DOULA VS MIDWIFE - What you NEED to Know!

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  • čas přidán 7. 04. 2019
  • Midwives are healthcare professionals who provide primary medical care and support to pregnant women and their newborn babies. Doulas, on the other hand, are also an incredible asset to your birth team, however they do not have any medical professional role in your birth.
    Still confused? If so, then today's Midwife Monday Video is going to help! In today's video, Midwife Kira will break down the difference between doulas and midwives for you in an easy-to-understand way. If you want to learn more about the differences in Midwives and Doulas, be sure to check out the following videos!
    "What is a Midwife": • What is a Midwife
    "What is a Doula": • WHAT IS A DOULA? - Why...
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Komentáře • 74

  • @ElanaVital83
    @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +38

    I'm a doula-in-training, but I want to also be a lactation consultant, a birth educator and midwife's assistant.

    • @amberemma6136
      @amberemma6136 Před rokem

      Curious what kind of training you need to be a midwifes assistant? I just finished doula training with When Push Comes to Shove and would love to work as a midwives assistant. Considering school for a birth Attendant as well.

  • @mrs.natashaellwood8634
    @mrs.natashaellwood8634 Před 2 lety +17

    I just started school to become a birth doula! My heart has been set on that career ever since I had my homebirth 2 years ago!

  • @SugarRhi
    @SugarRhi Před 2 lety +9

    Been doula-ing for 3 years now and I ALWAYS have to explain this to people 🤣😂 I don’t mind doing it, and my explanation has evolved over time … but now I’m just going to send them this video!! To the point and easy to understand!

  • @taylorm7777
    @taylorm7777 Před 3 lety +26

    I just met my midwife today. I love her!!

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 3 lety

      That’s awesome!! What state do you live in?

    • @taylorm7777
      @taylorm7777 Před 3 lety +1

      @@CajunStork California

    • @parinazaz4044
      @parinazaz4044 Před 8 měsíci

      How do you hire one(CNM)? I’m in Canada ..

  • @A_leaia
    @A_leaia Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you! Please keep your channel going!

  • @nicolesfertilitygoddesstarot

    So happy I found your channel! Ty

  • @2mehow
    @2mehow Před 3 lety +29

    Are OBGYN’s necessary? I’m interested in a midwife and doula only for a possible home birth.

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 3 lety +19

      You don’t need both. Midwives become your primary care provider during pregnancy. OB would be necessary if you became high risk

  • @betterbirthtv
    @betterbirthtv Před 4 lety +2

    Brilliant! Thank you !

  • @leahgracefecteau
    @leahgracefecteau Před 3 lety +2

    Awesome advice

  • @divinelove1273
    @divinelove1273 Před 5 lety +18

    Can you do a video on belly wrapping after pregnancy and how it can help postpartum. I'm currently 38 weeks .

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 5 lety +12

      Oh good idea!!! Sadly, I won’t be able to get to it before you deliver though but I’ll add it to my list!!

    • @gertrudekoduah4638
      @gertrudekoduah4638 Před 3 lety

      @@CajunStork ty i also want to be a midwife

  • @rosexo5778
    @rosexo5778 Před 3 lety +3

    Hey, so after having two kids which are nw 1 & 3, Im pretty sure that I know I want to become a midwife now. However as my children are still young and I do intend on trying for at least 2 more children it is not the right time for me to become one as it is a medical field and will take some time to actually become one however as a Doula is along the lines of what I am looking to become I thought for now this could be a great option and wanted to know your thoughts? I am 34 atm so very aware of my age and body clock in regards to hvn children. I feel stuck cz I need to find a balance ya know.

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +1

      As a doula in training myself, I say go for it! Doula training can help you decide if you want to move on to midwifery or not. Personally I don't think I'll be moving on to midwifery, but most of the girls in my class are and we had 2 midwives speak at our class. You have plenty of options.
      Maybe you're like me amd just want to do birth and post partum doula in combination with lactation consultant and midwife's assistant (that's where your client is the midwife, not the mother). I also think doing birth educator is interesting, too.

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +1

      Also, there are plenty of doulas who work during their own pregnancy and have discounted birthing prices for other doulas. You get into the birthing community and it also gives you an insiders look for support for your own births.
      Imagine having your instructor, or one of your classmates or colleagues offering support for your next pregnancy. It's a great community of women supporting each other.

  • @sweetlilrhinot5084
    @sweetlilrhinot5084 Před 3 lety

    Where do midwives help deliver?

  • @katherinechavez-chavarria4298

    What if you can’t afford to hire both? Do you recommend to base your decision o on whether you want to give birth at a hospital or home

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +5

      Believe it or not, there are doulas looking to do volunteer births to meet birthing hour requirements. Focus on getting a midwife if you can only afford one because a midwife is trained medically. As for the doula, ask your midwife if they know of any doulas looking to volunteer or who have an affordable rate. Ask around at your local birth center, too.

  • @s3rramarie
    @s3rramarie Před 3 lety +3

    Love this explanation! ❤️

  • @alyssaboyle6465
    @alyssaboyle6465 Před 2 lety +1

    You should do podcasts.

  • @ThePaternalPartner
    @ThePaternalPartner Před 3 lety +7

    BIIIIG difference! For our next birth, we’re using BOTH

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 3 lety +3

      Do it!! Midwives and doulas make a great team!!!

  • @lesliedowty2913
    @lesliedowty2913 Před 2 lety

    Can you be both? I would love to be there for the emotional support and everything but also help deliver the baby.

  • @ciciosorio
    @ciciosorio Před 5 lety +7

    How would I become a CPM rather than a CNM? Ive done so much research yet i cannot find anything on how to become a CPM and can only find CNM. Do i have to become a nurse to become a midwife?

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 5 lety

      Shooting a video on this really soon! In the mean time check out NARM.org

    • @ashleyashleym2969
      @ashleyashleym2969 Před 4 lety +1

      Well midwives ARE nurses they're just highly trained nurses that can do a lot more than a typical nurse. So you kind of do need to become a nurse to be a midwife, just like if you wanted to be a surgeon then you would have to become a doctor first.

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 4 lety +5

      CPMs & LMs are actually not required to be nurses first. Similar to how a dr doesn’t become a nurse before they deliver babies. We are trained in very specific ways though and do not have prescription privileges (although we can provide medications for hemorrhage, GBS prophylaxis, IV fluids therapy, etc...). The requirements largely depend on the state. CNMs here very rarely practice out of the hospital. I believe only 2-3 in the state

  • @pinkdragon9446
    @pinkdragon9446 Před 4 lety +10

    Can you hire both? Also does both help first time moms and throughout the pregnancy?

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 4 lety +9

      Yes! You may hire both. Most doulas start care appointment around 34-36 weeks to start birth planning. Midwives you will see through your whole pregnancy.

    • @Queenin06
      @Queenin06 Před 4 lety

      😂! I was thinking that too

    • @expectingnewlife
      @expectingnewlife Před 4 lety +5

      @@CajunStork I've been a doula for 20 years and typically begin working with my clients in the 2nd trimester, sometimes earlier.

    • @sarriahanita4676
      @sarriahanita4676 Před 3 lety

      Heidi Duncan so would a week before delivery probably be too late to hire a doula?

    • @Nikky10000
      @Nikky10000 Před 3 lety

      @@expectingnewlife do u like it?

  • @DarkRoseKey_96
    @DarkRoseKey_96 Před 2 lety +3

    I am finally able to do my first home birth and have found an amazing midwife, this is my 3rd pregnancy. I really want to hire a doula but don't know what to fully look for in a doula to make sure i make the right choice. Any advice?

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 2 lety +2

      Interview them for a personality click. You’ll know you have the right one almost right away. See if your area hosts a meet the doula night or something similar?

    • @DarkRoseKey_96
      @DarkRoseKey_96 Před 2 lety +1

      I'll have to see if they offer something like that where I'm at. Thank you so much! Your videos have really helped me and have been preparing me!!!

  • @powerdisney
    @powerdisney Před měsícem

    My daughter's friend just died 3 days ago after a home birth with a doula went wrong
    4 children left now with no mother

  • @emilypowell5389
    @emilypowell5389 Před 2 lety +7

    As an aspiring midwife, do you feel it’s important and essential to become a doula first?

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 2 lety +3

      I definitely think it’s helpful before you spend money, time and energy pursuing midwifery to realize you can’t handle the on-call life. It’s a great way to test the waters

  • @iamasia_perez
    @iamasia_perez Před 2 lety +2

    So we have to find a doula n midwife 😩 .. I feel stressed already😭🤣 I’m just learning about how to find a midwife now I have to search doulas 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +1

      Your midwife can probably recommend a doula for you. They often work together and run in the same circles.

    • @iamasia_perez
      @iamasia_perez Před 2 lety

      @@ElanaVital83 ok thank you 😊

  • @blackheartgaming6121
    @blackheartgaming6121 Před 2 lety +2

    If there’s a doula is oblongata lol I’m thinking about becoming a midwife

  • @abigailsacademy5239
    @abigailsacademy5239 Před 2 lety

    can you be both

  • @thetechmechanic7457
    @thetechmechanic7457 Před 3 lety +6

    No offense but this left me with more questions then answers

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 3 lety +2

      Lay them on me! What kinds of questions do you have?

  • @constanzakuch8722
    @constanzakuch8722 Před 2 lety +1

    "Birth person" is kind of and objectifying term. It's sounds offensive. Just say mother

  • @monicacalvert1273
    @monicacalvert1273 Před 2 lety

    Stop walking closer to the camera. It scares me

  • @lindarosa7707
    @lindarosa7707 Před 3 lety +3

    CPM midwife = lay midwife. They have a high perinatal mortality rate. Instead, get a nurse-midwife if you want good care; they have a master's degree and lots of experience and training.

    • @expectingnewlife
      @expectingnewlife Před 3 lety +2

      Where are you getting this info?

    • @jazzbelly3589
      @jazzbelly3589 Před 2 lety +1

      She pulled it out of her butt. Competition too for the CNMs cause they have a ton of student loan debt to pay off. Hospitals/Big Pharma don't want their customers seeking other alternatives.

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +1

      Cite your sources please.

    • @gdstef1
      @gdstef1 Před rokem

      Correct

    • @SDMItch
      @SDMItch Před rokem

      I completely disagree with this statement and like others have asked, please cite your sources.

  • @DelilahsDay
    @DelilahsDay Před 2 lety +1

    You should consider gender-neutral language. I was thrown off within the first minute when you kept referring to the non-birthing parent as the "husband". Not everyone is married, not all non-birthing partners are men, and not all couples are straight. This video also contained some misinformation as well.

    • @CajunStork
      @CajunStork  Před 2 lety +38

      With respect, I do realize that not all couples are married and not all couples are straight. However, my clientele is largely a christian-based, married (not all) and straight (not all) practice as I live in South Louisiana. In my culture, it’s actually offensive to call the husband “partner” (similarly, my married lesbian couples want their spouse called their wife, not their “partner”) and many long term committed couples in this area will refer to their partners as “husband” even though they aren’t married. I also have served singled moms where there is no partner or husband involved at all and we can adjust for that too, but I know they still get useful information from my videos despite the husband references. I know I’m going off on a tangent here but I’m not a CZcams star, I’m a real life practicing midwife working with my own cultural norms and just trying to share information that helps people. As a midwife, I connect with my clients on an individual bases basis and adjust my language for their personal situation, but on a public stage I desire to maintain my cultural norms and refer to their partners as spouses.

    • @aintnobodycomingtoseeyouot2362
      @aintnobodycomingtoseeyouot2362 Před 2 lety +16

      @@CajunStork everyone’s so triggered these days it’s impossible to not offend someone.

    • @lillyg4095
      @lillyg4095 Před 2 lety +5

      Lmao even in a birthing video this. Like it’s not insane to say pregnant person or chest feeding there’s also this 😅 exhausting

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Před 2 lety +11

      Uh-oh, someone wants to show off how progressive they are 🙄 Quit speech-policing. This woman knows more about how her clients wish to be addressed than you would. Stop looking for controversy for attention.

    • @ellieh3923
      @ellieh3923 Před 2 lety +5

      @@CajunStork Thank you for standing up for what you believe in!! You've earned the respect of many!

  • @NiecyEnMediasRes
    @NiecyEnMediasRes Před 2 lety +1

    All of this midwife and doula stuff just sounds like a hoax so they can get my money... as if my life isn’t already on the line and my condition and potential child won’t consume most of my money as well my time.

    • @SDMItch
      @SDMItch Před rokem

      Quit opposite actually. One of the biggest advantages of have a doula as stated in the video is the reduce unnecessary procedures for clients.