My Boyfriend Uploaded Videos of Me Online
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- čas přidán 21. 05. 2023
- It's every girlfriend's worst nightmare, but this is how Victoria Galy found out what her ex had done. SPONSOR: Get an exclusive Surfshark deal! Enter promo code ANDREWGOLD for an extra 3 months free at surfshark.deals/andrewgold
As seen on the Consider Before Consuming Podcast on another channel, Victoria Galy talks of how: my ex uploaded videos of her without my consent.
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www.change.org/p/justice-for-...
Website:
www.justiceforvictoriagaly.com
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Bro, yer bad ass. Thank u for covering this topic. 💓
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This is a huge crime and our court system should PUNISH it like the CRIME it is!!! Horrible!!!
Since our systems are controlled by pervos will it never happen!
Definitely a break in trust!
I listened to this yesterday on Patreon. What happened to this woman is absolutely shocking. I would like to keep updated on the outcome of having these scumbags be held accountable for what they did as well as the industry that allowed this to happen.
Me too. I wanna keep up w her situation and try to support her.
Her website & petition are in the description
Yes please, updates will be much appreciated.
Maybe not all see info in description
@@RaccoonNation thank you for bringing attention to that. I normally click on the 'show more' but this time I forgot.
I know someone whose ex is still sexually exploiting her online by selling shit he gaslit her into making to begin with. And PA police wont/cant do anything. They say its civil. Not sure why people think civil is ok. IT IS A CRIME and something needs to be done about it. 😢 these people are sexual predators.
Make sure your jurisdiction considers this a crime; it's not in some places, as simple as that. It needs to be.
@Kenny Phillips we have spent 2+ years taking everything down from online. PFA & Cease and Dissist both in place, both are crap. But when they are selling files on computers. They don't even recognize gaslighting as something that's even a thing without hard proof. And that's more then just messages between 2 people. I had a long talk with her county police the other day and even tho I had sent over the laws I believe it was violating, nada they can do bc the DA didn't think there was a crime? And state police don't get involved unless they are asked. Pennsylvania laws suck. There are bills sitting around waiting to be passed having to do with this stuff. 🙃 why does no one care enough to correct it. Also Hunter Moore taught us nothing. 🙄 but gave her ex someone to idolize.
@@Anyonka Their are situations where, tenants on disability are being Extorted & robbed By Landlord's, Frauded all paper work handed to tenants fraudulent with all The markings of the officials !! & They still Call It Civil !! It is a Lie an absolute Lie! Same With these Sex Crimes They are REAL Harming Crimes Physically.
Mentally.
I found some pictures of me on my ex profile online.. he told me that this was nothing there and he will took them down but still.. i told him many times to take them off his profile but i know i just can't trust him ..he is on so many dating sites. He said i cannot proof that these are my picture cause I don't have them in any phone 🤦
Wow. Revenge porn is the most evil shit. My ex did the same shit. I think about murdering him and his parents a lot. Before y’all think I’m the devil:
He is a disgusting pedo and definitely manipulated and guilted me into making that content for him bc I “owed it to him” bc I have a past in the fetish/porn industry. I finally was able to break away from it. I’m always very up front about who I am/my past with anyone i even think about dating bc i don’t like surprises, being lied to, etc and I’d rather allow someone to pass on dating me if my past is going to be an issue for them. I would never blame someone for feeling like it’s a problem either. I’d rather them be honest with me and themselves vs saying it’s not- then using it as a reason to further traumatize me. It was awful.
The man I dated was easily the most sexually abusive person I’ve met and his creepy old parents totally enabled him. He was in his 30s, unemployed, and apparently had more than one run in with the fbi over kiddie pR0n. Of course, he failed to disclose he was a Ped0 when we started dating but still chose to abuse and torture me bc of my past I was Honest about. 💀
I also strongly believe he may have molested a younger female cousin of his.
The fact he isn’t in jail as a registered sex offender makes me feel incredibly suspicious of my local law enforcement and FBI.
Yeah. I may have to murk him.
This is powerful. Thank you for your bravery Victoria Galy. You are educating so many on an industry that has so many levels of hell in it. Thank you Andrew for continuing to bravely platform this stuff.
You are so correct. I’m 60 and had no idea that there was a platform like the one she named. (I don’t even want to type it.) My heart absolutely breaks for her and other young women who have been and are being used and abused by this industry. 💔
Yea, that was a clever way to remind everyone with her first and last name so everyone can look her up- with feigned praise. Gross.
@@supercalafragulisticexpeal6850 Wow, that is a cynical take on what is going on here. My question to you would be Do you think this is easy for her? Second question- What, in your opinion, is her end game here?
Being with a narcissist will give you ptsd.
I also have complex ptsd from a line of abusive men and it started with my Dad.
Yep. My whole life. Now the only male I trust is Jesus.
Very much so. I’m 6 years out of 25 years together and even the last 6 years of so much betrayal and abuse during and after the divorce with litigation threats and abuse. And trying to turn my kids against me. No contact works but only if that is always possible. It doesn’t go away. You just learn how to do things that must do with kids where he will be present like college graduation and you will have issues come back up that hurt - even if just memories.
It’ll always hurt but it’s great not having to be around him or deal with him regularly.
I am so sorry for what happened to Victoria, it is very common for a victim to continue seeing their abuser. As Andrew stated, most of us who hang out here understand post traumatic stress and how it impacts the brain. After everything she’s been through, what a resilient woman she is, not only is she helping herself by speaking out, she is helping others who have no support by making them feel less alone.
My heart goes to Victoria and other sexual assault survivors.
The fact that you educated yourself on Narcissism, will help you distance yourself from guilt and shame.
All you did was put trust in a person because you have a good heart.
I was drugged with GHP and sexually exploited when I was 20 yrs old, now 16 years ago. My body was used, watched and moved between different cities while I was unconscious by complete strangers. I woke up in an unknown bed with no idea how I got there. The trauma of this is so intense - it's physical, sexual, mental, emotional, even to some extend spiritual. For years, I'd get panic attacks when I relaxed (e.g. before falling asleep or when trying yoga) because I was so scared of being unconscious. My heart goes out to you Victoria. PH needs to pay for broadcasting this crime. What an absolutely vile thing to do.
Omg?! I’m so so sorry. I can’t relate to your traumatic experiences but I can empathize. And I certainly have my own trauma that I’m working through. I’ve never heard anyone say they had difficulty relaxing and even doing yoga?! That’s exactly what happens to me?!! I’ve only recently been able to begin to practice mindfulness/meditation and yoga…but still struggle to relax and fall asleep nightly. Much love and compassion to you, brave one. Onward!! Shall we?? 🩵
I am so sorry that bastard did that to you .
This is absolutely disgusting, exactly why I never felt okay watching porn-even as a horny teenager. You never know who is actually being abused in those, nevermind setting unrealistic expectations for what sex is to most people.
100% same. I get that people enjoy watching people and there's nothing wrong with that. But I saw a documentary about an English woman porn actor going to America to break into the porn scene. It was so horrific - mainly the attitude of those in power. It turned my stomach and put me off ever supporting that industry. There was a woman, a feminist who started in the business with ONLY consensual actors, but that was decades ago and I never felt the need . I have a good imagination!
It’s most likely her ex husband was a narcissist and she is unaware that we seem to be unconsciously attracted to narcissists, they know how to groom you.
Totally agree.Happened to me.
We are not attracted to them, they are attracted tous
I can relate to this story to a degree.
I was married for nearly forty years and was very naive when I left.
I also went on the dating sites and it was the biggest mistake of my life.
I was stalked by two men and had to sell my house.
I got locked up in a guys house and drugged, the guy was a drug dealer.
I look back now and feel so stupid for putting myself in danger.
This actually happened to me about 7 years ago and this was a humiliation and it is a Criminal offense where I live 😢
Be careful online 😔
wwhat state has this covered by law!! we need to move there?
I am so sorry to hear this happened to you and hope the criminal proceedings are complete and it went your way 🙏🏻
@@cathyharris-gilliam5164
Texas has this one 👍🇱🇷
CA has it too
@@fallon7616 I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you’re healing ❤️🩹
My sleazy ex husband took pictures of me while I was asleep. I found out when our 2 daughters showed them to me. Not even sure how I felt about it, shame, disgust, anger among others.
She is well spoken and well informed. I hope she gets justice.
she will never get justice, the damage has been done
You are NOT the one who should be ashamed! I wish you the very best!!!
Victoria is incredibly brave for speaking out and taking up the fight for those who can't. I hope that by going public, she is able to get the justice, protection, and peace she deserves.
Victoria, I’m so glad that you found out in time to be able to sue these monsters.
This happened to me over 30 years ago in Chesapeake Beach, VA. My “friends”, ha!
Drugged me and kept me drugged for over a week. The worst part was that I was a single mother and my child was unsupervised for over 5 days! 😢😢
I definitely repressed this incident for over 20 years, and it’s been a tough road. God bless you and keep you safe! ❤
I believe you. Did your child get harmed?
I'm so sorry that happened to you and your child. Devastating
That sounds terrible 💚 taking 20 years to deal with the trauma is normal.....
I hope you are both on a road to recovery ❤
Thank goodness for men like you. So many utter creeps exist amongst us and its nice when we have good men sticking up for us.
Give us his name, Victoria ❤ we'll take care of it 😊
So right!
The system is NOT looking for out us. Nobody is. Thank you for sharing your story.
I will watch with interest especially for legal outcomes. Am in the process of taking something similar through the legal system!
More power to u ! 💪 ✨️🕊🙏💝
Victoria, this is not your fault. Do not beat yourself up for continuing to see this monster. You did not know. This is a huge ring of people. Thank you for speaking out. You are so very brave! ❤️
Similar happened to me. Honestly, im ready to give up. I know theres good in the world, this lady is proof because shes trying to tackle this problem not just for herself but for others. However, there's just so much bad out there and I know how damaged I personally am, its nearly impossible to feel hopeful anymore.
Victoria, Good luck with getting these creeps sued and those videos off that horrid site. I hope legislation is passed that can actually make a change.
Andrew, thank you for using your platform for issues that truly matter to so many of us. You're a real one.
Please don't give up. You are stronger than you know. It's in our lowest moments when we discover our true strength. I send you lots of strength and wish you the best ❤
This is absolutely so fucking ridiculous. This young woman has two children and by my standards is doing everything she possibly can to remain having amazing resilience and character. You're absolutely correct. There are some amazing people out here but we all won't leave our houses because we're so traumatized by evil fucking people like him. Stay strong ladies
YOU BRAVE WOMAN! I send you all my love and support. I went thru a lot in life, although none like your ordeal. And I still feel the same impotence against the evil in general and the evil they did to me. I know that part.. I could not reach justice, but you will do for yourself and also for me. I am more than 8000 km from you in another continent, but I can hear you loud and clear. THANK YOU.
Andrew, thank you for your empathy when dealing with people who have been damaged and are vulnerable.
Victoria you are worthy and noble in every way. No matter what happened in those videos (which I have never seen nor heard of and will never look for) you deserve total respect. I admire you so much for taking this all the way 🙏
Vickie I am sorry that this has happened to you and that you are still being victimized. You are a lovely person. Thank you for sharing. The betrayal is unfathomable.
OMG, I feel soooo horrible for her. A very brave woman to talk about it. I hope she can heal some day.
Sexual Assault recovery can indeed be painfully slow, but I heard Victoria speak eloquently about her process is well underway and began by getting proper mental health support. She also said that speaking out publicly about the injustices done to her and others helps her recovery.
I hope she knows how much we are rooting for her ❤ 🙏🏻
Thanks for reopening my senses. I tend to be a trusting person first. We need to be aware and open to our "gut feelings ".
Yea “a lot of people don’t come back from that” - it’s hard to watch people deteriorate…
I wish her all the best. She tug at my heart. I fell victim on my high school graduation trip to Hawaii. I was drugged and who knows what happened before I came too. Such a brave and beautiful lady. ❤
Its terrifying how similar her story is to my friends. This is not ok!!! Narcissistic personalities are HORRIBLE. Defend your honor beautiful lady! You are so brave and strong for sharing your story.
This poor woman. My heart really goes out to you and it is such a warning for women to be so so careful and also that it can happen to anyone
“He seemed less than genuine.” Thank you for sharing what happened to you. And thanks for reminding me if people seems less than honest to walk away.
Omgosh. This is horrible. What a horrific ordeal.
The saddest thing is that police and judiciary never seems to support victims rights.
Instead we get destroyed by the very institutions that are supposed to protect us.
Yet instead, millions of we victims get abused further while law enforcement and judiciary protect the criminal.
Im so sorry what happened to you gurl.
I support you.
I validate you.
I stand with you.
I too, have been building a federal law suit against the psychopaths i survived and have concurrently endured 5 years after surviving.
that great police ...everywhere always on the perps side...
Wow I’m so sorry this happened to you 💔 you are so brave for coming forward this crap that’s going on is disgusting!!! Sending love from Canada ❤🇨🇦❤️
Thank you Andrew for having Victoria on your channel to share her story and to educate others about additional ways that predators exploit their victims. As a survivor of SA and the r-word, I admire Victoria’s strength and courage to share her story and take her power back.
Out of respect I will not be looking into finding your videos. I'm glad Andrew gave you so much positive feedback on your growth and grace because it's true you are going to change somebody's life whether you know it or not.
Had no idea. I think most people couldn’t even imagine such a thing. It boils my blood. What a very strong and brave woman. She’s not alone in this fight now that she’s standing up and getting her story out. Such horror is absolute evil. Thanks for sharing Andrew, it does makes a difference!
Thank you for sharing your story. I know this doesnt change much, but when you think everyone is looking at you or know about whats happened to you, think of a spotlight effect. Its a real thing, many people struggle with it and there are ways of finding coping mechanisms when it happens. You're so well spoken, so beautiful and such a brave woman, such a bright soul. Hope you get the justice you deserve ❤
Thank you Andrew for this interview
I have CPTSD as well, and it is hard to even exist with this diagnosis. I am so so sorry you have gone through this. I'm glad you are in a better place now, but I hope you also get justice.
The absolute bravery to come forward is empowering, thank you for telling your story!
Bless you Victoria, i'm so sorry this happened to you. Horrible and traumatic. You are going to be ok - keep strong xx
Victoria is courageous for opening up like this after all she's been through & resiliently fighting for justice. I pray she gets as much justice she rightfully deserves, I pray those evil scumbags ARE held accountable including p#rnhub. My heart sank when she described how it's impacted her relationships with her children & as someone who has complex PTSD, I sincerely hope that over time with enough love, therapy & support, Victoria WILL learn to trust again, love from London UK 🇬🇧 🙏❤🌹
Oh my Lord, the pain Vicki feels for not being the mom she used to be is so sad. Yet, she's such a strong lady for not giving up. Evil wants us to break and stay broken, but Vicki has the long-term vision willing to fight for as many years as it takes! She's a service to all by doing this❤
Man, some aspects of the internet are true hell--
Damn good questions, Andrew! Again amazing interview👏There's too much money in this business to change anything,I'm afraid 🙁
Wow what a strong woman! You asked her how to help and she pointed to her friend. Amazing! Andrew you did so good with this one! Great job!!!!
This is my nightmare, Glad you are fighting 💞. This is so sad😢
Another incredible interview. What a brave woman. Don't give up. Andrew your interviews are fantastic very moving. Wow.
I just wanna hug you and Thank you for your bravery..I’m gobsmacked that people can not only get away with this, but that people are horrible enough to profit off of it😱🤢 but I think I can speak for thousands of other women and tell you, we stand behind you!! We support you!! We appreciate you!! We pray for you❤❤❤
Oh my goodness my ❤breaks for her
It’s sad this has happened to so many women
I pray for healing for her
You listen to this and know it’s wrong but not knowing what to do or help, I feel for this woman, she needs support to help get that out of porn hub.
These people need jail time! And register as sec offenders.
What a brave woman with such strength. I'm horrified to hear what she's been through and is still going through. Thank you for giving her a platform to share her story.
I am so very sorry to hear that this happened to you! No one should have to go through this disgusting stuff!!
No offense to anyone named Brandon but I have never meet anyone named Brandon who is not a tool bag. I hope this poor woman, and others like her get justice.
Thank you so much for helping to spread awareness and having me 🙂
When I feel tricked or lied to I have the same response and get triggered. 20 years later and I still can’t remember most of my assault. I’m so sorry to have your assault recorded and played over and over again.
Well wishes and much healing
Andrew thank you for bringing these stories to us.
I so much wanted to watch this live, and I am sorry i missed it. Andrew, you did justice to this woman by bringing her story out. I wish her the best. 💕 I wish you the best!
Thank you so much for being so brave & sharing your story. I wasn't aware of this danger, & because of your bravery I'll be able to better protect myself. You're helping lots of people by getting this message out. I'm so sorry for what you went through, but the woman I see before me is truly inspiring. Thank you so much. 🌸🌻🌷
Your strength and bravery is amazing! I'm sure you've helped many people going through this and helped others avoid it. Thank you!
Most of Andrew's regular viewers and subscribers will absolutely NOT judge a victim! I certainly see Victoria as truthful and courageous in sharing her story to help others and hopefully continue to help herself. Brave, brave woman...much respect! 💜
thank you for giving her this space and the story of people that are not herd! also i didnt knew that those sites were so shady still, her experience and her bravery is so important to make awareness of how evil is that industry (and people/man) thank her and love to her!
Thank you for educating people and speaking out. Stand strong, you brave, beautiful woman .
What a brave lady! I hope that she'll continue to heal and get justice! Thank you for always treating your guests with empathy and respect Andrew. Well done mate!✌️💜
Victoria thanks so much for sharing your story. I truly believe that for every story told there are hundreds that are NOT told. Including my own. You are a champion for those of us who still suffer . I’m praying for all your cases to go well. You are sooo incredibly brave!!!
Victoria you have done nothing to be ashamed of. This has been done to you. They are the ones who should be embarrassed and ashamed. Hold your head up high and just keep going. I think you are a very brave and wonderful person. May God bless you and keep you safe
I can't express how sorry I am that you have been hurt so very badly. I support you.
Thank you so much for speaking up and being so brave. You are a super hero. A real life super hero fighting true evil. Thank you.
Victoria this isn't your fault, but I'm sure you know this already. It takes a really brave woman to stand up to her perpetrators and let them know this is unacceptable and you'll tolerate it no longer. It also educates women on how this could happen to anyone and they need to be alert and know how to avoid situations like these. I don't think anyone is looking down on you and judging. If anything women are grateful your sharing your story in hopes that if your experience saves one woman the trauma and heartbreak you feel you've done your job in helping other's. Stand tall and strong Girlie. Your a warrior and your letting those who caused your harm know they will not be getting way with this behavior again. Thank you for sharing your story. Your strong and amazing! Much love and respect sent your way.🩷
You are so strong. To have gone through so much and you are choosing to help others? You are incredible
ThankYou For Sharing Andrew.
This Happens More Then We Think And With Our Partner And Not A Stranger.
Be Ware People.
God Bless Her And Her Kids.
You are so brave Victoria! I have never seen or heard of your videos as I am sure most people haven't, so please keep fighting and I wish you all best. Such a compassionate interview by Andrew Gold.
Thank you fur being so brave and sharing your story ❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you Victoria. Thank you for being so brave in telling yours story. I've never seen these videos and I'll never seek them out. I'm sure any kind person watching this will feel the same.
❤stand with you brave woman xx
Lots of love for here Thank you for coming forward ❤
Thank you both for this important video. I was recorded by an ex narcissist, and I prey that he didn’t do anything with those images. I think pornhub, and every other pornography site should be banned. What has happened to this poor lady is beyond sick, and I hope that in time these nefarious pieces of shit will be held to account.
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Thank you Vicky and Andrew for bringing this Sad Sad story to use . I'm so sorry that you went through I don't know how I'd handle this type of thing . What is wrong with people in this world.
Pray for you and that you stay strong. 🙏 🤗🤗
Victoria - you have an amazing & fierce spirit. I'm so sorry about what happened to you. You're a lovely & bright light, with so much heart & strength.
(As always, Andrew, you're a sympathetic and thorough interviewer.)
What a brave brave women, my heart breaks for you, nobody deserves to be treated like this Please keep your head held high. Sending you all my love ❤️
Oh my goodness what a nightmare ! I can't think of a strong enough word to call that man & his bunch of scumbag cronies. Brave brave woman Victoria you should be really proud of the way you're speaking out. Please be kind to yourself, i think youre amazing 👏 ❤️❤️.
The delight on Victoria's face when she mentioned she was now off her meds is one I hope to replicate one day (I'm quite unwell & am on quite a few addictive & powerful meds); it was a pure joy to see. This whole dreadful ongoing experience must be beyond terrible for her & by coming forward I hope she will go on to make the changes so desperately needed - I wish this brave woman every success.
Thank you, Andrew for another good interview xXxXx 😊xXxXx
Victoria's experiences are utterly tragic. My experiences with trauma support hers. This is an important story to share to educate others on both risk of assault and the effects of trauma. I applaud you both for bringing this to us. Victoria, you are a hero!
What happened to her constitutes torture & should be legally prosecuted as such.
You are rewriting the story, Victoria. Turning your pain into help for others, bless you. Stay strong!❤
Wow, I can't believe it! I feel for this woman! I've been involved with narsistic ex bf's (I believe). Vicki, thank you for coming out about this! You're so strong! Stronger than you think! I really hope the courts help you! You didn't do anything wrong! I hope you have some support! The community should be helping you through this. Sending virtual hugs! It probably won't be enough, but I hope you're able to get the money that he's made on this website! Keep up the good fight! You have nothing to be ashamed of! None of us are perfect. You asked why porn hub didn't just delete them/take them down. They're making money off her and whoever else. It's so sad, but true!
Wishing her lots of luck and I wish her ex could be imprisoned along with his his cohorts. She is an amazingly strong woman and I thank both you and her for bringing these and many more issues into the light. Thankyou
How incredibly brave to speak up about this. Much love and you deserve all of the value and worth you feel that you lost. Even more so. Thank you for speaking up. ❤❤
Thank you for sharong your story, youre bravery is an inspiration. Im so sorry you had to go through this and still are. I had a similar experience, my exes dad took pictures and videos of me that i wasnt aware of and im terrified they will end up online. Or already are. And yes, my brain had blocked out part of traumas as well, just a natural reaction. And stockholm syndrome is also real and happens within the worst of personal situations.
Wow. Thank you Andrew for sharing Victoria's story, and her links.
If it’s any consolation, MOST people don’t know you and won’t know you or recognise you if they walked past you on the street. That’s what I learned.
Firstly..Andrew, your decency compassion and listening skills shine here, and Vicky, much love and continued healing you beautiful soul❤🇦🇺🙏
Something similar happened to me at 16 i blocked it out for many yrs. Now its just snap shots of memory. I think u are so brave and beautiful.
My heart goes out to you, Victoria. I never realized how low down P.Hub is. You are such an inspiration.
What a brave woman 🫶 I so sympathize with her!!!!! And Andrew is right I never knew about this horrific treatment off this woman! So please keep your head up high 🫶 you are so strong that you are speaking out! And taking on the fight 🫶♥️ I believe in your fight!!!!!
This is so sad what happened to Victoria. My heart goes out to you Victoria. I am so happy that you had the courage to get the mental help you need. I can still see your pain Victoria and I wish you the very best in your journey in first taking care of yourself what you are doing to make others aware. Lots of love out to you Victoria. Thank you Andrew for having this guest and giving her a platform.
Wow, this is shocking! I had know idea this happens, how can that content be allowed online?!?
God bless you Gloria. Hopefully, these scum bags will pay for what theyve done.
I am so sorry that you went through this and Brandon and his mates need the book thrown at them