HOW to HONOR an ABSENT or BAD PARENT
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- čas přidán 3. 06. 2024
- The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, but how do you honor an absent or bad parent? Does the Bible really expect us to honor bad or abusive parents? Watch this important video to understand what the bible means by honoring your parents?
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Do you have bad or abusive parents? Are you struggling with forgiving your parents for something they did? The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, but how do you honor an absent or bad parent? Well, this depends on what you think honoring means.
In this video, Daniel tells you the true meaning of honoring your father and mother and gives you some advice on how to honor them in the biblical sense.
Should you honor an abusive father or a narcissistic mother? What does the bible say about honoring your parents?
Daniel talks about this and more in this important video. Many people struggle to forgive people for something they did, especially parents. But, is this healthy? Unforgiveness can prevent you from living your life to the fullest and can be like a wound that just does not want to heal.
Start by watching this video to truly understand what honoring your parent means.
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As a child who was raised by abusive parents, who then grew into a woman who made mistakes with men, leading to absent fatherhood for my children, this message is everso appropriate for me to hear. Thank you! ❤
Thank you for sharing. Focus on God who is the only source of true healing and also peace
Pray that Jesus guides you a lot!
Daniel tbh this is VERY HARD and I struggle with this. I dislike my mother very much for things she have done and put me and my family through. It's hard to genuinely love her. Please pray for me
I feel the same way. I've tried so hard to be the better person but when she began treating my children badly I had to detach. I've struggled with the concept of "honoring my parents". I'll pray for you 🙏
My dad says he believes but yet cussed the Lord with every breath he takes. Plus verbally abusive to his kids. But yet says he can't help it.. but I still love him and pray for him all the time.
Praying for your dad in Jesus precious name
Thank you❤️
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he cursed the Lord?
Thank you for covering this topic. My dad is a violent alcoholic. In fact, my mum, who isn't a christian, used to say, "God will only let you go through what you can handle." I know now that's not quite true, but at the time, it got me curious about God. I was further abused years later by my step dad and my mum. I'm estranged from my family these days. I do pray for them. I don't hate them, but they aren't good for my mental health.
Thank you for sharing Isabella! I am sorry to hear about the history of abuse. Hurt people ussually hurt others... If God leads you to distance yourself for your mental health then you need to do it. Focus on Him and you will have peace and joy by abiding in Him
I'd love prayers for my elderly, very cruel parents in this department. I love them and pray for their salvation even though the cruelty they've inflicted on myself and my daughter has taken a toll. I fight everyday Colossians 4:6, Psalm 27:10.
I was literally just asking God about this and for him to give me a sign because I was doubting 2 minutes ago and then this just showed up amen 🙏🙌❤️
Good is good Jimmy
i lost my dad 7 years ago i wish i chould say that i love to my Dad but to to late for me please love please love your parents and pray for them so they can follow Jesus. i miss my day very day but i know that God will take of me love your enemy has your self Romans 12:15 esv Bless those who persecute you: bless and do not curse
It’s crazy how many friends I have that are single Dads with no wife/mother in the picture anymore including me.
My ex wife hasn’t seen or talked to her daughter in years. I’ve raised her with the help of my Mother.
Wow just when my friend and I had suffered enough being bullied, taunted and shattered by our moms. God brought this along the away. Thank you Daniel
As sad as this comment section is, it really shows that we’re not alone in our troubles. There is always another brother or sister in Christ going through the same situation, if not worse. I must be grateful for my situation because it could always be worse. Thank you God for how my life is right now and I’m sorry for being ungrateful for my current circumstances.
Please pray for cruel selfish mother.. to get born again and stop her addictions and abuses. Thank u God bless 💗🙏🙏
My father died when he was 85 ,3 years ago...I know my father you did your part over here on this planet earth but him died at my sister home not in the nursehome.
Okay now it’s just getting creepy on how on how relevant your videos are to my life. 😳 I literally googled this a couple days ago. Google search was “Am I still supposed to honor my father if him and my mom split due to him being a bad father/husband”. Excited to watch what you have to say in this video. Just felt like commenting this before watching. I love when God uses people for my situations ✝️
I really appreciate you posting this. I have a lot of resentment towards my dad because my life was controlled by his selfishness and stepdad was verbally cruel. Im trying to forgive and though I have confessed it to God and my priest who is helping me through this, it’s very difficult. I have developed Generalized Anxiety Disorder with Depression (GADD), PCOS, and am a binge eater because of the stress that was caused. My mom had a rough childhood as well and shared this video with her as well. We both love your videos and thank you again for reaching out to us…especially ones who are wounded by the flesh.
I never loved my py parents at all and now they are dead so that I'm still trying to forgive the horrible pass that I had with them
God is Love John 4:16 😊 The sacrificial Love ( Agape Love ) 😍😍
Thank you for this video. My parents were good to me, and I thank God for that. When it comes to having a relationship with Jesus, my mom is on the right track, but my dad is an atheist. It took me awhile to truly value the scriptures and the parts that emphasize honoring your parents. Now, I take care of my mom as her family caregiver. I spiritually believe God called me to make sure that she is taken care of. As for my dad, I pray for him whenever he is on my mind. He is a good man, but I think Jesus called me to influence him back to the faith. I would love for them both to have eternal life, but I know that it isn't up to me. All I can do is pray and bare good fruit for them both to see and grow from, in the name of Jesus Christ.
AMEN
I needed to hear this. my mom is a Christian. But sometimes her actions and words say otherwise. It is very hard as she is a distant parent always has been. My dad is also a Christian with a "sailors' mouth" as they say. I was close to him until recently his jokes about my husband and my mom (Graphic) are becoming to much to handle. I realized I was venting to my dad and telling him everything. Putting Him in God's place which is another reason I distanced myself. I needed to hear this. But still Struggle to come around. I have no anger or resentment. I just dont know what to feel
Having an unloving father who is not present all the time except for few minutes a day even though he is not busy made me wish I had brothers more than other men who are only sons if parallel universes are real it is comforting to think there is a parallel universe where I'm enjoying life with my brothers who never existed in this universe.
Thank you, Daniel 😊 it is hard when a parent is manipulative towards you. Just turn the other cheek and still give love and kindness ❤️
My family hates me because I'm genuine, honest, humble and christ like among other reasons. When my mother dies I won't be shedding a tear
Great video! I believe that God does not cause abuse and does not want anyone child to be harmed in that way and endure that hardship and abuse. It is not His heart or will and throughout the Bible we see God is against abuse. I do, however, believe that God can and will use anything and everything if we give it to Him and He will bring beauty out of ashes. Nothing is too hard or impossible for Him. I grew up with an abusive father and God has done wonders and turned it all around for me and truly gave me beauty for ashes and can and will do the same for everyone and anyone who gives it to God cause He can be trusted and is always faithful! Praise Jesus. Thank U Lord.
I was just talking about this last night with my husband who was very much abused by his dad. Jesus saved him and set him free even to this day his family still try to abuse him and judge him for being born again. We still pray for them and lift them up in glory to the Lord, hoping one day they will come to the Lord and find freedom in his love. In our hearts we know who our true Father is, children dont belong to us but were given to us as a gift from our heavenly creator. I think abusive and neglectful parents need to realise all children are Gods treasure.
Matthew 10:28
[28]“Don’t be afraid of those who want to kill your body; they cannot touch your soul. Fear only God, who can destroy both soul and body in hell.
I would like to know how to dance to worship the Lord. Our denomination dances in a circle and shuffles our feet. While, others don't
You can forgive your parents and not have a relationship with them.
I let go of a grudge with my dad. But I just mind my own business without interacting with him
Finally you know I asked a question about this a few months ago and he told me he was going to make a video answering this and I have been waiting months for this video
My father and my beautiful mother passed together 58 years marriage and my mother passed away in 2017 and my father passed away in 2021.
My father was an amazing man...he was my hero and my mother was awesome lady.
She loved me soo much that she got sick because I left my country Brazil 🇧🇷 for my life horizons direction ireland 🇮🇪 almost 13 years ago.
Thank you so much for this topic, Daniel. I grew up in a religious home that was abusive. I'm just recently learning it's about relationship with Jesus and not religion. I love my parents and forgive them but being around them is very toxic.
I needed this 😭🙏🏾 God bless you
As a guy who has personal father issues, I needed to hear this. If it's okay, I want to say a bit about my father:
He used to be a drunkard and an unbeliever in God. But around in 2014 or 2015 he became born again and believed in the Lord, but his attitude and actions says otherwise.
To elaborate:
-He lacks a humble mindset to listen to others instead of being open. He's arrogant thinking he's "right all the time" instead of acknowledging when he is wrong.
-He's lazy to do simple house chores.
-When he makes mistakes, he blames others instead of being responsible for it.
-And lastly... (May God forgive me) but he takes his "worship" with God a BIT too far. Nothing wrong with worshipping Jesus, but he gained a bad habit of leaving the TV on JUST church channel instead of other channels and he even leaves it on 24/7. That's in my opinion brainwash and craziness!! And till now I HATE IT!!!!
His actions and attitude made me think that he's a guy who will NEVER change. And the church he goes to is just a "cult" telling false doctrine. I'm not 100% sure but that's what it is through my negative experiences with him.
I don't hold this... burning grudge and hatred I had with him in the past, but I choose to mind my own business and ignore him.
Awh yussss! Another vid :D
thank you bro. God bless you.
Thank you so much for tis video daniel I appreciate it !!!!
Praise the Lord brother.😊😊
Amen never give up on nobody..time is short😢
In every challenges of my life your channel always encouraged me to do something.
Thank you brother.
And God love you too. 😊 Thank you
Praise The Lord!:)❤
My mother was brought up by her mother after her father shot himself. She was an only child. Of course she developed narcissistic traits. She was not a good mother. What I learned was to look at the bigger picture. She was like she was because of what happened to her. One brother and myself had some healing, but one brother let's it eat at him. He is very angry. Mums long gone. I have moved on..
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Amen
The is also for my brother and sister
For a few years my father abussed me sexualy. As a grown up women and turned to Jesus, my soul healed, I forgave my father and can now love him with agape love. There is no excuses for what he did, but with Jesus you heal....❤
Hi Daniel, this is a great video. Good job 😊
Wanna ask: is gay dad a good christian?
All humans sin. That said, we are to repent, which means to turn away from, sin, and walk in God and spread the word. Many people call themselves Christian but their actions and words day after day say otherwise. We can love one another but still not condone sin. We should pray for people who are lost or confused and share the word with them. With kindness and respect. The word is God breathed and good for teaching and correction and instruction. God bless you.
Please make a movie about The book of Life I'm requesting a movie about it all Christians need to know is their name written in the book of Life some people may not know
All you said I had it all. Less money, bad health, bad parents, bad wife.
Look at all the these other videos. I understand now. I did not understand before. Now I know the truth.
How to deny yourself? Explain with more details and examples. Thx
By denying your fleshly desires and thoughts and impulses. God is spirit so we should try to live in the spirit not the flesh. We are called to worship God in spirit and in truth.
What if your parents force you out of your house because of your belief and you just become homeless?
You can’t control what life throws at you but you can control how you respond/react. The best thing we can do is to do what Jesus tells us which is to honor him anyways. Of course, easier said than done because I struggle with honoring my father for what he did but this video was a wake up call to ask God to help me to honor him because I can’t do it with my own strength. God bless.
God was my further all these years. He was always there for me. You have family in God who will assist you. And help you thru hard times. Do all you can to help yourself. And you will be free with God. 😀😂❤
Just a quick question. If you wanna answer another video suggestion on g*y marriage not 1 man 1 woman. Should you go to their wedding even if you don't agree with it if they are part of your family or a friend what should you do
What should a person do who has no any family support & or orphan like me? I am so confused what i do for my future 😞
God ❤ is telling you something ❤ listen to him
He loves you really ❤
Don’t dare to give up 😊
God is your father and Christian’s are your family :) super sad to hear all these comments on this video including yours. Only God can help u and me and all of us. We’re all broken, full of problems, confusion, anxiety, depression, etc. We have to remember that only God can help us so we must go to Him and draw closer to Him.
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Hi Daniel my best friend used to be a Christian and we both have autism. But my friends dad has bipolar disorder and it really effected them and they suffer from ptsd. They identify as nonbinary which I believe it and except. But I have been growing more in Christ and they accept it but they keep brushing it off and I can’t tell they kind of believe it but they don’t want to and they say they don’t. Do you have any advice for me because I watch your videos all the time.
Hi Robert!
Thank for sharing. To me it sounds like they mighy not be true reborn Christians who have God's Spirit in them.
So my advice would be to love them, but keep telling them the truth of scripture and pray that God will change them.
We can only share the gospel and it is God that transforms people.
It might be a good idea to share a video where I explain what it means to be a true reborn Christian and just ask your friend to watch it because you would like to hear his thoughts.
Then pray.
My name is actually Evan Robert is my father’s name
I agree with you and they are my favorite human being on earth and would do anything to help them in a true way
Hi Daniel Dawie hier, ek het n hardwerende ma maar sy is n lesbian en het n alcohol probleem en wat ek al gesien het wat alcohol doen Prys die Here dat ek nie alcohol raak nie!
Dankie dat jy jou storie deel. Fokus op God en hou aan bid vir haar.
i don't think you know much about this subject. but i will say, that it's probably right to take care of parents that were criminals at home, WHEN THEY GET OLD AND FRAIL AND UNABLE TO HARM YOU ANY MORE. that is a way to honor an evil dangerous parent without LETTING THEM KILL YOU or destroy your life when they are younger and able to. But even some old parents are still dangerous.
I grew up watching my dad bitting my mom 😢am glad he died when he gave his life to Christ but I have one problem, scared of getting married because I might get a Man like my dad 😢. Thank you Daniel May God bless you 🙏
Don’t be scared, sister. I grew up watching my uncle hurting my grandma. My dad got to jail. My stepdad beating my mom. It was a horrible experience for me and my sister. We were traumatized, bullied and so on.
But God gave us beautiful husbands, calm and loving😊
God is a good Father. He will not hurt you. Pray for your future husband, for him to love, know and following God, to be a good husband, father, son and so on😊 And pray for you to be like this as well.
God will bless you with beautiful person one day. And He will bless your future husband with U😊
Stay close to God and He will guide you.
(Using my husband’s account) Roxy
people romanticize mothers even though mothers can be as bad as unloving fathers
You say it's THE most important role we, as men, receive to be a father. But then you say WHEN and IF we get the opportunity. Which is a pretty substantial qualification. So does that mean the guys who cannot have children are not men? Or does it mean that because some men are sterile (or cannot have kids for other reasons) that god made them for a joke? Your explanation of this 'rule' doesn't seem to include ALL men but IS what you're prepared to claim God believes. So what does God suggest we do with these guys wha cannot have kids. Are they human at all.
Just my opinion.
Hi Peterson
Please watch it again, I said "ONE of the greatest and most important..." at 0:02.
It is not God's will for all men to father their own children, but they might be a father figure to many. This is another video topic where I will speak to a different target audience.
I myself am 37 years old and medically speaking my wife and I probably will not have children, unless God wills it.
Please watch the full video and listen to what I say and my TRUE meaning behind my words as well with my intentions for the specific target audience, instead of trying to assume what you want to from your subjective perspective. I say this with a kind and loving heart. I have not once said that men who do no have children are noy men. In fact I have said in many videos that you are a male if you have been born as a male biologically.
If you were triggered by something I said because of your past or present circumstances then please take it to God, for He can help. His ways are not our ways, but His way is perfect.
My own family has never provided for me when I was in a dire situation. They are God haters
some parents are totally doomed. they have walked away from God and will never go back to Him at any time. Some of those are malicious evil creatures, and it's best we steer clear as they are malevolent to us . i wouldn't make too many generalizations if i were you. that's really your own formula but not entirely realistic.
honor your father who art in heaven.