward. It will take time and please continue with it a little more for your son. It will make a great difference in his life. Thank you for your sacrifice and take care of yourself.

  • @tsecho84jamsam27
    @tsecho84jamsam27 Před 29 dny

    This is ur best interview n my favourite.she is honest n transparent lady.

  • @passangraysvlog3087
    @passangraysvlog3087 Před měsícem

    Thank you bhuchung for that raw talk with a for ball. It is amazing and reality talk that is appreciated. Your video always mark an emotional piece of learning for me. Thank you for covering her life and showing us the facts about her life.

  • @Songtsen-Gampo
    @Songtsen-Gampo Před 16 dny

    The most educational and raw interview I have ever watched on CZcams .. ❤❤

  • @yeshilhundup1909
    @yeshilhundup1909 Před měsícem

    Great mum thanks Lhapa la. I hope ur dream will come soon❤

  • @Whateverful
    @Whateverful Před měsícem

    We mum look up to you Lhakpa la. Mum always have daily struggle with their kids and only a mother will understand, especially with no support, that’s even harder! Hats off to you Lhakpa la. Please don’t give up and this time shall pass soon!! Take care!

  • @meerathakur7654
    @meerathakur7654 Před měsícem

    She is owesome n transparent .❤

  • @user-xr1mc4cj8e
    @user-xr1mc4cj8e Před měsícem +1

    You are very strong mother Acha ! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kunchokchodon7722
    @kunchokchodon7722 Před měsícem

    Bee storm 💪🏾you are good mom and strong mom and hard worker mom good luck always we pray for your family we love you ❤God bless your family

  • @passgal2
    @passgal2 Před měsícem

    Sending you and your son lots and lots of love and prayer from 🇺🇸

  • @metokla7781
    @metokla7781 Před měsícem

    She’s an amazing mother! ❤

  • @user-ku1qe4kz9s
    @user-ku1qe4kz9s Před měsícem

    She is the best and hard working mum.only she can understand how to care about her son so nobody should point her how to care about her son.just support her and don't interfere about her life

  • @Lhamo821
    @Lhamo821 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤ finally you realised ! Love you acha lhakpa la we will pray for your dream to be fulfilled 😇

  • @tenzindolma3264
    @tenzindolma3264 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you bhuchung la to invite her . Thank you acha lhakpa to tell us about your life and what’s going through in ur life . Usually I don’t watch long video but always watching ur videos . So transparents and talk the way you actually are . Till now I been thinking my life is sucks even th9 i am college student . After hearing ur story my life is nothing that serious to end my life compare to you . Even tho you struggle stilll you are strong and try to live life 💝

  • @nyimayangzom1969
    @nyimayangzom1969 Před měsícem +1

    Dear Acha Lhakpa, I know how you look after your son Dugdak all time and there is no doubt that you are such a strong woman and an awesome mom of three children. There is no doubt that how much length you can go for the sake of your children especially for Dugdak. Haters gonna hate no matter what! You just keep doing wonderful things that you have been doing in your life until now! Good luck ❤

  • @kalsangyangzom4611
    @kalsangyangzom4611 Před měsícem +1

    Lhakpa la, You don’t have to answer anyone. You have best intentions for your own children. As far as I understand after watching this episode, you are doing everything in your power to help your child. Your plan to put him in special care school is fantastic. He needs to learn to be independent. Good luck with your future plans.

  • @choedon6276
    @choedon6276 Před měsícem +2

    I watched ur all episodes but this is best.

  • @PhayulDigest
    @PhayulDigest Před měsícem

    @A_FOR_BALL you are super strong, ignore the negative noises. Sending good vibes & hug.

  • @Muffin-star
    @Muffin-star Před měsícem

    A for ball the survival hustler… way to go

  • @kelsangchoedon7128
    @kelsangchoedon7128 Před měsícem

    Beautiful

  • @methokmethok8105
    @methokmethok8105 Před měsícem

    I will pray for your dreams .. your dream comes true soon ❤be strong ✊✊✊

  • @nawangdechen2371
    @nawangdechen2371 Před měsícem

    A lhakpa la, sending you much strength and prayers.

  • @rinzindolma2753
    @rinzindolma2753 Před měsícem

    Lhakpa la no more tears please 🙏 stay strong 💪 you’re inspiration to all the single mothers in our community.please don’t judge her

  • @Softstrong
    @Softstrong Před měsícem +1

    I love how Raw She is 🩵

  • @MsTenamo
    @MsTenamo Před měsícem

    You are not a survivor but a fighter 👊 just love your thoughts and expressions 🫶AforBall

  • @chozomchozom5633
    @chozomchozom5633 Před měsícem +7

    I salute acha .I can feel your pain can’t continue my emotions ❤❤❤

  • @kelsangdolker3853
    @kelsangdolker3853 Před měsícem

    She is the best mother. N as m mother myself I can understand ur feelings n situation very well. It’s not easy to lv ur child n go.

  • @Sonchoe453
    @Sonchoe453 Před 17 dny

    I cried when u cry Lhakpa Choedon la n I really feel fr u as two kids of mother 😢😢😢.Oh god please help to get rid of this problem to her😢🙏.My pray fr u always ❤

  • @tenzin5347
    @tenzin5347 Před měsícem +2

    Acha we love u....stay 💪...one day he will be proud of u.

  • @yeshibhutia4103
    @yeshibhutia4103 Před měsícem +3

    Thank u bhuchung la for inviting lhakpa la, she is very strong women, I appreciate the way she take care of her son, may guru rinpoche bless her to fulfill her dreams, I always enjoyed watching her videos.

  • @chozinsherpa915
    @chozinsherpa915 Před měsícem

    Excellent mom.

  • @nimadoma3484
    @nimadoma3484 Před měsícem +1

    Wow very nice ❤❤👍👍👍