WHY I LEFT THE CHURCH [VLOG #3]

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  • čas přidán 25. 11. 2021
  • #christiantalks #gabevlogs
    This is of my own experience, I don't intend to generalize but I'd be lying if I only know a few people with the same sentiments. Heck, even people from inside are opening up to me about their experiences. I guess this might be a call for change for those who run things inside congregations. Starting right is better than starting all over again.
    We can do right by the people who are genuinely seeking God. The amount of stories I've heard from people who used to go to church is just pointblank heartbreaking. No one should ever experience things like these, let alone inside the house of God.
    I'm sharing this with you not to ignite your pain or your anger, but to simply convince you that Jesus is not like the people who hurt you and I know you know that. The enemy might be telling you that Jesus did those things to you but He didn't and satan is nothing but a pathological liar.
    Together, we can represent Jesus better. Minus the aesthetics, the sound system, the instagram posts, witty captions, are we representing Jesus well?
    My comment section is open for you if you feel like sharing your story with me/us. This is a safe space. I pray God heals your soul and your heart.
    You are loved beyond measure and you deserve better treatment from your brothers and sisters in Christ.
    We all do.

Komentáře • 33

  • @ElRey-sg3qj
    @ElRey-sg3qj Před 2 lety +7

    Honestly same feels kuya Gab. Toxic positivity, Homophobic, and a enabler culture has been in the system for a long time. I lost trust with the people inside the church and hopefully we can heal with all the things we went through..! pure love kuya

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety +1

      I'm very sorry that you had to go through that my brother, praying for you man! Mahigpit na mahigpit na yakap! 😭😭😭Mahal ka ni Jesus, at hindi mag babago yon kahit san mundo mo ipalo ang ulo mo. Mahal na mahal ka niya.

  • @hydratedsoda
    @hydratedsoda Před 2 lety +1

    We attended the same church and im glad that i left before i even saw more of that. STAY HONEST and do good on your ways! keep it up kuya gab!

  • @vyejtd
    @vyejtd Před 2 lety

    Hugsy, Gab!! Labyu. Praying for growth and accountability sa ating lahat huhu. May Jesus be seen and known through us the Church. 😭

  • @ZA-qz7nr
    @ZA-qz7nr Před 2 lety +2

    Na experience ko din to pre. I can relate to you!

  • @RaphJohn
    @RaphJohn Před 2 lety

    Damn I feel you, man!

  • @thekennethbryan
    @thekennethbryan Před 2 lety

    Hi gabe, how are ya? I dunno if you still remember me. We used to be churchmates and I just wanna say thank you for speaking up coz whatever you feel, I felt that too.

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety +2

      Hi, Kuya Ken! Syempre naman i remember u hehe. Im sorry you had to go through to that. Jesus would never do that to you, He loves you with every fiber of His being!

    • @thekennethbryan
      @thekennethbryan Před 2 lety +1

      @@GabePineda aww thanks buddy. I appreciate your kind words. ❤

  • @Donnie.Guitar
    @Donnie.Guitar Před 2 lety

    Gabe.. i feel you bro.. i pray that you may heal quickly.. i love you bro and forgive me if i have offended you in anyway. :)

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      If it's brave to talk about things like these, it's braver to actually apologize and take accountability meron or wala man nagawang nakaka-offend. I hope you continue being an example sa mga nasasakupan mo, koy and I hope they do the same from here on out. Let's create a new Christ-like culture! Grace and blessings! Much love koy! :)

  • @michdavid745
    @michdavid745 Před 2 lety +2

    💯

  • @yeng6010
    @yeng6010 Před 2 lety

    💯💯💯

  • @kikzkiko1653
    @kikzkiko1653 Před 2 lety +1

    Skl being Bornagain Christian.. By God alone thru Faith alone In Christ alone.. Walang church na perfect pero kung ikaw talaga ay pinili ng Diyos di kana maaapektuhan sa mga nega inside da church.. Dahil i believe pinaunawa na sau ng Diyos na all things work together for good for those who love God.. At di man natin maunawaan bakit sila ganun ..pero ung trust mo na kay Lord na ..indi na sa tao

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      I’m all for that “pinili ka ni Lord” pero as I said in the video, ang mindset na “walang perfect na church” is exactly the reason why some people inside the church don’t want to grow. And if sinasabi niyo po na walang perfect na church, that further proves my point na there is something wrong and you just confirmed it. What are we doing about it? Are we holding these people accountable?

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      It’s the same old saying na “dapat di ka na na-ooffend”. It perpetuates stagnancy sa mga kristyano na patuloy walang sawang nang titisod ng mga kapatid nila sa Panginoon. Nasa mundo tayo, wala pa tayo sa langit. Offense will always be there. What we can do is hold the people who offended other people accountable and uphold them to the same standard that they uphold other people. Hindi yung pag sila yung nag kamali sinasabi nila, “Oh dapat di ka na ooffend, bakit di ba okay relationship mo kay Lord?” pero kapag iba ang nag kamali, walang karapatan sabihin yon. Pinapaalis sa church, bina-ban, disciplinary action, pinapahiya at marami pang iba.

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      Maraming tao at leaders sa loob ng simbahan ang nag take advantage sa “no one should be offended” policy ng mga simbahan. Kaya sobrang daming natitisod and kapag natisod sila, kasalanan nila? Nope. I believe Jesus won’t allow that if He were here.

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      @@yooo2916 hindi naman po ako umalis ng church tapos nag yaya ako ng mga kasama ko hehe. if may umalis after kong umalis, nakita nila nakita ko.

    • @GabePineda
      @GabePineda  Před 2 lety

      @@yooo2916 hindi naman po ako umalis ng church tapos nag yaya ako ng mga kasama ko hehe. if may umalis after kong umalis, nakita nila nakita ko.

  • @MICHAELKEVIN1994
    @MICHAELKEVIN1994 Před 2 lety

    Hey bro. Won't tell anything, but sobra ako nakaka-relate sa mga statements mo. I've been there. Sa totoo lang, laking church din ako, pero yun nga, I saw what you saw, and I experienced what you experienced. Actually buong family namin umalis ng simbahan dahil sa mga ganung bagay. Hehe. Ganun pa man, let's still do good to people 😊

  • @now9611
    @now9611 Před 2 lety

    The Quran is the only book where yhwh speaks himself directly !! Blessings 🙏🏻❤️

  • @rolandoventura919
    @rolandoventura919 Před 2 lety

    The Church are the true followers of Christ; not the registered religious denominations. I'm praying that you will continue to follow Jesus Christ and let the Holy Spirit guide you into all truths and towards the fellowship of the saints.

  • @NerdyUpdatesPH
    @NerdyUpdatesPH Před 2 lety

    cringe sa mga may Arrogant Christian Syndrome

  • @bobbytarantino7560
    @bobbytarantino7560 Před 2 lety

    💯