What Men Need MOST! Dr. John Gray
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- čas přidán 27. 11. 2021
- John Gray of MarsVenus fame and author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus shares what men want and need most in a relationship and how they fall in love. When women understand they can get more of their needs met, find love and experience greater intimacy with their boyfriends, partners or husbands.
Dr. John Gray shares how men connect with women and how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her! When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
Want to know what makes a man fall in love? John Gray says a key for a woman's happiness is to be in a receptive energy and be open to what a man can give to you. If you, as a woman, are giving too much to a man, you are unlikely to attract a high-quality masculine man. This is why learning more about how to invite his attention with your feminine energy is important as is balancing giving and receiving. If you are a single woman or woman in a relationship or marriage and want to enjoy a great relationship with a man, then polarity between a man and woman are essential! If a woman is showing up with masculine energy and like she is the better man it can be very hard for a man to feel attraction. Dr. John Gray from Mars Venus fame and author of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus answers this question about men and women and what his advice is so that you can enjoy a loving, passionate, committed partnership relationship or marriage with the right man for you.
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I love how Dr Gray says "Anytime she wants me to cook for her, I'll do that. I'll take you out to the restaurant"...This gave me a great chuckle. When I'm taken out for dinner I ALWAYS say "You're such a great cook handsome! You can "cook" for me anytime!"..LOL
That's a very funny comment from John and a great comment from you too Kim! Thanks so much for watching and for your comment too! :-)
How about just cook for her why wait till she has to ask??
@@kjnest YES, I'd never ask but I sure would love it and be thankful for it!
Exactly. The number one problem about women is that they over give. They need to set boundaries on how much they would invest.
Giving Less ~ Receiving More 💥
Whoa! I never knew the correlation with women, masculine energy and food.
For YEARS, I operated heavily in my masculine energy, not by choice, but by conditioning - childhood and previous marriage and I HAD a very toxic relationship with food. As I have healed and continue to work through my traumas I now naturally operate more in my feminine and my relationship with food is SO different now.
I had a man tell me that he loves massages, home cooked meals, & someone to look after him....I replied I like massages, too, but I like being taken out to dinners, doors opened for me, & to be cared & looked after, as well. 1 Corinthians 7:3
I don't care if a man opens a door for me or not.
I’m with you!! I took care of my sisters and brother, then I took care of parents and also my home and daughter. I continue taking care of me and family and friends..if I had a companion we take care of each other or it won’t happen. I have had enough of selfishness already 💝📚📝
Guess you met Bruce too.
@@kristin1533 i don't either unless it's a hot stranger lol 😅
And what was his answer to that ?
wow i think michelle and john are 2 of the friendliest people on the internet lol
I just feel the relationship/dating world is so lopsided. There is so much advice on what women need to do to get a man, keep a man, treat him right et cetera yet there is no real equivalent for men. Men can suppress their hurt feelings and nrver address their own emotional amd mental.needs because we women are always being taught to accommodate them even when they lack communication skills or an ability to love. I love Dr. Gray and I respect his advice but am at a point I just feel men also need to have the straight talk about evolving emotionally and not just relying on women doing all the adjustments in relationships and constantly work on ourselves to become better partners for people that don't even want or know that they too should do the internal work.
I think that women are disconnecting from and decentering men because it feels exhausting, frankly.
Ha! And here I am, sitting here eating a dish of ice cream!
you are the sweetest interviewer Michelle, you are wise and generous and well you are just awesome. Thank you❤️✝️😇
Wow, thank you! What a kind comment! Thanks for watching too! :-)
Phenomenally good content!! So needed. Thank you John and Michelle! 💕
So much wisdom in here. Watching it again and again. Digesting and applying. Thanks Michelle and Dr. Gray!
Thank You, John!
Some men want everything from us. My husband never like to go to work he prefer to stay home.
This is the most enlightening advice I’ve heard thus far. I’ve been binge listening to this doctor for days…
Glad you enjoyed the clips. Thanks for watching!
what a great interview. i love how you caught that "gem" moment, you're so great at drawing them out of him. thank you once again. i feel so encouraged listening to both of you.... it gives my heart open space to be feminine and says, it's ok! you're on the right path! it feels so doable, right, relaxing and responsible all at once to be a giver after we have received enough, while he gives to get. i can feel how good that chemistry and balance is. what great things to look forward to. thank you once again, Michelle
I love Michelle's laugh 😉
Thank you. 😊
I love you, Dr. Gray! You always present fair and balanced advice!
Thank you very much
When a man says those things i'd say RUNNNNN !!!
Thank You for this video..🔥
I love too take care of my person. N do all u said it
thank you
I really love that John uses research and I’d really like it if he would drop the names of the studies he cites! 💜 So many times people refer to studies that are interesting and important and they name the conclusions made from the studies without citing the studies and it’s frustrating 😂
Thanks for watching and for your comments June. He does reference the studies he uses in his books. Take care.
I like that that makes a lot of sense to me about the reassurance thing because on all these programs all you ever hear is what women need never what may need for for what they're giving because that makes that I can understand cuz I like to give but I like to give and then when I'm not receiving anything at all back it makes me frustrating
I think he’s weird for putting it out there as general conversation. Either we both do for each other or not at all!! I would drop a guy if he said that on a first or second date. I barely know you but want me to cook? Then he best
PROVIDE groceries!!!
It means he wants to live at home with his mother 4ever
I don't enjoy cooking and it doesn't make me relaxed. However, I find it sexy if he cooks for me.. for sure he will earn a massage and lots of compliments 😄
All of these cyclic processes with hormones must be frequently thrown off by life's messy cultural messages to our psychy. (Like " you must be successful- take care of yourself!") You are so right! I have had a string of unmotivated men when it comes to taking care of me. This has cemented my independence and I have to be fully aware of this, so I dont lean too far into the masculine when dating someone new. It seems like men of my generation (Xers) are in that same place that women were in Betty Freidans "the Feminine Mystic"....i.e. Confused about their role.
I don't understand the man losing interest if they have sex more than once a week. What if you cant keep your hands off each other?
It’s not about what you do it’s all about your mindset. If you are a woman and having sex makes yourself happy, indeed you have more sex with this man. That’s completely fine. But if you are having sex so that your man is happier, that is a turnoff for the man.
What I truly go could go for, maybe need, is a guy who doesn’t think I’m an idiot when I fall apart a lil when I can’t figure how to fix a car on my own. Cuz I’d kill for a little bit of comfort when I try to succeed in an area I suck at and I fail miserably. Oh to dream.
Yeah and see that's what I mean it's like you do like I'm generous I open doors I love I see a lady getting a shopping cart I'll go get it for but there's never a thank you there's there's never an appreciation and sometimes I wonder why do I waste my time
Make em laugh Frank, then do stuff for em
You're 60, you've dated, in love, now are living together over a year. How do you go from here??? I don't want to fall into the trap of doing too much and not getting back the same. He is a great man, we are in love. We spent a lot of time together talking and getting to know each other first. Talking about the rest of our lives together. I tried to do the things that John suggests, but I'm feeling like I need a companion to talk to. He isn't great to talk about things with. Is he the wrong man? I thought he was boring compared to other relationships, which didn't work out well. I was married for 20 years, divorce for 8, he was married for 30, divorced for 11. I'm the only other woman he's been with. I'm confused. I don't feel like I'm getting what I need. That's my delemia.
I don't understand. Is he boring or are you in love? Sounds contradictory.
Talking with your guy is good but men aren't necessarily great talkers, if he's a good listener that's great 👍 You should not depend entirely on him, spend time with your girlfriends and female family members, you can talk as much as you want with them, remember your man is not a girlfriend and he will need cave time if you flood him with your feelings 😜
@@marilynhorne4954 thank you. That's what I'm learning. He's not my girlfriend. He does so much for me. Yes he is a good listener. It's me. He shares his feelings with me. I love him and know he loves me. I still have a lot to learn. Thank you.
@@marilynhorne4954 i fell in love with my best friend, he's not in my life now but where does that fit in he was my favorite friend but i also loved him as a mate
It takes two to tango… I’d recommend Adrienne Everheart videos for advice on this… basically find out if he’s interested and if not move on quickly! There are many fish in the sea! Find one who feels so much about you too!
Your partner is not your girlfriend. You need other people, women, to talk to.