I Was Cheated On.. My First Boyfriend After Being Ghosted... NOT CLICKBAIT!!

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 132

  • @Nicolettaxo
    @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +21

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    • @sandydi44
      @sandydi44 Před 4 lety +1

      Nicoletta xo I have that app so good 😊

    • @hannahjohnson7777
      @hannahjohnson7777 Před 4 lety

      Dude I love that game. Super fun and hooking lol.

    • @jennj2049
      @jennj2049 Před 4 lety

      I've never seen any of your videos but this came up and it's really strange bc the love of my life ghosted me a few years ago then literally just a few days ago he for ahold of me. Me being the sucker I am I'm currently talking to him. I really mind fucked myself by talking to him but I only have myself to blame. Just really sucks. I'm sorry you went through this thanks for sharing 💕💕

  • @lauragd2878
    @lauragd2878 Před 4 lety +85

    FOR THE PEOPLE THAT DONT GET IT:
    1st Video - ghosted by Denmark
    2nd Video - update on Denmark
    3rd Video - was a side chick for Alex
    This Video - cheated on by Tom
    It’s not hard to understand if you pay some slight attention 😊

  • @Jessyraytaylor
    @Jessyraytaylor Před 4 lety +84

    I hope everyone reading this gets rich

  • @Katprzk
    @Katprzk Před 4 lety +42

    I can’t believe you messaged her to let her know and she was so rude to you?!!! Why are some girls so mean.... girls need to stick together

  • @SammLovesHamm12
    @SammLovesHamm12 Před 4 lety +36

    wtf does he mean he doesn’t wanna marry her bc he cheated on her? MAYBE DONT CHEAT ON HER THEN??? lmao as if he has no control over cheating

  • @sarahbeackley4134
    @sarahbeackley4134 Před 4 lety +58

    This guy could have 2 nicknames: Guilty in Greece and Canoodling in the Cabin. 😬

  • @54Maria
    @54Maria Před 4 lety +22

    Yes they always come back even middle school boyfriends try again years later.

  • @ValeriaAntaria
    @ValeriaAntaria Před 4 lety +43

    I was cheated on by my last bf, he lied to me about his whereabouts during a weekend. In reality, he had traveled a few states with his cousin. (His cousin was dating my ex-bf.. ex-gf 🤦‍♀️) so he tagged along and ended up having a whole new relationship with another girl. I only found out, because I somewhat know a girl who is friends with the girl I was cheated on. She told me about it, she even gave me her Facebook info to log in and see all the pictures and posts the other girl had posted with my back then bf. And like you say, they always come back. He came back on his knees and even tried convincing my mom to talk to me and take him back. As if!!!!!

  • @sandrae2319
    @sandrae2319 Před 4 lety +2

    Girl you deserve a fucking medal for being this brave and getting through it. Im getting through getting my heart broken/ being ghosted and it completely ruined me.. i swear i feel like i will never be me again. And the worst thing is that i dont hate him, and i would give anything for him to come back..

  • @courtneymccarty7313
    @courtneymccarty7313 Před 4 lety +17

    The guys always come back!! I was in a long distance relationship. We lived 5 hours apart. I live in CA he lives in AZ. We’re talking for about a year and officially together for 8 months. His parents knew about me, and were excited to meet me. I took a trip down and a week later he said it was too hard and broke up with me. After that I realized how many red Flags there were and realized that he probably cheated since there were so many times he just disappeared and no way to get ahold of him and he’d just pop back up with some excuse. But after we broke up he got in a relationship pretty soon after. And after they broke up he tried to text me. I shut that down.

  • @ElenaVictoriaNezh
    @ElenaVictoriaNezh Před 4 lety +13

    Sounds like he is a classic case of a narcissist. Glad you got out of it.

  • @xoBebeBearxo
    @xoBebeBearxo Před 4 lety +19

    I died when you said he sent you shirtless selfie 😂😂 Love your stories Nicoletta! You’re a great story teller and I can’t to hear more. Btw, I would love to see more videos with you and Nick! We miss him ^^

  • @vinci26
    @vinci26 Před 4 lety +16

    Girllllll u have been cheated on so much !! U deserve soo much better!!

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +4

      I went through a lot of interesting people hahaa :P I just look back and laugh at this point I am at a much different stage of life now :)

    • @vinci26
      @vinci26 Před 4 lety +3

      @@Nicolettaxo u really deserve the world. And I'm glad that ur happy and healthy now

  • @GetReqt69
    @GetReqt69 Před 4 lety +5

    ok tbh i'm not one to listen to stories like these, but girl u make it so interesting and u talk fast which i love & i listened to so many of ur other stories,,,,, new subscriber!!!!! hope ur happy w/ ur current relationship xxxo

  • @blondie5240
    @blondie5240 Před 4 lety +13

    Ok hear me out...Deena from jersey Shore

  • @tiad2125
    @tiad2125 Před 3 lety +1

    I just found you on CZcams and I am on a full tea spilling session! But literally I feel like your stories and stories from my life!

  • @ashleybriones2445
    @ashleybriones2445 Před 4 lety +5

    Way to have respect for yourself and other woman girl mad props!

  • @emmyduffel374
    @emmyduffel374 Před 4 lety +58

    idk what it is about you but you remind me so much of the OG of CZcams... Juicystar07 lol. I can't tell if its your voice your looks or what! I'm a new subscriber though love youu

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +2

      hahaa awwww !! thank you for joining the family beautiful ! loveeee youuu!

    • @RachelDulanski
      @RachelDulanski Před 4 lety +2

      Yes I agree! Use to watch the CZcamsr you're talking about!

    • @jaaythemonster
      @jaaythemonster Před 4 lety

      Oh I can see it.

    • @eggegg8181
      @eggegg8181 Před 4 lety

      Agreed, I’ve always thought the same!

  • @phoebetonkin8020
    @phoebetonkin8020 Před 4 lety +22

    I was cheated on with my best friend three years ago. And what’s worse is he’s still with her to this day

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 Před 4 lety

      Did they ever apologize to you?

    • @phoebetonkin8020
      @phoebetonkin8020 Před 4 lety +1

      Tik Doe he did but she didn’t

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 Před 4 lety

      @@phoebetonkin8020
      Did you suspect they liked each other wtf

    • @phoebetonkin8020
      @phoebetonkin8020 Před 4 lety +5

      Tik Doe all I know is one minute I was the happiest I’d ever been and the next I was being deceived by my now ex friend

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 Před 4 lety

      @@phoebetonkin8020
      But how did it all go down? And how do people you guys know react to their relationship?
      I'm really sorry this happened to you...

  • @hannahjohnson7777
    @hannahjohnson7777 Před 4 lety +4

    Omg girl, I'm so sorry all these stupid guys have run all over you.
    I will never understand why people cheat. Just stay single and have flings if you really desire to do so. Don't bring someone else into your mess, it's selfish. But I'm so glad to hear that you have a boyfriend now. I wish nothing but the best for the two of you. 😊😊❤

  • @angeliconda123
    @angeliconda123 Před 4 lety +5

    For the Q&A:
    1. How did you meet?
    2. Favorite thing about each other?
    3. Biggest pet peeve about the other?

  • @iluv2cheer176
    @iluv2cheer176 Před 4 lety +9

    I'm not sure how I found your channel, I think your ghosted one was recommended to me? Either way I'm sticking around and gonna binge more of your videos because I just love your personality!!! 😍😍😍😍

  • @IvoryCherry
    @IvoryCherry Před 4 lety +18

    oh man I feel so bad for that girl. But hey, good on you for telling her how her man really is and if she wants to put her head in the sand, that's her problem.

  • @-toastie-6591
    @-toastie-6591 Před 4 lety +18

    Spill the tea gorgeous ✨💕

  • @maolyalejandra697
    @maolyalejandra697 Před 4 lety +31

    Story time on how you met your boyfriend

  • @dakotasmart1338
    @dakotasmart1338 Před 4 lety +1

    New subscriber here lol... my ex cheated on me several times with the same girl. She had no idea that him and I were together so he was basically cheating in both of us. Her and I are now best friends and he’s marrying the last girl he cheated on me with... it’s a long story lol

  • @aidenbrooke6176
    @aidenbrooke6176 Před 4 lety +1

    I love you’re channel. You seem so normal, and not like you’re trying too hard for content. Can’t wait for more of your videos! 💕✨👑

  • @elenland.p4364
    @elenland.p4364 Před 4 lety +4

    I am happy for you because you managed to move on from these situations....
    I am from Greece and I really enjoy your video's, keep the good work!

  • @ivonnegonzalez6552
    @ivonnegonzalez6552 Před 4 lety +12

    New subscriber but been here since Denmark story time lol

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +2

      awww thank youuu welcome to the family beautiful xo

  • @alyssadana5011
    @alyssadana5011 Před 4 lety +6

    I love choices lmao
    Youre so beautiful. And have the best personality. I been cheated on a million and one dam times. I can’t believe anyone would cheat on you!

  • @zebo9483
    @zebo9483 Před 4 lety +2

    I just don’t understand guys who love to be with multiple women and decide to pursue a monogamous relationship. It doesn’t make sense. If you want to have sex with multiple women simultaneously or love to be around multiple women DO NOT GET INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. You will not have any problems hiding stuff or lying. As long as you are open to the girls about your intentions and they are ok with it then you’re good.

  • @mariahhall8481
    @mariahhall8481 Před 2 lety

    My 5th boyfriend that I’ve loved like nobody else was very toxic towards me. He would tell me he didn’t like my personality, he would tell me I have a lack of knowledge and I’ve tried and tries to be loving no matter how bad he treated me. I miss him so much and I still do have love for him but at the same time I’m questioning myself why. Also, he cheated on me with his ex and he was telling me how she was better than me and how she made me happier than I could. But who was there for him for his birthday? Me. Who was there when he was having a shitty day? Me. And who was there when he needed company and somebody to talk to. Me!!! I just hope he thinks of me before he goes to sleep and think about what he had done. And see how he made a horrible choice to block me and cheat on me. He should be ashamed of himself.

  • @victorias252
    @victorias252 Před 4 lety +2

    There so many cheaters in the world right now! We all deserve so much more!

  • @pandapng
    @pandapng Před 4 lety +1

    I was cheated on multiple times by a guy who I was with for about 6 or 7 months
    He told me from the start that he'd slept with his friend in the past but that her and him were all cool and he was in love w me and we were different. He did say that he'd had feelings for her for ages before he dated me but I really wanted to support the friendship and got to know the girl and she seemed really nice and I wanted us to be friends. He was also super close with his ex gf and after cheating on me with his best friend and after we broke up he would still hook up with me and say he wanted things to work out and we even went away together so I thought things were going back to normal. Anyway we went away in January last yr and then in Feb he still was seeing me and on Valentine's day I was at work and he sent me a photo of him in bed with his ex gf. They got back together and are still together to this day despite breaking up for a little while they obviously just got right back together. Idk the experience obviously Stuck with me and he's still tried to talk to me in public a few times but after all that even though it took about a full year I finally got to a place where I never unblocked him and could walk past him in public even though he'd yell at me to talk to him. I didn't think I would ever be in a good healthy relationship and was scared to get used like that again but after the months went past I became able to open up and made beautiful friends and get to say that my best friend is my boyfriend and I know that I'll always be treated right. It drives me insane that there are people in the world who think it's ok to use people and cheat on them and drag them along like that but I've been the luckiest person to be able to finally get out of all that and be in a healthy relationship.

  • @AnaOliveira-ol4zg
    @AnaOliveira-ol4zg Před 4 lety +5

    There are some nasty people in this world...

  • @syrelilac
    @syrelilac Před 4 lety +3

    i thought you were nina dobrev for a second lol

  • @truecollar9059
    @truecollar9059 Před 4 lety

    please do the video with Nick, loving your story times btw!
    questions for you and Nick’s Q&A:
    what was your biggest fight & how did you resolve it?
    future plans together?
    how to make time for the relationship? how often do you see each other weekly?

  • @xocarolineox5657
    @xocarolineox5657 Před 4 lety +4

    Okay so....what a JERK! So glad you ended that ASAP! I wish you the best!💗

  • @Zoe-qd8fx
    @Zoe-qd8fx Před 4 lety +4

    Where are you finding these dudes? Lol

  • @ScyllaWyrm
    @ScyllaWyrm Před 4 lety +3

    This whole relationship thing is a game to some superficial boneheads out there. Absolutely ridiculous. You don't immediately expect this behavior from Danish folks either. They're usually pretty civil.

  • @gamergirlvlogs3634
    @gamergirlvlogs3634 Před 4 lety +7

    You look so gorgeous girlie! 😘👍

  • @montanaxiii9646
    @montanaxiii9646 Před 4 lety +1

    “My heart breaks out to you” -Nicoletta 2020

  • @wandahaney8125
    @wandahaney8125 Před 4 lety +2

    Oh my goodness! What luck.....hehehehe im glad you are doing better now❤️

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety

      awww thank you Wanda ! I just look back now and laugh :) I hope you are doing well girly xo

  • @wiktoriakusia1509
    @wiktoriakusia1509 Před 4 lety +5

    Omg im so sorry for u love you so so much ❤️❤️

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +1

      I love you even more beautiful !

    • @wiktoriakusia1509
      @wiktoriakusia1509 Před 4 lety +1

      Nicoletta xo omg i was NOT expecting that u would reply (sorry for my English) im litterly crying love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AllyBarkin
    @AllyBarkin Před 4 lety +1

    I found out my long distance ex bf was talking to someone else, saying he loved them and wanted to be with them, even saying he was going to leave me for them, all the while he kept sending me long-ass messages saying I was the love of his life. Fuckin lousy-ass men I swear lol

  • @tabithathewholistic
    @tabithathewholistic Před 4 lety

    Dude has MAD commitment issues fam😑😑😑😑

  • @Erin-cd5op
    @Erin-cd5op Před 4 lety +1

    omg someone tell me pls WHAT lashes are these 😭 or are they real?! Lol you’re so pretty!!!! 💋

  • @katerogerson936
    @katerogerson936 Před 4 lety +1

    I am happy for you you have a new boyfriend I only have one brother he is amazing person and also looks out for me 👍

  • @RileyZXK9
    @RileyZXK9 Před 4 lety

    THE EVIDENCE DOES NOT LIE. 😂 get em girl! Good for you for washing your hands of this loser. Also, before you even suggested his dad was a wing man I was yelling it through the screen. It’s sad and disgusting how men will help each other be disgusting cowards.

  • @kaybaye7628
    @kaybaye7628 Před 4 lety

    You should make a video on when you should leave a relationship and knowing your worth♥️ lol it seems like you don’t tolerate any bad stuff which is good. If that was me I would give that person a second chance and I’m 100% sure I would keep letting it happen😭 cause I’m dumb lol but yeah that would be cool 😎

  • @izabellaivanova2828
    @izabellaivanova2828 Před 4 lety +2

    How long after" Tom" did you meet ur current boyfriend nick?

  • @savannahking544
    @savannahking544 Před 4 lety

    Just started following you and really enjoying your energy! Keep it up!

  • @xocarolineox5657
    @xocarolineox5657 Před 4 lety +3

    Also I would love to see the Q&A💗

  • @umujalaal2725
    @umujalaal2725 Před 4 lety +1

    Wishing you beautiful life ahead bbe doll💓💓💓

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEos Před 4 lety +1

    Do you count emotional cheating as cheating? Because I was emotionally cheated on

    • @MrNiallOneDirection
      @MrNiallOneDirection Před 4 lety +1

      From my perspective, yes. The person is emotionally invested in someone else which means they're not giving their 100% into the relationship.

  • @alyssadana5011
    @alyssadana5011 Před 4 lety +5

    Totally random. Are your lashes real? I’m kind of an og subscriber but I don’t remember you mentioning. I feel like they are real lol

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 Před 4 lety

      They look real 🙂
      *we're both wrong*

    • @alyssadana5011
      @alyssadana5011 Před 4 lety

      M M lol they reallly do tho and wait how do you know they are fake ?

  • @stitchlover56789
    @stitchlover56789 Před 4 lety +1

    This is bullsh*t someone as beautiful as you does not deserve to get cheated on

  • @vincep6365
    @vincep6365 Před 4 lety +1

    Who the hell is Nicolas? Lol 😂

  • @daniellebabe1
    @daniellebabe1 Před 4 lety

    Omg that’s crazy. That sucks that the girl reacted the way she did she

  • @bri4ng0
    @bri4ng0 Před 4 lety

    I also got cheated on... After that we broke up, things have been much better in general for me

  • @Julissaily86
    @Julissaily86 Před 4 lety

    Trust me I also have dodged some bullets lol!

  • @THEYCANTSTOPME
    @THEYCANTSTOPME Před 4 lety

    UGH just get you a me, Ill keep that heart right 100.

  • @sarahreinhard2167
    @sarahreinhard2167 Před 4 lety

    I hate when guys do this I wish they would just be honest about not wanting to commit most if them that do this are just attention whores...sadly it's very selfish

  • @sarahreinhard2167
    @sarahreinhard2167 Před 4 lety

    I love your makeup girl

  • @TranceMermaid
    @TranceMermaid Před 4 lety

    oh man... LOL my ex boyfriends name was Tom and he cheated on me.....

  • @__MON_
    @__MON_ Před 4 lety +1

    Again first❤️❤️ love you

    • @wiktoriakusia1509
      @wiktoriakusia1509 Před 4 lety

      Zainab Qasim not

    • @__MON_
      @__MON_ Před 4 lety

      Yeah may be second or third 😂🤣

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +1

      love you bby xo!

    • @__MON_
      @__MON_ Před 4 lety

      @@NicolettaxoOMG literally crying 😭😭 u r soo polite ❤️❤️❤️ may u get more success girl 💕💕best of luck for ur future👍👍👍👌👌

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +1

      @@__MON_ awww you are the cutest !!! that means the world to me thank you beautiful! and I wish you all the success and happiness in your future beauty

  • @kaydeebug24
    @kaydeebug24 Před 4 lety +1

    wait didn't you already do this video?!

    • @Nicolettaxo
      @Nicolettaxo  Před 4 lety +1

      no I didn't that wasn't another story I have now made a playlist of my storytimes

    • @kaydeebug24
      @kaydeebug24 Před 4 lety +2

      haha I finished the video and realized you have been cheated on more than once 🤦‍♀️ I'm sorry girl! Good story time tho

  • @alessaalvarez8841
    @alessaalvarez8841 Před 4 lety +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @casey8805
    @casey8805 Před 4 lety +1

    So glad the following list is gone.

  • @priyach8286
    @priyach8286 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi dear.. 😍

  • @beautycare2243
    @beautycare2243 Před 4 lety

    cute guy!

  • @juliak5852
    @juliak5852 Před 4 lety +1

    Wait I thought you nicknamed him Denmark but you said Tom ...did I mistake it ooorr

    • @freespirit6478
      @freespirit6478 Před 4 lety

      Diffrent story diffrent guy just go to her playlist you will find all of her love stories

  • @katiemiller3845
    @katiemiller3845 Před 4 lety

    What is your favorite memory of yours relationship

  • @kaitlynfox9607
    @kaitlynfox9607 Před 4 lety +1

    Girl... 4 videos on one guy? I watched the first 2 but this is getting excessive lmao

  • @rashmib4279
    @rashmib4279 Před 4 lety

    Hi nicoletta look i really appreciate you and i really like your videos but can i say something ? Maybe you feel hurt and cheated but please don't share your personnal problems online, it's not good and even thought he ghosted you, that's not a way to solve the matter , anyway i'm sorry i have no right to say something about your like but that was an advice from my part as a friend .... hope you'll understand . Have the day you deserve ! God bless you .
    @nicolettaxo

    • @brookelynn5877
      @brookelynn5877 Před 4 lety +7

      It's her story time and not your place to talk, its content.