How to FORGIVE others
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
- Forgiveness can be one of the most challenging things for a Christian to do. When someone has wronged you deeply, forgiveness is the last thing on your mind. And yet, God commands us to forgive each other. So in this video, we cover 3 thoughts (and 1 tip) on how to forgive those who've wronged you.
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We sinned trillions of times against God, and yet He continues to love us.
We are in no position to be unforgiving.
Amém 😊
Amen!!! absolutely true
@indigofenrir7236. Forgiveness should never be mandated, specially in the eyes of some sky God.
Indigofenrir im trying to tslk to you about a recent topic. Im baptist but most of all belidve in Christ Jesus as my savior. Now I do like anime alot i grew up with it. I like the figures as art pieces not worship. I know the money spending is wrong but is it seriously bad to collect figures as a hobby when i know rhey are fake? Looking for your opinion
@@JimC1984 James, you believe in Jesus, whom the world hates. Now we are free to enjoy what's in this world, but not everything is beneficial. Attachment to earthly stuff leads to obsession, and that takes away your attention from the Lord.
We watch anime for the storyline and values, yes? That's no different from reading a book or listening to a song, quite harmless. But if we watch it for the fanservice then that's now a problem.
You probably don't collect anime figurines to study body positions and proportions for your art projects and commissions, but to look at them. How's that any different from dragons hoarding gold?
Lust of the eyes, my friend.
It's especially difficult to forgive those who don't even ask for forgiveness or feel any regret at all...
Yet your own religion mandates it so… why even subscribe to it?
Same. I struggle a lot with this. And when I try to forgive I feel stupid.
Forgiveness is not about whether the person deserves our forgiveness or not, but by forgiving we decide to release ourselves from anger so that we are not overcome by that anger. Give it to God and pray, He will heal you.
@@jeremymoses2646 Amen!
Here are my thoughts.
If they don't ask for forgiveness, you don't have to tell them directly that you forgive them, but you can pray for them and for yourself. Don't keep negativity and even desires for revenge. If you become bitter, you'd just suffer.
"treat them like they never wronged you" powerful
امين
Hel no, I’m not treating them like anything because once they wronged me that’s it. I’m never talking to you again
@@LilXancheXMatthew 18:21-22
King James Version
21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
Matthew 6:14-15
New International Version
14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
1 John 4:20
New International Version
20 Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.
John 3:3
New International Version
3 Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.[a]”
@@LilXancheX hey, you just have to remember, that Jesus once died for us even though we are sinners, and we did not deserve to be forgiven.
and yet he forgave us! so if Jesus can forgive us for sinning which is a BIG DEAL for him, why can't WE forgive others when they wronged us?
I know it's hard to forgive sometimes, I have been there many times, but you just have to pray to God, and think about it. eventually if you have the heart, you'll be able to forgive them❤
@@LilXancheX Jesus didn't do that so why should you do that?
God answered my prayer by showing me this video in the right time ✝️❤️
I think it was the algorithm.
@@spasteriskalgorithism amen
I never realized how much pain I was carrying around with unforgiveness. I wasn't hurting those who hurt me by not forgiving them, they probably couldn't give a damn about what I think, I was hurting myself and my relationship with God. I can't believe I was saying Jesus' death was not enough and justifying my hatred. I've heard this message of forgiveness before but it wasn't until today that I received it. I really needed this, thank you.
And now you are primed and ready to be abused by someone else your god will not help you with.
I am a very selfish person and I have a lot of hatred in my heart. Sometimes when I cannot forgive people using my own will, I pray to God and I ask God to help me forgive them.
Forgiveness sets you free , from any spirituele attachment, or emotional attachment.
Prayer helps, i believe that.
It was really hard to forgive the man that SA'd me when I was 15. I managed to forgive and I really hope God forgives him too
That thumbnail is the absolute best...and most appropriate 😂👍🏿👍🏿❤️❗️
It made me lol 😂
Please pray for my friend everyone. He’s a lost sheep and every prayer helps him get closer to God
i prayed for you
@@ImpactVideoMinistries thank you for making a change
Just prayed!
UN-forgiveness is like a cancer. Untreated it will certainly destroy your body.
I watched one of my brothers living in UN-forgiveness, it was hard to watch him fall. Everyone was at fault never him. He was being eaten up inside. He drank was an alcoholic in toward the end he cut everyone out of his life. I mean everyone. So heartbreaking 😢
He decided to cancel himself out of this life. More heartbreaking💔😢
I tried so many times to help him. He would not open his heart.more heartbreaking 💔 💔💔💔
So this May 15th will be 2 years since his passing.
No matter how hard it may be to forgive it is not only your body but your spirit that is effected.
This video is extremely important.
I was blessed a long while ago to have a forgiving heart. Compassion and empathy were my gifts in Jesus. And a forgiving spirit too.
It comes with blessings and challenges. It is not all roses and sunny. But I would rather have those challenges than a spiritually ridden cancer of body heart and mind.
To those struggling with forgiveness, this information may help tremendously!
God bless 🙌🏼🙏🏼💝
The issue with me is that I always forgive, but I don't always forget. In other words, when I'm wronged, I don't keep bitterness in my heart, but my heart is still on high alert if something was super horrible to me.
Now, see, as a child, when you were abused by the same person taking you to church, it was very difficult to FORGET when the abuse continued to happen again and again. But, that is the point of being a Christian, you must be a perpetual victim.
That sound more like exercising wisdom than holding a grudge.
@nvgboiyes6386 guess so because holding a grudge is intentionally remembering bad event action from person and saying it to them with hatred
@@tiredofliars Not all Christians are abusers
@@IsraelCountryCubebut forgiving is making the situation like it never happened, and it won’t affect you when you hear about it again.
Finally...this is what I have been looking for...A tutorial from a Christian on how to forgive others. I am really trying my best to master my Forgiving because of everything that had me wrong.
You never know how much I need this now.. God, You always finds a way to remind Your people.. I want to forgive those who wronged me as You have forgiven me of all my sins 🙏
Thank you for this. When I was in a bed and I am scrolling in youtube and then I found this video. Because someone hurted me last time when he ruins my friendship with my favorite friend. I can't forgive him but when I see this video, I prayed to Lord and then I said, "will I ever forgive him". I felt it and praise God, I forgive him because how Christ died for us to forgive us. Thanks you and Godbless you more.
Oh LORD help me to easily forgive 🙏❤
This video came timely in my life. I am going through a season of betrayal from a person I loved, and I couldn’t help but always think about the wrong they have caused me. If anyone is out there going through the same, I pray that God help you and me to forgive and let’s pray until we can completely forgive and forget! God bless you
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. -Romans 12:21-
Amen 🙏
HALLELUYAH!! JESUS IS LORD!! LORD HELP ME TO FORGIVE OTHER LIKE YOU FORGIVE ME!! IN JESUS NAME AMEN!! 🙏🏻🤍🕊✝️🫶
I am going through a very tough season in my life at the moment.
This video was definitely not by accident. God most definitely put it there for me to see.
I'm praying for the Holy Spirit to help me and teach me to forgive and forget. As my Lord and savior did for me. Aaaaaaaaaand it is so hard because the hurt prevents me from doing so. The most important part is to keep praying and to keep the faith even stronger
It’s a bit difficult to forgive someone you cannot talk to anymore. Don’t go down that path
Forgiving myself is always the hardest person to forgive. God I know has forgiven and let my past self go, but I can’t bc I see the results of my actions everyday in my family that’s broken apart. I love you Lord for your mercy.
El perdón es sanador, no solo porque mejora las relaciones sociales y nuestro crecimiento espiritual sino que también nos ayuda a nosotros, al fin y al cabo todo lo que Dios nos ha encomendado es por AMOR y por nuestro bien, y perdonar es un acto de amor hacia todos y de ayuda a nosotros mismos.
Perdonamos porque Él nos perdonó primero.
AMÉN
Amen🙏🏻
Jesus loves you
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺He loves you too. Blessings @@Jesus_is_king1234
Amén 🤍
He loves you too, sweetie!!!@@Jesus_is_king1234
Thanks for your awesome videos ❤ BUT, I just want to say here, that there is a difference between "not keeping records of wrong" and "treating someone as if they never hurt us". And this distinction is absolutely not a trivial one! Keeping score and keeping records of wrong can't possibly co-exist with forgiveness. True! And absolutely, sometimes minor offenses both can and should be forgotten. But other offences simply can't and teaching that "not forgetting" is in contrast to "not forgiving" is dangerous. Not only for the severely abused that struggles with forgiving because they falsely have been taught that would constitute also forgetting, but also for the severely abused that needs to stay far away from the person who abused them! Some people are simply not safe! Not in their current state. That does not mean that we cannot forgive them. We can forgive them, and yet, still recognize that they are not safe and that they must be treated as the potential threats that they very much still are. You can forgive and pray for the man who raped and abused you for years, and you will find tremendous freedom and healing in doing so. It will help you grow beyond and above the horrible things you endured. But that doesn't mean that you should start treating the person who did all these things to you as if it never happened! That isn't biblical either. To not "see" the sin, like God does no longer see our sins after He forgave us, is not the same as ignoring it was ever there to begin with. It means we should no longer focus our energy and attention on it after we have forgiven the person who harmed us. But, we can still know (a.k.a remember) that the person harmed us so that we can avoid putting our trust in that person again as long as they are still the same person. Remembering is also not a hindrance for loving someone that abused or mistreated you. Dwelling on it and focusing on it is. But acknowledgment that this abuse altered your life and who you are is the honest and safe way to both forgiveness of the abuser and you own healing in Christ. All I'm saying is, that it is a little more complicated than "forgive and forget".
@@justsomeyoutubechannel2023 It seems to me that, at best, you only skimmed my text before you decided for yourself what I wrote - and what I believe and don't believe. Your response has absolute no correlation to my post! Not only do you quote me completely wrong, but you also make a very problematic assumption...
- I absolutely did NOT write ANYTHING about ANY sin not being forgivable, neither by God himself nor by us. Please direct me, with correct quotation this time, to the place in my text where I make that statement?
- I NEVER wrote, nor did I even come close to hinting at, the statement that there are sins the precious blood of Jesus can't pay for!
- I NEVER wrote, nor did I even come close to hinting at, that there are people God can't heal!
- I NEVER wrote ""but other offences simply can't [be forgiven.]" You can't even interpret what I actually wrote in that way. What I wrote is this: "And absolutely, sometimes minor offenses both can and should be FORGOTTEN. But other offences simply can't (BE FORGOTTEN!... follows the logic of the sentence as a whole). Forgiven, yes, absolutely! But simply forgetting completely isn't always possible in a physical sense and we can cause harm to people who are struggling with this if we demand that they completely forget or else their forgiving is invalid. It simply isn't so. Have you completely forgotten every single thing in your life another person has ever done that hurt you? Now imagine being tortured and abused for years and years by the person that should love you, care for you and protect you. Imagine the abuse being so severe and cruel that you lost the ability to ever carry children. Even lost the ability to ever walk again. Can you forgive such an ordeal? Yes. By the love and mercy of our mighty God and by His power and His healing you can come to a place where even that can be forgiven. But does that mean you can and should forget completely? That would mean you could - and should - continue to live with the man that did this to you... because he has now never done that to you, right? That would be the case if you should "treat him as if it never happened". Even if that made him keep abusing you? No, of course not! That's a silly question. You should no longer focus on the harm that was done to you, but set your focus on God - and remember that this person is dangerous to you (as long as he is the person that harmed you and not a new person in Jesus... as I wrote!) CAN you even forget and is that a realistic expectation God has of you? No, of course not! Because your life is forever altered by the trauma and pretending it didn't happen is not the same as healing from it! Not even close. You can't "forget" away the fact that you no longer can have a child of your own. It has nothing to do with forgiveness. It's a simple physiological fact you have to live with. Are you suggesting that it would be possible, and that God would demand, that you forget the fact that you can't have children (and subsequently are forced to remember why)? No, of course not. Should you forget that you have scars all over your body after chunks of your flesh were cut out? Forget that you are in a wheelchair and just act as if you could walk? Again, a dumb question of course. When you are forced to remember, you should not also be burdened with the opinions of those who do not understand and can't relate that you haven't been "forgiving" enough because you haven't also "forgotten". God understands and He is the only judge of your heart. He knows if you have truly forgiven or not. If He grants full and miraculous recovery and complete "forgetting" (amnesia), then it is His mercy and His will. Praise to Him. But if He doesn't, neither you, nor I, nor anyone else should judge this tortured and abused child of God for not having "forgotten" because they are clearly still in a wheelchair and by extension forced by circumstance to remember why! That is not in accordance with the bible and that is the essence of what I wrote.
You write that I start out with the assumption that God is not omnipotent... There is absolutely NOTHING in my text that hints at that. Not a single thing.
i don't understand why you chose to respond in the fashion you did, and especially after not even reading my post with just a little bit of care. But Maybe you are one of those people on the internet who just likes to start fires. I really hope not. I write this long response to you in the hope that it is not the case. I hope that you just skimmed my text, misunderstood it completely, and got upset because you assumed I was saying something else than what I was actually saying. Peace be with you ❤✝
not much about forgiving others but to forgive myself for being so irrational and unjust of the way I treat others as compared to how they treat me...
God's timing couldn't be better. I had a rough day at work and was having thoughts of yelling at my boss. Then I saw this video on lunch and am watching it now.
Are you thinking of forgiving your boss or something? Could just be general stress.
Yeah..
We thank God..
And I hope you put to practice what you heard..?
@Doom0728 yeah I'll work on forgiving him. Something I try to remind myself which is similar to what the video said with Jesus dying for your enemies is that my enemies and the most evil people in the world are loved equally as much in the eyes of God as me.
@@anoncooks Forgiving your boss? Really? I bet if he knew that you feel you deserved an apology from him, he would fire you! Your boss is Paying you to do a Job, HIS WAY. If you don’t like being paid to follow directions, then maybe you should listen to Jesus, abandon your family and home, give all you have to the poor (not the church) and follow Jesus, nahhhh! That would be stupid wouldn’t it?!
@tiredofliars dude what's your problem?
Shalom, I was sexually abused as a child by my uncle, God taught me that there is no mercy without forgiveness . He had me understand that people remain prisoners without forgiveness and I didn't want my uncle to be a prisoner. The Holy Spirit prayed in me a prayer of such forgiveness that what my uncle had done wouldn't be found on judgement day. I admit that when someone seeks to continually hurt us without ever repenting is very difficult, a real test beyond my strength sometimes until God Himself helps me
These videos are amazing! God bless you and thank you for spreading the powerful word of God ❤
I've avoided this video so much because i myself have had an unforgiving heart. I'm ready now
I do believe in forgiving. I do believe in treating them as they never wronged you. But there are some offenses that you could never forget.
There are others who repatativly wrong you. Even after you forgave them 70 x 7. You would be foolish to let such people back into your life. But you still can forgive.
We are supposed to be wise, and it's wise to not blindly trust people, especially if they have given a reason to not be trusted. But yeah, it's important to forgive and forget, as in to not ruminate those memories and constantly remind the wrondoer of it, I think we're not really supposed to literally forget. Treat them as if they didn't do those things, but there is no need to force yourself to keep them in your life. Not that it's easy, of course, it's very hard. But thanks to God, not impossible.
@user-ji1hb7wy8d you are seeking validation, so desperately at that. If someone sexually molested you, please don't act as if they never wronged you. Your advice is ridiculous. You are so fake
@@user-ji1hb7wy8d Exactl You can forgive people without being a doormat or a punching bag.
My gran always said "forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to jump back in to bed with them" 😂😂😂
Forgiveness is like this. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
“While we may not be able to forgive, God can make it possible for us.” This is profound. Thank you for the reminder that God is always bigger. God bless you and this channel, your videos are so empowering in Christ. Thanks 🙏🏽
This is probably one of the most important videos on CZcams, for all of us.
-Especially me-
If Jesus can forgive those who pierced Him then I can forgive. If Jesus can forgive me a wretched horrible sinner who has also done wrong to others then I can forgive. We HAVE to let what is done to us go because the toxicity of hate and un forgiveness is horrible to live with. NOTHING Jesus said and commands is incorrect. When we give it up into His hands He shows us the way. What a magnificent God we serve! Hallelujah 😊✝️🙌💕
Amen 🙏
Forgiveness is a choice
This video answered my prayer thanks
Me too praise the Lord
Thank you for the three steps and bonus of forgiving a person.❤
- In Jesus Name we pray Amen 🙏
The thumbnail is everything
though i have not been bullied much at all, i feel for those who do... too much. I start to harbour hatred for the bullies, especially the ones who cause others to kill themselves. I need to let go of it.
God bless all Jesus God and the Holy Spirit. Love you all.
Dear Impact Video Ministries,
I don’t know if you will see this comment but if you do i wanted to say to never stop what you are doing. Don’t let haters get the best of you, and keep doing you. You have touched so many lives by doing these! 🤍
Amen ive been a having a grudge on someone this day but i found this, i really think God is sending me a mesage to forgive them Amen🙏🙏
The moment you said "alright" I actually nodded in tears.😅 You felt like an older brother teaching me😊. . Thanks a lot. Praying for your work. ❤
Some tips for those who struggle with forgiving:
In most cases, there’s a reason behind the wrongdoing that’s been done to you. Put yourself in the other person’s shoes and see if you can at least find a reason they might’ve done what they’ve done. This is most helpful in cases of miscommunication or assumed malicious intent.
In cases with hurt on both sides, check yourself before focusing on the wrong of the other party. Is there something you could find that you’ve done that wasn’t good? In my experience, forgiveness comes a lot quicker once we realize and say that we’ve done wrong ourselves. Helps build empathy and tends to help the other party do a bit of self reflection as well.
Jesus is the LORD!!!!
I recently accepted Jesus in my life and I'm struggling hard with this concept. Thank you, the timing is perfect (personally). I'm grateful. God Bless.
This is kind so long, but I do stay in topic. I really pray what I say helps you. It seems like such a long time ago, but I got saved in 2019 so I'm still relatively new in the Faith myself.
Remember, repentance is a process. Turning from sin is a process, it won't always be easy. So when it comes to things like unforgiveness, think about repentance as though you are driving your vehicle.
Your vehicle is always going to make turning a process, it will never be an about face, the vehicle will always make some sort of curve.
That's generally how our walk with Jesus is. Forgiveness will always be a process, especially if it's a family member or friend.
Someone we have a long history with, it can be easy to keep score of the ways that person has done wrong. When we forgive, we must also address our own pride which can get in the way of our walk with Jesus.
I'll end with this, sometimes people have issues with forgiveness because of an overzealous and prideful disposition. Peter is a classic case study of this. He is the most outspoken of all the disciples.
If you haven't yet, you will read about Peter telling Jesus "I will NEVER DENY YOU"! Jesus stating that "Before the rooster crows, you will deny me 3 times ."
Of course Jesus was right, and after the resurrection, Peter is shown to be forgiven. Later on Peter wrote in one of his letters, found in the back end of the Bible "For God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble".
The life of Peter can teach us about humility and forgiveness.
Seeing someone forgive a person who has hurt them is a powerful witness for the Gospel. It wasn't until I fully understood the Cross that I could understand a woman who forgave her son's killer. Jesus is worthy of all glory and honour and praise.
Forgiveness is done in confidence with God and the concerned individuals- it's private and confidential- Generally preachers keep on pushing individuals to Forgive And Forgive like a broken record- where it shows that preachers themselves have some hypocritical issues that bothers them within and they take out their insecurities on society- other church members 🙏Thank you 🙏
I got something to say, I probably came to this video not because I hold grudges against people, but I probably clicked this video because I want to find a way to forgive others. Since God wants me to forgive others, then I want to forgive others as well.
Shout out to the artist because the illustrations to advertise the video be taking me OUT 😂😂 God bless y’all!!! ❤
I understand what you mean about forgiving people who seem unforgivable. I'm currently going through a divorce from someone who is a liar, a cheat and a thief. God restored my spirit, my energy and my money she stole. I prayed so hard for months! Saying, lord I absolutely cannot forgive on my own, I need you! Months and months later I'm actually getting there. I also feel after the court date it'll be even better for me. God bless you guys! Much love, keep praying! 🙏
So, you are talking about a woman you took a vow to god, to love and cherish, in richer, poorer, sickness (unless it is mental of course, then the vow to god is off) and health. Understood, you are the epitome of modern Christinsanity.
This video called me ask the way out and I’m encouraged by it to begin a difficult journey in forgiving others 🙏🏾 please pray for me
God is possible, all powerful, mercyful, faithful, fair, *Love*, grace, victorious.. Everything ❤
This. This is the video I needed. I’m going through a custody battle for my daughter, and there has been so much I’ve been learning to forgive myself and her mother for. I was majorly in the wrong overall (recovering alcoholic/drug addict), and after giving my heart to Jesus on July 21st, 2023 which was 183 days ago today, I am 183 days sober as well. I’m learning from the Bible first but these videos are always good to follow up with. God bless this channel
God may bless you and your daughter
To who ever is reading, I hope you have a blessed day 😊
When we refuse to give forgiveness, we become hypocrites, because we are willing to accept gods forgiveness and not give forgiveness .... Thats the part that got me.
Help me Lord Jesus...
I'm so thankful to God for using this ministry to share the word of God, and encourage us in times of challenges ❤🫂🦋
I want to take a moment to thank you, finding your channel was one of the best things to happen to me. I have always been a believer of Christ, but my faith was becoming stagnant. But one night, I stumbled across one of your videos and loved it, it really spoke to me and I truly believe I was ment to see it. My eyes were opened, later that night I finally sat down and read my Bible and when I was finished with Matthew I had an honest to God conversation with the Lord. Ever since then I have been on the path to be the best Christian I can be. Thank you
The thumbnail warms my heart... Seeing Jesus trying to protect the person and stop the angered one... touching...
I forgiving everybody that did me wrong but it's hard for me to forgive myself and I don't know where to start😔
I AM WITH THE MIND OF GOD ❤❤❤❤❤
When the quote "I have no enemies", relates from the bible. 😳.
I had hard times forgiving someone but after this, i feel better 😊😊
Prayer really, really helps! Here's a few things that have helped me forgive people easier, 1) thinking of my own sins and thinking about how I want to be forgiven. I earnestly want to be forgiven for my wrongs and while I understand that there's people out there who aren't sorry for wronging you, this moves onto step 2) thinking of hell. It's eternal, never ending, it's horrible painful torment no matter how many years pass, no matter how sorry someone is then. I think of that person in hell for eternity, thinking of a hundred billion years passing, and the pain never ends. It breaks my heart knowing there's many, many people out there that will live a suffering existence for eternity and it makes me feel a deep sorrow for them. 3) focus on that sorrow and realizing these people are hurting themselves far more than they could ever hurt me. This leads me to the final step, 4) praying that person understands what they're doing so they stop and come to our Lord so they may be saved from hell. No matter how much someone has hurt me, the thought of them suffering for eternity is such a horrifying thought that it leads me directly to prayer every time my emotions calm down.
❤Thank you
Whispering hurt😢 but bertram patient be kind be nice be safe be responsible be your best 🙏
Amen to our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ.
I’ve been struggling to forgive a family member recently because they’ve cause me so much pain in my life. I haven’t talked to them really in a month and this next time I talk to them, I’m going to set healthy boundaries with how often I see them and talk to them. I’ve been praying for them for awhile now and I really do hope they make some changes in their life and cry out to Jesus for guidance.
You have been praying for a while, and instead of forgiving, you are going to set boundaries, Good for you. God isn’t doing ANYTHING about it, so you should take it into your own hands.
@@tiredofliars Nice try, but it is God who gives us the strength to make those changes.
@@abundantharmony good try, but can you Prove it?
@@tiredofliars my life is proof.
@@abundantharmony No, your life is proof of evolution.
Your videos has helped me to become a good Christian
im so thankful :)
I've had a hard time forgiving someone for over 40 years, but I see now that it's time. We aren't the ones to pass judgement, only God can do that so why waste our energy on hating, being mad at someone.🙏✝️
It's my understanding that we are to forgive those who harm us and pray for our enemies. It does not mean God expects you to be friends or be around these people.
Amen. May God's love and mercy conquer all.
Love that you did this. Pray you keep leading other to Jesus
You can forgive, but still hold accountable
Beautifully said. If God can forgive the most heinous of sins, we should do our best to do so as well.
I was not forgiving to people but now I learns so much thank you😊😊 forgive me Jesus
I was filled with rage and disgust for a bit. But then i remembered i have transgressed just the same in the past. We have all sinned at some point. I got my karma, and i accept it. Now i will be extremely careful who i sureound myself with. I will no longer hurt myself nor the people who love me. I will be a spearhead of Gods will and help others become better people to stop this cycle of sin that we harm each other with. Jesus im sorry for my transgressions and i forgive those who tresspassed against me. Fill my heart with love so that i can go out and do your bidding. Amen.
I don't know why I bump into this😢
MY real mother she abandoned me when I was only 3 months and and now I'm 23yrs old and I really find it difficult to forgive her... because she wanted to throw me into a river..thank God my grandma was there to rescue me..and since I was a kid she never bothered to help me with anything even the school fees and she was still alive..she hated me soo badly than you can imagine
But I hope one day I'll be able to forgive her it's soo hard to carry all this in my heart I need to release it😢😢😢😢😢😢
I believe forgiving people that wronged you is nothing short of a miracle that happens when we let God work in our hearts. I used to hate my family, especially my dad for the things he did but with the help of Jesus and by His Spirit, I could make peace with them.
[3] For we ourselves were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another. [4] But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, [5] not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, [6] whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior,
Titus 3:3-6
This is such a breath of fresh air.. Dear God put in me the spirit to forgive and let go and find peace within me❤❤❤
I loved someone once and I was hurt deeply. It took me a long time to forgive because I tried doing it myself. But when I did it with the help of God it was so much easier for me. I do forgive thIs person, I wish them well, and sometimes I find myself wondering why but feel comfortable in the now and wish them to do be happy in life. I do find myself missing her sometimes. That will take time but I do not hate her and I do forgive her
Believe me i want to forgive the people who have hurt me
man! That’s so crazy how legit all the time the videos upload when needed most. God is so awesome his timing… man..
I find forgiving but not forget they did to me is actually impossible to do. When you act like they never wronged you in the first place but then they did it again, all the emotions you have been holding up this entire time will going to explode. Like it or not, you will also remember on what they did to you in the past and bring it up again, even though you already forgave them.
This is a difficult thing for me especially with what Lil Nas X has been doing, I’m going to try my best to forgive him.
Please please know that this channel is changing me !! Be blessed that this is happening in this new person !
The thumbnail got me cackling like a crow 😂😂😂 But i know how to forgive and all is forgiven in their wrong towards me
I am tired of being stalked and harassed. Over 17 years of it.
I have never stuggled with people that express remorse for the harm they caused and wanted to repair the relationship. It's the ones that recognize the impact their actions had on me but still insist that they aren't responsible or were justified that i don't know what to do with.
"Effortless Forgiveness" by Ed Smith is a good book to read if you're struggling to forgive.
Good morning, this is awesome a good lesson to share
I have truly forgive some who have forgive, and repent asking the Lord to forgive me as well too.
The people that hurt me were family. I've been praying so hard to forgive but I believe God will help me, I don't ever what the pain to hold me back everytime I think about where they did
I literally got recommended this right after I got in a fight with a friend
I think we also have to learn it is not our job to judge others but rather it should be that we must learn to surrender it to God!
This Video uploaded on the right day for me, THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS 🙏
Remember, compared to our large, forgiven debt, others' wrongs are little debts! (Relatively speaking)
I just remind myself that nothing anyone has done to me isn't even close to what Christ Jesus went through to forgive us. It's not so hard after this!
That is so right, look at his entire history, first he is one of the sons of god, then god decides he wants one of his sons to be BEGOTTEN, so Jesus goes through an 11 to 14 year old girl, having magically been placed there by an angel. Then he is born in a lowly manger, but then he is given gold, frankincense and myrrh, he spends a very rich childhood, then as a young adult has enough funds still to travel all over the country fomenting treason against the government so, over a three or four day period, all of that is stripped from him, and he has to suffer pain for the first time in 3000 years, he dies, but not really because he is actually god in disguise,and after three days all his pain and suffering is over, FOREVER. SO a whole half of a week is enough to cover all the sins of all true beLIEvers, because then he returned to heaven to watch all of humanity suffer sometimes a lifetime of pain. But that three or four days for the literal god is enough to cover ALL sins. LOL!
Forgiving a person who is trying to pretend they did not harm you is incredibly hard. Sometimes people will just refuse to acknowledge what they have done to you and it is not easy to forgive them especially when while you are doing it they still stand there and act like they did nothing.
You can not allow room in your life for such people. At some point you must accept that they are lost to the liar and that they serve him and will not change. These people will allow hate to fester in your heart and compramise your walk with God. Even if they are family or close friends.
Eventually you must forgive and no longer allow them to harm you. All you are doing is giving them more chances to gain Gods wrath. For those who harm his servants he will bring about great punishment.
I hope you can all forgive those who wrong you I know it is hard I know so much pain and anguish that I just want to be free of this world but I have to keep enduring and suffering. May God bless you and keep you safe.
One of the hardest people to forgive in my experience…is myself. I know im not the only one
I remember hearing a that said, “God is dead and we have killed him”. I don't remember who said that and I know it's not true. In my own words, what has happened in the world in the last century is not the result of God’s “death” it's the result of humans, as a society, have forgotten how to forgive each other and ourselves.