Feeling Overwhelmed and Want to Give Up? (Watch This)
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- čas přidán 7. 04. 2022
- Do you ever feel like giving up when things are hard-even if it’s something good? Today, we’re talking to a teacher who’s burned out and wanting to quit, the wife of a blind minister who’s absolutely exhausted, and a young woman at a crossroads with her boyfriend as she takes custody of her three nieces.
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My life right now feels like it fell apart during Covid and I still can't pick up the pieces yet. I look forward to your shows John, and I think Ramsey bringing you on was the best thing they could've done.
Good luck broski. Not sure what parts are missing but get rid of the toxic stuff and find more of the good stuff.
I left the military in 2019 after 10 years of service just for covid to hit months later; been a drag ever since. I leave service just to watch America give up freedom for security
@@chief5981. Thank you for your service! Blessings to you.
@@chief5981I wish the PM of Canada had a soul and could read and absorb this.
Daisy is such a good person to take in her nieces; she has already been through so much with the loss of her Mom! I hope she has good luck from this point forward!
Daisy, you’re a hero. If he doesn’t walk beside you through this then he is doing you a favor. Life gets rough and you don’t want a man in your life to leave when the rough gets rougher! I pray that you can understand and accept that you are worth more than him.
Him leaving is not those kids fault. I hope you don’t blame them or the circumstance.
Even if you never wanted to be a mom, let this be an adventure, challenge, but also a gift.
Rooting for you hard! Fellow Angelino!
I want to hug Daisy. I'm a foster mom, and her selflessness and willingness to do whatever it takes to give those kids a home both breaks and warms my heart. Sending much love and many prayers from SD!
I literally just took a week off and did absolutely nothing but the bare minimum for 3 days and then only did gentle activities that make me feel good. I was so burned out I was getting sick. Some people think I'm ridiculous, but others recognize that our world is so messed up that rest seems optional. I chose what I needed and no regrets.
Your story is almost everyone's story. There are tens of millions sitting at home, on their fat asses collecting fraudulent disability and the waning government handouts still being issued while we work harder than we've ever been expected to work. There should be a war on laziness and the lack of grit or discipline within our peers who are allowing a small handful of hard workers to grapple with ALL of the real stress, tasks and unprecedented list of sh-t to do.
Going through this right now. Thank you.
Parents! Please, when disciplining your children for their choices, be sure include that YOU believe they are wonderful, kind, sweet, smart, brave, curious, creative (etc). Don't ONLY say compliments when they do something notable
The last caller made me tear up. She made such a difficult but noble decision. Very inspiring.
This advice was not what I expected, but so what I needed. Thanks
I took in my 19 month old nephew when I had just barely a 2 year old boy and a 6 month old puppy. You’ve got this girl! I sometimes say I wish I hadn’t taken him in due to the circumstances surrounding how the parents got him back. It was a thankless act. I wasn’t expecting someone to throw a party but my nephews family saw me as their mortal enemy. It was hard! Remember why you did it. Write it down. You did it for stability and mental health of those 3 girls. My nephew and I have a bond of mother and son and it is awkward for some family. But you know what I was the ONLY ONE who took him in.
Daisy has a heart of gold, and she is a stellar example of sisters doing it for themselves! I am sending you, Daisy, lots of love.
I wanna hug the woman who had the husband vision impared. So much of what she is going through is normal...with a disabilities added on to it. You are doing great sweetie. You and your husband seem like great people ❤❤
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Sweet Daisy....you have given these children a chance and unconditional love. This really warms my heart. They need to have stability. You are an angel.
Wow daisy! I’m so impressed by her bravery and selflessness. He’s missing out on a great woman if he goes his own way.
Yay made it on time! I’m craving someone else’s drama today 🤣
So glad you explained what modeling looks like. I heard that I'm "not enough without XYZ results" growing up. No one SAID it specifically. But as a child I observed it, I perceived it. I have a vivid memory of internally worrying about being a failure at 5yo (one of my first memories). Parents! Please, when disciplining your children for their choices, be sure include that YOU believe they are wonderful, kind, sweet, smart, brave, curious, creative (etc). Don't ONLY say compliments when they do something notable!
Seems as if I automatically give a thumbs up before watching the vid.?! It’s because I know what ever the Ramsey team puts out it’s going to be good solid advice! Thanks Team!!!
Dr John talked with Eric about how people react to our successes can lead us to thi n k our thoughts/feelings don't matter. I come from trauma and emotional neglect. I was always a good student but I've often said one of the best things my emotionally absent dad did was, the One time I got straight A's, he said "good job. " No excitement, no special prize, barely a reaction at all. If he had given me any excitement, I probably would have become a perfectionist. As crazy at it sounds, I see that non-excitement in that moment was a weird sort of blessing.
I have never caught this live🤩
Premier gang gang 😂
I want to be Daisy’s friend!! She is amazing!
I think hiring help when you have a baby is awesome. But also vision -impaired people can grocery shop, cook, clean, change diapers, feed and play with the baby, vacuum, etc.
Big ups Daisy!
Nicole should seek out some church members/church family to help out. That is what church family is called to do! Babysitting, ubering hubby a few times a week, grocery shopping, etc. Help is not a one way street. As a pastors wife you serve others every day. Accept their service to you. ❤️
The only thing that the vision-impaired husband can’t do is drive, and if you can afford he can Uber. There’s not any significant part of childcare that you can’t do if you’re vision-impaired.
I listen to John a 2x
LOVE your Social Distortion shirt:) Rock ON!
Daisy's man is a coward, they should have already been married...but I'M SO GLAD HE'S HONEST. It's far better to be a duck than a goose. It sounds like it's for the best to drop him. Daisy, keep him as a boyfriend and you'll be resentful and frustrated holding on to someone who helps about 1/10th of the time. Since you aren't married, it's fair for him to not want to be in. You don't want someone who after that many years is waiting for someone who is a "better fit for his lifestyle." Glad he's honest, but ew. Don't keep hoping for him to change.
He's not a coward. He knows what he wants and it's not 3 kids that are not his. He's courageous for not "sticking with" what he doesn't want, like she is.
Third caller: sounds like your boyfriend IS all in on the relationship. He probably wants his own family, not someone else's. Sounds like she took custody without talking it over with her partner. No wonder he has cold feet now. Just my petty observation..
I doubt that. This has been happening for a while with the kids. I doubt she never mentioned it. Some men are just so selfish. No paternal instinct. And some women too. It is what it is. He doesn’t want that life.
I have a buddy, he’s married, they make $$$$$$$$$$$ bank!! Like outrageous money. And they both decided no kids. No desire for both of them. And they admit they are too selfish. They want their money, and their time. They don’t want nothing else but to live lavishly. And that’s ok, that’s them.
In this case, the guy should stop sleeping with her and just be straight forward.
@@kita3256 the opposite of selfless is not selfish - but yeah this guy needs to run. Hard enough to throw away your youth when it's not your DNA sucking your $$$.
I wanna be on the show, but don't want to put my business over the internet 😅
Daisy!! You are an Angel 😇 I wish you lived near me so we can go on play dates
Usually I like this show, but the advice to Daisy was bullshit. You cannot ask a single man to stay with a woman who chooses to take on 3 kids when he doesn't agree with it. She chose them over him no hands down. Apparently the "right thing" is sacrificing your want and needs when you never wanted kids.
Why do you remove my comments :(🥺💔
Feeling overwhelmed?? Think of millions of people suffering extreme poverty and you’ll chill out.
22:22 Never reject your husbands advances. There are dozens of lonely women who are waiting
she doesn’t work! She doesn’t have it that bad
What a noob I watch at 2x speed
If you say rocking on till the break of dawn 1. More. Time.🤮
It's my favorite phrase he says! Haha