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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
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    edited by Jacob Skoda
    00:00:00 Intro
    00:01:33 Dan Gonzalez (Father)
    00:02:48 Air BnB Shenanigans
    00:06:04 The Best Parenting Advice
    00:10:36 lottery
    00:18:14 Fraud, Gary V
    00:19:45 VidCon
    00:22:52 1(800)-GRANDMA
    00:25:36 Ruthkanda
    00:27:34 RIP Liz
    00:29:46 Marathon
    00:33:56 Itchy Feet
    00:37:23 The Ultimate Survival Show
    00:42:06 Food is Fuel, Donut is Bae
    00:45:10 GameBoyz
    00:50:33 It's okay to be bad at things
    01:03:43 Danny's Dad Name

Komentáře • 1K

  • @FranknKitty
    @FranknKitty Před rokem +7585

    glad to know that danny is sticking to that virgin to life thing despite being a father

  • @rebelsleighter
    @rebelsleighter Před rokem +8835

    went from rating dads in the subreddit to actually being a dad

  • @aaronlovesfrogs
    @aaronlovesfrogs Před rokem +4719

    i love danny’s habit of waiting to be on podcasts to tell crazy stories

    • @glowvxn
      @glowvxn Před rokem +174

      somehow this one topped the tragedy of the spider

    • @mollyk3768
      @mollyk3768 Před rokem +114

      ⁠@@glowvxnnothing can top the tragedy of the spider

    • @uhronnie
      @uhronnie Před rokem +10

      ​@@mollyk3768amen

    • @skizzpulse
      @skizzpulse Před rokem +6

      I swear Danny is on every channel I go to

  • @roguestowl2280
    @roguestowl2280 Před rokem +5850

    I’m absolutely throwing a podcast themed party where the boys and I get together to talk about our feelings into fake microphones.

    • @moonriverinc7896
      @moonriverinc7896 Před rokem +226

      whoever's holding the mic has to talk about their feelings to the circle and then pass it to a person of their choosing

    • @adrenalineactivate
      @adrenalineactivate Před rokem +36

      ​@@moonriverinc7896your gonna see how the friend group just decide to never pass to that one person and just pass among each other as a joke 😂
      Yeah they'll definitely not gonna lend me the mic just cause I'm gonna be the one who want to talk the most

    • @CreativeC13
      @CreativeC13 Před rokem +8

      Honestly would be a fun theme

    • @nah4437
      @nah4437 Před rokem +28

      @@moonriverinc7896 whoever doesn’t have the mic has to use a soundboard to help with the narration

    • @seroquelchamber
      @seroquelchamber Před rokem +10

      you mean group therapy

  • @lq0204
    @lq0204 Před rokem +2754

    i love how all commentary youtubers have the same sarcastic and clueless humor so when they get together it’s just chaos

    • @mollysockmonkey
      @mollysockmonkey Před rokem +220

      omg exactly. their ability to always commit to a bit automatically is so funny

    • @lq0204
      @lq0204 Před rokem +21

      @@mollysockmonkey literally

    • @syra1541
      @syra1541 Před rokem +6

      ​@@mollysockmonkeyfrrr

    • @_JustJoe
      @_JustJoe Před 11 měsíci +2

      Fr

  • @harper8842
    @harper8842 Před rokem +1362

    the mental image of kurtis and jenna at the end of dannys bed grinning and giggling hysterically while tickling his feet with feathers is gonna keep me up at night

  • @bump0005
    @bump0005 Před rokem +2106

    Love Jordan sagely nodding while Jarvis explains how the lottery works in the US as if it doesn’t work exactly like that in the UK too 😭

  • @LinhNguyen-ui8rq
    @LinhNguyen-ui8rq Před rokem +3818

    So nice to see sad boyz welcoming small creators and even local fathers onto the podcast. ☺️Much love to that man’s growing family❤️

    • @Jpeg.g
      @Jpeg.g Před rokem +30

      Ik this was a joke but out of curiosity danny is 47 times larger than sad boyz lol

    • @Avery_0nline
      @Avery_0nline Před rokem +2

      he's actually pretty funny! He should start his own CZcams channel

    • @link12click
      @link12click Před rokem +10

      @@Jpeg.gnuh uh

    • @donaldfromtiktok6424
      @donaldfromtiktok6424 Před rokem +8

      @@Jpeg.gwas that a question?

    • @_JustJoe
      @_JustJoe Před 11 měsíci +10

      ​@@donaldfromtiktok6424 I think they used the wrong phrasing, they're saying "if anyone is curious" lol

  • @rue353
    @rue353 Před rokem +2720

    danny always has the craziest stories, he's the perfect podcast guest

    • @NiamhMori
      @NiamhMori Před rokem +163

      He’s collecting the lore before he becomes a dad

    • @mp5enthusiast
      @mp5enthusiast Před rokem +10

      Podcast?

    • @rue353
      @rue353 Před rokem +9

      @@mp5enthusiast this is a podcast

    • @mp5enthusiast
      @mp5enthusiast Před rokem +51

      @@rue353 thought this was just a couple of bros hanging out?

    • @rue353
      @rue353 Před rokem +24

      @@mp5enthusiast just bros being dudes

  • @Jules.69
    @Jules.69 Před rokem +227

    How fast danny changes the subject once his Speedrun comes up makes so much sense now 😭😭😭😭

  • @hms21793
    @hms21793 Před rokem +625

    Jordan: I’m gonna give your kids menthol cigarettes
    Jarvis, unphased: okay.🙄

    • @cooldude42187
      @cooldude42187 Před rokem +6

      I read your comment

    • @Lazy_.Lavender
      @Lazy_.Lavender Před rokem +11

      @@cooldude42187wow

    • @teasecondaccount
      @teasecondaccount Před rokem +37

      Jarvis doesn’t care as long as the child doesn’t take his precious breast milk

    • @elizabethb4168
      @elizabethb4168 Před rokem +3

      ​@@teasecondaccountI understood that reference

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona Před rokem +11

      @@teasecondaccount for one beautiful second I was almost able to forget 🥲

  • @hms21793
    @hms21793 Před rokem +1377

    Danny having itchy feet at Kurtis and and Jenna’s house and making sure everyone knows is so funny to me

    • @Lazy_.Lavender
      @Lazy_.Lavender Před rokem +7

      What 💀💀💀

    • @spacegay6030
      @spacegay6030 Před rokem +25

      @@Lazy_.Lavender They said in the video that Danny kept telling people his feet were itchy, his need to let everyone in his proximity know this fact is funny

  • @jillianyourdreams
    @jillianyourdreams Před rokem +611

    jordan holds the mic with such grace

  • @annafoglesong1419
    @annafoglesong1419 Před rokem +211

    The sad boys did not react well enough to Danny’s lottery story. That was so bananas and they hardly batted an eye

  • @_Chelli_
    @_Chelli_ Před rokem +1940

    Danny’s really sounding like me right before my autism diagnosis, lol. “Does anyone else script social interactions?” “I’m not really expressive with my face.” “I find it difficult to direct conversations.”

    • @evilmikuplushie4603
      @evilmikuplushie4603 Před rokem +61

      hahaha right? me too.

    • @soupmix211
      @soupmix211 Před rokem +26

      I do that too

    • @haniyaa5117
      @haniyaa5117 Před rokem +47

      As an autistic? I second this

    • @Metalsonicmaster2000
      @Metalsonicmaster2000 Před rokem +58

      Huh... I've not been diagnosed with autism but after reading this, maybe I should be

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND Před rokem +179

      These are also sometimes ADHD symptoms. Like needing a script
      Iirc he has mentioned having an ADHD diagnosis? Don't quote me on that

  • @N0T_MY_N4M3
    @N0T_MY_N4M3 Před rokem +287

    the thought of Kurtis scurrying away after doing something mischievous is the funniest thing. also, congrats Danny! your gonna make such a good father to a brand new Greg

    • @mx.menacing
      @mx.menacing Před rokem +4

      Oh god it would be so funny if they named their kid Greg.

    • @N0T_MY_N4M3
      @N0T_MY_N4M3 Před rokem +6

      @@mx.menacing ikr! i commented on one of his videos saying that
      if it’s a boy: Greg
      if it’s a girl: Gregi (from him episode series)

    • @spacegay6030
      @spacegay6030 Před rokem +5

      Kurtist is just a little mischievious rat boy doing mischievious things

    • @N0T_MY_N4M3
      @N0T_MY_N4M3 Před rokem +2

      @@spacegay6030 indeed. you’ve seen his baddie snap videos. he’s a menace /j

  • @evanorodd.
    @evanorodd. Před rokem +979

    As an autistic adult, I can totally relate to the experience that is always being conscious of how you are "acting" in conversations and what I should be "doing better." It can be pretty fucking exhausting. Thankfully I feel like I'm learning to relax into socializing as an adult by realizing that the first thing that comes to my mind when I'm talking to somebody is probably what I should say!

    • @JhericFury
      @JhericFury Před rokem +45

      I had the same thing, but I spent a large amount of time learning to "translate" my brain into normal conversation, coming up with methods and stock questions. I think your way might be better, because now when I get tired or focused on something there is a noticeable change in how I communicate which can be confusing.
      Ain't brains fun?

    • @josefinarivia
      @josefinarivia Před rokem +46

      I always did the same due to my generalized anxiety disorder, I was incredibly aware of what I was doing and it was very exhausting
      after I learned how to manage my anxiety it's gotten better, but I still sometimes catch myself being hyper aware of how I'm acting.

    • @camille1324
      @camille1324 Před rokem +13

      Yeah esp what Jarvis was saying I was like… l’autismo??👀

    • @thedestroyasystem
      @thedestroyasystem Před rokem +23

      @@camille1324He has ADHD so similar enough lol

    • @alexisb3829
      @alexisb3829 Před rokem

      Same

  • @Nomaoregoodnames
    @Nomaoregoodnames Před rokem +111

    Danny casually lying through his teeth about speed running minecraft 😂

  • @amelia-dd6vz
    @amelia-dd6vz Před rokem +278

    bro the same people that ghosted danny when buying his house did it to my friend!!!! danny was telling this story and i was like … this story sounds very familiar lol. my friend was telling me a couple weeks ago about how she was trying to sell her house (also chicagoland) and she got an offer for all cash, they did all the paperwork, and then they ghosted her right before buying it!!! that is so crazy!

    • @soupeater
      @soupeater Před rokem +29

      thats so sketchy omg

    • @zoeb3573
      @zoeb3573 Před rokem +48

      What do they gain out of doing this? Info on the house? Info on the seller? It was cash so no bank information...

    • @amelia-dd6vz
      @amelia-dd6vz Před rokem +27

      @@zoeb3573 idk that’s the thing! danny sait it was for the thrill but i just think they’re weird people

    • @RealElongatedMuskrat
      @RealElongatedMuskrat Před rokem +14

      that's so weird and sinister omg I would be so spooked. Like to what end??? That's so much effort?? What a gross thing to do to someone, moving is so stressful and getting that far into the process just to have it fall through is so draining. What kick do you get from doing that to someone.

  • @cherryhaes
    @cherryhaes Před rokem +40

    I checked and "grandma" is the only word that can be made from that phone number. definitely a gilf hotline

    • @esobelisk3110
      @esobelisk3110 Před dnem

      it also spells iscodob, so there’s that

    • @avis_world
      @avis_world Před 18 hodinami

      I called it and its for fall alerts and medicare

  • @marsupialsofmars3886
    @marsupialsofmars3886 Před rokem +338

    As a fellow ADHD Jarvis talking about his experience with friendship is so true, I will not consider someone a friend until they directly tell me we are friends. Also yes, trying not to talk too much so you get full of things you want to say and you're trying not to forget them realize you're not paying attention

    • @gggthsb
      @gggthsb Před rokem +30

      I have a handwritten 'contract' signed by most of my friends stating that we are actually friends because one evening we all got drunk and I revealed to them that I don't consider someone a friend without them telling me because my default mode is thinking that people don't like me 😅 so they wrote and signed that for me while I was in the bathroom 😊 I laminated it and cherish it to this day ❤

    • @marsupialsofmars3886
      @marsupialsofmars3886 Před rokem +6

      @@gggthsb that is so precious oh my god

    • @sunken_lilies
      @sunken_lilies Před rokem +6

      you just made me realize i don’t know how many friends i have 💀💀
      i feel like for me each person i’m close with is just. them. and not a friend

    • @isbammoi3358
      @isbammoi3358 Před rokem

      @@sunken_lilies This is so real, me too

    • @juju-kn6rx
      @juju-kn6rx Před 7 měsíci +1

      that last part always happens to me during therapy 💀💀💀

  • @skraphashobbies
    @skraphashobbies Před rokem +360

    the chemistry between the 3 is amazing!! You can tell they’re really good friends!

  • @sporkspork8446
    @sporkspork8446 Před rokem +293

    my favorite thing that happens every single episode with guests is when they start like piling jokes on top of eachother and jordan always says a kindof strange joke that is really funny and it's like kindof awkward and then the joke is over. jordan always gets the last word and it is so funny to me

    • @zanakate7319
      @zanakate7319 Před rokem +26

      s2g it’s just bc he’s always the funniest n no one knows how to top it

    • @sourdough6653
      @sourdough6653 Před rokem +9

      Jordan is on another level

  • @evanitii
    @evanitii Před rokem +126

    'daddy gonzalez' gives a whole new meaning now

  • @eq4742
    @eq4742 Před rokem +223

    Sad Boyz? More like Dad Boyz

  • @PvtPuplovski
    @PvtPuplovski Před rokem +293

    Hey Danny, you can stay Danny as long as you want. My dads birth name is Danny (not Dan or Daniel) and just hit 50. It works in the Midwest when everyone says it nasally like “Deahnie” anyways. Congrats on fatherhood!

  • @vikkumari
    @vikkumari Před rokem +740

    Is Danny maybe allergic to something they use to clean the floors? Since it's just the feet. Also even if the detergent is neutral, doesn't men You can't be allergic. I've found plenty of gentle detergents that I've ended up being allergic to.

    • @StormSought
      @StormSought Před rokem +98

      That was my thought, it's the mop liquid, or the carpet cleaner

    • @josefinarivia
      @josefinarivia Před rokem +73

      yea it could be also contact dermatitis, not necessarily allergy related. I have that and you get eczema similar rashes or hives after being in contact with substances that irritate your skin. I have it against most skincare products and heavy detergents. Also, especially "gentle" ones cuz I have found I get dermatitis against fatty alcohols such as cetearyl, which commonly is known as a gentle ingredient.

    • @britneyricciardelli264
      @britneyricciardelli264 Před rokem +35

      The amount of things Danny has had an allergic reaction to I think he’s allergic to everything

    • @taylifts
      @taylifts Před rokem +31

      Sometimes the water in different states can irritate my skin after I shower so maybe it's that Canadian water lol

    • @justloadalready8839
      @justloadalready8839 Před rokem +14

      I was even thinking it could be a texture thing about their floors, or his running/moving making his blood pool or sit oddly in his feet during his time relaxing when he stays over somewhere, but if it happens only while there, idk. Odd textures for sensory stuff would be my initial guess

  • @laurenimhof2602
    @laurenimhof2602 Před rokem +84

    Fun fact! the first marathon from Ancient Greece was originally 25 miles and it was ran as such until much later in Britain. The royals wanted everyone to pass by them, but in order to do that the loop had to be extended to 26.2 miles! and for some reason it stuck so now its official 26.2 :)

  • @lindabcarpentersings
    @lindabcarpentersings Před rokem +27

    Knowing the context behind the Minecraft Speedruning is so funny now jdjdjd

  • @crstph
    @crstph Před rokem +79

    last weekend i met my friend’s grandpa who goes by “Tarzan” to his grandkids bc he didn’t want to be gramps 💀 he’s so silly tho it fits, and kids will just accept it lmao

    • @josefinarivia
      @josefinarivia Před rokem +4

      lmaooo sounds like a fun inside joke

    • @CreativeC13
      @CreativeC13 Před rokem +1

      @@josefinarivia that's adorable

    • @naia1362
      @naia1362 Před 6 měsíci +2

      That’s so cute😭

  • @noahsan92
    @noahsan92 Před rokem +93

    put a seatbelt on all the toilets in your house so when your kid uses the bathroom at school for the first time they'll be confused

    • @ecliiipsssse
      @ecliiipsssse Před rokem +14

      can't EVER bring them to a public bathroom till then

  • @kater4210
    @kater4210 Před rokem +79

    every liz truss joke jordan made going completely unnoticed somehow makes them even funnier

  • @gracie.elexis
    @gracie.elexis Před rokem +184

    Not even joking but I’m like 90% sure that the people Danny is talking about with the house thing did the same to my family because it’s literally the exact scenario

  • @sunnytheo
    @sunnytheo Před rokem +233

    I relate SO much to what Jarvis was saying about learning things in private to make it look like you were never bad at the thing! It’s taken me years and lots of unpacking in therapy but I’m finally where I can be bad at something in front of people and it’s not too big of a deal. We love growth!

    • @art-is-awen8842
      @art-is-awen8842 Před rokem +6

      ngl knowing people do that(it had never occurred to me) actually makes me feel a LOT better that I'm not immediately good at things

    • @gggthsb
      @gggthsb Před rokem +1

      Yeah I feel that too 😅

    • @spacegay6030
      @spacegay6030 Před rokem +6

      I still struggle with this! The main reason I've never properly learned to play the guitar is because I hate that I don't sound good yet and it makes me flustered when I have to sit with a teacher and fail at something I did practice over and over at home... (not to mention being afraid to ever let my mother hear me play because of trauma of not being good enough lmao but that's another story).

  • @hsmorg3640
    @hsmorg3640 Před rokem +171

    Your body getting use to the foods you eat is definitely a thing. That's why a lot of dieticians recommended easing off of your usual diet into a better one, because your body will hate you if you just dramatically change your diet one day

    • @MarkelleRayneeSheree
      @MarkelleRayneeSheree Před rokem +26

      This is so real. In college my body got so used to McDonald's and easy Mac and just cheap food in general and when I got a job and started having money and started cooking healthy food all of a sudden I was sick every day for like a month. It was like eating vegetables would make me sick but I coukd throw down a mcdouble and be fine. Definitely don't quit bad food cold turkey

    • @shanareilly6649
      @shanareilly6649 Před rokem

      This

  • @PossiblyAlena
    @PossiblyAlena Před rokem +109

    DANNY DIDN'T MENTION THE MOST INTERESTING THING ABOUT ALONE!! It's kind of in the name, but these people are ***fully*** alone. They film themselves, there is no camera crew. You don't just see the physical trials of surviving in the wilderness, you see them coping with complete isolation from all human interaction. It is such a fascinating and wildly discomforting thing to watch. The immense psychological challenges they have to face are what sets this show apart imo.

    • @jessmtnz
      @jessmtnz Před rokem +2

      FAVORITE SHOW EVER for this exact reason!

    • @bm8793
      @bm8793 Před rokem +2

      I love alone so much! Currently in season 5 the redemption season!

    • @dee8722
      @dee8722 Před rokem +4

      Yes! Been watching Alone for years. It's such an awesome show! It's so interesting how people adapt to being alone for so long. The stuff people are able to accomplish while out there with such limited tools is always amazing. Recently saw there's now an Aussie version as well (I'm from Australia) haven't gotten around to watching it yet but I was so excited to hear about it.

  • @OminousOpossum
    @OminousOpossum Před rokem +65

    I really appreciate that Danny is still so passionate about cable management

    • @christinesmith1827
      @christinesmith1827 Před rokem +7

      He's entering his dad phase! Gotta get that cable management right

  • @marykatecraig4283
    @marykatecraig4283 Před rokem +30

    I'm sure y'all don't read these, but just in case... babies actually aren't born with the startle reflex! You're not supposed to put them down with blankets or pillows or stuffies for a several several months for the same reason. We also got a breathable crib mattress but the first couple months - with all the awake and asleep and feeding - one of those bedside bassinets (we got a Halo the swiveled and everything) was an absolute lifesaver

  • @dad.b.y
    @dad.b.y Před rokem +21

    sometimes i forget youtubers are real grown ass adults and can have a family 💀 congrats danny

  • @anemicVeins
    @anemicVeins Před rokem +13

    Please, the unintentional Sonic the Hedgehog reference with "MARIA" is so funny

  • @Perepeteia
    @Perepeteia Před rokem +195

    I just hope the "You're dad wrong" in the first few seconds was an intended pun, and not me looking for puns in everything again 🙃 also having a new ep to listen to during an evening sketching session feels great

  • @TinyGhosty
    @TinyGhosty Před rokem +305

    I am not super into podcasts but this is the one podcast I will watch every day it is posted. Great guests and great conversations! Always has me laughing the entire time.

    • @karkador
      @karkador Před rokem +21

      i like this one and kurtis'. theyre like long bonus videos

  • @langleymneely
    @langleymneely Před rokem +266

    Omg, I used to tell my 4yr old niece to go pee for me before we went places too! I did it as a joke at first but then it actually worked as a gamified way of getting her to pee when she really needed to. It’s crazy how that works.

    • @squidthing
      @squidthing Před rokem +18

      I wonder if its related to the fact that little kids think you can't see them if they cover their own eyes.

    • @langleymneely
      @langleymneely Před rokem +17

      @@squidthing I can totally see that rationale going through a young toddler’s mind. Lol

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND Před rokem

      My parents did that with me

    • @KingOfGaymes
      @KingOfGaymes Před rokem +1

      Telling her to go pee *for you* sounds so off

    • @langleymneely
      @langleymneely Před rokem

      @@KingOfGaymes I know right?

  • @iluvy0umore
    @iluvy0umore Před rokem +32

    they filmed the first 2 seasons of that survival show on the island i live on! it’s wild seeing them do intense survival stuff and then 3 hours away from that im making iced lattes at the mall

  • @ReeseGilbert-sc8ei
    @ReeseGilbert-sc8ei Před rokem +58

    i love that everyone danny knows has his exact humor of bringing back jokes that were just said 💀 its so cute

  • @biancacolmenares620
    @biancacolmenares620 Před rokem +144

    The gaming issue is also ADHD related. Looked it up recently because I like games, but my husband is so much better that is hard to have fun and not feel bad about myself. I also have bad hand eye coordination and am very bad at strategy and seeing ahead when I’m anxious. Which is funny because I’m good at pattern recognition, but not in that case.

    • @ecliiipsssse
      @ecliiipsssse Před rokem +2

      what kind of games? bcuz if you just like games in general, you could play some single player games

    • @josefinarivia
      @josefinarivia Před rokem +16

      when I first started gaming I thought I was bad too. extremely poor at shooting games etc. but you need to remember other people have essentially trained to get better at games and figure things out. You just need to let yourself find games you find fun and get better at them! Let yourself fail and make mistakes as well.

    • @biancacolmenares620
      @biancacolmenares620 Před rokem +9

      @@josefinarivia Yep, many people started young and I just wasn’t drawn to it. But it’s the letting yourself fail that I’m really bad at 😱😆

    • @gr33ngirlsea
      @gr33ngirlsea Před rokem +1

      I'm great at pattern recognition too, so I love doing games like Apples to Apples and Cards Against Humanity, because I notice what each person typically chooses!

  • @kells4315
    @kells4315 Před rokem +79

    I'm a medium new parent (I have a 2 year old), and get so excited when creators I love are starting that journey! I hope it goes wonderfully for you!

  • @guitarsolo.
    @guitarsolo. Před rokem +584

    so happy to see drew back!!!

  • @ehrmanehrmann7115
    @ehrmanehrmann7115 Před rokem +10

    Itchy feet can be a sign of an allergy to something else in the environment. You could even be allergic to a tree outside their house or a type of plant they have in their yard even though you didn't touch it. The pollen can still effect you.

  • @HonorOfGrey
    @HonorOfGrey Před rokem +39

    the talk of struggling in social situations, scripting conversations and putting on an act of being who you wish you were but its draining, really reminds me of myself, learning that i am autistic and the process of unmasking

    • @plushbats
      @plushbats Před rokem +1

      i’ve been going through the same thing and it’s been a lot. wishing you all the best!

  • @CommunalPissRug
    @CommunalPissRug Před rokem +19

    Danny's allergic to Canada

  • @jacobf2833
    @jacobf2833 Před rokem +13

    Hearing Danny talk about the "Minecraft Speedrun" after watching his new video and not knowing anything about it UNTIL the video, it hits different lol. 47:15 for anyone who watched his vid and wants a shortcut to that part.

  • @ominouslightning
    @ominouslightning Před rokem +53

    About the lottery, my brother bought a smaller $10 lottery ticket a few months ago and won $50 and then bought three more for $30 and then won $80, and it was just a loop that kept going for a little while. He ended up stopping bc he was like "I'm gonna just happily take this money before I lose it all or sum." But yeah, it's definitely possible to just keep making your money back and buying more tickets and still ending up in the positive lol.

    • @matthewdekker6064
      @matthewdekker6064 Před rokem

      It's possible for some period of time, but I think statistically it's impossible to do it indefinitely without eventually just losing and having to re-start with more money. Otherwise, more people would be doing that. I think the best way to play would be to join a large pool (like a big company pool) where everyone buys a few tickets and then splits the winnings- though even then, you'd want to do that with a smaller lottery, not like the Mega Millions, because even with like 100 people, your chances of winning anything significant are still miniscule. It'd be better to do it in something like a company raffle where there's a few thousand tickets - get like 50 coworkers to buy a ticket or 2 and then split the winnings (or maybe the actual winner gets significantly more, and everyone else makes a small profit).

    • @ominouslightning
      @ominouslightning Před rokem +3

      @@matthewdekker6064 Not impossible, just VERY highly improbable. But also, to clarify, my brother kept ending up in the positive because he never used ALL the winnings on more lotto tickets. Like I said, he bought one and won $50, then spent $30 of that and won $80, and so on and so forth. He kept ending up with more money because he was smart about it and saved some each time in case he lost. But still, you're right that he likely wouldn't have gone on forever like that.

  • @CarnivalChimera
    @CarnivalChimera Před rokem +33

    Being a more extroverted autistic person is a wild experience bc i love people and being around my friends but i struggle with specific social cues. and then sometimes i just have no idea what someone's going through and i just infodump about my favorite birds bc i liked their vibe and i either upset them or become friends very quickly

    • @novasfashionfunchannel8287
      @novasfashionfunchannel8287 Před měsícem

      Hearing them talk about their experiences was sooo clearly ADHD to me. I know for s fact Jarvis and Jordan have it bc they've mentioned it but I'm not sure about Danny. They know they have ADHD but don't realize that those experiences they're having are such a token neurodivergent experience is kinda sad idk.(I'm not trying to invalidate your experiences as an autistic person btw I just meant that from experience I recognized it.)

  • @aafloofy
    @aafloofy Před rokem +81

    I love Jorvas, Jardan and Janny!!!

  • @caitlinweiss8801
    @caitlinweiss8801 Před 10 měsíci +9

    He's actually a dad now! Congrats to him and Laura

  • @lanceelliott2504
    @lanceelliott2504 Před rokem +23

    Cannot overstate how important it is to hear yall talk frankly about normal human things

  • @LilyKateCrochet
    @LilyKateCrochet Před rokem +66

    oh my gosh I felt so heard in that social anxiety talk, I literally thought it was just me. Thanks guys

  • @lozenger8
    @lozenger8 Před rokem +39

    I have generalised anxiety disorder and I constantly write out mental scripts for conversations, especially on the phone. I also analyse past conversations and think about what I should have done and said differently. I have always been shy but I love performing and I regularly make my co-workers laugh. People never understand how I love public speaking and suck so bad in small group or one on one situations.

    • @josefinarivia
      @josefinarivia Před rokem +3

      Dudeee I resonate with this so much! I have generalized anxiety disorder too and I'm great at public speaking and I always do mental scripts as well for conversations. Socialising can be so exhausting though, especially before I learned how to handle my anxiety I "acted" or "performed" and it was very tiring. Still can be, but I'm not as hyper aware of what I'm doing or saying.
      I do though think back after social interactions and think "I should've said that and why did I do that" 🥲

    • @apparentlyasun
      @apparentlyasun Před rokem +3

      That's literally also me as someone who social and generalized anxiety who loves talking to people and preforming. I want to be in social situations and interact with people so badly but I get intimidated and feel like i have to repeat my interactions over and over again to get there

  • @herb_rolls
    @herb_rolls Před rokem +34

    baby cpr! if you're having a baby take a first aid course!

  • @blvengrey
    @blvengrey Před rokem +115

    as a nd person (audhd+bpd), i relate to everything u guys were saying toward the end abt social situations (esp abt the masking, scripting, n flat affect), n i appreciate how honest+open u guys were abt it ♡

    • @sydneyharp1989
      @sydneyharp1989 Před rokem +3

      This feels rude to say to a stranger but a lot of ASD is misdiagnosised as bpd especially as women (I don't know if you identify as that) the overlap between that and adhd is worth looking into ok sorry bye

    • @blvengrey
      @blvengrey Před rokem +11

      @@sydneyharp1989 yeah ik lol i did extensive research for over a year before pursuing a diagnosis, n was diagnosed w both asd + bpd in the same evaluation /nm i feel all my diagnoses are accurate, so even tho ik its common for ppl afab to be misdiagnosed, i dont believe thats my case /gen ♡

  • @kaifisshhh
    @kaifisshhh Před 5 měsíci +5

    Respect to danny for sticking to the speedrunning bit in hindsight

  • @Alyssa_M513
    @Alyssa_M513 Před rokem +42

    Omg my SO and I stayed in an airbnb that was literally student housing in Cleveland. Not campus owned but definitely student housing and not supposed to be used as an airbnb. We didn't have any other options because there was a citywide event going on and hotels were like $300+/night. So we stayed but it was weird AF.

  • @RayceYams
    @RayceYams Před rokem +30

    The conversation about learning/strategizing how to talk and learning how to come out of your shell was really validating thank you

  • @aritry
    @aritry Před rokem +22

    Can't wait for the day Diggy Gorgonzola's son starts looking older than him

  • @bethwilkins9506
    @bethwilkins9506 Před rokem +9

    I didn't know they were at vidcon and at first thought they were wearing matching friendship bracelets.

  • @ashtea96
    @ashtea96 Před rokem +17

    Idk how but this podcast suddenly made it click why jarvis is my favorite youtuber. Hearing him talk about his perfectionism in a roundabout way made me realize he has like the exact same personality and way of thinking as me. It's true with his mental health and dating worries and even just general health issues too but hearing him describe how he used to practice things in private so he could show up with some proficiency made it click that he's just another version of me. How narcissistic of me lmao

  • @no1legobatmanfan
    @no1legobatmanfan Před rokem +8

    “visiting Maria” shouldnt have made me laugh SO HARD

  • @thisisbadpoetry
    @thisisbadpoetry Před rokem +26

    "you should make a video about how we both strike it rich and win the lottery" i love this podcast w my whole heart

  • @jessicawilson8240
    @jessicawilson8240 Před rokem +12

    Look I’m just stuck on Jordan’s line of “I’m gonna give your kids menthol cigarettes”

  • @exacto0
    @exacto0 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Im autistic n when danny mentioned the rehearsing conversations and the reviewing conversations after they happen to see what i missed, like dude thats so relatable-- both jarvis and danny actually like the things youre describing socially sound like autism to me (i have both autism and adhd)

  • @mcwjes
    @mcwjes Před rokem +51

    Love the idea of avoiding consequences by triggering the landlord's flashback sequence!

    • @rh8884
      @rh8884 Před rokem +2

      "Visiting Maria" gives the person a flashback to that old ass "Baby Landlord" video with Will Ferrell and the little girl, lmao

  • @carpincho146
    @carpincho146 Před rokem +14

    my dad, Daniel, graduated from Danny to Dan when I was born too!

  • @ceonixx2924
    @ceonixx2924 Před rokem +19

    Oh no the regular sad boyz background I’ve grown accustomed too has changed! There goes my attachment to this mortal coil

  • @RTdances
    @RTdances Před rokem +31

    nothing more dad than sitting in a patio chair

  • @listerjne
    @listerjne Před rokem +27

    jordan i frickin love you dude. just really pog that youre here. keep it up 💪

  • @brooksbrocc
    @brooksbrocc Před 11 měsíci +8

    Watching this after danny admitted he didn't actually speed run minecraft is so funny

    • @VeederRoot
      @VeederRoot Před 10 měsíci

      had to search by new to find this comment 😂

  • @inanimateinsanecandle
    @inanimateinsanecandle Před rokem +9

    28:13 somebody let out the most ungodly scream after danny said "the queen" and honestly same

  • @tsarinaballerina4
    @tsarinaballerina4 Před rokem +11

    I was recently in Amsterdam with family and, like Danny, we stayed in an apartment that wasn’t technically allowed to be an Airbnb, so we were told to say we were “doing a home exchange” if anyone asked, and also to not say anything else to anyone while we were there; we also weren’t supposed to write a public review for him. shoutout to him i guess

  • @karen-ii2ge
    @karen-ii2ge Před rokem +5

    Danny's talking around Minecraft speed running is extra funny in light of the recent revelations

  • @Official_Nigel_Simp
    @Official_Nigel_Simp Před rokem +13

    i just got on your patreon and was so confused seeing a video with danny and was like "oh was there an old video i didnt see?" just to realize you guys just uploaded this

  • @Daragausthedragon
    @Daragausthedragon Před rokem +15

    Danny sounds like he would enjoy turn based games a lot more than games that require real time actions.

  • @sassyscorpio5537
    @sassyscorpio5537 Před rokem +8

    About the breathable crib mattress! I'm thinking, if it's porous and breathable, it is probably hard to clean in case of spills and accidents, or otherwise humidity. So make sure to inspect for molding now and then!

  • @moonriverinc7896
    @moonriverinc7896 Před rokem +30

    Jarvis hahaha I can't stop laughing you're not Danny Gonzalez thats the other fellow

  • @sickgurl138
    @sickgurl138 Před rokem +9

    SEAHORSE STYLE has me dying we need a shirt that has a seahorse with Danny's head

  • @emilbirkebk8820
    @emilbirkebk8820 Před rokem +42

    Jordan finally fixed his posture!
    edit: nvm...

  • @WDDragneel
    @WDDragneel Před rokem +2

    Yoo,
    Just wanted to let you guys know, I've been watching Jarvis for a while but somehow never knew about the podcast, but I've been watching a bunch now and wanted to thank you guys.
    The way you all talk so openly about everything.. I just watched the Episode with Sean and the one with Link and man.. Y'all have no idea how much I needed a place like this..
    -
    So, yeah, I just wanted to thank you Jarvis, Jordan and the guests of course.
    Truly.
    o7 ❤

  • @kingkooki7761
    @kingkooki7761 Před rokem +10

    i looked up the story of the police officer, if it is the one that i found his bail got raised from 750,000 to 2,000,000. so there's a chance they did win the lottery and that "family emergency" was them not being able to afford the house anymore.

    • @sthurin
      @sthurin Před rokem +4

      oh if so, that makes the case even more interesting and hopefully there's some justice. i could only find a 2009 news article that reported the 250k bail and 2 million lottery money so i assume it's the same guy

  • @mahmoudm9541
    @mahmoudm9541 Před 10 měsíci +3

    The screaming in the background after Danny says "The queen?" at 28:14 freaked me out lmao

  • @ava8340
    @ava8340 Před rokem

    towards the end of this video when they’re talking about childhood, learning, socialising, all that shit DUDE i loved that it’s so fun to feel understood

  • @chronicrow
    @chronicrow Před rokem +13

    I thought what Jarvis said about not talking to adults as a kid was really interesting to me because as a kid I did the same thing to a more extreme degree and was diagnosed with selective mutism & went to therapy for a while. but that prompted me to learn hacks of how to Talk To People until im comfortable enough to actually interact instead of just silently observing ppl lol

  • @MovieJustin
    @MovieJustin Před rokem +27

    Jordan is so smart and aesthetically pleasing ❤

  • @glorifiedwaffleiron
    @glorifiedwaffleiron Před rokem +13

    25:35 Jordan knew about the wage gap for YEARS and NEVER did anything?!?!!!?

  • @Popopatop
    @Popopatop Před rokem +1

    I enjoy you guys so much and relate to a lot of the experiences u express. I genuinely just wish the best for ya

  • @adrenalineactivate
    @adrenalineactivate Před rokem +34

    I'd love to watch a podcast where they secretly gaslight the guest and keep changing the subject out of context to make the guest sound absolutely insane 😂

  • @abigail3617
    @abigail3617 Před rokem +9

    watching this after the minecraft speed run video came out is so funny

  • @RaineStorminTTV
    @RaineStorminTTV Před rokem +12

    DANNY!!! Experts think SIDS might happen because some babies brains are not able to trigger if the baby isnt gettting enough air. SO, some babies cant just turn over if their brain wont wake them up. Scientist still don't know why SIDS happens, the fact that she found that mattress is awesome! high stress relief

  • @thotcel4627
    @thotcel4627 Před rokem +1

    ok u guys, i was seriously cracking up watching this! wonderful levels of whimsy with the three of you

  • @mollysockmonkey
    @mollysockmonkey Před rokem +4

    52:35 is really giving gifted kid burn out, so relatable

  • @kdc6002
    @kdc6002 Před rokem +3

    glad to see this vid in my rec!