Can Self-Love Be Harmful?

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  • čas přidán 11. 06. 2024
  • Sadhguru looks at the popular new-age concept of self-love, and explains how it may lead down a road that has unexpected, unpleasant results.
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Komentáře • 201

  • @sandeepmehta4497
    @sandeepmehta4497 Před rokem +110

    Today western world is teaching “First love yourself.” I never understood what people think about this. They start following such things without processing any logic or understanding. True love is to explore your heart, open it up, feel the sweetness and emit same in the world.

    • @princedame9534
      @princedame9534 Před rokem +9

      Love yourself in the sense that you need to take care of yourself which is pretty obvious

    • @sandeepmehta4497
      @sandeepmehta4497 Před rokem +6

      @@princedame9534 agreed, you need to take care of yourself but people understand it in a way that it is the only thing. The idea is to take care of yourself so you can do better for your family, society and the world and extend yourself. Self-love is driving people to be paranoid!

    • @martinst8764
      @martinst8764 Před rokem +7

      Yes, me too. It can be quite a confusing notion, to 'love yourself'. This whole notion is even used as a phrase to mock people who hate themselves (which is actually a huge problem in the west!). Obviously, it's preferable to love yourself rather than hate yourself but regards Truth, both are limiting. You only have to be what you are without dictating ideas about life and goodness. Sadhguru makes this very clear 👌

    • @franklinayala4879
      @franklinayala4879 Před rokem +1

      Thee Bible teaches this

    • @ichbin8420
      @ichbin8420 Před rokem +1

      Selflove in which you care and focus only or primarily for yourself is ego. We are not here to only love ourselves but further more to love and care and serve others. This is our purpose and true nature. Only the ego mind that comes from a lacking place tells you to take care of yourself first. When you put yourself first you're not connected with the source. If you give yourself away you're free from ego and one with source and therfore with true love.

  • @planetmchanic6299
    @planetmchanic6299 Před rokem +25

    You don't have to look for love when it's where your coming from.

  • @haridasmore7794
    @haridasmore7794 Před rokem +8

    Video is of 2008......
    Many thinks..." it is for me & now"😁... Beauty of truth...

  • @lisag9493
    @lisag9493 Před rokem +13

    Just be the best person you can be ,, be generous and kind ,, we will all be someone’s memory one day,, so make it a good one ,,

    • @Darth_Pain
      @Darth_Pain Před rokem

      Bla bla let Sahd do the preaching we're good without your little two cents Lisa baby 😋😎 now check my bio and hmu if u have jungle fever 🥵

  • @naturalviewvlogs54
    @naturalviewvlogs54 Před rokem +24

    Dear - Whoever is reading my comment at this time, we are all unknown to each other, yet I pray to God that if there is any tension going on in your life, then it should go away and you should always be happy!

    • @Delta3068
      @Delta3068 Před 10 měsíci

      If your prayers get answered Sadhguru will have to shut shop 😅

  • @shatabdic8761
    @shatabdic8761 Před rokem +39

    It's not about loving yourself, it's about experiencing the love we are from within that is needed to expand and love others. Please dont get the word self love wrong.

  • @lilyrocco1
    @lilyrocco1 Před rokem +4

    Sadhuru gives me real practical guidance for everyday life. The kind of messages I can apply to everyday situations. Thank you.

  • @aashishkothari111
    @aashishkothari111 Před rokem +51

    I wanted to become an Actor...was halfway there...but divine touched me..and as Sadhguru said...entertainment will make no sense..
    And it became truth of my Life...now i want higher self of myself....
    All with grace of Sadhguru 🙏🏻❤

    • @jayanthj9155
      @jayanthj9155 Před rokem +7

      Hi can you elaborate? Even I wanted to become an actor and regret not being one(due to my situations).
      Can you please guide me to get out of this acting trap?

    • @priyapriy12
      @priyapriy12 Před rokem +1

      🙏🙏

    • @LightersWorld
      @LightersWorld Před rokem +5

      @@jayanthj9155 Hey there, plz do listen the kya karu song at end of the song one nice msg is there from his side...Hope u grap well what he says.. Don't try to conclude anything as he do says many a times..jst go step by step and do yoga (he even said: whatever do u do carry yoga wd u) don't ever learn just to gain knowledge if u implement it well it always help us in manyways 🙏🏻 if ur trying to figure good bad its like belief n disbelief..don't do that..

    • @jayanthj9155
      @jayanthj9155 Před rokem +2

      @@LightersWorld thank you so much for replying. Can you please tell how long will it take to see results mentally and physically if i start yoga?

    • @shubhambarve4785
      @shubhambarve4785 Před rokem +2

      @@jayanthj9155 Don't care about time
      One of the most important rule is to do it without any expectations.
      Just do it inclusively and you will see the results.

  • @mohankumar87
    @mohankumar87 Před rokem +3

    Single most important talk of Sadhguru ever!

  • @karmadolkar6454
    @karmadolkar6454 Před rokem +2

    Thank you! I needed it. ❤️

  • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702

    "There is something beyond what you think and feel" The Truth 🔥Keep moving towards it my friends ❤

  • @Wildflowerafternoons
    @Wildflowerafternoons Před rokem +3

    Hooray! Finally someone for a realist! Thank you!

  • @Naya.jankari.technepal
    @Naya.jankari.technepal Před rokem +1

    Great person Sadhguru Parnam 🙏

  • @felgeota
    @felgeota Před rokem +1

    I know something, I’m working hard in a project, tht someone put in my mind, so, my big goal is meet to Sandguru face to face to say thanks, cuz of all his advices, make this person be better!

  • @alrizo1115
    @alrizo1115 Před rokem +32

    I haven't paid attention to my well-being before. Only just recently. Was it self love, or was it just I becoming love? Well, in truth, I felt a lot better when I started taking care of myself. And easier for me to communicate with others.

  • @umoya04
    @umoya04 Před rokem +3

    this man is so wise'......he is having nice voice of Life

  • @rahulmahbubani1392
    @rahulmahbubani1392 Před rokem +14

    The accuracy with which throws that bell 🥶

  • @jsk5754
    @jsk5754 Před rokem +1

    God bless sadhguru so blessed to listen his words ❤😭🌟

  • @Happy-yg4eu
    @Happy-yg4eu Před rokem +39

    Thanks a lot 🙏 sadhguru now i can say i am with myself i started to follow your ideas and thoughts my experience is wonderful ..
    I think this 3 work is enough for my life
    1- mediation ' when i feel down i started mediation
    2- focus on study - 8 hours in a day
    3 - yoga and exercise's which makes me mentally and physically strong 💪🙏
    Jai shree ram

  • @prathameshpatil8155
    @prathameshpatil8155 Před rokem

    thanks for the wise advice!

  • @kartikeypatel7426
    @kartikeypatel7426 Před rokem

    Satguru dev ko mera koti koti namaskar.

  • @raamtodkar140
    @raamtodkar140 Před rokem

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻🌼🙏🏻

  • @yashmathur8140
    @yashmathur8140 Před rokem +1

    AWESOMEE Sadhguru !

  • @wandfy5237
    @wandfy5237 Před rokem

    Thank you!

  • @Lakshyapur
    @Lakshyapur Před rokem

    Yeah it's absolutely right dear सद्गुरु sir

  • @anshuldravid6532
    @anshuldravid6532 Před rokem

    Overwhelmed ❤️

  • @varshachandra1208
    @varshachandra1208 Před rokem +1

    So much love to the questioner. B coz it happens with the most.

  • @Name_Lessness
    @Name_Lessness Před rokem +1

    I too have been diagnosed with severe schizophrenia. When the voices were inside the head it's true I was searching for self love and we divided ourselves into 3 pieces, body mind spirit. Each explored the perfect way to be, realist, pessimist and optimist on any issue that pertained to us. As conchessnes expanded it also contracted and found balance in this process. All 3 agreed their is no right way to always be and that THAT is the right way to be and thus we became One. Now the voices are on the outside and the entities hear me, I sense their emotions, thoughts and their density/push and pull so I am diagnosed with Schitzoaffective disorder. I've learned an experienced and taught a great deal of many things and it's our understanding that when we open ourselves up to a universal possibility the universe responds to that application and what we experienced and know will become a more universal calling. Not believing in a delusion is also called a delusion. Thank you.

  • @ricardocrisostomo1385

    In reality check, one can only grow. not too many positive and not too many negative

  • @gauravr1796
    @gauravr1796 Před rokem +1

    It's easier said than done, to ignore the psychological gossip

  • @blissfulpetandtravel9963

    Very inspiring

  • @the.trollgubbe2642
    @the.trollgubbe2642 Před rokem +3

    Never loved myself, always kept a neutral perspective. Always thought the love my self talk to be rediciolus

  • @faseeh661
    @faseeh661 Před rokem +1

    Sadhguru ji 🙏❤️😊💯

  • @pritamdudhare7684
    @pritamdudhare7684 Před rokem +1

    Sadhguru 🤩

  • @samanthajwright6865
    @samanthajwright6865 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Indian Uncle big love from London 🇬🇧 xxx

  • @indiancricketteam5555

    Sir you are best

  • @salliemae9284
    @salliemae9284 Před rokem +23

    Self love means accepting your flaws and imperfections loving who you are and giving yourself love and affections. I believe that in order for me to love others I shall love myself first. If you obsessed with self love too much that it impedes your functioning then it becomes a disease therefore you have to balance your life . 20 percent pursuit of happiness and self love 20 percent for wealth 20 percent taking care of love ones your wife husband family 20percent rest and relaxation 20 percent spirituality /higher self.

  • @amarendraborah6941
    @amarendraborah6941 Před rokem +18

    "To get full value of joy, you must have someone to share it with !"

  • @BanBiofuels
    @BanBiofuels Před rokem +7

    Good lecture. You can never escape your small self, only incorporate it into your larger self. The contradiction of life is that we all have to work to survive, yet when we drop all work and thought we experience our bigger self, which is universal, not local. Work is local, but no-thought is universal.

  • @RajuVijayanpalazhy
    @RajuVijayanpalazhy Před rokem

    that is determined by your followers who are sensible to test their mind

  • @ro27hit
    @ro27hit Před rokem

    Namaskaram Sadhguru. :)

  • @edwardpark6487
    @edwardpark6487 Před rokem +1

    Hard to hear such truth

  • @thepartha1000
    @thepartha1000 Před rokem

    My love n hate relationship with this beyond is working. Try it, may help others.
    Har Har Mahadev.

  • @powerhouselyvie4249
    @powerhouselyvie4249 Před rokem +1

    I can't get this non self-love yet. What if i'm just fascinated by this life energy that i truly am?

  • @Manu-hc8ff
    @Manu-hc8ff Před rokem

    Sadhguru 🙏🔱💐🌹😇💖

  • @HO-mg2yl
    @HO-mg2yl Před rokem +1

    One should love self first . That is step to become self less .. and self will realise everything in self and self in every thing ..

    • @seansmith1725
      @seansmith1725 Před rokem

      Right, if u love urself, u automatically love everything no?

  • @sanya2390
    @sanya2390 Před rokem

    Sadhguru 🙏🤗🙌

  • @brandonsilva940
    @brandonsilva940 Před rokem +6

    Sahdguru:
    I'm always wondering: am I practicing self-love, or humility? Self-confidence, or egotism?

  • @srikrishnakoduri2926
    @srikrishnakoduri2926 Před rokem

    Sadhguru 🙏

  • @GreenBean4U
    @GreenBean4U Před rokem

    Yes

  • @ingegerdtheresesorrell338

    Loving all others what makes me really happy. When saying I love myself, I get down. I think I am a good person, so therefore I like myself enough. Is love for others ( all beings) I feel peace love compassion, a sweetness about life. Not sure this make sense, hope it does and somebody understand🙂🙃😄

  • @StudioOnee
    @StudioOnee Před rokem

    Nice ❤️

  • @weirdestgaming53
    @weirdestgaming53 Před rokem +1

    Love from bihar❤️

  • @peontravalley
    @peontravalley Před rokem

    Shiv 🕉

  • @CrazyKidsKesha3
    @CrazyKidsKesha3 Před rokem +2

    SadGuru you are my perspiration! Thank you for always bean there when I need stimulation ;)

  • @Message_for_Mankind
    @Message_for_Mankind Před rokem +3

    Namaskar Sadhguru ji🙏.
    I stay in Goa, I wanted to meet you and tell you about Ramkrishna Paramahamsa‘s projectile that he was shooting with Swami Vivekananda,
    You’re visiting goa, can u please give me 5mins, please let Sadhgurji knows about this msg., it will help us for soil save mission.

  • @b.d.1379
    @b.d.1379 Před rokem +1

    Stay grounded in realism. Psychological is not everything... existential is. Bad thoughts are self gossip. Gossip is entertainment only. Enjoy it if you like it but there's more.

  • @imbharat02
    @imbharat02 Před rokem

    🙏🏼

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched5131 Před rokem

    🙏

  • @pinaykhant3151
    @pinaykhant3151 Před rokem

    SAVE SOIL... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @dannycassinellibarac9993

    Problem comes when believing. No believes. Love is not emotion or thought. Need to do. Just do. Amar/ hacer.

  • @nitinnegi5
    @nitinnegi5 Před rokem

    ❤️

  • @RAJ_R
    @RAJ_R Před rokem

    👏👏👏

  • @eversunnyguy
    @eversunnyguy Před rokem

    Looks like Sadhguru has studied psychology well and a great communicator and a story teller.

  • @garymorrison9179
    @garymorrison9179 Před rokem +3

    It’s probably too late for me. I’ve developed into three.

  • @deepakshinde9255
    @deepakshinde9255 Před rokem +1

    💓🙏

  • @jacksonlyons7144
    @jacksonlyons7144 Před rokem

    0:59 I want to say this before I might hear it, but I don’t think you can always stay balanced. Like driving a car you have swerve a little left or right before you can remember to stay focused on driving straight, but you can never be perfect balance. I think you can only decrease how unbalanced and for how long you become unbalanced before you balance yourself out again.

    • @jacksonlyons7144
      @jacksonlyons7144 Před rokem

      Also sorry if you’re not Christian I’m not either but I often try to understand it since I grew up on it first. I think balance is the reason why God(s) create evil. You could also argue that there ego and needing to be praised is also the reason they create evil, but that might be their nature like eating is too us. And in order for someone to praise and worship something there has to be a side in a pendulum they side with to feel the need to praise and worship. Making it a necessity for us too.

  • @ashwindas6814
    @ashwindas6814 Před rokem

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shyamalagowri9992
    @shyamalagowri9992 Před rokem +1

    we are just souls.. your body doesnt belong to you..when you love your body, you mean to eat responsibly to nourish it and maintain it.. you need to take care of your mind and give the much needed love by reading/listening/singing etc.. with your passion.. self love is harmful only when you live as animal , not as a human who knows that we are part of universe, we born on karma , and we are to love and nourish the earth we belong to.. self love to be expanded as big as earth

  • @mandarjangam7667
    @mandarjangam7667 Před rokem

    🕉️🌸🙏

  • @prabhagupta5015
    @prabhagupta5015 Před rokem

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Vivek-mq1gf
    @Vivek-mq1gf Před rokem

    ❤️🙏🏼🙇🏻🌺

  • @criptik5208
    @criptik5208 Před rokem +1

    Isnt loving the self one? Or is it that you love yourself that is not one with you and and one it becomes one then you love no more ? Lets say one somebody get its , is it equal expansion or one sided?

  • @rvind000
    @rvind000 Před rokem +4

    You can become love, it isn't an act, unfortunately world is far from understanding this.

  • @ritaragunath871
    @ritaragunath871 Před rokem +1

    🙏🧡🌷

  • @subhramanyamsharma3682

    What he meant by "taste of divine" Is it love? Can anyone tell me?

  • @swayamcurrentaffairs9601

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nancyrode9781
    @nancyrode9781 Před rokem

    🙏💛🌱🌈

  • @dr.gorkheyyt674
    @dr.gorkheyyt674 Před rokem

    🥰🥰

  • @hemabhemab6293
    @hemabhemab6293 Před rokem

    🕉💐💐🙏🙏🙏

  • @rafimohd5
    @rafimohd5 Před 9 měsíci

    I want to share a story from Greek mythology about a person who saw his own reflection in the river continuously he did self love since he didn't get an opportunity to love the opposite gender he became mad and died near that river..............

  • @bellatheband
    @bellatheband Před rokem

    I believe Self Love also translates to the self that we all are, AhamBrahmasmi! If we live in love, the world will be a more loving place as we all inhabit the same energy and are one with it, even if we feel separated.. I think this is the true meaning of self love, when you are loving towards yourself you become a vessel for love instead of hate, disturbance, aggression, jealousy, confusion and so on....
    "The Self is below, above, behind, in front, to the right, to the left. The self is everything. The personal self is the same as the impersonal self. Atma and Brahman are equal."
    (From ´The science of the Rishis`by Vanamali)

    • @nithinsadasivan4470
      @nithinsadasivan4470 Před rokem +2

      Love all. Self love in modern world mostly translates to selfishness or limited mind.

  • @relaxhere4191
    @relaxhere4191 Před rokem

    3

  • @amansingha8744
    @amansingha8744 Před rokem

    Loving others.... Should be the nature of yourself...Selflove means ur fullfilling ur mind and emotions hunger...u should become equal to everyone

  • @sunilsindhu4103
    @sunilsindhu4103 Před rokem

    Shri Sadguru ji you know my every possition .l know about me but everymoment happen with you.pls.out me in this distrebution.Only you are my love.Ilove you ..................000000000000000.

  • @roginebacani8669
    @roginebacani8669 Před rokem

    Help sadhguru... 🙏

  • @relaxhere4191
    @relaxhere4191 Před rokem

    10

  • @hitarthsheth3524
    @hitarthsheth3524 Před rokem

    Master!!🙏🙏

  • @bliss5205
    @bliss5205 Před rokem

    Ppl say i hate myself ....are they two???.. it's mean...no ..if they hate themself they can love themselves tooo.....and how u treat yiurself ...u treat others

  • @hriddhisinha8937
    @hriddhisinha8937 Před rokem

    Sadhguru please tell me how to cure psoriasis permanently.plz help me

  • @Benzcrimsonitacilunarnebula

    i love me me love i its mutual

  • @relaxhere4191
    @relaxhere4191 Před rokem

    12

  • @Amelia_PC
    @Amelia_PC Před rokem +5

    "Can Self-Love Be Harmful?" Not if you suffer from low self-esteem. I think the trick is balance.

    • @lifeisbeautiful5998
      @lifeisbeautiful5998 Před 11 měsíci

      U think are right ? What's your intention of being right ?? Why u think u are correct?? Elaborate ur understand

  • @relaxhere4191
    @relaxhere4191 Před rokem

    7

  • @Mr.Jagsirsinghkingra
    @Mr.Jagsirsinghkingra Před rokem

    IT is Time Save Soil ! Each ONE Reach One ! Make it Happy !! Sadhguru Ji Namaskar 🙏 !! I am CZcamsr Bloger MR. JAGSIR COOL KING !!

  • @TX_gaming972
    @TX_gaming972 Před rokem

    Hey grind baa I think I don't english languages

  • @thewaterprophet6880
    @thewaterprophet6880 Před 10 měsíci

    This video editing could actually induce a psychological breakdown.

  • @amitkarmakar2557
    @amitkarmakar2557 Před rokem +1

    A DAYASAGAR

  • @relaxhere4191
    @relaxhere4191 Před rokem

    14