My True Authentic Self ft Fola Francis
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- čas přidán 7. 08. 2024
- On this episode Toke is joined by Fola Francis, a Trans-woman living in Lagos. This one is super enlightening. ENJOY!
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This woman is so graceful! I respect her poise and knowledge. Life isn’t black & white. Toke is so right about her being a ray of light. I’m her best friend and trust me, the light Fola brings in unmatched. ❤❤❤
Speak Your Truth Boo! ❤
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You never fail with your shades!!! Steady serving!
I love every part of this, humans are so limited because of culture and tradition. Listening to this I feel for anyone that is struggling with this, in a society that is so judgmental. I hope she stays stay strong.
Thank you so much Toke for this… Fola Francis is truly a beacon of light and positivity and we’re glad you platform is one used to amplify her voice❤❤❤
Fola Francis ❤❤❤ Thank you
I like how I can’t predict your next guest. I like the diversity. ❤ this is mind opening. I like strong people. Who are able to live their lives in their own way
Toke is so so much of a darling 😍. Like she makes a guest feel so warm and talk so freely
Coming back here to rewatch is so sad. Rest in Power Fola ❤. You were a light
Fola an icon. May Gdo be with her. Thanks Toke for this very episode like none other🙌
I don’t really understand these things but she sure is a classy woman. And should be protected at all cost! 😅
TM, I am in awe of your humility and your willingness to learn.
I love this episode.
Thank you TM and Fola Francis
Thank you so much for this, Toke!!
Your open mindedness is everything! God bless you!
If we have lots of folks thinking like you on this earth, the earth will be a beautiful place to live in.
Thank you Toke!!
R.I.P Fola, you lived a good life.
Thank you Toke for this. I watched with an open mind and I learnt a lot. Hey Fola Francis, I wish you the best as you continue on your self discovery journey. 💜
One thing I see from Fola’s TikToks is her confidence. It’s the first thing you notice before anything else. It’s definitely lovely to hear more of her❤️
I’m early yayyyy! Finally the correct video has been uploaded 🥰🥰🥰
I’m watching from texas and I’m so proud to watch this and learn more about this gender diversity and knowing that people are people and should be treated equally regardless of what they identify as. Very insightful and thank you Toke for sharing and helping to educate our African communities.
Fola is soo amazing awwww........... toke is amazing
The shades is always GIVING!!!🔥
I am so grateful Toke that you chose Fola Francis for this conversation. I am grateful to Fola Francis for giving herself to this platform and being honest and being visible.
She's so grounded and really about this life in the most honest way.
You can tell that this person has sat with herself and embraced herself genuinely. There's such calm around her. She's actually having the conversation not just yammering away. So grateful. This IS the representation.
Thank you for your kind words💖
I look forward to thursdays cos of Toke moments
I can’t wait to see Dsf on the show!!! She’s a real one omoooo and I’m sure it’ll be fun 😃
Or Nancy
I love Toke so much love love from Namibia
Love that you provided a safe space for Fola to share her story ❤
Very Very Educative!!!!
"Not you guys please!" I said the same thing😅
We’re learning oooo
Toke you are beautiful... Watching your show on Honey TV at the moment 🔥🔥🔥
I actually decided to watch this with an open mind and without judgement cos else ..... I won't get a thing from this.
May God have mercy on us all !!
Amen
And may God have mercy on you too!!
Wow! There's a lot to learn
Ughh! Love Fola! ❤️
Love this ❤
My two faves😍
Both well spoken 😊
Toke’s intelligence is so damn sexy to me❤
Love conquers all.
I love this interview #TMpod
Toke the star gal😍
The glass is giving
This is lovely
Fola has come such a long way
Toke u did it again
Thank you Toke for bringing Fola Francis. Could you please bring bobrisky? Let's get to know him too. Thank you
You like vawulence oh
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Vawulence student 😂😂
In medical school we learnt about Klinefelter syndrome and Morris syndrome. People living with these syndromes are born with XXY chromosome or androgen insensitivity. They can be born with female characteristics on the outside but on the inside they have testicles etc. We need to be educated more on this because many people going through gender crisis might be undiagnosed with these syndromes.
Thank you.
Thank you
Truly an eye opener... please I'm new in Lagos and as a corp member......I need help to get a good PPA. studied pharmacology and therapeutics..I am a persistent and diligent person..Please someone should help me😭😭🙏🙏🙏
Fola is so earthly pretty. Thank you for sharing. It must have been a difficult journey.
KEEP RESTING FOLA💔🕊️🕯️🖤🥺❤️
I follow Fola on Tiktok and she's lovely
These people are crazy!!!
This episode is really educating ❤❤❤❤
Thank you 😊
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Very Educative, well-done big.sis.
Wait oh so Nigeria done dey allow embracing sexuality of same sex trans etc. Wow
I want people to watch this and learn a lot... Time and strong head dey really change society indeed.
You’re a safe space ❤️
Fola Francis ❤❤❤❤
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This is so lovely to hear. I'm so proud of you Toke Makinwa for giving us a chance to speak. We are definitely going through a lot as a Queer man
I have always seen myself as a Gay until I realized that I am a non-binary as well!!!
LGBT community will definitely be proud of you for given us a voice❤️
First to comment yayyyy 💃💃💃💃
Parents Both pastors 😮
Toke always says she lost her parents at 8 but then she said she had a conversation/argument with her dad about Buhari becoming president. Does she have another dad?
Yeah she does her foster dad
I’m still very opinionated about issues like this but this is the first gay/trans person that really has spoken like someone who has sense! For the first time it makes a little bit of sense ! Like Fola really tried to make it make sense!
Love fola ❤️
But Toke I hope they don’t come for you as usual ooo , waiting for you to put the clip on your Instagram 😊
Exactly, cos the way ppl listen to 2mins clip and generalize is crazy
Like stop covering layer of one person and wearing your confidence 😅is everything ❤Toke is so sweet ❤
wait na my eye day pain me
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Hmmmmmmm it’s well
I knew Toke had brought him on here .. I sincerely hope he is alright
So brave
Whew...such an eye opener and enlightening..thanks for sharing your beautiful journey with us ❤️
I feel identifying as male or female is right, this help to tick the box. However, whatever gender you feel comfortable you just have to fit in. nonbinary feels confusing. Whether you want to be gay, trans, lesbian, and others, it is fine.
REMEMBER IN NIGERIA 🇳🇬 THIS IS NOT AGAINST THE LAW, THE LGBT LAW IN NIGERIA SAY IF CAUGHT IN A SEXUAL ACT... SO FOR IGNORANT PEOPLE Screaming 14YRS ,GO AND READ THE LAWS... SHE IS WITHIN THE LAW..
Me FOLA ! THE DOLL ❤
R.I.P francis
As much as our feelings are validated and we accept it, that doesn’t change biology. Gender is binary! If you open the human body you will either find x or y 🤷🏻♀️ you can’t just ask us to throw all that obvious fact away because of how we feel. Again this isn’t me invalidating anyone or their identities. I’m just saying it’s also wrong for them to say we should discard facts because they feel otherwise
How did we get here ? 😢😢
It’s so sad that we have so much low self esteem that we feel the need to adopt western delusion to feel among with the western countries. Privileged people problems
@@amagloria5466 Likee🤦🏿♀️
Stop being dishonest. What you said you’re not doing is exactly what you’re doing.
If you want to go off of fact then do that, instead of making up things.
Biology is very inconsistent. There are countless people with XX and XY chromosomes, and others with variations of X and Y chromosomes. These chromosomes aren’t separately exclusive in all of us, we’re not all the same.
BIOLOGY IS NOT CONSISTENT, GENDER IS NOT BINARY, AND YOU ARE A TRANSPHOBE. Own it with your chest and stop hiding under your faux biology argument, just to invalidate human beings that God created that are beautifully flawed. The world is not black and white.
Have a good day
@@folafrancis you are helping us prove our point you have a flaw
A mental flaw
Aka kolomental
Saying there are intersex people does not mean gender is a spectrum
Just because they’re is gray does not mean blac and white don’t exist
It’s d she-her for me 😂
Please.......... That is a MAN
Thank you ooo
It’s the need of Nigerian celebrities to act woke when it’s convenient
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It’s not called “wokeness”, it’s called being “human”. A quality you lack!
@@faithfulnessdavid2734 you are replying a non human being awwwn how delusional you must be I’m not surprised you believe in 3000 genders
Toke mix up the show darling. Shoot this ur new interview format and also the one that you just talk about anything.
This guy is intelligent 💯📌
Woman
Keeping up with the he/she's... like I still don't understand nothing 🤦♀️
wow, the body of Christ (the parents) really got attacked. WE UNDER ATTACK. chaiiii,, we keep praying, hoping that one day this demonic oppression will let him go in JESUS NAME ,,AMEN. WE STILL LOVE YOU FOLA. MAY GOD'S MERCY ENDURE.
Play the victim then turn around and spew ignorant hate. How typical!
How ignorant and foolish
But you can't just be whatever you like though 😩😩 biology is real. Science is a real thing. There are intersex people, people with Morris syndrome or Klinefelter syndrome. But saying anybody can identify as anything is not just scientifically wrong, it's also dangerous.
Hummmn
What the fuck?!
But how is she trans when she hasn’t even done gender reassigning surgery?
That's the mistake people make. Going through Medical Reassignment/Surgery is not what validate trans people. Trans people are valid regardless.
@@letstalkforreal ok I get. Well I identify as Obama’s son. I hope you can address me as that, address and validate me on that. Thanks
Powerful @folafrancis💛
Women are not a costume to try on
Louder please for those at the back. It is a lot deeper than that, down to the DNA level....
She’s a transgender woman, she’s not putting on a costume or dragging your gender with you, relax abeg, kilode?
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