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  • čas přidán 28. 09. 2023
  • Loose Women friend of the family Kelsey Parker joins us fresh from the publication of her first autobiography, ‘With and Without You’. It documents the recent years before and after the death of her husband The Wanted star, Tom Parker. She will be discussing the taboo of ‘moving’ after losing a partner and also responding to her online trolls regarding her recent announcement of finding love again.
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Komentáře • 124

  • @BNizzle007
    @BNizzle007 Před 9 měsíci +39

    Out of respect for Tom, I'll say nothing, God bless you man, I pray for your children, a great guy every time i met him RIP

  • @Sam4G0d
    @Sam4G0d Před 9 měsíci +17

    They got this wrong - Tom Parker died in 2022, NOT 2020.
    Kelsey was dating a new guy by October 2022, so less than 6 months after his "soulmate" died.

    • @ElsieWals
      @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +4

      She was dating him 7 weeks after Tom died. It's in her book. In her words.

  • @cisi269
    @cisi269 Před 9 měsíci +13

    That’s what is so toxic about society in regards to grief they tell you to be more positive & to move on instead of actually letting you feel your grief

  • @ElsieWals
    @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +14

    We all expected Kelsey to move on at some point, but 7 weeks after Tom died? Nah. At least allow his children to grieve properly first. They had just lost Daddy and then had to get used to another man being around - Kelsey confirms all of this in her book by the way, none of what I'm saying is assumptions.
    It's Tom's children and family I feel sorry for, especially as they had to find out via tabloids that she had met someone else.

  • @melgrant7404
    @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +51

    I still feel for toms family. It must be so hard to watch her move on with a man who will have everything tom should have had. Tough for them even if they know she should have happiness again.
    For them it's double the pain.

    • @crafte164
      @crafte164 Před 9 měsíci +4

      As long as they continue to have a relationship with Tom's family the children can only benefit from a happy mum, as long as Tom's family aren't bitter, it is very unlikely to affect them in a difficult way.

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@crafte164 not everyone would find it easy though. Even if they put a brace face on they could still feel hurt obviously.

    • @scarlettkhan9667
      @scarlettkhan9667 Před 9 měsíci +1

      She's like their daughter and I'm sure they will want their daughter (in law) to be happy again.

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@scarlettkhan9667 what else can they really do .

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@crafte164
      A happy mum.
      U having a laugh the kids need her.
      She just wants 2 have fun with this guy selfish woman.
      Who's looking after the poor kids while mum is getting happy

  • @johnfitzgerald1769
    @johnfitzgerald1769 Před 9 měsíci +23

    To the first presenter on the left Tom died in March 2022 not March 2020

  • @grndouwn7338
    @grndouwn7338 Před 9 měsíci +41

    I find it scary how quick people move on; especially when they're you're 'soulmate'

    • @ElsieWals
      @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +6

      It took her 7 weeks! 7!
      All confirmed in her book. Lots of people, myself included, thought it was 5/6 months. I was shocked when I read that page on Twitter... glad I cancelled my pre order tbh.

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@ElsieWals
      That's disgusting .
      She has no class.
      Poor guy didn't deserve a partner like her.
      I feel sorry 4 the kids

    • @carolcarlsonives
      @carolcarlsonives Před 3 měsíci +1

      Who are you to judge how she should grieve? Tom would want his family to live life. The judgement from some of you are cruel.

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 Před 3 měsíci

      @@carolcarlsonives
      That's not grieving.
      It's disrespectful.
      Selfish woman

    • @grndouwn7338
      @grndouwn7338 Před 3 měsíci

      @@carolcarlsonives I agree it's selfish but I think it anyway.
      7 weeks is no time at all to grieve a soulmate, I think it's reasonable to question that. It is a bit weird to have a new partner after 7 weeks if you look at it without emotion like you.

  • @bbloodyangel1
    @bbloodyangel1 Před 9 měsíci +66

    moving on is not the biggest problem, but an ex con who did jail time for manslaughter?? 🥴 that kind of temper doesnt just go away, it transfers.

    • @scarlettkhan9667
      @scarlettkhan9667 Před 9 měsíci +4

      is she dating an ex con? wtf

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@scarlettkhan9667 he allegedly punched a guy and the guy died or something its in the articles. he did time in prison for it.

    • @josephsuarez9594
      @josephsuarez9594 Před 7 měsíci +5

      It’s an insult to Tom…finding love with a person who took someone’s life away? Tom’s life was taken away…I guess she’s drawn to that sort of trauma.

    • @madeleinalazaris8138
      @madeleinalazaris8138 Před 6 měsíci +1

      She's not dating the guy anymore apparently.
      If she supposedly started going out with him 7 weeks after Tom died, well she'd be potentially vulnerable due to grief so maybe the new guy played on that a bit?

  • @daisymeadow6662
    @daisymeadow6662 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Just heartbreaking, to leave this world at 33, when life is just really beginning, just moves me to tears. I cannot imagine how she has dealt with this and how Tom's family have coped. As a mum of similarly aged children, it just breaks my heart to think of what theyve all been through. Bless them all, and may Kelsey find happiness and peace.

  • @hearmeoutbro
    @hearmeoutbro Před 9 měsíci +38

    It’s only been 1 year since Tom died so I wonder if she really has found love or is she on some kind of rebound. I personally wouldn’t be able to move on so quickly but everyone is different.

    • @oliviapaul8885
      @oliviapaul8885 Před 9 měsíci +5

      This didn’t take long. I’m sorry it’s a year , and it was awful for them as a family . Now she’s letting a criminal who took a life into her life and her children .

    • @hearmeoutbro
      @hearmeoutbro Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@oliviapaul8885 That’s awful.

    • @ElsieWals
      @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@oliviapaul8885 it was 7 weeks, not a year. She moved on in less than 2 months.

    • @ElsieWals
      @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +3

      She met her "new" fella 7 weeks after Tom died. It's in her book. She's been with him over a year now.

    • @hearmeoutbro
      @hearmeoutbro Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@ElsieWals probably cheating on Tom then. If it’s true that he’s a murderer, then I’ve lost any sympathy for her as she’s letting a dangerous person near her kids.

  • @user-jy1mp4tj3r
    @user-jy1mp4tj3r Před 9 měsíci +9

    I know exactly how she feels,I lost my husband last April I was his carer for years I was absolutely dreadful I didn’t think I was going to get through it at all,this March I met someone unexpectedly I was sick too I didn’t want to go through this grief alone it was his family that wanted me to find someone didn’t expect to fall in love people shouldn’t judge Kelsey unless you have lost a partner people should not say anything if it wasn’t for my partner now I probably would not even be here grief never goes away 😢

  • @astev1384
    @astev1384 Před 9 měsíci +51

    I feel so bad for saying this but I don’t find her likeable at all.! The whole interview she openly said she deserves happiness, she’s resilient, she’s had a hard time.
    Absolutely. All of the above. But have a bit of humility. I dunno, she came across as he’s dead now, let’s all move on & I’ll write a book & keep his surname
    We all handle grief differently but again, I just found her unlikeable

  • @susandavies430
    @susandavies430 Před 9 měsíci +20

    I lost my partner of 26 years he also had a brain tumour😢 I miss him every day, I couldn't even think of finding someone else to share my life, I don't know how she could move on so quickly

    • @susandavies430
      @susandavies430 Před 9 měsíci +2

      My partners name was also Tom 💔

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Agree. I couldn't move on that way either. It comes down to the person you are and what is right for you.

    • @dorahoward8632
      @dorahoward8632 Před 9 měsíci +1

      She moved on fast gb tom

    • @lisagray1326
      @lisagray1326 Před 9 měsíci

      Men move on a dam site faster!!!

    • @Torennn
      @Torennn Před 9 měsíci +2

      I'm deeply sorry for anyone who has lost loved ones but All of you in this partcular comment section have absolutely no right to judge Kelsey in any way

  • @sarahgardiner9451
    @sarahgardiner9451 Před 9 měsíci +9

    She gets on my nerves it did not take her long to move on if you love someone you don't. MOVE ON THAT QUICK😢

  • @rebecca1725
    @rebecca1725 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Wish her all the best everyone deserves to be happy

  • @Vickymumof4
    @Vickymumof4 Před 9 měsíci +24

    I mean really. It’s only been a year. I still am broken over Tom and I wasn’t his wife!

    • @ElsieWals
      @ElsieWals Před 9 měsíci +4

      This 👌
      Fans still grieve for him now.
      Kelsey met this new guy 7 weeks after Tom died.... I was still sobbing my heart out over him at that point.

    • @Vickymumof4
      @Vickymumof4 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@ElsieWals exactly.

  • @heidistinton9213
    @heidistinton9213 Před 9 měsíci +3

    so glad she found happiness again plus her husband would of wanted this because he loved her and his children.❤😊

  • @Adelefan123
    @Adelefan123 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I feel for her n her children but its only been a year since he passed its still very fresh im not judging her grieving process as everyone grieves differently it just seems so soon but i do believe she deserves happiness i agree with everything she said also Kaye got the date wrong he did not pass in 2020 n she is 33 not 31 did they not do there research before she came on? Anyway i wish her the best 💜

  • @samholden4171
    @samholden4171 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Am still grieving for my mum who gone in 2015😭😭😭

  • @Ohcarol912
    @Ohcarol912 Před 9 měsíci +6

    As someone who lost her brother when he was a young 35yr old with two small children under 7. I have to look at our situation and this brings back lots of hurt to me as a family and my mum and dad I could write a book. My brothers wife rebounded within months this floored my family. We never wanted her to be on her own for years but we didn’t expect this within months. What a choice she has made I’m sure Tom would worry for his children.

  • @Sparkle_butter_
    @Sparkle_butter_ Před 8 měsíci

    Nawhhh this made me really happy. She deserves to be happy !

  • @nickoffury
    @nickoffury Před 9 měsíci +26

    I’m not downplaying her grief but my god she wasted no time

  • @elaineshaw4456
    @elaineshaw4456 Před 9 měsíci +24

    Some people are quick to judge. You cant say anything unless you have been in her shoes.

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +1

      It's not judging it's opinions.

  • @carolinestreeter975
    @carolinestreeter975 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Don’t get me wrong it’s horrendous what she has been through but dear god has she cashed in on his death!

  • @kealeywindle7170
    @kealeywindle7170 Před 9 měsíci +15

    Kelsey you are amazing xx

  • @annecox2462
    @annecox2462 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Good luck to you Kelsey your an amazing lady ❤

  • @livvjanee
    @livvjanee Před 8 měsíci +4

    Fair enough for moving on but I don’t think I’d want my kids around someone who punched a man and killed him but each to their own x

  • @Sunflower-204
    @Sunflower-204 Před 4 měsíci

    Jeeeezzzz, this lady is ruthless 😳

  • @3onnie
    @3onnie Před 7 měsíci +1

    Why do people keep saying he died in 2020? I saw them in concert March 2022 and he was there. Like get ur facts right it’s not that hard

  • @212britney
    @212britney Před 9 měsíci +6

    Loves and misses her husband but already dating again…hmmm

  • @juliehandley8963
    @juliehandley8963 Před 9 měsíci +9

    If your still grieving for someone then your not ready to move on !

    • @daisymeadow6662
      @daisymeadow6662 Před 9 měsíci +3

      I think, in her position, when Tom was first diagnosed, she probably started grieving even then, even though they were hopeful that he would survive. You can't be a 100% sure that someone diagnosed with a brain tumour will be able to be treated successfully, so probably you do start anticipating the loss of them. Some people, me included, have anticipatory grief about the loss of loved ones, the loss of pets, the loss of one's health, so the grief process can start really very early for some, not all. Plus I don't think you ever really stop grieving loved ones youve lost. As people say, you learn to live with the grief, and I think thats what Kelsey is doing, while trying to make a new life for herself.

  • @michelleamywatt5695
    @michelleamywatt5695 Před 8 měsíci +4

    7 weeks then you found a man after your soulmate died:(

  • @susandavies430
    @susandavies430 Před 9 měsíci +2

    My partners name was also Tom💔

  • @BMm4nz
    @BMm4nz Před 9 měsíci +4

    I have to ask..why she has written this book..who would actually buy it..its gonna be all about her...i thought it weird when she did that prog ...as aoon as saw one of her friends was arg from towie you can get the cut of her jib. And she said one of her mates called her a hot widiow..bit crass

  • @englishlady8863
    @englishlady8863 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Anyone would think she the only person to loss a spouse.

  • @stevencookson9924
    @stevencookson9924 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Don’t know why she’s getting airtime he’s only been dead just over a year not 2020.

  • @grndouwn7338
    @grndouwn7338 Před 9 měsíci +3

    have to say she does deserve happiness so if this is what it takes for her to have it I get it

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Obviously it is easier for her than toms family. Are least the children are a blessing for toms family.

  • @BMm4nz
    @BMm4nz Před 9 měsíci +7

    It just sounds like it's all about her..book out already ...

  • @sarahmannion5867
    @sarahmannion5867 Před 9 měsíci +5

    They keep saying she is 31. She is 33 😂

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 Před 9 měsíci +5

      they said tom passed in 2020 so i thought oh 3 years is not that soon to move on? .... he passed in 2022.

    • @sarahmannion5867
      @sarahmannion5867 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@bbloodyangel1 It has been a year and half since he passed

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 Před 9 měsíci +6

      @@sarahmannion5867 she moved on 7 months after his passing apparently based on when they got together

  • @isobel7676
    @isobel7676 Před 9 měsíci +6

    You know what good for Kelsey. Life is too short and loosing Tom has proved that.
    To all those people who are commenting saying that couldn’t be you, that’s fine but everyone is difference. That doesn’t mean to say Kelsey loved Tom any less than you loved your soulmate. Kelsey deserves happiness

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +2

      So does toms family. But they won't be happy toms children are the saving grace.

    • @isobel7676
      @isobel7676 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@melgrant7404 I’m sure Tom’s family want Kelsey to be happy just like Tom would be..

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@isobel7676 there is no choice but to accept the situation for toms family.

    • @isobel7676
      @isobel7676 Před 9 měsíci

      @@melgrant7404 😂😂😂 you’re not a part of his family so why are you acting like you are

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@isobel7676 like wise. Do you know them .👌

  • @mariebyrne8377
    @mariebyrne8377 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Can't believe she's moved on a year it would prob take me 4 years

  • @sheilawells1571
    @sheilawells1571 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Not even a year now long has she been dating her new man?

  • @paulbradley705
    @paulbradley705 Před 3 měsíci

    She moved on far too quickly.she doesn't care.she found another soulmate which doesn't happen.anything to sell the book.

  • @jillianthomas7335
    @jillianthomas7335 Před 8 měsíci +4

    No time for her

  • @marianicoletti6838
    @marianicoletti6838 Před 4 měsíci

    She come across as being so fake to me. Forgive me if I'm wrong. I'm not judging her it's just my own personal opinion. Seems to thrive on the limelight and attention. If I'd just lost the love of my love I'd want to be left alone in private to grieve. Didn't waste much time in moving. I know life's too short and all that ... but come on. RIP Tom Parker ❤

  • @sandraberry9418
    @sandraberry9418 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Bless her she looks very tired

  • @roter13
    @roter13 Před 7 měsíci

    It's only been a year though...

  • @stuartfillingham778
    @stuartfillingham778 Před 2 měsíci

    A "typical woman" of today

  • @silentterrorhawk
    @silentterrorhawk Před 9 měsíci

    Are her and her late husband celebrity’s of some kind ?

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Her husband was in a band.

    • @silentterrorhawk
      @silentterrorhawk Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@melgrant7404 ok thank you.

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 Před 9 měsíci +2

      her late husband was in the wanted, a band, he was a celeb

    • @silentterrorhawk
      @silentterrorhawk Před 9 měsíci

      @@bbloodyangel1 o ok thanks for letting me know 👍

    • @Me-hs4jj
      @Me-hs4jj Před 9 měsíci +2

      No. They’re just neighbours of the cameraman’s cousins who they got on for a laugh.

  • @andy56018
    @andy56018 Před 5 měsíci

    Fame obsessed.

  • @sharoncox4776
    @sharoncox4776 Před 9 měsíci +35

    Soulmate -yea right! Soulmate for life i thought! Didnt take her long to find someone else! Vile woman

    • @xxfayerocksxx
      @xxfayerocksxx Před 9 měsíci

      You're vile not Kelsey you look at what you're saying it's disgusting!

    • @aa-fw2pw
      @aa-fw2pw Před 9 měsíci +26

      Very rude and uncalled for.
      My sister in law was married to my brother for 14 years before he passed away from health complications of having kidney failure. She loved him dearly and was his full time carer and the mother of his three kids. But about a year after he passed away, we encouraged her to find love again (which she has now done) because of the sheer intense loneliness she was experiencing. Not to mention being a single parent. She deserved companionship and support, and so does Kelsey
      So please do show a little empathy to her and do not call her vile.

    • @shanadeoreilly7416
      @shanadeoreilly7416 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Wtf! U expect her to stay single forever?? She's 33 years old just because she's moved on didn't mean he's forgotten about! If she's 83 years old than I'd be sayying the same as you but she's not!

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 Před 9 měsíci +12

      @@shanadeoreilly7416 she is fortunate she can move on.toms family don't have it so easy obviously.

    • @marcandreyko4251
      @marcandreyko4251 Před 9 měsíci

      glass houses, lady. geez, you seem awful.