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Hey Tea, new subscriber, very first video I watch on your CZcams channel. Shout out to you for still giving him your energy because ALOT of women would of ghosted and blocked him for wanting to be on the phone for too long, that would be their 'ick' lol. He clearly has too much free time to want to be on the phone with you more and too eager to see you sooner, as a guy in my opinion he is doing way too much on the phone but it is your choice to continue with him or not. Good Luck!💯 I Really Enjoyed the video!! More Storytime!💯
Men know what boundaries are. They make them all the time. They just don’t like it when boundaries are set against them
this is so so so true
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Him not respecting your boundaries by not accepting Friday as your only answer but kept trying is an indicator of the future. Good for you. Your head is on straight. Too many women are ending up dead or abused because they ignore the “little” things at first.
Also as far as telling them about your job, just say you own your own company, and change the subject. Don’t stay in the phone with men all day long either. Especially at first. They will take all your time for no reason. ❤❤❤❤.
Also your intuition is on point! I’m in my 30s and it takes some of use forever to learn the things that you are picking up on. You rather be picky and wait longer than settle.
yes yes yessssss
I’d say free lancer. Just come up with a phrase that down plays it a little. Because what you do is not important early on. I’m a quality chemist that makes great money but when on a date I simply say I work in a lab and then talk about something else.
@@toriyt2714 oh that’s even better! A freelancer! Yes!
This!!!!💯
girl, i'm so glad you're listening to your instincts. its crazy how he feels entitled to your time within knowing you for ~2 weeks... possessiveness is such a red flag!
stay safe beautiful!
The part where you mentioned that he called you twice then sent you a mad face kinda scared me a little bit. It’s the small things that we have to pay attention to because the minor things can become major. Not all of the time but it happens. I know that you already know this but please be careful out here sis❤❤❤.
yessss im always taking mental notes bc that was a little over the top!
I was thinking the same thing. Calling twice is a bit much, but sending an angry emoji was over the top and possessive. I would’ve been so scared.
Sameeee I would’ve blocked him. I don’t give my time to people who aren’t understanding of my schedule and boundaries.
Tbh after watching you for over a year I think we can all see how much more comfortable you’re getting with vlogging. I am so happy for your growth and love to keep supporting you as you flourish.🫶🏽
omg thank you for this I almost had a panic attack before posting so i really appreciate the reassurance, LOVE YOU
Wow, I would never know. You definitely seem more comfortable @@TeaRenee
The guy with the texting while you’re sleeping (especially if it was super late),then calling multiple times, and the mad emoji is a BIG NO… he sounds controlling. Don’t ignore those things that seem minuscule, or lower your requirements to be accepting. As you said (and know), people pretend… especially in the beginning. I’m in my late 30’s and I’m afraid to get back out here because these men be tripping sometimes 😂
It sounds young too
definitely the mad emoji from a stranger is actually worthy of a block ewww lol
Exactly! That part didn’t sit well with me AT ALL!
Girl the phone thing is definitely a valid red flag! I'm an introvert. I need my own time; I call it "me time". I don't always want to be talking to someone. The moment you said that he told you "oh we don't even have to talk!" I just KNEW he was not the one.
Being on the phone is low effort, and easy access for them. He was not for you ❤ he doesn’t understand that you want something real, and that takes time. People who want full access to you like that is just trying to love bomb you and make themselves the center of your life. The bad part is, they are quick to leave. Keep that rule until it’s serious 💕
Exactly!!
Perfectly said.
Exactly
At 53 I am significantly older than you, but can honestly say I’ve experienced love bombing and the “it’s just a joke” thing at almost every age. The red flags list in your last video was like hearing my own list read back to me. Thank you for including that. It is so, so important for woman to stop ignoring red flags. Great couple of videos you’ve done here. Keep up the good work and stay safe out there. ☺️
He's giving narc vibes!! The control over having access to you, ignoring the fact that you were working , desperate for your attention and validation answering his calls serves has validation in his mind that he comes first which boosts his ego , the love bombing is his way of getting you to seem him in high honor and become more open and vulnerable. You did the right thing girl and you have great boundaries to weed out the toxic and the narcissistic men who prey on independent confident women they LOVE a challenge to break down a woman who's everything they are not. Keep your distance from him!! You deserve so much better than that mess you and the right man will find you!!! A man that finds a wife finds a good thing! It your job to love on your self and stay open to love the right man will come when you least expect it!💕✨
Dude sounds possessive and def giving 🚩
100% you should travel. I went to Italy and Greece last summer and it was so amazing, inspiring, transformative…..so many things. I’m going to Iceland this summer. Traveling can be a little stressful, but not to the point that you shouldn’t go! You WILL NOT regret it. ❤
I agree! Traveling cleanses your SOUL and really puts the world into perspective. It made me realize how many options I have in this life, that I don’t have to follow any rules.
Italy is one of my favorite places! I’m looking to go back to Japan soon and then Germany after that. Safe travels to you! 🍻
Driving crazy with you in the car, when they know you’re scared/uncomfortable, is an abuse tactic
First of all, I want to give you credit for being up front with him. I'm in my 40's and I WISH I learned how to communicate better with men. I settled so many times! Please continue to be you...Don't accept anything that you wouldn't want a younger female relative to accept! You're beautiful, intelligent, and you know what you want. Have fun girl❤❤
I don't want to sound paranoid, but being on the phone with someone and NOT talking sounds...off. Very, VERY off. I think you did the right thing by not continuing to date him. Great video, btw! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
when you are firm with your boundaries it lets them know they cant mess about so definitely let them know when you feel uncomfortable or if you feel like you are being disrespected because narcissists or controlling people tend to be nicer in person in the beginning but their traits can show through in text so I'm glad you distanced yourself from him x
This reminds me of my current situation a little. A co worker I've known for about 2 years finally got up the nerve to ask me out on a date.
Now, I always knew he had his eyes on me but I always kept it short with him bc 1. Even though he's a "nice guy" he's not really my type. 2. He's displayed behavior patterns with other people that clearly shows he could be short tempered. I did make dinner plans with him bc my friends was like just give him a chance. I'm at the point in my life where if I'm getting the slightest sense of a bad vibe from you I'm not going to even entertain the situation so after careful consideration. I canceled the date and will not be rescheduling.
Long story short go with your intuition. To me it seems like you were forcing yourself to try to give this guy a chance when he already "crossed boundaries" from the start.
You’ve opened up so much and I love to see you be transparent, it’s refreshing. Your intuition picked up on the signs, trust that 💗
So pretty ✨😭😭😭❤
thanks angel
Girl the first red flag was him calling you twice and sending the mad face emoji…but I’m glad you got out
Spain and Italy are both amaaaazing! Out of both countries, I preferred travel in Spain (Barcelona and Madrid) the most and I felt like it was easy since most signage is in both spanish and english. Italy is an incredibly charming and fun country (I've been to six cities and will be back in August) and Barcelona was a more relaxed and chill vibe with easy access to places to party. Overall, the transit system is soo much better in Europe (and I live in a major city in the US) and because the EU is a very transient place, it's set up well for travel - either train, flights, or bus. Uber is always accessible and I've even found it to be cheaper in Europe. Go!! You'd have an incredible time!
omgomgg this just made me wanna go even moreee, thanks for this❤️
its so good that ur learning from past experiences, so proud of you for setting those boundaries
I am so inspired whenever I see a woman do right by herself by being ‘strict’ as you call it. Don’t settle for things that bother you, no matter how little they seem.
Just randomly watched this and wow I commend you on following your instincts and setting firm boundaries. Your energy and time are invaluable, never let a guy think he can just command you to be available for him. You absolutely did the right thing.
The mad emoji is a red flag. He literally wanted you to respond on his time
What??? This is the reason why this generation don’t live REAL relationships !
@@sneldagildarobert I said what I said! You don’t have to agree with it 🤷🏽♀️
@@ShaDeGrate what you have written is false ! You cannot judge anyone by his emojis because you can miss the best guys. To spot the good guys one date is not enough, one week of talks not too. I can understood that a guy was not good for the first date but what about her ? The best red flag is the person that said that he is single because the fault was only from the other person or people that they have dated were not good enough. In the story time I have just understand that she is not ready for a relationship because she was only speaking about her own feelings and not from the other guy.
Relationship is not a question of experiences but knowledge. Today we can see that the people that fails having a good relationship or being single after 27/30/35 years are those having a lot of experience but no knowledge about women’ and men’ psychology/behaviour.
Shut up lmao @@sneldagildarobert
@@ShaDeGrateI completely agree with you!!! Him calling her TWICE and sending an angry emoji because she didn’t answer is possessive and low key intimidating. It’s like he expected her to drop everything to answer his call and was angry he didn’t get that reaction. Definitely weird.
You came right on time. 🎉 I'm gonna watch this while I do my digital planning. I love the grwm & chit chats from you.
omg youre so organized i love it! & thank youuuu
Guys that are in a rush and pushy are definitely a red flag. Speaking from experience
Please don't date this guy! Hes obviously possessive and doesnt respect boundaries. If you keep communicating your boundaries and he dismisses them. He's definitely not worth it.
I agree to take things slow, get to know each other first. If they're pushing too hard, then it might not be worth it.
Also, be careful about going to his place and meeting his friends too soon. This is coming from a place of experience. Long story short, the guy I was seeing several years ago tried to get me drunk so his friends could take advantage of me. Lucky for me I'm not a big drinker, so I came to my senses in time to get the hell out of there.
So yeah, you're not overreacting at all. Too many women go through these things. Thanks for sharing.
I’m obsessed with the way to do your makeup. Girl! Stunning
Tea I totally understand wym when u we’re saying you don’t wanna be otp w/someone u just met… that’s sensible; like being otp anytime once we’re “serious” makes sense, but def not when we’re still getting to know each other…. So I personally think u did the right thing by distancing yourself after u noticed he wasn’t respecting your boundaries. ❤❤
Dude was way too pushy and needy. He needed to take cues from you and respect them. I was talking to a guy and we hadn't met yet, just phone calls and texts. He literally got upset because I wasn't texting him constantly one night even though he knew I was spending time with my family. Sir, who do you think you are???
exactly! he seems possessive and demanding.
That’s how it starts with abusive men. They slowly isolate you from your friends and family. Please dash him to the trash love! 🚮
Omg I’m the same way, meeting someone and if we have an amazing chemistry, I stop going on dates. Now I learn to always keep my options open, don’t rush myself and stand on my boundaries. Proud of you!
First off, I'm loving these GRWM/Chat vlogs lately! Second: So proud of you for vocalizing your boundaries, regognizing they were being crossed, and moving on. I still have issues sometimes saying what i feel should be common sense😂. Last guy i was talking to always tried to make plans with me last minute. Even when I would tell him when I was free days or a week ahead of time, he'd still wait til the day of to ask me out. The last time he did that and I told him "No", without an explanation he just stopped reaching out 🤷🏽♀️. I thought maybe I shoulda said something. But it is what it is! Love you gworl! Just have fun and keep it pushing if you're not feeling it.
I like your approach to dating! Take your time because I’m in the same boat. Never feel pressure to date or do anything you don’t wanna do ! 💕
Love the follow up. And I think you did well, you stood your ground.
honestly i think you did a great job at communicating, plus it's always easier to see what u should/might've done differently after the situation. it looks like he was just purposefully misunderstanding ur boundaries, u did the right thing! also, i love your videos 💖 much love
Tea! Blessing us on a Friday night ! Love this
Love the consistent vids and vlogs sis. Beautiful as always ❤️
I absolutely love your chit chats with us and advice absolutely love it and it helps me in a way.. ❤ I was wondering can you possible do a video like girl to girl advice on toxic relationships and red flags and dos and don’ts in a relationship by any chance? Ily ❤
Your makeup is so pretty and gorgeous 💖
You did right!!! I learned to see the red flags rather small or big and my boundaries are MY boundaries.
Yes, take your time and explore your options 🎉😊
so excited to hehe
One day show on Netflix 🥰 beautiful story.
Love how you apply your make up! Keep inspiring!
You’re so pretty it’s crazyyy
I love your content ❤🎉….. I also kinda miss the sunday reset videos 😍❤️
I’m the exact way about the phone. I don’t see the point of being on the phone all the time or even texting allll day. I don’t even do that with family & friends unless we can only catch up over the phone or it’s something important that needs to be discussed. Other than that I don’t want to be on the phone lol
I’m back dating after a 4.5 year relationship. A few things that are helping me is knowing what I want, setting boundaries and standing on it, and not ignoring the red flags. 🚩 Take your time. ❤
I understand you completely about your situation. Boundaries are very important, and if he can't understand or respect you, you did right to keep your guard up. He sounds controlling, so I understand how you feel and your past relationships. Girl, keep paying attention to those red flags. I 🤎 your makeup as always and yes, I can't wait for summer.🥰
RED FLAG: Wants too much of your time, wants to create a false sense of closeness to make you fall faster. Take it from someone who is 31. He also has an anxious attachment style. No ma'am, keep those boundaries. Too soon for miscommunications.
Your Voice is so calming ❤
First of all. This is my first video I’ve seen of you and you are gorgeous, soothing voice and makeup so natural and pretty!! You have a new subscriber ❤❤❤
You did the right thing! I commented on your last video on what the last guy did to me. He kept moving fast and then switched up once he "got" me. He was a nasty person who wasn't serious in the end & thought he could try to keep me as a situationship. Always trust your instincts.
You inspire me so much 🫶🏾
awe i loveeee thank you
Definitely go to Italy. Getting there isn’t bad. The flight is long, if you leave in the night it doesn’t feel as bad. I stayed in Florence and then visited some of the other cities. It was such a fun time. I hope you get to go 💕
i loooove this type of vid i feel like we're best friends 🥰
I think you did a great job advocating for yourself and your boundaries. Its understandable if a part of you feels like you werent being communicative enough, but at the end of the day clear communication is one of the hardest skills to foster. You’re doing amazing sis🫶
You did good. Stand your ground. Don't ignore small things, they can become bad quickly. Continue to take your time & trust your instincts. ❤️
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This video was so entertaining 😂
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Love youu! 💗💗
What do you do for a living? “I’m in media” is a great answer
Love your videos! 🩵
Your makeup is fire ❤❤
Also, thank you so much for sharing your dating experience. I’m moving to a new city in June and I’m excited to start dating once I get settled in but I’m also aware that I have to be super careful 😩 seeing people share their experiences is helpful and gives me an idea of what to be on the lookout for. I can relate to just going with the first guy that you like. I used to do the same thing. I’m working on taking it slower now so kudos to you for doing the same!! My eyes got so big when you said the guy called you at night and was texting you sending mad face emojis 😂😂😂 red flag for sure good for you for taking note of that
Love these more personal videos! I’ve always enjoyed your beauty focused videos but I also love these sit-down chatty videos☺️
I love this makeup look! 😍 What shade of Patrick Ta blush did you use?
You did great! ❤
Great video girl! 💛
Just discovered your page, love it!!
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How quick he wanted to go even when you were apprehensive about it… he certainly had ulterior motives. Also don’t chase nor ever feel the need to provide any explanation other than you’re busy or don’t want to 💗.
I’m going to Italy this year and I’m so excited! I’m not going in the Summer though. I wanted to go when it wasn’t peak tourist season lol. I chose October. Weather is still nice before it gets super rainy. I’m so happy??
When u wanna see the ‘real’ person, go out w/them in group settings. Eventually they drop their guard, even if for a moment… here + there. If ur friends aren’t mutual friends, u’ll eventually get warnings (if they exist) from certain family members of his. Mine had a sister who saw him getting serious enough to wanna marry me, + she told me to be sure to get him ‘in check’ bc he always physically fought his sisters. Scared me bc it seemed as tho she didn’t wanna flat out say, he is physically abusive to females… which screams angry abusive personality. Turned out to be… true.
one day made me cry so much but its so good
Ur makeup look beautiful ❤️
Beautiful look. ❤
I’m going to Europe this summer, I love European summers & South America! & I love Italy & Greece too 😩
that man sounds SCARY, glad you let it go!!! I went to Europe solo in 2022 and it was THE BEST!!! I was scared at first but honestly so fucking glad I did it. I went out of my comfort zone and met a lot of lovely people. highly recommend!!
What shade of blush are you using?😍
I had that experience when I was with an older guy he wanted to be on the phone all the time everyday. I felt like he was tracking me to make sure I wasn’t out and then he’d go travel somewhere with his friends and I wouldn’t hear anything for weeks. Yea follow your instincts
It’s very stressful and confusing traveling to Europe LOL. I had a scary experience in Italy traveling alone, but it was my first trip out of the country and now I love solo trips. Travel is like nothing else, it’s so amazing. I say go for it!
If you want to do something that’s a getaway but still domestic, try Hawaii. 🤗
I did something similar when I first started to seriously date too. Especially when the conversations really flowed and such. But later on would find out in certain instances how my partner was selfish, insecure and just not a good person😅 you’re doing the right thing sis for sure, it’s not negativity it’s just caution since anyone cab pretend to be who they’re not nowadays…or you’re just waiting to get the full scope of who they are.
Edit: I’ll admit tho that pushiness from him about seeing you earlier was a bit worrying, sometimes I feel like men do that to test how far they can push your boundaries. So it’s good that your cautious, he needs to respect your schedule.
Ol’ school saying, ppl take ‘kindness for weakness’. So in the very 1st date, it can be a cutesy… ‘So what’s ur pet peeve’ type of question. Then he’ll ask urs ;). If u let him know the results of disrespecting urs in the past, he’ll be more mindful of it… for a future w/u :)
(If not, he’s an automatic red flag)
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@@TeaRenee RIGHHTTT?
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A little shows you what a Lot will be like later ! End of ! Boundaries are a MUST from the begining !!!
Please go to Europe girl!! I’ve been and it was a dream! ❤️
I'm not going to stress myself out about a guy I just met. I'm not doing it, I'm not doing it. 😂❤ Type energy
You definitely need to be careful when it comes to dating.
I have to agree with exploring your options but the problem is I dont know where to meet them😭 I really dont want to go on Tinder because I’ve tried it before and it’s not for me☹️
Chrckin* out that Netflix show, thanks for the recommendation! I’ve been looking for something new! Btw you look fabulous!!
Europe is so fun! You should definitely go I’ve only been to Spain and Portugal but I definitely wanna go to France, Italy, Greece…all the things lol 😂 the flight was super long but I think it helps if you do an overnight flight so you can just sleep through it. The first time I went to Spain we had a 7 hour flight to our layover in Paris but it was at like 7 or 8 pm so after sleeping for a few hours we were basically there. If you end up going pls vlog your experience ❤❤❤
Think you dodged a bullet……..
Omgggg I just finished watching one day and I totally ignored the last episode for my own mental health
So cute T 😍😍
thanks for sharing!