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  • @silkyful9853
    @silkyful9853 Před rokem +676

    How dare you inflict this pain on me. That's right Raph, be mad for what they went through, you are better.

  • @yolo_ct17
    @yolo_ct17 Před rokem +210

    Reminds me of the time my own little bro called me mom. I was stunned lol, i just froze and looked at him and said " i am NOT your mom. I'm your sibling, mom's at work." And then he looked at me, blinked and left to play with toys. I stood there looking almost exactly how raph looked. My mom and dad always left me at home with my younger siblings so i was basically like their parent, of course i had my older sister there with me but she never helped, all she did was watch t.v. i hoped that he or my other younger sister would have never called me their mom. But it was just wishful thinking. Somehow deep down i knew it was gonna happen sooner or later. And I'm the middle child, most people say that the oldest is like the second parent, but for me I'm the second person. It pains me to realize that i had my childhood taken away from me far to early. I relate to raph on to many levels.

    • @ninjafalls1739
      @ninjafalls1739 Před rokem +11

      You know…when my brother was smaller he called me “momma” a few times.
      My mom and stepdad said it’s because I looked like her and he mistaked us. Yet we were in the same room together wearing entirely different outfits even before I had glasses and got my haircut….
      It kinda makes me think what if that…WASNT an accident…

    • @ninjafalls1739
      @ninjafalls1739 Před rokem +5

      Sometimes my brother accidentally calls me “mom” before correcting himself to “Sam” when I visit him..

    • @yolo_ct17
      @yolo_ct17 Před rokem +4

      ​@@ninjafalls1739 yeah no that was not an accident

    • @Firefox42
      @Firefox42 Před 7 měsíci +1

      God I still remember having to tell my sister to call me “sissy” instead of mama.

    • @yolo_ct17
      @yolo_ct17 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@Firefox42 recently I've noticed I have to keep correcting myself, like when when I'm on the phone with my friend and they ask who's being so loud in the back ground. I'll begin to say "my kids-" but half way through kid I correct myself.

  • @tickettothesystem
    @tickettothesystem Před rokem +581

    Older siblings in neglectful households often go through this, at one point they always end up having to be the parental figure and it's painful to go through. Even if the household becomes healthy, the older siblings never heal from that, they will continue acting as the parent and will fear giving up that position. I'm sorry to everyone who's gone through that, Raph shows clear signs of that.
    And a lot of people tell me that Splinter did his best and that he's trying, which is true, but it doesn't change the fact that they still have trauma and Raph acts as the responsible one rather than Splinter. A 15 year old should never feel responsible for keeping their siblings alive and well, he's the one handling chore charts and protecting them, he's the one risking everything and giving up everything and it's unfair to him.
    Sorry for making this long, this one just made me think a lot more than many other videos, especially since I had a friend whose younger brother relied on them as a parent and even called him dad.

    • @lilly-cipher
      @lilly-cipher Před rokem +5

      Actually Raphael is 17 Leo and donnien are 15 and Mikey is 13....you know that right??? Right geez and they say I need to do research. 😕🤨😑😮‍💨

    • @tickettothesystem
      @tickettothesystem Před rokem +23

      @@lilly-cipher Also, when correcting others, please don't be rude about it from now on, people can make mistakes and it's fine. You would prefer someone not to make you feel like a fool and everyone else would prefer the same. And providing proof or evidence of some kind would also be helpful in making people understand what you're talking about. Thank you :>

    • @lilly-cipher
      @lilly-cipher Před rokem +10

      Sorry I didn't mean to come across as rude I was trying to be blunt and sorry again

    • @lilly-cipher
      @lilly-cipher Před rokem +8

      Your right and I'm sorry it's a bad habit of mine and my little sister ask certain things about characters like ages and other stuff

    • @tickettothesystem
      @tickettothesystem Před rokem +12

      @@lilly-cipher I really appreciate you telling me this, thank you so much for being honest about this! Take care of yourself, you've got this ^v^

  • @TiredCatt
    @TiredCatt Před rokem +33

    I heart dropped when he had the angry expression on his face. Why 😭💔

  • @yaaaaasfire9621
    @yaaaaasfire9621 Před rokem +294

    Aw duuuude i just read a fic abt this parentification
    Like my heart, mikey thinking raph is his dad when he just a kid burdened w too much responsibility.
    Also niiiiice drawing

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem +27

      Ooooh what fic???

    • @yaaaaasfire9621
      @yaaaaasfire9621 Před rokem +35

      @@wyrmonstring the ao3 series called "child of mine" by Angelicca which basically have a oneshot of each turtle relating to splinters bad-sub-par parenting

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem +25

      @@yaaaaasfire9621 sounds like itll hurt me cant wait to read it

    • @blankedeye1451
      @blankedeye1451 Před rokem +15

      ​@@wyrmonstringthere's also "as though (they) were mine" on ao3, which, funnily enough, has a scene similar to the one shown here :)

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem +6

      @@blankedeye1451 Thats actually what inspired this clip!! I said so on my instagram posting but i guess i forgot to add it in the description of this one 😅 i greatly recommend the fic it made me cry a bit

  • @wanderingwildlife6639
    @wanderingwildlife6639 Před rokem +112

    I still adore this, with pain.

  • @wabbyjane
    @wabbyjane Před rokem +8

    Okay, ramble time I guess. I love Splinter, I think he’s a great dad who taught the boys a lot of good things. But, I have to agree that I don’t think he was- all there. And understandably, he’d been through a lot. He’d just been released from a decade long imprisonment where everyday had been a fight, and turned into this weird rat man with FOUR children he had literally not had time to prepare for. Raph was a big help in literally just being the oldest, in the fact that he developed quicker than his brothers. I think, as Splinter’s body grew older and more- rat like, and as he saw Raph take more control and help out, he got more relaxed, especially as they became teenagers. Now, I relate to this a lot, because my mom had this tendency to shut us all out. She was home, she didn’t work, but she left me in charge of my 5 younger siblings almost everyday, while she suffered through burn out and depression in her room continuously for months. My youngest two brothers have both called me mom at some point in my teen hood, which I corrected. I have had many arguments, and late night yelling at my mother to be better, to talk to us more, but it never changed, and she’d continue to complain about always being the bad parent. Honestly, I feel like I failed them. But enough of that, all this to say I get it. Splinter is such an interesting character to me, and I love seeing his character development in the show. I love thinking about what sort of things happened in their childhood that shaped who they are. For example, I don’t think Leo or Donnie got a lot of attention, hence why they seek out attention. Donnie got more than Leo just because he is ~special~, a soft shell, a genius, autistic. Hence why Leo acts out and hides behind jokes. I think Raph was given a lot of responsibility, which made him bossy, like most oldest siblings are. I think Mikey is more allowed to have fun, because he had the most support growing up, from all his older brothers, and that makes him the most emotionally mature. I just think it’s neat.
    Don’t mind me, info dumping character analysis and trauma on this really well done short animatic, with really good expressions might I add. I’m going to just, leave this here…

  • @dide8625
    @dide8625 Před rokem +46

    I kinda wanna see this but Donnie, because I think that he got the worst end of the negligence.

  • @A3yu0
    @A3yu0 Před rokem +95

    I saw this on tv i was like
    OMG ShE PosTeD AnOtHeR ViDeO
    God damn i just love your drawings and animations.
    CONTINUE THE AMAZING VIDEOS

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem +10

      Ahhhhh!!! Thank you so much! People like you make this so worth it!!

  • @angelamarbus3996
    @angelamarbus3996 Před rokem +7

    Just so sad that Ralph didn’t have a parental figure and that he became the parental figure for his brothers for such a long time that his brother think that he is the father at a young age this just makes me cry 😢alot

  • @dude..what-
    @dude..what- Před rokem +44

    Why do ypu do this to meee 😭😭😭
    Love it tho now i grieve for moreeee

    • @Eggshells_1
      @Eggshells_1 Před rokem +1

      I went through the 5 stages of grief except acceptance-

  • @jessicaandcharli7114
    @jessicaandcharli7114 Před rokem +26

    love this, but the pain you have brought has made me cry :)

  • @courtneyventurin3490
    @courtneyventurin3490 Před rokem +14

    Ummmm spliter you just built a hole new anger in raph

  • @moniqueperkinsmp
    @moniqueperkinsmp Před rokem +13

    man this sucks when you remember splinter neglecting his kids most of the time for the "good ol' days" of being lu jitsu and stuff

  • @JB__Edits
    @JB__Edits Před rokem +2

    OMG I READ A FIC EXACTLY LIKE THIS (love the art and the PAIN)

  • @monke_studios_inc
    @monke_studios_inc Před rokem +2

    This was like a stab into the heart.. it reminds me so much of my older sister, who was basically a second mom and the one who raised me. It hurts knowing this was probably what it was like for her for YEARS without me knowing.

  • @coree_corz
    @coree_corz Před rokem +3

    The realization hit. AND IT HIT HARD.
    and im not crying my eyes are role playing a waterfall

  • @Anonymous_vibez
    @Anonymous_vibez Před rokem +9

    Ahhhh it is pain time 🥲

  • @DaN1-H99
    @DaN1-H99 Před rokem +2

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOT MY BABIES!!!!!! In major need of a hug from Splintz😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @devineromero5153
    @devineromero5153 Před rokem +2

    I was the middle child but I had to take care of the older and younger siblings. My older sister had seizures. She was there for me when she could but not often.

  • @_-Al-_
    @_-Al-_ Před rokem +14

    D:
    -i havent even watched it yet and my friends have already dragged me down the hole- hdxjc

    • @_-Al-_
      @_-Al-_ Před rokem +1

      update: Im now on the last episode and I am Not Okay-

    • @Ramblinggg
      @Ramblinggg Před rokem

      ​@@_-Al-_ have you seen the movie yet?? :33

    • @_-Al-_
      @_-Al-_ Před rokem

      ​@Ramblinggg I havent yet, Im waiting for my sister to watch at least one episode so I done have to get emotionally destroyed alone 😂

    • @Ramblinggg
      @Ramblinggg Před rokem

      @@_-Al-_ good call lmao that movie is an emotional rollercoaster goddamn xD

  • @frankmascari7555
    @frankmascari7555 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Splendor was never really around, much so the only father figure Mikey really, honestly had was his older brothers and raph took that responsibility even for ever, because he's the biggest

  • @VIPERTHEWEIRDO
    @VIPERTHEWEIRDO Před rokem +2

    AWWWW RAPH PLEASE LET ME GIVE YOU A HUG- (pat pat)

  • @The-Real-All-Mighty-Zim
    @The-Real-All-Mighty-Zim Před 3 měsíci +1

    This could be cannon because in multiple episodes the turtles are happy and act like it's never happened before over a hug and in the episode where the "Car fair" happens Splinter talks to them so little that Donnie has a calendar for each time Splinter interacted with them and Splinter called Raph, purple even tho Donnie's purple and Splinter was mad at the turtle's for destroying a microwave, and in the series Splinter spend most of his time sitting on the couch and watching TV and the list goes on (Sorry for ranting)

  • @macaquethe1andonly
    @macaquethe1andonly Před rokem +6

    𝗖𝗥𝗬𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗚𝗚𝗚 𝗖𝗥𝗬𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗚𝗚

  • @potatooo.is.deaddd
    @potatooo.is.deaddd Před 8 měsíci

    Raph being reminded that he's more of a father figure than splinter....

  • @hoshikotoons6765
    @hoshikotoons6765 Před rokem +2

    STOP MAKING ME CRY /POS
    no but really i still love this

  • @Firefox42
    @Firefox42 Před 7 měsíci

    God this reminded me too god damn much of my own childhood. We’ll get through this raph.

  • @The-watter
    @The-watter Před rokem +2

    I feal this omg. Even tho the houce is healthier now I'm so scared to give up the parent position. I just don't trust them.

  • @insomniatic_autism
    @insomniatic_autism Před 6 měsíci +1

    I didn’t get it a month ago, but now that I realize my daddy issues I understand

  • @cat_tales
    @cat_tales Před rokem +1

    I can't relate to this, but man.. it hit the feels hard 😭

  • @NeonStars_Atlas
    @NeonStars_Atlas Před 7 měsíci +1

    Fuck that felt personal

  • @Dragon_Hart666
    @Dragon_Hart666 Před rokem

    Yeah, my younger sibling calls me mom all the time and then corrects themselves to say sissy. It's painful every time thinking that I might be their sole caretaker one day.

  • @user-TMNTperson
    @user-TMNTperson Před 8 dny

    (intense crying and sobbing)

  • @Ilovejesuayesido
    @Ilovejesuayesido Před rokem +3

    He’s posed of 😂

  • @Meandtommy1234
    @Meandtommy1234 Před rokem +1

    I feel like we need a part two❤❤😂😂

  • @Chimi_Kat
    @Chimi_Kat Před rokem

    I feel so bad, it hurts

  • @sage-ivy3697
    @sage-ivy3697 Před rokem

    I know this kind of feeling despite being the youngest, I’ve been called mature for my age and I’m actually the person who has to put rules, clean, and almost just watch over my brothers despite being the youngest. (By a land slide)
    I might not have been called mom or dad, but hell for sure I had to act like one.
    Waking up my siblings, Making them take showers sometimes, forcing them to go to bed, and also break up so many fights.
    (I have pretty bad bipolar, adhd, and autism and with other stuff, which lead up to me having anger out burst and I usually try my best to not show my brothers this, Also Damn- of topic but I didn’t really realized how much i related to raph as I always denied it with the “I’m the youngest”)
    I honestly wanted to post this just to basically say to all the people who deal with this, oldest, middle child, or youngest, your valid and I’m very sorry you had to go through this, just know there people who understand and can empathize with what your going through your not alone

  • @RyleeShea
    @RyleeShea Před rokem

    Being a middle child I relate to this my little brothers call me mama bc my dad is very rude and honestly abusive to them.

  • @briarthorne
    @briarthorne Před 11 měsíci

    Ahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaa
    Being called "Mom" or "dad" by your sibling go brrrr

  • @SodaCider641
    @SodaCider641 Před rokem +1

    It’s too early in the morning for angst! 💔

  • @unicornmustache9273
    @unicornmustache9273 Před rokem

    WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO ME RN (thank you omg it's so great)

  • @andrielisilien
    @andrielisilien Před 7 měsíci

    So like, Splinter had the time and capacity to train them all to be awesome ninjas but none at all to accept a drawing? i know nobody is perfect but... Damn. 😢

  • @Samueltheidioticbozo
    @Samueltheidioticbozo Před rokem

    Bro this reminds me the time my dad got a new gf(years after my parents divorced we spend some time with our dad) she was really nice and my sister sisters and little brother started Calling her mom except me because I didn't know how much replacing my own mom could hurt me even after all she's done to me

  • @InkSansDrawz
    @InkSansDrawz Před 10 měsíci

    one of the people in my head: dont say it.
    me: im gonna say it.
    them: ......no...maybe-
    me: GOTTA LOVE THAT *f a t h e r l y* RAGE. (ive felt that before :D)

  • @LocalT.S.A.M.SFan1
    @LocalT.S.A.M.SFan1 Před 8 měsíci

    [If I may, I would like to vent. Read if you want.]
    Raph is literally me. I am a middle child out of 5 siblings. My parents are always either at work, too exhausted, or too busy. So I have to act like the parent and keep everyone in line. My father works all day, only coming home after we get to bed. My mother works most of the day, and my older brother is autistic. So I have to take on the task of making my siblings lunch, breakfast, doing all of the chores, looking out for them, feeding the dog, etc. The two oldest are never around, so I have to take on those responsibilities EVERY DAY. I do all of this and have proven myself responsible and mature multiple times, yet I'm still not trusted or treated like I'm responsible. I have been the parent for my siblings because our ACTUAL parents never had the time. Even when they did, I was NEVER given as much attention as my siblings. I am always left out and ignored. I'm treated like the dirt they walk on. When I asked for help because of my depression, asthma, and ADHD, I was treated as if it wasn't a big idea. I have all the mental and physical issues, I'm the one who's never given attention, I'm always last on the priority list. I'm treated like shit because I came out wrong. The middle child stereotype really is true.
    I truely am the fuck up.
    The forgotten one.

  • @M00n_0rch1d
    @M00n_0rch1d Před rokem +3

    oh oh no oh god

  • @gracie6263
    @gracie6263 Před rokem +1

    As the oldest sibling, major felt lol

  • @lux629
    @lux629 Před rokem +6

    Splinter wasn't neglectful. Do people just completely not understand his character??

    • @p1nk_anthem
      @p1nk_anthem Před rokem +5

      Ehh at the start of the show he was pretty neglectful. He spent most of the time on the couch watching tv and eating. Yes he did grow and yes at the very start when the turtles were babies/tots he was taking care of them pretty well. And I do understand why he was neglecting them at first but it still doesn’t give him the right to. Or maybe I’m wrong and this is just an AU i dunno

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem +7

      Splinter was suffering from depression and trauma in many ways, and he clearly loves his sons very very much, and i know that Spliter gets more active in his role of a father in the later part of the show but in my own personal past i know that despite these things neglect can still happen, regardless of intention, this particular clip was based around the idea of Splinter fading from an parental standing when the turts showed more independence, accidentally leaving raph to pick up the slack. The ending is supposed to imply that raph then goes talks or yells at his dad, and in my opinion Splinter then tries to recify his actions. The turtles are not in the perfect spot when it comes to openess between them and ther Dad but its clear they have expectations set up and an understanding of what is normal, and what means the other needs help, this impossible without some prior communication, which includes talks about misunderstandings and mistakes. This is my own interpretation and you are welcome to disagree, the great thing about this fandom is all the different people and interpretations! :) sorry for the infodump, im not trying to convince you of anything i just like discussing different character aspects :D

    • @wabbyjane
      @wabbyjane Před rokem +2

      I agree! I don’t think he was neglectful. I do think Raph had to help his dad out a lot because raising four kiddos alone has got to be difficult. Raph would’ve developed quicker than his brothers, and been able to help sooner. I mean it’s hard enough to raise one kid alone. Sometimes, just being in that situation can cause parentification. Raph doesn’t have to be the replacement dad in this, he could just be seen as like dad. Raph’s reaction to Mikey calling him that implies more child neglect than Mikey’s actions calling him dad.

  • @CADENCELOVESTMNT
    @CADENCELOVESTMNT Před rokem

    REVENGE TIME IM GOING WITH RAPH LETS GO

  • @carrielajeunesse5776
    @carrielajeunesse5776 Před rokem

    And that’s how raph became the father figure to his brothers while still being their brother

  • @sophiachavarria
    @sophiachavarria Před rokem

    Kids at an age were any female is mom and any male is a dad

  • @lirielcruz9641
    @lirielcruz9641 Před rokem

    SJSJJAANK RAPH LEMME HUG AJHS

  • @Usagi.Yuichi
    @Usagi.Yuichi Před rokem +1

    Awwwww...........
    Wait

  • @Ihave_acringenameX3
    @Ihave_acringenameX3 Před rokem

    MY HEART
    HOW DARE YOU GIVE ME SADNESS
    I want more pls-

    • @wyrmonstring
      @wyrmonstring  Před rokem

      This just reminded me to check if i posted pt 2 lmaoo

  • @Bigd23813
    @Bigd23813 Před 3 měsíci +1

    As someone who has experienced neglect I feel people over exaggerate the flaws of Rise splinters character, sure he wasnt Bandit from Bluey but doesnt mean hes an irredeemably abusive and neglectful person. People in the fandom describing rise splinters behavior towards his kids as abusive feels invalidating as someone whos had to raise 8 siblings at the expense of my own health and safety but thats just me. Another thing is Rise Splinter literally chose his sons over the ENTIRE human race in handing over the last of the dark armor to draxum. Yes, he is not perfect but to reduce his character to just a horrible parent is frustrating he was left with kids he didint consent to having of course he is not gonna be Bandit levels of awesome dad with his kids but hes not some evil person some people in the fandom make it out to be. sorry just needed to vent its not directed at the person who made this video just some of the takes in the comments, no hate just my opinion

  • @depressoespresso5904
    @depressoespresso5904 Před rokem

    first of all how dare you
    second of all how dare you be so good

  • @Queenofgames1018
    @Queenofgames1018 Před 8 měsíci +1

    People who had to watch it so many times to understand what was wrong
    👇

  • @georginapia4597
    @georginapia4597 Před rokem

    YUM YUM PAIN

  • @RiseLeon_Turtle
    @RiseLeon_Turtle Před rokem

    What is going on? Is that baby mikey?! i have no clue what's going on, and what's the angst, but im so happy, i dont understand, and i just get to look at this happy little thing. XD

  • @Ur_Tsahik
    @Ur_Tsahik Před rokem

    Dada instinct,

  • @crazed_idiot
    @crazed_idiot Před 11 měsíci

    My heart is feeling shit and it hasn’t felt shit in A LONG TIME

  • @A-really-cool-Youtube-name

    Oh nose

  • @chloegood4134
    @chloegood4134 Před rokem

    Aw Dad 😭

  • @elmerwright5926
    @elmerwright5926 Před rokem +1

    Wait, is that a sign of child neglect? Is that not normal??

  • @skyehartsz
    @skyehartsz Před rokem

    im not so good with theblore so coudl soemone explain pls?

  • @fluffed_starlight6839

    🙁☹️😢😭

  • @Gaypeoplerawesome
    @Gaypeoplerawesome Před rokem

    Real tears.

  • @yourlocalpossum4744
    @yourlocalpossum4744 Před rokem

    WAIT OMG ITS YOU, THE PERSON WITH ALL TJE SAME LIKES AS ME ON INSTA!!! HI

  • @_strawberry_milkx
    @_strawberry_milkx Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wait i dont get it ???