Everything Flannery O'Connor w/ Fr. Damian Ference

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  • @graceymarie
    @graceymarie Před 20 dny +149

    I so appreciate Matt's comments on not watching content with tons of nudity and sex. I catch a lot of flak from people because I refuse to watch anything on that level. Nobody really respects this opinion even within Catholic circles and it even took my husband forever to understand my views on it. I blame my dad, he set such a wonderful example throughout my life (please pray for him as he passed in 2019).

    • @JohnHenrysaysHi
      @JohnHenrysaysHi Před 20 dny +2

      I will pray for him! And I respect it.

    • @graceymarie
      @graceymarie Před 20 dny +1

      Thank you!!

    • @JohnHenrysaysHi
      @JohnHenrysaysHi Před 19 dny +3

      @@graceymarieThank you for being such a loving daughter! I prayed after you asked and in my Rosary this morning. Hope you have a very nice week!

    • @buirvin1236
      @buirvin1236 Před 19 dny +3

      Yes!! I have run into really similar issues. My parents did not let us watch stuff with moderately frequent sex scenes or and graphic sex scenes in it. I still don’t to this day. I found that having believing friends that are gen x and older, I don’t feel ostracized at all with that. My older friends’ generations were not desensitized to sex in the same way we were.

    • @graceymarie
      @graceymarie Před 19 dny +2

      That is a good point about the age difference! I do find most people that don't get it are younger than me (including my husband lol). Definitely something to remember for future children if we are blessed with them 💙

  • @kermierogers7876
    @kermierogers7876 Před 20 dny +84

    I'm with Matt Fradd 100% about that vulgar Emma Stone movie. There is absolutely no good reason for anyone, let alone a priest, to go see these disgusting Hollywood movies!

  • @coltonhaight9927
    @coltonhaight9927 Před 20 dny +66

    My daughter Flannery Mary Elizabeth was just born on the feast of the visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Cheers!

  • @catkat740
    @catkat740 Před 17 dny +14

    I’m with Matt on this one. If all Christians held to their faith and convictions, Hollywood would be forced to stop stuffing trash in every film.

    • @laurants
      @laurants Před 8 dny +1

      Too many sleepy Caths live guided by the ever-changing culture instead of their Church.

  • @ruthapollonia6722
    @ruthapollonia6722 Před 18 dny +21

    I 100% agree with Matt on putting the Communion rails back in churches to see real change in Eucharistic devotion.

    • @julieelizabeth4856
      @julieelizabeth4856 Před 17 dny +2

      Good leadership came to my parish in 2011, and communion rails were installed a few years later. The parish is now experiencing growing pains with many large, young, devoted families. Some drive many miles past many other churches to come here.

    • @danielsampong6607
      @danielsampong6607 Před 14 dny +1

      Why not all of the options?
      Communion rails, Eucharistic congresses , better catechises etc

    • @captainskippy4560
      @captainskippy4560 Před 12 dny

      ​@danielsampong6607 Good question. Why settle for anything less?

  • @ChuckP123
    @ChuckP123 Před 17 dny +10

    Thank you, Matt, for challenging Fr. Ference on watching movies containing degeneracy. It's a scandal that a priest would admit to watching and praising a movie like that.

  • @jessie341
    @jessie341 Před 18 dny +37

    I really love this guest. I disagreed with his stance on watching films, and listening to music that glorify sin, but I loved the humility he showed when he discussed it honestly with Matt. He even said that he may be wrong about it and will be thinking on it more. I love the simple childlike acceptance of the possibility of personal error. Matt's guests, and Matt himself, show that quality often, and it always inspires me.
    Most of Fr. Damian Ference's insights and opinions were beautiful, and I really enjoyed this discussion. Thanks for providing it, Pints!

  • @bobgriffin8306
    @bobgriffin8306 Před 20 dny +43

    Thanks for standing up to Father on not watching the movie! I agree with your position

    • @bethmcmullan7686
      @bethmcmullan7686 Před 19 dny +4

      He doesn’t actually have a position though. He changes his position on it multiple times throughout the discussion.

    • @margokupelian344
      @margokupelian344 Před 12 dny

      When I was growing up I went to a Protestant school as my mom was a Protestant. They had very strict rules pertaining morality so we were not allowed to go see movies of any kind or dancing. If we were caught we were punished. This was in the late fifties. So, I think it’s not good and neither is it healthy to be on the extremes but I think teachers and parents should have the responsibility to guide young people to the “ right” movies although now it’s very hard to find the “right” movies.

  • @andhiggins1
    @andhiggins1 Před 20 dny +41

    On the Bp. Barron comments: I understand Matt’s sensitivity, but Barron’s analysis of Coen Bros movies on podcasts I heard in 2017-2018 was instrumental in my conversion to Catholicism as opposed to just returning to some Evangelical church I’d abandoned a decade before. The Church teaches through Beauty, and what Beauty there is belongs to God as much as does Truth. And Barron allowed me to see what was possible through the Catholic tradition instead of the prudish opposition to most art I’d experienced as a young Protestant. Especially coming from a Christian background that had perpetuated so much falsehood and propaganda about the Catholic Church, with Barron’s film and fiction reviews, I felt invited in. I felt, these people have access to something that I did not know because I’d only heard lies. All of which is to say: Barron’s approach does in fact reach people in “the culture”. It reached me. And my wife. And now we have four sons, two of whom just appeared mysteriously upon our reception into The Church on Pentecost 2020.
    Separately: Fr Damien: fellow Clevelander here. I’ve got all your books. Looking forward to The Hillbilly Thomist this weekend. God bless you!

    • @codywork-us7wu
      @codywork-us7wu Před 14 dny

      The same happened to me. I love BRB but sometimes he gives glowing reviews to some gross flicks. I remember watching Lady Bird (included a 5 minute Sx scene between two teens) and being floored that BRB would not caution people about the film.
      His approach to finding beauty is true and I will always be thankful for BRB knowing his film, literature, and philosophy. Without Barron who would have reached me?

  • @catherineginn3232
    @catherineginn3232 Před 20 dny +25

    I’m coming off taking a semester long course on American Literature which devoted only a single lesson of 1 hour and 15 minutes on O’Connor’s “A Good Man Is Hard to Find” (20 of which was taken up by my professor making completely unnecessary announcements that had nothing to do with the subject of the class meeting or the course); I feel like I learned more information, more clearly, and was more affected by what I learned listening to this 45 minute podcast episode that the entirety of that course. I also now have plans to buy a copy of O’Connor’s prayer book; I’m Protestant, but I can’t help but think it would still be a good and helpful read.

    • @bobtaylor170
      @bobtaylor170 Před 20 dny +1

      Read her Complete Stories and her collection of letters, The Habit of Being. Read the stories straight through, beginning to end. The orthodoxy is that "A Good Man is Hard to Find" is her masterpiece story. I say it's "Revelation," and that in time, I will be vindicated in my opinion.

    • @bobtaylor170
      @bobtaylor170 Před 20 dny

      By the way, I'm Protestant, too. Maybe her loveliest story is an early one, "The River."

    • @user-bn9gs4or9w
      @user-bn9gs4or9w Před 19 dny

      @@bobtaylor170 Revelation. Yep. Ironically, the best analysis of that short story I've come across is 7-minute video you can find on youtube by Bishop Barron. Just search for '"Revelation" - Flannery O'Connor "Pivotal Players" Episode'. It is done so well.
      In hindsight, it might have been interesting if this "pints" episode had, as part of episode prep, reading the story (it's not long) and a viewing of Bp. Barron's analysis. Plenty of on-topic material to discuss from that alone.

  • @everydayface
    @everydayface Před 18 dny +11

    Thank you, Matt, for pushing back. The damage that priests do when they recommend things like this is devastating. No, you don't need to watch those movies to do "culture research" to be able to have conversations with people. This need to be overly relatable is why the Church looks ridiculous to people. Keep pushing back on stuff like this.

    • @anneg7411
      @anneg7411 Před 18 dny +2

      100% agree. So glad to see other comments such as this one.

    • @everydayface
      @everydayface Před 18 dny +1

      I usually don't comment on youtube videos, but that was just so disappointing to hear. I'm glad for the openness of this discussion. It highlights just how much our priests need our prayers.

  • @devon6294
    @devon6294 Před 6 dny

    Well said, Matt. And thank you.

  • @skatingscooby
    @skatingscooby Před 19 dny +10

    The Nicelodeon series, Avatar, has an amazing redemption arc!

  • @blondetapperware8289
    @blondetapperware8289 Před 19 dny +7

    Thank you Matt and Father Damian for the rigourous discussion! I think these are precisely the ones that NEED to be had, not shied away from, even if it gets a little contentious at times (but in a healthy, not demeaning way).

  • @anneg7411
    @anneg7411 Před 18 dny +8

    50:06 Thank you so much for making the argument against watching movies such as Poor Things. I didn't watch it, but saw a few online reviews about it and it sounded so repulsive I don't think there's any convincing argument in favor of watching it or recommending that others do so. It's a little disturbing that a priest would justify watching it in order to have discussions about it.

  • @nickwaves6420
    @nickwaves6420 Před 17 dny +5

    This was a very good discussion. Kudos to Matt on the hard push back, as it initiated a deeper conversation about to what extent should we participate in possibly degenerate art. We are not impervious to temptation, so why act like we can be an "objective" (protected) observer? Some things are just better left alone.

  • @user-zx4eq1kr8c
    @user-zx4eq1kr8c Před 20 dny +8

    Rear Window is my favorite movie ever. Great story with 'not too sappy' romance, mystery, & beautiful dresses worn by Grace Kelly ✨

  • @user-mi5uw2lq9w
    @user-mi5uw2lq9w Před 22 dny +13

    I am looking forward to this interview. Fr. Damian works in my diocese! I love your show, Matt. You always have the best guests. Thank you! -Melissa D. From, Cleveland, Ohio

    • @jkileel
      @jkileel Před 19 dny

      What did you think ?

    • @user-mi5uw2lq9w
      @user-mi5uw2lq9w Před 19 dny +2

      I enjoyed learning about Flannery O'Connor. Fr. Damian inspired me to start blocking the same time each day for writing. What did you think?

  • @shawnpierce6285
    @shawnpierce6285 Před 18 dny +3

    I have so many tabs open on the books and movies that were name dropped in this interview. So much to learn!

  • @aubergineontoast
    @aubergineontoast Před 18 dny +3

    "I dont need to get in the sewer and play with shit to know what it's like" - Matt Frad

  • @mjplate1311
    @mjplate1311 Před 14 dny +4

    Priests should encourage people to move closer to God, not dabble in sin or invite evil into their lives. We don't need to watch porn to know it is evil or just to relate to non-Catholics. He needs to spend more time in prayer, and he definitely needs our prayers.

  • @andrewpelt
    @andrewpelt Před 20 dny +19

    I just went and read a portion of the IMDB parent guide on “Poor Things”. It is disgusting that anyone, let alone a priest, would even attempt to justify watching such sinful and harmful content. Paul is clear in Ephesians 5:3, “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.”
    ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭3‬ ‭ESV‬‬
    No matter what you think of that scripture verse, it clearly leaves no room for watching pornography, let alone trying to justify it to others. Moreover, encouraging a man who has spent his adult life battling against, apparently winning said battle, and helping others to get free of a sinful addiction such as pornography, to watch the movie as well so they can discuss it, is a grotesque and evil act. We should never encourage others to engage in sin. There’s no way you can willingly view such things and not be sinning against God.

    • @graceymarie
      @graceymarie Před 19 dny +9

      That portion of the interview really bothered me. There are movies that I feel we should absolutely not partake in and "Poor things" sounds like the perfect example of that... There are plenty of wonderful movies that aren't loaded with filth and you don't need to watch something in full to relate to people who have watched it... We can read the synopsis and know.

    • @erric288
      @erric288 Před 19 dny +7

      I agree. There's definitely scandal and imprudence on the part of Fr. Damian. It's like asking an alcoholic to come to this bar that requires you to get drunk, but hey, the food has a delightfully disgusting flavor, so I have to go and leave a review (lest I be excluded from the cool kid conversations). He doesn't smell like sheep, more like wolf.

  • @colleenfrance
    @colleenfrance Před 18 dny +2

    A true dialogue…thank you both. Love Fr. D…great pushbacks on either side…I see both sides and have struggled with the line…prudence and prayer…Be not afraid!
    Btw, Fr Damian as a holy priest is definitely #flourishing

  • @laurathies5439
    @laurathies5439 Před 19 dny +3

    I think often of how I and we can unify everyone into the Fullness and Truth of the Body of Christ and after my thought, I remember that I am not God and to empty myself and Trust in Him that this will happen because of Him and not just what made me want Trust in Him. 🎉

  • @thisis_chavez
    @thisis_chavez Před 20 dny +4

    Let's all pray 7 Hail Mary for the protection of the entire Christendom

  • @Ahnjay_2k
    @Ahnjay_2k Před 20 dny +16

    'Poor things' was extremely pedophillic in its depiction which is something I dont see many people memtion.

    • @graceymarie
      @graceymarie Před 19 dny +3

      My first thought when hearing the synopsis of Poor things was John Money and Alfred Kinsey and the horrible "experiments" they did.... This movie fits right in with the current culture.

  • @jyst-l71
    @jyst-l71 Před 5 dny

    Your reaction to being invited to watch the movie is the same reaction I have to D&D and Harry Potter. I was happy to see you react so strongly to protect boundaries!

  • @catholicmartialartist
    @catholicmartialartist Před 19 dny +3

    I used to be okay with violence in movies but the more I prayed about it, I’ve noticed that movies and games have gone so so violent that it desensitizes me from it. I think this ultimately comes from the world trying it’s best to desensitize us from the passion of our Lord. But that’s just my .02

  • @rosiegirl2485
    @rosiegirl2485 Před 20 dny +4

    When thinking about a fun romantic comedy...
    Nothing tops the movie
    "Overboard"
    With Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell!
    I can watch the movie over and over and still feel the emotions that the movie brought out!⚘️

  • @TheQCR
    @TheQCR Před 19 dny +12

    Matt, you're the man. Thanks for pushing back on the porn movie. Priests should know better.

  • @brianwinters9995
    @brianwinters9995 Před 18 dny +3

    I dedicated my first book to Flannery O'Connor

  • @christinacastillon6439
    @christinacastillon6439 Před 19 dny +7

    John Wick movies are brilliantly choreographed. They are very violent but in a highly skilled martial arts performance and very little blood and guts is shown. I find it interesting that it has so many Catholic references.

    • @codywork-us7wu
      @codywork-us7wu Před 14 dny +3

      I agree that there is a lot of skill in the JW films but there is something very tiresome of the "revenge murderfest genre". 3 movies of viciousness that doesnt have much else going on. Martial skill is good and people should train, practice and compete.

  • @AJPM802
    @AJPM802 Před 12 dny

    50:11 Fr. Ripperger gives a great talk on the principle of the integral good speaking to this Highly recommend.

  • @laurants
    @laurants Před 8 dny +1

    42:00 Being in construction, I was recently on a jobsite near a Catholic parish that was on a hill. The parish is fairly dead now but it is very traditionally built. I was noting to my foreman that when people drove this road they could see the church without obstruction. Now, with the building we built, the church is all but hidden from view.

  • @RealPJ
    @RealPJ Před 20 dny +5

    Very interesting talk

  • @willthegamer124willgaming3

    Totally agree with Matt on Altar Rails. I switched parishes to attend a newer built Church (NO Mass) that has one. Father is right though it’s not a silver bullet. 95% of parishioners still receive standing on the hand 😳

  • @user-mk2bj5fk9f
    @user-mk2bj5fk9f Před 18 dny +1

    Enlightened and mature discussion of art that sometimes offends moral sensibilities. Matt did not have to explain himself but I am grateful that he referenced his wounds and weakness. Thanks to both men!

  • @monicaspooner2005
    @monicaspooner2005 Před 20 dny +37

    Why does no one mention voyeurism when considering evaluating a movie? Is it not sinful to pay to watch actors actually commit a sin on film? Many of these sorts of scenes require the actor to commit sin.

    • @gabrielgaranas
      @gabrielgaranas Před 20 dny +5

      Tbh, speaking for myself, its probably because so much heinous impurity is readily shown in the culture that voyeurism isn't anymore seen as so bad it merits mention. The depravity of culture is so deep-seated now.

    • @bethmcmullan7686
      @bethmcmullan7686 Před 19 dny +2

      Ask any actor what it’s like to be on set during a sex scene. It is quite literally one of the least sexually enticing things they will ever do.

    • @mx_moi1964
      @mx_moi1964 Před 19 dny

      Do you think they are actually engaging in sex? Pls tell me you are joking..

    • @JewelBlueIbanez
      @JewelBlueIbanez Před 18 dny

      There was an intimacy coordinator’s channel who’s shorts made it into my algorithm for a while. It’s all fake a simulated (ie: wigs and prosthetics, etc.). I still don’t want to watch it.

    • @jhssuthrnmama
      @jhssuthrnmama Před 18 dny +2

      ​ How does how much you enjoy it eliminate the immorality of committing mortal sins as part of your job?

  • @lunatic8301
    @lunatic8301 Před 19 dny +11

    You should watch Vinland Saga. It's a redemption story of a revenge seeking viking

  • @travelchix22
    @travelchix22 Před 16 dny +1

    Very thoughtful discussion!! Thank you both!

  • @brianmurphy9570
    @brianmurphy9570 Před 12 dny +1

    You don't need to watch a movie to be able to connect with someone. You can always ask them to explain why they like it and connect with them that way.

  • @frapaschal6594
    @frapaschal6594 Před 20 dny +2

    @15:34 - Love this point about many of us not feeling like we "fit in" the Church and we can find hope in people like Flannery

    • @frapaschal6594
      @frapaschal6594 Před 20 dny

      Also @34:20 Cookie Cutter analogy and freedom

  • @greypilgrim9967
    @greypilgrim9967 Před 4 hodinami +1

    The part where Father Damien was talking about what he was wearing, I don't think it only has to be about that.
    I think things like that could also be because being a faithful practicing Catholic is difficult.
    I think recognizing what is good and bad, what shouldn't be tolerated, what is and what isn't 'coloring within the lines' of the church as they said can be very difficult at times. Or certain things can be difficult for certain people to recognize.
    So I think that is also a reason

  • @giannagiorgio1398
    @giannagiorgio1398 Před 14 dny +4

    i love father damian so much he’s great. i went to a retreat at the borromeo seminary where he teaches and he’s just incredible

  • @randallpeaslee1779
    @randallpeaslee1779 Před 13 dny

    I listened to this on Spotify but wanted to comment. What a fascinating conversation. I love how you can push one another in argument with charity. What's more, the topics the come up are so worthy of intelligent discussion. Love this!

  • @philipboyle7267
    @philipboyle7267 Před 19 dny +8

    Kudos Matt. I think when it comes to pornography in Hollywood films, the quality of the acting shouldn't play into an opinion of the sinfulness of it at all. I'm unconvinced a talented actress doesn't win an award or jumpstart her career precisely because she's engaging in immoral behavior on film. I'm sure there's a version of this that applies to men as well but I'm not as sensitive to it.

  • @mariaperry741
    @mariaperry741 Před 20 dny +15

    Bishop Barron didn't like the Shape of Water and had a great video reviewing it! He talks a lot about the philosophical messaging behind the movie, and the bad moral values.

  • @JoePalos91
    @JoePalos91 Před 20 dny +5

    I'm an hour in and I just realized Father reminds me of Steve Zahn. 😂

  • @tracyyates5310
    @tracyyates5310 Před 20 dny

    This helped so much, thanks

  • @barnrazedbyjesse6893
    @barnrazedbyjesse6893 Před 20 dny +2

    The Hillbilly Thomists are great! I love bluegrass, perhaps it was my Appalachian Ohio upbringing or the Marty Stewart 8 tracks my grandparents would play.

  • @stephencotter538
    @stephencotter538 Před 19 dny +1

    This episode made me think of The interview with Gabby after hours, when he said, I'm too charismatic for the traditionalists, and I'm too traditional for the charismatics.

  • @michaelbumbarger3112
    @michaelbumbarger3112 Před 18 dny +1

    The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance - greatest movie of all time

  • @benclark1482
    @benclark1482 Před 18 dny

    Yall just got me reading Flannery and i love it! Thank you!

  • @Roxanne-dontsingtome
    @Roxanne-dontsingtome Před 20 dny +15

    These actors and actresses are people and their acting out these scenes and showing their naked bodies is offensive to their dignity. Never mind what it also does to the viewer.

  • @maryannbautista3998
    @maryannbautista3998 Před 14 dny

    Fr. Damian is delightful! I want to be part of his little nerd camp.

  • @kayleyself8173
    @kayleyself8173 Před 20 dny +6

    wow this was my absolute favorite talk to date! A contemplative priestly perspective + classic literature. More of this pleeeeease! Madeline L'engle may be interesting to discuss

  • @sarahburke8955
    @sarahburke8955 Před 21 dnem

    Oooo exciting! I hate waiting, but looking forward to this interview.

  • @stephencotter538
    @stephencotter538 Před 20 dny +10

    I'm a little late to the party, very intrigued by the flannery O'Connor title. If he hasn't already, I hope father or Matt reference one of my favorite flannery quotes, “All human nature vigorously resists grace because grace changes us and the change is painful.” ❤

  • @stephencotter538
    @stephencotter538 Před 16 dny

    Because of this podcast, I finally got a copy of A Good Man Is Hard to Find and Other Short Stories. I love em! Reminds me of the TV series, Fargo. I didn't expect A Good Man to end so abruptly and the way it did.
    (I also read Dostoevsky because of this channel, and my 2 favorite books are Crime & Punishment, and The Brother's K) This channel promotes a lot of good books and resources. Good stuff 👍😎👊✌️

  • @ACatholicPerspective
    @ACatholicPerspective Před 20 dny

    Once is such a good movie that was forgotten too quickly!

  • @maddiemeadowsplace9990

    Can’t wait for the video shorts! Love the solar eclipse totality metaphor! Wow!

  • @mrsandmom5947
    @mrsandmom5947 Před 20 dny +3

    I attend sacred heart in milledgeviile Ga.

  • @martyfouch3135
    @martyfouch3135 Před 19 dny

    Regarding Eucharist revival I 100 billion % agree with you Matt

  • @ASaltySojourner
    @ASaltySojourner Před 7 dny

    Yes! Alter rails please!

  • @JohnHenrysaysHi
    @JohnHenrysaysHi Před 20 dny +4

    It's been years so I don't remember the movie well, but this Harvey (1950) quote was meaningful for me:
    Elwood P. Dowd : Years ago my mother used to say to me, she'd say, "In this world, Elwood, you must be" - she always called me Elwood - "In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me.
    Jimmy Stewart is my pick for greatest actor, and It's a Wonderful Life is my pick for greatest movie I've ever seen because of its illustration of the priceless precious gift of a single life!
    I might have only seen them once out of order with people multitasking, but from a fuzzy childhood memory of movies onward, these are the only imo 10/10s I could think of trying to be impartial with my wacky criteria, so not my favorite movies:
    It's a Wonderful Life- This is my choice for greatest movie. The rest of these aren't in order.
    Ben Hur (1959)
    Dial M for Murder
    Raiders of the Lost Ark
    Gone With the Wind
    The Incredibles
    Rear Window
    Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory
    Wizard of Oz
    To Kill a Mockingbird
    Sound of Music
    Muppets Christmas Carol
    And then for best performances:
    Maria Falconetti's Joan (1928 The Passion of Joan of Arc)
    these are also the most three dimensional characters from film I can remember:
    Liv Ullman's Eva (1978 Autumn Sonata)
    Ernest Borgnine's Marty Piletti (1955 Marty)
    Daniel Day Lewis' Reynolds Woodcock (2017 Phantom Thread)
    If anyone thinks this stinks, feel free to let me know! Thanks Matt. Hope you and your family have a wonderful week!

    • @Csodak
      @Csodak Před 14 dny

      Remove the incredibles 😂 and add in “Babette’s Feast” And “You Cant Take it with you”! And “amazing Grace” I didn’t really follow the conversation just love to read and add to great movie lists!

    • @JohnHenrysaysHi
      @JohnHenrysaysHi Před 14 dny

      ​@@Csodak Thanks! If you have any more recommendations, please share! Also, why remove the Incredibles? I don't like overrating things, but when it comes to animated movies discussion, I've been consistently saying that's the only 10/10 animated movie so I'll have to say that I no longer give any animated movie that high of a rating and everybody will chase me! jk

    • @Pieflavourman87
      @Pieflavourman87 Před 10 dny +1

      I'm so glad you included the incredibles, I have great bias for it. I credit it for inoculating me against envy driven ideologies (communism foremost among them).

    • @JohnHenrysaysHi
      @JohnHenrysaysHi Před 10 dny

      @@Pieflavourman87 Sweet! Thank you so much for your reply! You're very welcome! It's the only animated movie, as well as superhero movie, I gave a 10/10. The second greatest I could think of, imo, is Grave of the Fireflies which I gave a 9/10. However, I gave a bunch of 9/10s! Prince of Egypt and Wall-e are a couple of them!
      And the only superhero movie I gave a 9/10 is Spider-man 2. Hope you and yours have a Happy Fun Faith-over-Fear Friday!

  • @danacasey8266
    @danacasey8266 Před 19 dny +5

    Game of Thrones is not only full of porno sex, but also full of obscene and diabolic violence. I was tucked into it, but I didn't watch the last two series. I couldn't take it any more.

  • @julietap.415
    @julietap.415 Před 6 dny

    The first time that I really don't share the point of view of one gest, if we see "trash" movies it reminds in our hearts, the same with music and others. And promote them for the "study" is very very dangerous. I'm saying that knowing that for sure is something that I did, and trying to stop because I feel the pain that causes to the soul

  • @chase6579
    @chase6579 Před 14 dny

    The mother in a good man is hard to find is so common in the south. At least it was when I was a kid. I went to church with a lot of them.

  • @christopherfleming7505
    @christopherfleming7505 Před 20 dny +1

    The quote you were looking for is by George Orwell: "we read to know we are not alone."

  • @sistercatherine5498
    @sistercatherine5498 Před 19 dny +2

    Flannery’s mother volunteered with our community (the Hawthorne Dominicans) in Atlanta. Flannery also wrote the introduction to a book about one of our patients many years ago.

  • @EmilyBarnhill-pg4sp
    @EmilyBarnhill-pg4sp Před 17 dny +2

    Hi! I watch and enjoy many of your videos- you are a wonderful interviewer and I appreciate the types of questions you ask your guests. Very informative.
    I am Catholic and have been my entire life. My husband became Catholic this past Easter and his journey and passion of the faith has reignited my love for the Catholic faith.
    I was a little surprised, actually disappointed, to hear Father Damien approve the watching of a film like what he described with Emma Stone.
    You mentioned your wounds and could possibly be part of the reason you feel the way you do - however….I do not believe there has to be any other reason- other than, these types of movies Do Not Glorify God. This has kind of been my barometer. And I feel so much better living my life that way.
    That’s been my go to question- Does this ( movie, book, speech, behavior, thought, etc) Glorify God???
    Maybe it’s sounds drastic, but isn’t that how we are called to live our lives?
    Glorifying and Praising God.
    Am I successful all the time- absolutely not, lol- I sin everyday probably🙄BUT I also try and keep a conversation with God throughout my day- it keeps me in check so to speak. It makes me more aware of my sins and prompts me to either choose differently or definitely change the behavior in the future.
    But movies today- my goodness, I can not even begin to understand the underlining evils throughout them. Whether it is sex, violence, blasphemy or otherwise- it’s simply disturbing and saddens me that society finds this normal and acceptable.
    I found great comfort in hearing you say, that you do not even entertain certain themed movies- I think creating a zero tolerance policy works best and encourages our faithfulness to Gods teachings.

  • @jamesrollins1122
    @jamesrollins1122 Před 19 dny +1

    Every time Matt brings up Hitchcock, I'm surprised he or his guest never talks about I Confess or The Wrong Man

    • @zsedcftglkjh
      @zsedcftglkjh Před 19 dny

      Lots of sex and violence in Hitchcock movies.

    • @jamesrollins1122
      @jamesrollins1122 Před 18 dny

      @@zsedcftglkjh Technically true, though I think Hitchcock was kinda indirect and never graphic with the sex and violence compared to modern movies. My original point was that I Confess and Wrong Man are the most directly Catholic movies Hitchcock ever made.

  • @colleenfrance
    @colleenfrance Před 23 dny +4

    Fr. Damian is amazing!! Great guests, Matt!!

  • @pomcast1533
    @pomcast1533 Před 14 dny

    Matt, it would be worth having a guest talk about the rosary. Your comments about it in this episode were the thing that hit me more than anything else. If you never had a "rosary" episode I think you need to.
    Fr Patrick Peyton, among others, pushed the ides that the rosary become part of the official liturgy of the Church. Disagree if u like, but it indicates that the rosary is not merely optional piety. In Canon law for priests (in the old one) it was legislated that priest ought to pray it.

    • @pomcast1533
      @pomcast1533 Před 12 dny +1

      @pjm001 understood. I agree with that sentiment. But what I mean by the movement as an official liturgy of the Church would be similar to the Liturgy of the Hours. Not something done at Mass, but something that flows from it and leads back to it.

  • @micheldevries7975
    @micheldevries7975 Před 17 dny +1

    Cudo's to Matt for standing his ground during the Emma Stone film/pornography bit. Yes pornography IS evil. I wonder if the guest actually realized what podcast he was on and about Matt's crusade against pornography?
    Anyway something else: Roy Schoeman, the Jewish Catholic,would be a great guest on this show. His conversion story is very inspiring.

  • @cocobee6512
    @cocobee6512 Před 19 dny

    I’m a religion teacher and I showed my fifth graders Nacho Libre. It’s so fun.

  • @AJPM802
    @AJPM802 Před 12 dny

    Do we bring back the index? Yes.

  • @TriumphantBriar
    @TriumphantBriar Před 17 dny

    Y’know, between this and the Shayne Smith video from last week, I would love to see Matt interview a Christian metal musician.

  • @stk2000
    @stk2000 Před 17 dny +1

    01:07:15 Watch "The Young Pope" as it shows the catholic church's dazzling visual beauty, how an intimate prayer-relationship with God can look like, the liberating force of confession and that Christianity is a gateway to the mystery of God 😶‍🌫 rather than a mere collection of rules. God bless. ☀

    • @codywork-us7wu
      @codywork-us7wu Před 14 dny

      Way to much p*rnography in that show to call it a Good Catholic show

  • @Csodak
    @Csodak Před 14 dny

    Matt’s comment ..how do you evangelize a culture you do t know…is so right. Early in our homeschool years we we’re learning our faith becoming very fervent and more radical…then we observed other homeschool families whose kids were enter high school age with zero ability to communicate with others bc they didn’t understand even basic pop culture they were so far removed they literally couldn’t function and several went off the deep end in young adulthood…so we rengaged the culture doing what father calls “cultural research” and spent a ton of time talking about movies books social media stuff…we made some big mistakes and the kids did see things I wish I would have protected them from…however we considered it a “social cultural inoculation” small doses with lots of conversation on the topics and agendas presented and overall our kids learned more and all live in the world and usually not of it

  • @MrKage-fb2wy
    @MrKage-fb2wy Před 19 dny +2

    Matt, you need to look up a video game called Red Dead Redemption 2. It's been six years since it came out and I've still gotten videos in my feed making the case that the main character is the best character in all of fiction. Know why? Because he goes through the journey you're talking about. He starts wicked, and you're given the option to choose goodness. Just about everyone I've seen always takes the good route.

    • @codywork-us7wu
      @codywork-us7wu Před 14 dny

      I was very disappointed with RDR2. The game still requires you to kill lawmen even on a "good" play through. (Worst part of the game is you can be "high honor" and still shoot up strawberry with micah) Arthur never accepts forgiveness and constantly condemns himself. Yeah he doesnt follow Dutch and Micah toward absolute destruction at the end but he never fully repents in any sense. Arthur has no hope for his future as a good man and just gives up. Sure he helps John escape but hes never GOOD hes just regretful that his life led to hurting so many people.
      Hardly "Redemption"

  • @creativeeverydaylife
    @creativeeverydaylife Před 16 dny +1

    In relation to whether it is okay to see violence or nudity, I just want to say: scenes with violence are typically made with theatrical blood and no one gets hurt. scenes with nudity, there are literally naked people. These are not robots, but real naked people.
    For me there is a big difference there.
    Not that all films and series with scenes of violence are something I would recommend, but I think there is a big difference between seeing something fake and something real.
    I think a bit about how I would feel to be in the same room as the actors.
    If some did a bloody war scene with theatrical blood in front of me, that would be okay - but if some threw their clothes in front of me, kissed intimately for several minutes, or something more intimate, I would not be okay with that.
    It may be different how people will experience it, but I think there is a big difference between fake and real. I love when they only hints and don't show the intimate stuff, or show the relationship indited - like in Pride and Prejudice.
    May God bless you all, and may we all learn to navigate these times.🥰

  • @codywork-us7wu
    @codywork-us7wu Před 14 dny

    Fight Club was a very interesting film. I thought it raised a lot of ideas surrounding the disillusionment of men and the turning toward ideologies that would destroy the current society. That said friends its got serious content problems and I dont recommend it.
    I wish films could explore the disillusionment of men without resorting to "corn"ography

  • @danielsampong6607
    @danielsampong6607 Před 17 dny

    Unsure if Matt was saying the council called for removing altar rails(she did not)
    However the Catholic both end is why not both? Eucharistic Congress, altar rails, better catechesis, prayer etc

  • @belyy_rusky
    @belyy_rusky Před 17 dny

    Dang would have loved to get his thoughts on the Young Pope

  • @lweberl24
    @lweberl24 Před 17 dny

    Unpopular opinion based on the comments I read here. But I agree with Fr.

  • @hypermarche8934
    @hypermarche8934 Před 7 dny

    The movie is also violent, for no reason they showcase Emma stabing a corpse.

  • @catkat740
    @catkat740 Před 17 dny

    1:20:07 What virtue comes from watching Poor Things?

  • @maciejpieczula631
    @maciejpieczula631 Před 17 dny

    34:24 Brian Holdsworth should heed this advice.

  • @taytrax9737
    @taytrax9737 Před 19 dny +3

    “Keep your tone sober” should be the only disclaimer above comment sections

  • @spetticino
    @spetticino Před 23 dny +6

    First?

  • @billstrom351
    @billstrom351 Před 19 dny +1

    I wonder is Catholics like Matt and this priest know about Vid Angel?

    • @jamesrollins1122
      @jamesrollins1122 Před 18 dny

      Matt has posted about VidAngel on his social media in the past and I believe he's mentioned it in previous podcasts too.

  • @sacredheart414
    @sacredheart414 Před 16 dny

    I can't find how/where to see this Flannery movie anywhere. The movie ticket website says the film was released in May, but that no tickets are available and that it is not showing anywhere no matter which state I search??

  • @SAPFM
    @SAPFM Před 15 dny

    I am so upset by this interview that I cannot even begin to state the reasons why.

  • @kathieamacher687
    @kathieamacher687 Před 19 dny +1

    Great, strong, argument Matt against 'Poor Things'--emma Stone movie. Bravo.

    • @zsedcftglkjh
      @zsedcftglkjh Před 19 dny

      After he shamed people for wanting to be "too pure." 🤣 Matt is such a basket case of emotions. He can't think for himself.

    • @anneg7411
      @anneg7411 Před 18 dny

      @@zsedcftglkjh Not everyone is perfect like you😉

  • @danacasey8266
    @danacasey8266 Před 19 dny +1

    I want to like Flannery. I have tried to like her, but I just don't. And I am Catholic, an English teacher, and a little bit of a writer, mostly essays.

  • @Evanvictor127
    @Evanvictor127 Před 18 dny +1

    I would argue that as soon as you record a sex act where it can be accessed by a third party, it becomes pornography. Even if the intent was only for the two participants to watch it, there is always the chance it will be accessed by others.

  • @09bamasky
    @09bamasky Před 18 dny

    Matt: if you want to understand the real danger of the attitude of puritanical elimination of pornographic/violent images, you should do a deep dive into Ian McGilchrist’s work. Being reactively opposed to anything that might be considered pornographic will ultimately only lead to extremism and disorder. Watch the McGilchrist speech he gave for Ralston - titled, “The Coincidence of Opposites.” Great work, and very enjoyable interview, as always!

  • @nickl4855
    @nickl4855 Před 17 dny

    One of the increasingly lost things about movies and certain other media is the ability to communicate without showning any more than what is needed. You write about sex and violence without describing either act. You can write about a war without writing the gore of each soldier's death. It is not unlike the fairy tale in which the wolf devours the girl and yet the biological implication of how that would occur is never entertained in the mind. Our modern media with its "realism" and its high quality cameras has made the fatal mistake of equating the depiction of some vice with the glut upon the same thing. It is a fatal empiricism. We think we are being realistic but we are fools for thinking so. When a man dies in a story only the athiest and the empiricist would think the most important thing in that moment is the means by which his life is rended from his flesh. It is the ontology of death experienced by the person which carries the true gravity. It is the same with nudity and sex, to reduce the dignity and love, or violence and indignity between these people to merely what is occurring to their bodies is disgusting.

  • @lorrainelambert8327
    @lorrainelambert8327 Před 16 dny

    Father, with respect, I think you may be too proud of not watching Star Wars. If you want to engage with the culture, you must see the original 3 movies. Ignore all the rest. I was a young teenager when the first Star Wars movie came out. It rocked our world! There were lines at the theaters for almost a year. It was a dark and depressing time: the scope of the Vietnam war was just beginning to be understood, we had the scandal of Watergate, and all our movies were depressing. Then Star Wars came and everything seemed somehow brighter. It was a lot of fun, and a great story of redemption. The special effects were like nothing we had seen before. (I know by today’s standards they are nothing special. But then : Wow! ) Consider it, please .