Michael Singer - Stop Bothering Yourself

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 23. 03. 2023
  • An inspirational talk from Michael A. Singer.
    This talk was from 2022 before the release of Living Untethered.
    A link to the books written by Michael A. Singer: tou.org/books-inspiration
    Author of:
    Untethered Soul
    Living Untethered
    The Surrender Experiment

Komentáře • 93

  • @alyspriggs8882
    @alyspriggs8882 Před rokem +6

    When the student is ready the teacher will appear ❤

  • @aliseoliver3537
    @aliseoliver3537 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I have been working on my spiritual journey for a long long time - but Michael Singer, more than ANYONE else, has made the most impact on that journey. It's like a light bulb has gone off in my brain listening to his teaching. I am so grateful I have discovered him. I feel like I can finally have a peaceful happy life. ❤

  • @robcormier210
    @robcormier210 Před rokem +42

    This man's messages are so transforming

    • @EricJFord
      @EricJFord Před rokem +2

      Rob, the messages are changing my life. 1. Stay present 2. Be self observant 3. Release & Relax

  • @magaccessories
    @magaccessories Před rokem +12

    😂😂😂 It cracks me up every time he giggles like a kid and when he says “why did you do that? “ “why would you do that?” Love it ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, been listening every single day 🤗

  • @breakingoutofthematrix.6482

    Love this man! Has legitimately change the way I look at everything in my life.

    • @lorimilne6793
      @lorimilne6793 Před rokem +1

      Reword …YOU have changed your life 🥰 through listening to Michael

  • @henrike34
    @henrike34 Před rokem +3

    The music is not bothering, some people are bothering themselves about the music 😂
    This character actually enjoys the music 😅

  • @Catindrip
    @Catindrip Před rokem +9

    He's in a league entirely of his own

  • @dhiruparmar8908
    @dhiruparmar8908 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I LOVE YOU Michael your the Best. To explain real life thinking patterns.

  • @robertcalamusso1603
    @robertcalamusso1603 Před rokem +2

    I'm sure Mike never gets upset. His life is pure bliss.
    Lol

  • @henrike34
    @henrike34 Před rokem +25

    I Love this message. I know he is right. I am addicted to spiritual messages. But I still feel lonely. Does this just take time? I want to be able to let go of the garbage I stored inside. I see how I am creating this but it’s hard. And even that is just a thought 🤷‍♀️ anyone else here feel like that?

    • @annettenoga6182
      @annettenoga6182 Před rokem +7

      Yes, it takes a lot of time and its very hard...the garbage keeps coming up because you have not fully released it.
      Try not to suppress the thought allow it to come and drift along....like a cloud, as Michael states.

    • @jcm5171
      @jcm5171 Před rokem +7

      It takes time. Don't worry, just keep letting go. 👍

    • @MOVINGJOURNEY
      @MOVINGJOURNEY Před 11 měsíci +4

      I guess it is about the practice, repetition and step by step process that is key to transformation. The epiphany is the start of a process, the wish to change for the better.

    • @justaname935
      @justaname935 Před 11 měsíci +6

      well i used to think that i could find the answer all at once but one of the things i like about michael singer is he talks about you cant play beethoven or something super hard the first day you learn piano- you have to start basic- and my life is hard and i am unhappy every day but doing the things he says everyday as often as i can remember to does seem to be leading toward greater peace - so i think its about baby steps everyday- i want to add that i think that tao te ching, stoicism, anthony de mello, eckhart tolle, rupert spira, sam harris, naval ravikant, katie byron, pema chodron, rational buddhism and others are also great help

    • @silenc9
      @silenc9 Před 10 měsíci +5

      You are doing good work, keep going with it. Remember what Lao Tzu said:
      I have three things to teach
      Simplicity
      Compassion
      Patience
      😊

  • @kimhayes3828
    @kimhayes3828 Před rokem +2

    Tough love from Mr. Singer

  • @karlmacdonald3267
    @karlmacdonald3267 Před rokem +15

    Oh Wow, watching this video answered the questions I have about myself and life. I knew I was doing this in the background of my mind, but hearing Michael break it down like that really helped me. I am the common denominator. Like if I am upset and drive to work everyone else looks pissed, but if I am all content and happy, it looks like everyone else is in a good mood. I know I created that. Awesome video and thank you for posting it.

  • @gosia3032
    @gosia3032 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow ! Amazing teaching ! Thank you Michael Singer ❤

  • @GustavoDiazV
    @GustavoDiazV Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this treasures. Love and peace. ❤

  • @janedough5081
    @janedough5081 Před rokem +13

    Perfect time I found this, thanks for uploading✨

  • @veronicaatkins2806
    @veronicaatkins2806 Před rokem +3

    He calms my mind as soon as I hear him speak . Bless you for creating these videos 🙏🏽

  • @shannongillespie1440
    @shannongillespie1440 Před rokem +1

    Me oh my. This is some powerful feel great life affirming humbling beautiful and DOABLE everything. So good so so so good. Thank you

  • @margaretmolihan1922
    @margaretmolihan1922 Před rokem +7

    Bless the Lord for you. You are the wind beneath my wings. Thank you for lifting me higher then I've ever been lifted before. I bought your book yesterday. You are truly an amazing inspiration for me. Sending you an abundance of Loving Kindness. Margaret.

  • @cloudsofwonder7004
    @cloudsofwonder7004 Před rokem +4

    Amazing Grace how sweet ☘️

  • @LeanneAmiot
    @LeanneAmiot Před měsícem

    I really enjoyed the background music and your high sound quality.

  • @markjordan-iu6og
    @markjordan-iu6og Před rokem +1

    Michael Singer it's a true genius

  • @angelaachee7933
    @angelaachee7933 Před rokem +5

    Perfect timing…Ty 💕✨🌟✨💕

  • @elodieleaf
    @elodieleaf Před rokem +7

    Beyond beautiful 🙏🏼❤️

  • @rodypollock8935
    @rodypollock8935 Před rokem +2

    This was a pretty good message this morning.

  • @dottyroy
    @dottyroy Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is GREAT ❤

  • @robwilliams2265
    @robwilliams2265 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Overall a great message about how your perspective is what creates your suffering or joy. But...BUT....the part where he is telling everyone you can live every minute of every day in complete blissful love, it sets people.up for an unreal expectation and constant dissatifaction with life AS IT IS! Have any of us EVER know anyone intimately that had continual love and no suffering? Ive never met one. Ive heard many CLAIM they are, but when I get to know them, they have the same struggles that many of us do. Great basic message, as long as it doesnt claim the fantastical

  • @nataliecarter2579
    @nataliecarter2579 Před rokem +2

    POWERFUL WORDS

  • @dianabentley1562
    @dianabentley1562 Před rokem +4

    This is incredible

  • @lindalasley1192
    @lindalasley1192 Před rokem +2

    Thanks a million🙏❤️🧡❤️❤️

  • @Crazydoglady.
    @Crazydoglady. Před rokem +1

    " You're bothering yourself " 🤗

  • @johnpatterson6448
    @johnpatterson6448 Před rokem +5

    The bad food doggy-bag metaphor really cuts through.

  • @evegoodmon
    @evegoodmon Před 8 měsíci

    The same car analogy but it works

  • @khayamayub7673
    @khayamayub7673 Před rokem +3

    What a nice fella ❤

  • @garyjohnson3751
    @garyjohnson3751 Před rokem +3

    Thanks 🙏

  • @trainer333
    @trainer333 Před 3 měsíci

    This stuff works if your committed and practice. You can start to see improvements fairly quickly if you work on being focused and stay consistent. If you give up what then? When you know giving up is not an option you are on your way
    to a peaceful place between your ears and a new outlook on life. ❤
    0:27

  • @wesavelawns2406
    @wesavelawns2406 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for your videos your knowledge runs deep it is so helpful I am so glad I came across you and your videos God bless you brother

  • @twinkytobar7509
    @twinkytobar7509 Před rokem +1

    Muchas gracias, more than inspirational, useful!

  • @THEDUDE912
    @THEDUDE912 Před rokem +6

    I love Singer's zen (or Yoga as he would say) but personally find him much clearer and more palatable in writing. If I came across this without reading his books, I think I would just be confused and likely dismiss it as being silly and possibly very annoying...and bothersome..lol.. It's a clear pointing directly to the crux of the issue but it's very difficult to make such a quantum leap when confronted with our own bullshit...especially if you have a love affair with yoiur own thoughts like me.. 😃It takes an extreme degree of self honesty which few possess. But for anyone remotely moved by his message, I would suggest his books. Really compelling stuff and he has practiced all of it and used it to great success in his own life, not only spiritually but materially.

    • @jcm5171
      @jcm5171 Před rokem +1

      Thanks for your inspiring note. Same love affair here, with my brain, my thoughts and reasoning !
      I am beginning to realize that it is like an addiction. An extraordinarily tantalizing addiction, seemingly born spontaneously and shared collectively.
      One cannot just will one's way out of it, one has to decide, bam !!! Extremely powerful activity, to "think". You "think" it helps because it seems to make sense with everything around you but everything around you is an illusion created by you !
      The loop goes on and we don't see it.
      Until we do.
      I used to believe that everyone could see how it works immediately, once someone had pointed to it. But no, many cannot fathom any of this process or be conscious that they are conscious : I am grateful to be at that stage where I know that I am. The journey is on.
      The fact is, thinking maniacally makes things worse ( relief is short lived since another and another thing comes...) because there is no end to it -- you cannot get anywhere except to that place where you know that the more you know, the more you know that you know nothing.
      I am going to get his books, good idea, thank you !

    • @teslermendelovitch
      @teslermendelovitch Před 11 měsíci

      His books are incredible. After years of research, reading dozens of books on spirituality and yoga, his teachings have had more impact on me than all those books together. He is an excellent teacher.

  • @sylviarochelleamaro5888

    The whole truth! Is to just PIVOT every-time you get stuck PIVOT the beautiful mind emerges.
    God is more real.
    Thank you this is so simple and easy and life saving ✝️❤️‍🩹- ♥️⏰🌹🌱🌷🌹🐝👀

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 Před rokem +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @anns.2621
    @anns.2621 Před rokem

    you are the best

  • @mariettatheunissen7608
    @mariettatheunissen7608 Před 7 měsíci

    So funny & so true 😊❤

  • @juliettelite3048
    @juliettelite3048 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can you please share who plays that background music? around 1;45 minutes, please share, I really like it as much as the message , thanks a lot

  • @richardsrensen4219
    @richardsrensen4219 Před rokem +2

    I am looking forward to his neew book

  • @thefivefrogs
    @thefivefrogs Před rokem +1

    🙏😊

  • @selva-oscura-sogni
    @selva-oscura-sogni Před 7 měsíci

    Amazing and thank you. The images are so beautiful but a respectful request: background music, even low volume, seems unnecessary with words this wise.

  • @wendyroe5154
    @wendyroe5154 Před rokem

  • @805hiker2
    @805hiker2 Před rokem +6

    I’ve been listening to his lecture series “the untethered soul” and starting to notice a big difference in my outlook on life. It’s especially helping me cope with a very stressful job and well, also some personal stuff I’m going through. Does anyone know what he says at the beginning and end of every talk?

  • @scarolyn
    @scarolyn Před 6 měsíci

    I think this is great for external stimuli. Other people, chaotic events in the world, etc - but what about serious illness and chronic pain in the body? What about severe physical and emotional abuse? How is it possible to not be bothered by strong pain in the body? Or someone punching you in the face? How do you choose not to be bothered by those things? Thank you.

  • @beatleme2
    @beatleme2 Před 5 měsíci

    why am i not ok... grief

  • @Gaurav.P0
    @Gaurav.P0 Před rokem +5

    Beautiful 😍
    Subtitles were very helpful.
    Please, provide embedded English subtitle in your other videos as well 🙏 Thanks 👍

    • @trustlife23
      @trustlife23  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your support and feedback. I have added the subtitles.

  • @michaelchase5304
    @michaelchase5304 Před rokem +1

    Does anyone know what the background music is? For the first song?

  • @sandraf09
    @sandraf09 Před rokem +2

    Love it! But what about the people that are living in the middle of a war? How can they just let it go and not be botherd?

    • @cherishedautos
      @cherishedautos Před rokem

      The war will still be around , They can't control that. The only thing that they can control is their view and reactions to it.
      It's a tough example but in essence the same rule applies.

    • @renakmans3521
      @renakmans3521 Před rokem +1

      Or a rape victim?

    • @shirleyfrost9909
      @shirleyfrost9909 Před 6 měsíci

      Really! Very Sad. We who are free have to be grateful and pray for the others.

  • @happyinapa
    @happyinapa Před rokem +2

    does anyone know the name/artist of the first piece of music playing in the background? (it ends at 5:39). It's not provided in the notes. Thx!

    • @mrzukunft
      @mrzukunft Před rokem

      I couldn't find the song, but this one sounds quite similar to the one from 3:00 onwards:
      Adventure - Infraction Music

  • @tabathacole
    @tabathacole Před 5 měsíci

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @BJ-zu2dz
    @BJ-zu2dz Před 6 měsíci

    So what about grief?

  • @stevenflores972
    @stevenflores972 Před rokem +2

    You have to set boundaries with people. Right ? They will walk all over you.
    Please clarify....😮

    • @iloveFreedom.
      @iloveFreedom. Před rokem +4

      I don't know if this helps .... I m just getting better at taking deeper breaths...and finding my inner joker...coz it appears people just do step over boundaries, yet if I'm feeling freee and happy, in that moment , ( being in that peace, more often,) I dont care,
      Sometimes we end up laughing
      Sometimes I walk away
      Sometimes music happens
      ...I can behave the way I want.... come what may...
      Not there all the time, personally, yet, 😂 but am more freq than I was, so it feels like progress 😅
      Like Gabor Matte says, its not what happens to you, its what happens inside you
      Your feelings are All Valid ofcourse. And we create our reality, I'm just convinced of it.

    • @robcormier210
      @robcormier210 Před rokem +4

      The way I personally see it is if someone is blatantly crossing a boundary, yes be firm in your love of yourself. The after effect is the catch.Your feelings about that encounter are yours to own. View them for what they are and release.There are more moments to come on this journey of life.

    • @iloveFreedom.
      @iloveFreedom. Před rokem +2

      @@robcormier210 yeah, coz, the " you" is really the " me" deep down, ha 😎💧🌊🐳

  • @theoread8165
    @theoread8165 Před rokem

    The added music is bothering me.

  • @nataliebarr6075
    @nataliebarr6075 Před 11 měsíci

    This is very simplistic, black and white thinking. He even says he is not talking about the physical, just the psychological. How silly!! You can not separate your mind, spirit and body and just ignore truly painful things.
    To tell a victim of child abuse, rape, domestic violence, war, torture, or any evil that they are just “bothering themselves” while they are being abused or assaulted is really stupid.
    The moment ahead of you should and will bother you if the moment ahead of you is rape or abuse or a violent death.
    His theory only works on people with first world problems on a petty scale.

  • @renakmans3521
    @renakmans3521 Před rokem

    The music here is bothering me:-)

  • @andrewlanny3478
    @andrewlanny3478 Před rokem +1

    Michael, if someone was torturing you, like say poking out your eyeballs with a sharp instrument, or cutting out your tongue with a sharp knife etc. etc. etc. Would that moment be bothering you? If someone was just about to murder you, would that moment be bothering you? I would think so. True, or not? Come on.....get a grip on yourself. Grow up.

    • @renakmans3521
      @renakmans3521 Před rokem +3

      I’d think there are exceptions…he and many talk about a general way out of “everyday” life, exceptions do need attention but do not need to remain part of our mental life.

  • @fatgirlboy9341
    @fatgirlboy9341 Před rokem

    i thought you are supposed to smell the old garbbish everyday until it does not bother you any more.

  • @Mystic-ql7qg
    @Mystic-ql7qg Před rokem

    Do you believe in God?

    • @magaccessories
      @magaccessories Před rokem

      I believe he does, towards the end of the video at 14:00 he talks about feeling pure light and pure love at all the time being a gift of God.

    • @JP-rb1js
      @JP-rb1js Před rokem

      The last chapter of his book, The Untethered Soul is entitled “The Loving Eyes of God.”