Chef Aviyah "Modern Women Don't Want To Be Submissive To A Man Or Corrected By A Man" Pt.3
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Being submissive does not mean allowing someone to walk all over you. It means to know your place and allow the flow. Men. Have their place and women have their place and when everyone takes their place things get done. Bills are paid, children are raised. Respect is taught. The house is cleaned. There is not caous. There is a compromise but done with respect and there is a give and take.
What are their roles? What exactly is the role of the woman and what exactly is the role of the man...i think in these times too often we incorporate yurugu's cultural roles of both women and men! The roles of men and women in Afrikan cultural paradigms are not the same as those in yurugu's.
Amen.
@@leobvenzen8565if you believe in God pray to him and he'll give you the answer. Men and women have a unique role in society and there is a reason why it takes a man and a woman to produce a child and raise them together. It's all about order / God is about order.
@@leobvenzen8565 It is easy to know each others role. There is no submission to the one who is not submissive to the Almighty. And the Almighty has not created the male like the female except in how they come into the world. And the male has one degree over the female in that he is the provider and maintainer of the female. Men and Women are born when they both have submitted to the origins of their creation.
You can tell she actually living what she say. The glow from the inside is showing. Confident and Conscious ❤
Yes she is, but that is NOT Rastafari, that is Christianity!!! Rastafari is not about being submissive to a man? It's being in perfect balance with a man. That's why Zion has not appeared yet, & it will never appear, cos a lot of Rastafarians are moving like Christians, yet bawling out Selassie I?? Men & Women are equal in Rastafari, one masculine, one feminine..
This sister is on point imagine what our communities would look like if we had more sisters with her mindset.
IT'S PLENTY OF WOMEN LIKE HER THEY JUST DON'T SHOW US....I DON'T WANT A WOMAN THAT IS SUBJECT TO ME OR FEAR ME , JUST TO RESPECT US AS MAN AND WOMAN AS A UNIT, THE MODERN WOMAN BEHAVIOR IS AS SUCH BECAUSE OF MALE SUPREMACISTS, AND NARCISSIST, THAT'S WHY THEY BEHAVE LIKE THEY DO, I HATE MALE SUPREMACISTS TOO, IT ALL STEMS FROM RELIGION DOGMA, PERIOD POINT BLANK....
Yeah sisters like her stay out of the ghetto mindset and focus on their work and their family.
NO. You have it backwards. Are men the leaders of the community? If you believe YES then the men are the ones to structure the order of the community and IF we had more men who are LEADERS and not subjugated to white men who have taken your women and placed them above you socioeconomically you will see a radical shift.
Black man is GOD. I grew up with my father he raised me to be independent and to be a GODDESS that can only dwell among GODS. My father was born in the Caribbean where they still have some ancient African traditions in tact hence me having an active father who raised me showing me how to only deal with high frequency men - unfortunately the US had emasculated many of our men and incarcerated many of the GODS leaving our community ran with weak men who complain without building a thing. In our community it is mostly women building at this point because the men are missing - you gotta take care of your true enemy and free YOUR WOMEN and CHILDREN.
I was taught to be wise as a serpent and harmless as a Dove ❤ in the absence of men women have always risen to the occasion to care for the community- WE NEED OUR GODS BACK! We are waiting for all of you to save US!
@@hoodhippychick NO NO NO SWEETIE I FEEL YU YO, BUT YU AS A GODDESS 👑 CAN SAVE YU, WHO TAUGHT YU TO WAIT ON A SAVIOUR, YU MIGHT AS WELL BE WAITING ON THE GREEKOROMAN FAIRYTALE GOD TO COME WHO BY THE WAY HAS BEEN COMING FOR 2000 YEARS AND NEVER GOT HERE AND NEVER WILL, I FEEL MOST OF WHAT YU SAY , BUT SWEETIE YU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN SAVE YU, POPS DIDN'T TELL YU THAT...???
@@jennaywilliams7664 YO WHAT IS THE GHETTO MIND ,...YU MEAN THE INDOCUNATED MIND PROGRAMMING, BECAUSE GHETTO IS SOMETHING THAT CAN BE USED FOR THE PRO AND THE CON ....SEE HOW YU BEEN PROGRAMED TO THINK GHETTO IS NEGATIVE...... THINK BEFORE YU SPEAK YO , IT'S NOT ILLEGAL YET....
When she says submissive she is talking about embodying the ancient art of being a sacred / divine women which is to embody "You catch more with honey than vinegar" or "the smartest person in the room isn't the loudest". We need to embody and integrate our African ancient feminine goddess archetypes of Oshun, Yemaya, Oya, and Maat. The same way we switch up our tone at work and "codeswitch" women for centuries knows how to "codeswitch" and speak softly and coy whereas in other environments direct & uncompromising. Women are mercurial by nature due to our menstrual cycle which reflects the ocean & moon its all about knowing thyself and your ancient culture.
I read your comment and I agree with it on the most part...
These issues we are facing among black people in particular is a new phenomenon. People like to point at slavery as the source of our modern day situation. Nothing is further from the truth.
The enemy is successful in manipulating and falsifying the narrative and to our detriment, we are gullible enough to believe and accept it as fact instead of relying and practicing the truth pass down from our ancestry. No one is to blame but us for our present state of affairs.
This woman is gold!
Yes,she is ....!!!!...She is absolutely unequivocally Beautiful and Gorgeous
gold and glowing!
As a community it time we stop pointing at each other. We need interviews that address men and women flaws. We need MEN to understand their own flaws as well as WOMEN. There is a cause and effect in our community. A lot of men have let women down that women are now hyper independent and do not trust. Women are the only ones being called out.
u pointing fingers now. truth is everyone needs to come together n' evolve. as human we make mistakes but as people we can overcome them. stay blessed 🙏🏽
Exactly and we stop speaking about how the devil (you know who) is incarcerating our GODS and is the true enemy of our men who need to focus all of their energy on protecting us and the children not turning on us to tell us how we need to be more feminine- WE CANNOT with bombs being dropped on us EVERY DAY! Psy op bombs to divide us. Instead of worrying about a high value woman or man where’s our high value communities??!!! A young woman was just shot in the chest a few days ago in NYC because she told a guy NO - a perfect stranger at a bodega she politely declined his advances and he shot her and her sister one dead and one in ICU. Where is the accountability in our community? Where are the other men to protect us? To tell other men this is not the way you conduct yourself! Women are not safe in these communities to walk around all feminine - it can literally get you KILLED!
Word.
@@2facesayz I point fingers to some men because the video is about submission and no opposition view of cause and effect. Highlighting a root causes on why most women are refusing submission and call out a male flaw on why it is happening.
@@Vivi-vu5vt❤❤❤
The women in my family HATE that I let my man make decisions for our household. They see it as me letting him treat the family any kind of way, only the women. I just finally started keeping them in arms distance, they all single, multiple baby daddies, or gay. I been saying for the longest its as if they hate men and listening to them.
@Kyraaaaa344 Loved this comment because it totally relates to me too. Stay strong and much love and happiness to you too 🙏🏾💜
Hello sister. Out of interest.
Which country are you in
United States
@@kyraaaaa344 thank you.
Good afternoon.
Question… in regards to your husband making the decision, does he welcome your input as well or does he make the decision without your input?
"If you submit to your nature "...💯
Yeaaa that’s THE 1 frfr!
As a brown man born in india adapting to western culture. This was encouraging to hear from another sister. I definitely feel like the polarity must be set before marriage so that you have a smooth ride afterwards
No make up. No cumbrellas. Hair covered. And everything shes saying is on point . Soul on point. Progatulations sist.
She’s gorgeous😊
My DAD passed when I was five , growing up without him tore me apart. Because my mother told me I was DADDY girl. But I don’t remember my interaction with him at that age. I made so many mistakes in dating. I was not secure in my self, a father is the fist man that the daughter will love his guidance is everything. But now i understand I have a Heavenly Father. That’s been there from the beginning. That understanding has fulfilled the void
I had a father until I was 18 and still messed up. He was a good father too, and we were quite close
Great
That is IF he is a good father.
You sounds like you still lost without a farther
Since the structure of a solid family has been broken! Through drugs addiction & incarceration & financial hardships! Women have to wear the pants to protect & raise the family … these men don’t know a father figure so how can they be the HEAD of the household. Let’s continue to educate & change the narrative in order to secure a solid future amongst our people ! We’re stronger together 🤞🏾
False. Most of them choose to “wear the pants”. It has nothin to do with “financial hardships”. 3 generations ago they had way less resources than we have now and black couples were at an all time high and they stayed together. The main issue is that the ideology of the so called modern day woman has changed.. mostly by manipulation from the white man via divide and conquer tactics such as beauty standards, welfare programs and government housing etc…
But that’s not all men. Why can’t yall(the one that talk like you) find the good men? They are out there. Just like there’s some good black women out there. It’s easy to blame the other sex because it takes accountability off one’s self.
57% of Black men are middle class or above. Why don't you get one of THOSE? You heard the woman say Black women say they don't need a man, and that they are "independent." So they just have sex and choose to be single mothers. That is the biggest problem. 70% of marriages are initiated by women. 90% among educated women. But you want to blame it on the man. Look in the mirror
@@615skyferrari5perfectly said!
@@615skyferrari5 unfortunately it’s too many of our men and that’s by design. Too many of the great ones are incarcerated and this is on purpose. I have a great partner yet I have so much to do because he only knows how to make money - he is emotionally and spiritually challenged and instead of me throwing this relationship away. I will do my best to inspire him to have a relationship with God and to know that despite making a great salary the next step is entrepreneurship! Take back what’s yours and let’s go get it! It’s not easy dealing with someone who doesn’t know how to emotionally connect but us women must do our part and realize our men need HEALING! ❤️🩹
MORE OF THIS WOMAN....PLEASE AND THANK YOU 😊
Good to hear this level of consciousness from this Sistren. Refreshing ☀️
She's so amazing to me. Hearing her speak on balance is so necessary. She's right.💯
What a BEAUTIFUL woman !!! 😍😍😍
The idols of feminism, "the strong Black woman" and "Black girl magic" have to be torn down.
I'm so grateful to have had a strong father. He used every opportunity to pour into me so many nuggets.
Them hit dogs hollering in the comments..😂
How can both situation coexist..a first problem there are men that are NOT qualified to have a submissive woman..young women are being brought up to have total independence...an education..a job..her own money and how to navigate the world..and still be in the role of homemaker and bearing children... relationships only work when the BEST idea are allowed to flourish.
Key work “BEST IDEA” that is not gender based!
@@ashleyw9852 Always told my daughter to get a husband..These bitter women that made bad decisions for their lives.." you don't need no man..be Eeen dependent". Still with their sorry man tho.
Black men must resume positions in this world for our women to look up to as leaders rather than wanting our egos stroked.
Dig this; when she mentions submission she doesn't mean bowing and worshiping a man etc or being weak. This submission also applies to men as well-submitting all that is good for each other. You can't get this without a personal audit of your behaviours, self reflection and honesty.
I need 24/7 protection for this woman. And make sure she flies private every time she needs ro leave the country. She's a QUEEN 👑!
*Some times we just need to listen to the whole matter of the thing before commenting. Shalam, Chef!*
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What's a good father? We need a video on what are the qualities of a good father.
Probably if you are being genuine. I am so fortunate and blessed to have experienced my whole life what a great father is. I wish and hope that we can begin to heal and recuperate from white supremacy and the internalization of its poison🙏🏾
THIS.
Wow much needed build for our community 👏🏾☝🏾✊🏾🙏🏾⚖😎
Easily lead in the wrong direction (city girls) hard to lead in the right direction (Proverb 31 woman) - 5% Nation Logic
Many Women have either experienced or witnessed a woman close to them being traumatized and abandoned, so to ask for outright submission without qualification is shortsighted. When a woman feels safe, protected, and loved, she will naturally be submissive. Many women who say "I don't need a man" are really saying I don't need the abuse and misuse, that is what most mean. There is healing that needs to take place in both women and men. My father taught mi never to submit to an unqualified man as that could lead to my destruction.
The word “submissive “ is being thrown around these days without proper context and a lot of men thinks it only applies to women! Men nowadays are quick to point out that modern day women are out of their natural order when truth is , both men and women have strayed away from their natural order.
Thank you. Fathers aren’t telling there daughters to submit to unless your a qualified candidate.
Thank you for saying this. I watched my mother be submissive. She allowed my stepfather to lead our household and we suffered for it. Daily emotional, mental and verbal abuse. My mother bringing me the phone at night because my stepdad seemed to be in the mood to beat her again. Constantly walking on egg shells. Fear. Yes we had structure, yes we had routine, out of fear. Now, I feel like I should dominate my household because I refuse to allow a man to call me or my daughters bitches and whores. I refuse to allow a man to beat my children just because he has to make sure everyone is beneath him. If more men knew how to lead there would be more women willing to be led. What are we to do? How can we trust men to have our best interests in mind?
Well this lady clearly said that women tend to raise emotional men if they're single so if you are dating a guy who has emotional tendancies you shouldn't never give that person a chance to begin with. That man will most likely be abusive, indecisive etc. I'm sure she's talking about submitting to a man who is in his right mind who can lead you to the right direction and not astray. But if women constantly keep making children out of wedlock without a healthy two parent household this is what you're going to get in the dating market and it's sad.
Protect this woman at all costs I’m so serious
Modern woman here, am working on ascension aka ascending from 3D to 5D in this Aquarius age and if u are in a relationship that two are not compatible, ain't no way your DNA can shift, it's better to be single as Dr. Delbert Blair said, when it's time for mothership to land, u don't got time to focus on someone's mess because it only keeps u left behind due to low vibration.. Anyone in question, go watch "Go watch the return of the black Cosmic/Kazimik forces" then u know that women are spiritually ascending while our men are devolving, but mother Earth is going to use women to balance out the patriarchy laws and chaos males have created. When modern women don't want to listen, because these women use both of their right and left brain, it's males who only use only one side of their left brain. There ya go😂
I agree it's better to be alone than to lower your own vibration. It's better to be single than to live on a frequency that is not conducive to your own being. I don't understand why women are submitting to anyone that's low vibrational, oppressive, or who can barely lead themselves...oh that's right they're not.
If he submit to God and if he knows who God created him to be and be the man in the house then ok , he suppose to be the head of the woman and Christ the head of him , there is two part to every story, if a man don’t work he mustn’t eat , if a man do not take care of his family he is worse than an infidel , this is written, a man must know his duty just as a woman must know her duties!!!
BlessUp!!!
Exactly
Greetings my sister. I hope more women and men take a minute and look at your videos well spoken preaching the truth my sister I can go on and on blessings to you my sister.
Jewels, Rasta! Jewels!
HEalthy REalization
Is that both partners have to be mature☝🏿☝🏿
No woman should submit to an Immature man that knows not how To LEAD💥💥💥💥....there r many 😪😵
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This Sister is loaded ...thank you for trying to bring order in the African Family Ma ... Lots of the miseducation is coming from the pressure of social media lifestyles and trends
Sending Love from Cameroon Central Africa
Most women only realize this when they are past their prime and old and lonely they question why no man never wanted to commit to them
Facts.
This lady is BEAUTIFUL!
Speak Queen. All mighty God knows these words are truth. Bless You
Beautiful, true❤
I agree with her 💯💯💯💪🏾shoutout 2 this woman 💯💯💯🎁
So refreshing
Very Smart woman
She’s got insights…a certain glow.
She’s a beacon of knowledge !
I love that…when a lion is roaring be quite.
deep. resonates🧚🏼🦁🔱
Good word !!
Great point empress Aviyah we lack guidance moving forward in this evolution❤
Talk HEAVY✊🏿👁Ms. Aviyah
Laziness can't be directed to all of us. People/ females do try and still are trying. Especially if health is the issue.
Yes, because some men absolutely negatively affect women and cause them to change their perspective.
This sister understands Salute!
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Gold gold gold here. Thank you for speaking Truth. The divide is hurtful to watch
Bless n love❤hst a powerful piece... this sista words of wisdom needs to be heard everyone in our homes....beautiful inside and out....nice teeth too lol...give thanx
For real Bless
Good talk.
Her natural reaction to him saying Male and Female told me enough of her spiritual journey. The term Male does not speak of MEN, the term Female does not speak for WOMEN. A female can be anything and a male can be anything we are hire beings of character and morals, proper leadership is being the balance needed for progression of our family. Sheesh her demeanor is so dope in this specific interview to me wow.
Thanks for this truth goddess, intelligence and beauty is one great combination🧚🏿
She should put this in a hardback book💯
The father is the head off the home to guide his children in the correct way…. A husband is not a father to his wife and most men use up the authority of a father or a dad they use the word submissive which I don’t think should be in the scripture. A man is to love his wife not make decisions for her he makes decisions for the children him and his wife together… Husband and wife should love and respect each other be there for each other. Yes there is order The Heavenly Father his son man woman children. A woman should not have to get permission from her husband he is not her DAD….. Having respect for each other goes a long way not being dominant .
Well said
Exactly many has taken this "God" complex of man is God to the head,
God rain & give answers to both women & men!!
You say to take that scripture out 🤦🏾♂️ the lord said “if you take anything out in this book then I will take your name out of the book of life”. If you can’t submit to your husband then how can you submit to the lord in the kingdom?
The problem is... Submit to who? Have you seen the state of men?
I agree with her 100%❤
Most black women are not single by choice. Many different factors play a role in women being independent. Most of those factors she did not discuss in this interview. If this woman hasn't had a family of her own yet, she is not qualified to speak..
Yes there are other issues women are single , I agree but i think " a lack of knowing who one is and knowing the wonderful feminine energy and power a woman possess. Scoial concepts norms and so call way of life has affect, programed and misguided both men and women how we should live. Music , the food, entertainment etc all shape our perceptions but we must return truth. She may not have a family of her own however she is conscious to identify the characters and actions issues thats needs to address to attain her desire as it relates to building a great relationship and family going forward. Also as she has highlighted the perception of submission has been misunderstood.
Thank you 🙏🏾. Girl address things in depth. Call men out on their bull . Some of them impregnate women and leave without a care even if it was a long term relationship. Some women hold men down during hardship and they leave when things get good. Women get blamed for everything that’s wrong in our community. Now women are demanding that men step financially the least and thats a problem. So women should put boundaries in place to avoid struggling.
Who is qualified? You who she’s describing
@@trueculture958 ❤❤❤❤
African American women always have an excuse.
Submit to soneone broken? Whole men are missing in OUR society. We need to be more open to all types of Whole Men to balance the numbers.❤
I have no issues being submissive. I continuously find men that aren't fit to lead. I'm out here in the dark waiting for that man, my fault, my choices!
Respect. Accountability
The connotation of the word submissive is closely linked to the connotation of weak and inferior; and despite that submissive can also mean just letting someone else lead I don't think many people will ever accept a word that can be so associated with weakness, inferiority, and oppression. It sounds miserable especially to a nation of people who were submissive to white supremacist for so long ... I think the word RESPECT captures everything that people mean when they say women should be submissive, but its also a word that others can easily accept. Essentially, men are asking for their manhood and contribution to the family to be respected - one of those contributions being a certain form of leadership that many have lost respect for. On the other hand, you cannot ask woman to respect you as a man if you do not respect her as a woman.
A lot of Rasta's are Christians with head wraps on. Being submissive to a man is NOT Rastafari!!! The man is supposed to seek balance with the woman. Man is God in the house & Woman is Goddess in the house.. When people keep making one sex superior over the other, please STOP saying Ras Tafari..
A lot of Rastafarian men, know Ras Tafari did not behave heavy handedly when it came to women. If a man leads with Ras Tafari energy, there would be no need to submit, as he will bring forth his masculine principle & the woman will bring forth her feminine principles, & there would be no crossing each other.
The problem comes when Rastafarian men want to be Christian too, & want to be head of the household.. That title is NOT part of Rastafari, the man is supposed to be able to bring about balance with the woman & vicea versa.
This is the comment I was looking for!! The scripture that talks about “a man being the head of the household” has been misleading men for centuries and have them believing they’re superior to women and women were created to submit to them 🤦🏾♀️ makes sense thou, all the Abrahamic religions , Christianity included are patriarchal religions.
See it yah...ultimately it's about working together.
@@Kf2345 Exactly, & Rastafari is Matriarchy, so it will never work. Balance creates Zion on earth, yet Zion can't happen because theres always someone thinking they know better than the Emperor!!! Europeans created their "Man's World" on Mother earth & Mother nature, how does that even make sense? & what has that got to do with Rastafari??
Basically, they want to wrap up their head & say Rastafari, yet they don't ever want to live in Zion!!! As every day someone is gonna come & say something, to make sure there is NEVER any balance!!! Then the first thing out their mouth is, Selassie I the 1st? Why?? Is it hard for a man to be masculine & a woman to be feminine?? Selassie is the guide for men & Menen is the guide for women?? How hard is that?
PS: Bob Marley was NEVER the guide, he was a popular singer, that spread the name Rastafari & love, to every part of the earth. Rita continued his work & kept Bob & herself current. Rita has kept Bob's songs & messages up to date!!! When people are talking about men & women roles in Rastafari, they need to make reference to Selassie or Menen only, no-one else!!! For those who want to be superior over women, or superior over men, they need to leave Rastafari!!! 🌹💛💚🖤👑👑
38: I praise the Goddess and the God, (42 Ideals of Ma'at).. It was always about balance & Ras Tafari is still in line with Ma'at too.
I love this woman!!!! I am attracted to her not necessarily physically but energetically. She's in her devine femininity and how she speaks the truth is beautiful.
With submission comes trust. Never trust or submit to an irresponsible person or someone that you are not married to or does not know how to lead.
"👉🏾1 OF THE BIGGEST REASONS WHY 90% OF THESE FEMALES ARE LOST AND ALWAYS ON TO THE NEXT DUDE WITHIN JUST A FEW DAYS... SOME, "👉🏾WITHIN ONLY HOURS SMH!!!😮💨
It hurts me to hear this cause i saw it from my mother, then sisters, then neices...i hope and pray for the cycles to be broken
BIG UP SISTA, SHES THE TRUTH THATS IT THATS ALL
Man! ❤
She is 100% correct......and slavery played a big part in the destruction of the black family
Asé ooooo
If a lion is roaring you have to be quiet. If you roar back to a lion imagine the outcome.
She so pretty if my daughters act like this I know I won Fr
Can somebody please explain to me what is a mentally abusive man. Women are divorcing more and more because of this. To me, it means that she's not getting what she wants. It's all about the dollar. Facts
Mr Host ! Why is your voice so so low ? 😮
If I met a woman like this in my 20s I would married with kids already. These 304s driving value down
I’ve heard some black women say they got their masculine traits from their father, because of how he raised them.
Only to your Husband’s or a GOD fearing Father...
I feel seen
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Submit to your nature that was powerful im riding with that
Modern women don’t like men in general. 😂 I’m glad I have a woman who had a father and I treat her good. I love my African lady.
See and I’m sooooo black love. I mean love is love. Love who you want, be with who you want to be with. I aspire to have, marry, have my children by a black woman as a black man. Society now man…not all but a good chunk of these new modern women don’t want to grow, build, with a man. You already have to have “the bag” sistas feel like they don’t need a man. Hot girl summer, I’m doing me, I’m not submitting to no man. This is why I see almost all my brothers have Hispanic wives, children by them etc. they’re great supporters, hold them down so they have the children. I want a woman as I see my mother but it’s hard out here and the woman currently holding me down through my good bad and ugly is a Hispanic woman. I pray times will change but I’m not sure.
So are women children or adults
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> 2:02
Interviewer using female instead of woman while talking about respect is rich
It’s a matter of choice. Yahweh gave us all choice. In his choosing he raised up a people to BE able to accountable for their choices. When a man leaves his parents home, being taught in the ways he should go by the man(Ish) and nurtured by a woman(Isha) is a balanced choice to cleave to a woman and become one(achad).
Yahweh as father, created male and female and choosen call is his children. First thing Father who is spirit and truth walked along side us, show how to obey & listen taught how man to not faint but pray(palal) communicate with Father for daily direction provide protect and love his wife. Not provoke his children. The man loving his wife helps her to love & care for her family, be submissive; respect, honor and know her value. Children(stop calling your children kids- not baby goats or guys-not fools. Words have power) are to honor their parents for their LiFE to be long.
The family unit in submissiveness is to listen & obey(Shema) Yahweh. Folks do ask why the woman was given the responsibility to be submissive. Well, she is wisdom in the family unit, wise as a serpent discerningly observant to know when her husband need a loving ear or strong shoulder or warm touch/embrace and not a combative loud-mouth disrespectful woman.
Her tongue like a double edged sword can destroy a man’s spirit thus must be seasoned with softness & stern words. She also must be calm as a dove, for the stages of Life that herself and children will progress-childbearing toddler child teenager young adult as she herself grow & go thru adulthood motherhood menopause & aging.
In her calmness(which is not weakness or lost of her identity) but a meek humble intention when to let stuff go and when to let go.
submissive to husband is not a power struggle but in powerful role as wife & mother, she can rely on her Ish to not faint but 🤲 pray to Father Yah for the strength and answers and BE secure as the bone of my bone, the wholesomeness of the Yahweh’s Family.
If we look at it on a Level 🆙, Yah calls his family who he choose his Bride. Therefore, his bride need to be submissive:wise caring loving respectful discerning of words, and calm.
So, question is, can a woman who is not submissive to her husband on earth be submissive to her husband in heaven?
We are family❤
Selah.
Shes incredibly magnificent beautifully
Honestly, I like most of her teachings but when it comes to a woman not wanting to be submissive, some of these men wanna act like a wolf in sheep clothing say they following the most high but cheating and I can’t condone that behavior, cheating does not make you a man in the household and I’m at a point where there is a most high but it’s also mother and father god and goddess so if a man will not rise to the occasion, I’m not going to follow his head don’t care how good he is of a father, I’m not going to stand by and allow infidelity. Understood she did not speak on that topic but this entire thing about women being independent has gotten men upset and they continue to say women can’t lead, but how y’all leading us by cheating? I feel like it’s nothing wrong with women celebrating their independence because for years now, they’ve had us behind hidden, when these priest out here raping little boys and praying to the black goddess in privacy. They don’t tell you about that now. Lot of women was very insecure and they need to find their power back as for black men, stop cheating all I gotta say, it’s ruining black families. Kids everywhere from outside and women just want to normalize it. It’s a curse from our generation, it has to stop.
Do you two feel that the damage within the black family derived from the slave era? I feel that that era punked both the male and female in our culture
Watching the man get emasculated via the masters hand has left the woman feeling a void that society over time has perpetuated that within the community. This sister has spoken what I had to admit to coming from a family where there were no men visible including the seed I came from...
One hundred and seventy year was a long time ago. Let it go you are not those people.
That may have something to do with it. To what degree I don’t know.
I noticed that when it comes to fighting for justice it’s always lead by the woman. It’s as if the women have more guts than the men. Why is it most fighting are lead by the women and not them men? I hate to say it but it looks like most black men are just cowards. Then some people are saying they are building things correctly. How? Most Black Men can’t even fight for justice!
No because after slavery ended black men and women were the most married demographic in the country. What we see now is moreso a result of what’s happened since feminism and social welfare programs
So sorry that my thoughts are bothersome to you, whoever you are. Grow up and if you don't like something more around it. Blessings ~
@@mildredbethea613 thank you
I enjoyed this word, but the men in the black community have not been standing up since the sixties
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All women or Black women?
Modern women give way to the fall of family and society 🎉
What about men that have a hard time accepting ambitious women? Most modern day men become intimidated by successful women.
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Exactly. I find it interesting that a lot of these CZcamsrs always talking about the flaws of the modern woman but not on the modern man. I guess the modern man has no flaws.
its not neccesary intimidation but indifference. A career woman developes masculine traits which is unatractive to most men just as a man with very strong feminine traits is not attractive to most women. I have been around the world and I can say that this tendency is a product of western culture and the US is the worst in this regard since it lacks some kind of cultural underground like most other nations have.
@@goldbluetears well a lot of black men in particular isn’t really reliable for women not to prioritize their careers in order to rest in their femininity.
@@LADYG-gl1jx absolutely understandable. Its not really the fault of women, its a problem of our times and current form of civilization.
I’m so happy I see pushback in this comment section because some of the things she is saying is off 💪🏾
This lady is crazy
I would say she's off base. She seems to be using red pill talking points to make her point, but the reality of the situation is, independent women are made by absent men. Also, nobody should accept struggle love as the norm. Chattal slavery is long gone.