When you find a good woman, don’t let her go
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
- Self improvement changed my life and I learnt so much from all of these influential figures.
The one thing though I could never get onboard with is the way so many of them spoke about treating women.
I have been raised by the most incredible woman and so so much respect for women.
The idea of cheating on her is just something that I would never do because I know how much it would hurt my partner.
There is this whole narrative about how all high value males cheat on their spouses once they reach a certain level of success.
And hey, maybe they do? I guess I am not one yet so I don’t know, but either way I don’t believe it’s right.
Relationships can be the just incredible thing in the world and I believe if you truly love the woman or man you are with that you wouldn’t do anything to disrespect them.
Cheating to me is the ultimate form of disrespect.
And guys, trust me the grass isn’t always greener, don’t think the more people you sleep with the better your life will be as it really won’t!
Find a great woman who believes in you and wants to make a life with you and never let her go.
I’m 45 this month met my gf in 2003 after a few relationships. Shes a class act and I honestly knew (hoped)the day I met her I would spend my life with her…
@@DiscoScientist congratulations, that is some amazing news, I wish you both all the happiness in the world!
@@realhaydenthomas thank you Hayden. Have subbed…👍🏻
@@DiscoScientist really appreciate that thank you so much!
Alright all my fellow hot guys, control your impulses and don't sleep with too many women lmao.
@@m-a-t-t6869 that’s it mate, control yourself! 😂
Respect to you Sir! I agree with what you say. Good luck to you and your girlfriend.
@@microfarming8583 thank you so much for the kind words and for taking the time to watch the video and comment!
What a very mature and honest yet refreshing perspective. You two are blessed to have each other.
@@SummerSibz204 Thank you so much that really does mean a lot, I appreciate the kind words.
your contents very pure and genuine, i hope this eventually reaches a lot of people because its refreshing, keep up the hard work!
you are very kind, thank you so much for the nice words it really does mean a lot! It’s comments like this that make me keep going so thank you!
Great video man. I just got broken up with by my gf of 2 1/2 years the other day.
I thought she was a good woman, and she was for a while, but apparently whole time she wanted the hookup and party lifestyle.
For a quick moment, I thought, why even bother taking things seriously with anyone else? I'm young and have options.
But I know that's not the type of person I am, and this video confirmed it by resonating. Although I don't have a good woman yet, I will keep my focus and integrity intact for when i do find her.
Thanks brother.
@@abrahamsapperceptions ah man I’m so sorry to hear that brother, it’s never easy going through a break up but please don’t let one bad break up stop you from meeting new women.
Everybody goes through pain and hardship and break ups but we all get over it believe me.
I have had many, and each one I thought would destroy me and that I would never find anyone else and I always did.
You will find a great woman, just keep going, keep focusing on becoming a great man and working on other things and then when the time is right the right person will come along.
You got this!
@@realhaydenthomas Absolutely brother. Thank you for the kind words, i know it’s only up from here.
@@abrahamsapperceptions it most definitely is dude you can do this!
this feels like a broadcast from yesteryear.
@@sibionic I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing but thank you for commenting!
@@realhaydenthomas what do you mean by the term 'high value male'?
@@sibionic it’s a term used a lot in the male self improvement world. Tends to be used to describe a man who has reached a certain level of status, both financially, relationships wise and social status.
I don’t like the term and it’s thrown around a lot!
@@realhaydenthomas Yes, it's deeply stupid. Male fragility can be measured by such things, not success.
You are a true role model for many. You and your partner are lucky to have each other. We, the audience are lucky to have such content filled with pragmatism and wisdom.
Wish you and your partner the best. 🙏🏻
@@Saikat_Das_Sharma you are too kind mate, thank you so much for the very generous words and for taking the time to watch my content it means a lot!
Yeah, you haven’t cheated on anyone you’ve dated before because you have self-respect. Can’t wait to see your wedding video 🎉
@@felicia_rm ah you are just too kind! Thanks so much! Didn’t expect women to watch these videos too, so thank you for the support!
Damn! I've litterally got a good lady on my case now. Shes been persistent for 6 months.
@@Clinton_st_hilaire an unwanted lady?
@@realhaydenthomas Not quite. The truth is I was obsessing over my American ex, literally for two years. She's very striking in looks and her image never left my mind so easily. 6 months ago a new girl came into my life, and I was too busy comparing her looks to my American ex. The truth is, my American ex is skinny no bum, no breasts, but she's elegant and slender and looks sexy AF, but she has lip filler botox, dies her hair jet black, shes natural blonde, shes not ugly at all. But in reality the new lady has a way better body, not as striking in looks, but shes not ugly, she's less successful but deffo a rare woman, no snapchat, hardly uses insta, she doesn't party, she just wants to be a loyal woman and build a foundation with a driven man like me. And I'm currently starting over in my career. She makes me feel good when she's around. I keep telling myself that this new girl just needs that security so that she can blossom, I feel her attraction levels will increase when she gets back her confidence, shes always beennlet down. And I think its because her dad wasnt around so she took on a masculine roll amd got into boxing, wearing tracksuits and wasn't as feminine as she could be. I just need to stop imagining my next lady being some super hot model when I could probably make one out of this new girl, she has the potential. Shes just turned 30, body count is 8, I'm 36 I think I've got a good deal here. My kids like her, my mum and brothers too.
Haydon you sound a good man
My Son is in a new relationship with a woman who seems good for him and they seem very happy
He is in his mid thirties
They have been together for just over a year
@@marylynch951 thank you so much for the kind words Mary, I truly appreciate that.
I am really grateful that you have taken the time to watch this video and to then leave a comment.
Congratulations to your son, I hope they have a successful and fulfilling life together and I wish them all the best!
Sorry to be a doomer, but this only works if you’re good looking. There are plenty of women who have good looking broke guys on their roster, but they won’t commit to them properly until the guy gets their money straight.
@@jawlig everyone can put more effort into their appearance and make themselves the best they can be. You don’t have to be a super model to attract a partner. Any guy can improve their appearance by dressing well, grooming their hair and beard and taking care of their body. Thanks so much for watching the video, truly appreciate the comment!
@@realhaydenthomas Getting a girl while penniless on someone's couch isn't realistic unless you're attractive because you literally have nothing else to offer in that situation. Attractive people live in a different world, it's funny watching you speak your truth when it's so clearly out of touch. "Just get a trim bro" 😭😭 it doesn't work like that...
@@jawlig thanks for the comment mate I do appreciate it, I am just sharing my experiences! Thanks so much for watching the video I hope things are going ok man!
The things you just listed yourself as being, the things that make up your character, that is what makes you a high value man. IMO, a man with loads of money and no character has no value at all.
@@MarshaABranch thank you so much Marsha for such a kind and considerate comment it really means a lot. I very much appreciate you taking the time to watch the video and leave a comment 😊
Marry her?
@@curmudgeon52 in time absolutely 😊 only been together 13 months though and I don’t think either of us are ready for it yet, but eventually for sure!
@@realhaydenthomas Best of luck to both of you. Glad you found each other during these confusing times. (btw married nearly 50 years)
@@curmudgeon52 thank you so much for the kind words and congratulations on the 50 years!
Best to you both
@@JimmyEuson5daysihave thanks buddy!
I am a ladyboy but I have good ethics and a heart of gold, can we date and ser where i leads❤
@@olegwiththeknowledge1729 I appreciate the offer but I am happily in a relationship thank you! Thanks for watching 😊
@@realhaydenthomas Ok, don’t put out dating adds then please you tempter😅
@@olegwiththeknowledge1729 I am not sure what you mean by this comment, no where on this channel have I put out a dating ad? This video is about finding a good partner and keeping hold of them and I spoke multiple times about how much I love my girlfriend, so I am sorry if you misunderstood but not sure how in anyway I gave off that impression.
@@realhaydenthomas Haha, you so charming playing hard to get☺️ You boyfriend very luckyvI presume😍
@realhaydenthomas Think he's winding you up mate. This ladyboy has a good sense of humour 😂
Woman?
@@aaronwilliams4638 woman, man, whatever it is that you like just keep hold of them. I’m just speaking from my perspective 😊
Or a good man! I'm a gay guy and I met my partner 28 years ago and have never been happier.
@@TimAnnear_1961 or that too mate! Absolutely love it 😄