Everything that went wrong at Esxence . Worst brands, rude people & more …

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2024

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  • @MelSizzle
    @MelSizzle Před 5 měsíci +53

    That’s so shitty to be there as a professional and be treated poorly because you’re a young attractive woman.
    And wtf were they thinking letting so many people in, no chairs, bad food, etc and people coming with dogs and kids is CRAZY

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +4

      I ve heard the restaurant was good, but it was closed after 4pm and many people would have meetings until then 😅. The bar was not great .

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Před 5 měsíci +1

      Pretty is definitely a double edged sword.

    • @MelSizzle
      @MelSizzle Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@rbdvivi1 yeah it sounds like the team that planned the event dropped the ball big time. I’m like you, I not only notice things like that, but I get superrrr annoyed. I grew up in Miami and it’s a melting pot of people, events 24/7 and it’s hot af. As I got older I stopped going to events with lots of people because I end up SO mad, ready to fight people and just want to leave 😅

  • @mariagiuliacerasa4304
    @mariagiuliacerasa4304 Před 5 měsíci +21

    Met you the second day at the Les Indemodables stand. I was there for the store I work at. I stopped you and asked for a picture. You were super sweet and very nice. But I had the impression you were stressed/pissed. So I have been waiting for this video ever since😂

  • @user-dk9pj7qy4n
    @user-dk9pj7qy4n Před 5 měsíci +55

    Rudeness will ruin pretty much any opportunity..you'd think that in retail business, people would be nicer, but I guess there are rude people everywhere..

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +7

      There are definitely rude people in every industry 🥲🫠

    • @perfeptions_ENG
      @perfeptions_ENG Před 5 měsíci +7

      I guess it’s because those are small brands: they don’t have ppl dedicated to the public relations and they send somebody that is obviously not able to take care of it. There were brands who hired people to do that: tbh they were not knowledgeable about fragrances but at least they were nice to people 😁

  • @NoOtherRose
    @NoOtherRose Před 5 měsíci +56

    The main reason I wish you’d share which brands treated you poorly is because I’d hate to purchase from any of them. Not knowing that they treat people terribly. Sometimes they need to be called out in order for them to do better

    • @BlackXS2108
      @BlackXS2108 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Exactly! I wouldn't want to support such brands either.

    • @Wolmaazchick
      @Wolmaazchick Před 5 měsíci +5

      Same, I'd HATE to be supporting their business. On the plus side, most of the times I seek out new fragrances to try, it's something Gabby recommended. So, it's unlikely I'll end up supporting those businesses.

    • @tanyabrooke_1981
      @tanyabrooke_1981 Před 5 měsíci +3

      You do realize it’s her decision on whether or not she wants to go there. It could start a lot of drama & affect her work. She doesn’t owe anyone that information.

  • @NataliaP
    @NataliaP Před 5 měsíci +24

    I am a content creator, and I registered myself as such for Esxence. On the first day when I came they gave me the badge "Fragrance Lover". Which, trust me, when brands were seeing it, no one, literally, no one, wanted to take their time ti reply to several questions I might have had, or tell me about their latest creations, etc. Let along leaving me some samples. On the second day I went to to desk at the entrance and requested to switch the badge to the "Content Creator", which they did, and it was a game changer.

    • @petyaivanova9629
      @petyaivanova9629 Před 5 měsíci +6

      And this is exactly the problem I have with these type of events, they do everything for the advertising of their stuff.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Not ''Fragrance Lover'' lmao sorry but this had me laughing out loud! They really said ''you're just a fan''.

    • @NataliaP
      @NataliaP Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@peacheskong2245 I mean, we are all are, are we not? I just think it is fair to make it clear if the person is a content creator or not. And maybe, just maybe, you dedicate a bit more time to a content creator since it is basically a free ad instrument

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Před 5 měsíci

      I understand you, I just think it was came off as dismissive of the content creators. @@NataliaP

    • @babycakes8434
      @babycakes8434 Před 4 měsíci +2

      It is crazy and disrespectful. They should be nice to everyone, private person will avoid them for the rest of their lives and tell others that they were shitty to them. Why open the event to private customers if they don't plan to talk to them at all......

  • @ChescoYT
    @ChescoYT Před 5 měsíci +10

    Dogs & kids should absolutely not be allowed, it’s in appropriate and tbh not safe. They need to make it as an adult-only event.

  • @coolbeans5571
    @coolbeans5571 Před 5 měsíci +41

    Your honesty is so refreshing!!! Thank you for sharing your genuine experience and not just saying it was amazing and everything was perfect! ❤❤❤

  • @michysays
    @michysays Před 5 měsíci +26

    I love the honesty!!! And cannot wait for the hauls!

  • @anjeesorge
    @anjeesorge Před 5 měsíci +4

    As a professional conference planner, this is infuriating. I cannot stand poor planning, especially for major events like this. 🤬

  • @perfeptions_ENG
    @perfeptions_ENG Před 5 měsíci +22

    Hi Gaby ❤ you are right in crossing out brands that did not know how to behave. In the end, also in business, if you mistreat me now you may mistreat me also when we are making business together. No need for that! ❤

  • @ChristineStrange-fc4kt
    @ChristineStrange-fc4kt Před 5 měsíci +13

    Absolutely love your honesty. Kinda mad for you and the way you were treated 😡. Sorry you didn’t have the best experience. These kind of events should be an amazing chance for you to expand your website and bring some hard to get brands to myperfectscent. Such a shame that there are so many rude people in the industry. Looking forward to seeing your new reviews ❤️

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thank you! 99% of them were very nice but that 1% can really ruin your mood.

  • @madahzbadzaiye4116
    @madahzbadzaiye4116 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I flew from another country to be there on saturday but after two hours of waiting in line, I left. They say "we did not anticipate this huge audience". I mean, everyone that shows up has to register for it online. Could they not see the amount of people beforehand? Is there not a limit??

  • @perfeptions_ENG
    @perfeptions_ENG Před 5 měsíci +16

    we all need to be respectful to each other, if that is not there, there’s nothing to build ❤

  • @grandregencypoint
    @grandregencypoint Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thanks for your refreshing comments and for running such an engaging channel. I'm all about gourmands, so your content really resonates with me. In my opinion, finding a middle ground that respects both buyers and content creators, as well as fragrance enthusiasts, is crucial. There's a noticeable gap between fragrance enthusiasts and the general public. While enthusiasts may not be as visible online or in the business world, they still wield influence within their circles. Unlike the average consumer, they're not jet-setting to Italy just for fragrances. On the other hand, the average consumer likely doesn't boast a collection of hundreds or thousands of fragrances.
    I simply wanted to share these thoughts with you. Congratulations on the success of your boutique - it's truly well-deserved.

  • @lindatheresa8449
    @lindatheresa8449 Před 5 měsíci +13

    Hi Gabby it sounds like it was very disorganized and badly planned. I totally agree with you. Should be seats available, food available, especially knowing people travel from afar to be there. They should have better guest relations. ❤

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤️❤️

    • @lsmithgoose
      @lsmithgoose Před 5 měsíci +1

      Italy has a worse reputation than even the UK (where I am) for organisation and planning. So this doesnt surprise me, and we are *awful* :/

  • @marinecarretier3221
    @marinecarretier3221 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Oh my gosh, I literally asked for the dates at work, made plans and went there for just the one day and it was really disappointing for someone who loves perfumes but is not a content creator or buyer and I found some brands and people that were kind of rude, I understand it was their 4th day and they were tired but I was so sad because I though I was going to see perfumers and creators and be able to chat but there was no interest whatsoever.

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +4

      I think tbh the issue is on both sides . Some brands are just rude period, but most of them are extremely nice , but obviously when you see someone trying to steal something or their kids running around your very expensive bottles your would not be in the mood anymore.

    • @marinecarretier3221
      @marinecarretier3221 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Absolutely agree. And I also understand that at the end of the day, they are there for business and it can be exhausting to be around sooo many people but little naive me though I was going to be able to share some the love of perfumery and it was quickly a reality check that this wasn’t the place for it. I totally sympathise with the brands though, like you said standing there all day, people pushing and not always being nice, when you get to the last day, they probably just want to go home.

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤️

  • @justaddlight
    @justaddlight Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thank you Gabby!!! 💙 This was incredibly helpful. I definitely saw how crazy it got on that last day. Not sure I could've managed the crowds myself. 😵‍💫 But I can't wait to get into your hauls. 🙏 Some goodies in there for sure. 👌

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Lots of goodies❤️❤️❤️

  • @elnina7
    @elnina7 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I'm not trying to elevate any ego, but being in the industry, how are these people not able to know or recognise Gabby? I would have welcomed her with open arms. ❤

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Haha thank you ❤️❤️

  • @Scenticles
    @Scenticles Před 5 měsíci +9

    Yes Gabby some brands are the literal WORST specially when they ghost you for something they said they were going to do...

  • @joannametcalf8113
    @joannametcalf8113 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I was there Wednesday to Friday. It was my second time. I was there in June 2022. The weather was much better then! I had a great time this year! The event was much bigger than in 2022. You need good shoes! 😁 The restaurant was not awful. I ate some veal and fried potato things in nice company. And lots of Italian coffee! I knew the Saturday would be extremely busy. This year I was a designated “Fragrance Lover”. (Maybe you don’t approve! 😄) I loved that designation! My content is not enough (and my subscriber base isn’t big enough) for me to be called a “Content Creator” yet. 😉 Everyone I spoke to was very kind and friendly and gave me the time of day. I made some wonderful discoveries, which I will share soon.
    Hopefully what you experienced was incompetence rather than malice. Keep a spirit of humility, Gabby! 😊🙏

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Finally someone who can explain the Fragrance Lover badge 😅❤️. If it was designed for smaller content creators that’s perfectly fine, everyone was just very confused by it ❤️

    • @joannametcalf8113
      @joannametcalf8113 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@rbdvivi1 well, when I applied, the option was “Fragrance Lover/Content Creator” and I had to put the link to my website or social media (just CZcams and Instagram with only a few hundred followers now 😉). Then, when I picked up my badge in the press area, it said “Fragrance Lover”, and I was very, very happy with that designation! 😁👍 “Fragrance Lovers” like me had our own reasons for attending. Esxence is not just an exhibition for buyers and businessmen. ☺️🙏

    • @NataliaP
      @NataliaP Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@rbdvivi1 no, it is not about the number of subscribers or followers. I have just under 9500 subscribers here on CZcams and I got the Fragrance Lover, my friend that I know with just over 1000 subscribers got the Content Creator. So I really wouldn't know what is the basis of the division.

  • @inesesmite7118
    @inesesmite7118 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Gabby you are amazing! Thank you for sharing your experience. 😊

  • @azaraalexandra30
    @azaraalexandra30 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Gaby you are so honest when you review things and you are just "real" and I really feel sory for you for this experience. It is not fair they behave like this with you only because you are a young woman ! What the hell :)))) keep cool and continue with your reviews you're the best love love love

  • @Shimmerluxe
    @Shimmerluxe Před 5 měsíci +4

    I'm so sorry you didn't enjoy your time, when this should have been such an exciting time for a perfume lover such as yourself. I would not be able to deal with the rudeness and the overcrowding myself. Thank you for doing what you do! 🤗

  • @DanielBrown-nj3th
    @DanielBrown-nj3th Před 5 měsíci +10

    People are rude. It’s getting worse. It’s all about me is the attitude. 🤮

    • @funeats8201
      @funeats8201 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yeah, it’s really getting bad. Some days, it almost seems like people have rabies or some kind of brain virus.

  • @ChristineTinaD
    @ChristineTinaD Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience so honestly!! I’ve dreamt of going but maybe it’s not really as glam as I hoped, especially it’s super busy.. also I can’t wait to hear what’s to come on MyPerfectScent - hoping it’s either THOO, Mind Games, Unique’e Luxury etc (the list goes on) 😍😍😍 shame Xerjoff wasn’t there I’ve seen some of upcoming releases and wanted the tea 😅
    I’d love to know your thoughts on the new releases from THOO - Guilty Crush, Lorenzo Pazzaglia - Sungria … I saw you have GC on your shelf in your new vid 😂😂❤️ can’t wait to hear about all new frags you got your hands on🥰

  • @marie-theresejamora-garcea8278
    @marie-theresejamora-garcea8278 Před 5 měsíci +2

    There is NO EXCUSE for rude people! My god, you are there for a meeting and they act that way? That's terrible! Rude, unkind, greedy people are the downfall of our society. I really wish you could tell us which brands these are so I will not patronize them and give them my hard-earned money! On the other hand, can you tell us which are the really good brands with decent and kind people so we can buy more from them? Haha. They deserve to be rewarded.
    I wanted to tell you, Gabby, that I finally got my Navitus discovery kit and Baklava Royale was a love at first sniff for me! You've created such a beautiful, elegant yet delicious fragrance, I couldn't stop sniffing my wrist! I ordered a full bottle immediately. Thank you,, Gabby, for giving us Chocolate Queen and now Baklava Royale! You truly are the Gourmand Queen! ♥💜💖
    I guess my only question about these events is, for a fragrance lover, are they worth going to? Will the brands allow you to sniff to your heart's content or treat you like s**t? I'm a fragrance fanatic but what you described sounds like a total nightmare to me. If the organization is so poor, people so rude and it's so crowded and chaotic, that would probably take out all the enjoyment for me.

  • @dizlondynu8478
    @dizlondynu8478 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Gabby, because you are so honest, we all love you so much 🥰🥰🥳🥳. I am absolutely disgusted that some brands reps were so rude and disrespectful towards their potential client who wanted to bring their products to different country 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️. You should mention the brand names, to make sure I will not buy anything from them in the future! Can’t wait for the haul 🥳🥳👏🏻👏🏻👍🏼👍🏼. Have a lovely day 🥰🥰

  • @iloverome1274
    @iloverome1274 Před 5 měsíci +3

    It’s so typical for Italians to be disorganised. I’m Italian, so I know how frustrating it is. That’s why most other expos are held in Germany, as they are large and organised. No excuse for little seats and poor food choices, especially in the food capital of the world. I’m also not surprised to hear about the arrogance of some brands. I am looking forward to watch your upcoming videos on Gourmand fragrance releases. XX

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤️❤️

    • @iloverome1274
      @iloverome1274 Před 5 měsíci

      @@rbdvivi1 I’m new to niche, so you’re really a joy to watch. Does your store ship to Australia? It’s challenging for us to purchase some brands for the reason there are limitations on shipping. Keep up the good work. Can you also do a video explaining certain ingredients and how they play within a fragrance? For example benzoine. I’m unsure what it or other ingredients are supposed to smell like. Xx

  • @UchechiEOpara
    @UchechiEOpara Před 5 měsíci

    Gabby, I’ve watched you since the pandemic, always loved your honesty and low tolerance for BS. Glad you’ve taken this on as a business, transitions like yours are important to bringing some balance to the industry and looking forward to keep seeing you grow in this space. 💛

  • @0050010061
    @0050010061 Před 4 měsíci

    My husband and I attended as Buyers. We have an online shop and would love to have collaborated with some of the brands represented. We literally had to beg for samples. A few booths were kind but tbh it was disappointing.

  • @MonisiaChip
    @MonisiaChip Před 5 měsíci

    I love your honesty!!! That was an interesting video... and remember that anything happens for a reason! I would be glad if you could share what is your lip liner and lipstick combo! 💄

  • @ellencassaer4570
    @ellencassaer4570 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I so want to hear who the awful brands were! I am a collector with no social media (just for my own pleasure!) and I don’t want to support these people!

  • @wildflowers100
    @wildflowers100 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Sounds like you encountered sexist, xenophobic treatment with some of the brand owners. I loved hearing your real impressions. Thank you 🙏

  • @georgiachatzitheodoridou3806

    The weather was rainy. I was expecting to see you there!

  • @Boyslvmkp
    @Boyslvmkp Před 5 měsíci +7

    I want to hear about the fruity perfumes!!! Please tell us more soon ❤
    I love mango

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +3

      Perfume hauls coming soon😅❤️

    • @Boyslvmkp
      @Boyslvmkp Před 5 měsíci

      @@rbdvivi1 yay!!!

  • @Victorgmw
    @Victorgmw Před 5 měsíci +1

    Looking forward to your reviews on scents discovered at Excense 2024.
    Hoping that Excense management will take into consideration your review and improve for next years fair.
    All the best 👍

  • @ingsom8008
    @ingsom8008 Před 5 měsíci

    Oh, Gabby, you are hilarious! And you know what, thanks for being a REAL and honest person. Thanks for sharing :)

  • @ChescoYT
    @ChescoYT Před 5 měsíci +1

    I really enjoyed hearing & learning about the experience, thanks Gabby!

  • @TheRedkilt
    @TheRedkilt Před 5 měsíci

    A very true review true to my experience. There were brands that acted very snobbish and condescending which are well known and don''t really need the Esxence exposure.
    As regards samples and bottles, i always kindly request the sample of the prerfume i loved the most or ask if they will be selling the partial tester or a full bottle, because some brands (particularly the ones outside Italy) find it hectic travelling back with the the full bottles or partial tester bottles.

  • @augustsummer7812
    @augustsummer7812 Před 5 měsíci

    Sorry that you had this bad experience!! Some people are just weird and rude for no reason 😠! ( Ps: love your Make Up and Style 💖)

  • @noelleirina5628
    @noelleirina5628 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I don't know how you get ready for these business meetings, but I assume you wear less makeup/have a more formal look? If not, then that was probably why some people, especially men, weren't taking you very seriously. I'm not saying it's okay, I just think people often perceive women with this sort of style negatively. I think a lot of fragrance people are also unfortunately pretty snobby and are even worse in this regard. That being said, there could also just be a random employee with a bad attitude? I wonder if you'll get an apology email from any brands after this

  • @Temajuki
    @Temajuki Před 5 měsíci

    Man that really sucks. I'm only general public but even I think it shouldn't be open to us. Businesses and content creators face consequences if they're not on their best behaviour, entitled people that are only general public don't. There's honestly no excuse for a big expo to not have acceptable amenities for such a large expected audience. It's not impossible to source chairs or have better caterers even after day 1. Thanks for sharing the tea. I hope there will be a better planned event in the future. Not background checking buyers is ridiculous too. Really sucks for the exhibitors that got robbed.

  • @harrysomal7166
    @harrysomal7166 Před 5 měsíci +2

    WHAT A BRILLIANT VIDEO.....LOVED IT.
    Carry on with the good work !

  • @smellyskin
    @smellyskin Před 5 měsíci +2

    I'm sorry you had a less than ideal time this year Gabby... sounds like they're very disorganized! They need help 😂 from the crummy food, poor visitor organization, security, timeliness... yikes. Thank you for being open about the issues! Hopefully someone in their admin watches this video and can take back the constructive criticism!

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      The location was brilliant, everyone was getting checked and there was security at the entrance so I think they did that very well. But… the badges for buyers were a joke , last day was just a nightmare and the problem that I had with the food that I actually forgot to mention:
      You would queue for 15 minutes, they would have literally no food left besides muffins, 2 minutes later they would bring a ton of food again , and you would have to queue again. I don’t understand why they couldn’t have a system in place where they bring in more sandwiches/salads as soon as they see that there are just 4-5 left…

    • @smellyskin
      @smellyskin Před 5 měsíci +1

      @rbdvivi1 security in the sense that the brands were robbed! Clearly they need to vet the guests more thoroughly, as you mentioned! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @b25mech
    @b25mech Před 5 měsíci

    That’s horrible about them getting robbed. I hope next year they verify who people are.

  • @ratpitt4292
    @ratpitt4292 Před 5 měsíci +3

    These events actually sound like my worst adhd introvert nightmare 😂😂😂 I love perfumes but no 😂

  • @amy6174
    @amy6174 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Eu zic ca e fain ca cineva a avut curajul de a spune si despre partea mai puțin plăcut a acestor evenimente, care de regula sunt doar lăudate. Imi place autenticitatea ta❤

  • @edithobrien7118
    @edithobrien7118 Před měsícem

    WOW! Such a shame so much showinism and snobbism within the brands and nobody is talking about it but they will chat and smile for the camera ....and the guy who got in front of you while you were talking, so rude in the Uk it would be just unbelievable

  • @MissMaryMTL
    @MissMaryMTL Před 5 měsíci +3

    Wow! So did you end up making it to your important meeting? Hope you were at least able to reschedule…

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +4

      Yes! I got there right on time 🕰️❤️

  • @edithobrien7118
    @edithobrien7118 Před měsícem

    OMG! This event is a joke, mixing buyers , bussinessmen who try to do deals amoungst dogs and kids , shocker, sounds like a nightmare

  • @evelyngallardo5450
    @evelyngallardo5450 Před 5 měsíci

    Hi I loved your video. I’m also a fragrance lover and I was thinking to go next year but now watching this video it makes me think twice about it?! If I’m gonna go it’s to purchase and discover new brands. But if your telling me that I only have one day and their not selling the perfumes. I don’t think it’s worth it.i tried to go 2 ur website it it won’t let me. You only sell 2 the UK?

  • @georgiachatzitheodoridou3806

    Hey Gabby!
    I went to Esxence right from Greece🇬🇷 just for 1 day!

  • @stacihas
    @stacihas Před 5 měsíci +3

    Would you go again? I really want to go as a consumer but it seems hectic and if people are stealing and we can’t smell or buy then is it worth it as a consumer? It seems content creators were treated the best?

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Next year it will be in February 🫠 . Maybe I will go again if some new /interesting brands are coming but for now I don’t think so.
      Distributers and buyers (if they know you) are treated the best imo. Content creators it really depends on the brand and obviously how many followers you have.
      The brands that I work with were absolutely amazing, I can not say enough good things about them ❤️
      Some brands are selling but I have no idea the prices .
      The last day is 100% hectic, if you really want to meet someone ( Tiziana Terenzi, Lorenzo Pazzaglia etc) then it’s worth it because they are all there

  • @rush8645
    @rush8645 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Enjoy all your videos❤️ Also appreciate your honesty.

  • @user-ig8xr4cc3g
    @user-ig8xr4cc3g Před 4 měsíci

    Can anyone visit it? What is the ticket price?

  • @osmaidagomez3036
    @osmaidagomez3036 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hi Gabby my brother and my sister-in-law were there, they traveled to Milan for 4 days just to enter on the last day 🙄 and as you mentioned the line to enter was miles and the weather 😬 I don't regret joining them.❤

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      I m happy that you guys enjoyed it ❤️

    • @osmaidagomez3036
      @osmaidagomez3036 Před 5 měsíci

      @rbdvivi1 sorry I meant not joining them, I never went 🥰

  • @noelleirina5628
    @noelleirina5628 Před 5 měsíci

    Some brands were probably feeling kinda suspicious about everyone because like you said, anyone could just claim to be a buyer and come in and then rob them. Unfortunately them clocking that you don't have an English accent probably made them put their guard up. I suspect it wouldn't have really been an issue if brands just had a way of knowing for sure that you were a verified buyer

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Well, we did have business cards, showed them our website, what else can we do more ?

    • @noelleirina5628
      @noelleirina5628 Před 5 měsíci

      @@rbdvivi1 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @chrisscushman8244
    @chrisscushman8244 Před 5 měsíci

    That is such a shame that happens. It should not matter the status your visit after spending your money, your time, viewing, and reviewing information. Rudeness does not deserve anybody’s hard earn money.

  • @veenageorge59
    @veenageorge59 Před 5 měsíci +2

    love mango perfumes...hope to get a nice mango perfume in future ❤

  • @ommoommo
    @ommoommo Před 5 měsíci +1

    sounds like a nightmare 💀

  • @marinelab
    @marinelab Před 5 měsíci

    When I was a buyer for my company (organic stuffs,) I faced that kind of condescending behavior from certains brands. Because I work with affect, I always ended ordering from the people with good social skills, people I like and wanna support versus douches.

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Same, you can immediately tell who wants to work with you and who doesn’t

  • @orlanditto.scents
    @orlanditto.scents Před 5 měsíci

    Great video. Just subscribed to your channel. Thinking in going to Esxence next year maybe...

  • @ems_h.eartnotes
    @ems_h.eartnotes Před 5 měsíci

    I would not do business with rude brands. I won't even buy a sample from a brand or retailer if I have had a bad experience. Plenty of other places that are good where I can spend my money.
    It would also not surprise me that there are people there posing as industry people to steal... if the tickets are so easy to register for, and there are plenty of thieves in Italian cities.

  • @amberxoxo7206
    @amberxoxo7206 Před 5 měsíci

    I love GABBY! She's the baddest of all baddies❤ Girl forget the haters, keep doing you! & I bet those "rude" brands will be grinding their teeth in regret; a few weeks from now when they realize how they treated such a lovely lady & respected fragrance reviewer/seller. Karma will always show her face to those who piss her off. Hope you have a blessed day, & keep sticking with your gut & morals, & more success will continue to come! 🎉😊

  • @bellathereader1328
    @bellathereader1328 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Sounds like there were some disappointments but I'm glad you found a way to have some enjoyment......

  • @perstare5065
    @perstare5065 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Obviously this was not well organized and the sponsor failed to better regulate the behavior of the attendees. Having said that all I can say is welcome to the business world. It can be cruel especially for the uninitiated. The reality is you’re a new and not well established, player/buyer in the fragrance world competing with major buyers for attention from the sellers. I mean no disrespect. So you might understand that given the choice of talking to you or the buyer from Jovoy or Harrods, for example, you would regrettably be dismissed. Yes, definitely very rude. It happens probably too often. But don’t give up. One day you’ll reach that level where everyone in this business will know you for your acumen, success and professionalism with the sales numbers that will place you on the same level of a Jovoy! Hang in there.

  • @strawberryfields81
    @strawberryfields81 Před 5 měsíci

    I‘m sorry Gabby- you’re such an attractive woman and I think you’re also kind. But I lowkey love your rants ❤

  • @leeshaolivier9298
    @leeshaolivier9298 Před 5 měsíci

    It sounds poorly planned. Like they got a larger venue, but did not work out a good way to organize it. I hope that the planning committee learns and improves.

  • @georgianapetreaa
    @georgianapetreaa Před 5 měsíci +1

    I don't think it's fair, because once the people know about it, they will profit and go there without any business and it will just be a mass🥺

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Exactly 👍🏻❤️

  • @coolbeans5571
    @coolbeans5571 Před 5 měsíci

    Question: Can you buy fragrances that haven't been released yet at Esxence??

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      I don’t this so. Some brands were selling their testers but that’s everything that I know

  • @perfumeenergy
    @perfumeenergy Před 5 měsíci

    Hi ! I love your sincerity. Do you have an actual store except the on line?

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Is only online at them moment but you never know ☺️

    • @perfumeenergy
      @perfumeenergy Před 5 měsíci

      @@rbdvivi1 why not ?

    • @perfumeenergy
      @perfumeenergy Před 5 měsíci

      I am living in Greece and I thinking doing something like that , is it difficult? Oh and a few months ago I opened my youtube channel for perfumes 😉🥰❤️

  • @thenilesummer
    @thenilesummer Před 5 měsíci

    I’ve bought so many fragrances thanks to Gabbys reviews so brands being rude to her makes no sense!

  • @anna_ania9190
    @anna_ania9190 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you for being real ❤

  • @KatherineColeTipsandTools
    @KatherineColeTipsandTools Před 5 měsíci

    So rude!!! They should be kissing your butt!! They are trying to sell their goods! I’m so sorry you had this experience.

  • @georgianapetreaa
    @georgianapetreaa Před 5 měsíci +4

    I'm curious, where are you from? Because you are gorgeous and I looove, loveee, loveee your attitude 😍😍😍

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci +10

      Romania❤️

    • @YourScentBae
      @YourScentBae Před 5 měsíci

      Accidentally read this comment, I swear I thought youre latina because you look very much like sexy mamasita 😂 only it the best way, don't get me wrong ❤​@@rbdvivi1

    • @georgianapetreaa
      @georgianapetreaa Před 5 měsíci

      Honestly, you make us proud !!! Very proud !!!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ We love you so so much !!! And the fact that you are my favourite reviewer before I knew that, ughhh, yeeess♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

  • @melissaSbythenotes
    @melissaSbythenotes Před 5 měsíci +2

    You can say who was rude. I mean if it was a rep, they need to be corrected and if they’re an owner they need the understanding this is what happens when you are rude…and we may want to avoid 🙏 but you do you of course. Just seemed like you were holding your voice.

  • @TierneyDeNaye
    @TierneyDeNaye Před 5 měsíci

    I hate you had to go through that. I wish you could ship to USA?

  • @tracyjensen8095
    @tracyjensen8095 Před 5 měsíci

    It doesn’t make sense… why don’t they have 5 days for content creators/ buyers, then have another 5 days for public and sell tickets with a maximum of ticket sales for each day. Sort of like buying concert tickets. As well as bag check on way out the venue to avoid theft. Seems poorly planned with very simple solutions! 🤔🤦🏻‍♀️. Hopefully every year they learn from previous years! And Everytime it will just keep getting better planned!

  • @b25mech
    @b25mech Před 5 měsíci

    I want to know who the brand is that you were trying so hard to get a meeting. Did you finally get the meeting? I might have missed that part.

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Yes, I ve made it 😅❤️

  • @julitakamaki4386
    @julitakamaki4386 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I definitely want to know what brands were rude to you but for your protection(financially etc) don’t name them.
    I’m sorry it was a bad experience for you. Quietly avoiding those rude brands is the right move.
    Be well Gabby ❤

  • @babycakes8434
    @babycakes8434 Před 4 měsíci

    Very interesting. There are shitty and nice people everywhere. It makes the experience so much better when people try more to do their customer service job better....It sucks that you didn't have better experience. I would be pissed too.

  • @Beautylover_NicoleCherise
    @Beautylover_NicoleCherise Před 5 měsíci

    Love your honesty! What a shame

  • @gladyscatalinariveramariet5903

    WoW, we picked purple/violet eyeshadow today!

  • @SavRanasinghe
    @SavRanasinghe Před 5 měsíci

    Gabby, could you please please please sell Kyse on Perfect Scent! 🙏❤

  • @ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293

    I'm still laughing as I wonder what sort of woman brings little children to an event like this. Those poor poor kids, they'd have been bored out of their skulls. I think it's an occasion where mum can enjoy some adult recreation and relaxation with her friends-- not Coney Island circa 1950. Leave the kids with grandparents, nanny or another mum who may not be into fragrance and so is happy to childmind for an afternoon. It's a bit like the 1990s phenomenon of taking screaming toddlers to the cinema. I cannot understand people making these oddball decisions which upset all concerned. By the way, I love these gossipy 'behind the scenes' chit chat videos. Not enough people have the courage and character to serve it raw and tell it how it is. Everybody hustling...

  • @UnAvis
    @UnAvis Před 5 měsíci +3

    Your opinion is important, without feedback they won't improve their way of doing things. You are doing them a favour.
    PS: Did you meet Greta ? I love her.

  • @lisaraeroman3736
    @lisaraeroman3736 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Sorry you had a bad experience, but I am looking forward to all the fruity gourmands for spring and summer!

  • @katjanik2807
    @katjanik2807 Před 5 měsíci +1

    They should just start to sell limited amount of tickets for "general public"/fagrance lovers with names and no possibility to change the name in order to avoid re-sell for a higher price. It will also help them to organize a better service/chairs etc. It's so easy, why don't they do it.

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      I really don’t know…

  • @georgianapetreaa
    @georgianapetreaa Před 5 měsíci

    And how are the Sora Dora's ? Maybe a sneak peak on the Jovoy one ? It will be available in may, june? Please please please 😍😍😍

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Jovoy amazing as always they only released the mini version of their perfumes. Sora Dora I love the guys and their fragrances are just getting better and better ❤️

    • @georgianapetreaa
      @georgianapetreaa Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you so much, Gabby♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @maemin
    @maemin Před 5 měsíci +1

    Actually??? Honest??? That was very good video from you😁👍

  • @edithobrien7118
    @edithobrien7118 Před měsícem

    OMG! What an inappropriate question-statement : ''You're not English'' never mind you could be Scottish or Irish but as if they would only deal with the native English person, disguisting!

  • @user-vt3fu6jz6l
    @user-vt3fu6jz6l Před 5 měsíci

    Wow I was so jealous of you before and during the event, but gutted on your behalf you were treated like that. So disrespectful 😢. Excited about the fruity gourmands though!

  • @PaulinaPerfumes
    @PaulinaPerfumes Před 5 měsíci +2

    Of course I am watching!! You are soo on point it almost hurts haha

  • @tiff4s606
    @tiff4s606 Před 5 měsíci

    I enjoyed this video, Gabby.

  • @latonyaboateng1087
    @latonyaboateng1087 Před 5 měsíci

    Hello this is LaTonya so sorry that this happened to you I'm always watching your videos love your Channel

    • @rbdvivi1
      @rbdvivi1  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @aszlowa
    @aszlowa Před 5 měsíci

    This is not tea. This is one big rant 😂

  • @ldavis1187
    @ldavis1187 Před 5 měsíci

    I love your channel. Rant on!!!!!

  • @Amaonsbru
    @Amaonsbru Před 5 měsíci +1

    I can't believe that you had to endure such rudeness, and omg the comment about you not being British 😡 Makes me so mad. Would love to know the names of the brands, but I understand why it would be a problem to disclose that info 😅

  • @carolina111uk
    @carolina111uk Před 5 měsíci

    Romanian people are polite! We were raised to respect each other and that’s why we don’t understand why people are so rude and mean
    This is the truth
    You keep going and let the hatters behind where they belong 😁😁😁
    Kisses xoxo

  • @oscarrojas2794
    @oscarrojas2794 Před 5 měsíci

    And next year is from 18/2 to 22/2 hahahahahahahha in the middle of the winter hHahahahahahahhahaha😂