baking cupcakes *being alone but not lonely*
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“Being alone but not lonely”
As an introvert I can relate so hard
Me and I’m happy about it lol
I felt that, but sometimes it hurts seeing other people happy and I’m not
The title brings me so much comfort idk why. I struggle massively being alone and it reassures me in a way that it’s okay to be alone
Me too! It’s okay to be alone but not lonely
Same
You need professional help in my opinion.
@@r.martin3494 I’m getting help. Don’t worry
@@d.s_alan Kind of true. Wise words but it's not ready at all healthy to be alone and can you really be alone without being lonely!? I put it to you that you are both, not just one, so on a crazy half arsed way...
...There are two aspects to you, not only one - so you are not alone! 😂
The cake analogy was so spot on when it comes to self growth and becoming the person you like. Loved this ❤
I like it how Taz explained how Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs work without her realizing it. She explained it as easy as possible as well. This is content.
It's amazing how this video came at a point in my life when I needed it the most. So much of what u said just made so much of sense. You don't realise these things untill u hear it from someone. Thank you Taz.
Same here! Just came out of a 4.5 year relationship, go to Taz’ channel and this is what I find
This came exactly when I needed it so much Taz! I've always been ashamed of feeling lonely and I would seek out relationships, but they weren't genuine connections so it was so tiring trying to figure out why I feel so lonely and thought that I just needed to find the right person.
We all need to find the right person, just stop feeling bad about being alone!
Ah that's nice. God bless you. ❤️
I just wanted to add that you don't NEED to find that right person. You can be whole on your own. But it's nice having someone who can relate so deeply. :)
Dear Annoar:
Could it be that never having found that right person, we don't have the experience to draw upon to be able to accurately judge or comprehend how much more advantageous it is to actually have that right and special someone? Similarly, if you've never had footwear you will be reluctant to agree that you "need" footwear, but once you've given it a chance and the footwear hasn't walked off on its own and left you behind - because one's feet smell - then you would never want to be without footwear! Especially when cold or walking on extremely hot surfaces. This analogy fits perfectly with a partnership in life, in my view. One can manage alone, life is whole as a single person, but as a coupled person - "life has shoes" and "we all need footwear, unless our only experience of life is a tropical beach / a walk alone."
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Like music, a single note may make a wonderful 'ping', but two notes, an octave apart 🎹🎹 make each note a greater part when played as a whole.
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As Tibetans would once say;
“Even the squirrel burries it's nuts for winter!"
And;
"For a tree to be grafted in order to bear fruit, a gash cannot be left to heal over before the branch is eveloped."
However, it seems that it is kinder to others that some of us remain alone, even though that "significant other" may not have the pragmatism, nor yet gained the required wisdom to "save" themself, nor the altruism to save us.
🙏 Ngo mei tor faw.
I've always felt that feeling of being alone with a group of people, which is why I mostly isolate and feel less alone when I'm by myself. I've never been too emotional about it until the last few months of 2022 and even now, it still makes me annoyed and sad that effort always gets wasted on my end. I feel like I'm having to go through the lesson again of being fine by myself and this video is really helpful to that. Will definitely be watching this again for those moments ❤️
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Taz you don't even know how much I needed that video. Felt like a hug. So uplifting. Protect your peace is all we need. 💗
another day another slay from taz
I loved how deep this video was but still light hearted. Kind of felt like a heart to heart sessions with my friends. Thanks for sharing your journey with us Taz. I'm glad you're in a good place.
“People would treat me very badly and I would give even more” very well said Taz 9:47
Taz, you should 1000% make a podcast you are so good at talking on these kind of topics
YESSS
yes pls
At this point, Taz is basically a chef now.
Chefs are qualified! Cooks are what you're referring to. Don't insult chefs!
@@r.martin3494 u don't get the humor, don't u?
Here for Baker Taz 🍰
Who casually talks your day better :))
I was in my mid twenties when I finally learnt some of the most important things:
It's okay to be alone as long as you don't feel lonely
It's okay to ask for help
It's okay to say no
It's okay to put yourself first (it's not selfish it's essential at times)
You are mostly responsible for you own happiness
I know someone in their mid-fifties who is learning all these things now. It's never too late to learn more about yourself and your needs.
what an incredible video! i loved the structure, i loved the message and the analogy with the cupcakes was spot on.
Your timing with this video was amazing! My whole life I have felt a almost desperation to please others so I could feel loved, and only recently have I realized this was wrong and you just pushed it further. Thank you so much for the things you do ❤
“You are what you consume” - absolutely!
And Taz, this is exactly why I click on your videos without I even reading the title: because you are so relatable and comforting, that I genuinely don’t care what your video is about - I just enjoy the feeling of hanging out with someone who feels very much like a friend 🥰. Honestly, you could make a voice over video of you watching a freshly painted white wall dry and I’d still watch it: because it’s got YOU in it 💕
Your smile, and your and big, kind heart are infectious Taz. Thank you for sharing them with us 🥰🥰🥰
you are literally my comfort content creator, i LOVE seeing ur vids and they makes me so happy.
Thank you for the reminder, I really needed to hear this! Love your content ❤
I love this version of the video. I started watching Taz because it felt relatable. She was struggling but she was pushing through, taking time, being goofy but also wise. Learning stuff or decorating her space. It was good. Glad to see an upgraded version of it.
Aw taz your words are so soothing and it’s so heart warming hearing you say such real things ❤Thankyou for being you we love you x
“No amount of external help can fix the internal problem”
Spot on
this has to be one my favorite videos of yours! Thank you so so much for being such a warm, comforting presence :)
I loved what you said about connection and community. So often I wonder why I don’t want to hang out with people even though I feel lonely. It made me realize that I am looking more for a connection around certain topics and conversations!
The timeing of this is amazing, i really needed this, Taz is honestly like a big sister
This is something I've been working on for the last 2 years. As a mom I basically forgot about my needs in order to meet the needs of my family. It really does make a difference to know yourself. Your explanation is spot on. ❤💯
Thank you for sharing this, the way you explained this has helped me better understand a new approach to working on loving myself.
Haven't even finished watching the video, but this is exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much. ❤️
hey taz, thank you so much so sharing you take on loneliness. i'm a junior in high school and been struggling with friendships, how to break off toxic ones (and if i should even break from them at all), and learning to cope with not fitting in half the time. this is motivating me to think that it will get better, and i should just take care of myself in the meantime. thank you again! i hope i have the pleasure of thanking you in person one day
This was a video I didn’t know I needed until I started watching it. Probably one of my favourite videos ever of any CZcamsr
You don't NEED it! Like, maybe. Read something factual by professionals. Learn.
Thank you. I will try my best to take your advice on board, as long as you're a professional that is 🤷♂️
Proud of how far you have come and glad you are doing well (mostly). Those cakes were cute af ❤
Thank you so much for this video Taz. Near the end you talk about following creators who you relate to and who affect you in a positive way, and you are definitely one of those people for me. I remember a couple years ago when I found your channel and you wore nothing but hoodies and you made self depreciating jokes all the time and I’ve been with you ever since. Watching you grow and evolve as a person into the wonderful human being you are now has been truly inspirational and you motivate me to be a better person. Some of the things you said in this video really reflected how I felt and still feel about myself. I’m at a really low point in my life and I know I have a lot to work on, and you inspire me every day to carry on and make those positive changes in my life so thank you !! :]
Never knew I needed this! I’m more on the introverted side, I do love time on my own, especially to be creative. However I need to work on making connections with people, being asd and adhd definitely makes that hard sometimes 😅 This is the one place I can come and know I can get uplifting wholesome content 🥰 Happy new year and soon to be lunar new year to anyone reading 🐰🎊🎉🧧🎊
We love this for you Taz!
You've done incredibly well.
Keep growing & glowing chick 💖
I really love this kind videos of yours. Keep on inspiring people, Taz. We love you!
Thanks for this video .... honestly here is where I come when I need that community...last year was hard when you took a break..... but I understand it completely glad you're back!!!!😍🥰
Thank you so much for creating this video Taz.
Recently, I've been trying to understand myself more and learning to enjoy my own company, because I've been inspired through watching your videos.
Your advice and everything you're saying in this video is so true and people need to hear this.
You should totally make a podcast one day, if you would like to, I'd listen all the time. Thank you for being you, Taz, we all love you 😊
I love how you explained this, I feel lonely all the time but that’s just because I don’t know how to connect with people.
I'm speechless.. every word is gold. Thank you, Taz.
Thank you very much taz for this video🥺❤
I really needed this
didn't know how much i needed this. i love watching you as much as you love doing it.
I needed this video today. I needed this confrontation with myself. Right now. Today. I wanted you to know this video made a difference.... and this is the content I most appreciate from you.
This video made me feel so understood and i think i understand things i didn’t before about myself. ❤
Yeah I'm def an introvert and especially during the holidays it can be lovely but draining at the same time trying to find time to see everyone (friends/ family ) and going to parties, meet ups, shopping etc.... so after Christmas I had a day in London just myself and it was the best thing ever for my mental health as sometimes you still want to be out surrounded by people but still in your own 😊
this video and you talking felt like a hug i really needed.
Thank you Taz. U really made my day 🥺🥺🥺💗
I’m always waiting patiently for your blogs ❤
Thank you so much taz you are such good inspiration
The best video I’ve ever seen and really what I needed right now xxx
Making sure we live up to other people 's expectations is something I can really relate to right now!
Thank you Taz, I needed to hear this a lot today!
I so love your videos- Love the travel ones also and how you try new things and push yourself....
This all so true , I don't mind being on my own but this might be due to I have done alot of self love and self growth... And so happy with in myself... 💓 I do need to do more solo trips tho...
I guess I needed the taz talk today .
the timing of this video 🥹 thank you taz
the way i'm always waiting for new videos and so early here is crazy, gonna comment before I watch but already seems good
All your imperfections make you perfect, nothing beats you and love ya content legend
Hey Taz,
Watched ur video after so long ,i don't know how but I just randomly clicked and truly every word that you said was what I needed to hear ,i have been struggling with being under confident ,not knowing what I want and loneliness ,I want to be just like you ,and I am gonna work on that ,i really felt like a very very close friend of mine is talking to me ,thankyou so much for this
thank you for sharing, Taz. The days I feel lonely the most are the holidays even my birthdays when people are suppposed to be happy and enjoying their time. You reminded me to work on myself more. I used to be worse than I am today.. i will do that. I will work on myself. I will do my best
U Made my day taz thanks for it❤️
Love your cupcakes, so cute. Also, great talk thanks. It's so easy to get caught up in someone else's whatever sometimes.
I really needed this taz, I am really struggling and this really helped
WoW! Honestly found this video So Helpful and Informative.
Such an important topic and message, delivered in such a fun and creative way! 💛🙌☺
thanks taz. you are my comfort youtuberxx
Thank you for this Taz! 🥰
Silent watcher here again but thank you for being there for me when I needed to know it’s okay to not feel okay and it’s okay to spend time alone and worry and work through them times. A lot of people say it’s not normal and put more stress on others without realising. I have so much time and respect for you& I really hope that you one day get to understand how many people you touch
Thank you for sharing, a lot of it rings so true.
I can totally relate Taz! That feeling of being in a room full of people and still being lonely😢
Thank you for your video. You are great and I appreciate you being honest and real. Great job on the cupcakes.
16:23 This is literally what I'm doing at this moment watching this video. You are describing many of the things I've gone through and still go through now, but you have a lot more of a positive and healthy perspective on than I have.
I'm so proud of you Taz. I needed this video. I needed to hear these words. I'll try to make a great cake as you said. 💛
This video makes me remember ..this is why I follow you now for years 🖤
i really need your videos everyday 😭❤❤
Taz out here giving genuine life advice ❤
Thank you so much for this Taz
that was so helpful! 💛✨
Taz, you are my comfort youtube channel!
i just speak my heart out🥺
Taz I've been waiting for your videos all day long 🥺🤞because I really love your content and you're one of my favorite youtubers 💜 love u from Jordan 🇯🇴 💙
thank you for this, taz
When Taz said “we need to know our needs…to make sure they are being met…and e don’t feel lonely”
It hit me😢
This is such a heavy topic to talk about, but I'm glad you discussed it. It's nice to watch a video I could relate to and that's why I enjoyed watching your video. Thanks Taz.
We love ourselves a self-reflecting queen
thank you for the advice! do take better care of me now settled and happy! did spend all day net working eat, but like my alone time to do things that are keeping me happy! but your talking sense and like a breath of fresh air;-) hope you enjoyed your cup cakes and the star one look professional!!
Who knew you are such a philosopher!? 😛 I love it! 🙏🏻
This video made my day! Thank you for sharing! I sent it to my single parent friends and others who I thought might need the pick me up!
Love your videos taz happy new year🥺🫶🏻
I need to start watching her more 🥺
Great timing...love it
Loving the vibes of this video! 😍🥰
Thanks for a great video.
These are the things I've actually been working on recently.
Helpful and inspiring!
Thank you for this
Not Taz baking and giving me therapy for free.99 lol I love it. Could’ve been a Ted Talk. Lol love it Taz. Happy New Years.
You are an amazing person ❤️
Thanks for sharing, I can relate to this 🌷
Thank you Taz
We are never alone when we watch Taz
Fantastic video. So true and such wise words! People ten assume I must be lonely because I live alone. I do lots f things alone but because I am happy on my own company and know myself and what my fundamental needs are and make sure they are met I am ok.I have a few good friends who I know and can trust and that's lovely for when I need that connection and support . Looking after and nururing my inner child is also important . Hmmm good video to watch prior to going to bed. Feel calm and secure from watching this. You've grown up so much since the start of your channel and become an inspiration for others. Take care Taz.
P.s the cupcakes look great!!! Happy 2023! 🎉✨🌈🙏❤️
This was like a CBT session, only easier to implement, thank you!