10 Signs That You’ve Found “The One”

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • If you have found your soulmate, also known as “the one”, it means you are truly in love. When you’ve found the one for you, life becomes more beautiful and more rewarding.
    Sources:
    Questions to Know if You’ve Found the One
    www.psychology...
    Is There Such a Thing as a Soul Mate?
    www.psychology...
    Is He the One?
    www.psychology...
    Chief Editor: Tristan Reed
    Voice Over: Troy W. Hudson
    For Troy: / troywhudson
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Komentáře • 135

  • @Vijayvijay-uu9kp
    @Vijayvijay-uu9kp Před 2 lety +170

    1. Balanced personality
    2.A different feeling
    3. Steady development
    4. Intertwining paths
    5. Mutual decision making
    6. Accepting flaws
    7. Reciprocal sacrifices
    8. Constructive argument
    9. Total authenticity
    10. Valuing happiness

    • @kinarast
      @kinarast Před 2 lety +15

      1. You and them value each other's personality
      2. You and them love each other
      4. You and them have an intertwined goals and habits
      5. You and them listen and understand each other
      7. You and them care about each other
      8. You and them effectively discuss on what's in need to change
      9. You and them don't expect each other of the impossible
      10. You and them both value satisfaction

    • @ignasiusboois1423
      @ignasiusboois1423 Před 2 lety +5

      Thanks to you I don't have to watch the whole video

    • @paulaacebo9834
      @paulaacebo9834 Před 2 lety

      ​@@kinarast

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 Před 2 lety +1

      I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
      Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
      Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more patient, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
      Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
      Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.

    • @kinarast
      @kinarast Před 2 lety +1

      @@icysnow57cold64 So I browsed about it on Google and they said that men is more likely to produce more vasopressin which is the chemical associated with bonding, loyalty, the instinct to protect and mate guarding. And that oxytocin related behavior from females have little correlation with bonding because at the beginning, it's like love at the first sight. The male likes the female so much that they're feeling like it's a one and only partner and you think about them a lot and that the frontal cortex shuts down and you want them disregarding how you think. After some time, that it'll normalize and the bonding -- oxytocin and vasopressin will be the hanger; you'll feel at least jealous or suspicious or protective towards your partner.

  • @MiniCoop814
    @MiniCoop814 Před 2 lety +197

    I found the one…Me!!

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Před 2 lety +8

    If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
    💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @UpFromUnder6
    @UpFromUnder6 Před 2 lety +17

    I found mine 30 years ago!

    • @sixcrosses
      @sixcrosses Před 2 lety +1

      Noice!

    • @olivermwesa
      @olivermwesa Před 2 lety +1

      You're lucky

    • @normvw4053
      @normvw4053 Před rokem +1

      I like to think that we found each other...40+ years ago. I''ve never worked so hard for a thing so rewarding and so necessary for my life and hers.

  • @cheriembry1208
    @cheriembry1208 Před 2 lety +4

    This is so accurate
    I am a hopeless romantic but never assumed soulmates are for real

  • @katiedunlap235
    @katiedunlap235 Před rokem +4

    I think I found the one cause I don’t even care to think about what life was like before I met him. I can see him being a main character in the rest of the chapters of my story. I just love everything that consists of his being.

  • @aliscia09
    @aliscia09 Před 2 lety +3

    I found the one, he is with me now! I’m. So happy!

  • @aaryandabra01
    @aaryandabra01 Před 2 lety +1

    I know who “the one” is, just can’t gather the courage to talk it out. And plus, we’re so far apart, it scares me

  • @miekel8663
    @miekel8663 Před 2 lety +5

    He brings up very great points. Actually, all of the videos on this channel are great and pretty balanced I feel. I also think that a lot of it is common sense.
    As a 48-year-old who has been through a lot of different things, including extremely unhealthy relationships and is currently a decade plus into a healthy relationship, I’d like to just say that, the things he’s saying are correct and generally true. You also need to remain a little open and realize that no one is perfect. My husband and I have certainly broken some of these “rules.” For the most part, we very obviously have a loving and solid relationship. I also cringe at some of the things we’ve said and done to each other. We’re also quick to forgive each other and move on from these things.
    In my opinion, the last point he makes is the most important. At the end of the day, we want the other to be happy and we want to help each other be better people. Since we’re both looking out for each other, we’re both taken care of. Use your common sense and make sure that the person you are trusting to take care of you is trustworthy. That takes some time.

    • @dwaynecumm5125
      @dwaynecumm5125 Před 2 lety

      I don't know I just tried to go to the channel and it said that there's no content so I guess that means we're supposed to figure this all out on her own I'm off to a pretty good start though I got the part where the wife is always right and as long as you have a happy life you'll have a happy life .do I need to know anything else

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Před 2 lety +5

    1. Most definitely. There are things that I appreciate doing like going on adventures and she likes adventures but some activities for the day not the whole day. Moderation
    2. This relationship made feel inspi to want to build on my life, where as others just made me want to get through the day. I felt brave to shake my bad habits, and earn holistically their trust and not feel ashamed of my setbacks.
    3. So many amazing suggestions and ideas, towards maximizing my chance at success at anything I want to achieve and I would give that same encouragement back and they would win.
    4. We definitely complimented each other. Family holidays, planning date nights, and even sharing alot of the same hobbies and we would take turns on what activities come next
    5. Open discussion of how to move forward on certain things and mind map certain systems to overcome challenges, like chores and stuff
    6. It's the flaws that adds spice to our growth together. I had bad habits that were easily corrected and their habits opened up doorways for a new technique
    7. We would take some time off to be at doctor's appointments, or schedule certain times to achieve certain activities we wanted to try together
    8. We would state the problem first and discuss the trigger, but when we got extremely upset we would go into separate rooms or take walks to cool off and revisit the subject on a calmer note.
    9. We will call each other out, for weird behavior in strange settings.
    10. Always encourage each other when we feel self conscious and exalt each other when things were on the up and down and reminding each other how we overcame many other struggles.

  • @L3ssIsMoor3
    @L3ssIsMoor3 Před 2 lety +2

    I believe their is a super natural that brings them together. I believe in soul ties.

  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
    @carlosverde-datingtips7001 Před 2 lety +25

    Great tips! And speaking of finding “The One…”
    No matter how much you might like someone - it’s not going to work out in the long run, if they’re not the right type of people for you!
    If you want a happy life - consider someone that fits your personality, that matches well with you, and that is supportive of what you want to do - and actually wants to be part of it!
    Anyway, that’s my two cents.
    -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @Jilliberation
      @Jilliberation Před 2 lety +2

      In other words, "Just because you LOVE someone, doesn't necessarily mean that you're supposed to BE Together"...

  • @tanqrsimp7892
    @tanqrsimp7892 Před rokem

    I already know that ive found the one...
    Shes so beatiful, kind, really good person to share my emotions with, she is helpful, if im feeling down she'll try and cheer me up, she is very funny i dont think she had made a jokw that i havent laughed at bad or not ngl.l, LOVE Y'ALL❤❤❤

  • @Blusherization
    @Blusherization Před 2 lety +2

    I definitely haven't found the one!

  • @imperfectmixmusic
    @imperfectmixmusic Před rokem +2

    He had just explained everything that's in my heart..precisely said❤️

  • @michaellodwich9062
    @michaellodwich9062 Před 2 lety +4

    There is so much wisdom in this video. I very much agree. Thank you and greetings from Germany 😊

  • @jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35

    “ The One “ .. 😂😂😂 .. very funny

    • @hazeljames9453
      @hazeljames9453 Před 2 lety +1

      You didn't have to click on this video, did you really just come here to crap on other people's beliefs. I hope you find the women of your dreams and she loves you forever so you can stop telling yourself the only reason to live is money.. not a troll just genuinely hope you find happiness because love is the key not money

    • @jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35
      @jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35 Před 2 lety +1

      @@hazeljames9453 Awww .. someone needs a hug
      Lots of hostility ma’am. Smh .. have a blessed day 🤗

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem

      It' s sad that you believe that.

    • @jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35
      @jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35 Před rokem

      @@Nola5427 Don’t forget to leave Christmas cookies out for Santa. 🤗

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem

      @@jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35 with that shitty attitude and sarcasm no wonder you can' find the one, it' s a huge turn off that no one wants to be around but to each their own, some ppl like a grinch I guess 👌 👋

  • @mike.delia26
    @mike.delia26 Před 2 lety +9

    It would be great to have timestamps!

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras Před 2 lety +4

    “The day the power of love overrules the love of power, the world will know peace.”― Mahatma Gandhi

  • @emilytawse7829
    @emilytawse7829 Před 2 lety +4

    I’ve found the one and he is definitely a keeper ❤

  • @williampohlig6626
    @williampohlig6626 Před 2 lety +4

    Very true and honest

  • @stacyprice2222
    @stacyprice2222 Před 2 lety +3

    Without loving yourself… you won’t feel like you deserve love, or you will be too clingy for love.
    You must know and love yourself first before anyone else.

  • @lourdes2444
    @lourdes2444 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u for this informative info.i found the one /u I luv u,u know who u are gd day babe

  • @nazhao3156
    @nazhao3156 Před 8 dny

    I found the perfect person. I wanted to spend my whole life with during the 2023 to 2024 school year.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo Před 2 lety +23

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

  • @CrystalTwinStar
    @CrystalTwinStar Před rokem +2

    This is completely accurate!
    Thank you !

  • @roseamy1057
    @roseamy1057 Před 2 lety +4

    Yay first and I missed this channel for so long 😃

  • @annue_Codm
    @annue_Codm Před 2 lety +1

    me and my bf = perfect definition of opposite.lol
    Me; Extroverted asf, childish,moody,talkative,expressive, annoying and kinda careless.(not to him)
    my bf: Shy, loving,doesnt talk unnecessarily, immature,caring, scolds me like a parent, shows most love through act not by word(i meant caring ok) formal lol.

  • @switchbladeromance1466
    @switchbladeromance1466 Před 2 lety +5

    There's only a perfect cake!!!!

  • @nuez23747
    @nuez23747 Před 2 lety

    Mutual decisions are good to share if your partner isn't judging permanently in their favor or talks you out of it. Many people judge for fears not for logics

  • @abdiali6334
    @abdiali6334 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Topthink I found the one 💝

  • @iannoh
    @iannoh Před 2 lety +2

    Who would have thought it was Me all along!😂

  • @olivermwesa
    @olivermwesa Před 2 lety +1

    Mine is something else , its different from Your 10 points and I always wanna end this marriage .... It's quarrel after quarrel and always in bad moods

  • @chuviduvis10
    @chuviduvis10 Před 2 lety +3

    I really enjoy your videos.
    Thank you so much.

  • @jk_lifewithinlife
    @jk_lifewithinlife Před 2 lety +1

    Absolutely right points!

  • @MrInabras
    @MrInabras Před 2 lety

    I have still not found...but let's hope to find !!fingers crossed

  • @calebcustombricks2631
    @calebcustombricks2631 Před 2 lety +4

    Hello there!

  • @vickieporter822
    @vickieporter822 Před 2 lety +1

    I found the ONE !

  • @user-ep5du4ko5i
    @user-ep5du4ko5i Před měsícem

    ❤ I think it's a good heart to be living with someone else because of the najs lajf and other things that are true leave me alone with my life loves me too much/ thenk you gad blessing for me to be living najs ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vijayaganeshab
    @vijayaganeshab Před rokem +1

    my soulmate is saipoojaenka🥰

  • @anonimothy5979
    @anonimothy5979 Před 2 lety

    Not everyone who's made me feel content was my opposite. Or completely opposite, rather.

  • @ledevingreen7920
    @ledevingreen7920 Před 2 lety +3

    On point

  • @mssarahrenee
    @mssarahrenee Před 2 lety +8

    Oooh I totally disagree with the first 3 mins I couldn't continue. Sorry. I'm on the side of the couch counseling people who used these tips and discovered that doesn't make that person the one. Opposites do not attract. Like attracts like. Lastly, whatever it is you desire from your soul mate you really gave it within yourself. It is not anyone's job to fulfill and complete you. That's yours. Your job is to BE the person who has the dream lover.
    Fill yourself up with happiness and self love. Anyone coming to your life will be adding extra doses of love and happiness. When they cannot make you happy or take the love back, you're not left depleted. You E already learned how to still be happy and loved.

    • @rod7177
      @rod7177 Před 2 lety +2

      Suggest you watch the vid in its entirety if you haven't already done so. You'll be pleasantly surprised.

    • @paniq_fnite
      @paniq_fnite Před 2 lety

      True.

  • @fourvetperrie457
    @fourvetperrie457 Před 2 lety +2

    10/10 I have the 1

  • @jodybowman7045
    @jodybowman7045 Před 2 lety +3

    Im an aries looking for my soulmate!! If i look within, ill be looking at a cancer, Sagittarius or a Scorpio lol 😆

  • @findidea3920
    @findidea3920 Před 2 lety +1

    thanks

  • @abhikbajaj1789
    @abhikbajaj1789 Před 2 lety

    Seriously people will depend on this now!

  • @colorfulshow33
    @colorfulshow33 Před 2 lety +1

    I wish to find her one day

  • @kencloherty33
    @kencloherty33 Před rokem

    Couldn't agree more

  • @p.s.6952
    @p.s.6952 Před 2 lety +1

    😇🙏❤my the One..my angel 😇

  • @bishalpbparkour5624
    @bishalpbparkour5624 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️ one day 😌

  • @ashavilas8576
    @ashavilas8576 Před 2 lety +1

    💯👌 Marvelous

  • @julialeite6923
    @julialeite6923 Před 2 lety

    Wouldn't that be wonderful?

  • @Versatile668
    @Versatile668 Před 11 měsíci

    Who can that be

  • @kevinroberts3482
    @kevinroberts3482 Před 2 lety +2

    When shit is just natural

  • @deborahfriedman1456
    @deborahfriedman1456 Před 2 lety

    I don't think anyone will balance with me

  • @Uwhowhereareyou
    @Uwhowhereareyou Před 23 hodinami +1

    Nope I haven't found the one

  • @bettystewart296
    @bettystewart296 Před 2 lety

    I like that. 👍

  • @anonimothy5979
    @anonimothy5979 Před 2 lety

    I've met "perfect" people before. They exist, lol.

  • @Cratossama
    @Cratossama Před 2 lety +3

    No such thing as thee 1 that's y western civilization so messed up now

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem

      Says you, that' s sad you feel that way.

  • @maryng-qui-sang3305
    @maryng-qui-sang3305 Před 2 lety

    You're the 1. *&* ONLY 1. WHO CARES OF UUURRR 😊 HAPPINESS 😊. UUURRR DD BBEEESSTT EVER 4UUUSSS. I LIKES LISTENING TO THIS
    MY KNOWLEDGEABLE 1. MAKING
    ME VERY PROUD OF UUU MY INTELLIGENT HANDSOMELY LEO ♌️ 😅.
    ALWAAAYS UUURRRS *&* BB MINES 💖 💕 💓 😘 ❤️ ♥️ 💖 💕 💋

  • @skullandbones1832
    @skullandbones1832 Před 2 lety +2

    ♥️

  • @master2875
    @master2875 Před 2 lety +1

    Coincidences do happen, this video is wrong in many ways

  • @BaadShaHig123
    @BaadShaHig123 Před 2 lety

    Only earn money in life, love relationships, love and respect will come quietly. 🙄
    😏🤟

  • @josiepedere1316
    @josiepedere1316 Před 2 lety

    I found the only one...ME

  • @Renfield37
    @Renfield37 Před 2 lety

    if a person wants the most excellent woman read proverbs 31.. pray fore the right one and God will send you the one that he wants for you. and if it does not happen just let it alone and stop trying.. without Jesus in your life its not gonna work

  • @Midnight_Shadows
    @Midnight_Shadows Před 2 lety +1

    💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @aleksandrakettner905
    @aleksandrakettner905 Před 2 lety

    💌

  • @larryachiya2475
    @larryachiya2475 Před 2 lety +1

    Nonsense. There's nothing like "the one"

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem +1

      That's sad you believe that.

  • @godjesuschrist6926
    @godjesuschrist6926 Před 2 lety

    Relationship family not friends.. non sexual .

  • @georgepodaru
    @georgepodaru Před 2 lety +7

    There is no such thing as a perfect match. Or "the one". Or love. All of these are nothing but fairy tales.

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem

      That' s really sad you believe that.

  • @ZeroPurpleRansom
    @ZeroPurpleRansom Před 2 lety

    Bs

  • @suzellemichel1002
    @suzellemichel1002 Před 2 lety +1

    First☺️

  • @ejjc0916
    @ejjc0916 Před 2 lety

    scam

  • @chiefwhitebuffalo3614
    @chiefwhitebuffalo3614 Před 2 lety

    This pg has no clue on anything