How To Goal Set When You're Feeling Stuck | Vision Board & Motivation | Aja Dang

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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2022
  • Hi Hi! If you didn't know, I'm in a rut. I thought taking time from CZcams would get me out of it but it hasn't. So it's time to do the very minimum of goal setting... vision boarding. Creating the perfect vision board can help give you clarity on what you want and what you have the ability to focus on for a certain amount of time. Let's see if this will help me figure out a productive rest of the year before we head into 2023 😫
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Komentáře • 68

  • @circejanuary
    @circejanuary Před rokem +73

    Aja, I have been following you since the video you made a few years back about your debt. And I think how you are feeling is similar to what exchange students say when they are back to the calm of their country. Like while you were paying down your debt and saving for your emergency fund you had this very tangible goal that you were eating at month after month, then you moved, then yoiu launched a business, then you got engaged, then you had to plan your wedding. you had those clearly set goals with checkpoints. Now you don't have a big goal or 1000 things going on. But you've done so much and it's ok to just live and not always have a massive goal. Maybe take a writing class, an art class something fun.

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem +17

      that's true! I think my problem is that if I'm not on the go, then I'm lazy. So having goals to achieve keep me from being in a rut..which is what I'm in now.

    • @janamojska1796
      @janamojska1796 Před rokem +5

      I understand this. I followed you Aja since the pandemic and I also reached massive goals. Now I'm just in much more calm state and I'm giving myself grace for it. Thank you for vision board idea to create new goals. But first I want that my achievements settle a bit and then I run again 🏃‍♀️❤️

  • @BkhammoYou
    @BkhammoYou Před rokem +4

    Vision boards help declutter the brain. They help focus one's attention on what truly matters to a person. Thanks for reminding me of this.

  • @djgroovyslug
    @djgroovyslug Před rokem +25

    I far prefer vision boarding, I like to ask myself "How do I want to *feel* this coming year?" and images can usually capture that better than text. I also save the board as my phone lock screen so I see it throughout the year and it really helps. I'm looking at my board now and it is mostly complete!

  • @MayAstrid
    @MayAstrid Před rokem +2

    Wow I was expecting a video about "finding your inner why blah blah blah" and you surprised me with REAL ACTIONS. Aja, you're the best, thank you for everything!

  • @7Unknown0
    @7Unknown0 Před rokem +3

    For someone who loves organisation and planning but has been just in limbo and trying to not feel inadequate for it. It makes me feel less alone and less alienated watching this video. It also helps me feel like enough still. thank you so much.

  • @risika
    @risika Před rokem +12

    This year I’ve had to learn how to be gentle with myself.
    I’ve had to overhaul how I approach work/habits by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits that give me stability (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my channel.
    I have no clue what my bigger goals are. I’m just hoping building a solid routine and taking care of myself will give me a solid foundation and nurture the creative side of me I’ve repressed for so long. Loved the video

  • @aishan218
    @aishan218 Před rokem +10

    So glad you're back on CZcams! I hope you find peace and inspiration as you transition into this new chapter. Remember, no need to overachieve :)

  • @calikvistad9965
    @calikvistad9965 Před rokem +6

    Genuinely, I think this was the most helpful video I've seen in a long time. I rarely know what my goals are, and I've never vision boarded before. Now I'm feeling inspired to try.

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem +1

      Hopefully you're vision board will give you clarity!

  • @shapemailife6878
    @shapemailife6878 Před rokem +3

    Aja, I loved, loved this video. It was helpful in reminding me that I can let my intuition and feelings choose the pictures I pic for my vision board. Sometimes, I'm too logical in how I pick my pictures. I loved seeing the result of your vision board. Thank you for sharing!

  • @elmsdays
    @elmsdays Před rokem +2

    Great video. I'm in a similar boat. In a rut and a bit lost... I've always avoided doing a vision board (I don't know why) until I did one for the firm I work for (because they really needed it or at least give them a push to figure out their vision). ANYWAY, I need to make time for myself (working mom of 2) and this was very helpful so THANKS!

  • @Missgail0623m
    @Missgail0623m Před rokem

    I need this! Feeling so stuck in my life and don't know which direction to take. Thank you so much Aja! You are a blessing.

  • @biancahardison
    @biancahardison Před rokem +5

    I use canva for my vision board and keep it on my phone. Things always change. It's life.

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem

      that's a good idea too!

  • @seaweedjen
    @seaweedjen Před rokem +13

    i love the idea of have a romcom loosely based on yours and brian's beginning love story. i do think there can be more representation when it comes to casting couples more diversely. I'd love to see asian couples and other multi-cultural couples than what has been represented in media thus far

  • @careoh
    @careoh Před rokem +1

    I’d love a desk setup/ how you organized your space video when you’re done! I’m always looking for inspo and I love your decor style 😄

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem

      working on my desk set up now!

  • @sandralantau7395
    @sandralantau7395 Před rokem

    Thanks for being so honest about how you're feeling. I loved this video!

  • @mikayamada8276
    @mikayamada8276 Před rokem +1

    Yay! I love seeing your videos again! I made a vision board at the beginning of this year and found it a lot of fun. Didn’t think about doing one per quarter!!! Thanks for the tips!!!

  • @SR98889
    @SR98889 Před rokem

    This video was very inspiring! I’m also in a rut. I’m going to try this. Thanks Aja!

  • @manpreetkaur425
    @manpreetkaur425 Před rokem

    This was an amazing video! It cleared up so many things for me as well! Please make more goal setting videos and how to achieve them better!

  • @rhondaminga3198
    @rhondaminga3198 Před rokem

    I so related to this video. I have said this myself. I don't know what I want but I know that I hate feeling stuck. SO glad you did this video.

  • @nichellechristine1252
    @nichellechristine1252 Před rokem +1

    I wanted to share (ps. I'm 32) and I've always been driven, goal oriented, had so much in me. Thought it was unbound but lately I'm finding its the same. I've reeally been resonating with your context since coming back. Not sure what I'm getting at but yeah. Thank you. I'm honestly not hyper focusing on the why I am here but more what do I need to move forward. I think there might be too many factors that got me here to truly find a root.

  • @carinascherer1706
    @carinascherer1706 Před rokem

    i love the trailer idea! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mynameisreb
    @mynameisreb Před rokem +4

    A few thoughts: you used to do videos back in the day that were parody/music videos. maybe you can take your romantic comedy idea and collaborate with Brian to do a musical version of it. You also had some great diy furniture hacks back in the day that you can bring back with your workspace. I feel like with this vision board, your ideas relate to things you've done in the past, so maybe it's more about continuing to experiment with things you did before your debt free journey. Also - it's not a bad idea to just have a year where you focused on learning new things or skills. That's what I'm focusing on next year to get out of a career rut and I think it's going to help open up new opportunities. Good luck and thank you for this video!

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem +1

      those are great ideas!

  • @TheT74
    @TheT74 Před rokem

    This was so helpful!

  • @jamierichter2040
    @jamierichter2040 Před rokem

    love ya girl!

  • @jaylarcher7410
    @jaylarcher7410 Před rokem

    I needed that

  • @canapurple11
    @canapurple11 Před rokem

    Oof. I needed this. So relatable!❤

  • @2eyeluvmac2
    @2eyeluvmac2 Před rokem

    Awesome video. Ty

  • @AnnabelleBayhan
    @AnnabelleBayhan Před rokem

    Just got the planner. It's amazing, can't wait to continue using it.

  • @lynninfinite
    @lynninfinite Před rokem

    ahhh hope we get to see your vision board for 2023!

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem

      of course! In December

  • @crystalmariegee4268
    @crystalmariegee4268 Před rokem

    Inspired me more to what I've been doing today.

  • @Euphoria_666
    @Euphoria_666 Před rokem +1

    Woah...a video on youtube that actually helped me.... Impressed.Good job!

  • @leocarney2605
    @leocarney2605 Před rokem

    Ooooh thanks for this video! I really need to get onto a vision board for next year. (Also, love the ringlight overhead camera holder! Ive been looking into that lately)

  • @mmadsisrad
    @mmadsisrad Před rokem +2

    Hey Aja! I love seeing your digital version of the planner :) I’m not sure if you ever did how you set up your Home Screen. I felt really inspired to revamp my iPad as well now lol. Thank you for always being amazing!❤

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem +2

      I had to watch a couple of CZcams videos to get a grasp on all the ipad tips and tricks but it turned out really well!

  • @C1nderfire
    @C1nderfire Před rokem

    Ty for this video. It really made me 🤔

  • @Maritza1963
    @Maritza1963 Před rokem

    Great video. My sister takes the lead on vision boarding. We do a potluck brunch with mimosas with the women in our family. We do a roundtable. It's emotional and cleansing. I will share this approach with my group. Thanks

  • @the_elites
    @the_elites Před rokem

    I loved this and I want to try a vision for myself! Also, where is your iPad case from?

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem

      it's $15 from Amazon: amzn.to/3foequy

  • @kassylarrouturou6591
    @kassylarrouturou6591 Před rokem

    Je vais essayer les 30 jours d’eau froide en fin de douche !

  • @viviena5013
    @viviena5013 Před rokem

    Missed youuuuu🥺🥺🥺💔

  • @flawlessmogul9719
    @flawlessmogul9719 Před rokem

    What gadget were you using to write?

  • @stellaluna5179
    @stellaluna5179 Před rokem

    If you need a native LA exploring buddy let me know! I love exploring and I know exactly where that Japanese garden is! I also play animal crossing

  • @sydnipurvis486
    @sydnipurvis486 Před rokem

    Love you mentioning wanting to see more Asian couples on TV. 👏👏👏

  • @samirrzlani2257
    @samirrzlani2257 Před rokem

    Raghad Meziane brother Happy blessed Ramadan 👍👍👍👍🇲🇦🇺🇲🇨🇷

  • @Lina-zq7re
    @Lina-zq7re Před rokem

    Wait!!! This whole time you were engaged to Brain Puspos…omg you really are winning at life! 😮

  • @LuminousNews
    @LuminousNews Před rokem

    I suggest skipping the desk and video game, and focus on making a short fictional movie with a number of collaborators and outdoor locations. But that's what I want to do, so I'm biased.

    • @AjaDang
      @AjaDang  Před rokem

      haha I think the fictional movie will take a bit more brain power than I have ATM

  • @alexisreve1
    @alexisreve1 Před rokem +4

    Beyoncé reposted your video, and you're making money off her doing so. Talk about manifesting!

  • @NoneYa-pg6dk
    @NoneYa-pg6dk Před rokem

    Your vows. 😭

  • @rjf7023
    @rjf7023 Před rokem

    i dont believe in race base casting for movies unless the actual story hinges upon that. if race/ethnicity isnt key for the role or story, then you should simply cast the best actor for the role, regardless of their color

    • @jodine90
      @jodine90 Před rokem +4

      I mean it sounds like race or ethnicity would be key to the love story she's talking about. Nothing wrong with acknowledging race as a real part of our identities and stories.

    • @sandralantau7395
      @sandralantau7395 Před rokem +1

      But how would you define "best" actor. If all you've seen are Caucasian actors, a minority actor would seem "wrong" and never the "best".

    • @rjf7023
      @rjf7023 Před rokem

      @@sandralantau7395 lol what? is there a person alive who has never seen a visible minority on screen?
      The 'best' actor would be whoever the casting director deems to have bested the audition. The point is, you take the most talented for the role. period. race shouldnt matter. u need someone who can deliver emotion and portray the role with depth and in a convincing way.

    • @cutiepiemania45
      @cutiepiemania45 Před rokem +1

      @@rjf7023 You're casting an idealistic view and assuming that people are placed by meritocracy. What Sandra was alluding to is that if the best actors had been cast then we wouldn't have had and continue have white leads as the leads in the majority of movies in a country that multi racial and multicultural.
      Being intentional about casting non-white actors is not divergent from casting the best actor.

    • @rjf7023
      @rjf7023 Před rokem

      @@cutiepiemania45 I think this is some-what true. There are horrible casting decisions where you see the lead role given to a white male who isnt right for the role or is just a bad actor in general. This is wrong as well. Again, the best person for the job should get it! regardless of race. And this goes both ways... when its a visible minority who gets snubbed, that's wrong as well, however i dont want to see a role given to a visible minority just because they're a minority when they're not the best choice.