When Friendships Change, It's OK to Let It Go | Sadie Robertson Huff & Laney Rene
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- čas přidán 28. 05. 2023
- Sadie's best friend and former roommate, Laney Rene, has some real-life experience with difficult friendships - from fear of making one to the unbearable thought of losing one, Laney can relate! Sadie and Laney first met while they were both grieving friendships that had ended badly, and they talk about their own shifting friendship as they were both single at the same time, then met and married their husbands, had children, and moved to different states. Laney describes her past difficulties with letting go of failing friendships, and why that ability was necessary for her personal growth. Laney describes how you should not place your happiness in the hands of others, especially ones who talk about you behind your back. Sadie encourages us to always remember: No matter how much hurt you've experienced, sisterhood and friendship is ALWAYS worth pursuing and fighting for - they're gifts from the Lord! Don't be afraid to start new friendships!
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Sadie Robertson, first introduced to the world as a star of A&E’s Duck Dynasty and ABC’s Dancing with the Stars, recognized she could be a positive voice to those in need of an inspiring presence in their lives. At the age of 24, she’s become one of the most prominent voices of her generation. Sadie’s passion is to speak, to write, and to encourage. She is a sister and friend to more than five million followers on her various social platforms, which she sees as a direct line of communication to her peers.
Sadie’s creative and entrepreneurial spirit has helped her become a 'New York Times Best Selling Author', and launch her Live Original brand, which speaks to millions across her various platforms, including CZcams, social media, the Live Original blog, LO Fam Community, the Live Original tour, and her Whoa That’s Good podcast.
Additionally, Robertson has long poured her heart into philanthropic efforts. She has loved partnering with Roma Boots, Help One Now, World Vision, and the World Food Program over the last few years. To date, Robertson has been able to be a voice and agent of change in many countries, including Peru, Somalia, Moldova, and the Dominican Republic.
Sadie is married to the man of her dreams, Christian Huff, and they have a daughter named Honey James. They look forward to continuing to learn what it means to truly live and celebrate in every moment of life.
Literally had a slight breakdown about friendships last night ❤ needed this video , praying for Christian friends 🙏🏻
I'm 43 years old and this is a topic even close to me. As a woman of God I think we deal with this on a different level. We constantly have to be vigilant of whom we have in our lives and around our families.
I'm 48 and going through this. I needed this video!!! I'm still struggling with the hurt, but I also have to see this person ALOT in passing so mine can't be fixed with " out of sight , out of mind" . I'm trying hard to let go and let God heal my heart.
It feels so good to hear that others can really relate to this too. I feel like I’m always the friend that is trying to maintain friendships, putting a lot of value on them, and it’s truly so hard. It’s so easy to feel unwanted and blame yourself
I have felt the same way lately! You are not alone at all and you are so wanted and loved by God!
@@Naomiwhitwifelife thank you 💜
So true. I can relate!
I know I’m replying to this comment 7 months later… but I feel the same way. I’m slowly losing a friend right now and it’s so hard to not always be the first to reach out because deep down I know if I don’t text first she won’t talk to me at all…
The need for friends is so real and deep. Honestly, I've been questioning with my sister if somethings wrong with us because we just can't seen to make deep friends in adulthood. We don't do thing things people are age do, and we are both not married. It makes it hard.
I myself feel like I have never had a true friend. I got a glimpse of a friendship but my life situation changed and that ended. I feel like I will never be able to find a true friend. It’s hard to not be discouraged. I’ve been praying for a true friend for years now. I’m still waiting on God. ❤️🩹
Me too
Same
🙏🙏🙏💕💕
Same. Sometimes I feel so lonely and wish I had genuine friendships around me
Please don’t let the belief that you won’t get it grow in you 🥺 Loving, intentional and willing people do exist for you too ❤️
This is a really emotional subject for me and I think it needs to be talked about more
From a young age I hadn’t been able to find a friend that I got to feel safe with. I was hurt a lot and best friends turned into bullies/talked about me behind my back. It has caused me to have my guard up as an adult toward other women. It’s extremely difficult for me to drop them in order to get to know someone and let them get to know me. It feels unnatural and super uncomfortable to consciously try to drop those walls to where I sometimes get a little awkward because I’m trying far too hard to drop my guard. This was such a necessary conversation for me to hear. This has been my life’s biggest struggle. I’m praying for it.
This is exactly what I’ve been praying about lately. Wow. Thank you for posting tgis
I seriously thought I was the only one who felt that way about friendships, especially since a lot of my new friends in Christ felt like family and I wanted them to be life long relationships. It’s hard when a friend turns against you and wants to tear you apart, but that’s when choosing Christ is everything. 💡
please do a part 2 (and a part 3!)! these conversations are so needed, and I particularly appreciate hearing from the both of you. thank you for this podcast.
Wow. I recently just broke off a friendship cause I felt I had outgrown it. This video further confirms that I made the right decision.❤️🙏🏾
Love this! I’ve literally been praying for friends for almost two years now and I feel so encouraged by your stories. I trust that God will place the right friends in my life in His timing🙏🏼🤍
these kind of podcasts are a real blessing ❤️
Amen! 🙏
I’m so glad somebody is finally talking about this. ❤
Me too!!
So good!I am definitely walking in this season of being pruned and letting things go. It hurts so bad but I do believe there is purpose in it and joy in it. God bless you guys and the friendship you have grown. So beautiful!!
Love this topic! It’s so refreshing to know others deal and go through the same thing & to know it doesn’t make you a bad friend but a human.
Such an important conversation. I pray many many people hear it. ❤
I’m literally in this season right now of letting go. I’m not too far into the video but I’m already hearing things I’m really relating to. God is speaking.
Literally exactly what I am going through right now. I relate to Laney so much and what she has specifically been through. This has helped me on so many different levels!
I loved this. I too have had a hard time walking through friendships and this has given me so much hope and encouragement❤
I am now 39. And I found that once I hit my mid 30s the friends I have are life long friends. I don't have a desire to make new friendships, I am happy with my small established circle. I definitely had to weed put my garden to get here.
Thank you for being so raw, bold and transparent about your journey's girl. Grateful for your podcast 🙌
I so needed this! Thank you both for talking about this topic! Love you guys so much!
I don’t know if you will see this or not. But I truly appreciate you and this podcast. Iv been trying to be more intentional with what I look at or listen to during the day and this podcast has been such a blessing. Your doing great sadie!
Wow, this brought up so much memories and emotions. I my biggest take away is that hurt in friendships is usually two sided. Humble oneself and apologize. a hard conversation may be needed to put the hurt and relationship out on the table. Forgive. So good! Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences about this topic. So needed!
I was surprised with tickets to come to the conference! I am so blessed and excited to hear you and others speak!💗
This is so very needed!!! I love it!!! Be blessed!!!🕊🤍
Thanks for being willing yo be honest and vulnerable so we can share your freedom as we focus on truth together. Love hurts 💔❤🙏 💔
I ended 2 one sided friendships and the guilt was incredible but I tried to be as polite as possible. It’s truly freeing
18:51 I really feel her. Aw Sadie, I really am encouraged by how you showed friendship. I pray to be that friend to someone, even if no one can be that friend to me. I do have faith that God will bring a true Christian friend in my life though as well. Cheers ladies
I am so glad I stumbled upon this , I love so deeply. Especially with my close friends I recently made a friend who is like a best friend even more like a sister to me.
Thanks for this @sadie you're one of my inspirations
Sadie, you have such a sweet heart! I’m older than you, but I love listening and getting to hear these topics from you. 🤍
wow this could not speak more to me than this I seriously have been diving into finding something on this. God knew I needed this.
I love Laney! I love to listen to you guys together.
That was just perfect! 💓 Thank you!
Thank y'all sm for this epsiode because I needed it! I feel a lot more content, closer to God, and healthy minded after listening!
This is so encouraging ❤
Thanks for sharing! Loved this! God bless❤
Incredible topic to chat about Sadie ☀️ you have a heart of gold x x
Good word. I've had to let friends go. Also. I'm blessed to have two friends that even tho we moved far away in location, we still keep in touch.
this is so sweet to be honest, i love you both's friendship, God does makes beautiful things from some broken things or from some hard events in our lives, i have seen this in my life so much, God will bring us friendships without strive
This helped so much, I really needed this!
Sadie's last words at minute 44 is so good! Stay encouraged friends.
That was good. A few more thoughts. You mentioned iron sharpening iron. That takes a great deal of maturity to speak and hear what a friend has to say to you without walling up. If a friend feels you cannot accept any correction, rebuke, or challenge it can make gossip a lot easier. Friendship should not be entirely uplifting and “you’re awesome”. Friends have a great insight to our lives and can be a real tool for holiness but we have to allow them to speak truth and be open to it.
For the young moms out there I am going to say an awkward truth. All your mixed gender play dates might include best friends under age 8 but you are going to want to be highly invested in some mom friends with kids of the same gender because it really will get awkward at some point.
Thank you for these inspiring videos ❤
This is so good. It hits so close to home for so many and I am so thankful you are talking about this. Thank you for this.
needed this so much!
Thank you!
needed this thank you
Thank you 😊💗
God is our best friend
Hi Sadie, I really loved this video! Blessings from Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic!
I needed this so bad
So timely I tried to hold onto my most dearest Christian friendship and they ghosted me once I got engaged as we were both waiting for our Boaz and they didn’t yet. I used to feel pain that they left our friendship but now that they got married and with kids they are talking to me again. It’s sad though because I really needed them as I prepared for marriage but we were luckily women of faith so I got through it.
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i needed thissss
My first response after imagining Sadie's cheerful voice narrating the title was to imagine the manly reply in a gravelly voice: "In a world..."
Ok, wrong channel. Every time I hear 'let it go' now, I can't help but think it's a reference to 2013 Frozen.
Ok, well, on with the show!
🙏for friends/ fellowship
Yes, when I had a best friend when I was little we went through elementary school and everything but when it was time for middle school, she went her way to be a cheerleader and I went my way and we would see each other and never even speak, we weren't mad or anything it was just awkward.
listening to this i realized i need to have a conversation with a friend i’ve been really close to since i was 4(i’m 14 now) I don’t know how to bring it up though and i’m scared, she recently found another girl and they’ve gotten a lot closer and she has ended up putting me on the back burner and replacing me fully but we still talk because we are in a friend group together and also go to the same church and school, we are going through that tension right now but i don’t know if she feels it too because she seems so happy with her new bsf
Hi Sadie I love your podcasts. You are like a christian big sister and it's so amazing because you have so many good reflections about so many different topics. I would love if you would talk about how to speak with others about a person without it being gosip or judgemental in a wrong way e.g. when someone dosen't contribute in your studygroup and you talk about it without the member being present. Would love your christian view on that since I can't figure out where the line is.
i’m in a transition season with my friendships now! this podcast was so timely, so grateful you guys talked about this!🩷🩷
And as a women of God I absolutely believe that I need to guard/protect my heart. And God is also protecting my amazing Godly family. And I :) And permanently divorce/no reconciliation ever is a really really really good thing :) And when I went through this 9 years ago at the exact same time my friendships with my ex husbands friends/all of his best friends all of those ended completely so I had to deal with that. and God helped me deal with that/walk through that that’s a great thing :) And I love my Jesus He is my Everything:)@Sadie Robertson Huff
Yes ma'am ❤️
Stay strong. Keep asking Yeshua to wrap you in his arms to keep you safe! God bless us all ❤
Anotherrrrr podcast indirectly calling kail out 😂 how has she kept this going for so long
Can you do like a part two about Jesus being your number one friend?
Or something similar to that topic
Dear Sadie Robertson Huff,
I'm a huge fan of you and you are an amazing person that i like to listen to everyday and i wanna know how to you baptized people???
❤️❤️❤️
❤️💎💎💎💙💙💎💎💎❤️
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!
26:46 man can make his plans BUT GODS PLANS WILL PREVAIL 😂 but seriously.
Sometimes I forget I saw her in person 😅❤🥹🫶🏻 (Sadie btw)
Edit: why am I crying??!😭
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!
God loves u all sm God bless any prayer requests or any questions? God sent his only son to die for u so live for Him (not trying to force) Gods got u and is in ur corner always, fighting for u, and the best way for u to fight is on your knees, praying. Start with journaling, prayer, worship, turn off bad music, verses, living like the fruit of the spirit each day. Nobody is perfect except Jesus. Its okay to make mistakes, we all do. Feel free to reach out nd talk for anything. ask God for wisdom in every situation. God loves u and so do i. Have a blessed day friend. Some of my fav verses: Matthew 19:26, John 3:16, Isaiah 30:21. Pick 1 fruit of the spirit today, and practice and live by it in all areas. Invite God into your life, every aspect and area. Trust the story because you know the author. If there is any prayers I can pray for y'all pls lmk!