Dating in Sweden
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- In this video you'll get to find out how the Swedes Date. What a Fika is , if its easy or difficult to meet someone in Sweden and how Individualism affects dating in Sweden. For more follow us on instagram @datingaroundtheworld_wm
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Being in dubai for 10yrs,dating and finding someone serious is soo difficult, most swedish pple are kinda anti- social, but at the same time polite, honest and friendly...they are just lovely though...😊
I'm currently living in Sweden.I find them not ant-social but they are shy people..
sounds very lonely and non spontaneous life to live along side with oreder and freedom, it's kind of a paradox
The people in Sweden are very socially active. Especially when you compare them to Finns. Fika with coworkers or friends happens very often, and they also take time to work out etc. Northern people are pretty shy and it can be easily mixed with not wanting to socialize. Well, people in Finland probably don't want to socialize most of the time but they are so different from all the others.
Great content. Keep uploading more videos like this. Your actually have talked to a psychologist which makes this video very professional. I'm looking forward to hearing more from this channel
I’m dating a Swede! One of the best person i’ve encountered in this lifetime 😊
Do women judge man if man if he has less money then women?
@@thewalker338 “Judge” in terms of what? Just a long as you are both committed to provide the needs of your partner not just financially but holistically in all areas. Money is not an issue.
Hi I am from south Africa 🇿🇦🌍 currently with a Swedish guy his his so loving great best guy love meant he checks up on me everyday his loving and supportive ❤️and I hear lot of people saying Swedish people shy not my guy his not as all I think am the shy one .
As a retired swedish ww2 hero I want to add to the story: We should be thankful and grateful to Norway since most of the nature in the form of scenery, soil / stones and wildlife etc has drifted from the Norwegian hills and mountains to form what today is called sweden. Not many mention this fact - but we should do more to show gratitude toward Norway and the norwegian people. And we should also finally admit that the vikings originally came from Norway (and later spread to sweden and denmark).
I don't get the hype about the vikings. The goths came from Sweden and they literally founded some of the most amazing kingdoms and historical changes in Europe. True about Norwegian geology! Their fjords are incredible
I didn't know a lot about the Swedish dating culture but I have learned a lot. Though quite different from my country but it's fun 😊
this is only from the perspective of stockholmers. The rest of sweden is different
I live in Sweden, the main reason for a high divorce rate is because people can afford to rent on their own, there is a social security here that cushions the laziest XXXX.
Fredrik Björklund is the name of the guy with the black and white striped shirt! From south of Sweden, paradise for women!
Wadzie great content, thank you, you are great. Love your videos.
I appreciate that!
@@datingaroundtheworld198 thank you, I appreciate your videos too, I'm gonna watch the Africa's one soon, thank you really, it is really good content and you are a very good presenter
The best I guy I have ever met in my life. So gentle and naughty at the same time.💕 I love how they see equality. Such a balance.
Terrific content … and, as someone who has been in two relationships with Swedes, I can say it is accurate information.
Do women judge man by money he has??
@@thewalker338 some, maybe many, women do. Either money or some other indicator of status. They may even do it unconsciously.
I’m happy that I don’t need to look at any person through that lens. I can look at a man as a person, for his qualities as a human being.
@@maryjanewesterlund9958 In My country ,I don't stand a chance for dating a Women.
Eg:-20% Man who are like Alpha get date with 80% Women.Women just don't like man who don't have money.
It is frustrating.Too much pressure on man to earn money ,to get married.
Does Situation in same in Sweden?.
Do man struggle to get date? Or both party get fair chance?
@@thewalker338 I think Sweden is more egalitarian among the sexes. Women may be more open to the question of who is the “bread winner” and who is taking care of personal and home needs.
I also have the opinion that Swedes (and, maybe Scandinavians) are less materialistic than many western societies.
Don’t go after or take an interest in women who obviously are into status seeking and who value impressing others. Plenty of attractive and nice women who men don’t value because they aren’t flashy or “hot.”
@@maryjanewesterlund9958 For a moment i thought this liberal feminist system is good.
But most of these women are Hypocrite. They want only Tall guy to date.
Where is the projection that Women can take lead and take care of man?
If this system exist Women will only want Top 15% percent Alpha male to
Fertile their egg.
And shorter height 85 % beta guy to nourish their kid.And beta guy will only get sex if he has Wealth.
There are different types of Swedes in Sweden. Generally speaking, more than 90% are cold people. That is, you can have fun with them like having a fika, but that's all. I was married to a Swede who was an exception to his kind, he was warm and funny, a good man. I can say that only marriage makes you grow together, love and appreciate your partner or if not, you can divorce them.
Living separately because of less " administration " is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Let's put it right, it is less responsibility towards each other. You pay your fees individually, you buy your clothes, you pay for your flowers or perfume. You pay for your trip. You pay your share at the restaurant. I think there is no feeling in this, the man, his feelings and chivalry doesn't exist. The word relationship is being degraded to something which doesn't make you happy. So if she and him do not share daily life together and both do their thing in their way and come together over the weekend to eat, drink and be intimate, this will never be fulfilling, and nobody would call it love but some kind of agreement between the two not to feel lonely. Because loneliness is a problem in Sweden. Yet they don't realise that the reason for this is themselves.
If you're young and don't marry because of love, you will divorce sooner or later. There is also a difference between the two sexes, men have become more feminine and women more masculine. That is not the right balance. Women don't dress feminine, but if you do you don't fit in the societal picture, you're looked upon with critical eyes.
I thought you should know this too.
This is so interesting
Great informative video! What happens after singles age there is a good question.
In the realm of dating, it is often said to never dare date a Swedish person, unless you are ready to be swept away by their irresistibly charming ways. With their effortlessly cool demeanor and natural sense of style, Swedes possess an innate ability to make every date feel like a rendezvous straight out of a Scandinavian fairytale. But beware, for behind those captivating blue eyes lies a wickedly sharp wit that can catch you off guard in the most unexpected moments. Their dry humor and quick comebacks will have you laughing till your cheeks hurt, leaving no room for dull or tedious conversations. So if you're up for an adventure filled with stimulating banter, enchanting culture, and breathtaking beauty all rolled into one package, lured into the arms of a Swedish sweetheart might just be the best decision you'll ever make - assuming you can keep up with their witty repertoire!
Thank you so much for sharing .Great video.love From.Phhilippines
Like to date a sweden guy 😀
Ana Batista is from Portugal :) Loved the video!
@eddieoredsson
One of a kind guy! That biceps too!!
If leftists can come out of shell, only then they can understand life:)) I love that therapist is really speaking truth and not hiding behind victimhood.
women and men equal right on de media.
Interesting infomation
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Hello pretty
Isn't interesting that Scandinavian countries have the most equality, yet the highest divorce rate.
It's as if traditional gender roles works the best for relationship
I think it can be because there's less social pressure to stay in the marriage if the relationship is bad for you
@@ekanimation I've watched interviews from Scandinavian countries and they say that they don't want to put in the effort to be in a relationship.
They have a very selfish culture there
I'm Swedish and can tell you it's the opposite, we put a lot of effort into our relationships (including friendships). This ties into why a lot of people from other cultures might think we come across as very reserved. It takes time to befriend us since even a friendship is a long-term relationship for us, and that is also why the people who finds us reserved it the ones that usually doesn't want to put in time and effort in my opinion :)
@@ekanimation interesting, I have some questions.
So I heard on one interview that personal happiness is the most important in Scandinavia countries.
So my question is, do you think that at the expense of happiness, people will neglect their partner for their own feelings?
Like you even said that there is less pressure to stay in a marriage when you're not happy.
So I believe you can't trust someone that will put themselves above the team/marriage.
@@berrymckockiner5883 in Sweden we have a law giving us the same rights when living together (sambo) in a relationship as in a marriage so I think to most of us it's just a title, it doesn't change the relationship in any way. If a relationship is good from the beginning we stay together, regardless if married or as sambo (living together without marriage) or just in a relationship. Some people get married, some don't and some change their mind. If you got married to someone and they started treating you poorly or you just don't get along anymore no matter how hard you've tried, would you stay then?
Would love to have a sweden partner though
@@Lcc.schultz lugn nu björn 😂
Wow this video published on my bday
I wonder, how many of these people ever really fall in love with someone?
People of Sweden haves the strange culture i never seen before.. staying alone for years that's sucks.. being bored just because someone wants time for themselves hahahahahahha that's wired next week am moving to sweden and I dont wana live a boring life.. I have to approach someone out there 😀😀😀.. because I've discovered the Swedish are just shy people soo u have to boost them
I want to move to Sweden how did u move I've been trying for 2 years applying for jobs
I haf a crush on someone who leve in Sweden
It’s horrible if you are more then 5 years older then the Swedish girl is, and even worse if you are more then 10 years older, she will not even look at you. “How old are you”? Is the first they ask. Second is “Where do you live?”. If you live outside Stockholm city, in any of the suburbs, and the girl lives closer, she will not go out with you. So if you want a little younger girl/woman and start a new life with, don’t even go to Sweden, specially not Stockholm. Unless you have a 3 room apartment in Kungsholmen, Wasastan or even better Östermalm/ Sturegatan, and am very rich and drive a fancy car, then you can have a much younger Swedish girl. It doesn’t matter if Sweden is a “equal country” between men and women, it’s in the genes “same or higher social standard/education/class” within every girl/women. Till she does not want to have more children, and that is the time when how a person IS becomes more important.
We are more like “small islands” in Sweden and once in a while in our dream we need a partner, but if everything does not work perfect, or she find a man who is richer or lives in a bigger house/apartment, she will think of getting divorced. Money is everything even in Sweden, and if you are a man who loose your pilot job, and start to drive a bus…. She will divorce you, it’s just a matter of time…. So.. it’s the same in every country. Because girls are looking for Ken, in the Barbie world. And it does not matter how “equal” it is between men and women. They still want the man who has everything she want a man to have. If you have all that, then she will stay. And I am talking about material stuff. Plus, if you are a Swedish man, who does not drink beer and wine… she will break up because of that. Because she will automatic think you were a alcoholic who went to a AA meeting and became sober. She will NEVER understand if it was just your choice, or the fact that you maybe don’t LIKE it. You have to like wine so your Swedish girlfriend can sit on Friday evening and share a bottle of wine with you. So for me who does not like beer and don’t like wine… I am out totally to be able to find a Swedish girlfriend.
My experience of being a Swedish man, who tried to find a Swedish girlfriend after the age of 44 and start a new family, without being a pilot and not having an apartment in Stockholm city and not drinking alcohol normally. Because Swedish women does not want a man like me, but girls from countries where most men are alcoholics or countries where alcohol is forbidden, or from very poor countries, I have a better chance to find someone to be with. How crazy is that, that a high educated man like me, with a big heart, can’t find a partner in Sweden? But it’s just how it is.
Very true I totally agree 💯
why do you keep saying "young girl" ? you realize that means little girls as in little kids, right? and why do you want to date someone 10 years younger than you anyway? you're so creepy, someone should check your hard drive
@@bie-p1l Totally wrong. girls are not same as KIDS. girls can be same as women. its just an expression. See the TV series "Super girl" and you understand.
@@veenyaga Thank you
damn bro, you have it rough lol Its the same in the USA. But they are great women out there, that's why as a guy you want to meet as many women as possible to see who actually clicks.
Any Swedish out there for me pls…
11:41 This women is a true case of open relationship. I can't tell what is she on about....
I get what they are saying but at the same time its scary. I get that individuality and self fulfillment is important but so is love and family. I think feminism can lead to this mentality that ”im not going to waste my time on you because my time and life is to important to waste on someone like you” which can be pure evil at times depending on the situation. Everyone dont have this mindset about themselves, they just want to find someone who they love and loves them back so they can have a good life together. But this is more and more seen as something thats wrong or weak which is sad. At the end of the day despite of which career you choose in your life, in the end the ones who are going to be by your side is you and your family.
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Hi hello everyone, thanks so much for sharing.
Wow.. In an effort to prove 'unnatural equality'..How wants to live a life of isolation & lonliness😢
I m young man single 35 year
Looking for true love in swedsh
Is it easy for man to get hook ups in Sweden?
Do women judge man in Sweden? Will someone get date if man is less rich then Woman.
@@thewalker338 Depends, some people have it easy with hook ups. And yes, there's a lot of relationships where the woman earn more than the man.
Most people in Sweden don't really judge people based of money, It's also rude to brag in Sweden so people who are rich tend to be very humble compared to the rich people you see online from USA. You'll never see a Swedish billionaire act like Musk, Trump e.t.c
Could you do in Germany next?
I would love a date with a Swedish lady. Godfearing and Educated to at least a Masters level.
Do you yourself meet such specifications ?
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@@kalimistakidou9103 🤯🤯🤯 are you serious?
there is not much godfearing in sweden, religious population is like 3% and they are usually the older and uneducated ;)
We’re predominantly atheist so good luck with that
🤔informative. ❤️ It.
Glad you liked it 😃
What if women don't work .......still she needs to pay
There must be a reason why you don't work, and that reason must be the sources of your income and yes you must pay
hmmm
The gentleman at 5:35 is handsome.
youre cuta also
Sweden only gals can date. Guys have 0 chanse.😂
Ha ha ha.. 🙄
The scandinavian Countrys are To liberal. The preach men not to do the first move but lot of swedish girls expact This from You.
really I heard it's culture for swedish women to make the first move
@@GregXHunterz
Yes, but they dont. Women find 80% of the men UNATTRACTIVE, also in scandinavia. Thats why most men have to make the first move if they want to be successful.
@@user-tm4cu5xw4bits all looks, bro
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Can this channel get someone less "woke"?
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