falling in love with someone you can't have (a playlist)
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- čas přidán 10. 12. 2020
- dreaming of an impossible future, with someone/something you can't have.
was thinking of fictional characters, or dreams of a perfect love, which just aren't realistic, when I made this. futures aren't fixed, fairy tale happy endings don't exist. but I hope this playlist captures some of the wonder and elation you feel when reading a book that feels like home or imagining a beautiful but unrealistic future you've always dreamed of. they may not exist in reality, but whole worlds exist in our minds.
lot's of love always x
edit: so it's been a month since i posted this, and the past week it's gained almost 200 000 views which is just huge. I am so glad that a lot of people resonate with the same music that has helped me too. I hope this playlist can continue to be a safe place for you to vent out your emotions, tell your stories, and heal. You all deserve to be so so happy. This will always remain your little safe space. thank you, for everything.
lots of love,
dream x
spotify link: open.spotify.com/user/yxhcfg2...
thumbnail: i searched dark academia aesthetic on google and it came up!! ❤
I own no rights to the songs in this playlist, all credit is due to the rightful creators. If you have any issues with any of the music shown, please message me or email me privately. Thank you.
timestamps:
0:00 - Je te lasserai des mots
2:45 - La Valse d'Amélie
5:35 - Dance For Me Wallis
8:50 - Prelude in E-Minor
11:35 - The Departure
13:00 - Beginning of the End Movement V
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EXTRA EDIT: i will be keeping the vid up!! thank u for your responses! i also wrote a short story down below if u ever feel like reading something while listening ❤
original comment: if this playlist is doing more harm than good pls let me know. it hurts knowing something i put out is making people cry all around the world. i'm rlly rlly sorry if this playlist made u upset, it definitely was not my intention. pls let me know if you'd like me to keep it up or remove it in the replies. will appreciate any feedback and will delete this playlist if it's really hurting any of you.
edit: i posted this comment about an hour ago and thank you for all your replies since then, they really helped me put things into perspective. i always read every single comment posted on this video, and have done since it was uploaded, & i know it sounds silly, but I felt, and still do sometimes, really guilty as the playlist seemed to make so many people upset. i wondered if i should just privatise it. but the replies made me reconsider. if this playlist helps you heal in the way i intended it too, or now provides a safe space for you to vent your emotions or tell your stories then i am so so grateful. and it's for those reasons that i will be leaving this video up. thank u for your support and for all of the subscriptions, i will never not be grateful.
1 more thing. one of my main passions has always been writing. and i know it's super random but after reading your comments and listening to this playlist again it made me feel like telling a story. this is one i wrote when listening, u defo don't have to read it, it just helped me feel less upset.
POV:
You lie down. Surrounded by the beautiful scents of wildflowers and lavender. Surrounded by the warm shining sun, soaking up the sweet summer air. Surrounded by them. The one you love. So much. Their soul consumes you. Oh love. How beautiful a feeling.
They lie next to you. Those gorgeous eyes you’ve come to love and that smile that never fails to make your lips upturn too. They put a flower in your hair, placing it so gently, as if you could break any second. As if this world could. You want to be with them forever. Feel like this forever.
But alas, everything ends.
And so you lie down, closing your eyes. And when you open them they’ve gone. The sweet summer air replaced by a heavy patter of rain. The crowds so grey, the flowers wilted.
Leaving you alone. So alone. Leaving you wondering why they left you, why you weren't enough to make them stay. Leaving you wondering if they were a dream, or if you had just imagined it. But if it were in your head what a feeling that was. How real was your heartbeat, that feeling of love and home. What a feeling.
And so you cry. As the rain falls more heavily on your face, becoming one with your tears. As the wildflowers lose the colour in which they were so bright. As the day turns into night and all you’re left with is the stars and your own soul, your own thoughts.
Because they’ve gone. How could you ever be happy now.
But although they’ve left you still remember how it felt.. That beautiful, wonderful time and emotion that made you feel so alive, so happy. And slowly your tears stop falling and it’s just the rain dripping down your face. Slowly you outstretch your arms, closing your eyes. Slowly you start to breathe, feeling your heart beat again. So loud.
Without them.
And as you dance in the rain you laugh even though you’re still in so much pain. Picking up the dropped flowers you smile even though it still hurts so much. You succumb to the world and scream and feel yourself crying again but this time it hurts less. This time you feel more free.
And so you walk, and lie down. In the same spot. Surrounded by the wildflowers, the weather, the sweet air. And each time it hurts a little less. You lie there, any time you feel like it. Sometimes with company, sometimes alone.
Because you still remember that feeling in your heart. And while they’re gone that will always remain.
Love. What a feeling.
Sometimes crying and being sad let us think more and find the truth of ourselves.. we all need it
@@fatemehabdi3700 thank u for your response, i really really appreciate it ❤
Let it up. People need to cry out their emotions. You're helping them release it and feel it. You're helping people tell their stories and know they are not alone. If they are being harmed, it's their own fault, not yours. You just put very good music together in a playlist.
the breakdowns i have to playlists like this one are more powerful and cathartic than any other, and quite frankly, the inspiration and forward push i get from them afterwards is unmatched. theres nothing quite like scream-crying like you're the main character in a period romance and then getting up and rebuilding your reality the way you want it. thank you for making this.
you are being really considerate, but i think its fine, ppl sometimes need that☺️❣️
"out of 7.9 billion beating hearts, i fell for the one that didn't beat for me."
I-😭
I.. 😭😭
do I send this to my crush ):
@@kam9910 yesss do it!! 💕
@@Leny321 I’m scaredd
“sometimes cupid runs out of arrows and only shoots one person”
Dont mind me stealing this aah
Saw this on Google before lol, I related to it so much that I kept writing this quote on my notebooks lmfao. 😂
@@user-wz5dj3dx1l i also write random quotes that are stuck with me on my notebooks lmfaoo 😭😭
@@basia9505 lmao I thought I was the only one who does that 😂
I would always write random quotes, be it sad, inspirational, depressed or whatever, and I also write poems and to make it even weirder, I also write my favourite song's lyrics if the song's lyrics is what I'm feeling at the moment, like damn I don't know why do that lmfao. 😂😂
well that explains why none of my crushes liked me back hmm
the right person, the wrong time
the right script, the wrong line
the right poem, the wrong rhyme
AND A PIECE OF YOU,
THAT WILL NEVER BE MINE.....
every thing seems well but then in the end it hurts like hell
❤
❤
This is so beautifully written ❤❤❤
😢❤
it's always worth it❤
i love you
i love your smile
i love your laugh
i love your personality
i love your hair (or lack thereof)
i love your insecurities
i love your accomplishments
i love your failures
i love your eyes
i love your beauty
i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
i love the way you dance
i love you on your happy days
i love you on your sad days
i love you on the days you feel lonely
i love you on the days you feel helpless
i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
i love you on the days you feel forgotten
i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
i love you on the days you feel loved
i love you on the days you feel sick
i love you on the days you feel motivated
i love you on the days you feel depressed
i love you on the days you feel stresses
i love you on the days you feel crazy
i love you on the days you feel hopeful
i love you on the days you feel cuddly
i love you on the days you feel clingy
i love you on the days you feel amazing
i love you on the days you feel beautiful
i love you on the days you feel like a failure
i love you on the days you feel angry
i love you on the days you feel aggressive
i love you on the days you feel horrible
i love you on the days you feel safe
i love you on the days you feel unsafe
i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
i love you on the days you feel weird
i love you on the days you feel ok
i love you when you're healthy
i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
i love your taste in music
i love your taste in movies
i love your taste in tv shows
i love the way you move
i love the way you act
i love you when you cry
i love you when you're kind
i love you when you're mean
i love you when you're alone
i love you when you can't feel
i love you when you feel too much
i love you when you can't take life anymore
i love you when you feel like it's too much
i love you when you're asleep
i love you when you have nightmares
i love you when you have dreams
i love how you believe
i love you when you believe in yourself
i love you when you don't believe in yourself
i love you when you hate yourself
i love you when you love yourself
i love the way you think
i love you problems
i love your solutions
i love how you support
i love you when you're in pain
i love you when you're hurt
i love your promises
i love your secrets
i love your attitude
i love you sass
i love your creativity
i love your voice (or lack thereof)
i love you hand gestures
i love your stories
i love your wounds
i love your scars
i love your face
i love your past
i love your future
i love your present
i love your outfits
i love your style
i love your art
i love your honesty
i love you when you lie
i love you when you're tired
i love you when you're energetic
i love how you look
i love how you cook
i love you when you're adventurous
i love you when your crying
i love you when you feel tired
i love you when you're scared
i love your imperfections
i love your perfections
i love you when you worry
i love you when you talk (or communicate)
i love your opinions
i love you when you have a headache
i love you when you have a stomach ache
i love you when you help others
i love you when you need help
i love you when you're mature
i love you when you're immature
i love you in the hard times
i love you in the easy times
i love you when life is meh
i love you when you're responsible
i love you when you're irresponsible
i love you when you fight
i love you in your darkest moments
i love you in your brightest moments
i love your heart
i love you in the day
i love you in the night
i love you at midnight
i love you at 3 am
i love you at all times
i love you at your best
i love you at your worst
i love the little things you do
i love all of you
i love you when you're you
i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
I love you for the way you made me feel special ❤
jush
cabs
Oh my gawd it's what I wrote for myself on my birthday
You made me cry
Being in love with the idea of love.
this omg
that's beautiful
Suddenly remember this phrase again, i'm gonna make an art out of it♡
this is me oh
I know it’s just something so beautiful
“loving someone who doesn’t love you back is like hugging a cactus, the tighter you hold on, the more it hurts”
this is powerful.
i love this
anime body pillow
oh.... the more i read it, the more it reminds me of my past
So deep
I've felt many pains in my life but oh God nothing compares to the moment when I left the girl who didn't love me back. It was the hardest decision I ever made in my life but this decision changed me completely. My life took a huge turn for the best afterwards because for the first time of my life I was in control of my emotions and did what hurts because it was the right thing to do.
omggg im tongan tooooo and this story touched my heart 🙂
It touched my heart too well God decides what is good for us we can't do nothing because we are no the responsable ones that are going to take care of ourselves God is the only one who can do that
Well it happened the same but with a boy too
Thank you for sharing this ❤
@@TiTia-3 ur tongan?
your mind is telling you to stop loving someone..but your heart just can’t let go…
This is literally me right now and it hurts because i dont to let her go......
Me rn oh god pls let this feeling go away
Me too 😭 I need help letting him go
@@nevillasaikiRight there too....😢
That’s me… and I can’t stop…
Someone said:
We were
just friends
That spoke like lovers
And that seemed to be
enough for
Two teenagers who
were scared to love
one another
Was that from tiktok?
I’m actually in this situation and we are both « ok » with it...we’re scared of love and we don’t want to fall deeply in love but we can’t help it but talk and act like lovers...
Not it saying the situation of me and my friend, GOODBYEEE
makes me feel better knowing other people are in the same situation
Omg. This brings so much nostalgia from my teen memories.
Remember:
You're the main character of your life. No one can take that
thx for these words 🥺
Thank you :)
yessir
Thank you
I believe as the main character it's my duty not to act like I'm the main character because it ruins the experience for everybody else does that make sense ?
Your not in love with him, your in love with the IDEA of him.
A fantasy you created of him, a character that you designed to represent what you want him to be.
Knowing that still doesn't make it any less painful 😢
@stephanieweinberg9633 no but it helps you to wake up from the painful dream you are living
True. But now I am happy that I am over it. It hurts when once all you imagined and wished for remains as fantasy forever. I hope if someone going through this loop could come out of it and love themselves and live the best out of their life.
"You've never lost anything until you've lost something you loved more than yourself"
The fact that my only "loves" are fictional characters from animes....
@@MaddieMaddux-un6uk💀
he was my everything, my love, my laugh, my happiness and the one who took the demons out of my head. But I've lost everything. I've lost him with all the things he gave to me and everything puts me deeper in that black hole of life. He, he was the everything and i don't know how to ignore that everything and create a new everything,cause there's a reason why it's called everything
the only person I love more than myself or than life is my little boy
we always fall in love with the people we know we can’t have.
ikr ://
That's because we love to complicate everything, it's in our blood to do it. We get bored when life it's too perfect. We don't admit, but somehow we like to suffer, we believe we deserve it, that this is our destiny.
I always convince myself to believe I don’t deserve to have the person I want
felt.
@@Daggerxflo but you do!! you deserve the world
*"we accept the love we think we deserve"*
perks of being a wallflower
@@juwariabibikiran1159 ;)
And that’s why No ones ever loved me before
@@beckihouston8625
you'll find someone better than you could ever imagine, i promise.
...deep down i know I'm unworthy of love
Love is harder when you're an introvert neither you express nor you let them ever know about your feelings🙃
I feel the same exact way… it’s so frustrating that you are your biggest obstacle to overcome when you have feelings for someone else.
It all sucks, loving someone you cant have especially when they are around so much that its a constant reminder of what you cant have...
my life
it’s why I cut my best friend off. 4 years later I still think about him and miss him.
“You fell in love with a version of a person that you created in your head”
in my head Stans!!!!!
that you are trying to but cannot fix
"Uh, the only thing you can fix is yourself."
that is being in love with a fairytail i understand
"i love you, this gone way to long, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH"
is anyone else worried that they'll never find their soulmate?
update: i found her :) theres hope for everyone guys
I believe we found the right person in the right time, you will find him/her when you're ready and when he/she is ready
Yeah we dated others people until we found them but that's the matter so we can learn lessons and take the consequences of our mistakes.
But one day you will be so happy with the one and only.
You will! God has a plan for you, he is finding that perfect person for you! Even if you think that all hope is lost for finding your soulmate, just remember that God has a plan for your life!
There is no soulmate, it's just a bullshit idea to make u feel special bcz u know u are not. No matter how perfect u are u can always be replaced.
I don't think I have one if I'm honest
@@RANDOM-pf1ve damn who hurt you...
is it just me or do you feel like you've fallen in love with love
My to the idea of love love in the movies
Actually It means you lonely. And you have fallen in love with the entity called love. A living characteristic of love. You never see it yet you know this feeling of love in your heart. An emptiness in your heart yet also a deep longing. This entity called Love, is called God. Since there is no one as romantic and perfect as God. As long as you do not search and respond to the wooing, then there will always, also be an emptiness in your heart, since it is said that God put eternity in our hearts, an expanse of void and limitless capacity.
It's so true mate.the real meaning about this kind of love.
All people love something, a person,an idea,a creature,and all is about how clear is inside you.
In the example of the goldendreamsandstartlight I think is the heart so clear but without knowledge about your description.
How about this;
That's me right now
11 years since we broke up, I saw her with her child .. we just smiled and kept walking.
Maybe that was the best decision both of u took in ur lifes. It taught u many things, it made uh bith who u guys r today.....now you both are two stranger's but with some beautiful, unforgettable memories....
😢😢😢
I can’t picture someone ever loving me romantically it’s absurd
Same
Hey I just know your a very cool person :) 3>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
me too:(
Same
Me too ma'am/sir/person.
Me too :(
Falling in love with the idea of someone, and not wanting anything to happen because you know that idea of them isn’t real.
why tf is being a crush on someone is so complicated
idea of it , just perfect you want something that perfect in your life i can relate
it's just COMPLICATED.
😭❤😭 exactly
I love this. Didn't realize that this is exactly my problem until I read this comment. Thank you!
I didn’t fall in love with him but I almost did. I met him in university, at first he was just a classmate, an interesting one. He always had thoughtful opinions about everything, I was intrigued by his beliefs, interested in his way of seeing life. One day I looked at him, and suddenly he was the most attractive and handsome man on earth. He looks like he is out of a book, everything about him is so beautiful that it’s hard to believe he is real. Every little detail I know about him makes me like him more.
But he has a girlfriend. And, he loves her. I’m nothing in his life, just a nice classmate. His heart is devoted to another woman. You can see his eyes shine every time he talks about her. But that’s ok. In the end, I don’t know him at all, he is just a classmate for me too, I don’t know anything about his personal life, or how he truly thinks. I have come to realize that I never loved him but I was obsessed with him. He made my heart beat faster, made my life more intense. Every day, I wake up and wanted to see him, and imagine what would happen if we talked. I’m more than that, I also have a life, and the way that everything started to revolve about him wasn’t healthy. I need to work on myself, so I can feel in peace alone. I’m a really sensitive and passionate girl. I feel things deeply, but that isn’t an excuse to this obsessive behavior.
I’ve been working on myself in therapy, I started to read more books and trying to not think about anything when doing exercise. I realized that a lot of things that I admired and liked from him are some dreams or goals that I’ve always wanted to do but never tried. I’m going to start piano lessons and read even more books, I will make myself stronger and happier. Instead of being hopeless and miserable from this situation, I’m going to be stronger, it was a lesson that I needed to learn in order to grow as a person.
That was inspiring, my friend
This made my day, you don't even realise how much it us similar to what I was going through.
Beautiful 👍🏻♾️✨
An an uh only union😂😂 you cant do it between man and man. Ahaha u silly.
Damnn...you spoke my mind. Going through the same.
Wanna give the whole comment section a huge hug...you guys deserve all the love❤
"We both were in love and we knew it. We just weren't meant to be together."
😭😭😭💔💔💔
fuck, this just reminds me of young royals
Yes it's me
:(
Wrong timing sux 😔
am I the only one that is more in love with the fantasies I created in my head than what I'm supposed to?
Not
R u a pisces?
@@timatanjim8379 lmaooo no, Im a virgo in sun and taurus in moon
Same here, andbsometimes i feel sad about myself.
👏👏👏 SAME
The fact that this comment section is so comforting tho ❤❤❤ stay strong everyone! I love u
❤❤❤
Cause you are sweet ❤
hurts more when you both almost love each other but can't be together because of few barriers
And the only part of this story will satisfy us is both of us going to find their best ending for ever, even if we were a part under the same sky at different places.... each one of us find his own happiness
Been there, and still can't move on. The more I think I feel like I was in peace when she was around. But I know someday I will meet her, not now maybe not this time. But I hope the world gives me one more chance against all odds. Just one more chance.
@@dhananjaydeshmukh3469 the world knows better than we thought ourselves know ,the loss isn't declared yet the war within our souls still flaming, still believe the right time will come ek din ....
This is our love story. We loved each other, were like a couple but too shy to really ask. It last a few years and then I had to move across the country and she was with someone else. I said I will wait you for the eternity if you need, I love you now and forever. And she felt the same way, she said it too.
But then life happened and we are both different now. But I'm still daydreaming and in love with the version of us when we were almost together.
I dated this one person, for about 6-7 months, but we slowly realized it wasn't the best to keep the relationship up...but now im gaining feelings for their friend, and me and her match way better..but i can't do anything about it because i was already with her friend... Now i have to either force myself to stop liking her or just keep it to myself because im scared I'll push her away if i say anything.
I asked her to be my platonic valentine but thats probably as close as I'll ever get
You ever fall in love with someone in your dream, but you’ve never actually seen or met that person in your life? Yet you crave to love them..
well idk if this is true but if you've seen someone in your dreams, you most likely have met them :)
I😭,I actually commented my story above I know that and I'm going through that but I'm never going to give up on my love for the GUY WHO COMES IN DREAMS WHY?cause I LOVE HIM😔
That literally happened to me last night! Idk who they were but I know we were in love. I’ve had to have met him tho bc u can’t dream about anyone u haven’t met?🤔😭
I had a whole life in my dream before. From when I was born to when I was old. And let me just tell you, when I woke up... my heart shattered. How was I supposed to meet someone as perfect as the guy in my dream? It felt as though I lived a whole life with him.
Omg yes,i felt soooo attached to this one person,it felt so warm to be next to him but i don't know who it really was....
am i the only one who keeps making fake love scenarios in my head? even though i know they will not happen but just imagining them makes me so happy.
same :(
Same. I understand you. It is actually even worse when you not only imagine love scenarios...you have to imagine that you have friends too 💔
@@polinajegorova998 yeah i feel you 🥺
@@Dwayneff thank you, nicro gaming
Me too
Falling in love with someone who doesn't like you back is painful, but it's nothing compared to when that person is also your best friend.
bro so real Tho, literally what im going through
Agree 😊
Yeah I’ve known her for like 4 ish years and told her I liked her haven’t talked for like 10 months and still think about her stuff reminds me of her and stuff I doubt I’ll ever forget her and I guess that’s okay I just need to learn how to turn the pain into productive stuff and I’ll be fine but the hurt won’t go away and for that I am sad
I fell in love with my best friend five years ago. It was ignored back then but last year we decided to give it ago. Ended up that we couldn’t live without each other. She kept promising to end it with her current person. She never did. He found out what she was doing. Threw me under the bus and said it was all my fault. I lost everything in the blink of an eye
And then you have to make the choice that either you want her or live with the constant streak of pain
I met a girl in my university days and immediately got a huge crush on her. We were in the same lab group. The more we worked together the more I realised I was falling for her. This was the first time I was falling truly in love with a girl. We talked a lot, we hung out. I started changing my schedule so I could increase my chances of running into her. Everyday that I could talk to her was a great day for me. Gradually our friendship grew and we became best-friends. As our college years progressed we did not have classes together since our majors were different but we did hang out. Some of our friends started spreading rumors that we were in a relationship but I never confirmed it, neither asked her out. I was too afraid that I would lose her if she didn't feel the same way. Once she did ask me if I was in love with her but I was too scared to say yes.
In my pre-final year I started focusing more on getting a great internship but my feelings never died away. After I came back from my internship I started avoiding her. It was too painful for me to continue this friendship. My mind had a few other priorities now i.e. my career and that did provide me some relief from always obsessing about her. So I thought the best way forward is to slowly forget her. Gradually university got over and we started our jobs in different cities. We kept less in touch. Calls became texts and gradually those decreased in frequency.
After all these years I can say that yes I will always love her deep down and I feel sorry that our friendship could not change into a relationship. I'm pretty sure from the way she talked and behaved with me that she started falling for me when I was avoiding her post my internship. So I guess it was all bad timing. I'm hoping that loving someone so deeply won't be this painful everytime. Maybe it was wrong of me to not take any action and keep waiting indefinitely. I hope to change that if I'm in a similar situation again in the future.
PS: I have never told my story to anyone...not even my closest friends. Thanks OP for providing a safe space.
Thats beautiful, keep moving bro.
Why ronaq behura why?
@@Cutiepatotie628 I used to ask the same question...I guess love is complicated 😐. But it did teach me an important lesson that is to never wait for love. If I love someone I need to take action.
I had the something similar happen to me brother. I cherished her with every ounce of my body and all it did was deter her away. My friends told me to treat her like crap and avoid her. That this was the way to get her affection. I told them that stuff would never work on such a special girl like her. Turns out they were right because when I finally ignored her and treated her just like some ordinary girl, she wanted me more than ever. I could’ve kissed her 1 night when we watched a love movie together at her place. She got closer. I decided right then and there that I didn’t want our relationship to be derived from me acting like someone I wasn’t. I wanted her to love me for me and the guy that throws himself head over heels for her to make her feel special. Not the one who makes her feel like crap to get her to seek his approval.
@@AirCheco2345 You did the right thing bro. She probably loves the chase, not the person and in the long run it might spell disaster.
_"I'll forever remember you, and perhaps, that's the only forever we're ever meant to have"_
Deep
that hurt bye
i’m stealing this, thank you.
Omg where is this from
@@cristiperez2203 some sentence I heard from someone before
You never realize how much you like someone until you watch them with someone else.
I realized that few months ago. And im living with the pain
@@uuser3282 yeah.. it hurts alot, I just cant seem to stop overthinking about it.
@@uuser3282 soon it'll get better, I promise
realizing how much that will hurt
Yesterday was a bad day
Theres no crueler and more painful feeling than unreciprocated love imo
Loving someone you can't have has got to be one of the hardest things, you constantly think about them but you always know that it cannot be either temporarily or forever.
WHY IS THIS ON MY RECOMMENDATION
Omg hi love your videos they are so funny...
HAHAHHA RELATE 😭
omg same 😭😭😭
Same broo
Exactly whyyyyy
falling in love with someone I created to make myself entertained, now I'm hurt that he doesn't exist..
this was worded perfectly
Have you tried shifting? I heard that there are infinitely many realities and we can "go" to one where everything is as we would like, so there you can be with someone who does not exist in our reality and apparently you really feel like it is real. Unfortunately, not forever, for example for an hour or something like that, but we must remember that in the "new" reality time flies as we would like, so you can read more about it, because it is a very interesting topic
@@_nothing_9053
Hold on. Never heard of this in my life. Where can learn more about this? Where did you learn about this.
@@maheenm.k1015 I learned a lot on youtube from Kristeau
@@_nothing_9053 thank you.
timestamps:
0:00 - Je te lasserai des mots
2:45 - La Valse d'Amélie
5:35 - Dance For Me Wallis
8:50 - Prelude in E-Minor
11:35 - The Departure
13:00 - Beginning of the End Movement V
Prelude in E minor by Chopin
This music is the perfect reminder that life is worth living. I wish everyone who clicked on this video the most love, peace and abundance. You’re so much closer than you realize. I love you
I love you too ❤❤
he’ll never look at me the way he looks at her
One day, someone will. No matter if it's him or not ❤️
@Mais El-Saigh that’s so sweet of you
he’ll never give me a chance. i’m just another internet person and it’s ironic, cuz i fell in love with the way he uses to express himself.
i know;(
ask yourself do you really deserve this ? you don’t honey you always deserve someone who loves you and look at you at the same way you look at him
you ever just feel like someone is perfect for you, and you're perfect for them, and you kinda just know something could happen if given the chance. but it's nearly impossible for it to happen, so you just have to force yourself to accept that it will only ever be fantasies and dreams
and holding onto every little thing they say or do because you know thats the most you'll ever get from them
this.
😔
The truth cuts deep man...
And that for over three years...
yes everyday
The toughest thing is knowing you once had a dream of a girl that doesn’t exist but it felt so real in the moment. Didn’t know who she was, where she was from, anything but you could feel the love in the dream like it’s reality. Then you wake up and realize the truth.
I thought i was the only one to whom this is happening
боже, мне уже несколько раз снится незнакомец, причём его лица не видно, я обнимаю его, а он в ответ меня, и я чувствую чувства похожие на любовь.. мне становится так комфортно и приятно, где мне найти его в реале?( 😣🥺
That happened to me almost 12 years ago now and I swear I thought I made him up, until I locked eyes with a stranger last weekend at a convention and I'd found him. Those same eyes staring back at me. The world is too mysterious for me, but it's also cruel because he belongs to another and I can't have him. I never thought my heart could break this deeply.
I never comment, but it’s 4 a.m., the 4th of July, and I’m up unable to sleep so here this goes. If you’re out there, and you happen to stumble upon this, know that not a day goes by where I don’t think about you. I’m hoping the days we shared weren’t all there will ever be, and that one day it’ll just be us falling back into a love stronger than before. But even if this isn’t the case, and your heart doesn’t return, I’ll always love you the same, more than I ever have the words to truly convey. And I’ll be sad that our sun has set, but sunsets can be beautiful, and ours was, just like all those we watched after our long beach days, where we’d walk the wet sand and sip tea together. Those memories always make me feel warm and happy, like sunkissed skin, and it’s like I’m there again. I’ll find ways to be happy knowing we did love each other at one point, and it was real and magical. And while I may always dream of the life we might have together, I’ll always hope for your happiness most of all. I find comfort in realizing how deeply I really love you. And I think it’s better to know these feelings than to not. I’ll always feel so grateful for the love I experienced with you. Until my very last day, always.
It was a relationship of looks.
He looked at me, I looked at him and we both smiled at each other.
We never get past that.
and it’s so hard to accept that’s all it’ll ever be :(
Damn
Wow..
relatable
Dude i- 🥺😭
Mind says: he doesn't love you, just forget him
Heart: but what if he does?
Can relate.
But even if he directly says to you that he does not love you it doesn’t change anything
Fear says vs hope. ✨
That tiny bit of hope
very relatable
POV: you fell in love with someone in your dream (i couldnt see their face, but they werw the sweetest person ever)
Loved her so much that I suffered while she lived her happy life to the fullest……..because that’s what hero’s do
I kindly disagree, if you loved her enough you would live in complete peace knowing she is smiling bright somewhere out there, safe, even if it's not with you.
when they're your everything but you're nothing to them- it sucks so bad
This hit me hard👁💧👄💧👁
Makes me numb 😓
It doesn’t suck. It hurts you, you shut down. From happiness to sadness. It’s so easy to shut down. And so hard to be happy, when sad.
i’m in love with the idea of you loving me.
It's very philosophical and I like it
Esa frase no es la que buscaba, pero es la que yo quería.
Damn.
Wow this is just.. this is just the thing I was thinking. Thank you.
This is amazing & soooo true
Unrequited love is one of most painful things I’ve experienced and still am till this day, if you’re reading this, I hope you get past this, it’s an awful void to live in.
"Watching the rain makes u feel a little better cuz now you know that the clouds cry too✨"....
It doesn't matter if we are not meant to be, atleast we met.
Damn... this made me hurt
and we didn't even met while i know about his existence and keep loving him while he is just too far from me not knowing about me
@@Alexa-qg5ls I feel u
wouldve been better if we didnt meet , at least i didn't have to feel this way
We met. What a gift solely to greet each other within this lifetime.
the thing is, i'm starting to believe that i'm not actually in love with this person, i'm in love with the idea of loving them and being with them...idk
what does it mean to be in love with the idea of someone
Same i feel like this is me....
@@chahditomolatsatat5728 same I don't understand it too
Isn't like seeking for something you know you are not truly ready for....but the excitement makes you want to do it....even tho u know it isn't how you should approach love.
@@blove9258 oh
Should I trade our friendship for a love story unable to exist?
Should I give up our connection for a bond meant to break?
Should I keep our promises for a truth full of lies?
Should I save our eternity for a relentless evanescence?
Should I change our happy chapters for a tragical epilogue?
Should I tell you I love you for you to tell me you do not?
- me
wow that reallly hurts it bleds dry the heart
Asked myself the exact same questions about three times in my life where I fell for my bestfriends who would never love me back. I still took my chance and told them how I feel rather than be with them but forever having that ache in your heart. They all said no and we're not friends anymore but atleast that ache faded with time and I was able to move on and love other people. You need to free yourself to love the right person. Goodluck! You cam do this!
@@aryashmittal8083 💖
@@Ravy-eh1xj thank you for your encouragement and sharing your story
if only she sees the way i see her in my eyes, there's too many words to describe on how special this one girl is to me. leaving such a huge impact, a love that made me feel alive, she gave me the reason to keep going and yet she's the reason why now i'm learning to love myself and move forward
I love you Y, it's always has been you, and it will forever be ❤️
Guess I'll just admire you from a safe distance .
Yeah. Always close but never too much. 'Cause the closer place is reserved for the chosen ones.
@@nellie6490 🥺
@@takeahintmrknowitall7038 I know I'm not supposed to be with her, yet my heart only remembers all the good moments. I know I will find someone like her who is for me, yet it is so hard to believe.
@@takeahintmrknowitall7038 thats what im scared of .-.
@@thecricketcorner3849 same😳
"I died in the most beautiful way"
"How?"
"By loving someone I can't have"
is it from a book?
Wow
so true
I made your comment as video if you like to watch ❤️
Reminds me of the corpse bride
I know i will never have him but i still keep falling for him i can't help it's his eyes like an ocean i get lost in or his smile which is like the full moon or maybe his soft lips or maybe his voice which i can hear for the rest of my life or it's just him.. he is so kind , handsome , has a really decent behaviour... how can i move on when he's imperfectly perfect.. when he's all i need..when he gives me hopes that we can be together..when he smiles at me whenever we see each other... when he cares about me....when he makes me smile..makes me the happiest person..tell me how can i move on
Tell about your feelings! Have courage, it'll feel empowering. Otherwise you'll be stuck and unable to move on.
@@irav1555 i told him from the very beginning we had smthing i can't explain... anyways i moved on and i am much better
"It makes me sick
how in love i was with you
The thing is i was never in love with you
I was in love with a version of you
A version i made up
The man you never were"
~i hope you think of me (book)
you love them,
you know you cant have them
but you still love them
edit: im so sorry for everyone under this comment
@@nixmorris-caputo4251 or someone who you've never even met but your soooo deeply in love with them but you can't ever have them:(
Yk what's sad. Me and him act like a couple. Even kissed. It's painful lmao. This ain't the coming of age movie I wanted
When I attended his wedding, I'm happy that he has someone 💜
fucking story of my life, lmao
@@crybxbyella6349 oh noo... It's hard to say this but: SAME. 🤧🤧
For anyone wondering you fall in love with fictional characters because throughout your life you haven’t been loved properly and you are looking for stability for security perhaps comfort and a fictional character can not “hurt you”, you are ok. Nothing is wrong with you. Have a good day love
thank you 🙌
So true
Thank you
They, They just make me happier.
None of us are perfect. Toxic positivity isn’t helpful either.
I love the songs that can make u even happier when ur in a good mood but can also get all of ur feelings out when ur down and depressed
I used to have dreams about a guy who I had heard about but had never actually met or really talked to before. He was so similar to me to a point where it was almost unsettling but it was just so amazing to listen to him talking. We had similar interests and a very similar humor. I was insanely in love with him and I always dreamt that we were living together you know, just spending time. And it felt so natural and comforting that I would think about it all the time and develop real feelings for that version of him that I had created in my head. In reality I didn‘t even know what he looked like but I didn’t care either. And I was actually convinced that eventually we would meet and that dream would become reality. I think that was now three years ago. He got cancer and died a few months ago. I was heartbroken for weeks. Even though I had never talked to him before. I couldn’t talk to anyone about it and since then just tried to forget it but I don’t think I ever really can…
That's beautiful and tragic at the same time :)
Mourning in secret is one of the most horrible feelings ever.
"Sehnsucht"
A german word.
The deep desire to have something or someone you know you cant have, but you cant stop it.
There's a german word for literally everything. That's amazing
And although you know you will never have it, nothing else makes you happier than longing for it.
Yes, Sehnsucht is a whole state of mind
that word describes me perfectly
Oh man I felt that deeply
As a german I can Tell you That it’s not just about a person, it can also be a place
A sad fact: We tend to fall in love with people who don't feel the same way towards us, but we tend to hurt the ones who truly love us..
😔😔
That's the way I always think, and that hurt me a bit more...
omg han sooyeong where's dokja (･o･;)
@@chunsungseo3146 ಠ_ಠ seriously? The universe seems like its laughing at me.
Human nature at it's best ;)
I made a poem about love. Not the love you think.
Its about someone who loves someone that doesn't love him back.
I love you.
My tears from the realization that you don't and will never feel the same have the feeling of the burning sand of the blazing desserts.
As my heart can be as cold as the frostbite inferno underneath the lakes of ice that are slowly melting away from the rotting world that still has billions of lives to make up,
I still love you.
Under the rotting of the world against us will never compare to our, or just my, love to you.
You are my world, and certainly not rottening.
Even when you feel like your insides are churning from the cries and wimpers that your life is a miserable melting pot of all this unwanted weight on your shoulders, I will help you find your place in this dying world, my love.
I love you.
Even thou my screams and tears of cry will never be comforted by your embraces or voice speaking to me in such a motherly tone I needed.
I will still love you.
Even though there are people out there that beat me to your taste of love, and may my love be the bitter to your sweet, and may they be the chocolate to your tongue.
I will always love you.
And may you forget about me, and replace our vivid memories of me admiring you from afar with the memories of your new family with your wedded husband and with the life you always dreamed for.
I will dream about you, my love.
I love you.
I will love you until the wick of life burns out to a crisp of left over wax.
I will love you until the orangish-red tree at dusk is never to shine again.
I will love you, till death do us part, as Romeo said.
I love you.
❤
🥺👌❤
Loving fictional characters is so bittersweet
“They told me that to make her fall in love, I had to make her laugh. But everytime she laughs, I’m the one who falls in love”
- Chandler Bing
Damn those likes XD, never been this famous b4🤤
Very true.
I don't remember him saying that but it's a good quote
@@thatgirl1785 he didnt, i found this on insta and it made me depressed and still dont know why :(
-ms chanandler bong*
This hurts 🤨
so i stick to fictional characters, because fictional characters can't hurt me the way any of them ever did or could.
Yup
Yes🥺
No, dont be content with not having what you deserve, thats not living
Go out there, try again and again, thats where the magic lies, being able to do it just because one day you will get someone that understands you, that gets you, that gives you everything you need and everything you ever wanted. Not everyone can give you that. Thats why it is so beautiful. So special.
@@teopapa2782 thank you. you just made my day :)
yeah same:) but the thought of them not being real just hurts so bad:
Unrequited Love - the cruelest feeling ever because people often invalidates it and you sound so insane when you talk about it even with close friends. It is often misinterpreted with "Unrequited Crush". The pain of Unrequited Love is deeper and immeasurable. It usually happens when you fell in love with a friend.
we accept the love we think we deserve 😊
We're both in love, the only difference is that it's not me that you're in love with.
o u c h
Wooow💔
😢
Our situations are same, the only difference is that yours is in love with someone, but mine is married.
It's about it
why is love so scary? i just can’t-
FR
fr
love isn't crazy, people are
FR
Finding yourself, doing the shits you said you would never do, but right now you do them happily... Yeah that's scary for me too
I love the first song, so melancholy and heart felt. Makes me think of a lost love who i recently found again.
I keep coming back to this playlist.
It makes me feel as tho I'm sobbing on the bathroom floor, weeping my heart out for a love who could not bloom.
❤
Kpop/ Kdrama stans, book lovers and anime stans lets gather here together. Sorry and the Hogwarts fans love ya all x
all kill
Dont forget hog warts 🥺🥺
:^
I identify with all those things. So I'll call on me, myself, and I lol
@@FaiGal same hahaha
im crying
because the version of you in my head
isn't real.
(edit) this was a short poem i wrote a while ago and it got so many likes omg thank u sm
ahhhhhhhh i feel this on a spiritual level
The sad reality
Ughh this ❤️❤️
this.
That hurt
I'm addicted to reading, n over the years I've read so many beautiful romance novels. It feels beautiful to read people falling in love so naturally, so passionately n so deeply. Sometimes it hurts so bad thinking I'll never be able to feel those kinda things, little butterflies, obsessive gaze n love that's addictive. Sometimes it hurts so bad thinking, dreaming, n praying for Love! Love from that one single person who knows exactly how to drop the beat of my heart just by existing.
I fall in love with someone so much, I created a reality where they'll eventually love me back.
But you know that's just a time bomb
And it hurts so bad
falling in love with someone i can’t have because i’ll always be the fat friend who’s “funny” and has a “nice personality”
same except im short, not fat
I really know how it feels to be the fat friend (you're also always seen as dumb for some reason).
I once loved a guy that i really thought he could've liked me back if i wasn't fat and ugly because everything was just perfect between us but he chose the pretty and skinny one, and i can't even blame him back then i thought that i didn't have the right to love anyone nor anyone can love me because I'm fat.
Hey, you’re beautiful inside out and someday the right person will appreciate it ❤️
@@melany1120 never ever think that you're not enough. Remember one thing, your "imperfections" don't define you. They define the person who sees you. Whether they see the whole you or they just see the "imperfections". He wasn't good enough for you. He'll never be.
@@benzenecarson6296 i know he'll never be he's dead anyways. Thank you for your really sweet comment😊💖that only shows how nice person you are 💕. I actually don't think the same way anymore i am recovering from depression and i worked on my mental health, am not that insecure about my self , that was just a period of my life that i think I'm almost aver it. I hope you are also doing well and happy cos you deserve it 😊❤.
im writing my homework to this and it feels as if im watching myself from an outsiders view. i am the main character nobody can tell me otherwise.
0.0
confidence
exactly you're the main character of your own life and thats amazing
girl same
Yes you are
To the person reading this, I just want to let it know that it gets better from here on
This playlist is completely suitable for a person who not only in a one-sided love but also tragically in lovesick mood
“Loving you is the most *beautiful* thing I’ve ever done.
Loving you is the most *painful* thing I’ve ever done.
Knowing that you will be *kissed* by *someone else,*
Is like being *immortal,*
When all you want to do...
Is to lay down and *die.”*
- Unrequited Love || K.Roberto
Hey army I just want to say I love you and stay strong 💜
Me to Kim Taehyung
Oof that shit hurts
Army I love you
well said my army friend💜i hope all of you are having a good time💜
i know he would have never loved me back, but i just wanted to dream about it for a little while. maybe in a distant parallel universe, you are here with me.
You're beautiful and can recognize true feelings, one day you'll find someone special who will recognize yours 💕
Jesus loves you, so do i ❤️💓🤍
same here
Ooh so deep😭❤️
Loving you is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I'm sorry I've hurt you. You deserve much MUCH more than the universe has to give. I hope someday, you'll be able to accept the love that you deserve
It was love from the first sight, everything was perfect about him,his ocean eyes,his sweet smile,his deep touching voice,his lovely soul, never met someone like him specially with his kindness towards this world, It's been year and i couldn't forget him , everytime i remember his details my heart beat fast like he's next to me,i know he won't have feelings for me ,they said the love is the best feeling,then why i feel this pain in my chest why my tears falls on her own , I'm ready to do anything to let go those feelings,i can't live in that illusion forever ,my first love is my biggest regret,i wish i didn't go that day i wish if i just went home but even so I'm grateful to not going home
sometimes we can't have something no matter how hard we try...
Tell him about your feelings. Ask about his. Write a letter or smth. Have a conversation. Don't spend years wondering 'what if'. Trust me you'll feel relief having made your feelings known. Because keeping them inside is so burdensome. Even after many years.
It's like you're reading my mind. I wrote the exact same thing about him. I can't stand this pain anymore. It hurts so bad I can't enjoy anything. I compare every guy to him. He was so special. I can't get over him. I don't want to think of him anymore but I just can't. It's something out of my control. I loved him. It's sad that he doesn't know how much I love him. I don't want this love anymore 💔
@@irav1555 i wrote him a letter it's long story (didn't say i love him in the letter but everything was equal to i love you)
@@user-xf1bn8ht6m i know this pain despite of being wanted by alot of cool guys and men they are perfect but i can't love them like the way i felt for him it was like a fairy tale never know how doesn't feel when you love someone until i met him
Has anyone ever fallen in love so much that they can't even be just friends with the person anymore? It hurts alot
I wish we were just friends but she didn't want to.
It hurts to love, honestly. It so unexplainable and unpredictable. Everytime I see them I feel as though I'm imploding? I guess is the way to say it.
@@Dogmaaa Butterflies can hurt people afterall...
we never talked before but I feel for him we''ve only glanced each other but I wish to know him more.
That was the plan.. until she started dating her “friend” that I figured I shouldn’t have worried about.. Always have trust but don’t trust too much.
i hate it when i have him in my dreams but when i wake up, i only have my tears.
but it feels great at the same time to see him loving you there, even when its not in real
@@seliniminim5465 trueeeeee
Especially at times where the dream feels so real that you allow yourself to finally let go of the breath you’ve been holding and feel all the happiness, just to wake up right back where you started.
@@seliniminim5465 the best feeling:(
The worst part is having to let go of both the person you liked and the version you created in your head for peace and closure
I'm okay with sad songs that make me feel emotions that I need to feel. If you never feel sad you will never feel happy. Feeling sad is part of our healing. Sending love to you and all that are feeling sad today.
he had a girlfriend, so i didn't say anything. i didn't want to put either of them in that awkward spot. so i waited, not for them to break up, but for me to let myself fall out of love. i felt like it was working, but then i'd think about him or see him at school and i was back to square one. i saw him last february, and in June, i decided to tell him after finding out that they'd broken up. i didnt' expect him to have someone else already, but he told me that he was "flattered, and interested, but he was seeing someone else." i swear i didn't know. she wanted him to block me, he didn't. i kind of wish he did bc then i wouldn't have to see all the posts of the two of them together. i could just unfollow him, but my heart doesn't let me. there's a rational part of me that thinks i don't deserve to be with someone who says they're interested in someone else when they're already seeing someone, but i can't bring myself to let him go. not yet. i don't know when, if ever. bc it's been four years already.
edit: for some unknown reason, this has become my most liked comment. it shocks me that so many people took time out of their day to read it, but i want to clear some things up. when you're in love, it"s hard to do the healthy thing of letting go. i do not want to be with him, but that does not mean that i don't long for him to at least acknowledge me. for me, it's always been more than just about being in love with him. i've explained it before as him being sort of like a safe person for me; if i'm upset or i’m having an anxiety attack or anything like that, the thought of him will calm me and put me at ease. unfollowing him is like letting go of all of that, letting go of the feeling of being safe. we weren’t necessarily "close", but we were friends. i'm not pursuing him, i'm not trying whatsoever for him, as someone replied. as a matter of fact, the last time i talked to him was when HE wished me a happy birthday a couple of months ago. the most interaction we have now is when we like each other's posts.
Lovely words thanks for sharing remember there is someone out there waiting for you to show up and change their whole lives
Mine situation is quite similar too.. I'm so sorry for you. I know what it feels like to love someone for 4 years, even if he has a girlfriend. But listen you'll find someone better that make u feel happy and feel u loved. I don't know when but It'll come. ❤️
well if she wants to block you then shes probobly got red flags in the relationship she brings. id say wait again, it might be painful but youve done it before. then again you could just distance yourself and try to move on to focus on yourself. "you have to love yourself in order to love others". if its true love then he will come to you if he chooses. he will be thinking about you and wonder if shes the one i deserve. patience is a virture. best of luck luv
same situation I’m in, you worded it perfectly
wow
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day! ^^
beautiful comment
i love u
you literally have no idea how much this means to me. i have had the crappiest day today, and reading this really made me feel better. youre right. tomorrow is a new chance. thank you for helping me remember that
Thank you
thank you so much
this helps sooo much
I just saw him once in the university and since then I can't stop thinking about him. What do they call it , love at the first sight? What's actually funny is that I always tell myself that love doesn't exist.
Falling in love with someone you can't have. That kills me inside. But than remember that world is cruel. And can't do anything with it. Feels like a corpse.
“We don’t read and write poetry because it’s cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race, and the human race is full of passion. And, medicine, law, business, engineering, these are all noble pursuit and necessary to sustain life, but poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.” -Dead Poets Society
This movie. I cried so much.
I'm still recovering from this....
AND MUSIC
These are the things we stay alive for!!!
@@miyumicaramel3312 what movie is this?
its like imagining a perfect relationship in my head that never existed.
right
:((
I do that everyday, imagine it every night just to be able to fall asleep, for comfort, I imagine being with a certain someone that I am so attached to but he himself could so easily forget me if he wanted to :/
Why do I always do that?:,)
@@deondrelowe5216 i do that too
You were untouchable and a warning rang in my head everytime I came too close. Like a beacon you drew me near, a flame that should be admired but not touched. I should've listened.