[M4A] Best Friend Invites You Over And Comforts You After Abuse At Home [Comfort] [Hugs] ["I Care"]

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • Hey loves! This video was a request from my discord that I wish I made earlier. It's a really important thing to me, and I hope everyone out there who may have these issues at home can eventually get to a safer and more welcoming place. And I also wanna say that you are enough, even if you may hear horrible things. I can promise you're enough. I love you all, and stay safe. This video was an improv, so there was no script used.
    [M4A] Best Friend Invites You Over And Comforts You After Abuse At Home [Comfort] [Hugs] ["I Care"] [Abuse Comfort] [Loving] [Toxic Family Comfort]
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Komentáře • 34

  • @mawistellar
    @mawistellar Před 2 lety +32

    I really appreciate you so much for making such audios, the ones about irl issues. It's really nice that in your own way you're able to somehow give comfort to people who experience those. I really feel you're a geniune and caring person Jay and this is one of the reasons why I love you 😭💖

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +8

      thank you so much, I really try my best to get most of the irl issues out there. I wanna be able to comfort everyone as best as I can, no matter what they are going through. but again, thank you so much because that means a lot! and ofc i love you too, Maris!

    • @edenn__9142
      @edenn__9142 Před rokem +2

      @@ItsJaysmr you such an angel, thanks you for that.

  • @daniklore
    @daniklore Před 2 lety +9

    i went through abuse from my parents and then when i turned thirteen they started abusing me emotionally. it’s like everyone around you thinks that your parents are caring and all that sh*t meanwhile they’re just not. and the funniest of all of this is that everyone’s like oh you’ve been distancing yourself. of course cause i already gave up. i was the one trying to improve it all and they didn’t even try. i was unexpected and probably also unwanted child (my mom had me when she was twenty one year old collage student) and my parents behave like they didn’t want me. it’s just, my parents…they were young and dumb and now i have to suffer.
    ANYWAYS, thank you so much for this jay. sometimes i wonder if you’re even real or not cause you’re more likely to be an angel than human. sending all my love and support. ily

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +3

      hey, Dani! im so sorry im so late to this, but im really sorry to hear that. thats not something you deserved at all, and i really wish i could help more in some way. in a way that isnt an audio. but i really am glad this could make you feel a little bit better. you're seriously such a sweet soul, Dani. I wish you nothing but the best. much love and stay safe, my sweetheart

    • @daniklore
      @daniklore Před 2 lety +3

      @@ItsJaysmr “my sweetheart” 🥺🥺🥺 don’t worry about being late, how many times i was late hmm? a lot so don’t worry about it. thank you so much for your kind words. i don’t know if i seem to “over react” sometimes but it’s just i’m not used to be told such things like this. i love u sm and hope you’re fine

  • @dj.k4467
    @dj.k4467 Před 2 lety +6

    “At 2.00 sharp” punctual indeed, it is I 🕊 This audio was a teddy bear hug itself hshshsh, hope you have good rests and day!

  • @Rnz_008
    @Rnz_008 Před měsícem +1

    I have went through it from childhood, seeing my parents fighting, blaming me for being born and i hate my existence for some reason because i am burden to my parents, my parents would have been way more happier in life with somebody better but they have to stay together for me.. because i was..born...i am still super super young but yeah life lesson doesn't comes from age you know but anyways i..am so grateful there are audios that exist to help sometimes..thank you..for the audio..❤❤❤

  • @panna3233
    @panna3233 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video. I’ve been crying all night bc I’m in this kind of situation and I need to endure it for a little longer. Truly thank you, it gave me some strength ❤️

  • @februarycookiecoo
    @februarycookiecoo Před 2 lety +5

    it's really emotional for u to consider such sensitive topics. KUDOS Jay 💖!

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +4

      thank youu!! i try my best to include as many sensitive topics as i can for all of those who are struggling

  • @Anonymous-kf7jy
    @Anonymous-kf7jy Před 2 lety +13

    This is so good and the fact that it had no script makes it even better

  • @toni9099
    @toni9099 Před 2 lety +7

    Perfect again!
    I just got my ass beat up by my dad

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +5

      aw, im sorry to hear that :( thats not okay at all, and you seriously dont deserve that abuse. i hope you're doing well now, Toni. much love and stay safe, hun

  • @alayna550
    @alayna550 Před 2 lety +5

    I really appreciate your work jay 💜 especially as I have to deal with alot of the stuff you post about :( you make me feel better and more happier though 💜

  • @demi3054
    @demi3054 Před 2 lety +5

    Needed this thankyou so much ❤️

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +4

      no problem at all, Demi!! Much love and stay safe, hun

  • @wicketmoon2255
    @wicketmoon2255 Před 2 lety +3

    You are truly amazing. You give so much comfort to many people out there. And often improvise something requested for people on your discord server to make the small person seen and heard and appreciated and cared for and loved. You are too good to be real.
    This also hit a bit home, so toxic family comforts are always nice to listen to for me as well as a lot of other people. And don’t mention me crying when being insistently offered the bed instead of the couch because my brain can’t comprehend someone caring so much about me :,)

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +4

      omg thank you so much! i really try my best to make sure everyone's request is taken and completed. I wanna comfort as many people as i can with as many topics as possible, even if it requires me to do some research. also, im really sorry to hear that you have a toxic family like that. you dont deserve that at all. I know i dont know you personally, but ofc i still love and care about you so much. you're an amazing soul, and i wish you nothing but the best

  • @TessaIsabelle
    @TessaIsabelle Před 2 lety +6

    I recently found your channel and I absolutely love your videos

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +3

      heyy, welcome!! Im so happy to hear that you enjoy the audios! much love and stay safe, Tessa!

  • @khawlakafka4123
    @khawlakafka4123 Před 2 lety +3

    Awww 🤗🤗perfect bestie ever💜💜💜

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +2

      haha, tyyy! much love, Khawla!!

  • @somespy6305
    @somespy6305 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow you’re doing god’s work out here.

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +3

      aww, you are so sweet!! tyyy, i try my best to comfort all of those who may need it :)

  • @Creamy_MoonX1
    @Creamy_MoonX1 Před rokem +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH my parents are broken up and the still live together and it like every night they fight and I’m blamed for random stuff cause I’m the oldest child

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před rokem +1

      im so sorry, love :(
      please know that you didnt do anything wrong, okay? please stay safe and hydrated, Jayla ❤️

    • @Creamy_MoonX1
      @Creamy_MoonX1 Před rokem +1

      @@ItsJaysmr thank you

  • @GraceCampbell-kl2wu
    @GraceCampbell-kl2wu Před 2 měsíci +2

    I used to live with my older sister and her husband, just to finish high school, while my mom and dad travled around a bit trying to find a stable home. I hated living with my sister. My sister would often pick fights with me, and i didn't even know what i did wrong, and she was convinced that she was right that i did do something wrong, when i didn't, i was so very confused. I was very depressed there. And on top of that, her husband was a complete asshole to me. Sorry for swearing, but if you met her husband, you'd agree with me. He'd take off my glasses, wich i have poor eye sight without my glasses, and he put spit on them, then put them back on my face without whipping his disgusting spit off. I'm also a germaphobe, that's probably why he did it. I don't know. After I'd wash my glasses with soap and water, I'd try my best to stay away from him. But one time, i accidentally swore cause i accidentally ripped a page of my sister's book I was reading, and her husband heard me curse. It wasn't even that bad of a swear word. All i said was "damn it," and quietly. I don't know how he heard me. But when he did, he made me put a bar of soap in my mouth. He was treating me like a freaking five year old who didn't know how to control their behavior!😡 My sister saw tho what was going on, and he even tried to take away my phone. But my sister didn't let him do that, and took the bar of soap out of my mouth, and had me rinse out the taste, she even comforted me a bit. Even tho me and my sister fight horrible fights, she's still my sister, and we still of course love each other, and with a bit of a long space, our relationship is starting to reconnect and heal. But. i. will. never. Ever. be friends with her husband. He's mean, and a bully. I'm safe now tho, and in a stable home with loving parents who treat me right, and i even have an emotional support animal. Thing's couldn't have been going better latley, ever since i was taken away from that living situation. Sorry that this was a bit long, i just needed to vent a little bit. You sound very sweet😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @lilo1019
    @lilo1019 Před 2 lety +4

    Could you do a video for endometriosis comfort?:)

    • @ItsJaysmr
      @ItsJaysmr  Před 2 lety +3

      im not very well informed on that subject, but i will try to learn more about it and make an attempt for you when i can!