HUSBAND OVERHEARD HIS WIFE'S CONVERSATION; THE MATTER IS SHOCKING || Justice Court EP 181
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Forever will I be grateful to my younger step mum, God give that woman long life, she is not perfect but she go enjoy me , I can’t wait to buy her the latest car in town.
God will give you money
Wow. You make me tearing now.... Is my first time hearing someone talk good about step mom😢 even if they are good, some forget the good part and clip to the little misunderstanding they have with there step mom.....
@@diamondsr4marie Amen
@@favoritetv9678 True people always forget the good side and focus on their flaws as if they are not human abeg not me bcos this woman tried well for me, and I can never be an ingrate .
She must have been really good to you guys
She seems like a good lady just that she’s young and a lot is expected from her
Exactly... 1 crate of beer for you
Exactly
So because she's young she has no faults, my dear that's it start until she'll start regretting later in life..,patient is the mother of all success n where was her eyes and mind when she wanted to marry this man? It was because of little money she was collecting from the man ,another man is somewhere given her again lol.
Exactly
Assumption is the poorest form of knowledge.
This is the comment that got me straight up in my head and mind. And That's just it .
Facts
I think the problem is the man seeing the wife as not loving his children. If he sees her as the mother of these children, the problem is solved
nope, she has other attitude, i am battling with one in the house, you can hear every
@@ayodeleolaoluwa5304a lady lied that the husband hit her and tore her cloth when the husband have never even ones maltreat her that way also how can a wife slap her husband 4 times but if it was a man I’m sure u guys would have sent him to jail by finding justice for that wickedness bitch that call herself a wife
Exactly
@@ayodeleolaoluwa5304 I don't think so. Try to patiently communicate because those children are smart and will try to separate you both thinking that will bring their mother back. Your wife is just reacting to the way you have been treating her.
@ayodeleolaoluwa5304 she is not the same woman you are battling with, dey don't hv the same trait, not same family nd dey are not same character wise. U can't know more dan her husband. So stop generalising things with D one u have at home, dey are two different persons... Meanwhile if dey ask D one u claim u are battling with, u might even be D problem nd D headache she is having
It takes wisdom to stay married. Marriage is not for fools.
You can say that again
Louder📢
Hmn. Pls when it's become life threatening, run.
The woman is well-read. I just like both of them. Even the man is not lagging behind.
Na she make her choice, if a man let go of first wife ,he will not stop there.
This is a tricky case, and let's remember that children can be very manipulative, especially if they aren't happy their two parents are no longer together.
but they are children regardless... its learned behaviour. Be kind and love them and treat them like our own and they will blossom.
Very right!!
hmmmmm, but the way you take the child he or she wnt reason it except you are giving them attitude, gbam
@@ayodeleolaoluwa5304hmmm you're 👍 ght to an extend but if their left mother is not doing well where she go,and someone poison their mind the gonna hate the new wife,no matter how you show them love
And?? You still don’t ask somebody to leave their childeren !! Don’t marry people with childeren if you don’t like the kids !!
Both of them are GOOD parent.GOOD wive, GOOD HUSBAND.
The judge is so full of wisdom.God bless her for her wise counsel
The security don de loose weight
@@victorezeagu1893Tinubu has happened to him 😂😂😂
@victorezeagu1893 you self see pass juju😅😅😅😅
@@debbiebalogun8803exactly oo 😂
Nah, he goes to gym too much 😂😂@@victorezeagu1893
I pray for both of them to resolve this issue amicably and come back together. They both look pretty good together. Man, please dont loose this woman. She will make a good wife pls. Wife, listen up, that man is a good and responsible man. Please don't loose him. Street is not smiling o.
This is the result of "NO GREE FOR ANYBODY"... Marriage is sweet if you can manage anger and you can swallow your pride. Communication create love and closeness
I totally agree with you.
They need understanding between them.
You will make a good marriage counselor 👍
@@tajikistan55 Absolutely both of them don't want to "gree" for one another..as depicted by the narratives here in the courts. 😂
Street is not smiling at all..that's the Truth...
I love this Chief Judge intelligence and wisdom as a person.
Thanks
the first wife will be in one corner laughing out loud 😅😂
Aswerugad 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Walahi, the first wife would be happy now
Why are you reasoning like dumb
Abiii😢😢
And I like how she left the kids for him 😂
They really lack communication skills in their marriage, and according to the judge” they need to attend the marriage counselling”. Well done judge Funmi 👏
You are right
@@EJIRE4MINEto wdsa 0:33 as the -😊z steered red d FC-😊txt @s as w Drs😢u 0:49 deferred cxo
I think this woman to a large extent was sincere enough to say the truth
Are you serious?
You are right bro
You are right
hmmmmmmmm, if i hear, judge funmi is just an intelligent
Judge Funmi is a citadel of knowledge.
God bless her greatly.
Communication in all relationships is extremely important. Great Job Judge Funmi, you are full of Wisdom.
Why do men think that paying for CS for their wife is doing them a favor
try pay m for u\your self, if you ever find your self in such position
@@user-wg4pz6dt9t cs of 250k
I will never be poor in my life sah
Is this a talk
I don't think this soul can be grateful to her man
Is this a talk
I don't think this soul can be grateful to her man
@@user-wg4pz6dt9tUna funny shaa
She forgot and ignored she signed into something big. You cnt marry a divorced person with or without child and expect an afloat marriage without internal-external issues
Watching from Jamaica this judge is a great councilor
Man should get a househelp or childminder to help at home. It is not easy for a young mother to be taking care of 3 step-children in addition to hers. She is doing him a favour looking after the kids of his first marriage. Why couldn't he invite the child's mother to the graduation ceremony?
Exactly,I can relate,they will refuse to do house work and want to enslave their step mother all because of her good heart
Exactly
But she knew what she was getting herself into. Either she’s in or out
I hate when people talk like fool. She had never been married how will she know what to expect. Dating is different from marriage. When dating it hard ro see red flag especially when u are very young @hauwadauda9646
Judge Fummi is a God gift for my country people, thank you for the good work
The problems are
Lack of Communication and
Assumptions
Assumption 100
The Judge is very gifted with knowledge and very calming voice. In reality, communication is very important in all situations as adults and children. My opinion.
The lady is really a big support for the man. The man ought to appreciate her more. May God continue to bless Judge Funmi 🙏
I believe you are single
is it because she can speak better English?
That lady is smart. she brought the man here to ridicule him.
A woman that will not accept your child fully, we all know how some step mothers behave, they will act so nice outside and terror at home
A woman agreed to marry despite knowing about his kids, he brought them in without speaking to her about it she buys them stuffs and is more concerned about their academics as their dad is busy and you say she doesn’t accept them??
@@muktarmemunat3563thank you o. Everyone is a saint when they are not in the same position. I feel the man doesn’t give the lady enough credit and acceptance in taking care of the children
I love the woman's command of English language. Man, please don't loose this treasure that God has given you because of trivia issues.
God bless your family.
How do you jump to a conclusion that she is the price. She is forming educated, but she knew the man was a bus driver and uneducated before she agreed to marry him? Women change andd men change too.
She isn't a treasure by her command of English, Marriage isn't by education
English is just a language, please stop all this eurocentrism. What has command of language got to do with treasures?
Please what I am saying is that you should remove language sentiment from the woman's good character
So, her command of another man's language (English) is what makes her a treasure to this man? Kai,
Mama Judge with too much wisdom
The way some men will defend their children from their mother make me wonder how such men will do if the children are born from another woman. It is not easy to raise another woman's children, may God grant them both the wisdom and patience they need to raise one big family in ❤.
I swear someone like my husband can never married two wife's because of his attitude
They definitely need to see the marriage counselor.
Plenty wisdom and mercy from this chief judge, she's a rare gem.
Taking care of step children is not for everyone, please please if you know you don't have the heart for it, just stay away from that relationship.
Aunty she's not complaining about that but you're now doing the complain for her. She said that she doesn't have any issue with those children only that judge Funmi noticed that they lack communication between each other. Someone like you can easily push someone to what he or she doesn't want to do
@@sunnionwuegbusi6760 I heard and understood both her concerns and his concerns.. I simply picked up something and made mention of it to remind people that want to enter into a marriage that already has children that its not a walk in the park and so it's not for everyone.. it requires one to have a big heart for it and if you don't stay away.
Exactly, besides that, the man is supposed to take the children to their mother
Their mother is still alive, it is not the responsibility of his wife to care for his children from previous Marriage.
Do you know if she has capacity to care for 5 kids??
The man should take them to their mother.
It's very ok to care for your step kids, but if you cannot then they should go to their mother, while their father support them and be responsible for the expenses for raising them.
@@lovethamadin8538 for the man to still those children with him shows that something is wrong ilat the side of their mother. And I believe you hard the lady when she said that she knew that those children are there she came in.
@@lovethamadin8538Why marry the man then, no discussion before marriage or agreement
This medium is the best in putting family to order.
This Judge is doing her best and God will give her success and i wish such like court is spread around the country.
Amen
The lady is young at heart for the responsibility while the older man is expecting too much from this lovely lady. The counselling session is the best step forward.
God bless you Judge Funmi.
Exactly. She too is childlike
@@dodo3794That's not what the commenter you are responding to says. She is not seeing anything with the lady but everything with the man. Women don't see anything wrong with what women usually do.
"…too much from this lovely lady".
You know what you're doing. The man is now the demon right?
From what I see, the man also has issues. One thing is for him to expect the woman to take the children as hers. Another thing is for him to also allow the children to take the woman as their mother. That’s how it should be! It can’t be one sided.
When u maltreat the kids how can they see you as mother
@@theyall2g7 the thing about having other people’s children in your care is that sometimes, everything you say or do can be used against you no matter how good your intentions might be. Of course there are cases that are downright maltreatment whether the children are biological or not
@@ruth_adewole_o the sad truth .... u just said it
Blended family is no joke. It requires a lot of wisdom and patience.
I salute the lady.
But why is the man removing himself from his own Children's major event while she was even pregnant? 🤔
To me this man is a bully, in a marriage one have too give and take, he wants too look like the good guide , the husband is the head of the house , not the bully
You must remember that she is young , your roll to head the responsibility she is the help meat in that relationship the Judge both of you great advice take it too heart, their is a scripture that says you husbands do not be irritating your wife and that is what you are doing.
I don my hat for the advice given to this couple by the Honorable Judge, may the Lord continue to strengthen the Judge
i love this judge so much her wisdom is so emulating
The lady is not interested in the counseling. She only wants to punish and embarrass the man. Her mind is already somewhere else.
Una no even get problem sef.. the man is being petty 😂
TOO MANY UNSOLVED ISSUES; THEY NEED TO GROW UP.
They just need to understand each other.
I’m so happy they came here. God continue to give Judge Funmi wisdom.
I luv this judge she is very thorough. They cannot pull the wool over her eyes. Her words to them both are very wise I hope they both listen to what she has said.
God Bless You, Your Honour! ❤. The parties need to communicate more.
Asaolu is a mother, a God fearing professional. How I wish I know this program long time ago.
She can not enjoy the marriage and the relationship with the children because the man will not allow her to be mother to them.He want to use her as nanny and house girl. He will never appreciate her for anything.
I was thinking 🤔 the same thing 😅
Experienced this
Mumu
So what do you advice her to do leave. Common be nice in your thinking.
@@richardsonagbalalah3257
The counselling will help them. Plus some lessons on co-parenting.
The children are formed already & probably dealing with emotional issues too. Yet she is expected to manage all of that. She will do well at it with a lot of grace, understanding and patience from the man.
And like the Judge said, both parents should not come at each other in front of any of the children.
My mother raised a lot of children and so many of them respect my mum alot
This judge is too good. God bless and increase your coast
They are from different worlds. D gap is wide. The man will never understand her.
What a relief 😌 at least one marriage is saved out of those many that refused to see a counsellor. Thanks to Judge Funmi for the words of wisdom to the couple.
do u mean all marriage issues can be resolved by a counsellor?
@@nuhuonimisimohammad6861 ,well, depending on the willingness of the couple. No counsellor forces resolution on couples. So, if the couple can work things out with a trained and qualified counsellor, 'why not'?.
@@nuhuonimisimohammad6861Yes! Many can be saved by counselling not counsellor.
You didn't notice that the man didn't really respond to the counseling idea?
But Judge Funmi read from the statement he wrote that he wanted his wife to return home. He must have realised his mistake as he was a little bit sober towards the end.
And thiw girl is so fine and polished,She deserves better.
Fine without manner
Then who deserve worst? Dat y u can't make a judgement concerning woman, u will leave the bone of contention
You mean the man is not up to her standard because he is a bus driver or what are you trying to say?They can both speak well and he is feeding his family well.What else did you want ?
True love doesn't nurse anger. True love Forgive and let go. Where there's true love there's joy, peace, and happiness. Being a mother to other children who are not yours is a hug blessings from God but others see it as a burden to transfer their pain and anger. God bless Judge Fumi. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you ma more strength.you are not just a judge but a counsellor❤❤
At first I thought this girl was bad, especially from the guy's allegation of her being bad to the children from his first marriage but i later realized she isn't that bad after all. Listen to her say she monitors their performace at school, consult their teachers make sure they have complimentary clothes to wear and eventually went with the 'graduating' one after she had originally said she wasn't going. Kudos to her! She needs to get over her temper though (like most women) e.g of slappig a man 1-2-3-4 slaps (2 by 2 on both cheeks). Not nice. A violent man could thus have killed her. Hats off to this gentleman too. Excellent, caring family man. With a bit more level head on both sides, this marriage can go places.
Judge Funmi's maturirity in managing this one is most commendable! Aristotl-lian wisdom. Kudos!
2 by 2😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is really an amazing session, chief judge you're doing so much. We love what you're doing greatly .
Very sweet counseling judge,you are blessed amongst women,me too learnt something here
The husband should stop ear dropping on his wife conversation.Sometimes people tell their friends things that’s not met for someone else.
And wise women tell dia pokenosing friends what dia ears needs to hear
I think the man is simply paranoid.he already formed the opinion that step mothers maltreatment step children and that’s what he’s living out.
This is really a judge from all indications
Too much wisdom, God bless you judge Funmi.
This kind of conflict is inevitable when folks in relationship take the retaliation and retribution approach to issues. I will only do Y if he does X...2 wrongs don't make a right. There's no surer recipe for failure.
Well said.
I absolutely believe the husband that the wife was mistreating her step-children. She had an excuse for everything. Who feeds children unwarmed beans that were left on the plate just because the kids didn't wash their dishes? Would she feed that to her own kids? She's a wicked woman.. She's trying to act innocent, and she's NOT!
If he decides to stay with her, he better keep closed eyes on his children. I will NEVER marry a person who doesn't accept my children from my previous partner. My kids will ALWAYS come first when it comes to choosing a partner, period!
You are really smart. She clearly doesn’t accept the children and she said it carelessly.
@@kemiolaosebikan6829 exactly! You are absolutely right, she doesn't accept his kids..wicked woman
You’re absolutely right! 100% believe the man is telling the truth she gives that innocent vibe but she’s definitely not.
Yes she is wicked. It is clear from when she refused to attend the step son's graduation
Well, I lived and grew up with a stepmom from age 3. Now I am an independent man with family. I can tell you sincerely this woman has nothing against the children. I know what it feels like not to be wanted. I grew up with it and I can't see it in her face. I am convinced that the problem is the man. He needs to give her control over the children and stop judging her actions. It is very rare for women to love stepchildren more than hers, so let's be realistic and not expect that from her.
The man and woman are both good people, but the woman is careful about being seen as a bad person to the kids. She is careful talking to them. She is obviously worried that if the man hurts the kids while disciplining them people will blame her and say she caused it. That is primarily why she wants them out.
For the man to ask her to represent the child in school as a parent shows that she has been taking that role. and she even said so.
I never had anyone attend PTA for me or make any sacrifice for me, and I have a few friends who grew up without mothers and had the same experience of never having their stepmom make any sacrifice or take up any inconvenience for them.But this woman gives her time for kids.
Being a wicked stepmom is not about beating or not giving you food. If you see wickedness or a woman that really wants the kids to go they will not be in court, she will not even leave the marriage.
The young woman has no problem with the kids. The man needs to learn leadership and how to delegate it and not contradict the woman in front of the kids.
He has a sensitive household that requires wisdom to manage.
Please man don't lose this wonderful woman God has giving u. We men we expect alot of love mother should show to our children but better still raising another man's children is not a cup of tea y their mon is still a live
This judge is very intelligent. What is happening between them is ego and lack of communication as said by the judge. Looking at their faces....they still love each other.
The young lady is soft but need maturity, extra wisdom and patience to stay and enjoy her marriage. The husband is afraid of loosing her but his old self is still manifesting.
Marriage counseling will solve the issue if the gal hasn't gotten a bigger fish.
You are on 100 percent on point.
In fact I love you
There someone she has in mind , .a bigger fish
Why this young woman go enter marriage with 3 children already! No be say the man even get money!
That is the problems about other tribes, northerners are full of respect.
God bless you my sister. This is what I was asking myself.
But if she's the one with the 3 children for another man, you guys will advocate the man to marry her and even take responsibility for the children now it's the man you people are saying she's too young to marry the man with 3 children's, You people should fear God oooh.
Th are putting up double standard @@dagonglongjohn1885
@@dagonglongjohn1885you forget the number 1 rule, that women are always right
May God continue to bless you and I pray more wisdom to solve many cases ahead.
You really solved this one wisely ma.
Great job Judge Funmi, like your insight and counsel
The fact that he is with the children after his first divorce is a red flag. He cut off the kids from their mum and want someone else to fill in the gap. To all singles out there, Watch, Pray and Watch again before getting married!!
Not all women like going with children after divorce.
Red flag cos he is keeping the kids? Just talk sey you no like the man..
He no like the man@@judeuba9247
Yeah right In addition sensitivity and observation is also important.
truth be told this man only married her just to take care of his children. not because he loves her his body language says it all 💔
These are the streams of life flowing from the throne to the surrounding areas making everything in its wake live again!
Thank you so much judge Funmi so settling marriages. This two couple still love each other 100%
God bless Judge Funmi one million times... So much wisdom in her counsel
When she alleged violence…. Everyone believed her…. When he countered he was slapped 4 times.. everyone laughed…
My brother
Good advice from the Judge.
I hope they can communicate better.
Honourable Judge FUNMI sincerely speaking your intelligence and beauty attract me too much.
She is too young to marry someone with 3 kids so she doesnt know how to control her emotions. The man too should have married someone a little more mature and close to his age to avoid all these issues.
No, he went for a very younger lady that he can control as he desires....however, the girl shock am😂😂😂😂
Exactly 💯
@@kubohbenson3911 "younger lady he can control". How did you arrive at this d$mb conclusion?
@@ib6435 very dumb indeed
Remember this are northerners, the older men married to the younger girls. Also, I dont think they have older women that are not married..
No body realized this lady is still using her wedding ring, despite the issue she’s having in the marriage. Love is sweet 😊
So you think that's love lol
She put it on to claim right
Our dear Judge, l love you. God will bless you and promote you to your highest desires. God is watching your good works to mankind. He will surely reward you abundantly
Thank you so much..
This Judge is a great Judge. May God in His infinite give you long life and prosperity.
Ameen
This is a complex case. The man needs to give his new wife some latitude to help raise his children if he doesn't want to send them to their biological mom. Both of them are guilty in one way or the other. However, he must keep a very close eye on his new wife to ensure she doesn't mistreat them. They should communicate more and eschew any form of domestic violence. Goodluck to them!
The lady is no longer interested. She has her mind somewhere else. And she might get played several times before it’s too late for her
Only God can save men from women manipulation. There is hiding things in her and has plan she wants to carry out.
I so much love this program I'm always have inner joy while watch the Gorge speaking the truth out without baias may God Almighty Allah increase G.funmi with more knowledge nd understanding like with good health nd long life
.madam, God bless you and your family for the good work
What I see in this is a man who loves his children and want the best for his family the lady should have prepared for moments like this before agreeing to settle down the lady should love the other children irrespective ❤️❤️❤️
The lady love them
The children were not living with them previously. She said he just put them on her without talking to her. The man needs to be educated on how to communicate with his spouse and not be a strong head man.
Having explanations for everything says a lot. Mischievous women.
What are you saying…so she shouldn’t talk or explain freely because of??you must be sick to call her a mischievous woman honestly
@@susanezeh7739 your fãther is sick
@@ib6435 Pele it’s your father that is sick in the brain
If you want the best from her, you have to treat her right.
This judge is full of wisdom
This judge is a gift to our country Nigeria. Greater than Solomon is here. May God continue to lift you higher and higher, order your steps and protect you all round. Well done judge Funmi.
This man is truthful, a real man who sacrifices and takes very good care of his family. A Danfo driver? ! Mallam Ismaila, may Allah open your way, you will never lack, ameen. Big thanks to Judge Funmi for her motherly/judicial mediation. With our economic situation presently, Mallam Ismail is a rare gem.
Relationships can be very tricky. How do you know that the man is being truthful? That's presumptuos, dont you think?
Amin
The man seems responsible for a bus driver.
@@olusegunfadeyi8137
Chai..
Are you insinuating bus drivers are not responsible?
I don't think we should view or stereotype people who render transportation/logistics service to us at all.
Looking forward to a re-nited , stronger and very peaceful family. More wisdom for you ma.
My honorable judge Fumi may God almighty continue to bless you 🙏 Thanks for using your office judiciously giving justice to those that needs justice and judgements to those that deserved it. Infact judges like you suppose to be chief justice of the federation. God bless you keep you in good health to continue this noble job 🙏
Seriously, there’s communication gap, but they need counseling. The situation is manageable, it’s not as bad as the lady thinks.
May men not Marry a bad wife
May Woman never marry a bad husband.
I am a victim of a bad marriage with a lovely Son. It drags a man and woman backwards for many years until 1 brings down the pride and ego
She's not bad wife
please always read to understand before made a comment @@currenttrendtv8920
@@currenttrendtv8920where in this comment suggest that he or she was referring to her
She is @@currenttrendtv8920
The Judge has ruled wisely.
this lady looks like who can defend her self well, even when done wrong but at the same time, this woman is so young n beautiful for this mam
Judge Funmi,God bless you ma.
This couple needs cominication and to understand each other.
I enjoy watching how well the Judge listens!!
Me too
Africa is way ahead. Well done Judge
Thanks to judge Funmi, she really knows what's lacking in their marriage. There is a communication gap and also the lady seems to be taking advice from her friends. There is more to do when you are a step mother.
The man also needs to be more patient with the lady because she is not that mature/experienced enough to be a step mother.
I think they need a good marriage counselor.
Happy weekend everyone 🙏
The children must stay with they mother. Every mother must be responsible. Period this women need to take care of her own alone. Bikoo
I just like the couple, they're both likable, I just hope the gap in communication would have been bridged by now....
Oh my God!,I really love the way the Judge is Judging this case, kai! She is beautiful and camp her voice is so cool I love your Judgement so much