Appalachian Man interview-Paul
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- čas přidán 26. 04. 2022
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Paul, an Appalachian man living in Leslie County, Kentucky.
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My little girls “Papaw Paul”. As soon as we come over he takes her to feed the chickens and see the pigs. He’s such a genuine man and will talk your head off for hours!❤️
Those babies are the luckiest girls! This man has the most beautiful soul. Makes me miss my Daddy something awful but sure makes me so proud to be born and raised in Kentucky.
He seems like a real genuine man with a good soul. Cheers to your family
I absolutely love this man. He holds so much history. Mark, I don't know how you found him, but I am so glad you did.
Couldn’t have said it better 💛
Ditto!
I live in Appalachia them ole guys are all around here. The Ohio River valley is full of meth and opiates and poverty. I have a son and I have spent 21years on keeping him educated about and off the meth and pills. Cannabis is good medicine.
This is a good man, who has lived some kind of life. He appears to be kind, hard working, and while I'm sure he isn't perfect he is authentic.
We need many more like him.
My family is from Clay county KY. This guy is absolutely right about meth being far worse than weed. They do fly choppers over and over the mountains looking for a little weed patch. Meanwhile, meth, oxy pills is everywhere. I do NOT smoke weed, I do drink a little. Not a fan of weed but I WONDER, since there are no jobs down there if they let them grow and sell some weed if they also grow x amount of corn and shuck beans, tomatoes, organic tobacco. I just WONDER how many of them would get off of meth, get outside, dig, sweat, grow, make a little money. I just wonder. The definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expect a different result. Wake the F up KY you have the perfect climate for farming, plenty of land.
I loved how he was asked about the most difficult time in his life and he just flipped that right around and talked about the most wonderful times in his life!
I noticed that too. Good observation.
You are so right. I hadn't noticed until I read your comment.
He is a genius. Way ahead of us all!
His rough times are his good times.
I loved to work.
Wish I wasn't so old
I love how people who grow up in Appalacia, no matter their age, refer to mom and dad as, 'mommy and daddy" There's something endearing about this!
That’s Definitely a WV thing. I’m a grown woman and still cal my mom mommy and she still calls her mom mommy. Idk why we do it but it feels so weird calling my mommy “mom”.
I grew up in a more rural part of Virginia (but nowhere near Appalachia), and we called our parents "mumma and daddy" with daddy being more pronounced like "deady." My 75 year old father would still refer to his 93 year old father as "deady." When I worked in a larger city here, my coworkers would comment on how I said that that way, but to us, it's just normal.
@@Sisterofthemoon76 Yes, it is a WV thing. My oldest daughter is 32 and still calls me mommy! And I LOVE it!!!
@@kellyjones4300 Tennessee thang too. As for daddy anyway. Im a 43 year old man and he died when I was 19 but he will always be my daddy.
I’ve had people tease me but they’ll be my Mama and Daddy till I die. It’s what’s in my heart. NC
When Mark asked him “What was the hardest time in your life?” And he said “Well, my life has never really been hard”…That man’s life has been hard AF, he is just tough and content.
Yes. I can't imagine working in the coal mines at such a young age!
Such a wise man. So inspirational!
Ya im sure it was hard but seems he was and is just happy...
@@eklypised His attitude is everything. He seems to take everything in stride, knowing there's always a better day ahead.
It is all perspective, however I definitely understand what you mean.
This man is filled with wisdom. Maybe only a 5th grade education, but a lifetime of simple happy living has done more for him than money ever could. Truly inspiring.
I 💯 percent agree, absolutely 🙏🏽
You can tell he's an intelligent person with a good deal of knowledge to share.👍
@@fastwhirlwindstudio come on man 🤣😂
@@fastwhirlwindstudio it’s sad really a liberal should have the value of an empty trash can
@@fastwhirlwindstudio thankfully we’ve got super valuable people like yourself 😒
I just love the Appalachian people interviews. They are always real and appreciate everything they have worked for
Alot of them had to work hard for what they had. End result is appreciating the smallest things in life
This is the best way to live out a life in this planet
So true
@@chrissparks3254 While the coal company lived high on the hog off their workers $1 an hour pittance. People back then were replaceable cogs, a family had to work twice as hard not to starve.
Thx. Me and all my people live at the very Southern end of the Appalachian Trail. So thank U for the kind words
Interviews that don‘t take place in the studio make for a nice change sometimes!
This man is a gem. A true example of a humble, strong, & kind man . God bless 🤍✝️
Absolutely agree... He has a lovely warming nature
@@nitnickers He comes off very empathic and I believe being in his natural environment is what makes him so wholesome. .
A good man there. Hard worker. 🙏🏼
Agreed. Definitely a humble man.
Agreed. I'd also have enjoyed an interview of his significant other.
Mark, I grew up in those mountains until I was 21 yrs old and now as a 33 yr old man this warms my heart ❤️.. Eastern Kentucky has a charm to it like no other place, but yet with the drugs that came into that area in the late 90s and 2000s it tried to take it all away.. Thank you for finding this amazing man and with it reminding me of the beautiful older generation that I grew up looking up to.. I’ve not been back to my hometown for many years, and I only live just a couple hours away in Lexington KY.. I think subconsciously I can cling on to the special times of my past and not have to face the reality of what has happened in those beautiful mountains by staying away.. I would also like to say thank you Mark for always talking so kind about the people and the communities in the Appalachian Mountains.. I love the channel you have created and I seem to catch myself watching video after video every night! God Bless and keep up the great work! ❤
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👍👏👏👏
I’m convinced the gov planted those drugs there because they want that land! They have a history of planting drugs. I’m happy I saw one lady say she was going to the courthouse to keep the land from being sold or mortgaged for 5 generations! Everyone should follow suit!
I am 55 and grew up in the Appalachian mountains of NC…I agree the drug problems are destroying the people, charm and families in our beautiful hills. But my heart and my soul will always belong there! Blessings💖🙏
Big pharma pumped so much of their poison into the mountains
He is the cutest and sweetest old man! I love his outlook on life. He's a genuinely happy person.
Agreed
Alicia Garcia dang girl you fine.
@@Madison.Rutherford ...pfttt!🤭
Pu- leeeez! 🤣
@@Madison.Rutherford shooters gonna shoot
He’s just a genuine person all around
Paul, you've pulled me up hard out of deep depression & bitterness from years of caring for my beloved husband dying a cruel death from Parkinson's, dementia, & bipolar disorder. I get little sleep, his doctors don't seem to care about old people, I change his diapers, feed him, everything. Sometimes he's the sweet man I've loved for almost 60 years, other times he hates me, blames me, accuses me of robbing him, having affairs, even hits me. Our son & his family seldom call but I don't blame them, there's never good news. Worked hard all our lives, tried to be decent, hard to accept the end of life seems so sad & lonely & all our money used up by the cost of medical care. Your life was worlds harder than ours but you said you don't carry hate in your heart, don't worry, just enjoy all the small, good things in life. You are proof that wisdom comes from living & reflecting with an open mind & heart, not just formal education. Your story has been like a fresh breeze that blew the anger right out of me. Our friends are all dead now but I feel I've made a new one in you. Thank you, Paul. 🙋Sending best wishes❤to you from 🇨🇦. And of course, thanks to Mark for this uplifting story.
Thank u for opening up your life t us
Praying for you & your husband. ❤️
Bless you. I hope you have peace, soon. I'm taking care of my husband as he is in end stsge if life, too. He is getting great Healthcare, and doesn't hit me, but he has dementia and heart problems.
Well said. I'm also sorry. God bless you. ❤
"When you sit down, you go down." Wiser words were rarely spoken.
I love hearing the hens and roosters in the background. I grew up on a farm and the sounds bring me a lot of comfort.
My children can't even wrap their head around the idea of growing up with no electricity.
Thank you for sharing your life experience with us. Makes me appreciate our luxuries and comfortable life.
Southern Iowa is similar.....
West Atl Ga...same😁👍
@@wesleyalan9179 How blessed you are.👍❤️
@@marylougeorge9890
I'm very blessed,ma'am. And I'm thankful...my life could've went down a different path25 years ago, but thank God I have this wonderful lady in my life, she's everything to me and I owe her so much. Im'a go tell her right now!😄😁
I miss it too now that be my alarm clock hearing the roosters in the morning.
As a born & raised Kentucky girl … this man makes me proud. He’s healthy & happy. Loves life. Smokes a little pot. Worries about nothing.
I need this in my life. Please do a interview w his nephew! Blessings.
“ When you sit down, you go down” This man is the epitome of a true American!!!
Luv him
My grandpa was also a coal miner, in Nicholas County, WV. He lived to 100, even with a case of black lung. He stayed mentally sharp until the last day. I love hearing these Appalachian interviews because the accents sound just like my grandparents.
he was saying 60 tonnes/2 people/8hrs. thats 100kg every 2 mins. that's nonstop shoveling
I can say that it is refreshing seeing true, honest, open, and real life stories. The struggles are real and everyone goes through them. The one thing that these videos have taught me is, it is not how you go into the problem, struggle, or situation it is about the person that comes out the other end. Keep up the great work I know this takes time, money, and energy... side note the Whitaker family is awesome and a national treasure...
Agreed! The Whitaker’s are the channel’s Royal Family. They give me joy.
This channels Royal family!!!! The Whitaker’s YES!!!!!
Such a gentle soul .
@@tammy_vip
They are so sweet . I look forward to seeing Ray and the whole gang .
Well said.👍❤️
Salt of the earth, love these interviews. It’s important we hear their stories before they are gone. Thank you Mark.
My Dad was born in 1930. He was raised on his father’s chicken farm. They were extremely poor. My Dad only had an 8th grade education but he was the smartest man I’ve known. I love people like Paul he reminds me of my Dad.
A formal education doesn't determine a person's intelligence. It's something you're born with.👍❤️
@@marylougeorge9890 well said
curious if they had loud roosters on his chicken farm
@@marylougeorge9890 I disagree. Raising children has taught me that we are not born with intelligence. I think It's a willingness or drive to learn that determines how intelligent someone can be, which is both nature and nurture. There are plenty of people that graduated highschool and beyond that never learn anything besides stuff pertaining to their job, and end up being dumber than their middle school aged children. If you never stop learning you will be smarter than the average person, eventually.
@@albertsadler4322 ❤️
That guy has more sense of what's going on than any politician does.
Listening to someone a little older with so much sense & pride & is truly happy & content is so refreshing 🙏🏻🥰
I know Paul very well live 5 miles from him. I’m 51. He is a great man and very respectful. They don’t get any better. He’s a simple man.
I don't worry bout nothing, what a positive response, this man is a legend.
We all need to hang out with him so we can learn how to live.👍👏👏👏
You can still hear Irish, and Scottish accent in Appalachian people. It's amazing that has still survived.
Mark!! Nice! Bet noone threw an "Apple-at-cha!" Thank you for the respect you show for our people and our mountains! I know we are a strange people to some, but we are good, and kind, and honest even though some don't have as much "book-learning" as people in other parts of the country. Thank you for highlighting this guy! He is a true Appalachian!
I've always admired and had a special place in my heart for southerners because of your down to earth values.
Much love from this half Japanese Michigander❤️👏👏👏
Really good to know that there are still people who appreciate what they have rather than lamenting about what they don't have.
most people in appalachia are like this. it's a happy simple way of life engulfed by nature. they're happy
This is a man I could talk to for hours. Genuine. Honest. Hardworking. Pure Appalachian. 💚
Can you imagine the stories and knowledge he'd share?!
It’s an area of our bea country that I’m definitely gonna visit before I go. I hope I meet someone to tell me a story. I love stories about real people spoken by real people.
I wish to grow old with an honest, humble and simple heart as this sweet and beautiful man. May God bless him more and live a long life.
My dad grew up in North Loup Nebraska on a farm. He didnt have running water till 5 th grade, no electricity till high school. Went to a 1 room school house till high school. He hated farming so much, he somehow went to Doane college and became an astrophysicist. He just died a year ago at 84.
My dad only had a 5th grade education.
He's 73, retired from a good job and still constantly on the move doing something.
He's built additions on his house, does plumbing/electrical work and does practically all mechanical work himself.
Education makes you book smart, not useful.
My Dad was exactly like your Dad. My Dad went to 3rd grade. He was brilliant. I miss him so much. He taught me how to survive off the land. "Never rely on anyone, you are way smarter than any man." I am honored to be my father's daughter.
What a breath of fresh air! Prayers, blessings and peace to this nice man!
Good morning (or good night?) from Brooklyn NY (where it’s 6:00am now) to my SWU fam from around the world.
Good Morning..Michigan here..6.21EST
Good morning from Virginia!
Good morning from Pennsylvania 6:24 AM
Good afternoon? In Poland it’s 12:23 pm.
Good morning from Maine 🌲
How refreshing to have a positive and upbeat life story for a change on SWU. Good luck to him.
Back in my 20's in NC I went on so many electrical and HVAC service calls to houses owned by older people like this, they were a joy. Some of the best were older black folks, they were the nicest people to be around, it was very common for me to be working on their house and they are insisting I sit down and have lunch with them.
😊❤️❤️❤️
I live in the country in nc and there is truly alot of wonderful people. Doesnt what color they are. Always a blessing to hear other people comment on this. Makes me feel good about where i live
Paul you define the definition of hard work. My grandfather was a coal miner, I know how hard he worked to provide for his family. Thank you for sharing your story. Best wishes.
Mark don't forget this gentleman, have another interview in the future please
This was a great interview. The Appalachian people are my favorite on the channel by far. Keep up the good work. 👍
You are always welcome to visit or move here! Hope you are able to make the trip someday
I'm all the way over in Australia, and became obsessed with Appalachian stuff. Theres just something about it. The people. The old ways. Bootleggin'.
@@Brads-strung-out I completely agree
@@Brads-strung-out
Haha,absolutely love it too!
My wife and I want to fly to Australia...my wife's been obsessed over going to Australia 😄
@@AdamMWise me and my come to Bryson City, NC for at least a week every year this time of year. Its like stepping into a time warp into a much more relaxed and inviting place that doesn't exist outside of Appalachia. We will relocate here permanently one day. We are country folk from the coast, so we fit right in around here.
Really enjoyed listening to Paul. He seems like a wonderful man and he seems to really enjoy life, even though it was hard.
I really appreciate you doing the interviews with the older Appalachian people
Yes - More please
Man I'm in tears I could close my eyes and listen to this interview over n over .Reminds me of my grandpa he was a miner in Kentucky then left Kentucky to work for auto industry in Dayton Ohio and started his own church The Rev Jack Carroll...he even looks like Paul. I live in Washington state a military brat California is my home but hearing that Kentucky drawl put me in my grandpa lap today. Thank you
Love from Dayton Ohio Mr. Paul. You got another friend up here sir. I hope this reaches you and those you love in great health and happiness❤️🙏😎
This beautiful soul reminds me of my beautiful Daddy...honest, loving, kind, and the most hard working man ....and by the way..he had a 4th grade education...he was the smartest man I ever knew !!!!💕
Your Dad sounds wonderful 🥰🥰
"What do you worry about?"
"Nothing!"
What a great way to live - happy, contented and without worry.
He told all the meth dealer's business without hesitation 🤣🤣 "he been doing it 25 years and never been arrested"
Shure did!
Great interview! I admire this gentleman's attitude, hard working. He might not be as educated as myself, or many other's, but he's wise.
He's extremely fortunate to be healthy, keeps moving, many working coal miners aren't as fortunate.
Thank you very much for recording this gentleman's life lessons!
Genuine Americana! We need to put this gentleman in our American classrooms to teach values and common sense
@@johnrios6762 Won't help. Too many vacuous Narcissists.
@@frothe42 Sad but true.
His cadence is exactly like my Pawpaw’s who recently passed after a long battle with dementia. Us from Appalachia must hold these folks to our hearts and never forget them. We’re behind the curb in regards to the rest of the country, but we know a simple truth that they have all long forgotten. Thank you for highlighting, and humanizing us like this. Hearing him speak is bringing tears.
The Appalachian interviews are my favorite! I loved Ruby's interview. I've watched it several times. Just positive and happy.
I love the older Appalachia people the BEST!!! Thank you Mark and I havent even watched it yet ❤
God bless this man and his family I been right in their house, I’m even kin to them on my moms side, you can walk in that house and they ain’t a time a day that a hot meal ain’t setting on the stove, you couldn’t hand pick a better bunch of people, we’ve laughed and cut up and everytime you see the man he’s got a smile on his face, truly inspiring and a honor to be in the community and family
Such a delightful man. Thanks for the interview.
Such genuineness. Not a pretentious bone in Paul's body. What a refreshing person to listen to.
Nice to see there’s still happy, sweet, wise people left in this world. ♥️. Loved this interview.
The Appalachian interviews are by far my favorite. Reminds me of when I lived in Kentucky.
As economically disadvantaged as some of these Appalachian folks were, growing up, they have good memories of hard working families and being happy with very little. It sure seems healthier than the urban, drug addicted cosmopolitan contrast.
Have you ever considered going north and interviewing people? There are a LOT of older folks with stories to tell, up here in Maine. Loggers, lobster fishermen, old farmers, veterans.
Lots of second-generation Maine Amish too, which surprises many. Maine's the only New England state with an Amish population.
What do you consider New England? NY, Mass, Vermont, Rhode Island?
@Mystic Being Keep us New Yorkers out of the whole New England thing. We want no part of it. Go Yankees! Go Giants! But I must admit I am a Celtics fan. I get a lot flack for it here in NYC, but it’s the stubborn Irish in me ☘️
@@myeyeswentdeaf6213
Lol!😄 hope you're day's fantastic, my friend 🤟😊
To busy to be depressed
K Fer...I 2nd your comment 😉👍🤞✌
Men like this are the people I know from Appalachia!! Love this interview and it makes me want to travel back there and see my friends. The most amazing and beautiful people and country. Thank you Sir.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS MAN & THIS INTERVIEW
THANK YOU SO MUCH
He is so well spoken, insightful, and thoughtful. Very intelligent. I could listen to his stories all day. I hope he is reading the comments ❤️ from California
I so enjoyed listening to this guy. He gets it, some younger people should take this very wise man’s experiences and contemplate his life lessons.
Us old folks could learn a thing or two from Paul.👍❤️
Compared to a lot of videos I’ve seen on this channel lately this one was truly a breath of fresh air! He seems like such a kind soul and someone you would enjoy conversations with. Stress free, worry free, regrets nothing and has an abundance of friends. We all can definitely take some knowledge from this guy! Also, love his accent.
Hearing this gentleman speak did my soul some good! I could listen to him to talk all day! So much knowledge about so many different topics. What a sweet and beautiful soul! God Bless this man!
Was certainly not expecting a pro weed PSA during this interview 😂
lol
1 minute in, this is exactly what I needed.
I'm tired, of struggling to pay rent here in Ca.
I'm tired, of low wages. I'm just tired..
But I know I'm not the only one.
The older generation here in EKY worked so hard to get where they are today! I was raised by my mamaw and papaw and I still remember stories from the mines and driving coal trucks! People around here are full of wisdom and can teach you a lot about life every time you get to talk to them! Thanks for uploading man!
Even with his 5th grade education I bet there’s a whole lot you can learn from this man
Absolutely 💯
Things they don't teach in school. Things you can only draw wisdom from in life's moments.
Truth!
Don't let education get in the way of learning. Sadly a ton of people don't get that
God bless this man and his family
Wise, honest, and a sweet soul.
Awesome..! This was my favorite in a long time. Paul has a 5th grade education, but man is he brilliant…! He has the important things figured out…I will strive to be a little more like Paul….❤️
These are the interviews I love!!! Paul reminds me of so many great folks I've had in my life. Im born and raised in KY too. Thank you Mark for putting a smile on my face today 😊
I love your Appalachian videos every time I see a new one pop up I get excited
The way this man holds himself,his speech, even his facial expressions, remind me so much of my late uncle. I didn’t know I needed this today. Thank you
I could listen to this guy all day
This is by far my favorite interview. I love Paul. I learned a lot listening to him and I admire his way of life and his outlook on everything. He's a kind and intelligent man. He is spot on regarding the drug issues that are in that area. So much effort is made to crack down on marijuana crops it no doubt led directly to the problems with crystal meth. That is the first time I've heard someone say that and it makes perfect sense. I don't know Paul's age but he's smart, thoughtful and hard working and I can honestly see him living to be 100. His happiness is contagious and I'll be thinking about his words for a while. I would love to be friends.
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He said he as born in 1946, so around 75.
Genuine nice man.
I loved this interview! Mark i so wish you would do many more interviews with the older folks. So much of americas history is being destroyed and pushed aside. Some day this kind of interview will be all that is left. Thank you and lets see more of these!!
Agree 100%
This is one of the best interviews ever. Please keep collecting!
He is the sweetest man! Lots of lessons about keeping a great outlook on life 🌞
Very few would survive now if they had to work hard for it like back in the day. You don't raise it or grow it,you don't eat. Truth. Thank you for sharing!
I wouldn't know the first thing about living that lifestyle.
We all should be as grateful and kind as Paul. Loved the interview. Thanks Mark.
Paul is definitely one of my new faves. I love listening to him. It’s like listening to a family member. Captivating, friendly and so many life experiences.
Mark.......
Awesome interviewing someone outside of skid row Los Angeles......
You should move your studio somewhere in the Appalachians...
Much less stressful on all of our perception of the human condition.....
You may have to change the name of your channel from soft white underbelly to living a long productive life with no regrets....
Psyched to see a man who’s content and not addicted to meth and opiates....
I live here in Los Angeles btw......
Lol......
Thanks Mark
This is a pretty chill old man.
Boy I thought you we’re interviewing uncle Ernie. He lives right in that part of Kentucky . Same demeanor same look . What a gentleman that that you interviewed !!
This interview is so life-affirming! Thank you, Paul
I love seeing and hearing about this part of the country!!
I love Paul!!! He’s full of lessons we could all benefit from, thanks so much for sharing his story with us😊❤️
His stories resonate from the ones I heard from my family growing up in the Hollars of Clay County KY.. Hard life working, but always found the joy in what life has to offer....
A have listened to a lot of interviews, but I like this guy, he lives a simple life, but he knows what going on around him.
I love this man!! God bless him 🙏❤️
Great video. Thank you!
A very interesting and genuine man. Somehow he reminds me a bit of the late Jim "Gomer Pyle" Nabors. Thanks for another great interview, Mark.
Caught this at upload and just came back to listen to the whole thing all over again. Love hearing Paul talk.
So much respect for Paul. In all seriousness, I’m 26 years old and have definitely lived an easier life than Paul. I’ve taken all the stereotypical routes of my generation, am well educated, well paid in a respectable career and I can’t say I’m as happy as Paul is. This interview was humbling. Thank you Mark for finding such a wonderful man to share his story.
I love the these interviews.
Welcome to KY folks. I grew up hating this place until I was able to get some perspective. Glad I was born here truth be told. Mark if you ever come to Nicholasville or Lexington I would love you meet you just to shake your hand and say thank you for what you do. You are a bright light in a dark world
I absolute loved this interview. WV has a such a negative connotation. Hearing him say there’s no other place he’d rather be was beautiful to hear. Heartwarming interview to say the least.
I don't know this man but I love this man. God bless him and his thankful, happy spirit. I could listen to him tell stories all day long. His positivity is so refreshing
I could just hear it in his voice the honesty, Paul’s living HIS best life
Another excellent interview
I just love sitting and talking to elders like this, thanks Mark
Absolutely LOVED this. Thank you 🙏