TikTok Is Ruining West Elm Caleb's Life...
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- čas přidán 30. 07. 2024
- A man known as 'West Elm Caleb' has gone viral on TikTok recently and had his life ruined.
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The people who do this are absolute monsters. You don't just release someone's personal info and threaten their career and financial stability because of something like this.
Isn't releasing their personal info, aka doxing them, a feIony?
Wrong, you shouldn’t release someone’s personal info and threaten their career and financial stability period
Despite how much I don't like that guy's actions and don't think they're right (my own opinion doesn't really matter tho agree to disagree I say), I agree that it's not the correct decision to try and destroy that dude's life over this. Or over anything except confirmed predatory behavior, period. Especially without any kind of evidence.
@@burgerburger7975 what did he do that was not right? He’s a single young man who is conventionally attractive clearly to a lot of women, why would he know play the field? Nothing he did was wrong at all
@@dawnmccarthy1 Not if you’re a woman.
I respect that Optimus recognizes that cancel culture is way too over hyped, like on both sides they eat up the culture war. Everyone just tryna have gotcha moments and no one tryna be better.
You could always be better, just don’t partake and you’re already 10x better than anyone that participates.
Yea bro everyone just needs to wake up, it’s like everyone has fog over their eyes and we only ever see shapes and never the whole image.
Qqqq
@@yoda5937 Qqqq
What do you mean "way too over hyped"? Explain please?
Meanwhile the same women on Tinder: "Men under 6 ft. are nonexistent to me."
Facts😂
Yeah maybe u wouldnt all have dated the same guy if you all didnt have the same, most basic standards out there
"Send me your cheesiest pick up lines 🤪"
I was having a nice convo and she asked me how tall I was, I said 5’9 and I never got a respond after
@@HugoSanchez-ir3bv You know she will get no where on life with those standards
One of these days humanity is going to look back on social media the same way we look back at the Romans watching gladiatorial blood sports or public executions.
As a barbaric cornerstone of a cruel and uncivilized society.
literally, you look at the salem witch trials and its the same hive mind headspace. lets all collectively attack this person for ______
they would look at it the same way as the french revulotion
both were a revulution but they were met with some stinkers along the way
Well you're right if humanity actually survives its dumbness long enough
Gladiatorial events were cool though.
@@chrisspiker5422 Yeah, they weren't nearly as ''barbaric'' and uncivilized as mainstream media portrays it to be.
If the tables were turned… “yaaass queen, get it, you’re just slootshaming”
I dated a female west end Caleb, it sucks, but you have to move on and learn to avoid the red flags.
Poor guy, he was literally doing the same thing they would do also. This is not cool to do. They also admit to wanting to do the same thing to men.
This is just weird man... men get ghosted all the time and that's the end of it. Most of us don't keep track of our ghosters like creeps...
Women do ghosting, love bombing, and send nudes, etc., and nobody dashes an eye.
But lord forbid a guy like Caleb does this, and everyone loses their minds. Female privilege, y'all.
And the funny thing is that many of these type of women (because this type is just a bunch of them) continuosly complain about "male privilege"
Yo yo yo, you wanna compare FeMaLe EmPoWeRmEnT to Za PaTrIaRcHy ?
Isnt there a lady who is being cancelled for sexually assaulting a dude? Not sure that it counts all the time
@@IDoABitOfTrollin she still not canceled bro. People still support her and she turned off all comments. She basically got no repercussions whatsoever. No jail and no more hate because she turned comments off.
Obviously. We live in a gynocentric society
Ask any man literally 70% of the people they match with ghost them ? Lol why is it terrible when a guy does it
When girl does it,its normal,when guy does it everyone goes wild!
70? Im sorry, but for average man its more like 85 to 90.
To these girls whose dads walked out on them these “atrocities” are actual abuse
What did the dads do ?
@@milesblue7543 the right thing
@@Cactus_fucker yeh
I feel that the core of this problem is that people need to learn how to handle rejection better. Probably why you see Women throwing tantrums and being louder about it. I think some women believe in the stereotype where women are the 'chooser' and can't handle when someone they wanted doesn't have feelings for them. It takes away their ' power' and they think they are being silenced. If anything, its just a red flag for abuse to lash out at rejection.
Girls complain that guys can’t handle rejection but they literally dox someone and do everything possible to ruin their life when they get rejected
14 year old girls on tiktok will learn a new buzzword like “love bombing” and just run with it. The level of intelligence on that app is pitiful.
Honestly, they learn a new word from their teen dramas and start using the word without even understanding how to even use the word
Someone should write a ya novel for them to read that tricks them into using a racial slur
People learn "gaslighting" and just run with it
U could probably trick these people into saying the N word and they'll fall for it.
There's intelligence on that app?
This truly tells us how much of a double edged sword the internet can be
Yep it's scary man
Can be so good if treated well just as the other way
True
ngl double edged would be a good sentence to market for PC cooler fans
The internet is a powerful tool for knowledge and to better oneself terrifying weapon when it's turned against you it is sad to see that some use it for ill intent when it should be used to better each other. However we all can use it for good so all is not lost i wish you all the best and to fight on for your goals.
imagine the backlash if guys doxxed a girl that ghosted them lol
Double standards am I right
He would be put in prison for life at the bare minimum. The mob would probably have him executed
Death sentence would be asked for if thats the case
I personally despise the modern dating market, but this isn't about how I feel. This is the typical behavior you will see from millennials and zoomers using these apps, casual dating/unfaithful relationships are becoming the new norm. It's also not just guys that do this, just as many women do it to (I'd say women do this type of stuff more often on these apps then men, but we can of course agree to disagree). Despite my dislike for the guy's actions, the Tik Tockers are clearly going way too far with something that is normal for people to do on these dating apps. I bet that a decent chunk of the women who are trying to cancel this man have most likely done the same exact thing to their "dates" (or something similar). The man doesn't deserve to be cancelled and he doesn't deserve to go to prison unless he is found guilty with evidence. It's suppose to be innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent. It's people like this that make the boomers and gen xers see us as failures or lesser beings.
Facts tho
Facts through and through.
They really ruined this mans life for going on dates like a normal person 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Guys who get ghosted again: "On to the next I guess"
Chicks who get ghosted for the first time: "DESTROY THIS EVIL MAN, INTERNET."
So basically what women where doing for 10 years now. And this dude does this and suddenly its a tabbo comparable to the gulag or something.
I've gotten ghosted by like 7 girls But this dude goes people and then freaking everyone goes crazy about it
At this point, we really need to stop allowing little kids getting on the internet and getting involved in stuff they have no business getting involved.
So, what, ban phones till you're 21?
No, have the actual common sense to not give children any form of access to the internet, like give them a phone, tablet, or computer.
@@danielfincher8439 no smart phones till 25
@@danielfincher8439 yes.
@@MrHypedHippo 25? You sure you wanna go that low? Think about this now? 25 before 2010 isn't the same as 25 today. Consider this carefully. haha
Apparently one of the women he was talking to was trying to add him to her line-up of men to use and date, and was just mad that he did the thing she was trying to do back to her..
All this trouble just because he isn’t a simp?!
WILD!!!🤣🤣🤣
FR
I missed the good old days of the Internet
It’s ironic because if a woman did this I’m sure it would go as far as being posted to maybe Reddit or absolutely no one would care…
@Plexxar that too
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. If you get aired/rejected/denied, NO MATTER THE GENDER, take your L and move on
if your a woman* there are only two genders*
bro exactly. idc who it is, but everyone gets rejected sometime. A rejection is a simple minor L, harassing someone over it is a major L w/ red flags.
@@nothing5693 *you're
@@nothing5693 if you want to troll, be original and make the other person look like an idiot
@@nothing5693 would have liked your comment if you used to correct grammar lol feel free to edit and then I'll like
I started thinking of quiting my life or something, I'm only 15 but I'm seeing negative things happening talked about on other channels, I've already lost faith but this is too heavy for me my man :(
I know how you feel man Cause I felt the same way before but You shouldn't let other people actions Influence how you feel in life The World is a cruel place And people will do bad things and people will support it you just have to live with it
U will learn to not care at least i did, and let me tell u not caring is worse then being sad,
Keep pushing bro. Life will get better for you.
stop watching these kind of things, it just worsen ur view of the world when in reality its only a small population of people who act like this
Get your money up, buy cabin in woods with a dog, live happy
Ghosting is sorta rude sure, but this guy doesn't deserve to be doxxed or harassed because of it. That's ridiculous. Hope the people who are doing this can see that this insane.
@@greglane501 true anyone less attractive gets r ed
I would like to see the chats. If he had to carry the conversations on his back, I would understand ghosting them
@@greglane501 or went out with a guy for a free night out, no intention of anything coming of it romantically
I agree with you. I think you should send a message to the person you wanna ghost, say "I will start ghosting you now" or similar before you ghost, it ' s better that way.
Unless ur funny
Caleb wherever you are whatever your doing your a trooper
Why is it ok for women to ghost guys, but not the other way around?
Guessing that the demographic of dating apps makes their ego inflated?
Society
Female privilege.
it's not ok for either to do it. but nobody deserves this
@@randomassname_ yes it is. Must u text back? Although u should tell them u dont like them
I hate being the one to say this but imagine if a dude did this, imagine a guy making a video claiming fake stuff about a girl because she ghosted him
Nothing will happen most people will probably clown the guy making the vid
Double standards should be destroyed
So let me get this straight. If i go on a dating app, i start talking with someone and i think we dont match. I should lose my job???
Its funny how women cry when they get ghosted after they put out on the first date but god forbid *anyone* says *anything* about then ignoring gross mens DMs, then its "i dont owe him ANYTHING. I dont owe him a response!!!!1!"
The thing about this guys actions is that it really is immoral, but these women get exactly what they want or what they deserve. It’s cause of this dating culture that has been constructed. Swiping and dating apps and such. He certainly doesn’t deserve his life to be ruined, and these girls certainly don’t deserve to be played, but it’s all about incentive structures. And these women allow this to happen.
Personally I don't see it as a big deal. It's his choice to not text someone back and they should respect that. Don't get your hopes miles high on a dating app.
All the people that hate on him are probably 13 year old girls that claim to be professionals in a tiktok comment section when in reality they've had one or no boyfriend and are taking out their anger on him because they can't be a functioning human being and find a way to de-stress other then yell at someone
Dude have you seen TikTok comments? It isn’t probably, they ARE. I don’t even feel comfortable using TikTok as a 17 year old because most people there just feels younger than me or it’s just grown people looking for childrens attention. It’s so weird and even the funnyish memes are just reused quotes or videos over funny audio, honestly it’s rarely original. Internet comedy is dead there, only form of entertainment that’s alive is music
Lol this reminds me of terrible dating advices and experience except the sexism or gender roles a reversed
Theyre empaths
@@HighDruh 🤣more like psychopaths
The man is getting crucified for doing something that everybody has done at some point in those dating apps, so they decide to make an example out of him as to why dating is such an issue for women. Are you kidding me there are people way worse then he is and yet you don't see them getting doxxed.
Pretty sure all women can do the same thing and get away with it.
Well he is TOP 5% of men everyone else is 95% bottum tier men are invisible, thats why.
@@bahamasbroyt Just asked this question -- is this all because he's considered good looking and the women who are complaining actually wanted him, but he didn't want them back? It seems like he just wanted to flirt and that's it. What am I missing?
@@LA_HA 🤷🏾♂️
@@bahamasbroyt haha. I figured. Just thought I'd ask. haha
Imagine feeling so privileged that you feel obligated to a random strangers response online. Cringe. People don't owe you anything. Wow
You naughty naughty
Fr, it’s hella annoying
How could you say something so controversial yet so brave
(I think that's how its said)
Me: *looks at all the responses in chat*
You couldnt be more correct.
TikTok is like the distant cousin of Twitter
First cousin
Yep
Failed clone actually.
@@prestongarvey4259 Nah successful clone because they're both failures
did you mean little sibling
I bet these same girls have ghosted someone before at least once on dating apps, the fact that they're upset about a stranger they texted and would probably lose interest in them (which is normal) annoys them is beyond me.
We honestly need the Internet to be the Wild West again. Free, offensive, and not for the weak.
Based
Hella Based
That hope died with liveleak
I wish to go back as well..
mobile phones making the internet easily accessible did a good chunk of the damage.
Let's just not pretend like these people going against him ghosted people at some point weather they like to admit it or not
This shows the hypocrisy in the world today. One of the girls even said that she wanted to keep him in her back pocket of guys. This was on a hook up app I don’t get why they are so mad it was a one and done
This is completely ridiculous. Girls give me 1 word responses or completely ghost me on dating sites. Do I care? No. I just move on with my life, cause now i know if they won't give me a time a day, then they're not worth my time. I tell myself all the time there's someone out there, and I just need to be patient. You're first priority is yourself, nothing else. Focus on you and maybe, some day, you'll find someone.
Not gonna happen to me is impossible
@@johnpaulicasiano3974 not with that attitude
@@AKFakuade Nah what's point why you should wasting time finding someone instead then
100%
@@johnpaulicasiano3974 if you ready to stay single for life(not bad thing) gl!
Destroy TikTok
SpaceMonkeyBoi agrees
Dr.Karlow advocates for the liquidation of Tik Tok.
Tik Tok be like Skynet
A normal account vouches for this action
nah
Stuff like this is why I never have, and never will ever be on any social media. Eliminates a lot of possible garbage from life
tiktok is a brain melting cyclone of sensitivity, and so is twitter
Insomnia? But yuh fr
It’s true
Hey Optimus, keep up the good work! I love your content! You’ve become one of the best commentator personalities on the platform!
He beat them at their own game and now they are all salty and petty about it. But when women scream “abuse” and play the victim all the SJW’s come out looking for blood. Caleb is a living legend 🤣🤣🤣
To invest time in going on a witch hunt for a internet stranger means that these individuals really have nothing going for them in life
Yeah, pretty much
I can’t wait to see these entitled mf’s hit the real world
Meh. Even a 40 hour work week leaves a decent amount of free time.
@@orppranator5230 Hmm well I suppose some do it to be simply entertained. Good point
I miss the old internet of a few decades ago soooo much. We went from having 10 websites, to having 10 million websites, back to having 10 websites again..
Meanwhile them on tinder :
Guys under 6 ft no go.
every girl that made a tik tok on him has 22 dudes left on read. I dont understand
"I made this playlist for you."
*brutal death metal blast beats intensify*
Alternate title: women get a taste of their tactics and decide to ruin someone's life over it
It's amazing how much effort you put into this videos you do a great job thank you for it 👍💓
How entitled do you have to be to get offended by getting rejected. If a person gets ghosted they move on. Just because it’s a woman getting ghosted doesn’t mean the whole world should be after him. TikTok is very toxic and should actually be banned. As well as twitter.
The people on the apps need to be banned not the apps themselves
You know i can see why alot of guys rather not date because these folks are deranged. A couple of years ago, it was false accusations and labeling guys as evil, now it's committing Tiktok sins.
This Caleb guy is like a cooler version of quagmire
I cant believe it's 2022 and people actively doxing other aren't getting in legal trouble I personally believe these kids/or adults should have jailtime for such action. And business's that are bothered with this what I would call useless harassment should be able to report such doxing incidents....
as a side note if it's kids under the age of 18 the parent should be responsible for there online behavior and charged as such or find heavy like at least $20,000
Kinda agree on the ghosting part. But ghosting sucks, if you already had contact with the person ghosting you and suddenly for no reason you don´t hear anything anymore from them.
Well in this situation it was just a random person who he didnt message back and how can you agree that him ghosting someone justifies him having his entire personal life ruined
On one hand I wanna be in a relationship & then things like this that happen so frequently especially in the last few years that make me question if it's even a good call anymore for my own privacy sake
I've literally been ghosted by girls and just moved on with my life like it never even happened
So he basically is being harassed for doing something millions of people do? Pretty burnt. Unless he's intentionally doing it then people need to chill out. And even if hes intentionally harming women like that it's not that deep. Get over clearly there are better people for yourself smh
Youre trying to logically absorb female behaviour. Good luck
*At this rate Caleb’s gonna have to change his name, go off the grid and live in a undisclosed location in the middle of the woods.*
Sounds like that girl really liked him and couldn't fathom that he rejected her.
How many men did these girls reject in pursuit of Caleb? I'm looking forward to the day men finally speak out publicly, and not just in online forums, like these girls did.
Probably 1million years later, like girls did
How is he being harassed for not replying to women?
More people do it more and yet he gets attacked?? Such hypocrisy oh wait, its tiktok so its dumb
What are you even trying to say
@@hunterwilliamson9644 like optimus said, a lot other people do the same thing and even worse yet he's the only one who gets called out
@@MakinamiPhYT oh thanks
@@hunterwilliamson9644 english isn't my best talking so sorry if my first comment sounded like something else
@@MakinamiPhYT its cool
So I found out Caleb's secret, where caleb lives (long island I beleive) there is like 1 man for ever 2 woman, so it ain't just caleb, it's all the guys in long island slaying like there's not tomorrow.
He’s also 6’4 tho
@@Andrew-nu4hi His looks help, but geography is also key.
Doesn’t NYC have a gender imbalance too?
More women than men supposedly live there.
@@MaxPayneInTheAss yea, especially when you get to the younger age groups.
@@jeopardized9293 his looks are literally everything dude. When your on a dating app everyone is superficial. Women flock to the 6’4 chad like birds to bread. You can tell by the fact that dozens of girls came out with stories about him. He’s basically in the top 10% of all men on tinder in his area I promise you.
Women will literally send the same “pictures” to guys but my guy sends a playlist and he gets dunked on by the internet 😂😂😂 love to see it
Both sides, the cancel culture and the dating culture, make me so depressed. The internet was a net loss for humanity, this isn't worth it.
what i use ticktock most of the time is to watch my fav DJs and some amazing pics of space and sci fi and dark memes and gaming news
Yep it caters towards you and so when insane people use tiktok they’ll also see insane people with ideas. Like an echo chamber.
This dude needs to find a good lawyer and go after every single person he can.
- Ghosting makes sense in a dating app because it's just weird to say "well it's not gonna work out so kthxbye" It's just better to cut it off because both parties know it's over by that point. If one doesn't realize it's not working, then that's on them. 🤦
- The term "love-bombing" is used more in the context of cults than abusive relationships (which technically, a cult is, 🤷).
- What does any of this have to do with his work that they want him fired? 🤨 And they say _he's_ bad. 🙄
- As Opti said, yet, women also do all of the behaviors that he's accused of.
- I question the playlist accusation. Did he actually say "I made this for you" or just "here's my fave songs"? 🤔 What's he supposed to do, abandon all of his favorite songs and find new ones for a new girl or just give up music?
- If the genders were reversed, people would be screaming at the guy for putting the girl "on blast" (do people still say that? 🤔) and exposing her and embarrassing her in public, and saying it's sexist and misogynistic. This isn't feminism, it's puerile. 🙄
Not being on these dating apps feels like one of the best decisions I ever made.
West elm is a furniture and decor company and I was so confused
hearing stuff like this never surprises me because i personally see no point of having tiktok
Same I have always had a dislike for TikTok
Correction- f-k up in college. For some reason, youtube won’t let me edit my comment🙄
It's funny
11:30 I can't stand casual relationships, I'm all about the ranked competetive dating
people using tik tok stopped watching at 0:30
this makes me scared to get tinder since id prolly get afraid of who im talking to
She wasn't looking for someone to marry. Whether it lasted for a week or a month, they would've eventually broken up, so it doesn't matter if he ghosted him.
The boomers were right 😔
We should have listened
Always were
The boomers r dum idot who think that do phone all day make unhapy. Why am unhapy??? :((((
Its just crazy how utterly sensitive these people can be. I sometimes wonder how good of a life they are living to where they find the slightest thing offensive.
They clearly want to feel like their meaningless existences have meaning when they're the reason why their lives aren't going anywhere.
@SantiagoDeTortillas In North Korea they'll get killed most likely, too far.
Wait you said "living a life"
People like these dont have one
Tik Tok doesn’t ruin everyone’s lives? You learn something new every day lol
TikTok is speaking like West Elm Caleb is the IRL Joe Goldberg
Oh we doxing people for ghosting? Well its my time to shine. I got a whole list of women who ghosted me. Where do i start? 🙄
Love how is bad when a guy ghosted some girls but girls ghosting people is just the norm
Bruh 90% of people you match on dating apps WILL ghost you without even a reply... think about it ... they MATCH! and then they ghost you.
Accept it and move on, you basically dodged a bullet!
I’ve decided to bypass this situation by not dating. Lol.
Props to caleb for becoming a literal urban legend💀
4:27 IM DEAD BRO 😂😂😂
If you've ever been on a dating app you've been ghosted by a woman several times it's basically normal the stack sheets prove it. I'm OK with it it's just ironic to see women throwing a fit that they got ghosted when I'm sure they were doing the same thing to men
Where is this legend so he can teach me his ways lol
What's even funnier is that those girls tried to do that to him first.
Put him on o roster I mean
Optimus is like an internet super hero
Ah yes. A Tik toker can't handle rejection 😂
I think we need to make a Anti-cancel movement, Where when someone is getting unjustly treated we go and hangout.
Let's do it brother!
Yep. Shovel some coal in the engine, let's get this started!
@@frieza2235 im all for it lets make it happen!
I’m all in
This is genius
I feel like he should be called out by his immediate circle, but not internet crusaded.
We could just come together and fight fire with fire. Cancel the cancellers!
Caleb is Freddy Kruger in A Tiktok On Elm Street
Internet peaked in 2016 in my opinion
Anyone got a opinion on what is happening in Canada aka the convoy to Ottawa
Females need to understand guys can change their minds too. They might think they like you but he has every right to change his mind. Doesn’t owe her an explanation and vice versa
"Tinder has only been around for a few years" my guy, it's been around for like a decade