When I was around that age my step mom made me cut my waist-length hair into a bob. It was uneven and choppy and looked terrible, especially as it grew out. It took 2 years of my hair looking awkward before I was able to get it completely fixed. My mom was livid when I came home from the summer. I also remember going to my room and sobbing, but my dad took my step mom’s side.
I get her reasoning but without talking to the other parents and cutting it shoulder length. You didn’t have to cut that short. I totally get my mom did the same it sucked. But I had to my dad wasn’t happy. He didn’t have a say tho.
I agree with u she shouldn't have rushed to cut the girls hair. I also wonder where her parents were this while time to the point where it became such a burden, and she saw this as the only way out
Yes you are!!! There DEFINITELY should have been a discussion with at least the father first!!! Not sure how long you were together, but as a step-parent.... especially with something as big as a hair decision... you don't just go behind their back like that!!! 😡😡 My sister did that to my niece and she was NOT happy!!! Especially since her hair grows soooo slow!!! It took years to grow back out!!!
It’s ops life not mine 🤷🏽♀️ looks like she did get what she deserved. The dad said he doesn’t trust her anymore around his kid and he can’t be with anyone like that so maybe they’re not together anymore🤷🏽♀️her fault
The husband was livid, and the birth mom came in cussing op out, the father told op that he would have done his daughter hair in the morning. He told op he does not trust her around his daughter, and he also said he can't be married to op after this.
My parents are divorced and when I was little my mom took me to get a haircut. I still have relatively long hair though. When I went to my dad’s house he also took me to get a haircut but it was a pixie cut. When I went back to my mom she was so confused 😂
When i was 11, i was doing my own hair. It was just past my shoulder blades. I always did my hair the night before, so it wouldn't be an issue in the AM. Why wasn't that a solution? Or let dad do her hair in the morning? Poor baby was traumatized. Yes. You are the asshole.
Not all 11 yr olds do their own hair but the stepmom could’ve definitely taught her easy styles, the dad even said he’d do her hair. So many ways around cutting her hair
1.Why is birth mum mad if child is living with you? 2. Why didn't dad take care of child's hair/products in the first place since she is his child? 3. Respectfully, why didn't you discuss with all parties concerned before having so much cut off?
Girl idk lol because at the end the dad said he would’ve no I only paid for the products but also do her hair in the mornings so i think they just didn’t communicate those things which they should’ve from jump!
YES! OP, big enough of an AH to turn a warm sunny day in to a dark absolutely frigid one. It was Her hair, not yours. She took pride and was taking great care of her hair. You are SO in the wrong. You Forced this young girl against Her Consent & wishes...and No Consent asked of her Natural Parents ...and for what, OP? This, because it inconvenienced you. What was more important than bonding with her? Why didn't you & her play around with different hairstyles? Experimenting could have been potentially empowering.
When I was around that age my step mom made me cut my waist-length hair into a bob. It was uneven and choppy and looked terrible, especially as it grew out. It took 2 years of my hair looking awkward before I was able to get it completely fixed. My mom was livid when I came home from the summer. I also remember going to my room and sobbing, but my dad took my step mom’s side.
Omg i would’ve been so mad😢
@@AjiaJ yeah I’ve never been able to get my hair that long and have it be that healthy since then
I get her reasoning but without talking to the other parents and cutting it shoulder length. You didn’t have to cut that short. I totally get my mom did the same it sucked. But I had to my dad wasn’t happy. He didn’t have a say tho.
I agree with u she shouldn't have rushed to cut the girls hair. I also wonder where her parents were this while time to the point where it became such a burden, and she saw this as the only way out
Communication is key! Because dad said he would’ve done all the things the step mom claims was so hard for her to do
Yes you are!!! There DEFINITELY should have been a discussion with at least the father first!!! Not sure how long you were together, but as a step-parent.... especially with something as big as a hair decision... you don't just go behind their back like that!!! 😡😡 My sister did that to my niece and she was NOT happy!!! Especially since her hair grows soooo slow!!! It took years to grow back out!!!
Step mom overstepped her boundaries for sure! Because the dad even said that he would have done everything that the stepmom claims was so hard to do
That you didn't discuss it with your husband, means you were being at best sneaky. At worst vengeful. You get what you put into this life.
It’s ops life not mine 🤷🏽♀️ looks like she did get what she deserved. The dad said he doesn’t trust her anymore around his kid and he can’t be with anyone like that so maybe they’re not together anymore🤷🏽♀️her fault
YES!
Agreed!
The husband was livid, and the birth mom came in cussing op out, the father told op that he would have done his daughter hair in the morning. He told op he does not trust her around his daughter, and he also said he can't be married to op after this.
My parents are divorced and when I was little my mom took me to get a haircut. I still have relatively long hair though. When I went to my dad’s house he also took me to get a haircut but it was a pixie cut. When I went back to my mom she was so confused 😂
Omg why’d he do that😅id be mad at him lol
@@AjiaJ if I was old enough to have any idea what was going on at the time I would’ve been too 😂
When i was 11, i was doing my own hair. It was just past my shoulder blades. I always did my hair the night before, so it wouldn't be an issue in the AM. Why wasn't that a solution? Or let dad do her hair in the morning? Poor baby was traumatized. Yes. You are the asshole.
Not all 11 yr olds do their own hair but the stepmom could’ve definitely taught her easy styles, the dad even said he’d do her hair. So many ways around cutting her hair
1.Why is birth mum mad if child is living with you? 2. Why didn't dad take care of child's hair/products in the first place since she is his child? 3. Respectfully, why didn't you discuss with all parties concerned before having so much cut off?
Girl idk lol because at the end the dad said he would’ve no I only paid for the products but also do her hair in the mornings so i think they just didn’t communicate those things which they should’ve from jump!
Yes you are.
YES! OP, big enough of an AH to turn a warm sunny day in to a dark absolutely frigid one. It was Her hair, not yours. She took pride and was taking great care of her hair. You are SO in the wrong. You Forced this young girl against Her Consent & wishes...and No Consent asked of her Natural Parents ...and for what, OP? This, because it inconvenienced you. What was more important than bonding with her? Why didn't you & her play around with different hairstyles? Experimenting could have been potentially empowering.
Seriously! I would’ve taught her some easy hairstyles or did her hair at night! There were so many ways around this
Girl you just mean just how you talked about your sister kids in the other video that you didn't want to get them