The Effect of Silence in Marriages and Relationships
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- čas přidán 21. 11. 2022
- This would settle many problems in relationships
The evil effect of silence in marriages and relationship.
Find out why your partner is not talking and the dangers around it
May my man and I never be silent to each other and may we all experience the best marriages ever IJN….Amen🙏
Exactly how I was also treated until a few years ago i was asked to rather be silent.
Amen
This was meant for me to listen😭😭😭the first 5 minutes is exactly how I’ve been treated for a year now😭🙏🏿
Sorry about that Sis, however the principle in Mathew 18 :15-17 helped me tremendously in such circumstances...kindly study & apply it.
Here are a few suggestions based on those scriptures :
Be bold to open up to him about it, how it makes you feel and the kind of changes you want. If he listens, praise God🙌. If he doesn't take you seriously, prayerfully get the "right persons" to talk to him... If he still won't listen and another attempt at it fails, just pray for him and boldly walk out if you're not married yet (it's a more alarming red flag). It'll save you "YEARS" of wasting your time... Go & build your life spiritually, economically, socially, academically and in every other Godly way... You'll reap sweet benefits including a better relationship.
If you're already married, ask God for his guidance before you make any decision... Whether you believe you must stay or separate yourself from him for whatever reason, stop focusing on him and once again build your life spiritually, economically, socially, academically and in every other Godly way. The fruits will make you more fulfilled... he'll look back at you sometime to come & shamefully go away, or apologize & make things right... you have only one chance to live your life, God has not given any body an assignment to come & frustrate you unless you give them permission to. Choose to be the victor, not the victim, be in charge of your happiness cuz it's no one's responsibility apart from you. Hope this helps. 🙏
May me and my husband to be not go silent on each other in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾
Pastor Elvis is full of wisdom. Thank you Papa
I love listening to you. God has given you great wisdom. Your videos have helped me. I'm grateful to God, He has given you to us. You're truly a great man of God. You'll never miss Heaven. You've saved my marriage. Thank you
Young people may God open our spiritual eyes to see this behaviors before we get in marriage 🙌🙌
Thank you Holy Spirit for enabling pastor Elvis to reveal this deep secret to us🙏
Amen 🙏🏽
Aww papa God bless you for this powerful message 🙏
God bless you my dear sister,young women hear this advice 🙏
While I was listening, I said to myself “why didn’t I hear this earlier?” Infact I was a victim of such and didn’t know how to handle it and asuch it ended the relationship. I cried many nights, I lived in pain & hate towards others, I was bleeding, tried to keep myself busy, I lost total focus to the extent of loosing my job. We eventually broke up without a word from each other and he ended up turning me also into using silence to communicate to others. Thank you pastor for this eye opening secret of good & bad silence… God bless you abundantly 🙏
Aww sorry
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Is my prayer the Good Lord strengthen us, specially women who encounter such situations. Many of us women go through such challenge but it's been very very painful to handle, because God created some women so wonderful that all they need is peace, love and joy. So when such challenge occurs it makes the woman remain quite and heart broken within! Silence from a man you cherish is very painful when it keeps occuring at a wrong time. May the Good Lord grant us the Wisdom, Grace, Strength to understand and find solutions to that challenge.🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🔥🔥🔥
Truth be told. Emotional abuse at best when they don't want to deal with issues. Sad situation as it affects all including children as they sense the rift. So much unnecessary damage from the selfishness.
You have really expressed well
Please can we have the continuation... It has been of great help.. please don't keep silent🙏🏽
My ex husband doesn't talk he's in London. He doesn't talk to his children no school fees nothing. For almost 8 years we haven't seen him. He then sent his mum to come and end the marriage. May God come through for me and my two children. I met him when I was 16 years and I'm 35 years. I'm just tired...I really need God to intervene. He puts up a picture of him and another woman in their morning coats. I have been through a lot.
Sad to hear that. Don't worry. Be hopeful in the Lord....
Let him go and be strong for your children, God will see you through.sending you love and hugs🥰
It is well
Let God lead 🙏
Aaaaw I can really feel your pain just love God and choose yourself first , let him go my dear God will come through for you
God will speak for you
Thank you for this message. You are so right and your message is real and on point.
For your teachings dàddy I really find great joy and happiness listening to you😂😂 since 2am I have been listening to you non stop😂😂
Such an eye opener Pastor Elvis 🙌 🙏. I'm really learning a lot
Blessed be the word of God to us this is wisdom am smiling because of truth am receiving what a beautiful sermon
I am going through this...God heal my marriage
This has got me teary,I am passing through this silent treatment from my husband since 2months ago.
May God intervene for me and may thy will be done
His seeing someone
So the best way is , I withdraw my energy.. for my mental safety
Exactly but apparently its the wrong way.
Some are great men with full anointing but posses that attribute
I can relate paaa, I pray God gives us the courage to express ourselves vocally and not silently.
Reverend this is exactly how my husband treats me.
I cover my marital life with the blood of Jesus amen
Thank you Papa!!! May the good Lord increase you!!
God bless you pastor Elvis Agyemang 🙏🙏🙏
Such an eye opener. Thank you Man of God
I connect i and my future husband to this powerful altar we will not be silent to each other in Jesus name amen, 🙏
Thank you pstr for always teaching us, may God almighty continue to use you mightily in Jesus name, amen.
Man of God this is deep..God bless you for the enlightening
Very powerful... I bless God for this wisdom 🙏
The annoying part is when they cheat they intentionally ignore you so you don't talk about it. It kills, trust me it is deadly 😭
this is such an eye opener
There was a silent treatment between my guy and I , some months ago but we both love each other and now it’s like things are getting out of hands. May God come through for us. Because am emotionally and mentally unstable
Same as mine may God have mercy on us,😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Powerful message 😊… God bless you Pastor.
God bless you 💓💕 very powerful message
God richly bless you for this powerful massage 🔥
Thank you Daddy for this eye opening message
Very powerful message God bless you man of God have really learn alot
God bless u papa. More wisdom to excel in ur ministry.
Powerful message 🙏🙏🙏
I connect myself and families in the name of Jesus Christ amen 🔥🔥
Powerful…thank you Sir
God bless you
Exactly this what end my relationship
My fiance was like that
Wisdom personified 🔥🙌🏻
Thank you PaPa..God bless you for this sermon 😀. I was once in this toxic relationship but have moved on
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@@franknyarko8448 Okay
How can I reach u pls.
Great message 😊
It's common with people who are narcissistic. My husband can be silent close to a whole year. God has done it indeed. 🙏
This kind of people can only be feed by their own medicine until, they also feel what they are injecting into your emotions. The worst is to allow them to be the victims by going to apologize first. If they can victimize you from day one the have succeeded into pushing your buttoms.
FATHER,I always depend on you on my marriage,enough is enough now in this relationship that am in now.
This is actually for me this week. Battling with one with my boyfriend and it’s causing me mental stress. I nearly lost my life out of this and all I keep asking myself is “so just because this time around I refused to make excuses for him and I refuse to say sorry for his wrongs? This is the end result? After how many years & he is rather giving me silent treatment 😢. Mercy oh lord
Hmmm my dear he is moving on with his life try hard to also move on to be able to forget someone it's quite not easy but the only way you can do that is to think about his bad side I guess he has lots of bad side than good if you do that you will begin to forget about him try this my dear because no guy is too good that you can't let go
My dear , what you tolerate when you are dating is exactly what you will tolerate when you get married .. a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.. love yourself and know you deserve better .
Sad. But as difficult as it is,try to focus on yourself and your future. May God bless you with joy.
Hello my dear, move on ,and seek the Kingdom of God first and every other thing will come with it. I have thirty-five years in marriage, l can promise you he will never change.
The simplest answer is he does NOT LOVE YOU. MOVE ON. YOU WILL LOOK FOR ME ONE DAY TO THANK ME.
Hmm, story of my life. Have really endured in marriage
I feel like pastor elvis is talking to me in my current relationship...God have mercy 🥺
May we never be silence in our relationship to marriage in Jesus mighty name amen
God bless you man of God
Let this spirit of silence go away from us in our marriage in JESUS Name
This is for me 😢,God I need you 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Pastor 🙏🏾
Powerful man
God have mercy on us not to keep silent in my relationship in Jesus name amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
Aww pastor Elvis you're too humorous
I ve a courtship relationship with my guy and we are almost 7years nw,all the time he keep on be silent because he don't know why u talk much and am Nt a cuul or silent type so it hating mee,I always complain all he can say is dat am Nt addicted in calling and I normally say to my self like hw we ve dating since nw and u can't change for the one you love and it means u are doing something else where,what hit mee most is dat when he is Abt to come to my place we will be talking fine buh immediately he left dat silent mood start,he don't call or massage mee buh if I did he respond, it's worrying mee paa and nw what I ve decided is to live the relationship and move cos I can't stay with a person who normally think Abt his own Nt other
Best decision
If you are a priority he will always be eager to hear from you, know what’s going on with you
Wise up, your mental health is important
Man of God u are on point.
Very deep 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love u pastor
May my husband and I not be mute on each other for even a day... I pray for total peace in my marriage in Jesus' name
Amen
May God have mercy on us 🙏
Hmmm thank you men of God
May God bless you papa
I suspected my wife of having an affair with a male friend . I have talked about it all I can and rather she gaslight and make me feel bad for trying to address that issue , now I don’t talk anymore and the only thing that rings in my mind is “divorce” divorce “ divorce .
This Silence issue has many twist and angels, if not covered properly from the root. It can worsen issues.
Thank you
May God help me and my husband in our journey in JESUS Name
Lord please dont let i and my partenar be abuse each other in your name 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Some people also become silent when a spouse àlways approaches n receives insults as a response........
These are the same problem into please daddy I need help to save my soul
Thank you papa
😊thank you Papa
powerful
Hmmm true talk ooo father help us
God bless you
True talk
Word 😊
My ex was like that,thank God we broke up
You're not lying laa
Powerful
Thanks God
Hmmm am going through this same thing my husband is everything you say when I said I want a divorce he is trying to get me back but he can't change
Lord have mercy on us
I have the same experience
May God have mercy
God have mercy
Is mostly the men that they change themselves when they see other women😔😔
It's two way dear. Women do same
My husband wants me to always be silent when he's talking and even if he's done talking. And when i want to explain my side he gets angry and tell me if I'm tired of the marriage i can walk out. He's a submissive woman must always be quiet. The least thing he gets angry and speaks to me anyhow even to the point of insulting me in the presence of children and neighbors. So just this these i have decided to be silent so that he doesn't disrespect me again but then he still finds a way to do it. The silences is killing me but i don't know what to do
Eii
Hmmmmm
I use to have a boyfriend who was like that.The moment I realize he never want me explain my side I quit the relationship.It’s a red flag right there.Thank God I didn’t marry him.I got married to a respectful man who’s always ready to listen to my side.
🥺 Mercy🙆♂️
Thank you papa 🙏
Hmmm.. the kind of emotional stress you go through cause of silence treatment
Is true paa oooo
My issue presently. I need help
Indeed
Lord Jesus guide my ways, let your will be done in my life, bless me with a godly, good husband and good marriage.
Eiiiiii hmmmm it's really true
Exactly what I’m dealing with in my relationship. Once i confront him about something wrong he did that made me unhappy, he’s rather going to act angry and give me the silence treatment for over two weeks till we somehow get back to talking normal. No apology whatsoever
Hmmm
Pastor Agyeman Elvis indeed you are really God sent amen
If it’s not marriage, my dear ran…for the sake of your mental health
@@hildsme4802 what if it’s marriage??
My husband has been listening to you but I don't know how he understands whatever you say hmmm my husband has been doing this to me
Hmmmm it is well