GASTRIC BYPASS | 1 MONTH UPDATE - food, weight, emotions

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
  • It's been one month since I underwent Roux En Y gastric bypass surgery. Here's how I am feeling, both physically and emotionally.
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  • @channelmovedtoalluringplan1452

    It’s crazy how you become a new personality when your stomach changes. It was then when I realized that my gut had been renewed and completely cleaned after surgery and everything has changed physically and mentally for the better. 3 months out, 80lbs down. 🙌🏼

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +18

      80 pounds is incredible! Congratulations. You just feel amazing. I've just hit 40 pounds and I'm so excited and grateful.

    • @pattimcphail7686
      @pattimcphail7686 Před 2 lety +3

      Update?

    • @drac464
      @drac464 Před 2 lety +1

      How are you now? Did you do the sleeve or bypass?

    • @knowingnia3608
      @knowingnia3608 Před 2 lety +2

      I am just stumbling across this video two years after you made it and I must say I was very touched by your testimony. I am curious to know how you are doing today: are you maintaining your weight loss, has it been steady I mean. How are you feeling overall? I am considering the surgery and I'm doing research. Would love your feedback.

    • @roberthayes6708
      @roberthayes6708 Před 2 lety

      @Shaden Airoid Greene, I'm just seeing your comments from 2 years ago. I'm curious to know how you're doing now. I'm 3 months post surgery. I had the revision done. I was down 10 lbs before surgery and down 8 lbs after surgery. I've had some problems with my left hip which makes walking and exercise difficult but I'm not giving up. As my hip gets better, the more I'm able to do.

  • @Meetha2die4
    @Meetha2die4 Před rokem +12

    You’re so pure and honest I’m currently feeling these types of feeling rn I just had my bypass done on 10/27/22 and I can already feel myself becoming different. Positively love and worthy!

    • @Caniver4
      @Caniver4 Před rokem

      How u feeling today ? Was the surgery nerve wracking ? Got a bypass coming up on Monday

  • @robinvarner7381
    @robinvarner7381 Před 2 lety +43

    Omg you are such a inspiration to me. I'm 3weeks out and I have lost about 26lbs and I must say I feel amazing! I don't mind looking at myself in the mirror, I park further away when I'm going to stores so that I can walk, I don't try to find a riding cart I push my cart and walk I'm starting to like myself again. Everything you said I can relate to. Thank you for sharing ❣️

  • @jessicameek5187
    @jessicameek5187 Před 3 lety +83

    I am two weeks post RnY and I miss binge eating so much. I never realized how much of a comfort it was for me. Hopefully as my stamina gets back to normal I will find other activities to bring me joy because food was the only thing that made me happy. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @missestela786
      @missestela786 Před 2 lety +4

      That why im haveing 2nd thoughts

    • @AprilWhelan00
      @AprilWhelan00 Před 2 lety +5

      Curious how you are doing now, i struggle with binge eating disorder and being obese and my doctor brought up this surgery

    • @missbeaussie
      @missbeaussie Před 2 lety

      I was only diagnosed with BED about a year ago so I am concerned about this also. How are you doing now?

    • @holistico.g7260
      @holistico.g7260 Před 2 lety +1

      How are you today !?

    • @jzx100jlp4
      @jzx100jlp4 Před 2 lety

      I can only imagine looking in the mirror would be the comfort you need. I may need this surgery soon 😑

  • @Liv1st
    @Liv1st Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for continuing to give updates. It’s great to see you so authentically happy, Kara!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you Olivia. I can't believe it's only been a month. My life will now forever be divided into "before surgery" and "after surgery" and I think the after is going to be pretty awesome.

  • @scf7334
    @scf7334 Před 3 lety +24

    I’ve never heard someone so perfectly articulate the thoughts snd feelings I have about how it feels to live life as a fat person. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable - you’re clearly helping a lot of people by sharing your story and you’ve definitely helped me. I’ve been overweight for 24 of my 45 years and I’m over it. My quality of life has been absolute shit for years and that “voice” does nothing but yap in my head 24 hours a day. Hearing that, for you, that voice has shut the hell up and that it’s a possibility for me, too, is the deciding factor for me. I’ve been on the fence for a long time about getting surgery, but your video has been the tipping point - I’m going to do it. A million thanks and all of the best wishes in the world!

  • @REMnut12
    @REMnut12 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm so fricken happy for you! It's amazing to hear the positive impact it's had on your life. Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you! I feel like I've been given a second chance. Its incredible.

  • @briannacuny7722
    @briannacuny7722 Před 2 lety +3

    Girl, thank you for your vulnerability in this video. I truly feel like I got to sit down with a best girl friend and have a heart to heart about this new journey. Thank you

  • @erinlucas4637
    @erinlucas4637 Před 3 lety +9

    I just started my surgical weight loss journey & found your channel. Thank you so much for sharing your story! It's like listening to a friend😊.

  • @talaroro1997
    @talaroro1997 Před 2 lety +1

    watching this video was like talking to my mirror. you worded everything perfectly, i can relate to your emotions, the freight, pride, worry.. all of it.
    i’m so proud of you for being this open on social media when it’s so hard these days.
    thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @mcflytexas1325
    @mcflytexas1325 Před 3 lety +2

    Just starting my journey and your videos are a godsend. I have a zillion questions and even more fears. Hearing you be so honest helps so much! Dr answers the clinical stuff but you are answering the realistic human stuff, like a best friends advice. Thank you.

  • @mariemyers6747
    @mariemyers6747 Před 2 lety +2

    Goodness girl! You nailed it!!! I KNOW that voice too! THAT dialogue that runs constantly in the background. I'm 55, so I've lived with that voice for many MANY years. I am so grateful you brought this up! I was on the brink of cancelling my surgery (July 14th) because I'm getting so nervous. You are a godsend!!!

  • @Tristynm
    @Tristynm Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you again for sharing these non-scale victories. They are encouraging as I go through this process.

  • @daniellesarzynski4069
    @daniellesarzynski4069 Před 4 lety +4

    Beauty is more then what we put on our faces, its also how we perceive ourselves and your new positive outlook has been a joy to watch! I am so happy for you and can't wait to hear what happens next!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much. I'm so excited to move forward with a healthier mindset.

  • @jaimecostello1767
    @jaimecostello1767 Před 2 lety

    You have articulated so much of what I have felt in these last two weeks and you explained it beautifully thank you so much. You are awesome

  • @wildricefouru
    @wildricefouru Před 3 lety +4

    Omg I’m living for this orange eyeshadow!

  • @kaneka5988
    @kaneka5988 Před rokem

    This has been the realist video that I’ve seen so far. This really hits home. I’m almost 1 month post op from VSG and I really like listening to you.

  • @uniquebeauts6459
    @uniquebeauts6459 Před 3 lety +2

    You have come so far! Congrats! I had the gastric sleeve on February 18th 2020! It for sure changes your life!
    Trish

  • @juliehill320
    @juliehill320 Před 4 lety +4

    I’m so happy for you. I’m very seriously thinking of getting the surgery and I hear you and get excited!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +2

      It's not easy but it's worth it (in my opinion, at least).

  • @sharmenl196
    @sharmenl196 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you Kara for making this video. Currently 2 weeks out and it’s been rough but I know I’ll come out of it like you did. I wish they told people how much of a mental thing this is. You’re such an inspiration, please continue to make these types of videos! ❤

  • @SunnySof
    @SunnySof Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this! I’m 4 days post-op. I’ve been following your videos. Thank you!

  • @alsavini
    @alsavini Před 3 lety

    Truly inspiring. Thank you for being honest and open. So happy for you.

  • @Daph1030
    @Daph1030 Před 4 lety +19

    Well Kara, You didn’t cry but I did. I love that you are sharing your story with us. I’m all getting ready to have surgery and I’m at the worry stage. I too gained a significant amount of weight starting about 12 years ago and all I want more than anything is to live again. So thank you for letting me view what I might feel in just a few months💕

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +3

      Living again is the perfect way of looking at it! Of course I'm excited to buy smaller clothes and see a physical improvement but it's the energy that I now have and the excitement over feeling better that I'm loving the most. I feel like I've been given a second chance. I wish you nothing but the best as you go along your own journey. It's hard but it's so worth it.

  • @shannonn1984
    @shannonn1984 Před 2 lety +5

    I really love this video and how open and raw you are! I just had duodenal switch surgery on 9/7/21. I’m so glad I found your video!

  • @katherineblackburn813

    This is the best uplifting video I have ever had the pleasure to watch. Thank you for sharing your life changing journey with us. You have an amazing spirit.

  • @cinger-xy5me
    @cinger-xy5me Před 3 lety +1

    Honestly, it’s as though you are in my brain. Just started the steps towards surgery and you are inspiring me!

  • @vapidoccult1878
    @vapidoccult1878 Před 4 lety +5

    congratulations on all your progress! you're such an inspiration, love watching the updates to see how you've been doing 💕

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you very much! I'm so glad that I can share this with you all and that you're all so wonderful.

  • @jayneboot7795
    @jayneboot7795 Před 2 lety +1

    You go girl!! This resonated with me so much. I have all the same feels. Keep going!

  • @allisonnicole4256
    @allisonnicole4256 Před 4 lety +4

    Just stumbled across your video because I’m hopefully getting the surgery this year and I’ve been so damn scared but you just took all of that away! Thank you so much for posting this, you had me crying my eyes out!! Proud of you, keep pushing beautiful ❤️

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you for letting me know! I was really scared before I had the surgery too. I was worried that I'd have nothing but regret. I'm now six months post-op and still have no regrets. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey!

  • @beewill2551
    @beewill2551 Před 2 lety +5

    So inspiring… I’ve been back and forth with if I should go through with this surgery now that I’ve completed all my pre-op task. Makes me feel better knowing that I can possibly become stronger mentally and genuinely feel happy again

  • @lovingly30
    @lovingly30 Před 3 lety +17

    Your video was the most in depth I have seen on YT. This was so helpful and give me great insight of what my bypass could look like.

  • @dorothygilmer9488
    @dorothygilmer9488 Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for your honesty. I have not had surgery yet but I have been following different platforms to get myself ready. You have made me feel so much better in making the decision I have made. By the way I am 66 years old. I hope I can do this as well as you have . Thank you

  • @dianasnodgrass2604
    @dianasnodgrass2604 Před 2 lety

    You are an inspiration for me and so many others. I'm heading into the gastro bypass, Sleeve next month. You have hit on so many of my own issues. Thank you... Just thank you!

  • @jenniferwood-outhwaite5199
    @jenniferwood-outhwaite5199 Před 3 lety +32

    I am just finding this post and the timing is incredible I'm balling my eyes out. I have just gotten my surgery date - September 15th. I am so looking forward to the freedoms. My head and heart have aspirations that my current body just can't handle. Thank you for sharing your story! WHAT?! And I'm in Kingston Ontario! That's incredible!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety +1

      I'm so excited for what's in store for you! The surgery literally changed my life and opened so many doors. I wish you the best!

    • @ShawndasJourney
      @ShawndasJourney Před 3 lety

      I had mine 9/09/2020 how are you doing so far

    • @LynMonton
      @LynMonton Před 3 lety

      Can I ask where you went for your surgery. I’m in ontario also. I’m going to Humber river. But it’s so up and down with the Covid thing. Wondering how you did and how your experience has been. If you don’t mind. Ty.

    • @drakestart
      @drakestart Před 2 lety

      I just had my surgery September 15,2021

  • @mandysberi
    @mandysberi Před 4 lety +3

    Oh my gosh, I'm crying. I'm so happy for you.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much! (sorry for the tears ♥)

  • @traceymunro1
    @traceymunro1 Před 2 lety +1

    Awww, this video is so lovely! My surgery is booked for 2ish weeks from now, I'm so excited!

  • @darlene3318
    @darlene3318 Před 4 lety +6

    You have such joy radiating from your face and voice.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thanks Darlene. It's a wonderful feeling.

  • @troyleeciasanders5750
    @troyleeciasanders5750 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m really happy I came across this video. I’m hoping to have a surgery date soon. Hoping for the end of this month and you’ve made me feel good about having this surgery. Thank you.

  • @Akimachan1
    @Akimachan1 Před 4 lety +6

    Yay for your weight loss so far! That is amazing!

  • @debbiekhoury4079
    @debbiekhoury4079 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing what you are going thru. I’m rooting for you and have been since you started the fasting part. You are so strong! And you are doing so well. Can’t wait to hear more exciting news in the weeks/months to come.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much Debbie!! Your support means the world to me.

  • @notjebbush
    @notjebbush Před 2 lety +30

    I'm heavily considering this surgery, and this makes me feel better about it. I am so terrified of getting any type of surgery, mostly because I'm terrified of dying during surgery. Which is insane, because the side effects my morbid obesity are far more likely to kill me than this surgery is, but the feeling of not being in control is a big part of it I think. Anyway, thank you for sharing your experience. It is so helpful to a ton of people.

    • @ChantalsCitizenshipMarriage
      @ChantalsCitizenshipMarriage Před 2 lety +5

      I just got my surgery date today. I'm down 226 lbs on my own and decided to get surgery to help me the rest of the way ❤️

    • @maryrk0904
      @maryrk0904 Před rokem +1

      THIS! This is my exact feeling/fear. I'm so happy she shared her experience. I want/need this change but the fear is unreal.

    • @niki9701
      @niki9701 Před rokem +1

      I was the same way before my surgery, which I had done this past Tuesday 12/06. Once I spoke with the surgeon and the anesthesiologist, who both told me I’d have more of a chance of dying in a car wreck than during general anesthesia, I felt better. Go for it!❤

    • @kimberlycalderon234
      @kimberlycalderon234 Před rokem

      Same! I finally decided to go for WLS because at the end of the day, I'm killing myself with my weight. I've heard more success stories that negative things.

  • @dv8edpov345
    @dv8edpov345 Před rokem

    💕💕 Congratulations ! Thank you for sharing your new joy for life! I am eager to be in the post -surgical phase !

  • @cherieleeishere
    @cherieleeishere Před rokem +3

    I am about to have this surgery early December here in Australia. I have binged watching your CZcams channel and on the other social media platforms and just wanted to say Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us X bless your heart 💖 I am so happy for you. I'm scared as heck and don't really have close family to help support but I know your vids are there and will definitely be re watching them as I go through this process. Keep on shining xo 👑✨🙋🏻‍♀️🇦🇺

  • @roxysreruns4356
    @roxysreruns4356 Před 4 lety +4

    OMG! Your make up is STUNNING!! You are BEAUTIFUL!!!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much!! That's so sweet of you.

  • @michelemorales3588
    @michelemorales3588 Před 2 lety

    I got chills listening to describe your thoughts and feelings, I can relate, you express and put it into words so well. Thank you so much sharing, it’s been so incredibly helpful as I await for my surgery. ❤️❤️🌞

  • @kellifavazza8021
    @kellifavazza8021 Před 3 lety +1

    I am getting the gastric sleeve in less than a month. Thank you for your honesty and for talking about your experience

  • @suzannecranford8360
    @suzannecranford8360 Před 8 měsíci

    You are so beautiful inside and out! Thanks for sharing your story. I think you will help a lot of people!

  • @sarahs7058
    @sarahs7058 Před 3 lety +4

    Kara, I have just found your channel and I’m binge watching all of your videos as you traveled through this journey. My bypass is in 7 days, and I’m so scared. I hate being nauseas. I worry about something going wrong, as I’m a single mother to a beautiful boy. I’m worried I’ll backslide in the future. But I feel I need to just take this leap of faith and give myself a chance at a real life. I’m 380, so have a long ways to go, but you’ve really inspired me so far and I feel it’s very possible. Thank you for sharing all your feelings, for being vulnerable, and for your incredible insight. All the best to you as you continue your journey.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety +1

      I completely understand all of your fears; I had them too. I'm still worried about going backwards bit i just keep refocusing on today and not tomorrow. I wish you all the best with your surgery. Your life will change as a result. It's a process, for sure, but it's so worth it. xo

    • @sarahs7058
      @sarahs7058 Před 3 lety

      Kara C thank you for responding! Wow, I’m so impressed! And thank you for your reassurance! I love makeup too...so I’m loving watching your other videos too! Have a wonderful day!

  • @prfox1827
    @prfox1827 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sincerely for your transparency and time!

  • @summer17ism
    @summer17ism Před 4 lety +5

    This is so far the best video hands down. More more more power to you :-*

  • @Mrkathy44
    @Mrkathy44 Před 2 lety +2

    I just had my surgery a few weeks ago, your story is inspiring. Thank you for having the courage to share

  • @gabrielaarias1613
    @gabrielaarias1613 Před 2 lety +2

    First of all I’m happy I’ve found you.. here I am making up my mind if I should do it or not (cause it scares me to death) but watching your videos, I’m starting to fill up with courage and positive thoughts. Thank you!!

  • @jessicabyrd3406
    @jessicabyrd3406 Před 2 lety +8

    8 days post op and I so needed this video. Doing great with my protein and vitamins but struggling to get enough water in. I start puree at the end of next week and I am so looking forward to it. I cannot wait to be one month out. I've found myself extremely emotional post op just from getting off my meds and having a regular blood pressure daily. Ugh and now I'm ranting about my personal life in a comment section! Well I needed to here all of this. Girl you just got a new sub!

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 2 lety +2

      Pureed food has never been so damned delightful as those first "meals" after the liquid stage. Enjoy!!!

  • @highheellove1
    @highheellove1 Před 4 lety +4

    Please continue to share this journey. ♥️💟

  • @maryhawkins8521
    @maryhawkins8521 Před 4 dny

    Good job. I’m glad you’re feeling well.

  • @anmariegibbs5713
    @anmariegibbs5713 Před rokem +3

    Well done you! I’m planning the surgery this September and you’ve answered a lot/9f my questions! Thankyou x

  • @nonafuller4844
    @nonafuller4844 Před 3 lety +12

    I feel like you were reading exactly what is in my head and heart. Thank you for sharing! I have a couple more classes before I'm ready for a surgery date. I'm so ready to be healthy again

  • @madonnamoore2678
    @madonnamoore2678 Před 2 lety

    You are so easy to listen to. Beautiful voice. And very relatable.

  • @cristalvanegas9760
    @cristalvanegas9760 Před 3 lety

    I wish you nothing but the best on your journey. You have such a beautiful vibe hope you continue to make updates

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety

      Thank you very much. I have a playlist of videos related to my weight loss journey if you're interested. ❤

  • @angeeyah
    @angeeyah Před 4 lety +4

    What an inspiration you are, Kara!! Thank you for sharing your story. :)

  • @Jenillabean84
    @Jenillabean84 Před 2 lety +5

    My surgery is next week and this video is exactly what I needed.

  • @sinndymorr6358
    @sinndymorr6358 Před 4 lety +46

    The weight that we put on our soul, beating ourselves up, is as damaging, as any additional body weight, we carry around. Its wonderful that you are learning how that negativity is damaging 💜.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +7

      I agree. It's so exhausting and painful and I'm so thankful that I've been able to gain distance from it.

  • @abyakika26
    @abyakika26 Před 2 lety

    This video touched me (especially the emotional part) your words are very accurate

  • @vsgtornyciaray1508
    @vsgtornyciaray1508 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m so happy for you because I know you did it!!

  • @lifewithtayo5397
    @lifewithtayo5397 Před rokem +3

    This makes me more excited about getting my sleeve, I just want to have energy, no pain and no negative thoughts or body paranoia. Thanks for being open and honest. The vulnerability really helps cause it’s clear it’s not a sales pitch, it’s real life. ✌🏾+ 💜

  • @jenneiseembry9370
    @jenneiseembry9370 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you I'm was having second thoughts but watching you it is making me change my mind

  • @moxiemalice5174
    @moxiemalice5174 Před rokem

    I"m a week and a half post-op. I happened upon your videos and I am so incredibly grateful I did. this video is beautiful, thank you so much for sharing and being so open and sharing. This brings such warmth to my heart.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před rokem

      Thank you very much. That makes me so happy to hear!

  • @giovannaj1981
    @giovannaj1981 Před 2 lety

    I just started my journey to my surgery. I wish I started sooner but I’m looking forward to it. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @neeneemarie
    @neeneemarie Před 4 lety +4

    Love you Kara!!

  • @squirrel_of_mistri8565
    @squirrel_of_mistri8565 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm glad you can get out and walk!! I miss that a lot. Have been too ill to do that. I'm trying to have a positive attitude, but having chronic illness gets old after awhile. 😒 Hopefully I will be able to walk around the neighborhood again someday. 🙏 🤞
    It's good to see you so happy!! I'm glad you are feeling so much better now. 💗🌻🎉

  • @MOISEF76
    @MOISEF76 Před 2 lety

    Congratulations 🥳 👏🏽👏🏽👍🏼well done. And I'm glad you are not a journaler 😅 because I really enjoyed listening to you 😊 you are authentic and beautiful. In 2 weeks time I'll be doing my bypass surgery. I'm excited and a bit nervous. However after watching and listening to you it's reassuring and encouraging. THANK YOU for sharing. It's much of a therapy for me too. 👋🏼 Keep us posted 😊

  • @mariahgrant7807
    @mariahgrant7807 Před 3 lety +1

    There’s SO much I want to say and I can’t gather all the words right this second. I watched your recent video where you’ve lost nearly 120 lbs! Girl!!!!!!! You only lost 40 here and you were so happy and grateful. That says a lot. I thought I was listening to me but I was watching you. I cried throughout the whole thing. Some people may call those feelings cheesy but it’s simply freedom and peace I’m sure to feel that way. I’m praying one day I can think that way. Right now I’m like you but worse. There’s not a day that goes by where I’m not telling myself negative things and depriving myself from living. I can’t enjoy time out with my husband for all the wrong reasons. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You are amazing and I will be watching all of your videos ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety

      Hi Mariah. Thank you for sharing that with me. Not a day goes by that I'm not grateful for the renewed lease on life I've been given. Negative thoughts still try to creep in but it's SO MUCH more manageable now and far less frequent than it was. I finally feel like I'm living instead of just existing now.

  • @beautyplayground
    @beautyplayground Před 4 lety +10

    You look soooo much slimmer already! So so proud of you

  • @soniamenjivar5451
    @soniamenjivar5451 Před 2 lety

    Barely a couple of minutes in and your makeup is amazing!!!

  • @leftyterranova6638
    @leftyterranova6638 Před 4 lety +4

    This is my fav eye look of yours to date! You look happier. Be proud of yourself and keep going. I’m still considering the surgery for the beginning of January.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you! I used the Flair palette from Ace Beaute.
      Good luck with making your decision. It's a big one. I'm happy to answer any questions about my experience, or just chat, any time. DMs on Instagram are always open and my email is kara_c@outlook.com

    • @leftyterranova6638
      @leftyterranova6638 Před 4 lety

      Kara C thank you!

  • @robertbates6249
    @robertbates6249 Před rokem

    I'm happy your happier I am 2 months out pre-op and hope I find the happies you have found!!

  • @MissJane777
    @MissJane777 Před 4 lety +8

    *This is such a huge inspiration to me and I'm sure to so many! Bless you! Proud of you!!!!*
    ❤❤❤❤
    *Holly (from twitter)*

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thank you Holly. I'm so happy that I'm able to so open and have only been met with open arms and love.

  • @biggernigga1
    @biggernigga1 Před 3 lety +5

    For you to literally describe the voice & statements that go on within my mind really caught me off guard I can’t wait to complete this process & silence that inner critic that NEVER seems to give me a break

  • @crystalpetersen8708
    @crystalpetersen8708 Před 2 lety

    You are hands down the best person I have listened to about this subject. You touch on everything that I was worried about. My last visit with my dr is Monday and I will be scheduled.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 2 lety

      I'm so glad this was a helpful video for you! Wishing you all the best with your own journey!

  • @user-ku1hv6wv9n
    @user-ku1hv6wv9n Před rokem

    I love this video you described everything I also felt. I had a sleeve done 5 years ago and it was so nice for my weight to not be the constant thought. I have since regained 40% of the weight back and am so mad at myself. I am now in a new program and will possibly be getting a duodenal switch. I wish you all the like and keep sharing in these videos you are not alone.

  • @lizzyk620
    @lizzyk620 Před 4 lety +3

    Your journey has encouraged me to do better. Keep it up love!

  • @Zamorphia
    @Zamorphia Před 3 lety +2

    I absolutely love you for this video. I just got the surgery 5 day's ago & have been feeling so lost & questioning if it was really worth it. I'm still really blotted & my stomach still feels hard but I'm feeling better every day as far as the soreness goes but mentally I'm still in a rut & not thinking very good thoughts of myself, but this has helped a lot.

    • @KC-yp4hc
      @KC-yp4hc Před 2 lety

      Where can I get this surgery and cost?

  • @Dk-dy6gx
    @Dk-dy6gx Před 3 lety +1

    Omg I'm so glad I found u its been 24 days post bypass surgery for me. Your story is God sent I am still on pureed foods started to worry but listening to u has helped me. Thank you for sharing 💗💚

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety +2

      I'm so glad that my video was helpful!

  • @ShawndasJourney
    @ShawndasJourney Před 3 lety

    Total motivation definitely subbed

  • @lizziebelcher7384
    @lizziebelcher7384 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing. I'm a week out of surgery so your comments were so useful. Love the orange eyeshadow btw.
    Lizzie... New Zealand

  • @rostyq746
    @rostyq746 Před 4 lety +3

    So happy for you Kara!! You’re looking so beautiful and at peace!!!

  • @canadiantruecrime
    @canadiantruecrime Před 4 lety +5

    Well this made my cooking dinner an entertaining event. I laughed, I teared up, ugh. So happy for you! This was amazing 💓💓

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +1

      Happy I could put you on a rollercoaster. 😊😊

  • @shakitafultz2233
    @shakitafultz2233 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much. I am going through the program as we speak, if approved I should have my surgery by the end of this year or beginning of next year. I am so ready for my new life and just to feel free is all I have ever wanted.

  • @carmenvillalobos7151
    @carmenvillalobos7151 Před 4 lety +3

    Please keep updating us on your journey, a lot of us that fear the same thing about missing food or are stuck in the same self loathing cycle but doing minimal effort because were always tired, need to hear what you are saying. I was recently told I’m pre diabetic by my doctor and my brain still didn’t want to believe, and was in denial. Now I’m spoken to my doctor about weight loss surgery and I’ve changed my diet to carb and sugar free to loss some weight before the procedure and I have a sleep study coming up soon because I too wake myself up from snoring and my partner prefers to sleep alone because of it. I’ve been watching people like you and I can relate and you’re so honest about your experience that it inspires me knowing I’m making the right choice to take my life back. Thank you

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +2

      I wish you nothing but the best as you move forward on your journey. My diagnosis of severe sleep apnea was my rock bottom. Having to strap myself to a machine was humiliating for me and it pushed me through the pre-surgery liquid diet phase. Making changes in your diet now will definitely help make the transition easier. I'm basically Keto by default now. I don't have to count carbs, but because I have to focus on protein first, I rarely have room for carbs after I eat my protein.
      The food cravings are very infrequent now and nowhere near as intense as they used to be. I was terrified that I'd be desperate "for a fix" but that hasn't been my experience at all.

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety +2

      Also, good luck with your sleep study. It's complete bullshit and you'll probably hate it, but the test is so important.

  • @nicoleashley1343
    @nicoleashley1343 Před 3 lety +2

    So proud.of u !!!.

  • @casscat7
    @casscat7 Před 2 lety

    im hoping to get a gastric bypass surgery soon, just had my consolation and everything and am waiting to see if im qualified. and now im researching about people's journeys and how it's changed them and their lives, etc. and it's really interesting and inspiring to see this. and im happy for you and your progress. plus you seem like an interesting person and im looking forward to see more of your content :)

  • @aliciapatel3195
    @aliciapatel3195 Před 4 lety +3

    So glad your doing well sweetie.

  • @litapaparoni4271
    @litapaparoni4271 Před 2 lety

    You are a beautiful, articulate young woman. God bless you and congratulations. Be joyful and enjoy your blessed life. May the nagging troubling voice remain silent forever. Thank you for sharing with such honesty and integrity.

  • @evachan1995
    @evachan1995 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi, I'm going to be scheduling my gastric bypass procedure soon and found your video! I totally totally understand what you were saying about talking down to yourself despite not feeling that way about other people who are overweight. I'm always feeling large and ugly and disgusting, even though I would never feel that way about people who are big like me! It's really, really great to see you speaking so positively just a month after your surgery, and I can't wait to be in the same place :)

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 3 lety +3

      Good luck with your surgery!! I'm now 11 months out and still feel just as positive. I have self-confidence now and it's taken some time to get used to that feeling. I'm excited for you to get relief from the negative self-talk as well!

    • @sma4030
      @sma4030 Před 2 lety

      Sending so much love to you ♡♡ i understand exactly what you mean, i would never think like that about other big people but i have so many negative thoughts about myself and i feel so disgusting...hopefully u are doing better now 🥰

  • @azalearodriguez6617
    @azalearodriguez6617 Před 3 lety +37

    I am planning to have this surgery and im so scared, I needed this video 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @DarknessToEmbrace
      @DarknessToEmbrace Před 3 lety +1

      dont do it. u will regret it. please look for other help but dont do it.

    • @azalearodriguez6617
      @azalearodriguez6617 Před 3 lety +1

      @@DarknessToEmbrace why?

    • @sarahkirkman8874
      @sarahkirkman8874 Před 3 lety +4

      @@DarknessToEmbrace what's your rationale to saying that?

    • @marinaabbasi1171
      @marinaabbasi1171 Před 3 lety +2

      @@azalearodriguez6617
      I’m having my operation soon and I’m quite excited!

  • @crystalfisher4467
    @crystalfisher4467 Před 4 lety +5

    I love you ❤️❤️❤️So happy you are finding peace. You are amazing. You are worthy. You rock! and You inspire me 😍🥰😘

    • @KaraChapman
      @KaraChapman  Před 4 lety

      Thanks Crystal. I love you too!! ❤❤ I hope we can hang out soon!

  • @teamrob12
    @teamrob12 Před 3 lety

    Proud of you❤

  • @aimeesanchez1682
    @aimeesanchez1682 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for making this video it was very helpful and you’re personality made it fun to watch

  • @blbrz8
    @blbrz8 Před 4 lety +4

    I love hearing your updates!

  • @MakeupByAnnki
    @MakeupByAnnki Před 4 lety +4

    Aarh this video makes me so happy to watch😍😍😍 Im so incredibly happy for you💜✨