A Baptism In Humility (A Navy Seal's Redemption)-Taylor
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Taylor, a former Navy Seal and French Foreign Legionnaire from San Diego. Here’s Taylor’s links: TaylorCavanaugh.com
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#navyseal #resilience #mentalhealth #militaryveteran #interview #softwhiteunderbelly #swu #marklaita
I am at my lowest point in life. No job sick all the time. I really needed to hear this guy talk. Today is a new day time to pick myself back up and start over. Thank you Jesus!!
How are ya now?
If there wasn’t any fear, there wouldn’t be any courage
Remember who you are. Do what you have to do and don’t ever quit. 👍🏼💯💯
He has a CZcams channel where you can listen to more
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Do not feel bad
I am a mother with a full time job, I work at home and on 26 yrs in Wisconsin
But my son. Is having troubles finding a job. He is 27 turning 28. He was in CNC work than HVAC. BUT HVAC CONSUMES YOUR LIFE ALL DAY. GREAT PAY TOO MANY HOURS. SO HE JUST HAD A JOB THROUGH. TEMP SERVICE AND, A 70 YR OLD MAN WAS HARD ON HIM LEARNING THIS JOB. ITS JUST UNREAL. SO NOW HE IS LOOKING FOR A JOB. AND I AM HOLDING THE FORT DOWN HERE IN WISCONSIN 🔥
I have watched several interviews with this man. His story has proven to me that you can come back from anything. Even if you have lost everything. It all depends on you. Do not give up.
You are not wrong, but this guy is in an EXTREMELY small percentile of determination, grit, etc, etc .
I genuinely believe most people can come back from most things, but this dude and the few like him are a different breed. None the less, we can ALL learn from them.
@weirdmood8102 he is part of a small percentage because he knows how strong the mind and human will are. That is what his military training unlocked. Pushing through these boundaries we set with negative self-talk.
❤@@knockharder3554 m.
AMEN
@knockharder3554 He went through BUDS before any of his training. Buds isn't designed to make you succeed. It's literally designed to make the human brain and body quit. It's sole purpose is to find the few men who simply won't quit and send those to training.
Either way, you're correct in saying he fully understands the power in just not quitting, but very, very few of us genuinely understand that, even when we think we do.
When it comes to the suck, we're generally wired to only put up with so much. These Tier 1 and 2 guys are simply wired differently. That's literally what sets them apart from the rest of us.
I used to think they were all built like Gi.I. Joe's, and Taylor actually is, but the majority of Seal and Delta guys are just normal dudes, they just possess an insane ability to embrace the suck and still be able to remain calm and collected. The one thing they generally all have in common is above average intelligence. I really enjoy listening to them on podcasts because they are all extremely intelligent and capable human beings. They just chose to deal death as a profession, but they were going to be the best of their field no matter what they chose to do. Their training 100% helps, but these dudes are special before they ever signed the dotted lines.
Regardless, we could all learn a ton from them, but only hope to obtain a fraction of their successes.
We're just fortunate they fight for our teams.
"If you're negotiating with yourself, you are making the wrong choice"
Well said brother, best 2 hours I ever spent watching this.
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How is one supposed to buy a car or a house without thinking throughly (i.e. negotiating with oneself)?
Not necessarily, depends what you're negotiating
That's exactly what I thought watching this.
@@kallekarjalainen9287Thinking thoroughly isn’t negotiating.
The best teachers are the ones who made mistakes, recognized them and worked to improve them.
Great stuff.
When this one started, I figured I wasn't going to make it more than 10 minutes. Two hours later I am disappointed that it is over already. A very intelligent man. I am glad that he is holding his head up high and trying to make a difference in the world.
I agree completely 😊
I am in much longer and I am waiting for the redeeming factor, 1.06 hours still not there, seems like a lot os BS to me. I don't think Mark has a word.
Hes got a youtube channel
Yea same here I thought I'll listen for half hour while driving home ended up sitting out in my car outside my house for the next hour band half.
Funny how that salty language from the beginning masks his underlying intelligence.
My hard rest is coming right now at 50 years old with three little girls and a beautiful wife, I have a very successful business yet sabotage myself with alcohol every night. It stopped tonight. No more. I’m going to be free, and I will live to my potential and stop stacking karmic debt. I’ve followed this dude from day one on you tube but never knew the full story. This was a moving powerful interview. Thanks for your story. 3 weeks later: thank you everyone for all the comments and support. It’s good to know that there are such wonderful people out there that share their own experience and wisdom. I am doing leaps and bounds better, but I CAN and WILL do more. Thank you all again, god bless each and every one of you….
How you doing Neil? You still going strong on kicking the alcohol brother? It’s hard, stay strong it gets better. Semper Fi
Good luck to you. Don’t give up. Just remember quitting is about telling yourself “I CAN have this, but I don’t need it. Or I CAN have this, but I don’t want it”. When you tell yourself “I CANT have this” it sends messages to our brain that we need it… The addiction plays tricks on our minds. When you realize that you can start to take control of your life.
Good luck to you. AA worked for me. Working the steps is a very similar process to what Mr Cavanaugh outlines but there is no wrong way to get sober!
Consider a possibly untreated anxiety disorder which I had... I literally couldn't quit alcohol and was almost dead at 35... Doc said I had a couple months to go if I kept it up after my 3rd hospitalization and IV drip... Anxiety medication allowed me to finally quit abusing it so bad and I can actually drink responsibly now. Have a couple beers and go home and go to bed.... Lifechanging meds helped me survive it.
You got this brother! Keep us updated
What do you notice about his speech vs most of the people you see/hear speaking? He is so articulate that he has no ums, ahs, likes, stutters, breaks or nervous disconnections at all. He has zero mental hiccups in between his brain and his voice. How rare is that today? Granted, he will make some pauses to regather his thoughts, but his flow of speech is so powerful compared to every other random person who are so hard to listen to. It helps make him interesting. It is a lost art.
Fascinating. Great story.
his ummss are just fuckins. hes a new englander like me so i know😂
@@ratbird3290hahahaha
As a spec ops guy they have to take public speaking classes so they can give debriefs, etc.
Very true.
85 times . . .
"Dont get ready, stay ready"
This guy is full of gems.
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Do you believe everything he says??
This dude has been on a few platforms and, he embellishes and changes up on his stories... Idk, he's a trip..
@PabloCruise9398 he has good phrases, I don't think much of it either way. Believing someone has no merit on liking a phrase.
Do YOU believe him or what? You watch him on multiple occasions? What's that about? I know nothing about dude but I watch Soft white underbelly.
I didn't think he was a liar, I think he was transparent about everything. Way more honest than most. Just my opinion, since you asked.
@PabloCruise9398 he is a monster ego guy though I believe so.. he likes his wild side a bit much
@@chrisoconnor3119 Nah, I don't follow the dude. That's weird, and I can't take hearing him to too long he's a bit much.
I've just caught snipits of him talking about growing up and he said something different. Either way it don't matter, I don't care. He is a trip though..
"Stacking karmic debt by not living up to your full potential" resonated so much with me... Dudes an absolute stud. A great role model for young men.
Yeah that one got me too. I was listening in bed and got up immediately.
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Agreed
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definetly got that from wes watsons early park bench videos. also the hand movements too are from there😅
Alcoholism and ego together is a very destructive potion. Any true warrior has deep humility. Strength comes from spiritual surrender. His best feature is exposing himself and admitting his weaknesses.
Can't wait for Don Shipley to show up and really expose what is going on here. @donshipleyformerbuds131
The coolest thing was when Tyler’s body language changed when he spoke about realizing he still wasn’t happy after trying on all of the different personas and different identities.
I teared up.
This is the interview that has spoken to me and really resonated.
God reached out to him so many times and he didn’t take it very seriously.
It’s a work in process and Tyler, I’ve heard your name in other interviews. You got this. It’s not easy. At the point it gets uncomfortable, you know you’re moving. Choose your direction. Yeah. This resonates. Namaste’.
@@user-if4ib4gg9u truly unbelievable the number of people who have fallen for this tall tale. Can't wait for Don Shipley to show up on this one @donshipleyformerbuds131
Well said
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"If you are negotiating, guess what? You're making the wrong choice." That's a gem right there. So true.
Generic reproduction of what’s already been said, like, 250 times before-just put differently.
@@MG-zu4styou are not kidding!! Amazingly deep
"Poo painting is no gangsta" is also a brown tinted gem.
@@Brandon-xq6wzlmao I love when random nobody’s on CZcams say things like this. You can deduce ANYTHING like this. Oh, the Mona Lisa? Just a lady, they’ve been painted. Oh, ode to joy, Beethoven 9th? It’s just a melody. There’s been melodies before
@@Brandon-xq6wzDebbie Downer has entered the chat
Childhood Trauma create inner storms, loneliness, emptiness and a sense of not belonging in the world.
So glad that people are starting to understand the impact of childhood trauma, working on self and coming out stronger 🙏
“People want to change their life, but they don’t want to change their actions”. This guy is great. This video took a drastic turn. Thanks Mark
This guy should do a TED talk.
Is he? When every second word out your mouth needs to be a cuss word? Somehow I just don't believe he's got anything together.
@@normanberg9940because he cussed you sound like a clown
@@normanberg9940oh no he said bad words 😂 do your best to never read Mark Twain if you’re so easily offended
@@TriggaTrey361 Really? Are you that simple? Do I really need to spell out for you why constant cussing is a sure sign of a weak character?
Let me put it to you this way. If you were to appear in court and you needed to address the judge would you use that type of language? Obviously not. Well why not? Because you would want to present yourself at your best, right?
So why when you are on video in front of the whole world would you not want to do the exact same thing and not come across as trailer trash?
The only reason I sound like a clown to you is because an actual clown cannot think beyond the end of his fake nose and thus assumes that others who can must be the real clowns and not himself.
Please stop being just another clown in a world full of clowns and use your brain for something more than just empty space filler.
The guy you are wanting to admire is Jocko Willink, look him up.
Been following this guy for a minute… this is a great in depth interview. No interruptions, just talking. The honesty is a breath of fresh air! Wish this dude nothing but the best and thank you for your service bro! You’re a real one.
Same here. First his channel then started seeing him on others. Pretty interesting story going from the teams to the FFL.
Atta boy Taylor. Great job! You’ve arrived, dude (Soft White Underbelly).
-SoCal Do or Die
What channel does he have???
Life changing to watch...
I'm a former addict ...with the help of an addiction breaking coach, I became addiction free....
The poor me head talk kept me addicted for years....
The power of "Earning where you are" WOW.....
So much wisdom in this It's a go to video ...
❤❤ indeed
I had that same mentality then I got locked up stepped on the nurses scale and it said 130lbs, I said is this broken? No, have you looked in the mirror lately. I set out at that moment to become the most yoked former dope fiend. Working out and taking pride in my health changed my life. Lifting weights gave me that confidence I lacked, discipline, dedication and determination to become a better human being. Taking responsibility and holding yourself accountable helped me become the man and father I am today.
That’s Awesome Bro. I was addicted to Perks, Xanax and coke for years. It took me getting locked up facing 10 years in prison to finally straighten up. I did a few months in county jail then 2 rehabs and was out on 5 years supervised probation. I was lucky and the judge gave me a chance and i took advantage of it. I have 8 years sober but I still struggle at times but I just think about my kiddos and that helps. Thanks for sharing your story. Take Care ✌🏻
Hi, I’m a woman in her 20s and I’m training to become a U.S. Navy SEAL.
What advice would you give for women that want to be SEALs? If you had to go to BUD/S again, how would you prepare differently? What books or workout programs would you recommend?
Most female SEAL candidates struggle with carrying the boats and logs, doing pull ups, having grip strength and completing the “Dirty Name” on the obstacle course. Also, a lot of female SEAL candidates break their legs or develop stress fractures.
A woman made it to day 4 of BUD/S first phase recently but she quit on day 4. That’s the farthest a woman has made it. Her BUD/S classmates told me that her class hated her and ran her out from under the boat because she was a boat ducker. Nine women have entered the SEAL pipeline since 2016.
Undoubtedly the best interview! Mark mabe asked 2 or three questions and Taylor just spilled his incredible life. Thank you
"Poo painting, is not gangster." Guys a blessing but that phrase had me spit my drink out.
🤣👊🏼🤙🏼
Life lessons
😂 that wins quote of the day! 🤣
@@tcavofficial brother thank you
3 in the morning when I saw this. Funny shit 😂😂
- People want to change their lives but they don’t change their actions.
Powerful
Profound.
NO WORK... NO PLAY... SIMPLE. 😊
So true. Years ago, people would ask me how to become a writer. I outlined my own struggles to become a self-published author and they said, "We don't want to do all that WORK. We just want to become a writer." Ugh.
And this guy still hasn't changed his actions. He just got kicked out of the French Foreign Legion.
Hi, I’m a woman in her 20s and I’m training to become a U.S. Navy SEAL.
What advice would you give for women that want to be SEALs? If you had to go to BUD/S again, how would you prepare differently? What books or workout programs would you recommend?
Most female SEAL candidates struggle with carrying the boats and logs, doing pull ups, having grip strength and completing the “Dirty Name” on the obstacle course. Also, a lot of female SEAL candidates break their legs or develop stress fractures.
A woman made it to day 4 of BUD/S first phase recently but she quit on day 4. That’s the farthest a woman has made it. Her BUD/S classmates told me that her class hated her and ran her out from under the boat because she was a boat ducker. Nine women have entered the SEAL pipeline since 2016.
I almost didn't watch this. Frankly I thought it would be boring. I am so glad I clicked on. One of my favorite interviews. Much respect. The real deal.
Bounty hunter Nic is better. Watch his interview
I'm not sure about watching it. Honestly, I can't stand the shouty, 'I'm so macho' sounding voice. I'm skipping through to comments to see what others think..If you see a narcissist it's because you're one. No mate, its cos you can identify shit without being confused as to what it might be.
“Running is for the enemy” hahah man, this guy is so well spoken. What a story! Respect my dude 🤙🏼
Then runs from his job.
Taylor's story really blindsided me - I’m not the type to get drawn into military narratives, but this... this was different. His journey isn’t about the armor we see; it’s about the battles fought in the silence of his own mind.
Hearing him lay bare his struggles, the ones far removed from the battlefield yet equally daunting, was a raw, poignant reminder of the true nature of courage. It’s easy to stand against a visible enemy, but facing the shadows within requires a different kind of valor.
Deep respect for Taylor sharing his heartaches and triumphs. This conversation isn’t just a story; it’s a beacon for anyone wrestling with their inner turmoil. Taylor, you’re not just surviving; you’re illuminating paths for others in the darkest of places. Your bravery is a silent anthem for the unsung battles we all face.
Incredible word thank u👊🏼
Well said man you sound
Very smart and well read. Everybody does in this comment section I wish I had taken his advice while I was younger than I would be smart like you guys instead of 51 working at a production box plant on methadone smoking crystal everyday just to have energy to work and on 10 Gabbapintons everyday living in a little apt. With my wife who deserves way better than I offer unhappy and unhealthy uneducated and barely scraping by I guess I'm one of those peàasnt losers that just have to be in the story.
@@robertlyle76Fix yourself.
@@tcavofficialThought you told Mike Raitland you were going back to France after your interview with him a couple of months ago? funny how you posting from Instagram from the US and neglected to mention you'd be facing 6 months civilian jail for desertion + dishonorable discharge for breaking the terms of your contract around being sous anonymat if you go back to France.
Hi, I’m a woman in her 20s and I’m training to become a U.S. Navy SEAL.
What advice would you give for women that want to be SEALs? If you had to go to BUD/S again, how would you prepare differently? What books or workout programs would you recommend?
Most female SEAL candidates struggle with carrying the boats and logs, doing pull ups, having grip strength and completing the “Dirty Name” on the obstacle course. Also, a lot of female SEAL candidates break their legs or develop stress fractures.
A woman made it to day 4 of BUD/S first phase recently but she quit on day 4. That’s the farthest a woman has made it. Her BUD/S classmates told me that her class hated her and ran her out from under the boat because she was a boat ducker. Nine women have entered the SEAL pipeline since 2016.
"Running is for the enemy" Massive Respect from Providence, RI
Hahaha pretty funny and true line!
Hi, I’m a woman in her 20s and I’m training to become a U.S. Navy SEAL.
What advice would you give for women that want to be SEALs? If you had to go to BUD/S again, how would you prepare differently? What books or workout programs would you recommend?
Most female SEAL candidates struggle with carrying the boats and logs, doing pull ups, having grip strength and completing the “Dirty Name” on the obstacle course. Also, a lot of female SEAL candidates break their legs or develop stress fractures.
A woman made it to day 4 of BUD/S first phase recently but she quit on day 4. That’s the farthest a woman has made it. Her BUD/S classmates told me that her class hated her and ran her out from under the boat because she was a boat ducker. Nine women have entered the SEAL pipeline since 2016.
@@Anonymous18817 I'm not a SEAL but I am in the military and I have met guys who've made it through various special operations pipelines. I also have a sister who went to West Point, so I understand the troubles that women in the military go through. My advice for you would be to train for an Ironman. A lot of people neglect endurance training in favor of lifting weights, but 90% of what a warrior does in combat and in training is endurance related. Also, if you can complete an Ironman with a decent time, you must be pretty tough, which is probably the most important thing for special operations. Also, there are workout programs designed for those looking to enter special operations. I've good things about the 18A fitness program. There's not a whole lot you can do to prevent bone fractures or breaks. For the most part, your skeleton is what it is. My sister has dealt with various injuries throughout her time in the Army, it's really just a bridge you cross when you get there. I hope this was helpful and good luck. Even if you don't make it, any woman with the balls to attempt to become a SEAL has my respect. God bless.
I watched a video about the "deadliest soldier in vietnam" the other day. He would carry 5+ pistols on him at all times and held off the vietcong while his squad was evacuated. Then when it came time for him to evacuate he told them no. They told him that he was surrounded and needed to get out. He responded "I've got them right where I want them. Surrounded from the inside"
The dude took R&R and snuck off to fight alongside other soldiers.
“Me being authentic, allowed people to be authentic with me” Frequencies don’t lie
“My story of redemption was getting right with self”
It was refreshing to hear you take accountability for your own actions.
Thank you for the powerful insight and interview
I’ve been with him since the very first video. Lying in my bed in Point Loma feeling the same way. And I’m grateful for his efforts and super happy to see he’s made it to where he’s at. An amazing guy. The Legion was foolish. And he did the right thing returning to the United States. Peace to you, Taylor. Study the book of John. You’re in my prayers.
“You have to walk into fear if you want any change” that’s real
The TRUTH
Correct!
You are a beautiful person. Ex Marine here. I am not even in the same universe of hardness as you, but your heart is golden and I appreciate your testimony.
The real ones get it👊🏼
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@@tcavofficial pfft...
Semper fuckin Fi, brother.
@nicholasdecato Just wait until @donshipleyformerbuds131 Don Shipley shows up for this party, lol. This guy is about to have his ass handed to him. No one joins the SEALs to clean up their drug addiction, LOL!!!! You can't join special forces with a criminal record! This entire thing is such a joke and I personally cannot wait until the hammer drops here. He's got you all fooled it's funny as shit.
One of the few people that cant shaddup but you want to hear everything they've got to say ..I enjoyed every minute of this ..Peace and luck brother ✌️
Best I've seen also, rollercoaster redemption story, but it's not a Q and A. He's not supposed to shaddup. He does not do that every waking moment in which he is in the presence of another human being. They way he speaks in this setting is the way he has performed in life,...non-stop do or die passion.
I have no problem with him stfu...
“You do not have to negotiate a beautiful choice.” That really hit home for me.
Wonderful guest ! I am a 68 year old retired woman . I was inspired ! Thank you Taylor .
Is your kitty cat down there also retired?😂
😂🤣🤭
@@Yodaddi_13
Have you heard the saying
" Snow on the roof but a furnace below" ....😂
@@lynnhexler-haan3357 yeah well seems like the furnace ran out of wood to burn now it’s all ashes and dust 😂
Taylor is certainly charismatic and his story is quite compelling. Most notable is his willingness to accept responsibility for his actions and their consequences. Thanks for sharing.
Saying no to oneself is probably one of the most powerful comments I have heard during the l last five years....thank you
I agree. And it’s so antithetical to what society is telling us.
If you really listen to this video there are so many hidden nuggets I really wish him the best and pray he keeps on the path he is on. Thank you for sharing his life story
It's interesting how many people consider their childhood as good and blessed...but when they go into detail they experienced SA, domestic violence, alcoholism, drugs, divorce and a sequence of serious injuries.
Absolutely.
Suffering is how we grow.
@@jamespierce5355 No it isn’t, a parents responsible is to provide a child with a safe environment, most adult children don’t walk away as functional adults at being in a household of domestic violence with drug and alcohol abuse.
You mean ' experienced life'? Nobody's childhood was perfect, and pain and discomfort were necessary.
Bc it’s the norm.
‘You don’t have to justify beautiful choices, beautiful choices lead to a beautiful life’
And that is simply BEAUTIFUL!❤
58 year old retired career military man listening to Taylor and learning lessons about discipline and lifestyle. Kudos, brother-man!
Example - “Never again anything that makes me regretful or ashamed.” Obvious but succinct and
powerful.
This is one of the most motivational interviews I’ve ever listened to
This guy reminds me of something former SEAL/present CZcamsr MrBallen said about guys going through SEAL training. That the ones who’ve phucked up and underachieved in other areas of their lives tend to do well. Because they have nothing left to lose and have decided to commit themselves to this. Versus guys who came in as star athletes and highly accomplished people and may not want it so badly.
He was speaking on Ben Sifrit, who was top in his BUDs class and honor seal at his graduation, but then ended up going on a rampage with his wife and murdered a couple for the fun of it
I’ve watched the whole two hours of this man’s interview. I learned so much and new things about life I am 57 years of age but you still can learn new things in life. Thank you for your good work on this interview and to Taylor 👍
Thanks for your time and words🤙🏼
I’m glad I clicked on this interview 👊🏼gonna share this 1 w/my son he needs 2 hear this. Thanks 4 sharing
Hi, I’m a woman in her 20s and I’m training to become a U.S. Navy SEAL.
What advice would you give for women that want to be SEALs? If you had to go to BUD/S again, how would you prepare differently? What books or workout programs would you recommend?
Most female SEAL candidates struggle with carrying the boats and logs, doing pull ups, having grip strength and completing the “Dirty Name” on the obstacle course. Also, a lot of female SEAL candidates break their legs or develop stress fractures.
A woman made it to day 4 of BUD/S first phase recently but she quit on day 4. That’s the farthest a woman has made it. Her BUD/S classmates told me that her class hated her and ran her out from under the boat because she was a boat ducker. Nine women have entered the SEAL pipeline since 2016.
Probably your best interview yet, Mark. This guy's life is really captivating, and he turned out really well. His story is inspiring.
I hope he’s learned he’s always one drink away from a relapse and that’s a dangerous slope for him.
At first, I expected this gentleman to be allowed, arrogant crazy fool… It only took a few minutes to understand how humble this man is… Great interview, and great story!!!
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Why did you make those assumptions? Is it due to the non-stop attacks on men who look like him in all of media?
This absolutely blew me away. What a story of redemption. I reached out to a few Team guys I knew and they all said he was a great operator but that he had to go. They were all proud of his turnaround also. Thanks for what you do, Mark. This one in particular was super deep and moving.
pray he stays the course
One of thee best interview's I have sat and listened to, intensely..... Thank you Mr. Cavanaugh for sharing.
Thank you for your time in listening
Amen.
It is only through the fire that we are forged.
Your transparency and honesty is nearly as encouraging as your story.
God Bless Brother
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I hope we get the story of him making amends with those who gave him second chances. He burned a lot of bridges, until he sees the next great thing for him to cling to.
Came back to watch this a second time. Love how he tells his story without having to get into his actual combat experience.
I’m blown away dude!!! This is the most inspirational story extremely well articulated, no phony nonsense, completely genuine and humble.
👊🏼 The real ones get it
I’m so grateful for this channel. Without hesitation I always click on the videos each time there’s an upload. It has opened my eyes to a whole new world and my mind has never been more opened and accepting. I feel so much more now for people realizing everyone has their own story. Never judge a book by its cover. Thank you mark.
Hey Taylor…what an awesome pep talk! My high school boyfriend is now a retired Navy SEAL Chief. My husband, Charlie, was an ex-Marine who was stationed at Pendleton and Miramar. Charlie’s cousin Ronnie, who was more like his brother, was a Marine as well. He was a sniper too. I’ve always been surrounded by you crazy as all hell bad asses. Lol 😂 We lost Ronnie in 2016, and Charlie died from cancer at 50 in 2022. I’m lost without them both sometimes. One of the things that Ronnie did best was giving the most hard hitting pep talks when you needed to hear them the most. After listening to you speak, it reminded me so much of him. I know they would be proud of you and your journey. Thank YOU!! Stay strong as I’m trying to do the same in this crazy world without my Charlie. Much love, @tcavofficial ! New sub of yours. Need the motivation right now.
Your message should be required in the education of our young and old..tremendous brother.. keep on trucking ..thank you for this gem..I'm a 75 yr old vietnam vet who has beaten myself up during my aging process last few yrs..I hear you and can use your info to be thankful even at 50% of the man I was..love you dear brother thank you so much
Has to be the best YT I’ve seen. It’s the most insightful sharing of life experience I’ve seen from someone of Today. Much props to Mark and Taylor.
I love this dude. He’s his own worst enemy and capable of such amazing things, but ends up with hard knocks wisdom from the craziness.
I can relate to him.
Definitely
This guy is so fucking inspirational to me as I am also an addict. I'm on day 7 off opiates cold turkey and really needed this as motivation. This video could not have come at a better time.
I know exactly how you feel...day 7 is fukin awesome, especially cold turkey
@@eklypised Why do you say day 7's awesome? Or was it sarcasm?
Good luck to you. Tough road to be on. Soon will get better, stay positive
Keep going mate,you're a week ahead of me ,i start tomorrow. You'll be fine soon. Respect all the way from Glasgow.
May God Bless you, I'm proud of you. You got this! 🙏🏼💪
Love your disarming honesty, man. An inspiration for me to address the lingering faults I entertain from time to time. You have made me want to get rid of them once and for all. My Gratitude, man. Hope to find you when you have your own channel.
Mark, great job not interrupting this man. There’s so much to his story. It is pretty amazing. Thank you.
So grateful This is my introduction to this man. Open, honest, vulnerable, no interruptions (Kudos Mark). God Speed.
The way Taylor powered through and stayed focused on what he wanted is highly commendable, but he left chaos in his wake and everyone seems to ignore that fact. Whether he is ACOA or ADHD and even if you detest putting labels on people there is definitely something happening in Taylor that continues to cause him to resort to alcohol and self sabotage over and over. Therapy is an option. I wish him continued success in his new career as he can definitely support others using his experience. Just hope he doesn’t neglect his own mental health in the process.
I thought for sure at first I wasn’t going to like this guy! I was dead wrong! He reminds me of myself a lot, all besides I haven’t bounced back again like he did! I have lived an amazing life, beautiful wife in my bio pic, two amazing teenage kids, I have been to rock bottom once, fought through it! And fell again! I’m on the verge of losing it all again house, family, etc, if I don’t bounce back now!! This man’s story motivated me! I need to stop being a coward and beat these demons and make a plan! No more excuses! Pray for me yall! Please
“Running is for the enemy” lol that’s right, love it. Thank you for your service Taylor ♥️
His YT channel is screaming right now. I am an early subscriber and he's close to 40k in just a few short months. He speaks to men's hearts
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@@Alexxx492 youtube.com/@tcavofficial?si=nkDo_sMmuee6kDST
@45... It's in this video's description. Or you can just click on Taylor's @tcavofficial link in his reply to me. Quite simple actually
I’ve been subscribed to him since almost the very beginning. His numbers have skyrocketed
@@tcavofficialyeah I like your channel bro 👍
“No bumpers on the railing now, this is the real deal” best quote ever!❤🙏
this was one of the best yet. This guy really pumped me up and gave me that extra push knowing its not too late for me for a second chance. I always thought i was a little too old to " start over" after getting sober but I got sober and currently am in EMT school, studying and training for the NREMT exam. This guy really helped me feel like I truly can do it and its not too late for me. I wish I could sit down and pick this dudes brain and talk to him, I see ALOT of myself in him and he explained my life essentially back to me haha
Came across this guy a few months back, what a character. In the best way possible. His story is inspiring and motivating. Upfront, active and a bad ass. Helped me go out there and get it. Thanks Taylor
Taylor has touched many of us who have been struggling and he has saved so many lives. I could listen to him all day. This is a great video. Everyone should follow Taylor for his self awareness messages. He is an awesome man.
I had dinner with him a few weeks ago, as we have friends in common. Very inspiring, unapologetic, charismatic dude. Got to speak French together.
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The challenge of picking up another language under the circumstances of the Foreign Legion wasn’t addressed, but can’t be overstated.
Not a real seal
@@myfootontheirneck8865 Pardon?
@@Lonerlovegood did I say it in a language that you didn’t understand?
Taylor, firstly you are one seriously driven individual. This was one of the most utterly absorbing interviews I’ve seen on SWU. Normally I see a 2+ hour episode and i automatically assume I’ll lose interest before the end but this episode actually made me want it to keep going. Utterly fascinating, also very resonant.
The self sabotage cycle is incredibly brutal and vicious and has an unparalleled means of camouflaging itself so that we are unable to see nor stop it. Something needs to happen, a light to come on, a connection recognized, whatever it is and likely different from individual to individual, before we recognize it. I have recognized it but am floundering hopelessly with what to do to stop it and get life going. Stories like yours are the precise reason I absolutely became a true fan of Mark and this channel. I just finished watching and I am going to now search out your channel and learn more. Amazing story sir. And your iron clad conviction is inspiring and gives at least this lost and beaten down soul another ray of hope. Thank you.
What an incredible human being Taylor is. Amazing how positive his messages are from IG and YT.
Taylor is quite unique, a special breed to say the least. I truly enjoyed listening to his story and how open and transparent he is with such superb memory of many aspects of his life. He’s definitely a badass, doesn’t get anymore than that yet he’s human, which people tend to forget when you’re that high on the podium with a resume such as his. He’s definitely someone you want as a friend, aside from the partying and all the arrest he’s done lol. Thanks for sharing!!
Taylor is spot on with everything he said…I’ve been on a similar journey for about a year…made MAJOR changes in my life and I’m finally starting to feel better.
I saw this video a while back and have thought about Taylor many times since then. He has so much intensity and he is clearly an intelligent and insightful guy. He is articulate and has a lot of life experience. All that revved up self-flagellation and self-sabotage over the years, however, doesn’t just go away. Some of the things he went through sound like manic episodes followed by crashes into
depression. Throughout this interview his speech is pressured and non-stop. His over confidence all or nothing thinking is over the top to me, although it is so appealing and his charisma really draws you in. I worry that Taylor might have untreated bipolar disorder. I hope I’m wrong. I’m a licensed psychotherapist but could not accurately diagnose someone without doing a proper assessment. Wishing him all good things.
I appreciate your words. I'm simply fired up on life. Things arent always perfect, but my life is amazing and has only gotten more so for years.
I love how Mark let his guest speak without interrupting
100%. After listening to this, I found another one where he's being asked question after question, for 2hrs, podcast advertisement interruptions & it's a totally different vibe. Sure, we get some details that we don't get in this one, but overall, this is The One.
Mike Ritland done a great interview with TCav. The symmetry between the two SEAL guys was awesome to watch. Go watch it, it's the same story but different because of Mike's interaction with TCav.
@@mauricelangley5033 FACTS
Not sure Taylor ever gave him a chance , but it worked
@@texomajohn2916 it’s about him tho
What a fine line between a professional criminal and a hero
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Choices matter
Helps that he’s an attractive white man… would be vastly different narrative if he was a minority
Only due to people who can’t just be positive and stop looking to divide people by race or skin tone . To only notice a person by their appearance . So short sided and weak .
@@joshuasmith9350this is like saying people only fall down because gravity exists… humans are inherently visual and tribal creatures… we are naturally divisive.
If this were a black man he would not be here to tell his story and that’s a fact
Man! I’m doing a hard reset at 47. This guy really helps me define that daily process. Not motivation not boy band crush. Real stuff to get real shit done. Thanks!
Good luck friend. I'm in the same boat.
me too bro.. 47 next month...And Taylors plan helped me get right.. Up early, nature, fitness, diet mindset, consistency. no booze, no dope, everything you need is inside.
I got my first college degree at 47 years old and then I found out at 48 years old that my real biological father is a multi-millionaire and it's about to give me my first property. I'm telling you this to say life is filled with surprises and the kids to stay on the right path so that when the unexpected blessings come you're able to receive and manage them well
Same turned 47 last month.👊🏼
I'm almost 49 and looking at the hard reset myself. I wish you success!
I have a son who is ‘wild at heart’ like this young man. I loved this story. I’ve spent the last 34 years loving this son and encouraging him. It’s his story to tell but there were so many parallels here. He makes me so proud. I’ve seen him come face to face with himself many times. I see the evidence of his good choices, today. He was restless, wild, fearless but also deeply desired to be a respectable man. Thank you for sharing. So many people, men especially, need to know that they have more agency than they think they do. We do get to participate, no matter where we’ve been. We get to choose. Yes, it is better to get it sooner than later…but later is better than not at all. We need strong men, who are in their right minds. My husband also coaches men. This entire testimony is necessary. It is weakness, not strength, that binds us to one another and to God. Let’s go!
He is classic adhd…his life story is like a copy of mine…and we are both the same age born in ‘85…got diagnosed myself last year and then suddenly my whole life made sense
I think everyone born in 1985 “has” adhd
ADHD brains 🧠 are genius!
I think you just got an excuse to avoid change
@@buzas69No way! If you have an ADHD brain, despite meds and cognitive training…there is something similar with all of us!
@@buzas69I have ADHD and change is possible, but it's a lot of work. Worth it though ❤
Mr. Cavanaugh, I mean this in the most supportive way, you are a force to be reckoned with. It takes a special human to be a SEAL and French Foreign Legionnaire. And your aggression works well for you. But being an average civilian, I had to watch this in two separate sittings. I appreciate your transparency with your history so that we can learn from it. I also appreciate what you have sacrificed for this country and it's population. Prayers for continued peace and prosperity to you.
“I had to go internal…Running from myself to be respected…when all I need to do was acting respectably “
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You are an exceptional storyteller ‼️
When do we get to read your book !?!!
It’s amazing when you stop serving yourself and start serving other people how everything changes. That feeling of “I’m not enough” starts to dissipate and life becomes worth living. Thanks for your story and your service… in all of the ways.
TCAV is a good man. I'm a 45 year old combat vet and life long f up. I really enjoy listening to my man T and he's got me eyeing my dusty pullup bar and even thinking of running. F ng hate running. Keep up the good work my man
I looove Navy seals & Veterans storys!! Always so interesting!!
Keep interviewing people with these types of stories, Mark🔥
My oldest brother is a former seal. He taught me that pain is your friend. He also told me he loved BUDS.
Once again, TC at his shining best: talking about turning his vices into his aces, self-blowing his SEAL career and forced-deserting his FFL contract. TC proves that (any) one - if willing to conquer and validate himself - can beat anything and survive everything. At 69, alone n' humbled, having broken my pencils and my motorcycles sold - the only Gate through old-age depression is my meditation cushion. And guess what? In those cold, dark and immovable hours of zazen, the smiling face of TC comes and enightens me with his coarse courage, gut-deep inhalations and blissful belief in the majestic but frail happiness of Life. Thanks Mark for letting Taylor shower our thirsty ears with love and care, tenderness and belonging.
Bro you're a legend👊🏼
I pray for you Taylor. I am an ex sailor, ex Seal candidate (back then you got one chance and I was close but not there), Vietnam era, General Discharge guy - questioned everything and everyone - Captains Masts regularly but loved and respected my Captain and it was mutual. Constantly reevaluating myself after my stint in the Navy. Always at the top of any project I took on - very successful in personal life, but continually questioning my contribution. So many similarities in your life to mine. Being a lot older I know how that path unfolds if you can get right, and how bad it can go till you do. Just hope that your current life decisions hold true and you find the real road to continual improvement, continual stability, and continual success. God bless you brother.
Taylor, I gotta say this would have to be one of my favourite stories so far. A true fighter and inspiration and a great example on how never to give up in life. I think you have a best seller there for a book, well done !
"The world is a mirror, you reflect what you project". Never ceases to amaze me how many things you dont realize in life until some one else vocalizes them.
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this is also a go to technique for narcissists. Especially this guy, any critiques, he just says that its someone else “projecting”. Dude has solid patterns of being a shit heel. Now he wants to sell people shit. So this is the grift
@@fukdogI agree with you 100% and the first sentence out of this guy’s mouth, I openly said, “Bullsh!t”!!
@@r.k.2823 Its also super easy to feel good and bang out goals when you have enough steroids to fuel three people running through your system. What he should be selling is his steroid cycle and where to buy it, because that is the foundation his house is built on. Anyone can do anything with gear.
@@fukdog 100%. Everyone's acting like this guy's got it all figured out. He JUST GOT KICKED OUT of the French Foreign Legion! He hasn't been able to honor any commitment.
A classic example of "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger".
This guy's story is super interesting, but he's still got a long ways to go. He's still chasing ego and searching for validation through respect. He's still reliant on the way other people see him, whether he realizes it or not. He's setting himself up to crash and burn yet again. He'll have a number of awakenings and realizations as the years go by. If he makes it to 60-65 years old, he'll probably really find what he's looking for at that point. But he's gotta slow down and stop moving at 100mph all the time. Each step of the process, he gets better and better, but he's still not even close to being where he wants to be at this time. Slow the pace man.
Fair advice
Agreed
Wholeheartedly agree!!!
More like a baptism in Testosterone with a side order of Panic Attacks
Well said. This Cat is still not right.
I agree with this but he is quite far down the path of realisation. he has a good chance to make it.
GLOSTA.. to be honest this gentleman said 13 things that stuck with me and resonated. Things I needed to hear, I’m 41 years old and wasted the best years of my life. I’m smart and charismatic, I can still do something and so can you. “The decisions you make matter”
Dont think anything is wasted...there wwre lessons to be learned. Some people have DIFFERENT lessons to learn but do t think anyone has a perfect life. It may LOOK so on the outside but we all have lessons. And life and possibility isnt over til it's over.
@@latinaalma1947 Rain Means Change 🌧️
What an incredible story! I really enjoy this channel so much because you don't interrupt the interviews with questions. You let people TALK. It's fantastic. You gave up a lot Taylor before you got yourself right. And that's how it goes - We have to hit bottom to go up.
Professional life coaches need to take life coach lessons from this warrior. Wow, I’m halfway through this jaw dropping story.
Appreciate your time here
My favorite story of trials and triumphs. I hope his story becomes a 📖 book/ movie 🎥 helping others see that go with in to heal is the way to go up.🎉❤😊
Mark - I appreciate your ability to listen and allow the story to unfold. More people should take a cue from you, sir!
This video helped me too believe I’m the greatest lacrosse player on planet earth. Thank you both for helping me to achieve the greatest goal in the history of mankind.
Strange comment.
My grandpa was a navy seal in world war 2.wool uniform came home alive thank God.I was able to get my mom and he was the best poppy so loving to his children and grandchildren survived his country and two days before I turned 16 he passed away from colon cancer.I lost the best poppy and my mom lost her loving dad.But he was a proud Navy Seal🥰
My oldest brother was a seal back in in the mid 80s
Some people you hear and don't turn off. This is one of them.
Respect, thank you for your service. America's badass baby.
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Simply stating this, i needed this.
Wasnt sugar coated wasnt easy but i needed this.
Wasn't sure about this guy at first, his voice was off putting and on the surface he looked like a absolute poser. I'm now 40 mins in and hooked. Massive respect to him, he's worked from nothing to achieve exactly what he set out to do which happens to be one of the most difficult to get careers. I'm pleased he comes across as proud of himself because he bloody well should be 😊
i think its good insight to recognise when someone sounds off putting, like taking a step back wr can usually trace a path back to our experiences or views as to why it is, and from being at peace with that can we then open ourselves to ubderstanding and tolerance.
@@jamescanjuggle ah his voice was off putting because I'm a reserved English person who has only ever heard that type of voice when watching WWE, nothing more 😊
Yea I can't stand his bro voice
His voice is 😍
Yup..the same
Kudos to you Mark for letting him share without any interruptions. What a riveting message!! Thank you!!
This might be one of the best interviews I’ve ever seen. The philosophical takeaways from this are remarkable. I’m not even sure if he meant for it to be philosophical.
Man had lived a crazy life. I’m blessed to listen to his point of view.
If you ever see this thank you for sharing! Believe it not you touched me with some of the stuff you said.
Watching and listening to this man talk increases your body's testosterone, creatine, and growth hormone levels by 200%
Damn straight👊🏼
I was a homosexual and guy made me straight
@@Pndda-rm9of😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can only imagine what he does to a woman ..when God made man ✔️
@@tcavofficial I believe you have ADHD. A super power that keeps on giving and taking! You are also super human ✔️
This is the best SWU I have heard. Thank you so much for your service and sharing your story. So much wisdom and inspiring ❤
“Fabricating obstacles.” That’s what we do when we’re lost. Beautiful.
“Men, we are either assets or liabilities. There is no neutral.” Sage advice.
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This guy rocks. Heart and soul - honest and real and tough.
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