Does Height Matter In a Relationship? | Tell My Story
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It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their blind date partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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I get so anxious when it comes to the ‘would you date me’
Same
If your NICE 😀😊
Exactly 😬
Same
Yeah samee
that dude was 33 wow he looks great
Tyler Rankin He looks like he's a recent Grad Student in his mid 20's.
33 yo is young so obviously he looks good
Tyler Rankin Well yeah, he's only 33...so he should look fairly good.
Right I know 17 year olds who look older than him lmao
33 isn’t old
The shorter guy is genuine. He got the vibe.
Suyash Awasthi
Coz he Italian you know
He's cute and mature.
y'all knew what you were doin putting 2 bottoms together. smh
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
I nearly sharted
SCREAMING
Lol
IM SCREAMING
adam looks SO italian
Marie-Lynn Issa it's the mustache
Do u know what his Instagram is
@@keniajean2230 or skin color lol
He doesn't in my opinion (and I'm Italian)
more like so latin
Adam is like a ray of sunshine, beautiful smile and he seems very open. Frank, however, seems a bit cold to me idk :/
fbspin Adam is Mediterranean that's why.
fbspin you can tell he's shy
Yeah, Frank looks like a plastic Ken doll
fbspin ikr
He reminds me of the jokerr wheezeee
I'm totally into Adam. I'd definitely go on a date with him. Frank, contrary, isn't my cup of tea.
cougarlt I agree frank he just looks like he’s had so much work on his face lmao he’s not attractive 🤷🏻♂️ and he looks old 😬
I would go for Adam too. Just that enthusiasm that he has around every small thing is really adorable.
Frank is fine
When they stood up 😳😳😳 I'm that short guy
but when they lie down, it really isnt the same mothermatics.
Frank doesn't look like a Frank.
Java Bain I know right
he looks more like a gunther or bjorne
He looks like an Edward
Java Bain he looks like a Benjamin or a Tyler
He looks like a Garrett to me
Even though Frank gives out a distinct Preppy vibe with his choice of attire with a sweater over a shirt, he still gives off a surfer/beach dude persona and I can see why Adam thought he was from California. Also I'll bet their individual dental hygienists love it when they come in for their check ups.
Hahahaha
white perfect looking teeth doesnt equal a good mouth hygiene (im not saying they have shitty dental hygiene, but in general just so u know that perfect smile doesnt meant clean teeth/mouth)
my teeth are pretty yellow, have always been, but dentists said my mouth hygiene is almost too good and i should chill
many of my friends have perfect white teeth but they smoke, drink sodas, and their dental hygiene is poor
so please educate urself
Where my LA kids at?
If we're talking in an evolution standpoint then height MATTERS or USED TO MATTER a lot. Generally to a woman, the height of a man matters more than weight, and for most men, weight matters more than height. That doesn't mean that weight doesn't matter at all for girls, or height matter for guys, rather it's just that one tends to matters more.
As far as height goes most men just prefer their woman to be just as tall or at the most not be as tall as them. Men care about looks a lot more than women, but if one were to finally get their dream girl, and she doesn't treat them well, or is boring, or a drama queen, then they'll move on to somebody with a more fun personality, even if they're not as tall or overall attractive as the last one.
This is similar to what girls would do with guys even if they're the "RIGHT HEIGHT". Just try to be the best version of yourself, and don't fret over your height so much. Improve the things you can control, such as weight (not just to make a guy/girl like you, but for your own health), and try to have as much fun as possible, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. In the end of the day your personality traits and how you carry yourself as a person KEEP a person ATTRACTED TO YOU…a LOT more than physical features!!! Made a video on this too lol
omglikesopigmented Yeah straight and white teeth don't automatically mean perfect teeth. I've seen quite a few people whose teeth look like these guys (cause they've had braces and whitening treatment) and then when they've thrown their head back to laugh I've seen loads of fillings. :P
Frank’s smile fell when he looked down at Adams stature hahahaha
Their Instagrams are frankfay and adamdpapa, for those of you that are desperate stalkers just like me :D
Hey find one for Alex and Sir'Twon (matching tattoos) 🙈
@@bluesunflowers Sir'town has a CZcams channel
2019, thanks, looks like they with new boys now.... Im guessing Adam will settle down before Frank
😂
Frank: cold, kinda dry, the type of boy to lead you on a little bit and then decide he doesn't like you
Adam: sweet, kind, caring, will love you unconditionally
The chemistry doesn't work at all, I cannot see them together
What kind of bullshit is that lol... you don't know any of them at all yet you make assumptions based on this video. It's like I don't like this guy so he's this this his, and I like the other guy so he HAS to have ONLY positive qualities to him. Girl pls.
Agreed unfortunately. Frank seemed almost arrogant.
Danny Soderberg Adams cuter tbh
You were right.. he ghosted Adam after they went on a date..czcams.com/video/WZLVv7iG7MM/video.html
Ethe Rike His name's Danny? Probs a guy.
Not actually seeing a lot of chemistry... Adam likes Frank but Frank doesn't seem that into him.
Flyn Scott, I noticed that also !
Adam is too hot for Frank.
Frank has quite a smiliar face to someone I know. I think it’s just his face that makes it harder to distinguish emotions.
Frank reminds me of the joker without makeup onnnnNnNNNnNNNnN
Maybe Frank uses botox.. his forehead didnt seem to move a lot
Adam is a definitely a catch !! Seems very sociable, engaging, fun, loves to smile and takes things one day at a time, super cute 😏, loves pizza, enjoys life.
My dude on the left had his poker face on the entire time. I was shocked when he said he would date him. Lol
Maybe it’s just Botox 😬
i didnt feel the chemisty as i felt on the video of aaron and drew
but hey theyre cute
aladinoux lol doesn't really matter cause adam and drew aren't together 😔😔😔
aladinoux ii
aladinoux I totally agree, I so fell in love with Aaron and Drew 😍
aladinoux yeah same
Nancy Anowai Whyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
Frank has really nice hair!
Julie L i like how it compliments his face
1 thousandth like
Yeahhh!!!
I love it when Adam says "I'm like pocket-size." He is sooo cute. ❤❤
He IS really tall. The other guy was kind of impressed when he stood up 😂
The shorter guy is so cute.
Omg that camera angle at the end of the video 😩 y'all ain't right for that 😂
Alexis Macklin LMFAOOO
hahahaha 😂😂😂
I think that their height difference is adorable
Lmao....i know...I was like “DAYUMMMM”
Alexis Macklin HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA BYE😂
I had a type once, long hair, taller than me, older. And I fell in love with a short hair, same height as me, and a year and a half younger.
You're the best kind of different
I love how Adam smiled with his eyes. He's a catch.
They both have perfect teeth!
Achie Bella ikr it pains me
Definitely
Most gay couple I've came across so far, had the best teeth! Like, SO WEIRD!
Specially Adam
Do you think they are real?
The small guy is soooooo attractive :o
emberchord and you’re not
how friendly!
not by my standards :P
The shorter guy is waaayyyyy better looking than the taller guy.
I think emberchord is way more attractive than them
Y'all in the comments-- am I the only one that was seeing the chemistry? Like, yeah, Frank was a little tense ish but he kept smiling and seemed genuinely into the conversation 🤷🏻♀️
Exactlyyyyy!! I too felt their chemistry...... I feel like people are too very judgemental nowadays.
ADAM IS SO CUTE
Frank's smile reminds me of the Joker
Jon Doh I feel like I’m the only one that thinks he looks him creepy lmfao
YES!
immediately thought of like the green goblin or something XD
🤣
Frank looks great for 33, I thought he was like 25.
Maybe because 33 is still young? You act like he said he was 60.
Botox
@@freebandzjin Well, yeah of course 33 is still young. But there's usually gonna be a difference between 33 year Olds and 25 year Olds.
No, he definitely look older than 25 lol...
That was really Sweet! I am glad I stumbled upon this.
Frank gives me creepy vibes
It's the lighting i think
Lmfao I think it’s because he likes talk always the same way with the same smile 😂
@DarthYuYevon no : he has creepy eyes and a duck bill mouth
he gives me joe vibes from YOU
CAUSE HE FUCKIN LOOK LIKE LUKE MAGNOTTA.
The tall guy seems fake... The short guy seems genuine.
Zach Stonerock preach it please! Frank seemed fake as hell! He’s definitely someone I wouldn’t wanna chill wit - frank heave a seat 💺cocky ass hell too and I don’t know why cuz he’s not cute at all
see I feel the other way around lol
I dunno. I think you're projecting because of your personal feelings about people who are traditionally attractive in the way he is. Like, he is definitely not my physical type at *ALL*, but Frank/tall guy seemed to be making himself pretty emotionally vulnerable. You get the impression he's not the most educated dude, which is fine, but when he admitted he has a fear of not understanding things, I found that kind of touching. He's obviously not flat out *stupid*, but I'll bet a lot of people assume he is because of the way he looks, and that probably sucks.
I agree, all the tall gays are fake...speaking from personal experience lmao
spot on!! he seems more into himself and has judging personality just based on the way he was looking Adam. On the other hand Adam Seems genuin
I LOVE Adam! He seems so sweet, down to earth and genuine
Idk why but I like franks vibe. He seems so laid back and just go with the flow. I love that
Tell me im not the only one who cackled when they stand up 😂
Alvin Bisquera true
I screamed! And said he’s so widdle!
@Alex I haha thanks i cackle when i see myself in the mirror too hahahahha
No you are not
Aww, I love them! Hope they had a nice movie date
Lana Luna totally agree with you. They are so cute together.
I mean, the first thing he said is "who's _in_ Thor" sooo
Lana Luna I'm agree,they are so cute
As a straight man, I think it's honestly really great that all sexual orientations are being represented here even if most people who watch this can't relate to their preference
Uncle Ruckus as a gay guy it is nice to know that people like you exist in this world.thank you
Thanks!
Thank you for this kind message but just know that homosexuality is NOT a "preference".
@@obviouslyme2906 it could be. Anything is possible.
Adam looks like an Italian Adam Sandler, but in good shape
This warmed my heart so much ❤️
The tall guy got really disappointed when he saw the other guy
Tbh the smaller guy is so much cuter and he has a good vibe 😄
+Lalalala Lalala tea
True
the blond guy seams kinda dry but he is really hot
Carly Baretz water evaporates
Seems*
He reminds me of a piece of bread. So boring and plain. He also seems kinda culture-less like most white Anglo men. The Italian guy is way better.
He looks like a psychopath
I thought he was ugly.
This is far more interesting than the typical "blind date" setup. The premise of each party describing the other from a minimum of signals and visual cues seems to spark some good give and take. Frank and Adam both listened well, and that's a major element to success dating. Loved how Adam laughed at so many of Frank's comments about him. Well done.
He's short, and cuuute😍😍
I now get why he said he's a "pocket size" 😂
Im a pocket size too! Lol
They are really cute for each other
IT'S BACK!!! I've missed this series so much. I love the other content on SP, though.
Woohoo! Thanks so much for watching!
A beautiful first meet, good luck guys!🤩
Adam is so cute and funny- great conversationalist. Frank seemed genuinely interested too, he's just not as open as Adam. I wish both of them the best ❤️
As a young woman, i prefer taller men, but i think it’s pretty common for girls and women to think that. Ig theres a subconscious feeling of protection when the significant other is taller. I love this series sm, i just rlly enjoy couples staring into each others eyes...OMG SOMEONE SHOULD MAKE A COMPILATION OF JUST EYE GAZINGGGG
I make videos too! Pop a peek?
I can relate about the height.Only in being attracted to women. I have an strong feminine side, and while feminine side, and while I do date some people that are shorter than me (I'm 6'3), I think that a woman who's closer to my height could also be nice. Part of the intimacy in sexuality and intimacy is being so vulnerable, and the height of a partner can help one feel safe. There have been some awkward height differences on dates. I went on a date with someone who was about 5'3 and embellished on her profile with a 5'4. The date went pretty well, but it was awkward always having to lean forward to hear her better. With her being very petite, and my being pretty tall, I felt like I was the 7' tall actor Carel Struycken.
Interesting, I feel more comfortable with men who are just a little taller than me. I am quite petite and dating tall men intimidates me. I don't know why
It also helps with heels of I ever wear them but being 5 feet 8 yeah I prefer taller also 😂
MichaelaRose I really like big guys but when they're truly big, not just height, but muscles, a big back, legs, arms, brain.
yeah i completely agree with the "being taller than" part but when short girls claim they dismiss men who are over a certain height i get so pissed off like damn leave some tall men for the tall mfn women
i feel like frank is meh about adam idk
nia berk same i got the same feeling
He doesn't seem like a transparent person to me, meaning that he could be into Adam, just not able to show it
Sajida Assaf Yeah, Frank seems like that's just how his personality is. He just seems more calm. I'm the same way actually, especially when a bit nervous or talking to someone i just met but it doesnt mean I'm off put or not interested.
Santiago yep true!
nia berk i think its just his face
I could really felt the energy and the chemistry between them ♥
I love adam's laugh. It makes me giggle and can't stop smiling. 😁
Frank didn't seem as interested as Adam was
You don't understand only gay people understand
That is cause he was more passive. He wants someone taller to mount him. Good luck to him, cause those types would prefer the other dude.
When they stood up at the end I really shouldn't laugh but OMG 😅 don't get me wrong I was rooting for these two so I'm happy they are going on a date!
This was so wholesome and cute!!! Love it
this was sooo cutee more pleaseee💕
that height difference at the end tho xDDD
omg these guys are soooo cute .....please soulpancake keep making more vidios in this series
That's the plan! Keep an eye out every Tuesday for more Tell My Story!
SoulPancake it's every Tuesday?? I can't wait for more
i really want to do this. it seems so dope to see how other people perceive you.
They are so cute! Adam has got beautiful energy
Love This serie 🤩
In the end did he just asked "who is in Thor?"
Lol
Adam's seems like a such happy and just nice person!
Adam’s smile is everything
Okay straight male here, but they are both of them are gorgeous!
Mathew Slater GAYYYYY
Gay male here. I think some women are gorgeous too. Does that make me straight?
lol lollipop Shut up
Pearl ok PEARL. did u get ur name from ur grandma?? :D
lol lollipop Was that supposed to make me laugh?
They’re so cute, though they give out more of friendly vibes.
Aaaa this is so cool!!! I was sitting on the edge of my seat and smiling troughout the whole video!!!😋😊
Frank is definitely my type very reserved, laid-back and demure. He seems also a smart person
Ngl I felt ZERO chemistry between them. They were too awkward.
ilovesparky13 frank wasn’t in the mood
They seem like they're both bottoms
ilovesparky13 ok well they were kinda put in an always situation. And who cares, it takes time to build chemistry
ilovesparky13 just frank
Um, they just met.
What's his middle name???
Guacamol
B-smart
sidekicKs nice 😂
Gregory Kons I WAS WONDERING THAT
Two bottoms, it won’t work out lol.
you are so wrong.
Adam is so adorable, he's seem like a sweet guy.
When they stood up at the end
The short guy looks like the typical grindr bottom and the tall guy, who is also a bottom, wasn't impressed by the short guy. No chemistry at all
Same thought. I saw no chemistry.
I love this description hahahha
Where are these assumptions coming from?
Eliana Naomi you're not gay sweetheart
It was an honest question though. I feel like you could be right based on your experience, but the dude is 6'4 he could be a top. There's gotta be a people who switch too. Idk, I think they're adorable so I hope you're wrong...
Aww! Such a CUTE video❤
Loved it! Thanks
The small guy was really cute and nice but the taller one was pretty dry lmao
Nevertheless, I think hate shouldn't matter in a relationship. #LifeProTip
BinauralMind - Experimental, Relaxing Music isn’t it about height?
Somethingpeerless It is. ;)
If we're talking in an evolution standpoint then height MATTERS or USED TO MATTER a lot. Generally to a woman, the height of a man matters more than weight, and for most men, weight matters more than height. That doesn't mean that weight doesn't matter at all for girls, or height matter for guys, rather it's just that one tends to matters more.
As far as height goes most men just prefer their woman to be just as tall or at the most not be as tall as them. Men care about looks a lot more than women, but if one were to finally get their dream girl, and she doesn't treat them well, or is boring, or a drama queen, then they'll move on to somebody with a more fun personality, even if they're not as tall or overall attractive as the last one.
This is similar to what girls would do with guys even if they're the "RIGHT HEIGHT". Just try to be the best version of yourself, and don't fret over your height so much. Improve the things you can control, such as weight (not just to make a guy/girl like you, but for your own health), and try to have as much fun as possible, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. In the end of the day your personality traits and how you carry yourself as a person KEEP a person ATTRACTED TO YOU…a LOT more than physical features!!! Made a video on this too lol
OMG This video is so adorable !!!!
Adam is a keeper for sure!
Aww... my son picked my daughter's name when I was pregnant with her and he was 2. ❤ And I LOVE tall men!
Crystal Murphy what's the name?
Julia vO Courtney Noelle ❤
Crystal Murphy aaw so cute!
Julia vO ❤❤❤
How does a 2 year old pronounce Courtney lol
white guy has the looks but kind of boring. The other guy was also handsome but had a great personality
are you joking? they are both white tho. There are many types of white people and we dont look the same here in Europe. First of all, scandinavians are or mostly blonds and have either blue or green eyes. people from East europe are slavic. So if you go more south to greece, spain, italy, portugal, they aint the same as us and you can easliy see the difference between scandinavians and spanish people. I`ve spent alot of time in the southern part of spain, italy and greek and im definitely not the same as them, but we are all white. most of them have dark hair(black, dark brown) and brown eyes like latinos. im from norway, so I know what im talking about :) cristiano ronaldo is dark-skinned and has black hair, still white cuz he`s a european (from portugal)
The blond guy is ugly
I'm sorry but southern Europeans are mixed with the middle-eastern which produced their dark complexion, ancient Greeks were predominantly blonde people, they were also a large proportion of the Roman population. Cristiano Ronaldo is not technically white.
lmao greeks never were blondes,always brunettes
lmao Ancient Greek literature describes most people as blonde
Adam's eyes are so beautiful *.*
@Xaldon Os That is so true.
My apologies @Xaldin Os
This video made my day! :D
cuteeeee this is the only relationship on this channel that i thought would actually work out
Well, then you have not so great judgment there. This was a very awkward duo. It’s not going to last past a first date.
There should be a taller woman and shorter guy to show the stereotypes we face that the woman should be shorter. As I am 6'4 too and guys see my height as intimidating
Luna Mayhem I can relate, I'm 6 ft 2 -_-
Agreed. I'm "only" 5'9", but I face a lot of challenges with it.
How’s the weather up there?
I'm not a tall woman, I'm 5'5 but my ex is 5'2 and I was sooo in loved with that man💕
ohhh you are taller than Brienne de Tarth, If I were not gay, I would like to have babies with you, children who would dominate the world. jajaja
love these two
i love this 😭😭❤️
I missed tell my story 😍
theyre actually so fkn cute.
The short guy seems so sweet and like a deep person. Hopefully things work out 😊
Adam has an amazing smile.
Adam is super lovely
Finally another tell my story!!!! And height does and doesn’t matter. It matters socially, but in reality it doesn’t matter. My boyfriend is 6 foot 5 and I am 5 foot 5. I love how tall he is!! But I have dated a guy who was 5’10 and a guy who was 5’3 and a guy who was the exact same height as me. It wasn’t the height that made me break up with these guys it was him cheating and distance and immaturity. It all comes down to the person and the situation in the end.
Hannah Cantrell idk height matters to me, if I'm dating someone shorter I feel more dominant and that's not how I roll lmao
Finally someone with the same thoughts as me! Irl i do think it all comes down to their personalities and how they love us i think. I'd rather be with 5'3 guy who's mature and loyal instead of some 6'2 dbag 🤣
I've found more often that tall guys like shorter guys. I know tall str8 guys prefer shorter women.
Wow you girls are really intelligent. I am sure you have great personality and most importantly you value love and compassion. Nowadays people are shallow , greedy, selfish and cheaters.
Yes! 32 and 33 looks good on them! And me too!
Adam has a lovely smile :)
I thought I was white but apparently I am "italian" 😂
Davide Anastasio there are different kinds of whites, like there are different kinds of Latinos, Asians, blacks etc.
In effetti 😂😂
Italians weren't considered white in the u.s. until around the 60's or 70's
@@taahdaah3813 Well those are US bollocks.
Italians, spanish, french and greeks are considered more mediterraneans.
Guys stop hating on Frank I thought he was really sweet and looks don’t matter and most people say he LOOKS creepy but honestly he even isn’t that creepy for those saying it was awkward well of course it was their basically dating while people are recording their every move of course it’s awkward his smile might be off but you can tell or at least I can tell is that it was a genuine smile
Tbh he doesn't look creepy. He looks really uninterested/bored though.
Adam is adorable and have a very bright aura. I would love to hug him all the time.
hell yeah I'd totally do this!