@@prettykitty5416she’s talked about her OWN hair tho, not others. It’s funny how y’all are allowed to talk abt your hair when you have bad days but she can’t?? Why’s that?
i’ll never be offended over someone who bragged about having stds 🥴 i love my carpet hair lol it’s coily, stretchy, defies gravity & clearly mesmerizing the way i have to dodge ppl from trying to touch it all the time 😂
The self hatred goes crazy. Calling 4c hair “carpet” is an insult to God himself, and to all the women working hard to accept themselves and love their natural curls
I liked that Doja made her cover her natural hair. Doja has struggled with loving her natural in the past. Mind you I’m not the biggest fan of her personally but for the kinky hair girls, I get it and like to see the embrace
Yeah I mean black women are shit on globally so it’s not a surprise when we internalize that same hatred. I feel like at one point in our lives, many black Americans hate our hair due to European standards. I used to hate mine too, but now I love my hair deeply and I’m sure Doja does too.
I remember years ago, before she cut her hair, and she was talking about how much she didn't like it on her live. It broke my heart. Because that was the prettiest I had ever seen her. And I'm talking about all her looks, all her hair styles. When she went live with her natural hair, it took my breath. Then she started talking about how much she hated it. I just couldn't understand. And I still don't.
@@Ms9mmBeretta it can run deep. i feel masculine whenever my real hair is out bc my mom thinks my afro "looks ugly." her exact words... being taught that your whole life really takes a toll on u
@@4rinstr_there's a new term that people have been using recently, it's called "unlearning." I had to do it. We were being taught terrible things that aren't true. The last straw for me was when I looked in the mirror at myself and didn't feel pretty without extensions. I literally got mad at myself and stop wearing extensions 3 years ago. Remember when Katt Williams said "it's called SELF-esteem"? It clicked for me right there in the mirror that day. And I didn't look back. I did the mental work on my own, and now nobody can tell me my hair is ugly and expect me to believe it.
This real, but baby racism sounds funny as a term, even though the concept itself is harmful. I genuinely CANT stand women of color who act like Eurocentric beauty standards are better or something. She’s also been known for supporting trump… that girl has lost all my support since then
This real, but baby racism sounds funny as a term, even though the concept itself is harmful. I genuinely CANT stand women of color who act like Eurocentric beauty standards are better or something. She’s also been known for supporting trump… that girl has lost all my support since then
@@stormieinapril9626 Same, I've gotten a lot of compliments lately ever since I've started wearing my natural hair and it makes me feel so much confidence
Calling hair that is not european straight hair, carpet hair, popcorn hair, or pubic hair, is an insult to God because it was his only begotten son who had "hair like WOOL." Daniel 7:9 " THE HAIR ON HIS HEAD LIKE PURE WOOL." This scripture describes the one and only messiah's hair texture in a positive, royal way.
I attend a Bible study and a few weeks ago we talked about Jesus's resurrection, specifically Mary Magalene's account of it. Mary was possessed by 7 demons and was delivered from it by Jesus Christ. Afterwards she dutifully followed him to his death, and after he was killed she went out to prepare his body for ceremonial burial. Accompanied by Peter and other women, they went to Jesus's grave where they found it empty. Mary was very upset and overwrought with grief, but she was soon comforted by 2 angels, where immediately afterwards she laid eyes on Jesus. It was said she did not recognize him at all. His appearance was different. Revelation 1:14, "His head and hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and His eyes like a flame of fire." It was mentioned Mary initially mistook Jesus as a gardener because of his different appearance. In my small group there was speculation that gardeners during that era may have normally had that wool hair type, (I'm the only black person in the group of 10 white ladies and I wear my hair out in a stretched out afro so that theory hurt a little. Growing up, I've had my hair compared to as "slave hair" because of plantation slavery. So it's ironic to me that afro/wool hair texture is still correalated with field work.) Anyways my personal theory as to why he looked different after his ordeal is because he normally kept his hair in protective styles that his followers weren't aware of.
Tbh that interpretation is kinda dumb when you sre not american, because jews and middle easteners are a thing, and both of them can have "hair like wool", you can say curly hair that some europeans have can also be like wool. I think its a stretch to automatically assume JC was a dude with a afro like a lot of americans think, because they lack geography and history knowledge lol, even tho i dont think he was a blonde blue eyes man, i dont think he was anything but a middle eastern man with dark skin because you know.....the sun exists and even the whitest of whites will get very dark skinmed if he lives his whole life in the middle eastern sun
It think Doja's video was hilarious (unintentionally but she's naturally funny) but the first respons to that video is weird af. who gives af if she's biracial. she still has type 4 hair and she's still right about what she said. And him coming for her current style choice is so fcking weird. also there are non biracial black people with that style.
Right, most of the “4c hair is so hard/difficult/unattractive” comments I see online are most definitely not from biracial people, so idk what that guy was talking about. 🤨
That’s her real style too. If you look at old clips before she was famous she did not dress feminine . She was always weird and quirky. She only dresses feminine and sexy when she first went mainstream to appeal to a certain audience but it’s clear she’s being her authentic self now.
I've seen a lot of biracial girlies just hate their 4c hair cos their parents were not expecting them to have "difficult" hair. The dude responding to that is ignorant. But. I'm not surprised.
@@BebeDFairymy egg donor is like that but we're black. I only know this in hindsight though bc at the time I didn't know better. She was relaxing my hair from 5 or 6 years old. Just straight torture. It was either tight-ass braids or burning/scabbing my scalp. She didn't know how to take care of my hair and never bothered to try learning. Was combing from the root, detangling when dry, everything wrong. Hated having to maintain relaxers myself. Trying to learn how to do my own hair in my 30s and it's hard and frustrating. Luckily I'm at a job where I can hide my hair until I grow it out enough to something I won't be fired for. I don't like short hair on me but I can at least twist down the sides when long enough.
@@psyolytesaille right I hate short hair, I like mid long so I look like a cool tomboy from an anime 😎🌺 same here as well ,started to take care of my hair at 22 and chopped it off twice.
When you listen to her talk about her life, it's very clear she's had a very traumatizing and difficult childhood. Def SA, def hustled...I truly see a hurt woman who is being exploited. I genuinely fear for her.
Yeah nah, I don't feel sorry for her at ALL. She's a grown woman with KIDS and she chose this lifestyle including spewing these ignorant insults towards woc. Let's be real, she's a joke and needs to go...
@alleykittycat 💯 that fact is always ignored. They try to make it seem like Doja just hates herself, and they have no idea why she doesn't F with black dudes.
@@Morganj27Because WHO THE FUCK WOULD! Any black woman that’s still fucking black men deserves EVERYTHING they get. Single motherhood, femicide, the works. Yall ASK for it. Literally beg at this point. Shut up.
That man is so ignorant. Doja's music and aesthetic appealed to a large demographic, and that definitely included black folks, especially those of us that's apart of the alternative community, because Doja has ALWAYS been alt. And lets not forget that Black folks were literally the first rock stars!! 🙄 So, im curious as to what he think she should look like as a black artist...
No because literally!! Black people have contributed INSANELY to music. Rock, Jazz, r&b which is a daughter of jazz, rap, and so much moreee!!! We would not have so much of the greats with out the contribution of black people. This is something I’ve studied in music
I get where you’re coming from but that’s not the case with Doja, you’d have to look into her being exposed for partaking in racist anti black conversations around 2018-2020. That’s what he’s speaking on.
the guy you see in the video seems so off because when she first got big she stated clearly black men were not her preference, so some got butt hurt over it because SHE is THEIR preference and have been salty ever since, for anyone who didn't know
Yup. I've even seen on her IG where white women who date black will make fun of Doja which to me is so telling. Apparently the preferences aren't allowed to have a preference and heaven forbid if you're a black woman who has one 😑 All of a sudden you're a self-hater/pandering even tho 90% of bm "ain't going if it ain't snowing".
She also says its just a preference, not like the dudes thar say " i dont want to date a shaniqua because they are ratched". Im white and im not into blonde girls, does that means i hate myself? No because first of all being white doesnt make you "my kind/ my people", im a individual that happens to have been born white, i dont need to justify or owe other white women, and i think more black people should feel the same way. Why do people want to control their choices so much? Let them date whoever they want, and call them out when their peeferences come from self hatred and prejudice.
I dont get why she had to make that comment, it was so uncessary. Black women get enough crap, they didnt ask for this she could have kept that for herself. She's proud of her hair, good for her, but bringing down other girls was immature. I hope no one felt offended by that thing that looks like it stink.
Yall be glorifying "long" hair too much. It's OKAY if some people hair don't grow a certain length. I cringe at people stretching their coils to prove length.
Her complete aesthetic overhaul was the best decision she made. She's still a weirdo but her journey towards self acceptance is still pretty satisfying to witness.
Isn't this just plain colorism.... I see the same phrase used against her by bigots. Her deep skin tone and tattoos (and also the classism people leverage against her, i.e. the "ratchetness") might be what you and others are seeing. But idk, keep calling her that without really thinking about it 🤷♂️
The thing with Doja tho is that she trolls, it doesn't make the situation better but its important to know tht a lot of the shit she did especially when she was younger was just her being a dumb ignorant troll obviously that does not make it better on another note tho, I thinks its weird that her wanting a more alternative look and shaving her eyebrows and leaning more into her gothic grunge alt aesthetic is seen as her ' dressing for them ' ppl of colour can be alt, grunge and gothic stop saying tht poc ppl are dressing for "other races" like thats just such a weird thing to say especially bc she's always dressed like that😭😭
Not to be that person, but she really acts like she was being serious about all the stuff she said. I was a nice fan and stuck by her until she started talking about she quit. I still respect and love her but I keep it all at a distance.
Yeah I have many styles and my favorite is graphic tees and ripped jeans. I’m a black woman. I dress nothing like the stereotypical hood black girl. Some days I’m just wearing yoga pants and a bralette and when I want a more feminine look I wear a dress with no bra and pantries. I hate bras btw, it’s so conforming
The fact she's saying 4c hair is like a carpet but she's the one who has to wear a crusty dusty wig literally almost all the time like I bet she got dust buildup in there 😭 (this is coming from a girl with 4c hair)
I disagree with her comments but it’s literally part of her branding and aesthetic. I actually like that she wears her bright red hair because people who are colorist say “certain Black women shouldn’t wear bright colors, it doesn’t look good on them” and that’s just not true.
@@xoMissTaylorDivine her comment was ugly and we don’t give a f!,;)!8543 about her branding , that’s clown red . Anyone wearing clown red hair that’s not hers and putting stacks of money up to her ear like she’s on the phone don’t need to be giving negative comments on my sisters hair . We are getting sick of that mentality.
Funny how “carpet” hair is the ONLY reason biracial hair is so adored!!! And no one can tell me different. Funny how “carpet” hair is the most diverse version of hair that exists - other races can duplicate styles but the different in appearance is very clear. Our coils and curls are as beautiful.
Actually it's not, mixed girl hair is adored because most of them have looser curls, I think you meant to say funny how "carpet hair" isn't appreciated unless it's on a mixed girl or something
I really need folks to understand that black alternative people are NOT pandering to white folks. Its actually quite the opposite. Most alternative styles from America(like so many other things) were started and created by black folks. Alternative hairstyles are often inspired by traditional African and carribean styles. We are actually going against European beauty standards and embracing ourselves. No shade but a lot of yall are afraid of breaking away from european assimilation and that is ok too. But please stop shaming and insulting alternative black folks. Its the most annoying and highkey anti-black thing. I need mainstream styled black folks to start defending us more.
You know what’s crazy? Doja never said she hated her hair texture. She said she just never wanted to have hair in general. Sometimes we need to take things at surface level/face value. If someone hates their hair texture, then why shave off their eyebrows if brows are a softer and straighter texture anyway?? Make that make sense…
@@IAmPlaysWithSquirrelI mean all of us had this mindset at one point before natural hair became the thing. When I was a teenager getting relaxers was still very common. We used to hate our roots and couldn’t wait to get a touch up. We used to talk about how nappy our head was so I just took it as, she hadn’t went through her awakening yet. She seemed to when she cut off her hair. I went natural in 2013, rocked my natural for a bit, got locs, cut them off in 2020, grew my hair down to bra strap length and now I’m rocking the buzz cut too which is my favorite natural look so far not because I hate my hair. This style is definitely the most convenient but it’s just edgy and I feel the most confident.
@@IAmPlaysWithSquirrelso I just watched the clip of her on live 4 years ago ranting about her hair and the texture. I still haven’t heard her outright say she hates 4C hair… she says “4C hair can sck my a$$-“ but that’s in reference to her struggling to take care of it, not because she hates it. 4C is a lot to manage, as beautiful as it is. Hell, I even went and got locs bcuz I got sick and tired of the heavy maintenance. I’m looking at the surface of the issue here, and it didn’t look or even sound like she hates the texture itself. She just hates the struggles of maintaining it for her.
i am an egyptian lady by blood, and i have rough thick curly "carpet " hair and i wear it proud every day as my crown. i love my african roots literally and will never look back.
4c hair is coily hair guys 😂. We can say 1A, 2B, 3,C can look like swamp hair or yarn hair or dead seaweed hair. All hair types have their ups and downs. Nobody is perfect. Especially when you have to wake up in the morning. If you have to do your hair at any given time just to make it look nice, then it is sure not better than the other. Because better hair is supposed to out due the other especially when you don't have to fix it. We all know how someone operates when they have the most vile things to say about someone or a collective in general for the wrong reasons. Let's not produce too much attention. Instead lets educate among the stupidity and the ignorant instead of being triggered and bashful. Thank You 🤗🖐🏽
@@Arffff03 even when you can't get through to some people who chooses to be close minded, still speak and show what is good through adversities like this for other people that wants to learn and wants to be educated and follow through. Especially for the youth. Everyone else will come soon if they choose.
I'm so annoyed at the black communities take on mixed peeps though. Like my mom was half nigerian and stuff but I'm mixed with asian, finish native. We don't get accepted a n y w h e r e and the continuous xenophobia doesn't help.
Im not biracial at all, but my kids are. Ones half black and half white, and the other 3 are half white, half Mexican. I literally look at them and think about this alllll the time. And i wonder how theyll feel about it when theyre adults, and hope they dont have any bad experiences. I also get PISSED about people who talk about the biracial kids who have white moms. 🙄😮💨. And i know how it feels to have a mother who isnt the same as you as well..... bc I was raised for half of my childhood by a black woman/family (foster care) and the reactions to that were all over the place! People asked THEE weirdest questions, as if they had the right. Smh. People are just so weird. 😂.
@@andreaknisley154 see, I was raised as this minority back home called 'Zainichi' (thanks to my dad being ainu and n.korean mixed) that got a lot of crap from japanese folks (Yamato japanese in particular) but when I came to america it was hard too. People actually saw my hair and stuff and heard about my mom and I was called everything from quadroon to ling ling from every community in between. They will get crap growing up, but just be an awsome mom and have their backs you'll do amazing
@@BarfRainbow black people do not owe u acceptance. You are biracial not black. Funny how y'all only expect acceptance from blacks and not your other races
2:48 made me smile 💖 Edit to comment on biracial identity struggles: As a monoracial Black woman with 4C hair who is a NERD and just "weird" in many ways, there was no hope of fitting in anywhere. I think that the hardest part of being biracial is probably that they get the message/illusion from one or both parents that if they do certain things they'll be accepted more easily by others. I think this is why the kids of Black moms in interracial relationships often fair better EMOTIONALLY than those whose Black parent is the father: misogynoir gives you MAJOR skills and insight into making peace with NEVER being able to make EVERYONE happy. I'll leave it at that before this ends up being an essay lol.
Yeah, I think it's because here in the States, if you're biracial, you're still seen as black rather than white as per the one drop rule. So if the mother is white, it's like a white woman raising a black person to be a white person, but if the mother is black, they'll raise them like any other black child.. which is exactly how they'll be seen and treated.
real sexy red has no room to talk with her red wig on all the time I swear I have never saw her natural hair and she is always being ghetto and talking bout how she has 60 baby daddies like music like this is setting us back
Black people really are still saying good and bad hair as if hair has morals. Healthy hair is good hair. God made us the way we are for a reason. God couldn't be wrong.
@@MyHandle14 your truth is bullshit you learned online written by people. Muh history, muh people lol. I feel bad, after all, because you have no history nor created anything 😘
This is another game, to stop black women to wear out their natural hair, I don't buy it. they can say what ever they want, I have no chemical, wigs, protective hair style that I am rocking, you don't like my hair kick rocks, I DON"T CARE Or GIVE A DAMN.
Carpet hair???? It’s not carpet hair. It’s beautiful 4c curls and coils Imma call myself spaghetti waves from now on since we nicknaming our hair textures
Why do so many people like showing off their trauma and abuse? Even if her hair looks like carpet - so?? Why would that ever be a bad thing? It’s sad when ur wig is ur confidence
Blaq ppl have an issue with Doja Cat and it’s completely one sided. Y’all are weirdly obsessed and can’t express why y’all have this weird beef with her. And that ninjas comments about Doja made zero sense.
sexxy redd always came off as problematic to me. her entire brand was based on ratchet behavior and re-encouraging harmful and problematic stereotype to kids. Also Doja absolutely slayed the natural hair look 🔥🔥🔥
I’m not a Doja Cat fan by any means. I’m not biracial, so I don’t understand her distress. I might be numb to the insults because of self love. However, I wish her the best with her feelings and find the comments made about her hair disgusting.
Out here calling it carpet hair when she looks like she’s been out here eating grass 🐮with the same thing on her head it’s just relaxed and pressed my manz
Why do we care about the comparison though. All hair gets compared to textiles. Wool and cotton aren't superior to silk nor satin. The actual problem is the fact we consider certain textures inferior.
It's not really the comparison but the context, "my hair feels as soft as a cloud" isn't the same as "your carpet hair could never" nothing against carpets 😄
@@tintamanengu that’s pretty much what I said. Some curl patterns are tight and densely packed like carpet nap. There’s literally nothing wrong with that. It’s the people reinforcing texture caste system/hierarchy not the accurate comparison. It’s the same as those who try associating negative imagery and connotations to brown skin and the preferential treatment shown to fairer skin tones.
I know does Dominican girl who hates her 4c hair because her whole family hates that texture and she buy those expensive wigs that look real and you could do exactly what sexy friend is doing it and show scalp so it's kind of believable she spends thousands of dollars for those types of wigs just so she could have pretty hair those are her words
I thought that sexy red was really pretty, and her music was catchy, but now that I saw that post, I don’t know how to feel…… I don’t know my hair, but that was a low blow. There’s nothing wrong with 4c hair!
My hair isn’t carpet hair, too many of my ancestors worked our hair to be beautiful to compare it an item to be stepped on. And I was always told I had good hair as a man. Well try to comb it and style it…. It takes hours. Don’t disrespect my being. Appreciate the love and care that goes into it to make u think it’s so called good hair…. It’s fabulous hair and it’s luxurious hair because it takes that kinda care. Stop the bs.
Idk why I find it interesting. As edgy and out spoken as doja cat is, she censors herself when it comes to racism. I felt like she was holding back in that video and wanted to use the word “racist” but said “wild”. I feel like she panders so much to white audiences that she’s selective what she’s outspoken about. I feel bad for her that she was just a white cultured childhood that she might not fully feel confident addressing racism for what it is.
I love how doja said something. Its sad that sexy has 4c hair and no edges calling black women hair carpet hair she hates herself foreal like who does that.
It’s time for us to stop being offended about comments about our hair. Yes our hair looks like sheep hair, popcorn, carpet, rugs etc, but bay behhhh our hair is beautiful, lush, curly, springy, amazing and so much more. I love my cotton textured hair.
I think it's more so the context in which it's used that makes it not okay, me saying my hair is as soft as a cloud is not insulting even if clouds just like sheep and carpet are non human.
6:34 little does he know before she got big she rocked her natural fro plenty of times even after she got big so what is he talking about? A lot of ppl were mad she was trolling talking about her hair only for them to be doing the same shit. It’s like only we can make fun of our hair but if someone mix has the same texture and they can’t say nothing about it especially if they don’t come off like your stereotypical black person. Bye yo 😂
Doja Has Beautiful Hair, Imagaine Referring to someones hair as a carpet while wearing lace fronts and weave 🤦🏻♀️ like be your authentic self or dont comment on a style you wish you could pull off, NOT "sexy" red. 🥴😵💫
To that reaction guy: she showed her hair that’s a big step, she’s insecure about it. It’s not just a mixed thing, a lot of us black girls are insecure about our hair texture. Her taking a big leap from talking bad about herself to making her hair her album cover is a big thing. She didn’t ask for it and if she did that doesn’t mean she deserves it and it’s definitely not a mixed thing
Love the hair that people can't copy. Sad that they teach you to cut your hair, so they can't see the beauty of your crown. That you can style as many crowns.
This woman is too foul I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt by her just making money off of being controversial and rebellious and it's bad when Doja cat who openly hates her hair has to check you. I just got my hair relaxed after 7 years just to make it more manageable because I don't feel comfortable wearing wigs anymore. I grew my hair down to my shoulders I initially cut it all off because I was tired of an abuser using it as a weapon, I happened to meet a hustler stylist who maintains my hair for cheap, a Puerto Rican woman taught me how to do my edges, but I understand why Doja, one who purposely acts like a clown sometimes wants to be free of wigs hell I feel spiritually free not having to wear them anymore, and accept her own head and this is a positive thing for black women. Like I might not be rocking 4c, but it's my own crown now.
Im white and have like- 3c hair or loose coils and omg, red NEEDS to shut her damn mouth. I always loved the way 4c looks on people and like- it’s so natural and beautiful… sexy red isn’t too sexy… like girl… pls pipe down 😂😂
Doja Cat is right. Do not compare black women's hair to popcorn or p*bic hair.
Mhm and the last one sounds degrading to some black ppl
Except the fact that she’s done it…. doja is NOT an ali for 4c
@@prettykitty5416😂
@@prettykitty5416she’s talked about her OWN hair tho, not others. It’s funny how y’all are allowed to talk abt your hair when you have bad days but she can’t?? Why’s that?
@@honks9484 doja don't speak for black women hair, she is half white
i’ll never be offended over someone who bragged about having stds 🥴 i love my carpet hair lol it’s coily, stretchy, defies gravity & clearly mesmerizing the way i have to dodge ppl from trying to touch it all the time 😂
Right 😂😂😂😂😂 Imagine being up and arms about a transmitted disease
CLEARLY MESMERIZING ❤️💚
My hair is naturally wavy, and I used to wish I had 4c hair as a teen. People would say I have "good" hair, and I'd be thinking, "oh, so do you..."
You Betta; U U you betta❤❤❤❤👏🏿 I love this comment
What!!! stds?!?!?
The self hatred goes crazy. Calling 4c hair “carpet” is an insult to God himself, and to all the women working hard to accept themselves and love their natural curls
Amen
Amenn I got 4c and bro it’s so hard to take care of and this ghetto girl said that we have carpet hair is crazy and weird
She don’t care
Amen
@zaire-aniyarobinson2928 Exactly, I never liked her and I'm not surprised she said that despite looking like a clown 24/7
I liked that Doja made her cover her natural hair. Doja has struggled with loving her natural in the past. Mind you I’m not the biggest fan of her personally but for the kinky hair girls, I get it and like to see the embrace
Yeah I mean black women are shit on globally so it’s not a surprise when we internalize that same hatred. I feel like at one point in our lives, many black Americans hate our hair due to European standards. I used to hate mine too, but now I love my hair deeply and I’m sure Doja does too.
I remember years ago, before she cut her hair, and she was talking about how much she didn't like it on her live. It broke my heart. Because that was the prettiest I had ever seen her. And I'm talking about all her looks, all her hair styles. When she went live with her natural hair, it took my breath. Then she started talking about how much she hated it. I just couldn't understand. And I still don't.
same, i love aspects of her and what shes done for the "weird black girls". The fact that shes always been real and honest is refreshing
@@Ms9mmBeretta it can run deep. i feel masculine whenever my real hair is out bc my mom thinks my afro "looks ugly." her exact words... being taught that your whole life really takes a toll on u
@@4rinstr_there's a new term that people have been using recently, it's called "unlearning." I had to do it. We were being taught terrible things that aren't true. The last straw for me was when I looked in the mirror at myself and didn't feel pretty without extensions. I literally got mad at myself and stop wearing extensions 3 years ago. Remember when Katt Williams said "it's called SELF-esteem"? It clicked for me right there in the mirror that day. And I didn't look back. I did the mental work on my own, and now nobody can tell me my hair is ugly and expect me to believe it.
Texturism is just the sister of colorism and the baby of racism. You let someone talk about Redd's skin being too dark. It would be outrage!
Facts
This real, but baby racism sounds funny as a term, even though the concept itself is harmful. I genuinely CANT stand women of color who act like Eurocentric beauty standards are better or something. She’s also been known for supporting trump… that girl has lost all my support since then
This real, but baby racism sounds funny as a term, even though the concept itself is harmful. I genuinely CANT stand women of color who act like Eurocentric beauty standards are better or something. She’s also been known for supporting trump… that girl has lost all my support since then
All them tattoos got her looking like a trans woman tho😂
Colourism speaks within the culture or ethnicity but can be related to racism yes
Omg she can not be talking as someone who exclusively wears a party city hot cheeto colored wig😭 like the call is coming from inside the house
Literally 💀
Damn now I want hot Cheetos
No lies were told😂😂😂😂
HOT CHEETO COLORED HAIR TOOK ME OUT 😭
CLOCKED
This is why I don’t glorify celebrities like… _this._
This is why I don't glorify celebrities at all.
God said not to idolize or glorify celebrities/popular figures at all so that’s where I’m at ‼️🙏✝️
I rlly hope nobody was glorifying sexy red of all ppl lmao..😭
I love my "carpet" hair, which is why I am growing more of it.
I’m genuinely happy I don’t care about that anymore. For too many years I used to hate my hair. I love my hair now. I appreciate it.
@@stormieinapril9626 Relaxed my hair for a whole decade and did big chop.. It is satisfying to finally see your natural hair at it's own peak!
@@stormieinapril9626 Same, I've gotten a lot of compliments lately ever since I've started wearing my natural hair and it makes me feel so much confidence
As you should queen 💗🎀😩😍🥰
Right because from my recollection, carpets are comfy and soft
Calling hair that is not european straight hair, carpet hair, popcorn hair, or pubic hair, is an insult to God because it was his only begotten son who had "hair like WOOL." Daniel 7:9 " THE HAIR ON HIS HEAD LIKE PURE WOOL." This scripture describes the one and only messiah's hair texture in a positive, royal way.
I attend a Bible study and a few weeks ago we talked about Jesus's resurrection, specifically Mary Magalene's account of it.
Mary was possessed by 7 demons and was delivered from it by Jesus Christ. Afterwards she dutifully followed him to his death, and after he was killed she went out to prepare his body for ceremonial burial. Accompanied by Peter and other women, they went to Jesus's grave where they found it empty. Mary was very upset and overwrought with grief, but she was soon comforted by 2 angels, where immediately afterwards she laid eyes on Jesus.
It was said she did not recognize him at all. His appearance was different. Revelation 1:14, "His head and hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and His eyes like a flame of fire."
It was mentioned Mary initially mistook Jesus as a gardener because of his different appearance.
In my small group there was speculation that gardeners during that era may have normally had that wool hair type, (I'm the only black person in the group of 10 white ladies and I wear my hair out in a stretched out afro so that theory hurt a little. Growing up, I've had my hair compared to as "slave hair" because of plantation slavery. So it's ironic to me that afro/wool hair texture is still correalated with field work.) Anyways my personal theory as to why he looked different after his ordeal is because he normally kept his hair in protective styles that his followers weren't aware of.
Right like Jesus was basically a middle Eastern guy with black (especially ethiopian) heritage
this and his creation
Tbh that interpretation is kinda dumb when you sre not american, because jews and middle easteners are a thing, and both of them can have "hair like wool", you can say curly hair that some europeans have can also be like wool.
I think its a stretch to automatically assume JC was a dude with a afro like a lot of americans think, because they lack geography and history knowledge lol, even tho i dont think he was a blonde blue eyes man, i dont think he was anything but a middle eastern man with dark skin because you know.....the sun exists and even the whitest of whites will get very dark skinmed if he lives his whole life in the middle eastern sun
Middle Eastern yes .. native jew... Ethiopian...lmao stop it😆😆😆
It think Doja's video was hilarious (unintentionally but she's naturally funny) but the first respons to that video is weird af. who gives af if she's biracial. she still has type 4 hair and she's still right about what she said. And him coming for her current style choice is so fcking weird. also there are non biracial black people with that style.
Right, most of the “4c hair is so hard/difficult/unattractive” comments I see online are most definitely not from biracial people, so idk what that guy was talking about. 🤨
That’s her real style too. If you look at old clips before she was famous she did not dress feminine . She was always weird and quirky. She only dresses feminine and sexy when she first went mainstream to appeal to a certain audience but it’s clear she’s being her authentic self now.
I've seen a lot of biracial girlies just hate their 4c hair cos their parents were not expecting them to have "difficult" hair. The dude responding to that is ignorant. But. I'm not surprised.
@@BebeDFairymy egg donor is like that but we're black. I only know this in hindsight though bc at the time I didn't know better. She was relaxing my hair from 5 or 6 years old. Just straight torture. It was either tight-ass braids or burning/scabbing my scalp. She didn't know how to take care of my hair and never bothered to try learning. Was combing from the root, detangling when dry, everything wrong.
Hated having to maintain relaxers myself. Trying to learn how to do my own hair in my 30s and it's hard and frustrating. Luckily I'm at a job where I can hide my hair until I grow it out enough to something I won't be fired for.
I don't like short hair on me but I can at least twist down the sides when long enough.
@@psyolytesaille right I hate short hair, I like mid long so I look like a cool tomboy from an anime 😎🌺 same here as well ,started to take care of my hair at 22 and chopped it off twice.
Not that Sexxy Red that looks like an old crumpled up magazine calling 4C hair carpet hair
Crumpled up magazine is crazy 😂😂
Girl 😲🥹
Omg yes! That’s what it is! She look like a damn collage/scrapbook of old magazine covers 😂😂😂😂
Sexy Red is definitely canceled. It’s a wrap for her
She won’t. The majority of the black community is populated with clowns who will defend her and agree with her.
Cardi B called black women cockroaches and is still popular for some reason 🙄
fr music sucks fr too
We just took down ice spice, now we need to ignore this mf the same way 😂
Should’ve been a wrap for her frfr
She made her hair her album cover!! Cute!!!
I knew it was supposed to look like her hair but the fact that they actually got the photo from her hair is so cool to me. Very unique
Sexy Red genuinely makes me feel bad for her. She must have had the most toxic influences around her, all her life.
When you listen to her talk about her life, it's very clear she's had a very traumatizing and difficult childhood. Def SA, def hustled...I truly see a hurt woman who is being exploited. I genuinely fear for her.
Yeah nah, I don't feel sorry for her at ALL. She's a grown woman with KIDS and she chose this lifestyle including spewing these ignorant insults towards woc. Let's be real, she's a joke and needs to go...
Yup
Not her bragging about her hair texture but throwing a wig on top of it every chance she gets 🤨
The dude saying "That's the following you wanted" to Doja. Meanwhile, a full-on black woman called black hair "carpet hair."
Exactly, it's ridiculous 😒
lol, I guess Sexy Red is biracial then.
Bingo and she had the mindset she did back then because her BLACK DADDY abandoned her and did not teach her to love her black side.
@alleykittycat 💯 that fact is always ignored. They try to make it seem like Doja just hates herself, and they have no idea why she doesn't F with black dudes.
@@Morganj27Because WHO THE FUCK WOULD! Any black woman that’s still fucking black men deserves EVERYTHING they get. Single motherhood, femicide, the works. Yall ASK for it. Literally beg at this point. Shut up.
That man is so ignorant. Doja's music and aesthetic appealed to a large demographic, and that definitely included black folks, especially those of us that's apart of the alternative community, because Doja has ALWAYS been alt. And lets not forget that Black folks were literally the first rock stars!! 🙄 So, im curious as to what he think she should look like as a black artist...
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No because literally!! Black people have contributed INSANELY to music. Rock, Jazz, r&b which is a daughter of jazz, rap, and so much moreee!!! We would not have so much of the greats with out the contribution of black people. This is something I’ve studied in music
She stopped wearing wigs and shaking her titties all in the camera and he can’t objectify her anymore the way he wants so he’s mad.
I get where you’re coming from but that’s not the case with Doja, you’d have to look into her being exposed for partaking in racist anti black conversations around 2018-2020. That’s what he’s speaking on.
@@xoMissTaylorDivine All those were addressed and debunked a while ago.
the guy you see in the video seems so off because when she first got big she stated clearly black men were not her preference, so some got butt hurt over it because SHE is THEIR preference and have been salty ever since, for anyone who didn't know
I noticed that, too. They still hate her for that to this day.
Yup. I've even seen on her IG where white women who date black will make fun of Doja which to me is so telling. Apparently the preferences aren't allowed to have a preference and heaven forbid if you're a black woman who has one 😑 All of a sudden you're a self-hater/pandering even tho 90% of bm "ain't going if it ain't snowing".
As she should. Her father left the family when she was a lil kid. And they keep proving her point.
@@BebeDFairy 💯 as she should
She also says its just a preference, not like the dudes thar say " i dont want to date a shaniqua because they are ratched".
Im white and im not into blonde girls, does that means i hate myself? No because first of all being white doesnt make you "my kind/ my people", im a individual that happens to have been born white, i dont need to justify or owe other white women, and i think more black people should feel the same way.
Why do people want to control their choices so much? Let them date whoever they want, and call them out when their peeferences come from self hatred and prejudice.
some crazy people still mentally in the 1700’s
MANY
Some seem to want it
I dont get why she had to make that comment, it was so uncessary. Black women get enough crap, they didnt ask for this she could have kept that for herself. She's proud of her hair, good for her, but bringing down other girls was immature. I hope no one felt offended by that thing that looks like it stink.
Some of the crap BW get is self inflicted but yah I guess there’s a lot of crap
Nobody accused her of having tracks. She wanted to brag. Your not the only black woman with healthy and lenghty hair❤
It's not healthy. She has no edges with heat damage. Sad that she from our community, know our struggles, and adds to them.
Yall be glorifying "long" hair too much. It's OKAY if some people hair don't grow a certain length. I cringe at people stretching their coils to prove length.
Plus, length doesn’t always mean health either
thats not even long.
I remember when doja was complaining about her hair. Growth is awesome to see.
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Her complete aesthetic overhaul was the best decision she made. She's still a weirdo but her journey towards self acceptance is still pretty satisfying to witness.
Idk what it is, but sexy red looks dirty to me
Grimy
Her spirit and aura
@saybrittaney A complete sell out and said she loves 💰 and will do whatever it takes.
The term you’re looking for is ✨Dusty✨
Isn't this just plain colorism.... I see the same phrase used against her by bigots. Her deep skin tone and tattoos (and also the classism people leverage against her, i.e. the "ratchetness") might be what you and others are seeing. But idk, keep calling her that without really thinking about it 🤷♂️
The thing with Doja tho is that she trolls, it doesn't make the situation better but its important to know tht a lot of the shit she did especially when she was younger was just her being a dumb ignorant troll obviously that does not make it better on another note tho, I thinks its weird that her wanting a more alternative look and shaving her eyebrows and leaning more into her gothic grunge alt aesthetic is seen as her ' dressing for them ' ppl of colour can be alt, grunge and gothic stop saying tht poc ppl are dressing for "other races" like thats just such a weird thing to say especially bc she's always dressed like that😭😭
Don't ever say "gothic grunge alt and aesthetic" in the same sentence please that does not exist for the love of all that is good please.😭😭
But she was always alternative, it's just that she was in a sexual way. And hate when their are not the center of attention.
Blk people are still ignorant af when it comes to a lot of ish. This is why I just move around them.
Not to be that person, but she really acts like she was being serious about all the stuff she said. I was a nice fan and stuck by her until she started talking about she quit. I still respect and love her but I keep it all at a distance.
Yeah I have many styles and my favorite is graphic tees and ripped jeans. I’m a black woman. I dress nothing like the stereotypical hood black girl. Some days I’m just wearing yoga pants and a bralette and when I want a more feminine look I wear a dress with no bra and pantries. I hate bras btw, it’s so conforming
The fact she's saying 4c hair is like a carpet but she's the one who has to wear a crusty dusty wig literally almost all the time like I bet she got dust buildup in there 😭
(this is coming from a girl with 4c hair)
I don’t even have 4c hair and I still find that disrespectful. In other words she tryna bring other ppl down just bc she got a “looser” hair texture
RIGHT
Doja natural hair Is so beautiful
It really is ❤️
But she has clown red hair 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Out here looking like a juicy red gum😂
I disagree with her comments but it’s literally part of her branding and aesthetic. I actually like that she wears her bright red hair because people who are colorist say “certain Black women shouldn’t wear bright colors, it doesn’t look good on them” and that’s just not true.
@@xoMissTaylorDivine her comment was ugly and we don’t give a f!,;)!8543 about her branding , that’s clown red . Anyone wearing clown red hair that’s not hers and putting stacks of money up to her ear like she’s on the phone don’t need to be giving negative comments on my sisters hair . We are getting sick of that mentality.
Funny how “carpet” hair is the ONLY reason biracial hair is so adored!!! And no one can tell me different. Funny how “carpet” hair is the most diverse version of hair that exists - other races can duplicate styles but the different in appearance is very clear. Our coils and curls are as beautiful.
Biracial hair ...I'm not sure if you mean type 3? Is seen in every ethnic group in the planet
@@bellacortez no it's not, lol
Actually it's not, mixed girl hair is adored because most of them have looser curls, I think you meant to say funny how "carpet hair" isn't appreciated unless it's on a mixed girl or something
Biracial ppl in my family with 4c hair .😂 Wym " biracial hair" it comes out in different ways bruh
@@bellacortezthis .
lol the generalization she made is wild
I heard that yawning when someone yawns is a sign of empathy😝😝
Is it? First time I'm hearing that.
As a 4C hair citizen……
*removes S3xyyred from playlist and stops playing her songs*
I really need folks to understand that black alternative people are NOT pandering to white folks. Its actually quite the opposite. Most alternative styles from America(like so many other things) were started and created by black folks. Alternative hairstyles are often inspired by traditional African and carribean styles. We are actually going against European beauty standards and embracing ourselves.
No shade but a lot of yall are afraid of breaking away from european assimilation and that is ok too. But please stop shaming and insulting alternative black folks. Its the most annoying and highkey anti-black thing.
I need mainstream styled black folks to start defending us more.
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Many blk ppl accuse you of being “yt washed” for not liking rap music and hip hop. I’m not surprised
Black womens hair Is beautiful.
You know what’s crazy? Doja never said she hated her hair texture. She said she just never wanted to have hair in general. Sometimes we need to take things at surface level/face value. If someone hates their hair texture, then why shave off their eyebrows if brows are a softer and straighter texture anyway?? Make that make sense…
That’s not true, she literally said she hated having 4c hair on instagram a few years ago. But people are allowed to evolve.
Exactly!! And people say she’s trolling….. I will never understand people….
@@IAmPlaysWithSquirrelIf that’s the case then you’re saying Sexy Red can evolve too
@@IAmPlaysWithSquirrelI mean all of us had this mindset at one point before natural hair became the thing. When I was a teenager getting relaxers was still very common. We used to hate our roots and couldn’t wait to get a touch up. We used to talk about how nappy our head was so I just took it as, she hadn’t went through her awakening yet. She seemed to when she cut off her hair.
I went natural in 2013, rocked my natural for a bit, got locs, cut them off in 2020, grew my hair down to bra strap length and now I’m rocking the buzz cut too which is my favorite natural look so far not because I hate my hair. This style is definitely the most convenient but it’s just edgy and I feel the most confident.
@@IAmPlaysWithSquirrelso I just watched the clip of her on live 4 years ago ranting about her hair and the texture. I still haven’t heard her outright say she hates 4C hair… she says “4C hair can sck my a$$-“ but that’s in reference to her struggling to take care of it, not because she hates it. 4C is a lot to manage, as beautiful as it is. Hell, I even went and got locs bcuz I got sick and tired of the heavy maintenance. I’m looking at the surface of the issue here, and it didn’t look or even sound like she hates the texture itself. She just hates the struggles of maintaining it for her.
Well I love my carpet hair. Got it cut short like carpet too 💁🏾♀️
I love it!
Love it too💚❤️
i am an egyptian lady by blood, and i have rough thick curly "carpet " hair and i wear it proud every day as my crown. i love my african roots literally and will never look back.
If anyone agrees with sexy red you minds well just stop crying about r@cism at this point and just accept the bad treatment. 🤷🏽♀️
4c hair is coily hair guys 😂. We can say 1A, 2B, 3,C can look like swamp hair or yarn hair or dead seaweed hair. All hair types have their ups and downs. Nobody is perfect. Especially when you have to wake up in the morning. If you have to do your hair at any given time just to make it look nice, then it is sure not better than the other. Because better hair is supposed to out due the other especially when you don't have to fix it.
We all know how someone operates when they have the most vile things to say about someone or a collective in general for the wrong reasons. Let's not produce too much attention. Instead lets educate among the stupidity and the ignorant instead of being triggered and bashful. Thank You 🤗🖐🏽
Best comment ever 💯
Sometimes you can’t educate red dusty walls
@@Arffff03 even when you can't get through to some people who chooses to be close minded, still speak and show what is good through adversities like this for other people that wants to learn and wants to be educated and follow through. Especially for the youth. Everyone else will come soon if they choose.
I love Doja Cat response
I'm so annoyed at the black communities take on mixed peeps though. Like my mom was half nigerian and stuff but I'm mixed with asian, finish native. We don't get accepted a n y w h e r e and the continuous xenophobia doesn't help.
Im not biracial at all, but my kids are. Ones half black and half white, and the other 3 are half white, half Mexican. I literally look at them and think about this alllll the time. And i wonder how theyll feel about it when theyre adults, and hope they dont have any bad experiences. I also get PISSED about people who talk about the biracial kids who have white moms. 🙄😮💨. And i know how it feels to have a mother who isnt the same as you as well..... bc I was raised for half of my childhood by a black woman/family (foster care) and the reactions to that were all over the place! People asked THEE weirdest questions, as if they had the right. Smh. People are just so weird. 😂.
@@andreaknisley154 see, I was raised as this minority back home called 'Zainichi' (thanks to my dad being ainu and n.korean mixed) that got a lot of crap from japanese folks (Yamato japanese in particular) but when I came to america it was hard too. People actually saw my hair and stuff and heard about my mom and I was called everything from quadroon to ling ling from every community in between. They will get crap growing up, but just be an awsome mom and have their backs you'll do amazing
Fr. I'm not black but I am mixed and people are just so....gross towards people of mixed race/ethnicities. It's weird. Yuck.
@@BarfRainbow black people do not owe u acceptance. You are biracial not black. Funny how y'all only expect acceptance from blacks and not your other races
2:48 made me smile 💖
Edit to comment on biracial identity struggles: As a monoracial Black woman with 4C hair who is a NERD and just "weird" in many ways, there was no hope of fitting in anywhere. I think that the hardest part of being biracial is probably that they get the message/illusion from one or both parents that if they do certain things they'll be accepted more easily by others. I think this is why the kids of Black moms in interracial relationships often fair better EMOTIONALLY than those whose Black parent is the father: misogynoir gives you MAJOR skills and insight into making peace with NEVER being able to make EVERYONE happy. I'll leave it at that before this ends up being an essay lol.
As a biracial person, I'm all ears
Yeah, I think it's because here in the States, if you're biracial, you're still seen as black rather than white as per the one drop rule. So if the mother is white, it's like a white woman raising a black person to be a white person, but if the mother is black, they'll raise them like any other black child.. which is exactly how they'll be seen and treated.
Y'all , have it better than black people still so stop it and love yourself. I'm from the sixties so I know what hate is .
@@user-lv6yg8qe8y y'all?? Who are you replying to?
@@user-lv6yg8qe8y Is that a reply to me?
not the heat damage 😂😂😂 oh redd 😂❤
A BIH WITH SUPER CHEMICALLY PROCESSED HAIR COULD NEVA.😒
real sexy red has no room to talk with her red wig on all the time I swear I have never saw her natural hair and she is always being ghetto and talking bout how she has 60 baby daddies like music like this is setting us back
Real lol
NEVA!!!
Black people really are still saying good and bad hair as if hair has morals. Healthy hair is good hair. God made us the way we are for a reason. God couldn't be wrong.
In the 1700s white people litterly wore wigs that look like “carpet “ hair, along with other melanated aesthetics.
You are crazy
@@LaTrappolaDelToddi and you are threatened by the TRUTH.. that’s a horrible and tiresome side to be on.
@@MyHandle14👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Exactly they boosted that so much “accept history” bull but ignored the true facts
@@MyHandle14 your truth is bullshit you learned online written by people. Muh history, muh people lol. I feel bad, after all, because you have no history nor created anything 😘
This is another game, to stop black women to wear out their natural hair, I don't buy it. they can say what ever they want, I have no chemical, wigs, protective hair style that I am rocking, you don't like my hair kick rocks, I DON"T CARE Or GIVE A DAMN.
Miss me with the hair insults from someone who bragged about having STD’s 😭
It was disproved many times that Dojacat was in “group chats “ speaking negatively about black people
Exactly it was edited cause a guy was mad doja rejected him and even admitted that but that was never brought to light lmaoo
Young thug getting outta hand
Tbh so sick of these narcissistic "famous" people. How bout we dont compare children to mistakes first 🙄
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Carpet hair???? It’s not carpet hair. It’s beautiful 4c curls and coils
Imma call myself spaghetti waves from now on since we nicknaming our hair textures
Any one gonna tell Red the truth. That she look like somebody uncle Jimmy in a wig,
No one can convince me that this syphillis ridden demon isn't Mike Tyson in a wig. 😴
The last guy in the video just sounds ignorant....
It baffles me that this still happens in 2024
Well history isn’t dead
Why do so many people like showing off their trauma and abuse? Even if her hair looks like carpet - so?? Why would that ever be a bad thing? It’s sad when ur wig is ur confidence
The opening line came in hot and hilarious. I'm subscribed at 0:03 seconds. 😂😂😂
It's a 360 WIG !!!!
They both wild. Glad Doja is embracing her natural hair... but she acting like she wasn’t caught on camera saying girls with 4c hair are bald😳
No sexyRed talking about hair. She could nnever buzz her hair like Doja cat
Honestly, the close up of Doja’s hair reminded me of a field of flowers ❤
Blaq ppl have an issue with Doja Cat and it’s completely one sided. Y’all are weirdly obsessed and can’t express why y’all have this weird beef with her. And that ninjas comments about Doja made zero sense.
Lol i've never expected intelligence from a certified bird
OOoOoOoOUUuGhh(Voice crack) 😩 BAY-BEEEE.
oh no … her hair has a lot heat damage 🫥🫥
sexxy redd always came off as problematic to me. her entire brand was based on ratchet behavior and re-encouraging harmful and problematic stereotype to kids. Also Doja absolutely slayed the natural hair look 🔥🔥🔥
I’m not a Doja Cat fan by any means. I’m not biracial, so I don’t understand her distress. I might be numb to the insults because of self love. However, I wish her the best with her feelings and find the comments made about her hair disgusting.
Doja has 4C hair
@biancalord488 Actually I think it's 4B but you maybe be right I guess.
😂 Doja demonic behind pisses me off, but I stand by her this once, with The Bible at my side.
🤣🤣🤣 What is wrong with you?
@@tintamanengu she has been doing too much demon cosplay as of a few years.
Out here calling it carpet hair when she looks like she’s been out here eating grass 🐮with the same thing on her head it’s just relaxed and pressed my manz
I don’t even like sexyredd not because I’m a hater it’s because the things she talks about even though she has kids… which is a bad influence.
Imma say it. I hate red.
4c hair is the best. The self hate be real.
I love it...the hair
Its funny that people expected her to be a kind person and a good influence on girls.
2:48 this was cute😂❤️
After the whole Rap beef with Kendrick and Drake, i'm starting to see some...reasons why someone like Drake would hang with Redhead.
Why do we care about the comparison though. All hair gets compared to textiles. Wool and cotton aren't superior to silk nor satin. The actual problem is the fact we consider certain textures inferior.
It's not really the comparison but the context, "my hair feels as soft as a cloud" isn't the same as "your carpet hair could never" nothing against carpets 😄
@@tintamanengu that’s pretty much what I said. Some curl patterns are tight and densely packed like carpet nap. There’s literally nothing wrong with that. It’s the people reinforcing texture caste system/hierarchy not the accurate comparison. It’s the same as those who try associating negative imagery and connotations to brown skin and the preferential treatment shown to fairer skin tones.
Girl you got a silk press , do you want a cookie?
Am with u Doja
Ooh Tinta, your hair is lovely.
Aaaaw thank you 😊🤗❤️💚
I know does Dominican girl who hates her 4c hair because her whole family hates that texture and she buy those expensive wigs that look real and you could do exactly what sexy friend is doing it and show scalp so it's kind of believable she spends thousands of dollars for those types of wigs just so she could have pretty hair those are her words
I thought that sexy red was really pretty, and her music was catchy, but now that I saw that post, I don’t know how to feel…… I don’t know my hair, but that was a low blow. There’s nothing wrong with 4c hair!
Doesn’t anyone remember how she stated she supports trump? She lost all my support back then… that man is gross, and was already a turn off back then
My hair isn’t carpet hair, too many of my ancestors worked our hair to be beautiful to compare it an item to be stepped on. And I was always told I had good hair as a man. Well try to comb it and style it…. It takes hours. Don’t disrespect my being. Appreciate the love and care that goes into it to make u think it’s so called good hair…. It’s fabulous hair and it’s luxurious hair because it takes that kinda care. Stop the bs.
LAWD, see, I tried to be good today, but this was in my feed, I thank You, GOD MY FOUR C HAIR . HAIR LIKE WOOL, I GET IT FROM YOU.
Idk why I find it interesting. As edgy and out spoken as doja cat is, she censors herself when it comes to racism. I felt like she was holding back in that video and wanted to use the word “racist” but said “wild”. I feel like she panders so much to white audiences that she’s selective what she’s outspoken about. I feel bad for her that she was just a white cultured childhood that she might not fully feel confident addressing racism for what it is.
I love how doja said something. Its sad that sexy has 4c hair and no edges calling black women hair carpet hair she hates herself foreal like who does that.
Your skin is so nice ❤
Aaaaaaaw 🤗 Thank you 😊💚❤️
I’m waiting for people to realize products should be bought for hair porosity not texture
Not me having 4c hair as a black person watching this 😬
It’s time for us to stop being offended about comments about our hair. Yes our hair looks like sheep hair, popcorn, carpet, rugs etc, but bay behhhh our hair is beautiful, lush, curly, springy, amazing and so much more. I love my cotton textured hair.
I think it's more so the context in which it's used that makes it not okay, me saying my hair is as soft as a cloud is not insulting even if clouds just like sheep and carpet are non human.
6:34 little does he know before she got big she rocked her natural fro plenty of times even after she got big so what is he talking about? A lot of ppl were mad she was trolling talking about her hair only for them to be doing the same shit. It’s like only we can make fun of our hair but if someone mix has the same texture and they can’t say nothing about it especially if they don’t come off like your stereotypical black person. Bye yo 😂
Doja Has Beautiful Hair, Imagaine Referring to someones hair as a carpet while wearing lace fronts and weave 🤦🏻♀️ like be your authentic self or dont comment on a style you wish you could pull off, NOT "sexy" red. 🥴😵💫
The versatility of 4c hair can’t be duplicated or compared to ANYTHING else! I love mine
To that reaction guy: she showed her hair that’s a big step, she’s insecure about it. It’s not just a mixed thing, a lot of us black girls are insecure about our hair texture. Her taking a big leap from talking bad about herself to making her hair her album cover is a big thing. She didn’t ask for it and if she did that doesn’t mean she deserves it and it’s definitely not a mixed thing
Wooly hair is Godly. She better recognize
Love the hair that people can't copy. Sad that they teach you to cut your hair, so they can't see the beauty of your crown. That you can style as many crowns.
i love 4c hair and i always feel heartbroken when i see my friends feel like its not beautiful enough....
This woman is too foul I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt by her just making money off of being controversial and rebellious and it's bad when Doja cat who openly hates her hair has to check you. I just got my hair relaxed after 7 years just to make it more manageable because I don't feel comfortable wearing wigs anymore. I grew my hair down to my shoulders I initially cut it all off because I was tired of an abuser using it as a weapon, I happened to meet a hustler stylist who maintains my hair for cheap, a Puerto Rican woman taught me how to do my edges, but I understand why Doja, one who purposely acts like a clown sometimes wants to be free of wigs hell I feel spiritually free not having to wear them anymore, and accept her own head and this is a positive thing for black women. Like I might not be rocking 4c, but it's my own crown now.
We already know Sexyyred has no respect for herself.The self hatred is sad.
Im white and have like- 3c hair or loose coils and omg, red NEEDS to shut her damn mouth. I always loved the way 4c looks on people and like- it’s so natural and beautiful… sexy red isn’t too sexy… like girl… pls pipe down 😂😂
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I'm convinced Sexxy Red needs attention since she's a one-hit wonder now
It looks like she fries her hair anyway to look like that