Mike Tyson and Bill Burr on Letting Go

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

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  • @Lacter12
    @Lacter12 Před rokem +29

    I liked this video because it highlighted some type interactions in the wild really clearly, and there's the focus on growth coming from the person deciding for themselves too. really cool

  • @AustinOllar
    @AustinOllar Před rokem +31

    This was a great video Dave. I can totally see how being a different type can cause someone to be insensitive to the struggles the other person goes through. The code helps a little bit with that
    I also like that emotional calmness and zen-like attitude mike Tyson has. You can feel that sense that he’s on the “other side” of a lot of stuff. Not being consumed by his past, but living more in the present and future with open arms (no ones perfect of course though). Good stuff 👍

  • @alfie8645
    @alfie8645 Před rokem +8

    Bill Burr: “This is an aggressive therapy session”
    Dave: 📝

  • @AustinOllar
    @AustinOllar Před rokem +10

    The hard part is when you identify with that “fake” self sabotaging character. Where you believe you have to be in alignment with that to be congruent with your past, versus being in alignment with yourself. There should be a decent degree of settledness and calmness in someone who’s in alignment. It’s like an overall attitude. You can sense that in Mike, which is great to see

  • @nataliefluckiger6568
    @nataliefluckiger6568 Před rokem +5

    This is the best video you’ve ever put out. Im not sure if somebody necessarily has to hit rock bottom to decide they dont want to be that person anymore, but they do have to go through an intense trial i guess to realize that its them thats the problem. To switch from “everybody is the problem except for me” to “i am the solution”.

  • @SFTUlife
    @SFTUlife Před rokem +23

    Incredible advice. Great insights to growth, Dave

  • @joshhayds
    @joshhayds Před rokem +12

    Uh oh. Dave finally hopped on the Gen Z thumbnail game

  • @Ensivion
    @Ensivion Před rokem +1

    keep making these "hero's journey videos" this is working for me.

  • @cymbol73
    @cymbol73 Před rokem +4

    Nicely explained. But you can explain it all you want - but people won't understand until they've gone through it. And for many people, they'll never accept that they were the problem in their story. They were the antagonist...

  • @kr-666
    @kr-666 Před rokem +5

    Quotes the Bible... five seconds later: "He's fuckin smacked someone in the airport the other day the kid fucking deserved it"
    also I feel like Corey Taylor (slipknot frontman) might be an ENFP type based off the intro description

  • @lalalanding234
    @lalalanding234 Před rokem +14

    Where is Shannon??????

    • @Owlsworthy
      @Owlsworthy Před rokem +5

      I imagine Shannon is just focusing on other areas. Plus their son is older now, things are bound to change. She still participates in the Class videos.

  • @SephielKradin
    @SephielKradin Před rokem +12

    How to tell someone that you hate Ne without saying it the video

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology Před rokem +3

      Do you mean Dave hates on Ne ?

    • @FrownyMascot
      @FrownyMascot Před rokem +2

      ​@@PowerRedBullTypology watch the RDJ class lmao hahaha i think they have up also on RDJ here somewhere 😂

    • @SephielKradin
      @SephielKradin Před rokem

      @@PowerRedBullTypology Yeah lol

    • @ChristopherWaddelow
      @ChristopherWaddelow Před rokem +1

      Uh no, stop projecting what you think is being said and listen to the words

  • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307

    Bill is from Boston. He talks like someone from Boston and I suspect he talks like his dad who was mean and abusive.

  • @IndieAuthorX
    @IndieAuthorX Před rokem +2

    This quote from Infinite Jest has really helped my sleep last, non letting go a$$,
    “If, by the virtue of charity or the circumstance of desperation, you ever chance to spend a little time around a Substance-recovery halfway facility... you will acquire many exotic new facts…
    That you do not have to like a person in order to learn from him/her/it. That loneliness is not a function of solitude. That logical validity is not a guarantee of truth. That it takes effort to pay attention to any one stimulus for more than a few seconds. That boring activities become, perversely, much less boring if you concentrate intently on them. That if enough people in a silent room are drinking coffee it is possible to make out the sound of steam coming off the coffee. That sometimes human beings have to just sit in one place and, like, hurt. That you will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do. That there is such a thing as raw, unalloyed, agendaless kindness.
    That it is possible to fall asleep during an anxiety attack.
    That concentrating intently on anything is very hard work."

    • @pada5992
      @pada5992 Před rokem +1

      Thank you Nathaniel for that quote. Read repeatedly and saved.

  • @caiden3396
    @caiden3396 Před rokem +9

    Copied and pasted this from a doc which is why it's so long.🙂
    The way to help others become mature (and free them from the "prison" of their mind) seems to be a mix of psychological knowledge and skills, wisdom, and tactical empathy.
    People can't effectively emotionally regulate, recognize, process, or unproblematically cope with anger/fear-inducing stimuli or anger and fear themselves, can't reality test, and can't consciously access their demons unless they're given those skills.
    Defense mechanisms, cognitive distortions, and problematic coping mechanisms like denial and blame are instinctive and default. The psychological skills are not and don't "intuitively" come to mind just like "thinking" in certain ways. Putting pressure on themselves is not enough by itself to get them out of this, and they don't or can't simply choose to become mature without the necessary stimuli.
    Repeatedly applying positive punishment to a person after they inappropriately use or overuse their saviors does not teach these unintuitive, non-instinctive, non-default skills, and neither does teasing, taunting, mocking, ridiculing, or insulting (even when done in a double decider way). Simply informing them or explaining the skills to them is also usually not enough. Research the ethics of operant conditioning and the inhumane, outdated, unempathetic, and unethical ways it has been used in the past, the effects of the way it has been used, what B. F. Skinner was wrong about, and the results of Scared Straight programs.
    If there’s concern about this being “authoritarian”, everyone, consciously aware of it or not, desires fulfillment, meaning, freedom from their vicious cycle and suffering, good health, success in life, prosperity, and homeostasis. Some people might need to make massive changes in life, though and might be confronted with a ton of massive harsh truths, sometimes due to a ton of bad karma they've created.

    • @caiden3396
      @caiden3396 Před rokem +2

      Mike "sold", "Fe blasted", whatever Bill in that moment. He became interested. Mike lost him in the second half, though, because he didn't use the right techniques and knowledge.

    • @caiden3396
      @caiden3396 Před rokem +1

      Mike's wife Fe blasted or "sold", knowingly or unknowingly, liberation to Mike. She inspired or motivated him to seek out the answers.

  • @sandringscoaching
    @sandringscoaching Před rokem +3

    WHY ARE YOU ALONE IN THE VIDEO!? WHERE IS SHANNONNN?

  • @FrownyMascot
    @FrownyMascot Před rokem +2

    Dave, that's how everyone from Boston talks 😂

  • @savagestudio9666
    @savagestudio9666 Před rokem +3

    Nice thumbnail bros

  • @selenophiliy
    @selenophiliy Před rokem

    Pls keep this Dave, means a lot.

  • @janhradecky3141
    @janhradecky3141 Před rokem +2

    I thought Bill Burr was an ISTP lol

  • @ridvantahir3755
    @ridvantahir3755 Před rokem +1

    Bruh your videos didn't popped up on my feed for long time

  • @Stellarfront
    @Stellarfront Před rokem +4

    Where is shan? Where is shan?!
    Purple background now Shannon's gone?!

  • @mohssinekafih215
    @mohssinekafih215 Před rokem

    this is your best video.

  • @nnnnnola
    @nnnnnola Před rokem +2

    wheres shanny 😢

  • @raivist
    @raivist Před rokem +2

    Great stuff 👍

  • @tiktokberry5041
    @tiktokberry5041 Před rokem +1

    Feel so attacked😢

  • @jcaesar7668
    @jcaesar7668 Před rokem +7

    Bill Burr is my favorite comedian, he is the most ISTJ person iv ever seen in my life lol

    • @itsoffthebabango6090
      @itsoffthebabango6090 Před rokem +4

      Yessss, I would say ISTP because he seems big on Ti to me but Enfp seems so weird lol

    • @Hyperdriveuk
      @Hyperdriveuk Před rokem +7

      So you know a lot of ENFP's lol. He's so ENFP it's funny.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Před rokem +6

      No ISTJ TALKS LIKE BILL BURR.

    • @fluffyclouds555
      @fluffyclouds555 Před rokem +1

      Agreed. He plays drums and flies a helicopter. And bakes. And is a lone wolf. Definitely ISTJ or at least ISFJ. He’s a softie on the inside. Huge Bill Burr fan too. Dave’s typing of Bill is short sighted.

    • @KayKayBayForever
      @KayKayBayForever Před rokem +5

      @@fluffyclouds555 Drums, baking, lone wolf etc. does not make a ISTJ in Dave’s system. Any type could do those things. Lone wolf might indicate introversion, but that’s accounted for more through the animals in the OP system. So Bill being Blast last would make him an introvert, not the E of ENFP.

  • @bigchumsmalone4455
    @bigchumsmalone4455 Před rokem

    welcome to the dave powers power hour

  • @PayAttentionToThePatterns

    An ISTP friend described me as an Alpha male. Why do I feel like I’m a bitch though?

    • @CuddleClaw.
      @CuddleClaw. Před rokem

      Fe Inferior is incredibly sensitive. Maybe work on developing it. It’s okay to be emotionally sensitive, it’s actually a beautiful thing. Welcome your emotions, sit with them, make friends with them, let yourself cry to release it, exercise to get the emotions moving through your body, spend lots of time in nature away from others, it’s healing. Accept yourself as you are. Use kind words to yourself.

    • @PayAttentionToThePatterns
      @PayAttentionToThePatterns Před rokem

      @@CuddleClaw. I don’t think I have Fe inferior. I think I have Di inferior.

  • @marcialabrahantes3369

    Great video

  • @worryingis4losers
    @worryingis4losers Před rokem

    God: INTJ 5w4 sp/so 358 INTp-Ni melancholic
    Universe: INFJ 5w4 sp/sx 569 INFp-Ni melancholic

  • @obsolete2319
    @obsolete2319 Před rokem +4

    FINALLY, an accurately typed ESTP. Hallelujah!

    • @pada5992
      @pada5992 Před rokem

      I like how he's ESTP and De savior

  • @tofusamurai22
    @tofusamurai22 Před 11 měsíci

    Imo Bill is ENTP and Mike is ESFP

  • @orangeziggy348
    @orangeziggy348 Před rokem +1

    I see a lot of similarities between your “growth” theory of “letting go of the worlds shit= growth/relaxation” and the religious path, only that you’re not including religion in your theory so that makes your theory feel empty and shortchanged and inexplicable to me.

  • @anonymouslearner2454
    @anonymouslearner2454 Před rokem +7

    Is Shan ok?

    • @Lacter12
      @Lacter12 Před rokem +2

      probably

    • @caiden3396
      @caiden3396 Před rokem +11

      They're doing videos with one person a lot of times now. Not out of relationship tension or anything like that, though.

    • @anonymouslearner2454
      @anonymouslearner2454 Před rokem

      @@caiden3396 ok thank you!

  • @aswx52
    @aswx52 Před rokem

    to me Dave you interpret Fe with Ne a lot

  • @bexsolo369
    @bexsolo369 Před rokem

    He looks just like the guy from the Matrix...

  • @Sophia-ix2ri
    @Sophia-ix2ri Před rokem +3

    Where’s Shan? She’s such a good video partner. 😢

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 Před rokem +1

    So it sounds like bills Ne hero and low Si are partly why his type is likely to continue to add more problems and blame it on things? If so, would that be common for ENTP as well?

    • @MrLuigiFercotti
      @MrLuigiFercotti Před rokem

      I think all EPs are prone to this. I've thought Burr was ESTP, all that observing and then ripping saying going after the stupid and illogical. Maybe 'cause that's what I do. lol

    • @orangeziggy348
      @orangeziggy348 Před rokem

      Blame is what everyone does before they go down into the pit of the journey.

    • @srose1088
      @srose1088 Před rokem

      @@orangeziggy348 lol wut?

  • @PsychologyandChillwMichi

    mike tyon eh? hehe

  • @Leev1tan
    @Leev1tan Před rokem

    we need explanations.

  • @RetroXRicardo
    @RetroXRicardo Před rokem +1

    I definitely agree that Mike Tyson is an ESTP! Another OPS type I agree with!

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology Před rokem +2

      Which ones do you agree with and which ones do you not?

    • @RetroXRicardo
      @RetroXRicardo Před rokem

      @P O W E R - R E D - B U L L The last two they mentioned like Steve Irwin and Mike Tyson I agree with their OPS types!
      When I was a member of the OPS website, there were questionable types they mentioned due to the balancing of the jumper types and animal typing. So I disagreed that Serena Williams was an ESTP, but an ESTJ. I disagreed that Rana Kaliouby is an ESFP, but an ENTP. I disagreed that Pharrel Williams is an ESTP, but an ENFJ and many, many more!
      I guess I just don't understand their "NT" terms and language as an "SF" person. So I left the OPS community because I was starting to second guess my own type and even my knowledge. But these are only my opinions from MBTI knowledge. Hope that makes sense!

    • @ChristopherWaddelow
      @ChristopherWaddelow Před rokem

      Bruh, who cares what typings you agree with?

  • @rantab2443
    @rantab2443 Před rokem

    Where is Shanny

  • @johnniedilangcruz9287
    @johnniedilangcruz9287 Před rokem +1

    Tyon and the background bruh. I already got used to the background and then now it changed. I liked the original black sound proof background. just saying blah here. tnx.

    • @zenex133
      @zenex133 Před rokem +1

      I think you missed the part where he explained it

  • @mentatmentatia9212
    @mentatmentatia9212 Před rokem

    Bill Bull is ESTP. His podcats is the most Sensor type advices for men.

    • @rem_av
      @rem_av Před rokem

      Every typing they do is an L

    • @mentatmentatia9212
      @mentatmentatia9212 Před rokem

      @@rem_av what is L?

    • @rem_av
      @rem_av Před rokem

      @@mentatmentatia9212 bad basically

    • @Vice_Verse0
      @Vice_Verse0 Před rokem

      Lolgic

    • @covidmania7586
      @covidmania7586 Před rokem

      maybe types don't exist..? that's why no one can type properly anyone To this day NO ONE can type Jordan Peterson for example one day you are ESTP because you are playing football and next day after reading book and after watching 50 youtube clips you are ENFP :D

  • @hollo0o583
    @hollo0o583 Před rokem

    Okay, interesting.

  • @bon12121
    @bon12121 Před rokem

    This BS is S

  • @martinparigini
    @martinparigini Před rokem +1

    First