Can You Love Deeply While Holding Trauma ft. Dr. Gabor Maté on Love, Trauma, and Loneliness?
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
- LOVE, TRAUMA And LONELINESS: Can You Love Deeply Holding Trauma? Dr. Gabor Maté
Hi welcome! YOUR INNER CHILD Matters. I'm a nurse, a mother, and a video editor. I'm passionate about sharing mental health awareness, parenting, and health education, and I created this channel with the mission and hope of motivating and helping anybody who is going through a difficult time.
Dr. Gabor Mate talks about trauma and love in this video. We learn about his opinions about the medical field, including the gap between the modern medical profession's understanding of the mind and body, its lack of training in the treatment of trauma, and its lack of attention to the patient's emotional well-being. Also, they talk about diseases, how they relate to beliefs, and sacred agony.
🔍 Key topics covered include:
00:06 💔 Love, trauma, and completeness:
Love can coexist with trauma, but unresolved trauma hinders complete love and trust, affecting self-love and relationships.
01:54 🧠 Understanding trauma:
Trauma, a persistent psychological wound, impacts physical and mental health, leading to chronic diseases, mental health issues, and dysfunctional behaviors. Despite its prevalence, it remains poorly understood and addressed.
04:16 🤯 Mind-body separation in medicine:
Western medicine often neglects the emotional origins of physical symptoms, focusing instead on physical issues. Medical professionals themselves may experience trauma, which is rarely addressed in their training.
05:41 😔 Loneliness and health:
Loneliness, exacerbated by cultural shifts towards individualism, leads to increased health risks and lower immunity. Strong social connections can promote better health outcomes and resilience.
07:17 👥 Social connections and health outcomes:
Close-knit relationships improve health outcomes, while isolation increases disease risk. Childhood personality traits and coping mechanisms influence adult health outcomes.
Dr. Gabor Maté will give his expert insight, personal experiences, and concrete recommendations to help you heal, connect, and love more profoundly in this informative video. Dr. Gabor Maté will give his expert insight, personal experiences, and concrete recommendations to help you heal, connect, and love more profoundly in this informative discussion.
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❣ Credits: Very Special Thanks To 🎤 Speaker: Dr. Gabor Mate and
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32 year old male here with rheumatoid arthritis. Just finished my CrossFit class and am not on medication. Every workout I get through without pain and inflammation is a victory. Mind body connection is real.
thank you for watching and sharing your insights. Hoping and praying for your full recovery, bless you
I'm indigenous first nation's Mohawk. My people are rapidly disconnecting the more "social media" is wide spread more n more. I hate social media. I try to integrate with my siblings and it's like prying teeth out. Everyone is so busy, yet they're on these dam phones 📱 24/7. I only watch CZcams videos 📹 to learn. My people are dying younger n more frequent. I'm 47. I'm doing my inner work and trying to heal as I suffered trauma, abandonment, neglect and physical abuse. It began affecting my life around 36. This world is too fast pace n go go go. It sucks. We're not machines or designed for this type of living.
Whats so lonely about trauma is that no one understands. Not only are no two traumas the same, ppl differ in how they respond. So many ppl over the yrs have told me to just forget the trauma and focus on the now. There is a great deal of ignorance out there.
Trauma is deeply personal and individual to each person. It's painful that some individuals struggle to fully understand its complexity. Your comments highlighted the significance of empathy and understanding. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Yes I often found myself saying out loud "nobody understands me'.
I tried to find emdr therapy but I'm so scared to be labelled and misinterpreted that I rather stay close to myself, until I find a therapist I will feel safe with.
I will pay for it myself instead of via insurance bc I don't trust that system (they have to give you a diagnose to get coverage from your insurance).
Sexual violence emotional abuse and atm in between jobs bc of it all.
I also start to dislike myself bc I don't want to become that person with her story.
What I do know is I feel tired and abandoned bc most people don't care.
My inner critucus: you talk like a victim keep your mouth shut plz.
That's my inner dialoge 😊
I am applying for another job atm but I rather stay in my bubble.
I tell myself it's ok and I will come out of this season.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650pls connect to a counsellor or other professional to help you. You've got to trust someone or stay stuck. All the best!
As a person who went through the entire length of the difficult journey to heal the child in me , I am sorry to tell you, but in my opinion you are completely wrong.
1. All traumas are indeed different, but the result of all of them is the same, self-destruction. both physical and mental.
why? Because the feeling "you are not worthy", was soaked in the bones of the child inside us.
2. If you addressed any person, his form of reference will be the way he relates to the pain inside him: "ignore", "get over it" and the like. You need to reach out to people who have already walked the path you are interested in walking. For example, if you are an addict who wants to get off drugs, you will probably turn to people who have gotten off drugs. Only a person who has gone through the journey to the open wound in the soul of the child inside and healed it, can understand, can listen and can help you.
Only a person who found the wound in the heart of the child inside him, and healed him. Only he can help you.
True, the road is unbearably difficult and full of mines and demons from outside and inside, but pay attention to the doctor's lectures and podcasts online. It is abundantly clear that he has made this journey and is laying out before everyone how they can do it too, if they wish to....
Luckily, i did not develop any of the symptoms said about trauma. My self esteem is intact, and I never developed addictions of any sort...don't ask me why. Maybe bc my parents never had any, either. I will say, however, more people than not develop self esteem issues, etc...both my parents were brutal and disinterested in me, and i had nowhere to go as a little kid, bc no sibs. The abuse lasted 16 yrs, but I always knew deep down I didn't deserve the treatment I got...that is perhaps why I am not as damaged psychologically as a lot of ppl. However, my body kept score.i now suffer with chronic, debilitating fatigue due to HPA axis dysregulation...NOT FUN!
It sounds like Italian people have it right. There is NOTHING weird about being large family oriented.❤. Sounds healthy.
Absolutely! You are completely correct! It's great to see how important family is in Italian society. Large Italian families are admired for their support, affection, and connection. It's a lovely reminder that being family-oriented is not only healthy, but also enhances our lives in a variety of ways. ❤️ Thank you for taking the time to appreciate this lovely piece of Italian culture! 💕🙏✨
I'm Asian and also have a large family, but they're pretty toxic and not v understanding or supportive.what of you feel you don't fit into your family?
@@shazana2794 If they are toxic, then obviously, it is NOT good to live with them. You could be in danger.
Very true, with trauma deep love is possible, but not complete love. Very significant.
thank you for watching and thanks for sharing your thoughts, bless you...
Thank you for all your videos.
My pleasure!, thanks for always watching. Sending virtual hugs, bless you dear!
Wonderfully Profound… thank you for Articulating and Conveying this so Well.
Glad it was helpful💫💕🙏✨💖
Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤
Italian here, thanks for sharing this❤️
Thanks for watching!
I developed psoriasis but dont think it was from childhood trauma. I was never so much as even yelled at by either of my parents. I was with an abusive husband wirh a controlling mother who tried getting control of me. It was until i left the rash on my foot disappeared, my back pain went away, my anxiety went away. I definitely say its from trauma, but not always childhood
I'm sorry to hear about your experiences, but I'm glad to hear that your symptoms improved after leaving that toxic environment. It's important to recognize that trauma can come from various sources, not just childhood experiences. Take care of yourself and keep focusing on your healing journey.
1. She is a people please
2. She has trouble saying No
3.She has difficulty being angry in a healthy way
4.She tended to believe that she was responsible for what people feel and she put other people's ahead of her own.
Wow
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thank you
Not only do I have MS, but so does my cousin. We are of German descent.
How to let go of our personal identities and feel one with the world🙏✨💖
The female he was talking about and how he describes her, I felt he was talking about me… only child away from cousins my age living in different city… what’s the solution? I have been always struggling with those symptoms!
Your comment really resonated to me. It's impressive how the words of another may make us feel understood. You appear to be dealing with a common challenge. Connecting with others who have had similar experiences, whether online or through local groups, may help you find the understanding and support you need. Keep in mind that you are not alone on this path💖 💖 💖
@@yourinnerchildmattersthank you ❤
@@amalhassar4175 💖💖💖
Thinking of Tina here: what's Love got to do with it?
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So true. Love doesn't cause trauma, it's the absence of Love that does
@@tigreza77 in adulthood self love is most important..
who on the planet, doesnt have any trauma?
Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment on my CZcams video! While it is uncommon to find anyone on this world who has not experienced some type of trauma, it is important to remember that everyone's life journey is different. Trauma may appear in a variety of ways and impact people differently. Some people may have been fortunate to enjoy relatively trauma-free lives, whereas others may have faced difficulties and hardships. It is important that we approach this topic with empathy, acknowledging that trauma is a common human experience and that those who have experienced it require help and understanding. Let us work together to create a caring environment in which we may all learn and grow.
Possibly a handful of enlightened beings.
It's not about trauma, it's about the support and connection you get from people that care
It's about whether or not you dealt with it and was able to express it or not. If you suppressed it, it will come out physically. It has to come out somehow. Another example was princess Di, she developed bulimia and even admitted that was the only way she could expression it and let her anger out.
I'm indigenous first nation's Mohawk. My people are rapidly disconnecting the more "social media" is wide spread more n more. I hate social media. I try to integrate with my siblings and it's like prying teeth out. Everyone is so busy, yet they're on these dam phones 📱 24/7. I only watch CZcams videos 📹 to learn. My people are dying younger n more frequent. I'm 47. I'm doing my inner work and trying to heal as I suffered trauma, abandonment, neglect and physical abuse. It began affecting my life around 36. This world is too fast pace n go go go. It sucks. We're not machines or designed for this type of living.
I appreciate you opening up and sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to confront the traumas and challenges we've faced. Keep doing your inner work and healing, and remember that you're not alone on this journey. It is great that you are using CZcams as a platform for learning and growth.