How To Cut Out The Noise, And Find Your Calling

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  • Excerpt from This Past Weekend w/ Theo Von #503 | Robert Greene
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Komentáře • 146

  • @gobabawonan2199
    @gobabawonan2199 Před 21 dnem +185

    Making your life even 5% better is still an improvement

    • @p.a.t.79
      @p.a.t.79 Před 21 dnem +8

      Exponential growth baby

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 Před 21 dnem +3

      Yep, GAINS GAINS GAINS

    • @wanka078
      @wanka078 Před 16 dny

      Im aiming for 0.1% cause i wanna leave some for the others...im generous like that. And i mean i have some plans to aim for that..im not actually doing it yet..
      vague plans by the way, nothing concrete.

    • @Astral_Dusk
      @Astral_Dusk Před 14 dny

      There's so much filler motivation about exercise and fitness today but something that's forever blown my mind is the BDNF factor in daily ritualistic workouts. Brain derived neurotropic factor, a phenomenon of deep optimization and repair in our overall wellbeing, the best of the best, and it's triggered best by more bodily motion in our days. Essentially when in doubt, move about - when in decline, motion over mind. From here, the journaling, the meditation, the scratching surface of daily personal structure habits that have at-least some level of passion to them as well. When there's deep focus and learning something that makes us not just feel good but great most of the time, that's pretty suspect of a passion, there's something obsessive about a passion that also involves personal expression from the heart or soul, feels more real than the rest. Today we have such an observer world with great mediocrity in the expression mediums (TikTok) but really honing something deep that requires months and perhaps years of gradual growth and engagement is certainly going to tap into some life legacy, a long-term ingredient for wellbeing done more personal. A lot of it takes faith in exploring the motions of the passions too - there will be a lot of fog but it slowly clears as we engage gradually over lengthy periods of time.

    • @mattpassos5689
      @mattpassos5689 Před 13 dny +2

      5% is alot, top athletes will cheat to gain a 1% advantage imagine 5%? 5% here and there will add up its definitely the right way to look at it

  • @itslogannye
    @itslogannye Před 21 dnem +133

    Robert Greene is a soft spoken gangster. This guy changed my life.

  • @VikCalo
    @VikCalo Před 20 dny +60

    4 years ago I stop listening to people and started betting on myself. Maybe because my lineage did not come with proper mentoring but I am glad I am here now.

    • @ganapatikitty
      @ganapatikitty Před 12 dny +4

      I’m going to do this too. I keep realizing more and more as each day goes on that no one has ever known what is meant for me. In fact they’ve usually been wrong

    • @leonrobson6881
      @leonrobson6881 Před 10 dny +2

      I hope that doesn’t mean you took up a career of gambling lol

  • @kylegrantham9990
    @kylegrantham9990 Před 17 dny +45

    Remember who you were before all the things happened to you. Find out who little you was. At 8,9,10. Whenever the world crushed you, go back to just before that happened and ask them what they wanted. And what made them happy. And chase what they tell you. I promise you'll find happiness.

    • @liyzette
      @liyzette Před 13 dny +7

      What if you were crushed before that? And you don’t remember an “original” version of you?

    • @danparker3765
      @danparker3765 Před 7 dny +2

      ​@liyzette i understand your problem. I had an abusive childhood and my C-PTSD just blocks it out. As far as I'm concerned my life began at 12. Everything before is a hazy dream.
      But I think there are still moments/times you can think back on to get to such a state. It can be when you were older. It doesn't have to be early childhood

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před 13 dny +16

    Regular reflection through journaling not only clarifies our deepest passions but also fuels the courage needed to pivot towards a life that truly reflects our unique aspirations and values.

  • @Mrblk92
    @Mrblk92 Před 20 dny +31

    We lost who we were when society turned us into thinkers, then into overthinkers, instead of the KNOWERS we all KNOW we are.

  • @erikkosir5870
    @erikkosir5870 Před 20 dny +76

    My father always said “every advice is bad advice” and when you get older and older you realise the only person you should be listening is yourself.

    • @officialthomasjames
      @officialthomasjames Před 20 dny +10

      I’d say most advice is bad advice. However, you should seek advice from people who live the life you desire to live.

    • @mu1195
      @mu1195 Před 18 dny +1

      This is the best!!!

    • @adamb2358
      @adamb2358 Před 14 dny +1

      Gorgeous, love it 😊 I had a “as soon as you think you know everything, you’ll never learn anything.” That was my message to my kids

    • @Wholly_Fool
      @Wholly_Fool Před 13 dny +2

      Unless you lie to yourself.

    • @moviesynopsis001
      @moviesynopsis001 Před 8 dny

      Thats how you end up dumb, he most likely raised a terrible kid.

  • @livinthatlife
    @livinthatlife Před 20 dny +50

    TL;DR: How to get unstuck: (from paycheck to paycheck / unfulfilling life)
    1. Think about what excited you when we’re young
    2. Start moving in that direction
    3. Think about what you need to learn/know to move in that direction and learn that nights & weekends
    4. Think about what part time entry-level job or side hustle/project would move you in that direction. Research it and start doing it nights and/or weekends (side hustle)
    5. Do this until you can go full time in that direction.
    6. Don’t forget to save money as always. Worst case, you fall back on the shitty job and try again.

  • @squid_fish
    @squid_fish Před 21 dnem +47

    Gang gang Friday be good to yourself fam

  • @LeeMarieHarder
    @LeeMarieHarder Před 21 dnem +17

    Many people find themselves at 50. It is not ideal, but it is quite remarkable because the years of life and work experience can fuel the way forward.

  • @NOCOMP7
    @NOCOMP7 Před 8 dny +1

    “Nothing changes, if nothing changes “
    -Theo Von.

  • @TILZBROS.
    @TILZBROS. Před 20 dny +9

    Currently in the middle of this now brother Von. Thank you for this video. It helped me to trust my moves towards my ultimate purpose. That example you gave is what happened to me. I was 21 when my son was born. Had to grow up quick and learned a lot from mistakes. My son now is 13. I’m 34 and I’m starting to feel the universe opening up for me again. 🙌🏼

  • @brianmartalus6231
    @brianmartalus6231 Před 7 dny +1

    It's great advice. In my 20s I was stuck in a job that I hated and could imagine doing for another day much less 30 more years. I had gotten myself in trouble with the law. I had a mortgage that I needed to pay which restricted how many risks I could take. eventually I made a plan, got accepted into grad school in a field that excited me. I sold my house, got a part time job and went to grad school. I was exhilarated by the fact that I had changed my path and used this energy to power through the two years of working and studying. Then I got the dream job overseas that I wanted and found the woman I had been looking for. All this to say, yes, it can be scary but you can find your path.

  • @D87943
    @D87943 Před 15 dny +7

    I wish I would’ve found something when I was in my early 20’s, but I wasted my youth playing video games and now I’m 41.

  • @Astral_Dusk
    @Astral_Dusk Před 14 dny +3

    5:24 boom, there we go. I can wholly agree on this - it's part of the deep fascination with nostalgia at times because of a deeper passion we have in our earlier years and it can be engaged in the present with our current skills now, hone the existing and new skills in the passion direction. Any new skills that we aspire and have had that burning fanatical desire for but just felt afraid, explore em - technical, creative - expressive of something we wanted to be, never too late, we're alive and thrive from doing the bold route.

  • @WatermelonWizard
    @WatermelonWizard Před 20 dny +12

    Robert Greene and Jordan Peterson are monumentally positive influences for me as a young man.

  • @meaganhughes8961
    @meaganhughes8961 Před 19 dny +3

    Robert Greene is my Hero!!!

  • @jamesschmidt2817
    @jamesschmidt2817 Před 20 dny +3

    I’ve been on my Robert Greene content lately. Books and CZcams mostly. Great to see that this collab came up because Theo always makes the video one of a kind, and asks a lot of great questions.

  • @plutoflavor1091
    @plutoflavor1091 Před 19 dny +1

    Thank you Theo for bring this guest on! I really needed to hear this

  • @avi4767
    @avi4767 Před 18 dny +1

    Theos point on responsibility really touched with me, no space/time to do anything

  • @NorthwestNicholas
    @NorthwestNicholas Před 20 dny +1

    These interviews are my fav.

  • @PavedFromTrauma
    @PavedFromTrauma Před 21 dnem +16

    This made me lose hope at 49, but created a viciousness to encourage people like myself, late to the game, to show we still can

    • @squakke
      @squakke Před 21 dnem

      I've never liked this guy. There's something about him. Not Theo

    • @PavedFromTrauma
      @PavedFromTrauma Před 21 dnem

      @@squakke maybe you are right. But 50 doesn’t make it impossible, just makes it possible in a way if you aren’t 30

    • @VikCalo
      @VikCalo Před 20 dny +3

      You’re not alone bro I am in my 40s too with a Godzilla tail of mistakes and listening to the wrong people. Bet on yourself. Fuck it. Stay ready bro. God is great.

    • @PavedFromTrauma
      @PavedFromTrauma Před 20 dny

      @@VikCalo 🙌🥇🤟

    • @simonmorty8344
      @simonmorty8344 Před 20 dny +4

      Age is just a number! It's having the right mindset that enables change. Whether you're 30, 40, 50, or 60+. I agree it's easier when you're younger, but to put an age limit tells me he's limiting the human mind and what can be encomplished.
      Theo, you're great! Thank you for being such a great guy, role model, and yor authentic self. Not to sure about your guest!

  • @christinehallfeldt4280
    @christinehallfeldt4280 Před 12 dny +1

    So true. I realised the only thing worse than the fear of being a failure is realising you can change it but you just don't want too because it seems so impossibly hard. I was lost and on loop for a long time lost in what was and what I could not change. Personality type test helped me immensely and led me down this path of actual change not just hoping it... I turned out to be an infp personality type and though I heard people can be mistyped the similarities of thought patterns and strengths and weaknesses was too coincidental for me to ignore. Sometimes we have to be OK with not being OK and realise once we are OK with being in our own presence do we finally realise the power within to affect the world around. 😊😊😊😊

  • @tc4539
    @tc4539 Před 4 dny

    thanks for the new burning desire!

  • @TAY-570
    @TAY-570 Před 17 dny +5

    46 years old, I’m fucked

  • @user-ev3zk8lx8j
    @user-ev3zk8lx8j Před 14 dny +1

    So inspiring Theo von

  • @jenniferbradley8470
    @jenniferbradley8470 Před 21 dnem +1

    Thank you.

  • @p_hat
    @p_hat Před 21 dnem +2

    guide to locking in

  • @devisangelstarot3772
    @devisangelstarot3772 Před 21 dnem +3

    I love you Theo ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dustincastillo9935
    @dustincastillo9935 Před 21 dnem +11

    The noise is all some of us know... even the silence is deafening...

    • @ml3518
      @ml3518 Před 19 dny +1

      you have to learn to be okay with the silence….. if you continue to distract yourself with the noise; you’ll never know what could’ve been.

  • @stanzatara
    @stanzatara Před 19 dny

    i rlly needed that

  • @VivaCalexico
    @VivaCalexico Před 20 dny

    Great title and topic

  • @HiZae
    @HiZae Před 8 dny

    Thank you Theo, thank you green ⚡️

  • @zjord108
    @zjord108 Před 18 dny +1

    AMAZING

  • @eli7527
    @eli7527 Před 19 dny +3

    I can’t stop staring at Hulk Hogan

  • @chrispullman5902
    @chrispullman5902 Před 12 dny +2

    I think it's important to produce something...anything...and put it out there to the world. Don't be a perfectionist. Be a try-er. Birdhouses, bracelets, baked goods, books...Photographs, paintings, songs, sculpture....Produce something for someone else...give it away...give, give, give....And wait for the feedback...pay attention to the process...pay attention to how it effects you on all the different levels...When you produce something for others good things happen....put yourself in a position to help good things to happen.

  • @ruairijoseph9483
    @ruairijoseph9483 Před 20 dny

    Gang bang guys… happy Friday ❤

  • @Daveyboy25
    @Daveyboy25 Před 19 dny +1

    This is very useful information, find out what it was you wanted to be when you were young reevaluate how far you are off that original goal.

  • @ianblumberg9171
    @ianblumberg9171 Před 20 dny +4

    Lol braiding hair at the beach

  • @Mikeguapojr
    @Mikeguapojr Před 18 dny +3

    If you don’t take the steps to change yourself at a young age, you will grow into a miserable age. Everything will be misery so fix it now.❤❤❤

    • @D87943
      @D87943 Před 15 dny +2

      That’s me right now at 41.

  • @smartz565
    @smartz565 Před 21 dnem +1

    deep .. gang

  • @i_like_to_move_it_move_it

    The question at 4:03 is a fucking good question!!!! ive been asking myself that for years,

  • @BRoop89
    @BRoop89 Před 20 dny +3

    I followed my childhood dream straight out of high school and ended up hating it. I don’t recommend pursuing childhood dreams. We grow and mature as we age. Our wants, desires, and knowledge of the world change; so should our dreams. I doubt this guy’s childhood dream was this.

  • @SabrinaAngel
    @SabrinaAngel Před 16 dny

  • @warrenhaven2216
    @warrenhaven2216 Před 18 dny +1

    I’m working at a Safeway deli atm. I’m almost 24 something has to change.

    • @leekg1713
      @leekg1713 Před 17 dny +1

      This is perfectly normal, keep grinding you’ll be fine.

  • @jesusislord5275
    @jesusislord5275 Před 18 dny +2

    "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you" ~ Matthew 7:7 KJV
    Seek The creator accept Jesus as your savior with your heart and lips and God will give you your story

  • @shawnchaudry2126
    @shawnchaudry2126 Před 2 dny

    But in order to implement significant change you have to take significant risk. Someone could spend their extra 2 hrs a day, everyday, for years and end up finding no use from that thing. When that happens it’s really demotivating and depressing. Risk evaluation is critical, but sometimes we just get unlucky.

  • @beefyogurt
    @beefyogurt Před 21 dnem +5

    Get whatever job you can. Save as much as you can in bitcoin. Retire early (4-8 years).
    Learn hobbies (hunting, cooking, sewing, wood working, pottery) that lead to self sustainability and keep the mind sharp and incorporate play (rock/tree climbing, running, human-powered wheel sports, swimming) that keeps the body strong and flexible.

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 Před 21 dnem

      really, bitcoin? Maybe a little bit, but I wouldn't put all my eggs into that basket

    • @beefyogurt
      @beefyogurt Před 21 dnem

      @@imageword5576 oh, absolutely don't buy bitcoin if you haven't done any research!

    • @JMo-uh5cd
      @JMo-uh5cd Před 21 dnem +1

      Yeah maybe this was good advice in 2014

    • @beefyogurt
      @beefyogurt Před 21 dnem

      @@JMo-uh5cd My point still stands. Do not buy bitcoin if you clearly haven't spent more than 10 minutes learning about it.

  • @suzpeden
    @suzpeden Před 13 dny +3

    This video is a bit disturbing for anyone around 50 or older, wish he could have given those people a bit of hope

    • @peter102
      @peter102 Před dnem

      Do you want the truth or for him to lie?

  • @Pault3788
    @Pault3788 Před 21 dnem +4

    I TOTALLY failed at life,in every aspect. What a huge mistake

    • @CrazieCraig1
      @CrazieCraig1 Před 21 dnem +3

      Teach others what not to do then.

    • @LeeMarieHarder
      @LeeMarieHarder Před 21 dnem +1

      Until you start the steps of change.

    • @Pault3788
      @Pault3788 Před 20 dny +2

      @@LeeMarieHarder at my age?

    • @Pault3788
      @Pault3788 Před 20 dny

      @@CrazieCraig1 yes

    • @LeeMarieHarder
      @LeeMarieHarder Před 20 dny +2

      Age is never the issue. Believing in a wasted life is. Own where you are. Do what you can, no matter how small the steps. Don't look for the end result. Measure each day by what you could do well and better than yesterday. If you need to start with hour by hour. Start there.

  • @brettrosen8149
    @brettrosen8149 Před 21 dnem +3

    Danny Elfman is right

  • @ricardomilos590
    @ricardomilos590 Před 21 dnem +2

    I liked cause I like your videos and always wanna see more. I don't think this guy is it though, I'm not sure who hears him, but he doesn't know as much as he thinks

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 Před 21 dnem +2

      I think you don't know as much as you think, but maybe I don't either.

    • @JMo-uh5cd
      @JMo-uh5cd Před 21 dnem +2

      Always one of these comments out of left field, zero context or reasoning given. What are you even doing with this comment...lame

  • @ahmeds.mansour1293
    @ahmeds.mansour1293 Před 14 dny

    How to find the one path that is destined to be mine with absolute certainty? How the hell to be sure? Spending 10 years down a rout just to find out that it’s not for me? If I have unlimited resources and infinite time, it might be plausible, but not when you go from 30 to 40 in a blink of an eye!!

  • @nyssasolano
    @nyssasolano Před 10 dny

    6:10

  • @Boston033
    @Boston033 Před 20 dny +2

    I am 20. im beyond lost I think I wanna do truck driving for a career but do i? I have no fucking clue I don't wanna jump into it and still feel lost I have no fucking clue what to do with myself EVERY DAY

    • @AustinWalkerLive
      @AustinWalkerLive Před 20 dny +1

      Try doing doordash or other food delivery and see how you like that. It is of course not the same but it has similarities.. being alone in a vehicle, driving around. I think the lack of social interaction and lack of movement is hard for most people. I considered being a trucker but after doing food delivery for a couple years I realized I couldn't do it.
      Also, it's ok not to know what you want to do at 20. Being 20 to 30 is about figuring out what you like and what you don't like, and what youre good at, the most important thing is that you try new things, take risks, do things you're afraid of, and reflect.
      You may have a dream of doing your own thing and not having a normal job. Working for someone else is just doing things they don't want to do anyway. Everything can be broken down into achievable goals.

    • @grandtrey6919
      @grandtrey6919 Před 14 dny

      Think deeper than that...

    • @subliteral1380
      @subliteral1380 Před 13 dny

      Focus on making a living first. You need to make money somehow, and you can learn about yourself no matter what job you take. Build and expand your skillset, because this will open up more opportunities. Don't get comfortable. If things feel too easy, find ways to challenge yourself. I'm saying all of this, because being lost AND broke makes everything WAY harder!

  • @sarahfaith6531
    @sarahfaith6531 Před 13 dny

    Theo your calling is a hair cut 💇

  • @randydandy2542
    @randydandy2542 Před 20 dny

    I completely destroyed my life

    • @Goole1947
      @Goole1947 Před 20 dny +2

      How and why? You are not your past bro.

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 Před 16 dny

    2:35 Slyder - score and neo (the one)
    Paul van Dyk - nothing but you
    DJ Encore - I see right through to you
    Armin van Buuren - sunburn
    Foggy - Come into my dreams
    Fragma - Man in the moon

  • @clawoddguy628
    @clawoddguy628 Před 14 dny

    SOOO TRUE ..INNERCHILD WILL BRING U TO YOURINNER CHILD THERAPY..bEE gEES MAN..SO STUCK IN THER HEADS LISTEN TO YOUR ROOTS ..CHARKRA..balls /veronica ..Go Theo..Robert I just Love you!..Love Twentysense in maple land xo..Listen to The Robert..ps you both looook marvelous..

  • @gregorymoats4007
    @gregorymoats4007 Před 14 dny

    I simply cut out this Robert greene fella from my life….Go away

  • @reggiebannister4098
    @reggiebannister4098 Před 21 dnem +1

    Is this part of Theo's coming to grips with not paying his openers a decent amount?

    • @ShinyChadCat
      @ShinyChadCat Před 21 dnem +6

      Lol "openers"
      Soundsike doordash drivers complaining about tips. Every first year noob wants pro rates nowadays lol

  • @therealstevefrederick2126

    Sooo disheartening though when he says at 50...probably not.....thats where i am
    ...

    • @joysarahc7437
      @joysarahc7437 Před 18 dny

      There are a lot of successful people who didn't start until later in life. Look up famous or successful people who did things when they were older.

    • @domzolabush
      @domzolabush Před 17 dny

      No point in thinking in thinking out what if I was younger, we all in the same boat here.

    • @audibleadventures9004
      @audibleadventures9004 Před 15 dny

      Guy talks whack anyway, family, children, the environment, self improvement, studying philosophy becoming a better human, volunteering, living more simply, improving your health these are what fulfilment is like, not retraining at 38 tocone a programmer (which BTW alotbof people despise doing) l.

  • @twizzy8783
    @twizzy8783 Před 21 dnem +2

    easy for a retired dude to say

    • @MsChitterchat
      @MsChitterchat Před 21 dnem +4

      Not easy for anyone out there

    • @nickinskeep
      @nickinskeep Před 21 dnem +6

      He's retired for a reason ya ding dong

    • @twizzy8783
      @twizzy8783 Před 21 dnem +2

      @@nickinskeep yeah, his rent wasn't half his income like it is for us gen Z's

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 Před 21 dnem

      @@twizzy8783 sounds like you have a case of the loser mentality.

  • @aledagaro8075
    @aledagaro8075 Před 19 dny

    Theo Need to think more about to pay more his openers, scammer

  • @sergiol.3755
    @sergiol.3755 Před 15 dny

    mumbo jumbo bs

  • @shredder4841
    @shredder4841 Před 20 dny +1

    boring!!!!!!!!

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes Před 21 dnem +4

    RG is a great thinker, it’s just too bad he’s a huge lib.

    • @tobypark2045
      @tobypark2045 Před 21 dnem

      Really? That’s genuinely surprising to me. It doesn’t bother me but for some reason I figured the guy who wrote 48LP would veer more conservative

    • @chewbrocka6833
      @chewbrocka6833 Před 21 dnem +1


      He got smart and self reflected and critiques his books now it promotes too much narcissism. And great thinkers are lib.

    • @stonedmega1
      @stonedmega1 Před 21 dnem +3

      Every great thinker is a huge lib. Kinda funny how educated people turn out to be liberal and not cult like.

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 Před 21 dnem

      @@stonedmega1 yeah, because proudly self-proclaimed libs aren't cult-like at all..............

    • @chrisc7043
      @chrisc7043 Před 20 dny

      Dumbass comment

  • @pygmalioninvenus6057
    @pygmalioninvenus6057 Před 11 dny

    I’m 34 and still haven’t figured it out…