"Im A 10/10"
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18, I'm a good looking ugly dude
I see what y’all did there
Bruh I'm a solid 5....
Outta muthafooking 5
Hundred... I'm ugly guys
"28 going on 80" 😂😂😂 Aba's pettiness towards Fresh is a 10/10
shit had me dying 😭😭😭
You guys noticed that too huh! Would you say shots fired?
Yeah that had me like wth
28?? There is no way Fresh in in his 20s... that bald spot and eye bags is giving me AT LEAST 35.
My theory is that they chose to react to that video just for an excuse to be petty to Fresh. I'm all for it 😂
My fave is the one when the girl rated a chubby guy a 3...then rated herself a 10, and the next guy said she look like a lizard. I pray she saw that clip and it humbled tf out of her.
Tbf she was asked the question and answered honestly. If the chubby dude was a 3 the he is a 3. She was right
I mean to be fair she could be a 10 to the lizard community.
@@JedoRPG Hilarious
Timestamp/link?
@@JT-bt6jy best not to throw stones while she lives in a glass house tbh
"Shout out to my negatives..." and a flash of Hawking across the screen killed me 🤣
I spit my drink all over my phone, now I gotta put this shit in some rice 😭
I started crying 😭
RIP to that man. Literally. 😭
Naw bruh I started crying when I seen that 😂😂😂😂
Yeah I burst out laughing lol both times be flashed the picture 📸😅
Happened to me exactly the moment. I saw this comment. Now I've got fanta all over my PC
I’m a solid 5 lady and I had to work to get this high and I’m not ashamed of it!! I had to work out and get fit to get above a 3. 5 is great. I’ve maxed out my potential💪.
That's the attitude!
Health is severely under valued.
Accepting that you’re average or the reality of where you are doesn’t mean one has low self esteem. It just means you’re self aware.
Exactly. It means you live in reality not in delusion.
and the irony is: as you go through life, you'll see the value of being self aware.
Facts, a lot it women arent good at this tho. They build a lot of delusions for themselves 😬
Very true. Many women act like they have to see themselves as the best looking to display confidence, but actual confidence is knowing you're average and being chill with it. The latter wins more respect too, so it's amazing that so many choose the former.
Exactly brother! I mean hell i know im a 2 and only thing keepin me from a 0 is my personality!
It's really okay not to be desired by everyone. Being desired and valued is not the same thing.
So very true
What is the diff between "desired" and "valued" ?
@@saninkontron925 Respect is the difference. Being sexy may make you desired, but not respected.
FACTS
Words to live by.
We all need friends like Aba and Preach
I had a guy at my course in trade school who was and still is 9,9999... Tall, muscular, good face. He knew he could get any girl just by looking at her. And he was humble about it and he hated it. He once told me that he can fool around as much as he wants, but no he can't get a serious relationship because most of the girls who chase him are mindless morons with no personality and moral values. I seriously felt bad for him at that moment.
Thats still better than nothing
@@laszlokocsi1825 true, but there is a huge difference between fooling around and one special lovely woman.
@@jaanusvuks8160 ooh I know that very well
Celebrity who he most resembles 🤔
@@NAT-turners-Revenge Marco Asensio is similar.
Sometimes rating yourself low doesn't mean you're insecure, it means you're self aware. I'm a 4-5 and I'm confident in that. Confidence doesn't belong to attractive people.
This is what people need to realize… being confident doesn’t mean you’re a ten… usually means you’re confidently delusional.
@@thehungrysage exactly
Beautiful girls are some of the absolute most insecure women on the planet. Ive dated them, ive also dated average girls and usually they are much more comfortable in their skin.
Disclaimer: This is in northern europe, not america where every girl thinks they're 10's no matter what they look like.
Self awareness is attractive, especially paired with brutal humor. Self delusion is neeever cute.
I'm rocking that 4- making all the 3s want some
"you have the right to be average" this is possibly the absolutely most body positive statement I've ever heard. And easily one of the most common sense empowering statements I've heard on this channel.....and I've probably watched an unhealthy amount of yalls videos.
If you start to live by that standard or principle then you'll never be able to better yourself. I was agreeing with em till I heard aba add in charisma and other personality traits. Cos its alright to have that mindset or standard based solely on looks, but when you start to add other things in then it's unhealthy to have that mindset. As a man, you should always be striving to be better. If you adopt the mindset of "average is best" or "its ok to be average" then that's all you'll ever be. This principle should only be applied to looks for men.
Edit: This principle should only be used for looks and height. Cos they can't be changed.
@@floki5182 Except there's a huge difference between actually becoming better and faking it for likes. That's the problem with this generation, they're all fake. Because social media conditioned them to be that way and normalized faking it till you make it. Much like your comment, you can give this preachy self help guru stuff all day long, but unless you actually practice what you preach, I'm not buying it.
@Floki I'm okay with looking like an ugly caveman, a solid 2. I dress average, I have great hygiene and I'm laid back. I'm that guy girls swipe left on Tinder but in person they want to get to know me more. I think that's the outlook Aba n Preach are trying to articulate. Be okay with yourself
@@floki5182 you can be happy with yourself now AND strive to be better at the same time. That's almost like saying "don't be content with that A- because you won't study hard or harder for the next test"
Or saying don't be happy about this promotion you just got because you won't be able to better yourself and achieve the next one.
So also this whole "it's ok to be average" was mostly about looks.. but it can also be more than that. You'll never be happy if you are always needing to strive for better BEFORE you can be okay with yourself.. there would be no end because you can always do better..
So two things can be true at once.. you can be happy with where you are AND have plans to be further in the future.
I prefer to not live a life chasing a happiness I can never enjoy because I'm not allowed to until I've reached "the next" step. There's always another step though.
@@floki5182 also knowing you look average vs having a ridiculous outlook that you are some untouchable top ten but you are just average? 🤷🏼♀️
Enough said there.
And it's not a men problem as much as it's a lady problem, as you see in the video.
I’m a girl, and objectively speaking, I’m a 5 or a 6 at most. Yeah, I’m not a stunner, but who cares! And no, I don’t think I have the personality to make up for it 😂 I’m strictly average in all fronts, but I’m okay with it. I’m not negating the importance of looks, because in the real world, I can’t deny how much looks matter. I’m just choosing to look past all of that and still be happy. There are more important things in life, and I believe I’m a decent person who cares for others and is kind, so that’s enough for me. I wish people would realize that average isn’t bad. It’s a pretty stable place to be
Awesome that you're happy how you are. Keep in mind you can always improve how you look massively by going to the gym if thats what you want. But yes, being kind and a a good person is way more important.
@@raulinhomaster I’m fit, so that’s not the issue. I just have a very average looking face, so not much to do about that haha. I put on a bit of makeup, do my hair, and I look presentable. Just not “pretty” per se
Being average or decent looking is a balance basically I agree
@@fakeaccount704 humble and real. Stable wife material
you'll still get way more guys sliding into your DMs than the average looking guy would get girls messaging him. That's
just the reality of being female!
I used to care about my "rating" in HIGH SCHOOL, lol luckily at 28, I have way more confidence & I've never struggled with attracting men. But half were losers and vampires who would leech off my money/generosity 🤷🏻♀️ I don't need to be a 10 and I'm happy with my looks! Thank God we all look different and beautiful in our own way ❤️
I saw a tiktok where a guy rated an attractive girl an 8.5 and in the comments women were offended for her. Never in my life did I think anyone could be offended over an 8.5/10. That is a great rating! They were acting like he called her butt ugly. What kind of world are we living in where a compliment is taken as an insult? Average people have become way too comfortable with calling themselves perfect.
I always thought 10 was perfect like super fit, perfect chest and bum, like photoshop. 9's are like natural perfect as for 8's super pretty but not a model...🤷♀️
I think a rate of 6-8 leaves room for improvements and betterment, which is better than 9 or 10. 9 and 10s mean you are too perfect and nothing to improve on which sucks to be honest.
@Juci Shockwave I thought 10s have got to have exceptional skin, youth and genetics, I just found out that Melanie go boom chick was 36 and I couldn't believe it, thought she was 22 lol, she got awesome genes lol
Theirs nothing wrong with average people calling themselves perfect it effects literally nobody.
That’s cuz girls rate themselves 11s, 15s, and 20s 😂😂😭 which aren’t even on the scale
Cut to Fresh’s Face after talking about looks for some reason made me burst out laughing 😂
litterally
bruh i agree
Yeah the best TH ad ever🤣
Yea I started dying while I was eating😂
SAME!!! it was a 10/10 in editing!
When someone says they’re a 10 they’re arrogant, but if they say 6 or 7 they’re fake humble and seeking for attention. You can’t win 🙄
For me, a 10 will only ever be a girl who makes me feel something when I'm around them, a 10 is more than looks.
Why is it so important to feel perfect even if you know that you aren't? Or do they seriously believe that they are legitimately a 10?
Folks are delusional
They're delusional by nature.
low self esteem.
It's all ego. Lol
I ask myself the same thing 😂 I'm perfectly fine with admitting I may be a 5, maybe a soft 6 😂 my husband says I don't give myself enough credit, but I feel he has a biased opinion
“You have the right to be average” -Preach (PUT IT ON A SHIRT AND SELL IT AS MERCH)
I’ll take two please 😢
@Aba N Preach make it happen 🤟
YES
If you gym up and grow your hair or spike it up in a slick way you won't be average that's a fact. I like guys with long hair, not every girl does but every girl likes muscles.
Of course you have the right to be average if you are. Some guys are way to hard on themselves😢 and don't realise they are far better looking than they think.
But gym and a bit of hair grooming increases a man quite a bit if he wants to self improve aesthetically.👍🌹
Average is perfectly acceptable. A 6 is cute, a 7 is attractive and 8-10 are beautiful, sexy, and gorgeous.
The other day I was talking with my girlfriend about this and she told me that many women will always rate theirselves 10/10 because their way of showing that they are happy with who they are. Even if it isn't accurate, they don't want to seem insecure (mostly to other girls) and give themselves a realistic rating. I guess it also has a little to do with pride.
I wouldn't call myself a 10 if I needed cakeface to go outside.
If I were a 10 I'd walk fashion shows and not zebra-crossing outside a bar
You do realize not every pretty person wants to be a model right?? Modeling is overhyped, most people would rather do something with a less toxic work environment.
@@Las645 but they still be going to best clubs not roadside pubs and stuff
Exactly 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
That's a myth though that models are always pretty...most times they need to be skinny...if they happen to have good hair,or clean skin and pretty that's the plus.
You know "looks don't matter" is nonsense when you see people desperately rating themselves a 10
who even honestly thinks that looks dont matter? its just a cope like size doesnt matter. everything matters, but especially looks.
“Fresh, my mans is 28 going on 80”. Yoooo that was hilarious Aba. Keeping that pressure on those dudes 😂💀.
I hope they get a sponsor for hair product, then they can bring Fit into the conversation.
@@eddiek8179 hopefully a Manscaped commercial.
@@eddiek8179 Do you want hair that look like fit's? I didn't think so. That's why you should use Keeps!
nah that shit super corny..hate is a burden on the soul. it is a terrible state of mind to have someone living there life living rent free on ur mental.
No cap bruh i died
My husband asked me to rate myself 1 to 10. I said 6.5 to 7. He told me I’m delusional, and I need to have more self confidence 😂
Because all these men here who are trying to get 🐱 wanna lower women's self-esteem so that they don't have to put in as much work. When a man loves you/is a gentleman, he'll lift you up. When he just wants to fck/is insecure, he'll bring you down to "his level" if not lower.
They won't admit it tho, they aren't even aware or they'll gaslight you into thinking you're "delusional". But I ain't blind, I see it.
It's cool to know society's standards, but society's standard is always changing so just love yourself no matter what. You're a 6-7 in society's eye, but a 10 in your universe girl! F*ck these beta ass "men"!!! ❤️💯💯
My boyfriend is always telling me I'm a nine. It's cute because I can tell he genuinely believes it but I'm an 8 at best 😭😂😭
@@xxxmelissatacionxxx if a guy likes a girl, we think she's a 10 even if she look like precious or sum
@@assgrabber5473 cap
you probably are a 6, but since he's your husband you're 10 to HIM and in the end that's all that matters.
It's interesting too because someone's 4 is someone else's 8. A 10 isn't even a true 10 and a 1 isn't a true 1 because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. .. And there's a whole lot of different "beholders" out there lol
You know I do agree with this because my high school sweat heart I genuinely thought she was very pretty, I was infatuated with her, we've been friends since we were little middle schoolers, and even now as we're both 25 24 year old's we keep in touch, but my friends in high school thought she had a busted face and you know how we were as teenagers with no confidence I genuinely wondered if there was something wrong with me for thinking she was pretty.
You know what's weird? How we live in an age where we are supposed to accept that no matter how we look we are beautiful in our own way and yet we turn around and then do everything in our power to change, from lying to ourselves to plastic surgery.
exactly, its always "love yourself however you are" until someone doesnt think they are hot.
Its almost as tragic as fat acceptance Women who openly state they wouldn't date overweight men.
Like you can say everyone is equally attractive, but what you do feel actual attraction to is generally the same and based on nature.
So look wise you can clearly see diffrences.
For a generation that doesn't believe in labels, they still like putting labels on how others look.
let's not forget the hypocrisy of those same "love yourself" people talking trash to other people that don't meet their standard. So it's really: "love yourself as long as I approve."
@@reikun86 they are a generation that loves being labeled. pronouns!
The cut to Stephen Hawking when talking about negatives had me going 🤣. You guys are hilarious
Rip ma dawg Stephen but that shit funny af!😂😂😂
Yet Mr. Hawking (RIP) was married. Ionno how you can be a negative or a 0 if you are married lol.
@Vice Gripp pretty sure he got married before his disease completely handicapped him. He wasn't always wheelchair bound.
Edit: yeah there's old pictures of him standing next to 1 of his wives
@@vicegripp Because, on average, physical appearance doesn't matter as much for women as it does for men, especially for highly intelligent people who don't just allow their monkey brain to dominate their life decisions. But these ratings are based on physical appearance alone, so you have to admit that physically he does not have any traits that the majority of people would find attractive.
@@gallafia3771 Yes I am aware.
Honestly.. This video has been ironically helpful for me. I have very low self esteem, even tho I also think others might be happier having what I got. It's a very disconnected way of thinking, I guess. A lot goes into bullying for being ugly as a kid and my view on myself is now distorted... Anyhow, I don't know if others feel the same, but I always crave to look "perfect". I want everyone to like me. I want everyone to find me pretty. I always wanted to be a 10, because I've seen how 10s get treated and I always wanted that.
But in all honesty, this video has hit a sweet spot for me. It's okay to not be a 10. I should just work with what I got and not cry about not having what I want.
"It's okay to be average" is such a strong statement. I found that so inspiring that I had to sent this video to a friend of mine. This made my day. I have such crippling perfectionism, that hearing this sentence made me go like "Dang, I didn't look at it this way. This is so cool. I should adopt to this mindset"
I always had the feeling I was a 5 or AT MOST a 6.5 in a good day, but friends only tell you that you are a 10 and then I just have to keep wondering and it bugs me even more. Recently I kinda confirmed I was average and I'm a lot happier not havng to wonder. That being said I do think my husband needs to say I'm a 10 in his eyes, even if it's not true because I want the illusion that TO HIM an HIM ONLY I am perfect :)
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Sister in christ, had us in the first half ngl.
You can always look better/fitter/more muscular/ healthier.
As a female I always felt that being a 6 or a 7 was s as good thing 😂
If they asked me depending on how I felt that day I’d say 6 or 7. I’m surprised so many people said 10.
Normally it would be, because women use to have SOME DEGREE of realism. Now even 6 and 7's think they deserve to be treated just like the 10's, whether they think they're 10's or accept they are 6's & 7's. They all want royal treatment. The delusion is a massive turn-off. Hence why we hit it and then ghost.
Yeaa the extremes always come with a baggage. 6 or a 7 means if you take care of yourself your attractive to most people and if not your average.
Women that are 6 or 7s on Tinder get treated like Jennifer Aniston in the 90s...so yall good.
It is, just for whatever reason no one uses the 1 to 10 scale right. 5 should be the average plain Jane face
I am average and I know it. But I think it’s hard for women to accept it (me included) because of how many gorgeous woman we see on social media. The longer you watch beautiful people, the more you think it’s the norm, even if it’s really an exception. When you see beautiful people non-stop since you’re young, it creates mental problems such as dysmorphie. Because most woman feel this way, they feel empathy towards their friend, so they try to boost their ego by saying “no, you’re a 10, you’re gorgeous”! I think the emphasis on beauty is even more prominent on the younger generation and it affects everyone.
Absolutely right, we need to focus away from looks. It seems physical beauty is a pre-requisite to success now a days. Even in industries that are focused on talent or education. I’m sick and tired of the thirsting and blind favoritism towards pretty faces
Most of the women online don’t really look like that anyway, sooooo……
@@JEGHETTO in reality no, but the algorithm promote in general better looking people. It really depends of your « for you page » 🤷♀️
I don't understand if you see loads of attractive women online, so get thinks skewed, why wouldn't you rate your friends even lower than usual?
@@NotAnotherKuromi i think it’s to raised their self esteem or to not sound mean. I can’t say if it’s the case for everyone
Don’t forget, everyone can change their “score” to an extent with a little effort, working out a little and a good haircut/shave can go a LOOONG way for a lot of people. The confidence that comes from a cleaner appearance will only further boost that score!
I got my husband some skincare for Christmas! Thank you Aba!
For people who are just starting to look into skin care and are buying scrubs - please don't over-exfoliate! You have to be very gentle when using physical scrubs, so don't overdo it and when you are scrubbing, especially on your face, be gentle, don't push too hard to not damage your skin and cause micro tears and wounds which could lead to a whole load of skin problems. I know men have thicker skin but I think that scrub can be equally damaging if not used properly.
FACTS ! I found this out the hard way. I never break out unless I exfoliate everyday, then my skin is THE WORST.
There was an Instagram thread about people how often do a shower, and some people out here scrubbing themselves to 3 times a day absolutely ruining the skin biome
The exfoliating scrub is only used twice a week and yeah like you said, men have thicker skin
@@royalacity Yup, NEVER use it daily, let alone few times in a day, when I was teenager who didn't know better I used to scrub every evening and it made my acne so much more worse.
Currently I use physical scrub a few times a month but also use C-50 serum every few days, which is more like like chemical exfoliant.
I’m getting a lot of bumps on my back. Ig it’s back acne but do you have any tips on how to get rid of it?
I rate this episode 10/10. It hit all the nails on the head.
"Your wrong, Stop" - preach
When preach said some of you are a negative 😂😂😂😭
" If you are a 4, don't feel bad, there are 2s out there"
" If you're a negative 10 , don't feel bad, because there are negative a millions out there"
@@MikeBarbarossa very happy being a 4 right now
aBsOlUtElY, gAL.
Fresh catching the stray out of nowhere was hilarious. I damn near spit out my coffee
I’d definitely agree about your rating of yourselves but you are also right about your charisma and you both have beaucoup charisma and personality which gets better with age. Keep on keeping on, you’re both great. And you know it!
The perfectly timed Tiege Hanely 'Fresh Roast Ad' gets me every time. It's so versatile.😂
“You’re not perfect, sport. And let me save you the suspense. This girl you met, she isn’t perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other. That’s what intimacy is all about.” - Good Will Hunting
7:06 Bro i cant 💀💀💀💀
Even Stephen Hawking’s catching strays 😂😂😂
My issue with the beauty scale is that everyone thinks it's linear. In reality, beauty is a bell curve. In other words many people are 5's. And being a 7 or an 8 is extreme beauty, therefore very few people fall into that category.
Exactly. I think I can count on one hand the number of people that have actually taken my breath away because they were so stunning. It is extremely rare. I once worked with models, saw attractive people all the time. Even then most models are an 8 at best. But an actual 10, it’s been years since I’ve seen one.
I agree with you 100%. That is very true.
I think the mentality behind it is that 5 is a baseline average for someone not trying, for women that could be an average girl without make-up. For a guy it could be a guy who hasn't shaved or put on a nice outfit. So if they have put some effort into their appearance they deserve an extra 1-2 points because of it.
At the end when they were saying you're just as likely to be a 10 as a 0 I was thinking "yeah like 10%, hold up it doesn't work that way, this shit has a normal distribution. Only like .3% of chicks are 10's and same for 0's"
@@kft4764 Literally you know it's 10 when people are blown away by the same sex even if they're straight. I saw Hugh Jackman once and even I couldn't take my eyes off of him, I told all of my friends he's such a beautiful man lol
The goal is to feel like a 10 within yourself but accept your average and be content with what you got. If you love yourself then the judgment of others don't affect you nearly as much.
there is a difference between being content with being average and deluding yourself into thinking you are a 10.
Eh, I don't know about that. I lived in a place where I was treated like a rock star simply because I was a foreign white guy. (I was also in really good shape, but I was definitely no rock star by American standards.) I have to say that my confidence went through the roof. It was awesome. I conducted myself a lot better around people as a result. Then I lost a job and had a major health problem so that even my fitness is gone. I think the goal should be faith. In the end, we all are going to lose everything: money, looks, mental prowess, what have you. So if we base our self-worth on any of that, we're founded on sinking sand as it were. Yet if we base our self-worth on something metaphysical or religious, such as being made in the image of God or being a blood-bought member of Christ's family, then that will last us throughout our lives.
It's so easy to die or get hurt and lose everything. We need something deeper than the superficial to last us through the storm, which definitely will come and most likely in waves.
@SecaKaizen 😊
@@ConcernedResident_GiantStackI ain't reading all that. I'm happy for u tho. Or sorry that happened.
No, its not about 'feeling like a 10' regardless, it's about knowing you're a 4/5 but being completely OK with it. Most people are average, that's why its 'average'.
People will always rate others differently. What may be a 10 to you could be a 5 to someone else and vice versa. But what I said in another comment is you can always get up on the general scale by taking care of yourself better. Improve your health, confidence and self-care. You will be alright.
Exactly!! This question is quite opinionated. There's nothing wrong or delusional with thinking you're a 10. It might only be if you think everyone else in the world will think you're a 10. I've seen gorgeous women and have had people disagree with me. Most of it is opinionated
@@kokorobread5243 100% agree
one thing that really annoys me about the current fake postivity mindset everyones has is them confusing confidence with narcissism
I had a girl call me gay because I said there’s no perfect woman out there I’m looking for the one that compliments me. She said you must be gay if you think there isn’t any 10/10 women out here. I can’t tell you how done I am with this generation.
My ex routinely called me gay for breaking up with her.
@@ricosuave62094you messed with her ego she wanted to blame it on something else
Bruh the fucking audacity and ego women have nowadays holy shit. They’re even more arrogant than the fuck boys they claim that they hate!
@@ricosuave62094 call them homophobic. Play by their rules 😂👌
Lmao 😂😂😂
An interesting perspective to consider is that they might not be thinking about the bell curve model of 0 and 10 being outliers and 5 being average , but rather the grade point model we're taught in school (10-9 Excellent , 8 Passing , 7 Average , 6 and below Unacceptable).
Where is that grade point model from?
Damn, everywhere I have studied, from middle school to university, 3 was the average, 4 was ok, 5 was passing, 6 was a good mark, 7 a great mark, 8 was incredible, 9 was unbelievable, and 10 was absolutely perfect
@@lucasmt.2000 US schools below 60 is an F
Average is generally near C for most classes
@@lucasmt.2000 bro if you had ratings all the way up to 10 and the average was still 3, then most of the class was getting 1s and 2s. Bunch of retardeds
@@lucasmt.2000 Average 3/10? I'm assuming at least some of this is for subjects where there are right/wrong answers - how does it work that missing two thirds is considered acceptable?
I’d never downplay someone else’s looks just because of my level of attraction towards them. It might not make sense to people but it’s just how I am.
I mean they are asking YOU how would you rate them on a scale of 1-10. Basically attraction
@@standia that has nothing to do with attraction. My cousins and mother, they are beautiful, 0 attraction.
I agree. Im assuming he is asking general attraction vs how attracted YOU are to THEM :)
My issue with my looks is that I'm very high on some measures and very much the opposite on others. Specifically I'm well over 6 feet and got the nice jawline and cheekbones etc. But I got crooked teeth and my eyes point in different directions (strabismus). Especially for that last one I feel anyone gets -5 because of that. Now I CAN thankfully focus my eyes if I make a conscious effort to do so, and I do that constantly when in public. Downside is when I do, my vision becomes very blurry and all I see are blobs of color instead of faces. Also crooked teeth mean I never smile with an open smile.
In the end I can feel like an 8 in one moment and then go down to a 4 a few seconds later.
Calling yourself a 10 and then hesitating on if other people would call you a 10 is a good sign that you don't actually believe you're a 10
U can find yourself a ten without needing others to also think you're a ten
I think people learn to appreciate their own beauty over time so that they are a 10 to themselves but that doesn't mean they a deluded enough to think they are everyone's cup of tea.
@@apeiceofmoldedclay No that not out it works. if you're average and think you are a ten then what do you call the likes of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie.
If she had said yes to that y’all would’ve said she was insufferable
There was no right answer to that question lol
@@spagbolphin7814 You're actually right. Anyone can call themselves whatever they want, just doesn't mean its true.
“I can’t rate myself a 10, i’ve been to Carnival” love it preach absolutely fantastic
that reference to fresh killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Every time 😂😂😂
Yoooooooooooooooo 7:10 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 STOP IT!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I'm a 4/10 girl and I've found myself hanging out most of my life with girls that were around 8. It's a very tough experience ngl, especially in terms of self esteem. I've learned to watch all my crushes approach me to approach them. I took refuge in mind stuffs, all of these things that make you an interesting human being, but nothing compares to attractiveness for a girl. One thing I've noticed tho is that the longer a woman knows she's attractive the lower tends to be her sufferability.
it's the small satisfaction i get out of this.
+1 for the small dose of pettiness at the end ;) I like it.
Guess what it is ok to be average.
😂😂 alright i just found ur comment interesting and wanted to let u know.
You could also try getting in great shape. A banging body with an average face is wonderful
As a guy, another self-satisfaction: For a ton of these beautiful women, it's downhill like hell once they start getting older, since their entire world spins around their attractiveness, so once they don't get attention from men, or have them bend over, and society in general bend over for them endlessly, they start losing it bad.
If you're really 4, nothing much is going to change really, so you don't have to worry about that and if you invested on being an interesting and good human being that makes you much more of wife material than those other women.
I feel this. When I was single, a guy took me out to dinner, just to ask me if my friend was single and talk about her 😂
Yoo, y’all did fresh dirty!!😂 28 going on 80 😂😂
Fresh and fit still wining with view and money
Crazy world 😱💀💀💀.
Being average is great, you blend in everywhere and don’t draw attention lol
YES! My cousin is so naturally georgeous- people just stare and its like having a spotlight on you. She's sweet and humble and can't help having great bone structure. But imagine- the intensity of heads turning and always being watched- with desire from men or jealous resentment from women -its like being hunted. Beauty can be a blessing, but not worth the curse. She would LOVE to blend in- so Overrated
The Stephen Hawking flash has me dead! 😂😂😂
You did Stephen dirty!
He may have been a negative, but his mind was of the charts.
I grew up with three sisters who were all into fashion, if they asked me if the looked fat they expected the most brutal form of the truth. Other girls didn’t appreciate that feedback 😂
I learned real quick that there are girls, that do not like the truth. I've had friends in the past where they could be brutally honest with me, but if I were politely honest with them, they wouldn't talk to me for days.
"Does this dress make me look fat?"
Good answer: I'll just say the dress isn't the best choice.
Bad answer: I don't think it's the dress.
@briant7265
Actually
The "Bad option" is the best
@@vnolan633 it's either the dress makes them look fat or they are fat. I don't think they wanna hear the latter
Same deal with me, only boy out of three girls and was taught to do the same thing. We were harsh to each other but it helped us develop thick skin and made sure we didn’t look like shit when we went out
Here's the thing. I have considered myself a "10" at times in my life, but I've always known I'm not rly a "10". Maybe I am a "10" for some people, but I think I'm more like a 6 or 7 to most people. The reason I have at times felt like a 10 is bc I just felt good about myself and I think that can be a good thing, but I also wouldn't be offended if someone thought I was less attractive than I thought I was.
I'm 36 and I don't remember us rating each other when we were younger. Seems weird.
Also I think there comes a point in life when you realize how shallow all that is. Been married for 14 years with 7 kids...couldn't imagine thinking about another man as hot or whatever because there is depth that surpasses all that in the intimacy that you have with your partner. These guys saying how average they are...trust me a wife that loves you wouldn't even think like that. To her, you are over 10 or whatever ridiculous thing you rate yourselves on.
Dayumn, 7 kids. God bless brother.
“Guess what, I’m happy with what I got!” Peach is giving us that uncle/fatherly advice right there 😂
As a guy, I've had girls tell me I'm a higher number than I know I am, but it's not so much of a lie as it is a skewed assessment. It's coming from friends who are taking your personality into account, so their emotional attachment to you muddies the results. I think most guys kinda understand that, and understand that the "rate yourself" question is asking based solely on looks, so we answer more honestly because we know what a 10 looks like and we know it ain't 99% of us.
Those girls will give you a higher number but would never sleep with you. It's 100% skewed
@@LeeEverett1 Oh for sure. That's why I don't take compliments seriously anymore. They're a nice gesture, but they're usually empty.
A long time ago, the site hotornot was just a site where you could post your pic and strangers would rate your attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10. There was no place to put a comment in or anything. That's about as objective an average you'll get.
Yer mom said I had a small tip 😔
@@senorpepper3405 She's an honest woman.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One person's 10 is another person's 2 and vice versa
I don't think it is quite that extreme. One mans 8 is another mans 10 but one mans 9 is never going to be another guys 3.
@@piggysew797 One mans 9 can be another mans 3. Like for example, there's a guy I am physically attracted to and consider him a 10 but friends consider him a 3. People are different in terms on what they are attracted to
@@piggysew797 frankly I've experienced that to be true. Someone thought of this unconventionally pretty actress as the most lovely yet I've heard people discuss how she ever ended up in the entertainment industry with those looks.
I see a lot of women rate themself as a 10. Personally I would rate myself as a 6. I think I’m cute but not gorgeous because I do wear a lot of makeup. I consider 5 as average, 6 as cute and then pretty/ beautiful and gorgeous above. Theirs nothing wrong with just being average or cute.
I still remember the day me and my classmates were hanging outside our small college and this 8-9 woman who looked like a model walked past, and she ended up having an attitude about something. As soon as that attitude we all collectively thought the same thing and thought she went from a 9 to like a 4 that fast.
It don't matter how good you look if you got no substance. A 6 can be someones 9 if they make them feel some time of way.
I think the number rating is on looks alone cause often we just look at a picture for the rating, but I agree, like preach says open your mouth u can go down to a 4 fast
I love Aba’s last comment. One of the best things my dad did with me was be brutally honest about my looks as a child. He told me “you’re not the worst woman a man would see, but nobody’s going to stop and in their tracks when they see you. You better develop a great personality, work ethic, and take care of yourself.” I always tell younger girls that there’s someone younger, thinner, and prettier at the party so develop who you are as a person.
As a child you’re not even developed yet, not only bodily, but not in the face either. Honestly I’m offended for you girl. He could have told you to do all that without saying you’re anything less than gorgeous.
In today's world that would have been termed misogynistic or some kind of abuse. Good on you for heeding tho
Thank you 😊 I think there’s a difference between blunt honesty and misogyny. My dad definitely had some misogynistic views, but this wasn’t one of them. One of the biggest failures we do for girls today is to put forth this “everyone is beautiful” idea. It does girls a disservice because: 1) If they’re not what society considers beautiful, then they’re going to experience way more rejection and it’s going to cause a lot of unnecessary pain; and 2) We’re conveying the importance of developing other personality traits (compassion, intelligence, work ethic, etc.) that would serve them more in the world. People are always shocked when I say that I’ve never considered myself beautiful, because I’m not. I think when I’m in shape and on my game, I’m a cute woman. It’s just being honest about yourself that I think people really struggle with.
Wtf 😭😂😂 gawd damn
Eh...I would take that differently hearing that from my father but something tells me my relationship with my Dad was different than yours.
That Tiege intro had me crying 😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah man. I'm still coming to terms with it, but it's getting easier and easier. But I'm starting to accept that not being desirable or in a relationship is okay. It is what it is. And to be fair, "love" isn't a human right. It's earned. If you don't have the right cards, you don't deserve it. Simple as that. No one gets everything they want in life.
The quick flash at 7:08 caught me so off guard 😂
Me too! Make me laugh way harder than it should when it showed up again! 🤣
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stephen Hawking?
Maybe it's because I'm 28 and I've already gotten over the need to be drop dead gorgeous, but there is no need to be a ten in the eyes of other people. It more important to come to peace with how you look and maximize what you got. Appreciate what makes you look unique, rather than what makes you the same as every 10 on insta
I second this.
At least youre not 28 going on 80 like Fresh
@@alexs5368 😂
im glad i saw at least one sensible girl in the chat, bonus that you did not take long at long to realize that
And that mentality is more attractive in my mind then someone desperately trying to be a "10".
Yeah Aba thinking he slick sneaking in that pic after shouting out the negatives 😂😆
that skin care promo is legendary
that negative quick pic fucking got me lmao
I love how y’all just continue to casually roast Fresh n Fit just to piss them off 😂😂😂
Yall threw Fresh WAYYYY under the bus 😂😂
The Miami boys make it easy to do.
They still winning with views and money. Crazy world.
@@eastwaters4082 All that shows is the cluelessness of the average person. To quote Churchill, "The best argument against democracy is a five minute conversation with the average voter."
That kind of sums things up. Basically a lot of younger guys don't recognize them as the red pill parrots they are.
Just the comment I was looking for🤣
I started doing a lot of spiritual work and stopped obsessing over my looks. I mainly care about my appearance in regards to how I can utilize my looks to have a better life without sacrificing integrity. Beyond that, I don’t worry about where I land on a scale of 1-10. Besides, people I think are attractive are ugly to my friends and vice versa. Just focus on mental, spiritual and physical health and you will be handsome/beautiful to those who matter.
That shoutout to the negatives had me dead. Thank you for the laugh
honestly? looks matter, but confidence can seriously boost you! sometimes it's even more attractive then the actual scale you're on, there ain't anything wrong with showing off the good stuff that you got! learning to dress better for our figure seriously helps
For a woman yes, but zero for a guy. If the woman has NO attraction towards a guy, his confidence will mean zilch. Yes, it will boost attraction, but there has to be a form of attraction there in the first place.
I laughed harder than i should have at this the negative bit had me blowing out my soda
i was drinking ice tea and almost spit it out during that bit
I nearly puked😂😂
For me it was Stephen Hawking 😭😂
It was so out of pocket 😅😅😅
THAT SHIT WAS INSANE SONNN
This video made me feel good to be an average girl. It's true, girls try to boost each other (unless they are frienemies). Guys tend to accept and go with what they have. It's refreshing to have an objective view and work on being content in your life. Be your own version of a 10 inside and out.🤗🥰
Agreed. I had a "best friend" in school who put me down every chance she got. I was insecure at the time and said nothing but looking back a lot of boys made fun of her looks and she was overweight. She was projecting her feelings of low self worth onto me.
I don't think girls should be mocked for their appearance btw, or boys. But she really was vicious to me.
It's a shame the way society is without fixation on physical appearance. It makes both genders feel incomplete and erodes their self confidence.
Men don’t have objective views. They give their opinions an inflated sense if importance & claim it’s “objectivity.” Please learn about what attractiveness is.
I like trains
Self-delusion is UGLY. On the inside, you’re a 2.5
Girl that gave herself a 6 and asked her friends for confirmation is goated. Stay strong pretty lady
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is someone’s 10 and someone else’s 0, so always remember that. What ACTUALLY matters is what’s on the inside, because a kind and loving person will be a 10 in every culture!
Thankfully my mom taught me it was ok to be average and I've never been insecure about being average. Now I'm not saying there isn't things I've had insecurities about but it was never because I felt average.
Flashing Stephen Hawking while talking about negatives got me crying 😭
Steven Hawking has intelligence and Charisma. Just cause he is not physically attractive, he is still attractive.
@@someguy892 🧢
@@someguy892 your a better person than me. I don't know a single women who would buss it down for Steven Hawkins.
@@CameronkAK well he was married til the end, so there was at least that one
@@PostInquiry All that money got him outta the negatives and made him look a 1 to his gold digging nurse. As for his first wife, she met him when he was 2 and could still walk.
6:10 Preach: I ain't nowhere near a ten. Aba: ABSOLUTELY
The only time I need to hear I’m a 10 is from my husband when I’m feeling insecure and even then Ik it’s just because he loves me 😂 I don’t think anyone could ever be truly a 10
Objectively no, but subjectively a 10 is very much possible
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance.
Sadly its been the norm to conflate the 2 amongst our generation
Exactly confidence is earned arrogance is just coping. If I throw 20 darts at a dart bored and get 18 of them in the bullseye I can be pretty confident that if I throw another Dart I can at least get it close to the bullseye. These women can't even hit the wall the dart boards hanging on and are 100% confident if you give them another Dart they can get a bullseye. This is why when you tell people just be confident as dating advice you're absolutely giving s*** advice. You should be saying do something that makes you confident because just acting confident is arrogance
or straight up delusion
Or delusion lol
How would you define the difference?
Now I know it's good be confident with yourself, but then there's just being an arrogant jerk and I think it's good to have some humility
some?? bra you will not improve without humility, its why arrogant people are some of the most complacent people ever.
Because if you are humble you can take good well-constructed criticism and grow from there, but throw some criticism on these "I'm 10" lads and see how they freak out. Confidence my ***, that's arrogance.
Exactly! Overrating yourself is a sign of low self esteem, which often leads to other insecurities. All those women saying 10, I would just walk away from. The one who said 6 likely has solid self esteem and is likely worth your time to at least say hi.
I love how realistic this video is, gosh such a great feeling to have watching this , in all honesty, thank you
the negative rate had me dying
The segway into the Tiege Hanley promo was pure poetry
That Stephen Hawking image showing up for a split second caught me way off guard
If someone thinks they are a 10, they are not. The attitude ruins everything else.
“Shoutout to my negatives” 😭😭💀💀
That Stephen Hawkins insert while talking about them "negatives" cracked me up🤣
Actually rating people is extremely subjective. For example my best friend likes guys who look a bit feminine (like Shawn Mendes) and she thinks these guys are 10. Personally I find these kind of dudes extremely mid. I always rate guys who look little bit "rough" in the face a 10 because for me a man is more manly if he looks like he's been through shit. I will never forget the time me and her went through a list of celebrities and she would rate some of them 10, I would rate them like a 2.
So ratings people appearances depends on taste, culture and fetishes.
Amen, I agree a bit of nuance I like to add is that within every culture there are basic things we deem as beautiful and ugly.
So based upon this generalization of beauty. we can rate beauty. Its just never objective. Like Abba said the subjectiveness comes in to place based on the person that rates others, meaning since we have perconceived notions of beauty per culture you go up or down maybe a point or two depending on who rates you.
You see this in studies done about beautiful people all the time on avarage a certain person is a 8 in the states but a 4 in france. Because on avarage we are formed by what we are told is beautiful during out life-time. And ofcoure some people in those studies give different ratings since beauty is always subjective on a personal level . But we do all have box we fit in based on beautystandards. I would like to think of those boxes as this. 4-6, 6-8, 8-10. We all fall into a box. The box just changes per culture and continent.
I feel like a 10 is something that we all agree is a 10 no matter what you're type is, but I'm with you. I have a friend who likes zero fat on women and I find the girls he brings home disgusting because they're so skinny but I'm sure he says the same about the girls I like because I like some thickness.
@Christopher Hall agreed
So you're both delusional.
ABA is wild with the editing 😂
I love how y’all brought up the RPG example😂👌🏽 I been using that as a reference point now in life aspect
Honestly, I don't know why that is, but when someone calls themselves a 10, they stop becoming attractive, and when someone calls themselves maybe a 4, 5 or 6, they become more attractive. Maybe it's the brain being defiant, but it might also be that humility is attractive.
Yea simply because arrogance and being presumptuous is anoying to listen to.
You get life is all. Someone having to inflate their value typically indicates low self esteem which often leads to other issues. An accurate or more accurate evaluation is more attractive because the person is clearly comfortable with who they are and has high self esteem.
@@winoodlesnoodles1984 not really but ok.
@@DominantBtch fair enough if your life has given you other experience.
My life has taught me that little things are indicators of bigger things. My life has taught me that people who need to inflate self worth typically have issues like low self esteem, narcissism, insecurities, dillusional, inferiority complex, etc. Not all of those issues in one person, but one or more issues is often the case. I have over 52 years on the planet and that little thought has been incredibly accurate.
Again, perhaps you have been in contact with better people than me and have a different experience.
@@DominantBtch care to explain?