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- čas přidán 18. 08. 2024
- Important: I'm not a professional therapist. If you live alone and find that none of the following advice or suggestions help or have any effect, and/or you are generally feeling low or depressed most of the time, always seek the help and advice of your GP.
In response to several Narrowboat CZcams videos uploaded by other channels, I would like to offer my opinions from the other side of the coin - that being a single person living on a narrowboat (or anywhere for that matter), can be and is actually very good fun.
In this video, I discuss the various methods and attitudes I have developed and adopted, that enable me to live as happily and peacefully as is reasonably possible - keeping in mind that 'absolute' happiness, peace, mindfulness and mental wellbeing in life, is a myth and utterly unachievable.
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I'd just like to clarify some points that have been raised regards a couple of my 'tips' in the video.
Firstly my advice to not watch TV. By that I mean the mainstream media drivel. The lowbrow, low value, unintelligent garbage such as those programs I mentioned. I'd also readily include Britain's Got Talent (surely the top candidate for a misrepresentation lawsuit?)
Secondly the segment about not drinking. I should have added 'excessively' to this. It's a sad fact that around 50% - 60% of 'liveaboard' boaters (I've encountered my fare share), will develope a drink problem at some point - whether as a result of unhappiness or a desire to be with others due to loneliness (the pub). Ironically alcohol can amplify, not cure, these symptoms. Of course a beer or glass of wine every now and again isn't a drink problem and is actually very good for you.
I think you need to realise that most people (not all, of which I am one)) see TV, microwaves et al, as an essential part of life. Many people have the telly FOR company so as not to feel lonely. Hopefully intelligent people will be selective in their viewing though?
As for alcohol, I know a fair few boaters - mostly singles. Yes.we might settle down for the evening in fronyt of the burner with a bottle or two, have tow-path parties, BBQ. sing a few songs, get a bit drunk (smoke a bit of blow even) fall in the bushes, - you know the sort of thing, but 70% of us are not alcoholics or druggies.
Now, the one thing on which I do agree with you is .... DE-CLUTTERING!
@@johncraske Surely he was talking about people who like to have a one-way conversation?. No-one wants to waste their time with those sort.
Many women? Been right round the country, haven't met any of them yet. 😂
I wish we had more people giving messages like this. Thank you, Kevin. Its good to see you here again. I hope things are going well.
You are looking really healthy Kevin, you look 10 years younger, seems like narrowboating is suiting you now.
Kevin Smith - he does look younger!
Being clean shaven does this to most men.
Honestly it does look like he’s de-aged, If it were. Impressive actually.
When you consider the early programs on Prime, Kevin looks so much better!! I think it’s contentment!!
Liam Yes... and Lamb Vindaloo. Mmmm, Lamb Vindaloo. ☺
Missed you and Aslan!
Agree with all you said so true
Please stay on CZcams
Really good advice Kevin, I’ve lived on my own for 22 years. I don’t feel lonely and in spite of living in a three bedroom house, I wouldn’t be able to cope with someone sharing my space now. I do like to interact regularly with my friends and family, but I do prefer the solo lifestyle. I like your videos, and enjoy your relaxed style of narration. Keep it up 👍
You couldn't look or sound better.
You are a man renewed since your first vlog here..proof positive that narrow boat life is good for you...as a single man doing his own thing!
Brilliant..
Always most pleased to see and hear you...even more when you are speaking good sense and giving practical advice.
Bravo mighty C H Gent.
Long life and Happy Sailing to you.
I think this is spot on and exactly why I am moving on to a narrowboat. It isn't that I want to be sad or lonely, it is just I think some people struggle a bit with what society throws at them, and I am one of those people... constant shopping for stuff, alcohol ( i don't drink anymore ) and so on, stuff and more stuff, tv and wasting time on random ideas trying to overfill my head with stuff, irrelevant stuff ... it is as if everyone else has a super power where they can resist all this stuff no problem... but some of us can only do it by not being around it.
Well said. My brother in law says, don't argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience. Your looking much better so it must be working.
Love your philosophy on life, self awareness, avoiding toxic people and disconnecting from the mass hysteria called news, is a step towards a more harmonious life. I live in Asheville NC USA in the Blue Ridge Mountains. and have watched all of your episodes, your pace of life resonates with me. I am leaning towards decluttering my life and will take your advice about making lists. You are and inspiration. Thank you Kevin.......
Your so very right, true words, your an awesome gent! Can't wait to see more videos.
Hi Kevin, it appears, living on the narrowboat, away from at least some of the toxic stresses and strains of modern life, has given your brain time and space to 'breathe' and clarify what is important and rewarding in your life, and what is not important also. I thoroughly enjoyed watching your video and felt happy for you. I am sure your honesty and advice will help others too. Thank you.
Agree wholeheartedly with all that you’ve said here, absolutely spot on. Just discovered your channel as I’m in the process of looking for my own narrow boat. Thank you for generously sharing your time, knowledge and creativity... a true gent!
Very happy to hear you've enjoyed watching Sooz and welcome aboard. ☺
Kevin. This is timeless advice. Particularly poignant at this time in history. Thanks for gathering these bits of wisdom in one place. Good stuff.
Agreed. Never imagined this advice would become widely relevant.
Hi Kevin, this old vlog of yours popped up on my iPad this evening. Thanks for the chat, what a lot of water has gone under the bridge since you did it, but certainly not out dated!! 👏👍🌟 Joan
Indeed Graham. I'm amazed how it's actually become more relevant. At the time I was branded a sour puss, or a grumpy old man. 🤭 😆
Missed you country house gent on CZcams wish you would do some more cooking videos and your life aboard your home
H'e on Vimeo and still as good as ever.
@@peteberthiaume541 Can't get Vimeo on my preferred viewing platform anymore. Samsung decided to stop supporting my tv model.
@@peteberthiaume541 for a price
Thank you, thank you Kevin. I have followed you for several years and love your vlogs. You probs won’t see this as your vid is a couple of years on but may I say I concur with your comments entirely. I will be, in the next few months a live alone narrowboater. Grrrreat device my friend. I sincerely look forward to the day that our paths meet and perhaps exchange a few momentary words. Best wishes my friend (though we haven’t met) and good luck for the future. Francis
Good evening and huge congratulations to you. It's quite the achievement and a great feeling isn't it, to finally arrive at a goal you set for yourself. I wish you every success and a great future in the path you have taken. 🙂
Kevin have watched this "video" many times now and you are very inspiring, since my wife left and both kids are now grown up, I have been thinking about selling my home and buying a boat, probably a 57 foot. The only thing that has me worried is the loneliness. Your video is a credit to you. Particularly enjoyed the black and white narrow boat beginners guide. I am an engineer like yourself, so jobs on the boat ( and for other boaters ) will be no problem. Only got 11 months to retire ,so starting to look for a boat. Thanks for your advice and keep them coming 👍
Wow! Very thought provoking and I believe one of your best productions. Wise words Country house gent, and so true. Many thanks.
Really glad to see you looking healthy and well. All good advice as usual. You carry on exactly how you are because its evidently working, enjoy your life! All the best to you.
Me and my husband just started watching you on Netflicks here in USA. Never really thought about Narrowboats before. Saw a couple on the canals in Dublin and I think on the Seine and thought they were nice. You really open our eyes to a new world, thank you. And we were worried that you might get lonely or be besieged by people that like the sound of their own voice, so I would just like to advise that you pretend you have the runs, tell them you have to leg it to the Jax urgently, they won’t hang around. It worked for me during a bible class I didn’t want to be at and someone went on and on and on. Best of luck, we love your style Kevin.
Brilliant Carol. Very pleased to hear how much you and your husband enjoy watching, cheers. Yes, I've had a few suggest that I feign some form of imminent and uncontrollable digestive catastrophe. I'll give it a go next time. :D
Really have enjoyed watching all the TBN episodes. Your comments on how we perceive the world around us, is in our own minds, our relationship with TV and News is an important observation.
It seems many are not aware, or chose to ignore, the anaesthetic effects of mainstream TV and how TV is the “Soma” of our current society.
The general news in any country is designed to maintain a world view most favourable to that particular local narrative. It’s often of little real value in your day to day life. Keep up the philosophy!!
Very very true, Dos. The continual stress and worry from being force fed all this garbage from the media on a daily basis, was a significant driving force for me moving onto a boat, and ditching the TV and daily perusal of the mainstream press. Life is a lot 'lighter' nowadays (except for the pandemic period of course).
Kevin, I started dating a guy in PA in the past six months and he introduced me to your show. We watch an episode or two every night at dinner time when I visit. It’s such a treat to see the scenery and listen to your banter. You have a great eye for beauty. I love the wisdom of this particular video. I got rid of my tv five years ago, don’t drink except on rare occasions and don’t listen to news, I also don’t drink caffeine but I wouldn’t consider suggesting you give up your cuppa. Mostly I just wanted to say we love your program. Thanks for using your gifts to benefit all of us.
Good sound advice Kevin. I have lived alone all my life and have never felt loneliness. I have a good structured life and also a sence of purpose don't get me wrong I like being around people but prefer my own company as well. It's a lifestyle that I am used too and one I enjoy. Nice to see you again and thanks for a usefull vlog that might help out others that need the help or advice.
Good to hear I'm not alone. Only thing is, who's David? :D
Sorry Kevin why I named you David is beyond me but I think it might be I left a comment with cruising the cut earlier on, but no worries I have corrected that... Good man yourself...
Your advice is wonderful for everyone; alone or not, traveler or stationary. We found your show on Amazon and enjoy it immensely! My favorite is watching you go through the locks, fascinating.
Thanks! Some interesting and useful suggestions there. I particularly enjoyed the smiling one as it really did work :) All the very best to you sir!
Fantastic advice and so great to see you back on you tube. Best wishes Jo
Excellent words of wisdom. Yes so much toxicity out there, including from friends who take advantage of your goodness. I travelled the world alone in a VW campervan with your good attitude. But eventually some toxic person stole my van and my dream after three years of amazing adventures enjoying nature wherever possible. And yes while visiting a historically interesting city (Seville Spain) to enjoy the history and architecture etc I came back to find my van stolen.
Sorry to hear about your van. Campers are such a personal thing, I can imagine it's a genuine wrench when some git nicks it. 😒
WE CAN CONCUR WITH A LOT OF YOUR THOUGHTS . N/B ASLAN HAS THE MOST HARMONIUS SOUND OF ANY WE HAVE EVER HEARD . ALSO YOUR VIDEOGRAPHY AND COMMENTARY IS SO CRYSTAL CLEAR , IT IS A PLEASURE TO WATCH AND HEAR. CHEERS.
All these people who are so pleased to see you back on you tube can watch your stuff on vimeo for very little money. I can't wait to purchase season 5. Thanks mate great job.
Congratulation Kevin, you have made my list of "The Most Interesting Man in the World (or woman)" because of this video.
A man after my own heart. Great to see so many comments all agreeing with you too. Cheers Kevin.
Its good to see you and it seems like you are doing well God Bless on your recovery of discovery of life and self. Words of Wisdom to live by. Cheers Mate.
Sage words Kevin, I would add 'Don't worry about things you have no control over' - an awful lot of people seem to spend a disproportionate amount of time fretting, worrying about, and trying to resolve issues beyond their control, then work themselves into a mental frenzy when it doesn't get sorted.
Yes that is a very good point.
A brilliant vlog Kevin and such valuable and obvious advice that most of us don't adhere to until someone like you explains it. Negativity is so toxic, its like a magnet that tries to draw us towards and with a few simple rules we could quite easily change our ways. You look very well since your last youtube video, you are obviously practising what you preach. 👍
Good to see you again on CZcams. I really needed to hear what you said. Thanks.
This came up in my list rather than a new one. So being nosey the heading drew me in. All l can say is thankyou, just thankyou x
You're very welcome amd thank you. Pleased the video was useful. 🙂
I love how you cope with the feeling of misery creeping into the day by shouting at it to F off. Unfortunately, i have tried this on many occasions in built up areas, only to find the local constabulary being alerted to some nutjob shouting at a brick wall and upsetting the locals. Nowadays it only seems to happen when the Mother in Law visits.
Love your words of wisdom, it takes guts to post and so glad you did. My husband and I enjoy watching and rewatching your episodes - keep them coming please.
Thank you so much Claudia.
a really nice video.. you have opened up more about how you are as a person ..thanks for sharing :)
Welcome back Kevin you have been missed.
You speak 100% truth and good advice! Wish I could turn back time, I would own a boat like yours and enjoy life. Too late for me to take the plunge. Good luck, I will follow you to see how you progress. I'm sure you will grow even fonder of your position in the future years. I can jump now your recent posts now to see how you have got on. Cheers!
Thank you kind sir for making this video. Its been really helpful to me just now during a very difficult time in my life. Its no coincidence that I've happened apron this tonight. Your an inspiration and I wish you continued peace in your life. I love watching your videos.
Probably one of the best videos on CZcams, good advice spoken from experience, thanks 😊
You don't have to be on a narrow boat to listen to this advice. It is a great way to live anywhere all the time. Thank you, CHG.
You are looking well Kevin. Good video and sound comments, looks like boating is doing you good.
Hope you do more on CZcams (but I understand your reasons). All the best
I love this so much. I love that our time is precious but we have all chosen to spend it some of our own on this video. Thank you.
Really loved this - thank you! Spot on in every way- if we all lived like this, we would all be so much happier. Well done you. Keep it up! 😀😀
Like your style and wisdom Kevin. Happy cruising stay safe and well.
Wow, best episode I’ve seen. I really enjoy your strategy’s, sounds very productive. Too often I get sucked into tv and can’t pull myself away. Wish I could give you multiple thumbs up.
This was a great clip with really good honest advice. It made us relate to the value of time when having empty conversations and watching the negative things we tend to invite into our lives. I really love the media limited viewing, I used to do that but got away from that for a while and it’s depressing. I think a lot of your points are very relevant to daily living, not just for boaters. I especially liked and laughed out loud about when sadness sneaks up and yelling “f#$% off” hilarious! Thanks for this..
Thank you to you for watching and I like hearing how the videos resonate with viewers. Cheers ☺
Thanks, Kevin. Those are all good suggestions on how to live your life well and be happy. I am not a person who gets lonely, but I know there are people who do. I think it is because they don''t like themselves. Carry on and enjoy your life as I enjoy you!
Brilliant share... all truth in my life. I haven’t watched television in years although I will watch an occasional movie every now and then. I love my time alone, and, like you I do enjoy socializing however by choice... in my 64 years I have learned less is more. I’ve down sized everything down to a couple of small boxes as a couple of small suitcases and I can even begin to share how good it feels not to have the burden following me around. Thoroughly enjoy your travels... stay safe, be well.
I just watched this and I can really appreciate the jedi deflection of negativity. Thanks for the reminder, I needed that.
Great stuff. Particularly the observations on toxic people and TV. Negativity does ooze or pour out of some imo. I have read it described as energy vampirism. Also, the alcohol/nicotine use observation. They are very strong narcotics and should be avoided whether you are prone to depression or not imo, but each to their own also applies.
Kevin,it’s good to se you on the web again,you seem clear of mind and purpose,good on ya,hope all continues along for you.
So well put together....and very true....hands up to you mate..👍👍👍👍
Man of my own heart. Couldn't agree more!! Best of luck to you, hope you're come back to CZcams missing ya!.
Glad you are back on CZcams Kevin & your philosophy is 100% wonderful...
These are some amazing life tips in general! As a young woman I wouldn't want to narrowboat alone because I wouldn't feel safe but I'm hoping to go with some family members soon (always wanted to!) so thank you for your inspiring videos :D
Have fun and all the best.
Phil has obviously started a bit of a trend. Interesting to hear your take on it Kevin. Well if I do end up on a boat by myself at least I will be halfway there - I have never smoked, I don't drink, I haven't bought a newspaper for over 40 years and I haven't watched the news for more than 10 years. I could easily give up watching tv too - apart from watching F1 and Gardeners World (and even that is getting too pc for my liking). Take care mate.
I'd say you were 'ready made' for the boating life JP. Cheers,
I think I need to keep a certain level of "education" , interest in current events, the internet, that's what I use new technology for, I use it when it suits me, I am not addicted to my smartphone/Television.
lol - I think that might suit me. As Mark Twain said " The more I see of people, the more I like my dog"
This video just earned you a subscriber. Don't let your possessions own you. Don't let what you own define you. We have been lulled into a state of perpetual chase. Chasing the new car, the nicer house, the best phone, the latest tech, the trendy clothes. For what? Our lives have become much too complicated and uneccessarily so. I am envious of your life on the canals. Bravo Sir! You espouse much wisdom here.
The more I watch you the better I understand why I am drawn to your show. This video was so good. It touched so many issues we as humans deal with on a daily basis. You expressed it so well. I share your feelings but have had such a hard time not feeling guilty or weird because it is not the "norm"..Thanks for sharing. You make a difference.
Could be me saying all this! Never owned a telly in my life, never used tobacco or drunk alcohol, all the things you mention I can relate to entirely! Thanks for posting!
You're welcome, cheers.
Kevin, you are always a joy to watch! Love to hear you talk ( the accent). I live in the US, in the south and like you, love to be able to do things myself. You keep smiling and enjoying life. Take care and stay safe.
CHG - I have to say… your videos are not only inspiring, but YOU are inspiring. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
I’m so grateful you answered the call and fearlessly began making these videos. This is the best one yet. So much so - I’m about to re-watch.
Also!!! I made your lemon chicken w/ capers & pasta for dinner tonight and it was met with rave reviews! (Ok. The 7-year-old said it was “too lemony” but hubby and the other four kiddos all asked if they could have some for lunch tomorrow!) Thanks for making me meal-famous! 😊
God bless you mightily and I look forward to many more years of narrowboating/recipes/wisdom from the one and only Country House Gent!
~ Wendy
I've had a plan to be on a boat in 2022. Led by a pension date. I am struggling to get to that point. I'm starting to think of a lower priced boat and do it sooner.
I have similar opinions and get called "Grumpy". I may bump in to you one day. I'll only keep you 5 minutes.
Steve Ricketts, Steve, go lower. I’ve a 1980s boat I’m very proud of. Some work in progress, but as Kevin says that’s good...
Hi there mate. I really like your outlook on life. I think a lot of people think the same but you’ve been brave enough to do it good on yer
Much appreciated Ian. Cheers
Looking back to one of your video's of when you was in the process of buying your boat, it seemed that life had give you a bit of a kicking. Now, you look so much more healthier. Life onboard and out on the canal is definitely doing you the world of good. Nice to see you back on CZcams. All the best!
I've commented on this particular post before but I wanted leave another one because of how important this has become for me. Ever since this video I have adopted the "Kevin Shelly Way" mind set. It works for me and I use it daily during this time we're in. The Kevin Shelly Way! Simple. Effective. Brilliant.
Awesome Will and delighted to hear the 'tips' have had a positive impact for you. I couldn't ask for more. Thank you. ☺
Nice to hear from a likeminded person. Just because someone choses alternative accommodation, doesn't mean they've chosen an alternative lifestyle.
I lived in a motorhome for two years, and only met one other van dweller with no tv. I haven't watched it for 13+ years now. If I want to watch something specific, e.g.. Blue Planet with D Attenborough, I'll find a way..download or DVD whatever.
The cooking thing is massive, and it's integral to the whole concept of looking after one's self. Self sufficiency. It's wholesome, it's heartwarming... and once you achieve a degree of skill, you get used to a much higher quality of life, than most other people will ever experience. Home roasted and ground coffee, sourdough bread..the list is endless.
I wouldn't say that I suffer from loneliness..... being alone is mostly superb.... but I occasionally feel a sense of melancholy. Simply because we are such a tiny minority that act this way.
I say act, rather than think.
Because in my experience whenever I've told somebody that I haven't owned a TV for many years, immediately they will say "oh I hardly ever watch it".
Which translates to "I know I shouldn't watch it but I haven't got the willpower to get rid of it".
Anyway it was refreshing to watch your video, and to know that there are at least a few people out there with like minds.
Very best of luck in your endeavours........J
Ps... fewer than 2% of people in the UK don't watch TV. Which means that 98% of those that we share this country with, don't hold the same views as us.....
Good to see you back here! Good stuff
benjamin muddle ^^
So good to see again please make more video miss the cooking you take care.
My wife and I very much enjoy your adventures! You are also a very good cook! Thank you, for all you do! We just watched your episode of your recount of what happened to you on New Years Eve; so very sorry, to hear of what happened. Your good natured delivery is unexampled, and this is your calling in life!
Thanks, from Florida!
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Ha like it. 😁 Food looked tasty.
Great to hear that, thank you. It's true that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Never understood that before. I do now. ☺
CountryHouseGent ,
Those are words that takes on a completely different meaning, once the “ what doesn’t kill you” part; comes extremely close to, but doesn’t kill you. I can relate. I was attacked by three guys who tried to steal my necklace by yanking it repeatedly off of my neck when I was visiting Chile in South America. When you mentioned that on your walk back to the boat you had a heightened sense of awareness, as if another attack was imminent, I completely understand. Your older than myself by a few years, but I can tell you, that life is full of chapters. That was a chapter, that may have impacted the coarse of the rest of your novel. I’m a middle school science teacher, and before I start my first day of distance learning with my students tomorrow. My wife and I are going to, as we have been for quite some time, settle in for the night and enjoy our supper, while enjoying your show! Cheers Kevin!
Stephen and Alison ( Stuart Florida)
Cheers Kevin, absolute sounds advice 99% of which I live my life by.
Something I what to add that I have wanted to add for a long time is I am 99% sure I remember you from my childhood..... Living in a small village at the end of a racecourse!
Hello and sorry but I don't remember your name. A few traumatic events that wiped out most of the early memories, but I never forget a face. That wouldn't be St.Arvans by any chance?
@@CountryHouseGent I lived in Fordwich Close behind the pub, I was quite introvert as a child so didn't mix well with other. I spent most of my childhood up the break, I have a recollection of a few of us asking you if you wanted to come up the break with us but that was a long time ago and my memory maybe playing tricks on me.
I have been thinking of getting a boat for quite some time, the pace of life I feel would suit me and my nature.
Wishing you all the best!
I pretty much kept myself to myself as well, mainly because most of the other kids regarded me as a convenient punch bag. Yes I remember The Break. Actually I went back there several years ago and it's now been felled and built over with houses, the stream now travelling through a large pipe under ground. Criminal.
Marvelous, great advise, do like the smile technic.wonderful to see you back on CZcams, look well and happy. Warm thoughts and regards Chris & Denise from Abu Dhabi
Hey CHG, I've been really enjoying watching your series on Amazon Prime during the past few months.
I remember (in Series 1, I believe) you stated you were in the middle of watching Star Trek: The Next Generation. I watched TNG for the first time within the past 10 years and it became my favorite show of all-time. In this video you recommend not watching TV as it is a monumental waste of time. I'd argue that shows like TNG (and others such as documentaries, etc) can be very stimulating and inspiring. I don't watch a lot of TV by any means, but was hoping you could comment on that.
Will continue to watch all your shows. Thanks again, and cheers from California!
Yep, I didn't word it quite well in the video, did I? ☺
In hindsight, I'd change it to the mindless dross that's so prevalent on mainstream TV - including talent shows and the news.
Stuff that stimulates the mind such as TNG, or even TBN, are heartily recommended, of course. 😊
@@CountryHouseGent makes perfect sense and I wholeheartedly agree. I hope the weather is nice and the waters are calm wherever you are, cheers!
@@CountryHouseGent may I suggest Babylon 5. I was a Star Trek fan from its first run in 1966. Liked TNG and DS9 but fell absolutely in love with B5. It has a story arc, Beginning, middle and end. It was available on Prime but sadly, just went back behind the paywall.
Fantastic sane, well balanced take on life in genreral and valuable ideas about the quality of life
Well said, Kevin! You look and sound great! Keep on Keepin' On!
Hi,
The first video I came across of yours was when your were in a camper van going through the pain barrier of buying a boat, this is the second video and what a world of difference in your outlook your amazing now, my song bite its "Life's what you make it" Talk Talk got it playing now thank you (CZcams)after 20 years as I raise my empty glass to you. cheers Brian
I have watched all of your Narrowboat series and many of your videos. Love them. But this video was particularly inspiring to me. Thank you for making me re-think my lifestyle!
I couldn't believe it when you said what you said about Eastenders. I stopped watching both Eastenders and Coronation Street 20 years ago when it became apparent, that after watching, all I wanted to do was slit my wrists. Great work, keep it up.
Brilliant and so true I was hanging on your every word !! Hit the nail on the head particularly about the bit about toxic people ( I find completely blanking them drives them mad ) I have a TV that I hardly watch just waiting for it to pack in so I can ditch it completely !! Great to see you back !!
Hooray, you're back! It might be temporary, but I'm pleased you're fit and well.
I agree with a lot of what you say, but I like a bit telly and the pub. I like most people, too; even the boring ones amuse me. I live alone, too and it suits me down to the ground.
Desiderata.... Me too.
Hiya Kevin. Nice to see you on YT again. You made a lot of great points that relate to life in general and not just being a lone occupant of a narrowboat.
Great video Kevin. Very uplifting.
So good to see you again! I have followed your website but lost you when on demand took you away. You look so rested, glad you are doing well, hope to hear from you on CZcams once and awhile. Thanks for sharing. Best of luck in future endeavors.
Looking good Kevin! Good words and sound advice about being very selective with human contact and aware of energetic vampirism. I remember a seven year period in my life when I was alone and now see that time as one of the most creative periods of my life. Being able to "self-nourish" my spiritual well being has strengthened my character and resolve. Taking the "Red Pill" at my age has presented some serious challenges but I now see these obstacles as evidence that I am taking a step in a new and better direction. So good to see you back on CZcams and looking so well. My wife and I have decided to move into our 4wd camper and spend a year or two touring Australia and away from cities and TV so that we can meet some real people again while we are still able. Getting rid of our stuff has truly been liberating. Carry on cruising and doing! All the best.
I’m watching you Travels By Narrowboat from the beginning and I forgot this episode. I really respect the advice you give. When my wife and I started dating we gave up the tv and after we were married we gave away the tv because we decided that it there was time to watch there was time to go on an adventure. Of course, we had our ups and downs with the tv, but today this video has renewed my need for adventures! My kids are going to hate me . . ., but we are turning of the imagination killer and spend our time taking adventures and one of this biggest adventures is cleaning their rooms!!
Also, read the news about 1 hour total a week. Just enough to keep me conversational, but not enough to get depressed. Besides, there is scarcely anything new being reported.
You're very welcome Martin. Agreed, at the moment there is only one topic on the news. 🙄
Wise words.....i needed a little reminder....many thanks
Nice to see you back on CZcams Kevin. I have missed your vlogs. Your earlier vlogs made me take a close look at my life and things that I should of done which I am now In the position too, hopefully my partner and myself should be taking delivery of our narrowboat in a few weeks if the survey goes well. So I would to thank you for giving me the kick up the backside to kick start things.
Hi and thank you Stephen. That means a lot and hope everything comes together soon. Happy boating. 😊
Hi Kevin just a quick update about the purchase of our boat, we take delivery of our narrowboat on Monday so I would like to take this chance to thank you again for giving me the push that I needed and keep the great vlogs coming.
Some sage advice there! Looking forward to your next video's.
Just don't drink. Best advice.
I also live alone and rather like my own company. Thank you! All wise points!
Tell them you have something boiling over on the stove, they always shut up!
That's the one I shall use from now on. Cheers :)
I believe in what I see
I believe in what I hear
I believe that what I'm feeling
Changes how the world appears... thank you Kevin for the video, take care mate and enjoy your cruising, you look great on it!
Thanks a lot for you video lots of things I will take on board. And nice to see you again miss seeing your boating videos hope you do some more vids on youtube all the beast sir
Hi Kevin glad to see you so happy! I am going to have to buy a Clarkson book now. I’m doing lots of black n white photos now but still find it hard to get in range of people to get a quick photo. Nerves man!
Recommend The World According To Clarkson Vol 1 as a good starter. :)
👍Some great advice thanks. I’m recently single and think I fail most of your good points but hope to achieve more in the future when my circumstances change 🙂.
Just descovered CZcams Narrow Boat videos. You are my new best frind on CZcams. Thank You! COVID-19, You be safe. Amen!
Awesome David and thank you. ☺
Good points , mainly common sense. As a future solo boater I would probably have a dog or two. Not just for company but security. Also you jolly well have to make an effort to exercise and care for them. Thanks for the interesting view on your life.
Wise words.so good to see you again.Hope your back on CZcams.