VLOG: Weekend NINE in Lockdown | Fleur De Force

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  • OUR MOST BORING WEEKEND YET! Ha! This weekend we just chilled as a family... NO PLANS! how was your weekend? EXPAND this little box for more info, links etc xo
    Smoothie Bowl:
    1 Frozen Banana
    3 Pieces of Frozen Mango
    3 Pieces of Ice
    1/4 cup of Oats
    1 Tablespoon of Flax Seed
    1/2 Cup of Oat Milk
    Toppings:
    Handful of cashews
    2 Teaspoons of peanut butter
    2 Strawberries
    Handful of blueberries
    Lemon Drizzle Muffins
    Ingredients:
    1/2 a cup of sugar
    1 cup of oat milk + 1 tsp of apple cider vinegar (leave it for a few minutes so it goes a bit curdle-y, if you don’t have ACV normal vinegar work alright too - we used white wine vinegar)
    2 tsp of vanilla extract
    2 cups of plain flour
    1/4 cup of oil (veg, sunflower, rapeseed, coconut - any that doesn’t have a strong taste like olive oil!)
    1 tsp of salt
    2 tsp of baking powder
    Zest & Juice of 2 lemons
    Zest & Juice of 1 lime
    For the drizzle:
    1/4 Cup icing sugar
    Juice of 1/2 Lemon (I just used the remaining I could get out of the ones I used!)
    Mix together the dry ingredients, then add the wet ingredients and mix (I use a food mixer for this but you can do it by hand). Spoon into muffin cases and cook for 24 mins on 200C 👍🏼 This will make 12 mini muffins like mine, or 8 full size muffins (we put less in each case so they are a better size for River to eat!) Wait for them to cool and drizzle over the icing. Let it sink in for about half an hour and ENJOY!
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Komentáře • 238

  • @77Pinkcupcake
    @77Pinkcupcake Před 4 lety +154

    I could listen to little River chatting away all day! She is the most gorgeous little girl! 💗

  • @shelbybuchanan1433
    @shelbybuchanan1433 Před 4 lety +135

    I love the way River says "mummy!" It's so adorable ❤

  • @Charlierose214
    @Charlierose214 Před 4 lety +153

    mike is such a character, love him, his reaction to playing with dolls had me rolling in laughter lol

  • @jack67102
    @jack67102 Před 4 lety +82

    Another great vlog! I'm really loving your content at the moment Fleur! I am one of those grumpy people who complained a while back about your content getting stale. I along with others felt your channel had become too focused on monthly favourites and "new in" videos, with very little variety. I know that must have been quite hard for you to hear, but rather than getting defensive, I think you took note of people's comments and have quietly made changes to your channel. Now there is lots of variety, with something for everyone! Thank you!

    • @jack67102
      @jack67102 Před 3 lety

      @Charlotte Lot I know. Still love the channel though!

  • @sydneynone8075
    @sydneynone8075 Před 4 lety +73

    You are such a fantastic mom!! I love watching your relationship with River. ❤️ Long time follower and I just love your recent vlogs!!

  • @ellies3906
    @ellies3906 Před 4 lety +12

    I really like how natural and real your vlogs are, you don't come across as false or fake and you show us clips of your genuine life. Its refreshing to see other families just getting on with lockdown like all of us are x

  • @katharper5345
    @katharper5345 Před 4 lety +96

    Poor Mike and babies 🤣🤣🤣 he looks so thrilled to be playing it over and over again 🤣🤣. Maybe the next mini DeForce will like football and golf 🤣🤣. Xx

  • @chemistryflavored
    @chemistryflavored Před 4 lety +5

    River is so precious. Toddler chat is a delight and instant heart warmer.

  • @sarawrr07
    @sarawrr07 Před 4 lety +20

    Just finished work so I'm so pleased I can sit back with a cold drink and relax while watching Fleur and family 🥰

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 Před 4 lety +23

    😅mikes face when you mentioned the dolls. Brilliant .. you have a beautiful garden 🥰.

  • @lilyhsu3808
    @lilyhsu3808 Před 4 lety +1

    Fleur, I just wanted to say thank you for posting your home vlogs. I've been through some really tough times in my career and family life, and felt like everything is pure black in my eyes. I neglected your vlogs for quite some time just and I don't even know why (I'm a long time subscriber), but I could never be more glad that I decided to click on your vlog this morning. It's like those bleeding wounds in my heart are are slowly healing up. Thank you for the light and courage you and Mike gave me. Sending you loads fo love.

  • @fernandao.5001
    @fernandao.5001 Před 4 lety +2

    Oh my, I admire your patience and care for everyone in the house, including the dogs and cats. You are amazing

  • @paulagartley4195
    @paulagartley4195 Před 4 lety +10

    I did not think this was boring at all!! I always seem to have a permanent smile on my face when I watch your vlogs, I love them. Lunch looked good, I need to chef it up more and do stuff like that, I wouldn't even think to put all those things together LOL! You guys are so adorable. I hope you continue to do these as you can, I love them and look forward to them. We are still in lockdown (ish) in certain parts of the States, my husband and I have both been working from home since mid March, and it seems like that will continue for at least another month or two per our respective companies. I don't normally comment on Mike, as I know everyone usually does, but he looked so handsome getting ready to go back to work! Thanks for sharing again, Fleur!!

  • @xxbelieberforeverxx
    @xxbelieberforeverxx Před 4 lety +7

    Adore these family vlogs, they’re so calming and wholesome

  • @destinydeems
    @destinydeems Před 4 lety +18

    Gotta say, (and it is more than good looks), "There is something about Mike!"
    Thanks, Fleur for all your efforts!

  • @karrenmurphy3019
    @karrenmurphy3019 Před 4 lety +44

    River is so adorable! I love your weekend vlogs, just enjoyed this one with a cup of tea! I have a 20months old so always nice to see how other fellow mummy's spend their time! 😊Fleur, I'm sure you've been asked before but please can you do a vlog on some of the dishes you serve little River? Am very low on inspiration this end! Thanks! X

    • @amandaelizabeth21
      @amandaelizabeth21 Před 4 lety +3

      She's been posting a lot of River's meals on Instagram, I think, in her stories.

    • @dionneoverfield-collins5924
      @dionneoverfield-collins5924 Před 4 lety

      I’d love to see this also. It’s so lovely to see the vlogs with River, she’s adorable!

  • @misshaack
    @misshaack Před 4 lety +9

    Must say, really loving having these vlogs back in my life. They might not be the "glamorous" or exciting ones you might've had planned, but there's something so relaxing and heartwarming about what you share. Thanks and keep taking good care of each other!

  • @carethmatzenbacher6849
    @carethmatzenbacher6849 Před 4 lety +18

    It’s so nice! I feel like it is not common for them to nap that long but both my 3 year old and 5 year old sleep from 2-4:30 and still sleep great through the night. I think if they want to keep napping let them! Haha

  • @wt30001
    @wt30001 Před 3 lety

    River has the sweetest. Once. I am a grandmother but babes are growing up so fast.

  • @acgall
    @acgall Před 4 lety +1

    My 2 1/2 year old takes 3 hour naps too. Mine is still in her crib though. That means your doing a great job at entertaining her and providing lots of stimulation. Taking her outside and having her run around helps. My daughter goes outside everyday!

  • @Leesha0585
    @Leesha0585 Před 4 lety +51

    Aw, I love seeing you and mike as parents. I’m obsessed with your garden as well. It’s like a park! Question about squidge outside on her own, does she ever wander off? Or does she stay close to the house? Just curious! Love your doggies as well 💕

  • @FruityCupcakes22
    @FruityCupcakes22 Před 4 lety +11

    Mike looks very dapper and handsome in his work clothes haha :))

  • @Pixiwoot78
    @Pixiwoot78 Před 4 lety +2

    Mike is so lovin with river...tolerates whatever his daughter wants...hats off...

  • @minaa95
    @minaa95 Před 4 lety +1

    Your vlogs make me so happy! I was really stressed out by school today and I decided to take a break and watch your vlog. Am feeling much better now, thank you Fleur ❤️

  • @the.estheticiancoach
    @the.estheticiancoach Před 4 lety +9

    I LOVE River. She's just so cute!

  • @i.l.m9137
    @i.l.m9137 Před 4 lety +8

    Omg River is the cutest! Love her little chats!

  • @xx-nt6eq
    @xx-nt6eq Před 4 lety +8

    Awh River man!! She’s too cute!! Cheered me right up today!

  • @annettestrahan7776
    @annettestrahan7776 Před 4 lety +4

    Just ❤️ your vlogs!😊 Really making this time more enjoyable & bearable! Thank you!😊

  • @ciaraehall
    @ciaraehall Před 4 lety +8

    The produce organization in that fridge 🤩

  • @cindycorrigan3722
    @cindycorrigan3722 Před 4 lety +7

    Fleur, you are a very patient Mummy! 😊👍

  • @AutumnalSunests
    @AutumnalSunests Před 4 lety +5

    Parenting, very long days and yet short, precious years. X

  • @NoormeansLight
    @NoormeansLight Před 4 lety +1

    My 2 year 3 month old naps for 2 and a half hours - best part of the day 🤣🤣 I can focus on my 8 year old and just relax!

  • @danielintheantipodes6741
    @danielintheantipodes6741 Před 4 lety +2

    Other peoples lives are so interesting! Even the little bits! Thank you for the vlog!

  • @jules.sbro8
    @jules.sbro8 Před 4 lety +2

    So lovely to unwind after a particularly intense day working at home, with one of your amazingly relaxing & homely vids, thank you I really needed this today....wonderful stuff 🥰👌☀️❤

  • @kiandrarodgers3436
    @kiandrarodgers3436 Před 4 lety

    Omg you’re so into being a Mum! I feel like I don’t often see parents so dedicated to their children. Motherhood really suits you!

  • @CloudedIdeas24
    @CloudedIdeas24 Před 4 lety +1

    That's amazing having River nap like that! My son naps for an hour, occasionally almost 2 hours but if he's asleep past 1pm bedtime is so late! He needs a 7 hour gap from end of nap to his bedtime. That's great that you'll have that much needed time to yourself when Mike is back in work! 💚 Gonna try the lemon muffin recipe tomorrow 🍋😁

  • @disinterestede
    @disinterestede Před 4 lety

    I love River, she's so funny, especially when dealing with Creepy Baby! Thanks so much for the content during these times, its really nice to feel like we have some contact with the outside, especially as I am having to stay inside! Nice to see MDF and his dry humour too.

  • @Natalie-tn8bb
    @Natalie-tn8bb Před 4 lety +13

    2-5pm nap is amazing! My son at 2.5 does about 2 hours in the afternoon but I sense it might need to go soon as his falling asleep at night keeps getting later and later. Toddler life without naps...yikes! 🤣

  • @katemoran3138
    @katemoran3138 Před 4 lety +15

    Your vlogs are one of the best parts of my week! Love you and your beautiful family, Fleur!❤️ Ps. Was there ever a conclusion on wallpapering the ceiling?😂

  • @VictoriaMaeva
    @VictoriaMaeva Před 4 lety +1

    I love how much River loves dolls. She will go nuts when she's older and discovers American Girl Dolls! 😊💕

  • @stevegettison2820
    @stevegettison2820 Před 4 lety +17

    Mike reminds me of Richard Hammond from Top Gear. Does he ever get that comparison?

  • @BsophieeeB
    @BsophieeeB Před 4 lety +2

    Love the way you incorporated the recipes

  • @rudehoneybadger
    @rudehoneybadger Před 4 lety +26

    To bad Mike doesn’t have a GoPro he could take us for a bike ride.

  • @charleneedwards9386
    @charleneedwards9386 Před 4 lety +1

    Rivers little “C’mon momma” was adorable!

  • @lauranel-boland531
    @lauranel-boland531 Před 4 lety +5

    I am so jealous of Rivers napping! My daughter is 2 and a half and stopped her afternoon nap from age 2! I miss that free time 🤣. Loving these vlogs 🥰

  • @Maaatsi
    @Maaatsi Před 4 lety +1

    River is such a gem! Been enjoying these vlogs so much. A bright spot in my week.

  • @saraanderson8206
    @saraanderson8206 Před 4 lety +1

    I know it would be quite bold but I would love to see a video on your parenting philosophies. I’d like to know if there were ideas you had before she was born that may have evolved or those that have stayed the same.

  • @deek8623
    @deek8623 Před 4 lety +4

    I forget how militant toddlers are 😂😂😂 so cute but agree that is one fugly doll 👀

  • @sw4tb
    @sw4tb Před 4 lety +6

    Brightened my day seeing this video pop up ❤️

  • @TheRayjane
    @TheRayjane Před 4 lety

    Could that little angel be any cuter. She speaks so well. She’s super smart ❤️👧🏼

  • @karenb8715
    @karenb8715 Před 4 lety +3

    My two had afternoon naps right up to going to school. Still slept fine at night and allowed me to get things done or just relax for a bit x

  • @wonderlicious5
    @wonderlicious5 Před 4 lety +3

    Riv Riv is too cute and so well behaved for her age. Well done.

  • @paigem016
    @paigem016 Před 4 lety

    Love your vlogs..mike is such a good sport playing w Riv. It’s really sweet to watch. Definitely gotta enjoy the nap time.

  • @keithbates598
    @keithbates598 Před 4 lety +1

    River is adorable! We loved her changing her baby dolls. We loved seeing the puppies. We are going for a ride tomorrow to see Espanola near Santa Fe. It's about 45mins from here Albuquerque. The weather here is cooler then Tucson, which we like. Nice vlog Fleur. Joan and Keith Bates

    • @ColletteC2106
      @ColletteC2106 Před 4 lety

      I love living in Tucson. But I'm never ready for the intense summer heat! Thankfully the rest of the year is lovely. Enjoy Albuquerqe! :)

  • @jetadorexx
    @jetadorexx Před 4 lety +2

    Also thank you for the lemon muffin recipe! Will definitely try them 🙂

  • @leighbarber8223
    @leighbarber8223 Před 4 lety +2

    3 hours for a 2&1/2 year old is a long time!! I work in a two year old room in a nursery and we tend to put ours down between 12:30 and 1 and they are all up by 2:30 latest and tbh a lot have actually dropped their naps all together so we have a larger number left awake or we did before lockdown

    • @FleurDeForce
      @FleurDeForce  Před 4 lety

      Yeah when she was going to nursery the longest time she would sleep would be 1.5 hours... but the timings of nursery to home were SO different, I’m surprised she was so good at just slipping between the routines but she seemed to do it quite easily 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

    • @leighbarber8223
      @leighbarber8223 Před 4 lety

      Fleur DeForce I’m dreading going back haha😂 it’s going to be so hard for all of our littlies who haven’t seen us in god knows how long

  • @Sixpupsandme
    @Sixpupsandme Před 4 lety

    Oh gosh you did the hardest way to cut a pineapple haha. Cut the end and top. Flip so it’s sitting on its bottom. Then slice all the skin off from top to bottom. Then either flip onto side to cut into somewhat circles or cut down and make strips when it’s upwards still. 😁

  • @AyeshaRameez
    @AyeshaRameez Před 4 lety

    My kids only ever used to have one 20 minutes nap a day. By 1.5 years even that went away so no naps at all. Consider yourself very fortunate to have a toddler nap for so long! Having me time is so necessary but almost impossible when you're a mum

  • @tracy_b1-q2k
    @tracy_b1-q2k Před 4 lety +2

    Love your family vlogs,they’re the best 😍

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 Před 4 lety

    I have 5 kids and they all slept so well and I put them all on same schedule. From when they went from 1 nap a day until kindergarten, they all slept from 1 pm to 3:30-4 pm, then in bed by 7 to 7:30 and they slept until about 8-8:30 am.

  • @jennafinnegan577
    @jennafinnegan577 Před 4 lety

    My baby is a similar age to River, he had a 2/3 hour nap every day from 12.30 but around 2 months ago he started refusing his nap so he naturally transitioned out of it himself, he occasionally falls asleep for a short nap if we are out in the car but oh how I miss those long day time naps x

  • @lig66
    @lig66 Před 4 lety

    I feel you with the big nap window we have a lunch time nap 12.30 - 2.30 and then bed time at 6pm helps keep you sane during day!

  • @thelmawarren8828
    @thelmawarren8828 Před 4 lety +1

    River is so smart!! So adorable!!

  • @tanjaweber5188
    @tanjaweber5188 Před 4 lety

    My son is 3 years old next month and he takes an afternoon nap also, later in the day just like River! I’m totally into it and neeeeed it for my mental health. Can’t imagine the day when he drops his nap and I won’t get a break.

  • @alexandrahorghidan1019

    Definitely super lucky with napping and sleep. My own 2 yrs and a half old just quit on napping 2 weeks into lockdown (we live in Italy so just about half march) and now if she naps her hours will be mad (sleeping at 1 am and stuff like that).
    So, yeah, you are a lucky mummy for having a toddler who naps 😅

  • @romyfleurs4990
    @romyfleurs4990 Před 4 lety +1

    Your vlogs always make me happy!!

  • @nicashworth1900
    @nicashworth1900 Před 4 lety

    My nearly 3 year old stopped naps at 2 years 2 months but works for us and sleeps well at night, no early wake ups. They are all different but you may find in next month's that you may need to cut back on the nap gradually e.g to an hour.

  • @jessicacoryell5088
    @jessicacoryell5088 Před 4 lety +1

    After all these weekend vlogs I am now fluent in River and i can understand everything she says

  • @moonnk24
    @moonnk24 Před 4 lety +2

    I read the same books to my daughter. She's obsessed with the Mother Theresa one!! Haha

  • @physhac
    @physhac Před 4 lety

    2-5pm naps are amazing! I never got more than 30 minute naps out of one kid and 1.5 hours out of the other!

  • @julianapinnell3569
    @julianapinnell3569 Před 4 lety +2

    I enjoy your vlogs so so so much! 💕

  • @bibimajeed7281
    @bibimajeed7281 Před 4 lety

    It's funny. My daughter also receives the odd box too. She receives some real nice delicious stuff in her basket.

  • @shiorisheridan43
    @shiorisheridan43 Před 4 lety

    River is adorable 😍 Thanks for the lovely video! x

  • @charlottes7897
    @charlottes7897 Před 4 lety

    You’re so lucky with the naps! My 2.5 year old doesn’t nap anymore and it’s hard work, especially during lockdown.

  • @christinadowns3207
    @christinadowns3207 Před 4 lety

    My little boy dropped his nap at the start of lock down... he used to sleep for an hour but it’s amazing what you can get done in that time... now we don’t have it and it’s HARD!

  • @lindaw.5836
    @lindaw.5836 Před 4 lety

    When my youngest daughter was a baby, she's 12 now, she used to sleep for 60 minutes EXACTLY every, single, day. Without. Fail. In the car, on a walk, at home ect, right up until she was about 3 or 4!!! She'd wake up on her own, after 60 mins exactly, no matter what time she fell asleep (I am talking about her mid-day nap here), I still can't quite get over it but yup! You could set your watch by it.

  • @joharvey2534
    @joharvey2534 Před 4 lety

    That is a loooong nap!! Make the most of it - when my little girl was 2.5 she suddenly dropped her naps completely (just in time for the arrival of her baby sister 😫🙄)!

  • @Jess_Bishop
    @Jess_Bishop Před 4 lety +3

    The way you cut a pineapple is by far the most unique one I’ve seen! 😂 also, River is adorable!

  • @1991KFL
    @1991KFL Před 4 lety

    Loving the weekend vlogs!!
    Re River's nap - yes sounds like a long time and late in the day for her age. Probably will affect her nighttime sleep. I've cut my little boys nap down to get him in bed earlier in the evening... However I am TOTALLY with you, a break is necessary!

    • @FleurDeForce
      @FleurDeForce  Před 4 lety +1

      It’s funny... she then goes down quite late, say 8.30 but sleeps through till 6.30/7am 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @helenad8186
    @helenad8186 Před 4 lety

    Haha "my two-year old is too cool for me 🥺" cute! 5:49

  • @elitothenth
    @elitothenth Před 4 lety

    I smile so wide each time you post a video! Just wanted to say that, and come out of my lurking. :)

  • @novamarkuscasander
    @novamarkuscasander Před 4 lety

    Enjoy those naps while you can! My 2,5 year old girl only takes a nap about 2 days a week and it lasts about 1 to 2 hours.

  • @emilyrose6983
    @emilyrose6983 Před 4 lety

    loving these vlogs so much!! I miss seeing the dog walks though haha they were always super cute xxx

  • @celiastaton
    @celiastaton Před 4 lety +1

    Hi Fleur! Please could you do a video on River's favourite toys? I notice lots of dolls, books, bikes etc in your videos and would love to see your top toy pics for a 2 year old. My little girl will be 2 in a couple of months. Thank you! Love your videos by the way!! Long time follower of yours :)

  • @nicolek7639
    @nicolek7639 Před 4 lety

    You are so lucky, that is such a long nap. By two and a half my daughter had given up daytime sleeps completely!

  • @jessicawong8416
    @jessicawong8416 Před 4 lety +1

    River is so cute! Love your vlogs, Fleur!

  • @xMia311
    @xMia311 Před 4 lety +1

    Loving seeing your happy little family! Motherhood suits you wonderfully!!

  • @shmorbin
    @shmorbin Před 4 lety

    My daughter used to call pineapple “a-eye-pappel”. Ugh the things your kids grow out of, I miss those cute sayings so much!

  • @surlespasdondine
    @surlespasdondine Před 4 lety

    It's a rule with toddlers: the later they go to bed, especially later than what they are used to, the earlier they wake up because it breaks the rythm of what they are used to. My mom used to tell me "put her to bed later so she sleeps in" - and then she was surprised when we put her to bed earlier and got more sleep in the morning😅 Plus people say "don't let her nap so she won't wake up early" but actually often the more sleep they get the better they sleep.

  • @Millysgarden
    @Millysgarden Před 4 lety

    Yes that is a looong nao! My third baby is 20 months and very close to dropping his nap. The older two dropped theirs before their second birthday so you are very very lucky! My hubby is a dairy farmer working 13 hour days. I am slowly going insane 😂

  • @toobydude41
    @toobydude41 Před 4 lety

    I cannot get enough of these vlogs! River is the cutest! Now that doll of hers, I agree, is anything but! That creepy thing could give Chuckie from Child's Play a run for its money lol. So glad Riv seems to love it though!

  • @LisainCalifornia
    @LisainCalifornia Před 4 lety +1

    I loved this vlog. So cozy and homey! It is great to see how others are living too. We are in the Bay Area in California and are just entering phase 2, so some restrictions lifted, but most things are still closed. It feels safer right now to stay closer to home.

  • @Carobranders
    @Carobranders Před 4 lety

    OMG Fleur, shes adorable! Talks and looks just like you! :)

  • @lisahubbard5935
    @lisahubbard5935 Před 4 lety

    River is so smart! You & Mike make awesome parents! 👍🌸

  • @alisonprendergast1
    @alisonprendergast1 Před 4 lety

    If you reduced her afternoon nap you might find she will go to bed very easily for you around 7 and sleep better and longer at night. My little boy used to nap between 1.5 and 3 hours in afternoon and tbh bedtime took 1.5 or 2 hours to settle him. He now is asleep in ten mins and sleeps 12 hours. I do miss his nap but i now have more downtime in evening, bedtime is way easier and i feel like he is getting a better night sleep

  • @Malwur
    @Malwur Před 4 lety +3

    River is like her mom :D you love sleeping :D

  • @victoriamcguinness2743

    Very lucky with the nap! My daughter is just a couple weeks younger than River, she decided to ditch her nap as lockdown started!! I'm forcing it on her every other day but have to wake her after an hour, or she's too wired at bedtime!!

  • @Aarinesque
    @Aarinesque Před 4 lety

    Loved this. So wholesome, just what I needed. ❤️❤️

  • @emilyvdburt2453
    @emilyvdburt2453 Před 4 lety

    My daughter is 5 months older than river and slept from 2-4 every afternoon until about a month ago and now she goes to her room and has rest time and plays quietly but naps infrequently. She still likes the down time though

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    @mariachurchill1369 Před 4 lety

    That’s a very long nap for a 2.5 year old, I’d call that a danger nap, especially since she doesn’t wake til 5pm. An hour would be better, that way a 7:30pm bedtime is achievable & you get your evenings as your down time 💜