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  • @rxstrmom
    @rxstrmom Před 3 měsíci +77

    You know Nisha…many of us remember the day you got Luis and what a precious little furry ball of sweetness he was. I know that you will make the best decision for him and your family when it comes to his care..you always have. Our furbabies are our children. Give him even more love (if that is even possible) and enjoy every second with him. Patti

  • @jacquelinedonoghue2135
    @jacquelinedonoghue2135 Před 3 měsíci +72

    If Louis is happy and eating and playing that’s what matters. It is very stressful for an animal to be put out of their routine and operations don’t end with one visit as you know. By the sound of it he’s pain free now and don’t forget it’s a business for the vet and even though they have the skills to do the work necessary it’s not always best for the dog. Do what you FEEL is right. I send my love and feel for you 🌸

  • @pattymcnulty1332
    @pattymcnulty1332 Před 3 měsíci +60

    Just my opinion: Let Louie be happy and live the life he knows. My dog is 14 and a true member of the family! No health issues but as long as she is not in pain or suffering I am letting her be. Once you take quality of life away, be it human or animal, the spirit dies. It usually doesn’t come back. You are probably thinking that nobody understands how much you love Louie and how much she is a family member. Believe me, most of us do. If you decide to let her be, don’t feel guilty for that or feel you owe any explanation to anyone. Public opinion be damned! Whichever decision you make is made out of pure love. That’s all you need to know. Sending best wishes and prayers from Massachusetts.💕

  • @lynettefinnigan9540
    @lynettefinnigan9540 Před 3 měsíci +52

    Our dogs never live long enough, and our heart breaks when they pass, but they give us the best years of their life, and I remember what my family members went through with cancer, and I believed when ours was struggling to get up and stagger over to us when we got home,.. the kindest thing was to put her to sleep. I scream cried and couldn't stop it coming out, but we cry for ourselves, we cry because we miss them, we cry because death is a parting and it's hard to bear, but you remember their best years and you have that for ever ❤❤❤❤

  • @Melissa-mz3qu
    @Melissa-mz3qu Před 3 měsíci +63

    YES - I have had "kind of" this same sutation. One dog was 3, I spent thousands of dollars on a cancer that the vet felt that the chemo/surgery would be a 50/50 success rate. I did it, my dog was miserable for a month and did survive for an additional year. I didnt regret the surgery. Now, my next dog was 10 - was told he had cancer. I went with my gut and did nothing. He felt fine, running and playing. Then 9 months later it literally happened over night (3 days) he went downhill fast and passed. So, looking back both lived approximately 9 to 12 months but quality of life was better by doing nothing. Of course (before people come at me lol) it absolutely depends on every situation because let's face it - dogs are like people. Cancers are all very different and the response of healing is also different. Your gut tells you....either way it's a very tough decision. Your CZcams community is here for you - even way over here in VA- USA. Thoughts, prayers and love being sent your way.

    • @SugarPuffAndFluff
      @SugarPuffAndFluff  Před 3 měsíci +4

      Thank you x

    • @trixiegirlism
      @trixiegirlism Před 3 měsíci +14

      We had a 17 yr old cat with a cancerous tumor on inside of lip and although unrealistic because of his age, I couldn't imagine life without him. Your first instinct is you just want to fix it and make it go away because you love them so much. So spent thousands as well on surgery, etc. at a speciality clinic. They were unable to say if they had gotten all the cancer, but they had to take out so much of his jaw that it was extremely hard for him to eat and seemed painful when trying. He lived maybe six months longer before we had to let him go because he seemed in so much pain and stopped eating. Looking back, I wish I hadn't done the surgery, especially considering his age, and gone with gut as to when it was time to let him go. But as you say, each case is individual. Either way, it's heartbreaking, but we know we only have so much time with our pets, regardless of how the end is.

    • @Melissa-mz3qu
      @Melissa-mz3qu Před 3 měsíci +4

      @trixiegirlism awww it's so sad isn't it and so sorry:( But in the moment we do what feels right. We get so close to them - truly unconditional love.

    • @Animalluva
      @Animalluva Před 2 měsíci

      Yes I fully agree, the vet that operated on my boxer to remove a tumour,told me that it really isn't nice to put a dog through chemo/ radiation,it makes them feel so poorly, and it doesn't always guarantee it will prolong their life that much more. I'm so glad I didn't go down that road,and as I told Nisha, my boxer survived 3 years without treatment, they managed to get clear margins so I was really lucky.

  • @vanessalynch7003
    @vanessalynch7003 Před 3 měsíci +67

    Hi Nisha, You do what feels right for Louis and for you. I think your gut feeling is spot on. Sending kindness and sparkles ✨

  • @peggyweatherford4048
    @peggyweatherford4048 Před 3 měsíci +29

    Trust your instincts. You know what Louie can handle and what he can’t. I’m so sorry this is happening. We are here when you need to talk. Prayers for Louie. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lakelizard8145
    @lakelizard8145 Před 3 měsíci +13

    I know I would come to the same conclusion. I believe quality of life and your love is what is best for Louie. So many times we hear of vets who only see dollar signs because we are all ready to spend any amount, but then it's all to no avail. No guarantee at all. Just enjoy every day with him and be grateful you've been given this sweet and loving creature for however long it may be. All the best. ❤

  • @wendyweeks9624
    @wendyweeks9624 Před 3 měsíci +46

    I think your idea about discussing things with your vet is a marvellous idea to start with and then go the immune building /natural route. With you doing so much for him means he’ll be fine. Dogs…..they manage to worm their way into our hearts, don’t they and your darling Luis is really special. xx

  • @Sharon-hd8fg
    @Sharon-hd8fg Před 3 měsíci +15

    Nisha always trust your gut instinct. Louis is your baby and you noticed the lumps very quick and got a second vet. It could have been left and the outcome not as positive. Im praying from you and Paul and Louis. Soon as you posted this on a Sunday I think all your subs will panick.
    I know how much we love our fur babies and only want them to have the best loved life as possible 💕🐾♥️ take care xxx

  • @wandamclaughlin8405
    @wandamclaughlin8405 Před 3 měsíci +11

    So sorry to hear the results of the biopsy. I will add Louie and you guys to my prayers. As you mentioned, Louie is like your second son. I understand that. They are such a wonderful gift of constant unconditional love. Hang in there Nisha, you will make the right decision for Louie, you know him. ❤🙏

  • @Cherishartz
    @Cherishartz Před 3 měsíci +26

    Do what your heart tells you. Sending you and Louie big healing hugs ❤

  • @deborahlloyd2237
    @deborahlloyd2237 Před 3 měsíci +22

    I’m so sorry Nisha to hear about Luis. I prey for Luis to have a miraculous recovery. He is certainly very munch loved by you and his whole family. Bless you all 💗🌸

    • @me67226
      @me67226 Před měsícem

      Me too❤🌸💮🌺🌹💐🪻🌻🌷🪷🌸🏵️

  • @emm3687
    @emm3687 Před 3 měsíci +16

    Always trust your gut feeling Nisha it’s there for a reason x

  • @yvonnecoogan8287
    @yvonnecoogan8287 Před 3 měsíci +10

    So sorry to hear about Louie. Had you not seen the new vet you would be unaware of the cancer so perhaps you should accept that the cancer is slow growing and carry on giving him the best life. He is an older dog and is it fair to put him through invasive treatment and all the stress for him. Love and hugs to you both ❤

  • @taharris3964
    @taharris3964 Před 3 měsíci +15

    Hi Nisha so sorry to hear news about Louis we went through same with our labrador it was in his mouth as well, we decided to leave things as they were he was still eating going for walks ect he also hated going to vets so we just carried on till he looked poorly and then did the kindest thing for him, but he was well for quite a while it's heartbreaking you love them so much Xx

  • @SP-xg9xh
    @SP-xg9xh Před 2 měsíci +1

    So sorry to hear about Louie. Those of us who have had dogs and lost them know exactly what you are going through. You are right to trust your gut. Do what you think is best for Louie - He is your sweet pup and you know him best. Sending hugs and much love. Please do keep us posted. xoxo

  • @ruthdwinger4887
    @ruthdwinger4887 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Go with your gut feeling,
    It's your guides Nisha.
    Quality of life and lots of love is what he needs.
    Sending you all lots of love. They are our special family our beloved pets. 🙏

  • @Mommaslew
    @Mommaslew Před 3 měsíci +2

    Oh my, please do not apologize for anything. Your fur baby is such a huge part of your life. Love and hugs to you and Louie❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lisa-4770
    @lisa-4770 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This is so difficult Nisha. My heart goes out to you. I have gone through this with 3 pets. When I finally knew it was time to let go, it was gut wrenching. I had a vet come to my house because I couldn’t bear to have my pup trembling and terrified in her last moments. I petted her and told her what a good dog she was and praised her till the end. When she breathed her last, the vet said, “ and now, you can cry.” She comforted us by saying that so many don’t realize that if you are upset, the animal thinks they have done something wrong. It still brings me to tears to this day. All this to say, animals don’t think of the future. It is the right now that matters. If Louis is happy and healthy and eating and playing, I think your instincts are spot on to not have him suffer unnecessarily as he’s getting on in age. I had to let go when the quality of life was too hard for each of my beloved pets. Until that time,Louis has such a wonderful life!!! I hope this helps you. Sending hopes & prayers. 🙏🐾🐾💖💕💖

  • @deniseroach5066
    @deniseroach5066 Před 3 měsíci +8

    So sorry for the bad news on your fur baby! Sending prayers for his healing and for you on your decision making. Louies quality of life is what is important! May God bless you and your sweet family through this difficult time. Sending prayers and blessings!❤❤❤❤

  • @AngieHotandFlashy
    @AngieHotandFlashy Před 2 měsíci +4

    Oh Nisha, I'm so sorry to hear about Louie's diagnosis. I've been there and know what you're going through and how difficult it is to make these decisions. Sending love & hugs to you & Louie and the whole family. xo ~big sis

  • @user-gj2xc1kj6z
    @user-gj2xc1kj6z Před 3 měsíci +3

    Hello Nisha, I'm sure your instincts are correct about Louis's prognosis. You and Paul know what is best for him. Please trust your own judgement, and the obvious love you have for your dog. Let him live his best life. X

  • @lisaraeroman3736
    @lisaraeroman3736 Před 3 měsíci +4

    When the decision has to be made on treatments that affect the quality of your older pet’s life, I think it’s good to ask yourself, “who am I doing this for…me or my pet?” Whatever the answer to that question is, it will help make your decision. Praying for your family!

  • @Melissa55
    @Melissa55 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am so very sorry Nisha. Just so sorry. You have researched and are informed and that will help him. I do think it's good that his appetite is good and he's happy. And the supplements sound like a good idea. You will know what to do. It does sound like the news is a bit better than you had expected. But I so agree with giving him the best quality of life you can. And you know, quality of life is something to consider. Especially if you got a not great feeling from them. Oh I'm rambling, I know. I just want to find the right words to make you feel better and to let you know if you decide against chemo that you know best and it might be the best for Louie. I just love you to pieces and am so thinking about you and mentally holding your hand. Much love to your little guy. Love, Melissa

    • @SugarPuffAndFluff
      @SugarPuffAndFluff  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much Melissa, you might not know but I think about you all the time and always sending good vibes your way, Love ya xx

  • @lorraineelliott1546
    @lorraineelliott1546 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I’m so sorry Nisha. No words are enough. I’ll be praying for you all. Xx

  • @janetwatson1993
    @janetwatson1993 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hi Nisha, I know, without a doubt, that you will make the best decision for him. Your gut feeling is usually the right one. Your love, dedication, care and compassion for him is so commendable. He is so very lucky to have you for his Mom. Sending big hugs your way. Take care!

  • @helenaadams6687
    @helenaadams6687 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I am so sorry about the diagnosis. I have a small Yorkie and I can’t even imagine getting news like this. Go with your gut. You are doing the right thing.

  • @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436
    @ibelieveinangelsyesido7436 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Nisha, listen to your gut. Your plan sounds reasonable & I fully understand about his *quality of life*. Louis is a happy little guy, spoiled to pieces & we wouldn't have it any other way. My heart is with you all. Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY

  • @rattelsden
    @rattelsden Před 3 měsíci +3

    My sweet Audrey had very aggressive cancer and I tried the chemotherapy pills and they made her sick! I stopped after only one week and told my vet. She gave her steroid injections for quality of life and we had her with us for 8 more months. They were shocked that she was with us as long as she was. GO WITH YOUR GUT EVERY TIME!!! God bless!!!🙏❤️

  • @carolyn8320
    @carolyn8320 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Quality of life, quality of life that’s the most important thing for all of us, people and animals.

  • @junehouse3258
    @junehouse3258 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Oh Nisha, I feel for you. Our pets are our family and so precious to us. I totally agree that the main aim is for Louis to have a happy life and you said is is playfully, enjoys life & good appetite and hates stress. I sometimes think vets will only tell us the medical options and remember they are not emotionally attached. You & Paul will make the right decision together. Stay positive & I 100% think our gut feelings are the best. We KNOW are pets. Sending lots of hugs xx ❤

  • @laurabaerg8095
    @laurabaerg8095 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I’m so sorry Nisha! Our animals are a part of our family and mean so much to us. As far as treatment goes, you know Louis best and what is best for him and his quality of life. Take your time, talk to your vet who you feel comfortable with, and ultimately go with your gut and heart. I will be praying for you all!! ❤

  • @Lil-Owl
    @Lil-Owl Před 2 měsíci +1

    I totally agree with ' Preussens-Gloria' regarding alternative treatments and good wholesome food. In addition to this you might consider grooming Louie yourself? A grooming book and clippers are all you need. If not, consider a mobile groomer. We have a mobile vet that I can use for annual boosters. Maybe you have similar?It all helps reduce stress levels which can be helpful in this situation. Big hugs to you all.💕

  • @sandilang3845
    @sandilang3845 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Oh Nisha, I can feel your pain. 🙏ing for you, Paul and Louie. I too always go with my gut and it has never failed me.

  • @lady_v_101
    @lady_v_101 Před měsícem +1

    Sweet, kind, empathic Nisha, you were such a blessing for me when I was having treatment in Sept-Nov 2022 for my reoccurrence of cervical. Your videos, and chitchat vlogs made me feel less alone, like I had a friend with me in those darkest moments. Nisha, you've helped so many of us by providing an escape from our own issues, so let us be an escape for you. Don't ever apologise sweet Nisha, you can vlog to us all your feelings and fears, and we will be here with words of support and love. Little man will get through this, and the natural way will definitely help his quality of life (Chem-Rads after effects are hard for a human, let alone a lil pup)... May you get rest, and peace.. Much love from New Zealand xx Victoria. .

  • @lcspencer4494
    @lcspencer4494 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Louis has been a part of your videos for years & he has become a part of our family too. Like you said, trust your gut & give Louis the best quality of life you can. That is really all we can do. We will continue to love him for as long as possible. We are here to support you in your decisions & will be here through the good times & the hard times. Love you! ❤

  • @charlottegile1188
    @charlottegile1188 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Go with your gut. Stay with your regular vet and work from there. No matter what you decide, it’s obvious you only have his best interests at heart. ❤

  • @annaibbo65
    @annaibbo65 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Trust your gut Nisha and I think giving him the best quality of life gives him the best chance overall. Love and hugs to you and Paul and Louie xxxxx❤❤❤

  • @vallis1469
    @vallis1469 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My heart goes out to you, Nisha. Whatever you decide to do, it will be the right thing. Love from Ohio. xoxo

  • @DoreneT316
    @DoreneT316 Před 2 měsíci

    Prayers for Louie. Go with your gut. I had a kitty with cancer in his mouth, an intestinal cancer that isn't typically seen in the mouth. We removed the growth twice, I was told on the second surgery that we could remove part of the jaw bone to help increase the chances of getting it all, but that would not guarentee it wouldn't come back or spread, it would have also left him disfigured, he had already had all his teeth removed. I opted for just removal of the growth, no bone removal. I wasn't willing put him through chemo/radiation. We decided on using piroxicam (an NSAID) used to slow the progression of this type of cancer in cats. He lived just shy of 2 years after the second surgery, he was 12 years old. Whatever you decide will be the right choice for Louie and you. Everyday with your pet, especially after a diagnosis like cancer, is a blessing, enjoy all the moments you can with Louie.

  • @nickidolce637
    @nickidolce637 Před 3 měsíci +3

    My heart goes out to you regarding Louie. My hubby and I will pray for little Louie. You keep positive and stay strong for your Louie. He needs you now. Please know that all of your subscribers will be with you, Paul and Louie. We all send you much love.
    Best wishes to Louie,
    Nicki

  • @tracyschnepf2500
    @tracyschnepf2500 Před 3 měsíci +6

    ???? I got worried for a minute laying bed and see “Monday Vlog”, I panicked thinking I was late getting up for work, Hahah, then I realized it’s only Sunday. Happy Mothers Day Nisha!!
    I am so sorry Nisha to hear about Louie’s diagnosis, my prayers are with you. It’s so heartbreaking when something like this happens to our fur babies.

  • @ChristineB
    @ChristineB Před 2 měsíci

    You know Louis better than anyone. I fully understand how you are feeling and agree with giving him a quality of life. Your ideas are sound. Louis will let you know when he’s had enough. I hope he rallies and keeps healthy for a long time and no suffering xxx

  • @terrispencer7608
    @terrispencer7608 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I know how u r feeling. I had a cat that had cancer too. I’m praying for Louie, you and your husband. Stay strong ❤ from Arizona

  • @stuartpierce121
    @stuartpierce121 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Nisha I am sorry. Sending hugs Jennifer
    I know it hurts. I wish Louie and you all much love

  • @theresavitale5929
    @theresavitale5929 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’m so sorry to hear about Louie. I really hope that he gets well. He is a cutie. He looks just like my Vinny. Do what you feel comfortable with. I will keep you and Louie in my prayers. I know people are gonna jump all over me lol but I would let Louie live the rest of his life the way he is. Quality of life is better than quantity ❤️🙏🐾

  • @sallyrichardson6078
    @sallyrichardson6078 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Sending healing energy for Louie. From Australia 🇦🇺

  • @amandahough6182
    @amandahough6182 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Aww Nisha, (sorry I’ve been away for 3 weeks), I’m so sorry to hear about sweet Louis, it’s such an incredibly hard things to go through. We did it years ago, our beautiful girl who was 9 had leg cancer and they said either amputate but it was highly likely to come back, so we opted to let her live her best life and she let us know when she’d had enough…..very hard but my memories of her are happy ones not a dog that struggled with operations and medication. Sending you all my love xx

  • @barbd3488
    @barbd3488 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Dogs never live long enough. I know how hard it is. Go with your gut always. I agree with you quality of life is so important. Our pets are our kids!! Don’t listen to any negative remarks on people have no clue

  • @micheleramirez6769
    @micheleramirez6769 Před 2 měsíci

    Pray and trust your gut! I know you will make the right decision for Louie! He’s a blessed pup to have loving parents! Having gone through this journey with a beloved dog years back and last year with a beloved cat, I know how difficult it is. We also did our own research and were able to extend our cats life and quality of life. We saw the vet 5 times to no avail. Fortunately my husband is an avid researcher and we found ways to improve our cat’s longevity and quality of life. I will be praying for you for wisdom and healing for Louie! Trust your gut! Much love and hugs to you!! 😊🙏❤️

  • @bluebells7728
    @bluebells7728 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I got teary hearing about Louie, really sorry you're going through this. I've loved and lost many animals, and the one thing that I firmly believe in is, no vet knows your pet better than you do and by researching a LOT you will probably gather more useful information than they have simply because it will be broader in range and include alternative options.
    You might look into ivermectin, it has some good studies backing it for cancer treatment, also organic home cooked food is a good idea when his little body is fighting with all its strength. Essiac tea is also worth looking into. Many options out there, ultimately I believe life and healing come from God but he guides us to make the best choices.

  • @Mari-te4cc
    @Mari-te4cc Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am so sorry Nisha, you are connected to Louie deeper than anyone else and you know in your heart how much stress and pain he can tolerate or not. Trust yourself, the love you have for this dog will guide you to make the best choice. 🙏❤

  • @jillc9343
    @jillc9343 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I'm so sorry about his diagnosis! ❤ praying for you, Paul and Louie!

  • @JOO-vf8jz
    @JOO-vf8jz Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m so sorry your sweet Louis isn’t well. It breaks your heart to see them suffer. They love us unconditionally for their entire lives. I hope the clinic can help him. Good to hear he’s playful and happy.

  • @mmn1442
    @mmn1442 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Follow your heart. Don't feel pressured to make a decision you will regret. Praying for you

  • @lauragentry2361
    @lauragentry2361 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey Nisha, I'm so sorry to hear about Louie! I agree with you to consult Louie's vet before making any decisions. I went thru cancer with my fur baby last year. It's one of the toughest and hardest things to go thru. After researching on your own and talking to his vet, you will know what to do. Hopefully the cancer was caught early and Louie will have a great outcome 😊😊 Prayers for Louie's health and for you and Paul to be able to make the best decision ❤ Give Louie extra hugs for me❤

  • @keelaeldridge8487
    @keelaeldridge8487 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So sorry to hear about Louie! It is a very difficult situation! You will do what you should, the love for him will get you thru!

  • @sunbmr73
    @sunbmr73 Před 27 dny

    So sorry about the news. I hate to see animals suffer. My horse was sick on and off for 2 years and I would give him his medicine with a little 100% pumpkin from a can. He loved it. Cancer loves sugar so hopefully the jello shots with medicine is sugar free. But pumpkin mixes very well with any powder medicine. You know your dog
    better than anyone and just enjoy each and everyday. He is a blessing. Sweet dog.

  • @roxannerutherford3524
    @roxannerutherford3524 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Nisha, we just recently went through this with our dog. He was diagnosed with cancer in May 2023. He was 11 years old. Doctor gave him Prednisone and pain meds and he did well for 7 months. He started going down right after Christmas and quit eating. That was our sign to help him cross the rainbow bridge. He passed Dec 30, 2023. We are still missing him terribly every day but I was thankful for that 7 months to spoil him and prepare for the day that we would dread.Even though nothing really prepares you. Our fur babies are family.Follow your heart on what to do. Much love and hugs being sent your way.❤🙏❤

  • @meckismicki
    @meckismicki Před 3 měsíci +2

    Praying that all goes well for Louie. You are so right It's about the quality of life that matters. We all know Louie is your baby and this is devastating for you. We also know that you have given Louie the best life & spoil him! Positive Vibes for Louie!

  • @lolapiece9282
    @lolapiece9282 Před měsícem +1

    Sorry to hear what your going through.
    My cat had a similar tumour I thought having her having the Surgery we were giving her the best chance possible.
    My biggest regret ever 😢 She never fully recovered from the surgery with her stitches she was in pain and I was told they cut it all out but 6 weeks later the cancer came back with a vengeance. Prior to surgery she was having a good quality of life I wish I had left her . Every experience is different though so what you feel is best .

  • @jacquelinealexander4647
    @jacquelinealexander4647 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Aw Nisha, i'm so sorry to hear about Louie's diagnosis, my heart goes out to you but I think it's encouraging that his bloods are normal & he's his happy wee self. Fingers crossed things go well. 🤞🏻He's lucky to have such a loving family that will do everything in his best interest, sending hugs & best wishes 🐾💐💖xx

  • @ivanavaskova9458
    @ivanavaskova9458 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My heart goes to Loui you and Paul. You both will make the right choice with what is best for Loui. Stay strong and positive. Sending love ❤❤❤

  • @brendav8666
    @brendav8666 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m so sorry your sweet Louie has this diagnosis, but I think you are approaching it the right way by doing what your gut tells you is best for him. Sending hugs and prayers he will continue to be happy and playful with your loving care.❤

  • @SRAshley100
    @SRAshley100 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am so sorry you received this kind of news. I love my dogs so much and can only imagine how devastated you are. I agree to go by your gut feeling and also to making his life as comfortable as possible. I have a 10 year old Chihuahua and it would be very difficult for me to put her through something like that at her age. God bless yours and Paul’s hearts and prayers for little. Louie! x

  • @ellenbryant7679
    @ellenbryant7679 Před 3 měsíci +1

    HI, our Dog's are basically our children, especially when you are Empty Nesters. So, it's your decision what you think is best for Louie. XOXO to Louie, You and Paul!!

  • @kathleenfeldmann8605
    @kathleenfeldmann8605 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Praying for healing for your sweet puppy . I pray for you to have the strength to deal with all of this.

  • @debf2487
    @debf2487 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤ My heart is with you and Louis. I've been watching you since he was 5 or 6 months old. 🙏 Much love to all of you.

  • @IRC1026
    @IRC1026 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nisha... my heart goes out to you and Paul. No one should doubt for even a second that whatever decisions you and Paul make, it'll be the best decision for LOUIE since we all know how special Louie is to you and how much you love him. Sending prayers and hugs...xoxoxo

  • @magdalenaxo1
    @magdalenaxo1 Před 2 měsíci

    Best of luck Nisha! ❤

  • @cherryblossom6087
    @cherryblossom6087 Před 3 měsíci +3

    My 8 year old dog got cancer gave him Rick Simpson oil CBD pure, Apricot seeds (you need to crush them), Molasses, Bi Catbonate of Soda, Shilajit, and meat only diet he is 12 now and quite happy as a little old man🙌🙏 These things are for us too don’t give up and try a natural approach before anything else l was ready to put my baby to sleep lm so Thankful l didn’t Do not give up Dogs on meat only diets can live to beyond 17 Sending much Love X Forgot Turkey tail mushrooms you are on the right track with them studies have been shown that they work can’t think of his name but Paul something mushroom guy knows his stuff Wishing you all the best🙏

  • @mystabench
    @mystabench Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nisha, I’m so sorry I know words can’t express how much you’re hurting right now. I sending prayers for your family and Louie. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @kimfromarkansas2084
    @kimfromarkansas2084 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m so very sorry about sweet Louie. It’s so very difficult when our babies get sick, they are our family members and we love them dearly. Love and prayers for sweet Louie, and you and your husband 🙏💕

  • @collyf6010
    @collyf6010 Před 3 měsíci +2

    So sorry about Luis. As long as he is happy, eating, pooping etc. Just go on with your normal ways with him. As someone else commented for a vet it's a business and yes it will cost a fortune and is awful for your doggy. Don't put Luiz through lots of xtress

  • @leinehm.154
    @leinehm.154 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m so sorry about what you are going through. I agree with you, best quality of life for him. Just wait and talk to his vet. ❤️

  • @burnzz100
    @burnzz100 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Oh Nisha…I feel your pain. I’ve been through it. Maintain hope don’t think the worse. My girl had a lump removed off her eye which was cancerous but it has probably spread. She feels fine and I’m not putting her through all the options and treatments. She is happy and enjoying life 6 months out and no change. Hang in there❤️

  • @KarenAnn-pk2ow
    @KarenAnn-pk2ow Před 3 měsíci +4

    So sorry Nisha with the shocking news about Louis. Try to keep positive and let’s hope they have caught it early and the lump is removed 🙏 sending love and positive vibes to you all 😘 xx

  • @kiwiang983
    @kiwiang983 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Nisha, we had a beautiful, loved Jack Russell. To cut a long story short, when he was 10 years old, we were told he had cancer. There were no outward signs. It was found on blood tests he had when he went in for tooth extraction. Some markers were very high, so the tests went on from there. As I said, I am cutting the story very short. We decided against chemotherapy, as he was happy, playful, eating and drinking and toilet, all good. There was no sign at all of pain or discomfort or tiredness.
    After much thought, we decided against chemo.
    We decided to let him have quality of life over quantity.
    We decided that when his time came, we would know, and it definitely was not yet !
    We were extra vigilant to watch out for any type of suffering that could occur.
    That dog lived a lovely life for another five years.
    Then he started to wind down. He became distant, lethargic and vomited a lot ( cancer or old age, who knows) on his last night, he vomited on and off for hours, no energy , in fact it was a pretty quick demise.
    We knew it was time and we were not going to allow any suffering for him at all, so we took him to the vet, held him in our arms and kissed and stroked his beautiful head. Within 15 seconds he peacefully passed.
    But without the chemotherapy and the vet visits, which he hated, he actually lived to a ripe old age, and a quality happy old age at that.
    You love Louis so much, I’m sure you will make the right decision for him.❤🌹

  • @cherob2182
    @cherob2182 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Prayers for your sweet pup. Praying for you too. I know it’s so hard to make these difficult decisions. You know that whatever you decide, you are making your decision with love. As a 2 time cancer survivor, I think it would be really hard to put my dog through the treatments we humans go through. You know your dog better than anyone. ❤

  • @carolequine2345
    @carolequine2345 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Sending you Paul and Louis lots of love ❤️ My heart dropped when you said those words about Louis and I just know that you will always put him first, you always have done. ❤

  • @Glammums
    @Glammums Před 3 měsíci

    Listening to your inner voice is the best medicine for him. You know him far more than any Dr. sending love. Xx

  • @marygrise8490
    @marygrise8490 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I completely understand. I do not have a dog with cancer but I have been diagnosed with two types of cancer within the last 6 years. I am 59 and the first thing I said was I am not doing kemo. If I were younger I probably would do it, but I was not in pain and I am almost 60. All I want is peace and calmn. It’s not about any one else except the person who has to go through it! I was fortunate enough not to have to make that decision. I had to take a pill that killed the cells. I know that you and your husband will make the right decision. Prayers and hugs going your way!!

  • @suzannetennent3804
    @suzannetennent3804 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Oh Nisha I'm so very sorry to hear the news about Louis. Just go with your gut feeling & stay strong. I watched my sister's 12yr old dog go thru Chemo and it was just heartwrenching. Sending positive energy to you and Paul Xx

  • @missen123
    @missen123 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Follow your instinct thats always good ,you now him the best 🥰♥️♥️

  • @gloriousharmony6208
    @gloriousharmony6208 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Follow your gut feeling, sounds like the best you can humanely do is try the natural way. He has had a great life with loving humans.

  • @GladBurgio
    @GladBurgio Před 3 měsíci +2

    Follow your gut, Nisha. Hugs to you all.❤

  • @maggielunde106
    @maggielunde106 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My heart bleeds for you. I also had a similar situation, my little dog at 4 years was diagnosed with cancer - we made the decision to keep her as comfortable as possible and elected not to do any type of chemo. A very very difficult decision but I know it was the right one. Enjoy every day with him and make lots of wonderful memories ❤

  • @southernsass7624
    @southernsass7624 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So sorry to hear about Louie❤Will keep you in my prayers.I hope things go well.

  • @cathyvitale3670
    @cathyvitale3670 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Prayers for Louis, do what you feel is best, I wouldn't put him through another surgery poor little guy! Hang in there!

  • @danidanielski459
    @danidanielski459 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Oh Nisha! I am crying to hear the news about Louis. I have a dog, too, and understand exactly how you feel. Louis’s quality of life is most important, so I feel you should definitely follow your gut feeling on this. A mother’s intuition is powerful. Listen to it as you have always done. Sending much love and hugs to all of you. ❤️xoxo❤️

  • @07212512
    @07212512 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Happy Mother’s Day Nisha! Sorry to hear the news of your lovely Louie stay strong he will be okay xx❤

  • @deb28chantel78
    @deb28chantel78 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Dear Nisha! I am so sorry to hear about little louis! Sending you all much love & prayers and I really hope all goes well with him! 🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @juliegombos3315
    @juliegombos3315 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Hi Nisha,
    I very rarely comment but feel compelled to share my story with you. I’m so very sorry to hear about your precious boy. 😢 my little man, the absolute sunshine of my life was misdiagnosed. After noticing his glands were swollen I took him for a biopsy. Came back clear but in my gut I knew that was wrong. Asked for a 2nd one plus an ultrasound. As I guessed, positive for lymphoma. The ugly tra sound also showed a lesion on his spleen and a gut issue, which I can’t remember what it was now. I was at work when I got the call and was rudely told to palliative him. They said there was nothing they could do. He was 12 at the time and besides this diagnosis, was a very healthy, happy 12 year old. I was completely devastated and immediately rang my son who is a registered nurse. He met me at the vet to pick up my baby and told the vet that we wanted a referral to an oncology team. Well, my goodness! Absolute best thing we could have done. We were able to make an appointment for the following week. But the next morning he was very flat and not himself so off we went to the emergency animal hospital who immediately did and ultrasound and found he had internal bleeding from the spleen. The incompetent vet ignored that the day earlier. 😡. The lovely man told me he needed an immediate blood transfusion and we would worry about the rest once he was stable. I was able to see him in a couple of hours and he had definitely perked up. The vet confirmed the gut issues….something about sludge or something in I gut. He said let’s just not worry about that and keep an eye on it as it could well be an issue he’s been living with for years and may not be problematic. I still can’t remember the medical term for it. He was immediately put on a chemotherapy protocol which automatically puts dogs with lymphoma in remission. The odds were not what I liked to hear, though… 12 - 18 months at most. Now,I wouldn’t even consider putting my baby through chemo to get another year with him had I not been assured that dogs tolerate chemo much better than us humans. And I found that to be true. He was on weekly injections and daily meds which over time became less. 6 months in they found the cancer had returned. I was told they have 3 chances with a specific ‘rescue drug’ so we started a new round. This time he stayed in remission. It wasn’t all plain sailing but I absolutely have no regrets. He eventually came off all drugs and had monthly check ups. He gave me another 5 beautiful years of his love. The chemo had aged him, though. He needed to have teeth cleaned and removed due to the chemo. Yet still, he soldiered on. His eyesight went downhill and I became worried. I was assured dogs adapt to blindness very easily. He did. While he continued to be happy and showed no signs of pain, I was prepared to do whatever it took to allow him to stay with me. I told him daily that if he wanted to let go, it was ok. I couldn’t be selfish and make him hang on just for my own sake. He continued to eat well, drink, play and go for walks even though I noticed him slowing down. He developed a hematoma on his ear and I took him to have it lanced. Before doing so, I asked the vet to check his remaining teeth. They were all bad and I asked if he would be in any pain. Yes. So then and there I knew what I had to do. The little darling wouldn’t tell me. He didn’t want to. But I knew what was best for him, even though it wasn’t for me. He is my hero. He gave me a further 5 years after being diagnosed. Soi guess I’m sharing my story for you to have another perspective and something to think about. Perhaps you might like to give your baby a chance like I did and if at any time you find it’s not working, or he is suffering, then you know what to do. I haven’t yet watched this video. I jumped straight to the comments to see if my guess was correct, so I apologise if I’ve said anything that isn’t relevant to you at this time. I hope my story has given you some hope. All the best to you and the precious baby boy. 💙💙💙

    • @Sue-np9fp
      @Sue-np9fp Před 3 měsíci +4

      Gosh! That must have been SO painful for you to write. Your love for your beautiful boy, shines through! He sounds like a real fighter-I really believe that animals sense 'you are in their corner', and I'm sure, your boy must have known that, too; YOU were his Hero! I hope you have some comfort, in knowing that. love sue xxx

    • @SugarPuffAndFluff
      @SugarPuffAndFluff  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Thank you for sharing your story x

    • @Vivienne147
      @Vivienne147 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Appreciate what you’re going Neisha….my Yorkie Rafa crossed the 🌈Bridge in August….he had a heart condition. Like you I researched everything & used lots of natural remedies, which were helpful. Have you tried CBD Oil (you can get it for dogs) helps them relax & also Rescue Remedy was helpful…..thinking of you, & yes, we do love them like children xxx 🙏🌺

    • @juliegombos3315
      @juliegombos3315 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Sue-np9fpthank you so much. You’re right. It’s still not easy for me to talk about. He was such a huge part of my life and I miss him terribly. I just wanted to share with Nisha to let her know that I understand what she’s going through. I’ve since watched her video and my heart breaks for her. I realise it’s a very personal decision and I’m sure she will do what she feels is best for her beautiful boy. I understand not everyone will take the same route as I did and like my oncologist said to me….there is no right or wrong way in this situation. Thank you so much for your kind and loving words! What you said was beautiful. ❤️

    • @juliegombos3315
      @juliegombos3315 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Vivienne147I’m sorry to hear about your little bubba. It’s such a heart breaking time. You mentioned CBD oil and I have to say I’m a firm believer in it too. My mum has her dog on it for arthritis and the difference it has made to her mobility is just amazing. My son who is a nurse manager also has his little man on it following back surgery which left him almost unable to walk. The CBD oil has made such difference to him, also. 😊

  • @txarte6883
    @txarte6883 Před 2 měsíci

    Nisha, never apologize for what you are going through especially when it involves something as sensitive as your sweet and adorable Louis. Ive watched this little guy grow up!! I think i can speak for not just myself when i say we all love and adore him and we know how difficult this is for you and Paul. So stay strong and positive and enjoy his fun energy. Dogs are sensitive to our energies and know when we are sad and upset although its very understandable why. Sending you and Paul love and hugs from the great state of Texas!

  • @gailwall1585
    @gailwall1585 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I'm so sorry to hear about Louis😢 I feel for you and know exactly how you are feeling. I'll keep you in my prayers. Lots of cuddles to Louis and a big hug to you!

  • @GeminiCaron
    @GeminiCaron Před 3 měsíci

    All the best for Louie and your family xx😊

  • @marcialane8235
    @marcialane8235 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Our golden retriever had cancer in his hip at age 10, he felt fine as far as we could tell ( if only they could talk) and lived til 13 being his normal happy self, then one day he wanted to go outside and he laid down facing the fence and wouldn’t get up, he had pain that day as he whimpered, we had a vet come to the house who said he was passing and he gave him a shot that relieved his cries and he passed. Looking back I wouldn’t have done anything different. Prayers for Louie.

  • @phoebepurvis3630
    @phoebepurvis3630 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Lou has such a lovely, happy life with you and Paul surround by LOVE. Sending you all lots of love

  • @angelawallis8738
    @angelawallis8738 Před 3 měsíci +2

    ❤❤oh Nisha I am so sorry,🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻for you and Paul and precious Louis!!! Go with your gut always it there for a reason. I was so happy when you changed vets. I have been reading a lot about dog toys as well tennis balls, the plastic in there toys , you think about us plastic everywhere in everything . And as adults look at the cancer in us , just something to think about I threw away all my dogs tennis balls 🎾!I will be praying for you Paul and that precious louis! You take all the time you need we will be here!❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻