Can You Have A Functional Co-Parenting Relationship With Your BM/BD?
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Jess literally deserves to be a permanent host based on this. Way more personality than Yee.
I came here just to comment this 😂💯
Not defensive about her relationships maybe because she's a comedian so she comfortable with self deprecation
bro i forgot Yee was even on the show LMFAO 🤣 what is she even up to these days?
Yee was depressing. She threw the energy off.
Deff better than that Flame, whatever it was thing they had on earlier this week 🔥🔥
Jess fits in so well with the guys on this show. It feels like she been there forever, the chemistry is 🔥
Yup!!
They need to go ahead and give Jess the third spot already. I have been watching the Breakfast Club all week and them 3 together are a whole vibe. Eddie F, Taylor Hayes , Brandon Tagoe, Symantha Wilson please make it so.
No RATCHETs allowed
Fr they need to start paying her lmao.
@@TheBasher-_- Wait none of The Breakfast Club guest host get paid?
Jess needs to be on the morning show!!!!!!!! Baltimore shining bright with her showing her energy and emotional intelligent that we don't see a lot from my hometown ❤❤❤ Met her once in Baltimore, really kind in real life! Hope she stays!
The moral of the story is respect, communication, putting personal issues aside, and realizing it's all about the child, or children 1st. If parents can honestly do that while not together any longer, then all will be well.
I’m loving Jess as a co-host❤ Please bring her on permanently!
I’m pretty sure she is already they just haven’t announced it yet
We need this black queen to be a permanent host! Breakfast clubs first black woman host 🤞
This is one of thee best feelings in the world when you and kids father can get along and then my boyfriend and him get along. It’s called maturity and respect ✊🏾 😊
Jess was really really open . She went to having her lights off to being a famous comedian. That is a journey. She was so raw. And it is easy to hold on to bitterness. But she right. Have to let it go. That alot of grace she gave
I have a baby daddy bestie! It is truly the most adult shit I've ever done!! It's so glorious to be able to move harmoniously in raising our boys.
You look like the type to be noting more than a baby mama 😂
Yall still screwing too
Fradreika I bet your boys are benefiting from y'alls good relationship too...keep it ùp!
@@GOABT that's mean to say Polo G
All of my friends still smash their baby momma's and the low life women have boyfriends they are playing. I'll never date a woman with kids because I have too much proof. A guy I know wife named their son after her first deadbeat baby daddy and he hate her till this day. Dating a bw with kids is like leaving heaven for hell🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Jess is REAL. Breakfast club has never been this good lol
What Jess said from 2:10 to 2:50 is REAL.. People only think women need to feel “Safe” or “comforted” but men do to. When somebody is there for you, and actually care bout you, you gonna VALUE that person forever 💯
Lies lmao. Women stick by their man, support them emotionally, financially and physically and they still get done dirty. That’s why I’m glad women are waking up these days and are only existing in transactional relationships.
@@MsDarkie93 boy bye
@@MsDarkie93 damn you hella miserable. All your comments are negative. Please go heal
@@Ianisatool ok sis
I think there are a lot of people who have great co-parenting relationships. The drama and chaos situations just get talked about more.
Agreed!! People that have no issues ain’t out here talking about it cuz they don’t have to - it’s nothing to talk about.
That's the only thing that's highlighted on the internet!!!
I feel blessed cause me and my baby daddy co parent beautifully! Charlemagne is right… if the relationship was rooted in respect it’ll always be like that! 🙏🏾
I’m friends with both of my ex husbands thank god. We talk more than we did when we’re married. Especially my last one to the point where people constantly ask why we divorced. It only hurts the children when parents are at each other’s throats.
This is beautiful. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Two ex husbands?! You're better then me sis
Why DID you and the last husband get divorced?
Good track record. You’re definitely gonna be friends with your third and fourth husbands too!
@@god-mage-ki7006 😂😂
You can if there’s no sex between the two anymore 😂😂😂 honestly that’s the problem let’s keep it real
Or feelings.
🎯🎯
Exactly!
Or one person that don't want to let you go emotionally. I'm going through this now with my ex wife. I divorced her so I think women have a hard time when the man ends a marriage or relationship.
So true
Jess is AMAZING on the Breakfast Club, Amazing Co-host choice she needs her Queen chair and golden mic, cos she's freshened up the show and made me want to tune in or go on CZcams everyday.
Hating someone you loved is crazy. Wishing ill on someone u have a kid with is pathetic…and my baby daddy is both 🤷🏾♀️ 😂
But seriously, a decent coparenting relationship takes respect, maturity, and communication. And some people struggle with that when they’ve never witnessed it themselves.
My ex-husband is like my brother-saying soulmate would be off putting to the new people that have entered our lives. We are family. I don’t understand hating someone you once loved.
Your sick
@@GOABT small minded gnat-shoo.
Put her on, she's really good with the regular hosts and super funny!
at some point, we gotta promote marriage and healthy relationships, not this broken household stuff.
Exactly!
Jess!! It’s the eye roll at Charlemagne when he said he want you and your Bro to just get married! 😂🤣😂 - so glad radio has a visual now!
The whole baby momma, baby daddy dynamic is just weird period. It’s a absolute no for me.
My son is 23, his father is married and I definitely see him as bro. I’ve known him basically all my life and he is my family as well as his wife. My baby daddy and I been doing this wayyyy before Jess
Baby daddy brother is hilarious 😅 but I respect the relationship!
…. The overall answer is no, but some are righteous…. And most aren’t 🤷🏾♂️…. It’s about balance…. Understanding… Communicating…. But mainly, growth. 🙏🏾
My ex and I co parent really good. It’s not easy, but we make it work.
Sad that we have such a high population of “baby daddy/mommas” smh
Absolutely! I have an excellent relationship with my children’s father. We respect each other…And are always on the same page when co-parenting. It’s a blessing.
😂😂😂😂😂 sounds like a broken home to me them kids suffering 😂
The more they bring Jess back the more comfortable I can tell she gets! I’m excited for her future whichever direction it will go!! ❤
It’s very nice having a great co-parenting relationship with my sons mother it’s a “red flag” for immature women I’ve dealt with but so what I’m at peace😂
Calling ya BM sis is pretty different lol I get where Rome coming from tho
Bruh the ish crazy to me. Women be off put if there’s drama because they don’t wanna be apart of that. But if you and your BM str8 and doing a good job coparenting with each other they’re threatened by it 😂 so I’m doing a good job adulting/parenting and you mad about that?? Really?
@@qthequick I think it comes down to trust. Unfortunately, some men will say they're really close to their BM, and they're best friends, but really be smashing them on the low. So that's why some women see it as a red flag
@@lolacabana123 I understand that and I get thats the type of relationship described in the video. However, thats not what Im getting at. I'm referring to 2 adults putting personal feelings aside and getting the job done, but because I have don't hold any animosity and/or have anything negative to say about my bm its held against me. Thats immature
If a man constantly speaking negatively on his baby mama then that’s a red flag in my opinion . Something is off. When a man is truly over the situation and co-parent effectively… he doesn’t need speak on it because he’s at peace. But it definitely boils down to trust though, because all this “we’re best friends” “and we talk all the time about our relationship issues” come across like you Mfs need to get back together then. That could be seen as disrespectful to your new spouse. It’s about boundaries.
Keep Jess❤❤😂😂
So this is why my BM text me this morning after ignoring me all day yesterday 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆 It's a start.
😂😂😂😂😂
Like Jess, I've had a pretty good relationship with my son's father & his family. We broke up when my son was 1 & he's 26 now. His dad is married with 2 much younger children. I meet up with his wife & kids to hang out. Essentially, we're all family. Yeah we bump heads from time to time, like siblings, but for the most part things are cool. Our families have celebrated bdays, holidays & showers together. I also gave his niece her middle name too
Charlamagne shade is on another level today 😂
Jess, you have been doing amazing sweetie! You have my attention, now! ❤
The moral of the story is often times we encounter situations during our immaturity and thru grace, our authenticity and growth affords the opportunity of deprogramming of the faulty programming to create healthy conditions for shared/common goals ie our kids. Jess, your son is receiving the benefit of the woman-mother and not the girl-mother of you, which is the essence of motherhood. You are a woman of faith, grace and wisdom. Glad to call you sis❤ and cudos to Rome, the sign of a man is his ability to be authentically honest despite perceived consequences. So excited for the young man you both are rearing into an immaculate human being and man someday.
This is beautifully written. You seem so educated. I admire the way you write. Have a great day
@VanahLee thank you and please have a powerful day.
Honestly, I love Jess and Claudia as hosts! For a "younger" audience, I can see them with Jess. For a more mature audience, such as myself, I can see them lean more towards Claudia Jordan. But what I would love to see all four of their dynamics together. I wanna see how well they all 4 could do together. I'm here for that!
I'm not listening to any man that call the mother of they children Sis.. FOH
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I understand the relationship that Jess has with her child's father COMPLETELY!! Me and my Ex-husband (my Daughter's Father) have the same Sister- Brother relationship and I wouldn't trade it for the WORLD! That's my Dawg!! We got married at 22 years old and even though it didn't work out for us, he has ALWAYS been there for us, through thick, thin and even my last Divorce!
Y’all can normalize this baby daddy baby momma shìt but I refuse stop creating broke households 😂😂😂😂
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️🔥
I can appreciate this segment cause me and my son's father are family and I call him my kissing cousin. We communicate well because we detached from emotional connections beyond our child and wanting what's best for him. Putting him first!
It’s a shame that this generation glorifies being somebody’s baby mama instead of being a wife
Wives be the first to file for divorce
Why do y’all think getting married or being a wife/husband is the end all be all? Lmao. Not everyone wants to get married nor is marriage going to save anything.
@@vibewithjosh It's not but it honors each other and provides more stability for the children. (Obviously not perfect, but better than have numerous kids out of wedlock).
Speak. They think this is okay and not realizing the consequences thereof and spiritual warfare strongholds
@@GarageStudio7 there are PLENTY of stable
co-parenting relationships. Marriage like I said do not provide more stability or any stronger foundation. It’s nothing but a piece of paper. You can do all of that in a regular committed relationships with someone you love. It’s up to the people in the relationship to make it work not up to if they’re married or not.
I co parent with my BM and it's all luv. What's really cool tho is that she and my wife have become the best of friends. And me and her husband are super cool. We do everything, and make decisions as a family unit. And all our kids routinely play together and spend weeks at a time at each other's house.
I luv this!
Jess is still in love with her BD, you can see it in her face. It’s adorable
No it’s sick, y’all people out here promoting bastard children 😂
As a wife i struggle with this i can't lie. Yall can be "friends" but I don't need my man having a strong emotional connection with another woman talking about we BFFs now.
But they have a child together and they connected forever🤷🏽♀️
@@oasisfullfilled7617 sounds like they need to get back together then. It’s nothing wrong having a healthy co-parenting relationship. But it’s a little to close for comfort especially when you have a new spouse. It can come across a little inappropriate. It’s called boundaries.
Communication communication communication and the understanding that the relationship is now about raising your child to be a great person, then it can definitely work.
But everybody dragged Porsha when she said she wanted her and Dennis to be like bro and sis
Envy better wake up every morning with so much gratitude that Gia did not leave him because she could have and she would have been 100 percent right for doing so... he's killing me talking about i couldn't See Gia happy with no one else...That's why I'm not going anywhere...Sir, if she would have left... that would have been your reality.. lol
I love Jess on the BC
How about as black people we have more wives & husbands. Less BM’s & BD’s
facts tho...why tf we still promoting this stuff?
@@JokerG16 all a part of the agenda Fam. Ironically the two married on here didn’t once encourage marriage
They literally promoting being a baby mama 😂 this is sickness
@El Toppo Actually Charla did say Jess shld marry her BD bcus they work so well together
Some of us are divorced...we did have that 😂😂😂life is still life
You can, but both the mom and dad have to be civil 💯💯
Respect and honesty
Yes, you can if you are both mature and want what’s best for the child.
I have a good co parenting relationship with my sons dad.
Me, my babydad, and his first baby mom are great. Me and her actually hang out and talk more than him!
Me and my children's father is like that. Everything he does for the family, he always includes me and my husband. He just bought property so that his whole family can build homes on it. He included a space for us. He's permanent family like siblings, so... why not?
Lmfaooo , you just a baby mama nothing more that’s all you’ll ever be
I love my ex-husband/son's dad. We were too young when we married... We co-parented beautifully.
Our son is grown now.
...Wonderful human being... he's family
FAM! my first baby mama was my junior high school girlfriend. After high school graduation, we just didn't rock with each other anymore. We have a grown a$$ daughter we both love extremely. Over the years, we both got married to other people and have had kids and for what ever reason we actually became extremely good friends...... nothing sexual or what ever. Till this day we can speak on anything. i understand the dynamic of what Jess and Rome are talking about. it seems weird, but it works
You should be sad with that life smh I pray for your bastard child
Love these segments with Jess
Ms Jess give a lot of grace that story about the lights off and man came into a lump sum of money but no help was given and she still is able to treat him as a friend and have the relationship she has with him, wow. I hope she continues in that character. May God's blessings be upon her. That's a good woman.
I got a baby daddy brother. Once you take the sexual part out n be great co parents, the friendship can blossom
Naw I need to hit
@@GiftedDee nah you wild 😂
@@markville1061💀
It depends on how the relationship started. Like im willing to bet, they probably started as thst couple thst seemed like best friends, or they had the best friends even from the start. Believe it or not, a lot of relationships start off from a very shallow point of attraction and or advesarial position. Like CTG said at the end, a lot of people in relationshios dont and never respected each other
Me and my ex wife grew up together and the sexual tension was a problem at first but now we past that and just co parent. She would never be a sister though. That shit's weird as hell if you were truly connected.
I’m so happy that Jess is on the breakfast club
That’s beautiful. Good for Jess & Rome. My boyfriend and his son’s mother have the same relationship. It’s super dope.
Yep! Yeap!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Jess is finally the new co-host!💯 #ThankYouGod🙏🏽
Jess loves this man with every fiber of her existence. The way she listens to what he has to say.
My ex husband and I are good friends. We do a great job co-parenting. It can happen. The toxicity don't work.
My son’s mother and I get along like they do. She is friends with my girlfriend and I am cool with whomever she dates. People think we are a couple because we get along so well. Most women give me hard time about how cool we are. We split income tax money with each other.
How it should be. People so drama focused
💯. How it’s supposed to be
The moral of the story is only have a baby with someone who you know you can remain friends with if the relationship doesn’t workout
It was the "sometimes" for me😅😅😅
Maturity and putting anything negative to the side for the child/children is dope! It does not have to be negative/toxic. My husband and I both agree it’s definitely possible. It’s about the babies not about the parents mess etc. And should be more than not.
I find myself looking on here wishing Jess is on the show EVERYDAY 😮🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love the way jess is excusing Rome's toxic behaviour
I have this kind of relationship with my Son's Father!!!! We're grown so we don't trip!
Speaking from the same perspective of not having a lot of family or friends I don’t think it’s weird at all for exes to think of or refer to each other as brother and sis. When you think of the concept of a relationship that person probably was your best friend at some point and it’s natural for best friends to become family over time. It’s more of this person is my family member now, vs a title of bro and sis.
I'm on the fence with the title. Of course it's a respect thing, family, etc... among adults within. But for a child (depending upon age) it can be awkward and confusing in a literal sense, ie: Family tree: brother, sister ---> Me 😬😵💫. That's my moms brother and my dad. In the end what's important - both parents get along. But as a child's parent, you will always be family - kin.
Me and both my kids mom have a great coparent relationship. My oldest is grown but my youngest 2's mom is my homie. After the hurt of breaking up...we still did what's best for the boys because THEY come 1st.
It’s good they have learned to parent and have a good relationship. Jess is grown grown
I have this relationship with my BD. We been doin this for almost 18 years !
That’s sick 😂😂😂😂 you should have aborted
I'm a weird nigga because I never had trouble being friends with my exes. For me I've always approached relationships from the respect of if I'm not mature enough to be in one I just continue dating until I find the right one. I've never broken up with a girl where the break up was so bad we couldn't kick it afterward as friends. i think what happens a lot is people jump into these relationships without really knowing or having feelings for the other person and then they break up and they gain animosity for them. I think what Jess and her baby daddy are doing is great and it's good for the child. When a kid is involved is so fucking important for the parents to be on the same page, especially when it comes to the mama's boyfriends coming into the house.
Me and by baby daddy have the best relationships. We talk about everything in each others lives. My best homie
Jess for the permanent spot!!!!! Hands Down!
Lls Jess’s face when Charlamagne said “I think y’all soul mates Rome” lol
Rome wasn’t supposed to agree. 😅
I agree your soulmate does not have to be someone that you are in a romantic relationship with 💯
Envy is so cringe when he does this phone line bs
This is exactly why a person with no kids should NOT date a person with kids because that person will ALWAYS belong to the person they had kids with 🤷🏽♂️
It depends on the individual cuz every person situation is different I didn't had some horrible situations and some great ones summit took me years to grow
Theoretically, it's possible with willing participants, maturity and removing emotions.
My son’s dad and I are besties. We met in high school, linked up, had a son, realized we are better as friends! And have been for years.
It dope Jes
It’s true it happens. Me and my daughter father didn’t work but after the BS we were able to have a great coparenting relationship and both of us have moved on to other people. It’s better to get along rather than arguing.
The BD is definitely my cousin in public 😂
😂😂😂
damm it's like that🤣
😂
@12:00 Jess seems like a sweet and understanding soul. Not everyone has that heart and empathy to begin with. I wonder if her ex has any remorse for his selfishness.
Not having healthy boundaries is still toxic behavior, only a small selection of people in a new relationship is going to tolerate you giggling on the phone with your BM/BD just any time of the day & it’s probably because they don’t know what a healthy boundary is as well
The 1st caller lacks boundaries, that’s not the same as Jess and Rome
I love this!
I absolutely have a baby daddy brother/best friend. Our family’s are entangled. Our spouse getting along and we have holidays together.
Me and my BD's When been saying this . Them My Bros FR.
Me and my sons mom like this thats my dawg now
Cheyenne and Cory from Teen Mom OG has a similar situation like this
My ex husband and I have this type of relationship, he got me and I got him FOR LIFE. We were married 23 yrs and share 2 kids
Caller: "Like how does that happen?"
CTG: "Reposado..."
😂🤣😂
KEEP JESS PERIOD. Again stop playing with us Char & Envy! Yall know wsup! Jess keep shining beautiful! ❤