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Let's rethink how we raise our kids - less screens, more beans
Nothing wrong with screens for most people. My son has had unlimited supervised access to the internet from age 5 on. He's winning academic awards and has learned nearly as much from youtube as I learned in my science degree. Humans are self limiting, and when you let them follow their interests great things happen. It's a panic. Just another panic.
@@themudpit621supervised is the keyword
@@themudpit621tell him to touch grass make some friends gotdamn
@themudpit621 I agree with you, my opinion is, let them have access but still be a parent, make sure they still occasionally go out and have a childhood whilst helping maintain their stress from school
great bait!@@themudpit621
With the girl crying she’s talking about how she hates having to drive 3 hours to the job, it’s not that she hates it. She says she loves the job. And I think it’s valid to be upset that she doesn’t get any time for things due to traveling to work taking up most of her time.
agreed!!! i work a job that is super easy to do from home, but my boss makes us drive 1-2 hours to come into work, so i waste the day which makes me upset too! i could be haveing a normal 9-5, but it ends up being more like 8-7 !
My dad works an hour away and has for a long time and even that commute is inconvenient I can’t imagine 3 hours 😭😭
Driving over an hr to any job is asinine. Take another couple bucks off that $12 bucks an hr for gas cost and then factor in the wear and tear on your vehicle. No job is worth traveling an hr for.
@@FoulMouthFishing666 where i live in California its known as a "commuter city", most people have to commute around an hour to work because they cant afford to live closer to places like SF or silicon valley.
@@noodlesofoodlesyo I live in KS where everything is 30-45mins away & long highways (Topeka bing 2 hrs away, KS City being 3hrs). It’ll be pretty dumb of me if I get a job 1.5 hrs away. Spending a lot on gas barely breaking even. Especially there are towns close that need workers too 🤦🏼 & you’d have money & not drive the entire time u get off of work… that’s just asinine. Mom used to have hr drive to work. She realized she was being dumb & creating much more work for herself & nothing to show. She transferred closer & drive 10min now. She can now save money
When my older sister was younger she was throwing a tantrum in the grocery store once and my mom got on the ground and started screaming just like her and it was so jarring to my sister that she stopped and never did it again
That’s actually some hilarious parenting much better than just letting it happen huh
She understood how much of an annoyance screaming is
a great example of gentle parenting. consequences that don’t involve violence 😂😅 i aspire to be that brave
Trauma. It works 😭
"I wasn't bribed by my parents, I was blackmailed by my parents." Dude, same. 😂😢
Rest in peace gen alpha...
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Humanity*
I hope it's just a phase for gen alpha* I meant gen alpha 😭😭
Gen alpha gonna blow your tiny mind.
As a parent of an infant and a 3 year old, it is a LOT of work to raise kids. There ARE embarrassing moments in grocery stores and restaurants and I’ve gotten my share of nasty looks from people when my kiddo is having a tough time. But you know what won’t help them become tolerable human beings? Giving them my phone to distract them through the store. They have to learn how to behave in public and social situations, and It’s my job to teach them, no matter how tired, distracted, or stressed I am.
Thank you. That's exactly how I feel. Giving a child a screen won't teach them how to behave like a proper human being, it's a distraction because the parent is too lazy to parent. I have a 1 month old and I could never just give her a screen when she's older.
Great points
bravo
I used to be scared of that aspect in life now I find as I get older I'm looking forward too every moment
We all respect you and think you are doing an amazing job!!
"Other people have it way worse" is one of my least favorite phrases 🙃
Same
One of my favorites 😄
Makes as much sense as, “Why are you so happy, other people have it *way* better than you“
@@SarahNovayour happy other people have it because than you BECAUSE people have it worse than you would you rather you both be miserable, just be happy that someone is happy because it’s better than everyone being miserable and it’s impossible for everyone to be happy
Didn’t ask
I work on a farm, my bosses oldest son (7) already knows what I need when welding and tries to help out by bringing me things. All of his 3 kids give me hope that humans can have a future. What they are missing in their daily life are Ipads, smartphones, junkfood and idiots. Must be coincidence.
I think there was a misunderstanding with the girl complaining about a 9-5, she even says she likes her job in the video and that theres zero problems with the job its that she has to drive like 3 hours totals out of her day to to/from there. What this means is that travel eats all freetime away for basically nothing just 40% of your day gone (assuming you sleep 8 hours and work 8). Anyone dealing with something like this definitely has validity to complain especially when its not even related to the work itself. If anything this is a housing/apartment availability problem which everyone in US is dealing with not just someone complaining about work.
Yeah I think oompa was way off the mark with that one. Just because “that’s how it is and others have it worse” isn’t a valid excuse to keep getting exploited by jobs. Labor laws need a reform for real
@@somi110 exactly! but as he told himself,man had quite a journey of influences on him, so no wonder that he is not really the right guy on some topics like these
@@somi110 i like oompa but this whole video just kinda showed me how out of touch he really is. i would never feed my developing child fast food and garbaghe like that but lets be real you cannot go to the grocery store for a family of 4 and not be spending under 250$ a week, you could eat wendys every day 3 meals a day for probably about 150 to 200
@@Bigboisully sad excuse. problems like that coulda been seen before they decided to have 2 kids. and that wendys estimate is absolutely undoubtedly cap
@@njcknamesYou sound like someone who has no monetary responsibility towards anyone but yourself.
I work two retail jobs and the amount of entitlement and arrogance I see every day is mind boggling. Parents will let their kids destroy a store and then say "It's ok, someone who works here will clean this up, it's their job." It's so frustrating how much of their behavior people will excuse because they think retail workers are so much less than they are and "the customer is always right."💜
"The customer is always right...in matters of taste." Funny how that last bit gets left off.
@@dysstopic exactly… people never remember that and I don’t know why 🧐
I doubt it's because "the customer is always right." It's likely because they're undisciplined and selfish and have high time preference and don't see themselves as a part of a civilisation.
I don't have a job but I agree
This. I work in a private garden where we take admissions. There’s signs everywhere to not bring picnics in. The amount of litter we end up clearing up at the end of the day from people sneaking their food in is unbelievable. I realise people are worried about spending too much on a day out but we still have staff we need to pay as we have a cafe and they could go to a public park with their picnic.
I’ve stopped asking people not to bring them in bc of the amount of abuse we were getting from people with no support from the higher ups over it.
I’m gen z and when I was a kid I would find a cool stick or a box and be occupied for a few days then I got bored and started throwing rocks at trees or something
I used to take old boxes, then draw on them to make characters out of them to play with
Yeah, I used to find sticks, and make small weapons out of them
Yeah I'm an older Genz that borders millennial and I feel like I'm part of a dying experience of going to the local creek and playing with sticks and rocks
You gotta love imagining a stick was a sword or gun best times of childhood
I did that earlier today
I remember when I was a kid in the 80's & wanted my dad to buy me a toy, he told me we didnt have the money & I said but you still have checks in the checkbook. When we got home I was forced to sit down with him & listen as he explained all the bills & how he had to schedule them to match his paycheck. I tried to not ask for anything after that lesson.
What an awesome teaching moment. Something a lot of kids don't get.
In the 80s when my dad got a new union job I thought we was rich... when my dad was making 100 a week I thought that was great to... I never got anything but for Xmas or bday
Same i threw a quiet fit over getting desert after dinner one night after church with other church peeps i realized later my dad spent money we didn't really have to take me and him to eat with church friends after being invited and not wanting to look bad by canceling and he was able to get what he could.. I felt terrible and still do. If he had just explained it to me off the bat id never ask again. I was used to my mom getting anything ever and spending above her means but i didn't know at the time
I love how the parents record their children doing this and then saying that there’s a problem with this generation when they are the problem…
As an elder millennial, this is exactly what happened with us. Started with "participation trophys"
@mrtophat12 agreed. I'm 34 and luckily I grew up juuuuust before all that bs started
iPad babies, the bane of my existence. My wife and I are expecting our first soon and this video is basically antithetical to how we will raise our kid. Nothing is worse than a spoiled child
You can't let them have everything they want, even if you can give it to them. It will teach them so many bad lessons.
Idk man, have you ever stubbed your toe? I hear cancer aint fun either
Yeah well, giving them excessive screen time is bad, but be careful not to go to the other extreme otherwise you'll be the bane of your child's existence instead. I promise you're not gonna be coming out a winner if you do that unless you're so lucky you have a child capable of raising themselves, in which case it doesn't matter what you do, but i don't think you want to go there. If you're gonna take some screen time away, you should replace it with something else. Like some actual time together, if you care to be a decent parent at all. Lack of involvement and overinvolvement will both traumatize a kid, chaos and oppressive order and authority will both destroy a family. Choose wisely because there isn't an undo button.
@@Dice-Z oh for sure. The whole finding a balance can be the hard part. I'm definitely not against screen time, I grew up playing video games with my brothers. I just also aim to encourage time away from screens. Moderation in all things after all. :)
They are so entitled and bratty. My ex had a lil bro who got and iPad for his 5th bday. He was so bratty
I've been saying this for nearly 20 years "I fear for the future of humanity." This just reinforces my fears.
34:31 personally, at my last job, i used to cry before and after every shift. I worked 8+ hour shifts 6 days a week in a very busy place, and was often scheduled alone due to being understaffed. I think some people just cry when they’re overwhelmed and others are able to just compartmentalize
Some people, like me and my mother, cry for every extreme emotion. Sad, stressed, angry, etc., any overwhelming feeling, all of it will have us in tears when we can't cope with it anymore. oddly enough, I personally have never really cried from overwhelmingly positive emotions. but yes, feeling trapped in a job you don't like or in a situation that feels like a never ending cycle of misery, I'd say a quick cry session before work is valid lol
I have seen people who eat and/or drink while they’re shopping but they would take the container to the register and pay for whatever they ate or drank before they left. I have the feeling that a lot of the people who do this at Walmart aren’t paying for it afterwards.
I have found half eaten bags of grapes put back on bread shelf
it's called grazing. it's super common in very poor communities. has been for decades.
@@alma.blackhawk i know this i live in a 4 light town biggest thing we got is Walmart
@@alma.blackhawk it turns out our third world country is better maintained than your poor communities. Maybe its the culture of self-respect we have. Not surprising since we don't have the drug culture.
@@hentype dude! Other places being bad doesnt make your country better. Its called a third world country for a reason. Before you go bash America I am not from there
I know a child who’s parents have a rule where they never tell her no. It’s the most disgusting thing ever
Kids who don't learn about "no" are adults who refuse to accept "no" and end up in jail for it
@@BarbieDreamDungeonfacts
I feel so bad for the School’s faculty that have to deal with that child
Ah, yes, setting no limits to a child while they haven't built their moral compass, sense of right and wrong and have limited empathy. That will go well...
My niece and nephew are raised like that because my brother and SIL say that "negative responses like no breeds insecurities" and both kids are little demons.
My bf, his son stays with his mom most of the time, we have him every other weekend. He is ADDICTED TO SCREENS...ANY SCREEN. It is so sad. We try to limit what he can do on a screen but we catch him face glued to the Alexa as a substitute to a tablet, or if we walk in a store or restaurant that has a self check out screen kiosk, electronic advertisement, anything with a screen he instantly runs over and is so fixated on it, we have to pull him away multiple times.....And the mom says she doesn't like him using screens...mhmmmm
Might be a developmental issue
as someone whos a gen z person who grew up with phones and ipads, i am turning 18 this year in november and its stressing me out and very stressful but i am going to try my best
You got this!! I don't have all the answers. Nor do I know the key to figuring it all out. But I do know that putting too much pressure on yourself to get it all figured out, and figured out correctly, will do more damage,(mentally and emotionally), then excepting the fact that you will make mistakes and wrong decisions along the way. Understanding and accepting that no one has all the answers takes a lot of that anxiety away. But you must believe in yourself. Believe that no matter what happens you'll figure it out. Meditation helps the mind to focus and see the big picture more clearly. I wish you all the success this world has to offer in whatever you decide to do. Just believe in you. And if it helps, I believe in you. Much peace and love to you and yours from this random old lady.✌️
@@michellemcmahon3344 this message comforted me thank you, i will do my best
I feel like there's a mix between tough love and gentle parenting that works out well. Don't be too tough to where you make your kids cry or feel like they're in prison, but also don't let them walk all over you.
EXACTLY. All tough love, your kid will probably be pretty withdrawn from you, but if you're too gentle, they will have absolutely no experience for when people respond in angry or violent ways, essentially robbing them of a primal survival insitinct.
I saw the latter happen to my cousin. She has absolutely no sense of fear for anything but heights. Because she and her siblings were raised in a zero-conflict, no-sharp-edges household where all signs of danger were removed. When she was nine she was hospitalized for trying to pick up a copperhead.
You need a mix of both gentle parenting and diciplinary parenting. You want your kids to respond appropriately to whatever situation.
There is a version of gentle parenting (the “true” version) that is pretty much exactly what you’re talking about. Problem is, it’s easier to roll over than constantly explain stuff to kids and be patient and kind when they’re being, you know, KIDS, so people say they’re gentle parenting and instead just let the kids run wild.
That’s what gentle parenting is 🧍🏻
@@Lil_critter Not for everyone- I see a lot of parent's who call it gentle parenting to let their kid walk over them.
It’s unfortunate that so many people can’t grasp this concept. If you’re too unintelligent to not think parenting is binary (only gentle or only tough) then you’re too unintelligent to have kids.
30:00 she was saying the work is fine, her point was that it takes forever to get to that job because living near it would be to expensive and not having time in the day for anything else. Which is a 100% reasonable complaint.
Crazy how many people missreperesent the video since she states all of this very clearly.
or invalidating her pain because "other people have it worse", bro unironically made a "well there are children starving in africa" argument
YES, SHE SHOULD BE FREE TO EXPRESS HER STRESS
JUST BECAUSE IT'S NORMAL TO HAVE A ROUGH TIME DOESN'T MEAN PEOPLE HAVE TO MAKE HER FEEL BAD FOR EXPRESSING HER STRESS
@@Real_KirboYES
You don't see people who do hard jobs complain about it because they often die doing it
so I don't see how sacrificing you life for a job is somehow better than complaining about things in the job that lead to that outcome. I thought jobs were means for survival and not a tool for self-destruction.
YES, I AGREE
It’s genuinely sad if you think about it.
Im a gen z, and its so sad to see my baby brother get handed an ipad at the age of 3, in 2013 i did not even know what an ipad was. now when i try talking to him he just sits there and does nothing, he does not even say anything back. its sad to see the downfall of his generation
Millennial here, we feel the same about you guys. 🤣
@@shewanttheducky495 Silent generation here, millennials are all polish
@@shewanttheducky495y’all are the parents who raised this generation that way 🤷♀️ you reap what you sow I guess
@@shewanttheducky495😂
@@shewanttheducky495that’s crazy because you’re objectively the worst generation, 😂 you made us knowingly with the mistakes your parents made w you.
ive seen a girl mace a teacher for taking her phone in class, kids now consider it as important as a bodypart they treat it like apart of themselves its crazy
That video was great.
I always like to put myself in that situation as an adult now and think about how stressed that would make me having my phone taken from me bc they are so important now a days! I didn’t see the video of that girl but obvi what she did wasn’t okay.. but I’m just fascinated by human psychology though and how I’d feel in that situation
MACE?! WHAT>!?!
@@pineapplesauce6509 pepper spray, not the handheld large metal beating object
@@Nool4thanks for specifying. In America, you never know.
I was one of those "do whatever you want" kids mostly because my parents had no clue how to be parents and they clearly didn't want to be, and I definitely hold it against them that I was raised that way. My therapist called it what it was, neglect.
I dont understand why we as a society always say things like "this is the problem with (insert child aged gen) generation. Its the parents. We cant blame the person because they aren't even adults yet. We need to reword these phrases to stop the kids from feeling guilty about how their peers act as a product of poor parenting.
When working 40+hrs a week until your basically 80 to retire, if you even are in a position to retire. Only to have nothing to leave the people you care about. Yeah everything just feels like filler until the day you die. And that's the lucky people.
This is exactly why its more brutal for young people rn. Back in the day you could at least know there was a retirement down the line or a vacation later in the year. Im a chemist rn and I dont even make enough to ever retire.
That's where the crying comes from I think. It's not that it's difficult, it's the hopelessness.
Retirement is for the upper class otherwise you work and pay taxes until you die that's my plan anyway
40hrs a week here as an assistant manager. Can't even afford to move out. My savings never stay over 1k - currently my savings sit at £500. My generation (I'm generalising here) don't even have 'rainy day funds', we don't have proper savings. Trying to save enough for deposits is near impossible. My manager who is in her 50s is also in the same boat - her savings never go higher than 1k. In the UK, there's 11 million estimated people with less than 1k in savings. It does all feel hopeless..
@@himareihard agree 😭
I've been working for about 9 years now. Did 4 years of being a graveyard gas station clerk and then now 5 years of being a barista. The exponential loss of wanting to do the things I love because of the lack of energy is a lot. And sometimes that desire to be 'productive' and 'useful' will bleed into my hobbies, but i will hold onto the fact i am at least doing something for fun.
And then ill think back to one of my favorite teachers making us do nothing for a whole minute to teach us that we need to embrace that we don't need to do something every minute of every day. To take some time to do nothing before you lose the ability to....
Boredom is a great teacher.
Generation 1 affected by screen time, started on PC in grade 3, the longer term affects seem to be developing blue light sensitivity which means I can no longer keep my focus while looking at screens for long periods or in a dark environment. Once overstimulated by the blue light I get into a trance and cannot look away nor pay attention to what is on the screen.
Only thing I can do is limit screen time to daylight hours and keep it short while wearing blue light filtering glasses.
When I look at my phone in the dark I instantly forget why I looked in the first place and instantly tune out the world around me.
Crying before doing something is a typical ADHD response, having to force yourself to do things your brain doesn’t want to do is painful. I believe mobile devices and the algorithms, particularly short form video, is creating an epidemic of ADHD type symptoms due to “screen addiction”…
You cry because your brain would rather stay glued to the phone and will do anything to try make you take the day off and stay at home with your phone for that easy dopamine AKA death scrolling
This is the reason why I’m terrified to have a child… I wouldn’t let my kid have an iPad or phone til they’re 15 then at the time I’ll be seen as the most strict parent for not letting them have one. When I worked at meijer it always annoyed me seeing parents let their kids sit in the cart with their iPad on full volume. Makes me scared that there won’t be any creativity and imagination in this new generation.
i do genuinely worry for the kids growing up now, so many kids being left in daycare away from their parents all day, not going outside, having less and less real friends, its honestly scary to think how hard its gonna be for them when they reach adulthood and have no clue what theyre doing
I agree. We need to shift back to the nuclear family with one parent working and one parent home. At least until the kids are school age. But we’re trying so far away from normalcy, it’s scary.
yeah its a shame parents today prefer to both work 8+ hours a day than sit at home all day enjoying life with their kids. It almost seems like they're forced into that situation by living in an economy that costs so much that it requires 2+ incomes.
saying je ne sais quoi and then saying “i don’t know what that means” is so funny to me 😭 it literally means i don’t know what
Yeah. That was the joke….
pardon my french but it would better translate to : something I don't know
@tristambre632
Hello, french here. It also translates to the same. It just means "I don't know what" or anything synonimous
@@tristambre632it's definitely "I dont know what" but I could see translation varying based on where in the world you learned your French cause that happens. "Officialy" it means I don't know what.
@@shutityoudumb synonymous*
I’ve come across a family eating the chicken from the deli in the non-grocery area. And they were all adults and were just blocking up the whole area and didn’t seem to care. No one was recording.
When i have a kid, no screens, we going amish style to raise that kid. Only well researched books and life lessons, try and pray the school classmates dont rot their brain and such.
Sorry to burst your bubble but you should make sure they know about the dangers of the internet
I hate doing this… but from the time I was 18 until 2 years ago at 28 I worked as a “selector” in a warehouse. You “drove” this motorized pallet jack and picked cases out of warehouse slots to build these pallets to be shipped to stores. Each case was 40-100 lbs, and you had to hit a calculated rate for the cases you selected that ended up being around 220/hr.
Now, the base pay at 100% was $24/hr, and for every 1% over that you maintained you got another 10¢ an hour, capped off at 135%. If you went above that you could choose to get paid by the case. It was 7¢ a case for the first 10,000 in a week, and once you went over that it would jump to 15¢ a case. So there was guys making $5000 a week sometimes, since it was a 60 hour week. Then they’d send you across the country and pay for everything while you were gone (hotel, rental, food) and you’d make a flat 13 week average of your highest 13 weeks… so there was money to be made if you literally broke yourself.
I’m now 30. I’ve had 2 hernia surgeries, and I need a spinal fusion. I’m sure my replacement’s replacement is already gone.
That’s so terrible… I hate hearing about company’s making people literally risk their future and wellbeing with the promise of money
math adds up to $83 an hour for top worker. Which is true of skilled labor. Not that uncommon.
The flame of humanity. Ah, yes. The fabled griddy 😭
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@@takuma359he did. How does this relate?
@goldswaggamer4007 it's a sign it has begun
I saw you on Charlie’s vid
i work with kids. when theyre being upset/difficult. i explain why i need them to tell me whats wrong, make sure they're heard. since i work with groups i always without doubt ask both sides. make them listen to eachother, usually already fixes alot. what i also do is give them options that work in my favour, it gives them the feeling of control in the sitution which i think helps em calm down.
My kid not getting an iPad or phone until they’re at least 10
I grew up in the rural south in the 1990-2000s. So many people I knew ate a very similar diet that the first mom is showing. I really don’t think this is a new phenomenon. It’s just that people show it on social media now.
Word that makes it healthy and acceptable 👌
@@ILoveLamp-sj4bx Where did I say it was healthy and acceptable? Acknowledging that it is likely a generational problem is helpful in understanding and trying to correct. I work in healthcare and talk to patients every day about healthier lifestyle choices.
@@ILoveLamp-sj4bx word, you read this insight someone gave on a subject and took it as an opinion to fit your narritive. 👌🤡
@@ILoveLamp-sj4bx he aint defending the mom
@@USWNTfan101 I think he means that exposing it on social media makes it acceptable for social media drones.
the little girl screaming for her mom to clean her room just gave me flashbacks to all the times I got in trouble for my messy room and had to clean it up myself
Yknow? My parents always told me I have a 5 day time limit to get it clean or theyll throw anything on my floor away. Gave me more time then needed to get it done, and if I didnt, well. Everything got thrown away. I leanred to keep my room clean. Also learned its nice to be able to have open space.
@@leechion2933you just gave me flashbacks to my mom coming into my room with a garbage bag 😭
I was born in 05 so i’m gen z. My parents never allowed me to have social media until I turned 18 which I’m extremely thankful for. I suffer from mental health problems as is and growing up without the exposure of how toxic social media is has saved me and i’m glad i don’t rely on it like others my age do. Even now being able to get social media if i want to, i’ve chosen not to because i personally don’t find the need in it. I did have a phone growing up but only to call my parents when I got home from school because I walked and we got rid of our home phone.
I worked in a daycare where a mom once jokingly said "haha, dont judge me" as she brought in her 3 years old sons breakfast of 24 bakery donuts for the third day in a row... and when it wasn't that it was those mini donuts daily. And it was no surprise when he would just stare at us with dead fish eyes when you talked to him during circle time.
This made me sad bro.
I got laid off recently and I’ve been the most stress free I’ve been in a while. I dread having to go back. Trying to figure out what hobby I can make into a career because that seems to be the only way out. Will have to find something tolerable in the mean time
4:25 The fact I took a whole year of my life to research how to keep little SHRIMP, but this mother couldn't take five minutes to research the dietary requirements for a CHILD is just ... depressing to me. :/
Also shrimp are some of the coolest pets you can own. I adore them. I have a whole 30 gallon tank full of them and snails. It's hard work, but it's worth it cause they are all kinds of cool colors. Yes, I am advertising shrimp, but DO research first. Weeeeeeee.
What shrimp have you been keeping? I’ve been wanting to get some neocardinias and set up a community, but none of the stores near me stock any…
I love shrimp. I've kept neocaridina shrimp and amono shrimp when I had a fish tank and it was my favorite thing to watch them interact and pick up the little algae wafers like a little burger patty and run away with them and watch them clean the moss ball. Shrimp are so cool and they do come in many different colors but you're right they are fragile and water parameters have to be on point.
If I get into fish keeping again one day I would most definitely have a tank of cherry or amano shrimp with a fully dirted live planted tank with some small colorful tetras, possibly some corydoras because I love them as well.
Shimp
So is it true that a shrimp can fry rice?
Same I got a hamster earlier this year and let me tell you I researched every aspect of owning one of those critters and it was so worth it. I’m glad I’m able to give my hamster the life she deserves. Parents need to treat human babies with the same love and respect
This hits close to home with me I am special education paraprofessional I work with kids who have behavioral issues, who are special needs or just need extra help with focusing on their academics. It truly is sad to see how this young generation is clearly struggling they’re are so many kids who are having a lot of difficulties whether it’s from iPads, and I hate to say neglect and lack of caring from the parents it truly breaks my heart. I just want to help these kids the best I can.
I live in Greece, from since I was a baby and I remember having the option to eat/drink something inside the supermarket, even adults do it sometimes. Never heard someone get scolded about it. Everyone obviously keeps the wrapping with the barcode intact, so you pay for it on the way out as you would normally. Especially in the US where supermarkets are enormous, I would've imagined you'd see that often.
Most stores including Walmart do not care about drinking or consuming food in their store as long as they eventually pay for it, I would spend 2 hours at Walmart and drink a vitamin water while I was shopping but I would scan the empty bottle when I got to the self check out and still pay for it
There was only ever one time I remember stealing a drink doing that. I downed a dr pepper and threw it out without paying for it. And ended up getting away with it.
Sadly, there's enough older generation who either don't want to give up the power they hold, or, they don't want anyone but their family to wield the power have.
Literally
What are you even talking about?
That's a separate issue, your generation is trash and you are getting replaced by more functional migrants.
@@dylan4125society it seems. I'm not seeing anything new.
Poor victim it's definitely not your fault mommy won't get a sipping cup for you 😢
I lost use of my right arm(which also was my dominant arm) at 19 from football. Life has been full of chronic nerve pain since. Sometimes the pain is unbearable.I still have to work on top of that. Life can always be worse for me, even. Stay grateful. My dream in life is to live like you do.
Fight on!
I’m a child therapist, and in my professional opinion, I agree…they’re fked. The kids who seem to be doing the best do a lot of activities and have limited screen time. Extremely limited for the little ones. Not to make excuses for them but not all parents have the time to be monitoring their kids all the time because of financial reasons. So I think we should think of this as a societal issue. We need free childcare for those who need it.
Some of my friends and I are postponing having kids or not having them at all because it’s a hard time to have kids. I don’t think it would be fair to the kid if I had one right now.
It's so over for Gen Alpha 💀
ANIME
It's been over.
I hope it's just a phase 😭🙏 or gen alpha* is COOKED
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I work in a tech repair shop and have been judging iPad parents for almost ten years now.
honestly i needed to hear that part about anxiety and depression and how its basically impossible for people to talk abt it at all because of the selfishness ive been living in pain for 14 years now and im 21 im happy i got to hear that and people really do need to start listening more and stop feeding into those people i wake up every day from my heart beating out of my chest and unable to do a lot because of the pain i love you man this gave me a bit of a jump to try harder thank you
It's concerning seeing how violent these kids are getting well they're being spoiled. It feels like an abusive household waiting to happen and a lot of these parents don't realize their raising possible abusers :(
I’m a lead custodian in a middle school and can 100% say these kids are INSANELY violent, entitled, rude to other students/staff, they are destructive and constantly vandalizing and destroying the property in sometimes unfixable ways. And parents never hold them accountable “My kid would never do that. I don’t believe you.” It’s scary. They have no structure or consequences.
I feel that it is valid to feel like some people feel about working a 9-5. In this current economy, my generation cannot EVER buy a house to live in. I have seen videos of people on Twitter living in their cars whilst having a full time job because they cannot afford the rent. Saddled with tens of thousands of dollars in college loans, they feel that it is hopeless. And in that sense, it kind of is. It is truly sad to witness.
@@njcknamesYou act like it's any better outside of your country's bubble lol. I'm gonna guess you're American from your comments, but no. It's no better most anywhere else. In fact, in some places like say, Japan, it's *worse.*
@@ryudhal I didn’t say it was better I’m deadass saying it’s worse and she could have it worse. U just took it out of context. I’m guessing ur from the uk the way ur negative ab Americans even tho u prolly never been here
@@njcknamesno one said or assumed life would be easy. We just didn't think it would be completely hopeless. Telling young people to take accountability for listening to what the older generation said to do (take out loans to go to college, work hard) doesn't make sense. They listened to those they thought knew better when they had no life experience.
People are willing to work hard, IF it leads to something worthwhile and meaningful. It doesnt anymore. Now you just work until death with barely anything to make it worth it
@@BabeDollB Ironically i think this kid sees life too optimistically. Not the other way around like they're claiming. They sound exactly like the strawmen they're trying to criticise. They think life will just work out as long as you work.
@@BabeDollB I agree w everything but the start. As a kid everyone’s taught life like it’s simple especially thru media. It was never simple. Come as u are. Show it as it is. Exactly why I encourage people to read the Bible even if they aren’t believers
Letting your kid have and do whatever they want whenever they want is exactly how spoiled rich kids are brought up and they aren’t usually the best people
Yep they end up Entitled brats that are insufferable to be around
Thanks oompaville for the ricer car joke, means a lot from the car community
I am the same in regards to gifting. I love giving my friends things that I know they'll use and genuinely enjoy the whole process. I definitely don't mind receiving a gift but I never gift with the expectation that I'm getting one in return.
The worst customers [I think] that I encounter in retail are the parents that just let their kids do whatever in the store. I always say they need to pay us for babysitting, because I routinely have to stop kids from doing dangerous/damaging things.
The amount of times I've nearly run kids over with store vehicles because they just run around corners, and the parent just yells to them "hey, I told you to stop running," and then precedes to ignore them again omfg. I had kids start playing tag in front of me while I was pushing a heavy vehicle that would have probably broken their toes if I didn't stop in time (bc I can't stop heavy vehicles immediately) and the mom just turned around and continued shopping without saying anything. They continued to block me and play tag until she walked off.
Exactly, and when you don't stop them and something happens, instead of considering that they're being bad parents, they blame you for their problems and refuse to acknowledge their own.
i babysat 3 toddlers who all had their own ipads. they had horrible anger issues and had a hard time focusing on anything if there wasn’t a screen involved. i used to dread nap time because they would fight me kicking and screaming if i took the ipad away.
4:20 Just a lil fact, You can actually SAMPLE the food/beverage you have, but only a sample. But just know once you drink / eat the chosen object, you have to buy it. You cannot consume the whole thing or else that would be stealing.
I’m a teacher and I get to see everyday the impact of children with internet and technology access. It makes them worry about things they have no business worrying about and they become privy to information not appropriate for their age. They also struggle so much with the word no. They always feel the need to push and push as if no is not a complete answer.
I used to complain a lot that I don’t have time for hobbies/hanging with friends.
Then I accepted I had a doom scrolling problem haha. Fixed that and now I do hobbies,bjj and hanging with friends.
One tip of advice is that if you want to hit the gym after work just head straight to the gym after work. Helped me out alot
I can understand a mom not having time to fix healthy food depending on their job/home situation. Any food for a kid is better than no food… but to post it to social media is crazy. It has to be either rage bait or sympathy bait.
If I remember, you can open a soda or water and drink it while you walk around the store then pay for the empty or half drank container when you check out. I don't do this but its just something I thought was weird but its not illegal. There might be store policies that might prevent it or have it frown upon.
As a teacher, attention spans are already a nightmare. I cannot imagine the incoming generations.
Imagine the generation of kids that come from the iPad kids.
I was given unsupervised access to the internet as a kid and it absolutely has done damage to me.more so due to some of the content I viewed since I had no one bothering. I’m 19 now and thankfully I got into a great art college and hoping I can carve myself out a job doing something I can love even tho I curse at it.
As a millennial, I grew up playing outside most of the time. I was lucky to have examples of hard working parents. Now I am working 45+ hours a week, going to college full time (i decided to go back at the age of 31) and starting a business.
I don't have a lot of free time, but I am working towards having a job that I love and it's all worth it. Also, commute to school (which i do twice a week) is 2.5 hours each way. It can be done, but I think that if i didn't grow up with hard working parents and little to no screen time daily, I wouldn't be where I am today.
My wife's sister is 34 and almost 400lbs. She can't breath well at night. She is going to pass away. It's sad but sadder is the fact she has five children and feeds them only fast food and garbage. They are all overweight at such a young age and they don't understand she's killing them too.
I was and partially still am an iPad kid, and I honestly wish I never ever got one. It had caused me so many issues, I started getting symptoms of ADHD, insomnia, depression, the works basically. And yet my parents didn’t do anything, then again though my dad was born in 1969 and my mom 1972 so they aren’t used to technology or the boundaries needed. Luckily, in my most recent years my mom has been telling me repeatedly that I need to stop and cut back my screen time. One day, something just clicked, in the first day my screen time dropped to half, and the next day half again. I guess what that taught me was it’s never too late 💗
gotta love when the fate of humanity is going to future kids who will laugh their heads off seeing some of the weirdest stuff imaginable. but then again, has gen z done much better?
i laugh at youtube poops still, i am no better than a skibidi toilet watcher's
skibidi type slaps
people seem to forget that our silly sense of humour has been ongoing for over 100 years. we laugh at the exact same type of stuff, it's just packaged differently for each generation. absurdist humour is timeless
Gen Z are awesome, if you know them personally. They're gonna save us all.
Hey don't do us like that, we got way better humor than them 😭
Its the parents i have 2 nieces one is 5 the other is 3. They know how to count, the alphabet, nursery rhythms, little dances, and likes to scribble and draw. They play on devices too but they dont act like monsters!
This, the problem isn’t the devices or the children using them, it’s the adults who don’t monitor and ultimately neglect their children who are to blame.
@@joshuaconnall4237 I'm glad we agree
I think if you don’t feed your kids right, that should be classified as child abuse and you should be given the means and knowledge to, and if you don’t they should be taken from you.
Your right 90's parents knew how to do it I have Autism but nobody would know because every time I showed signs of it my father hit me in the face and threw me across the living room while screaming demons come out and he wasn't religious he just thought it was funny
As gen Z who was raised with a tablet and neglected my own kid will have no devices until middleschool and their first phone won’t be a smart phone but a flip phone with only texting and calling capabilities. They will still have their privacy and will still be thoroughly educated on how to safely use the internet.
@@TherealDrPenguinthere will always be flip phones, you have access to everything on the internet.
@@TherealDrPenguin they do, some service carriers unironically offer flip phones at fairly cheap prices (at least here in Bulgaria they do)
@@TherealDrPenguinoh come on now. The Galaxy Z Flip 5 is basically just a flip phone. They run out of idea and dig out of the old idea bin every now and again. By the time we’re having kids old enough for phones, flip phones will probably be cheap, retro, and a fidget device all in one.
I feel as if u had a child that would be abit overboard but I can for sure understand the sentiment
@@TherealDrPenguin They sort of do. If you count the Samsung Fold as a recreation of sorts of the age old flip phone, but other than that I can't think of anything close to the original style, no.
My son is one and we walk outside to get eggs from our chicken coop every morning to make breakfast, it’s his favorite part of the day
I watched a CPS hearing where this lady (at a supervised visit) was trying to feed her kid. She pretended to feed a Mickey Mouse doll and then punched him in the face when he didn’t eat the food, bc she saw it on tiktok. Idk if she ever got her kid back but I tell ya what the judge was NOT impressed.
I feel pathetic for worrying about the existentialism of a 9-5 when there are people in far worse situations, but its just crushing realizing that ill likely spend the rest of my life in monotomy.
The fact that we don't know what this technology does to our brains, yet we’re giving it to kids, scares me. Today, children learn to sing Skibidi toilet before they even learn their ABCs...
And today they first see p**n at 9. Something that deeply troubles me, and they see not because they have been taught about it, or because society is getting more open about the birds & the bees, but because they stumble upon adult sites or are even recommended said sites by algorithms.
I to this day don't know where this quote originated from but it has never stopped ringing true.
"You cannot fight, what you do not know"
Honestly I feel the parasitic transactional business practices that are becoming more and more common these days are a big part of the problem and one of the most damaging influences.
I share your concerns, as should everyone else
These last 10 years have been a wild ride. We’re gonna get to a point where having a baby is gonna be like getting your drivers licenses.
Something that really scares me is the lack of social awareness and the lack of the ability to be considerate.
Can you elaborate? I kinda get it, but also don't.
Not really, migrants are always available to replace the non-functional natives.
@@Snorlaxsnaxx people are just gonna start acting like they’re in a call of duty voice chat at all times
what do you mean by that? its your natural urge as a living this to want to reproduce... Everyone should want to have a kid thats kinda how we got this far as a species
@@Bigboisully There are so many incorrect points here
The red food coloring thing has some evidence, but it’s an intolerance thing, not an ingredient side effect. It also is an effect that wears off super fast. I saw a recommendation from a doctor to try doing a no red food dye diet for only a week, and if you notice no difference in behavior, there’s likely no risk to legal red food dyes.
The correlation (not CAUSATION) of red 40 with hyperactivity is also because a lot of candy and soda contains red 40.
As far as eating in a grocery store is concerned, what my girlfriend and I do if we get hungry is I’ll grab a snack from the cart, run to self checkout and buy it while she keeps shopping, then I’ll go back to her and we’ll eat. A few times people have asked us what we were doing, so I keep the receipt handy. Don’t want anyone to think we’re stealing 😁
i've cried before and after work since i started in the workforce. ive loved my jobs and have felt accomplished but the crying is real.. (the past 10+ years)
"Nanny 911" just makes me think of Southpark and Cartman.
As a Walmart employee, we don't tend to care if you've got a drink or little bag of chips while shopping. What bothers us is when you finish it then think you don't have to pay for it, whether that be throwing that empty bottle on a shelf or telling us to throw it out for you because 'I finished it while walking so I'm not gonna buy it'
I get the whole hotpot joke on white dads, but beans, tomatoes, meat, and cheese, is cheaper, and healthier than a wendys burger.
I have to take the train to work at 7:30 and get home at 6. It’s terrible especially having to pay $350 a month on a train pass.
I got out of high school and started my own company. My high school friends HATE their debt and bleak job opportunities. I just bought a second vehicle in cash to use for fun (2012 Boxter)
Take my ipad I dare you? Wow
Both me and my brother are bisexual, statistically that’s really unlikely in one household… I blame my parents
I blame Satan.
My mom is raised us on fresh veggies. We never got baby food when we were tiny people. I really wish people would give their kids better meal options other than sugar, carbs and soda.
The term ‘other people have it worse’ is such a trip because while I agree it’s true we should be thankful for what we have , at the same time it feels like that phrase invalidates the stuff we do struggle with
im 19 have autism and living in a homeless shelter just remember guys it could be worse
Definitely one of my favorite oompaville thumbnails💀
"Je ne sais quoi, I don't know what that means." EXACTLY! lol
Made me do a little cackle
I sometimes cry before work too.
I absolutely love my job but i have some very extreme social anxiety to the point where i feel stalked.
whenever I asked for something in the store my parents straight up said no, if I talked back I would get yelled at now kids just get what they want