Japan's Most Famous MILF [ENG CC]
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- Netorare, 'NTR', is a genre where one person in a relationship gets cucked through adultery. This is very common to see in the Japanese porn and some people worry that makes Japan's cheating culture even worse. But to be fair, we should get to know what Japan's most famous MILF actress who has appeared in those NTR films has to say about it.
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0:00 Contexts
0:53 How she started it
2:12 How many films she appeared in
2:53 Popularity of MILF in Japan
4:25 Does it cause cheating?
5:24 Dating in her private life
6:00 Does it embarrass you?
6:58 Is it really OK for married women?
7:41 When do you retire?
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Nobita, you interviewed Japanese cheaters before. Could you also interview people who were cheated on? I'd like to hear their story and how they dealt with their partners when they found out.
In my country there have been cases where people killed their partner because of cheating. Aren't crimes like these happening in Japan?
No. And just because someone cheats on someone else, killing a person is the absolute worst thing that can possibly be done as retaliation. Killing is far far far worse than cheating. It is not okay in any way.
@@koshka02 ehhhhhhhhh i dont know about that one cheif, betrayal on this level is way worse than murder.
That's a good idea for a video!
I've lived in Japan for 17 years and got divorced after a 12 year marriage when I found out my (now ex) wife was cheating. You (I hope) have no idea the damage that cheating does. It's borderline "life ending" for not just yourself, but the person who cheated on you as well. It destroyed my life 5 years ago, but I'm still in Japan and am remarried, but still "damaged" forever from the experience.
@@koshka02 cheating is a worse crime than murder idk what you talking about
Folks are so enamored with NTR and hook up culture that they actually believe there’s nothing wrong with it. If you’re tired of the one you’re with move on from them. Don’t waste their time lying to them like you love them when you don’t.
That's some "sage" advice friend😊
@@espion2KX I appreciate that
NO
NTR ?
@@rohandante neotare (NTR). It’s another way of saying cheating in Japanese.
Cheating is damn disgusting and no one should be ok with it.
I'd be aroused seeing my wife cumming on a fat rod! Speak for yourself
Yeah, nobody cheats in the US. 🤣🤣🤣
100% agreed.
I don't tolerate cheating. Faithfulness and loyalty go both ways.
Nobita always asking the real questions.
Lets do some math... using the numbers she gaven us, she's been doing this 25 years, or roughly 9,131.25 days (365.25 days * 25 years). We also know from this interview that she has made at least 2,700 videos. Meaning that she would had to make a NTR video every 3.3819 days, or every 81.17 hours to achieve 2,700 videos in 25 years. For a genre that's about being unfaithful, she's more committed to this genre then many people are to their own marriage.
she had a film every 3 days
First she said cheating isn't good then goes on to say that married women who are doing this are good as they can explore sxx desires. Like wtf bro.....its like the biggest irony
Hypocrisy. That's why in my opinion discussing this with porn stars is pointless. Especially if they're currently in the industry.
Exactlyyyy. I can’t wrap my head around it. I’ve seen these similar ass backwardness from previous wives that he interviewed that became pornstars. Make it make sense
@@tinkornhardfist7574 he interviewed a porn actress that was in a marriage and his husband knew she was doing porn and was fine with it so you cant call this cheating so its not all hypocrisy you just want to make her look bad with your interpretation thats all
@@mikeysmoooth5322 humans for the most part dont make sense, especially you thinking you know it all, you cant look in peoples head so you will not be able to understand every thought process so why even bother you seem very confused but its actually not important if you can wrap your head around it. You can always just dont look but you choose to get offended so I am asking you the question.
@@RichiSpilleso The mental gymnastics that these people will do to justify their immoral behavior are hilarious. No one needs to make her look bad. She's doing very well on her own.
The problem is that by letting the idea fester as "well it's not actually happening", is that it creates an excuse to lookup the content people should be avoiding instead; that one thought of it's just "one thing" has a chance to grow and become something worse later on. Relationships are meant to be important, not just casual things.
43 years old, Kazama-san, says the Japanese are serious people and would not dare to do things like cheating.
And in today's Japan, cheating is normalized.
Man, times have changed so quickly... Damn...
So It's ok for married women to do this type of work? What about the husband? Look I've heard about the lovless and sexless marriges in Japan. I wish she would have elaborated a bit more there. It really is the norm for a wife to just go out and be a pornstar right under the husbands nose? I'm also refrencing the other wives that you interviewed that became pornstars too without telling their husband beforehand, that's crazy.
Shouldn't they just talk to to each other about each others fantasies? What's the point of even being in a relationship if they are just gonna cheat... I just don't get it.
May Japan be able to solve their problems someday, there's still tons of animes I'd like to watch😢😢
Cheating is something I will never forgive in a relationship, if this happens to me someday, this will be the end of this relationship too.. She can take her leave and I never want see her face again... Don't have escuses for this shit..
@@noripee8278are you married? And if single do you count that as cheating?
@@Hay8137g Whether you are married or not, it is absolutely unacceptable to sleep with someone if you have a partnar.
I don't know a single Japanese parson who doesn't care if their boyfriend or girlfriend has physical relations with other people.
@@NattouNingen so what is this about then?
@@Hay8137g I don't understand.
Would you ask again in other words？
Cheating is absolutely unacceptable.
Humans be humaning. Overthinking and overexerting effort is basically a losing endeavor and will only yield diminishing returns on most things, not just "marriage".
Feels like Japan is slowly going downhill to selfdestruction. Watching Nobitas all interviews you will notice why Japan is slowly dying. It becomes clearer why the birthrate is dipping already under dangerous levels.
Human civilization has always been in decline and constant flux. Modern society has only been around for really less than 100 years.
Lol. They always been wolves in sheep clothes
It is happening everywhere not just in Japan.
Its crazy how treating people like cogs will be bad for them
It's like they are doing anything but something that would help families. Young girls become prostitutes, Host clubs to get fake boyfriends that drain their money, and Guys get addicted to porn and meaningless rental girlfriends and stuff. Not to mention the work culture. Nothing to encourage people to get into serious relationships and have families.
I do not think that any kind of fictional media "causes" any real life behaviour. It's like in the early 2000's debate about whether violent video games cause violence. No they don't, and I do not think that NTR porn or hentai "causes" cheating. What I rather think is, that the existance of NTR porn proves that the desire for cheating was already existant and they seek a way to express or experience that fantasy. Just like with other forms of porn. I do no tthink that anyone who doesn't already like cheating, or the thought of cheating would watch an NTR in the first place, but even if that person did he wouldn't just suddenly think "okay now I want to cheat."
sadly NTR has often very attractive actress or in hentai anime good animation so people who might not even care for the story watch it anyways. And just because I watched NTR I was never once seriously thinking about cheating on my girlfriend even if I could.. its very sad when people believe this opinion and blame NTR porn...
It does normalize the thing. Like incest is unspeakably horrible thing, but porn has brought the concept more into the mainstream. So it makes incest a topic of casual conversation. I don't know whether incest porn has caused a rise in incest, but more tame forms of porn do carry over from fiction into reality. BDSM is the perfect example. Choking has become way more common now. So in conclusion, I do understand your perspective, but porn does normalize things that should rightfully be perceived as disgusting.
@@VedantFalconand dangerous
海外の生む育った日本人としてNTRの魅力が全く解らなくて、とても苦手です。浮気をノルマ化したエロ作品がどんどん増えて、「日本人が自分を傷つくのが好き？」って発送が抱いております😞
As a Japanese born and raised overseas, I don't get the appeal and think it's really toxic if everyone normalizes using cheating in their works. Makes me think that my fellow Japanese like to hurt themselves😞
i wouldnt be surprised if they did, there is alot of people with self harm tendencies that might look fine on the outside
Nobita-san is probably the only reporter who has bothered to interview the people at the very heart of these sensitive topics. Mainstream media should take note.
yes, the more you fantasize and romanticize infidelity, they more you encourage it. Actions and choices follow beliefs and desires. They more you encourage a way of thinking, you encourage certain behavior. Infidelity in marriage is a HUGELY destructive societal influence.
She seems pretty direct and honest. I don’t agree with her stance that it’s ok for married women to cheat on her husband by going into porn. That disconnect is unbelievable to me.
get used to it. the west is no different except that women here are less overt about it but they still do it. women be women.
Is the husband allowed to have his 'fun' outside as well then?
@@trence5 That is the main question, indeed.
Cheating is something disgusting and cannot be forgiven
I agree, in my opinion trust is number one thing that should be in a relationship/marriage. Once the trust is over and isn't there anymore, nothing else matters.
Forgive those who offend you as the Lord above has forgave you for your sins
But yeah, cheating sucks and the one who got cheated on should end the relationship
@@riverblack123 Since there were no sins to forgive nor any lord to forgive them?
Other than *that*, Mrs. Lincoln. . . .
@@Kakeen Yes, I agree with you
@@riverblack123 For me, I don't want to use religion for this
Yet another terrific interview ( it’s so strange how nearly all the Japanese porn actresses you interview seem so more self-aware than the trashy women in western porn?)....anyway regarding rise in cheating, I think there evidence it’s also rapidly increasing in western couples ( certainly under 35s) and especially in women in relationships. I suspect it’s due to rise of apps/ social media , unrealistic expectations and a commodification of relationships ...”not getting what I want here, I’ll go elsewhere for fun”?..but I’ll still keep the convenience of partner/provider.
Japanese porn actress aren't aware you're perspective is dumb western hate it's not going to save your argument
You pretty much hit the nail on the head
It's a character issue, it's easier for bad people to be bad but I don't think that's an excuse for not having character and being an ass
All porn actress are trash
What’s this got to do with the west?
Really interesting ❤ thanks for your hard work Nobita ☺️
Cheating in Philippines will kill you or go prison. Simple if wife cheats accidentally find out inside house u actually killed them both you are not go jail if provide it. Cheating have society stigma and law so hard for people commented crime
@@noripee8278 what type work u do ❓ if avoid them use own transportation scooter. Have strategy and tactics fight them by avoid if not use internet show bad behavior make sure don't Link to u . Japan people think pilipino are one because old day 80s exporting that type not any more because accident story read online. Don't worries don't last long that low birth we'll be advantage they need more foreign worker now deal Philippines. Matter time we exporting roman Catholic ideas 😊
Destroys the loyal japanese wife stereotype.
If she/he a cheater, you walk away and never look back. Everyone deserves deep love outside of superficial love.
Sometimes allowing someone to explore is a form of deep love and understanding
So what you are saying is that the Japanese should get divorced instead of cheating.....
Maybe you should rethink about how couples stay together.
deep love doesn't last. You're dealing with a human. They'll probably upset you one way or another.
@GameFuMaster I can tell you, firsthand, that's not true. They will disappoint you and hurt you for sure but sometimes it's worth it to push through it. I'm sorry you feel so hopeless, sincerely
@@kenhur9800 fkn lol. I'm sure you've been with them long enough
'that's a really weird norm that you're turning into a norm that shouldn't be a norm'
pretty much sums up the cultural shifts of the past odd decade or so in the west.....
Well, it is normal in Japan for a looooong looooong time already. It is not new and it will not go away any time soon. The reasons seem pretty obvious to me.
It's not only in Japan cheating is normalized in other societies too ,unfortunately .
It's the decline of family values .
In fiction anything goes. But one must separate reality from fiction, and irl cheating should make the cheater an outcast, if not much worse.
Yea pretty much. Greatings, I think I have seen your post on RGE vidoes from time to time.
@@computernerd8157 yup.
NGL ntr is one of my favorite tags in anime fluff (mostly due to their unusually superb art style). But ntr irl is just heinous. Some fantasies should just stay as fantasies.
Being in a committed relationship while being active in the "industry" and not seeing it as "cheating" is the biggest oxymoron and act of hypocrisy I've ever heard and seen. It's a consequence of a culture that makes such a personal act so impersonal simply due to a change in setting and circumstance. It's taking the concept of the separation of work and private life to the extreme. I simply cannot fathom how one could go to town on the genitalias of complete strangers in a studio and come home to their significant others and proclaim their undying loyalty and love for the other.
Edit: Props to Nobita for not being afraid of shining a light on an undesirable cultural norm.
Agree with you there, I don’t get that kind of mindset at all. Most people as far as from what I’m aware of when looking for a relationship want it exclusive, hell even some people in that industry want exclusivity but how are they gonna do that when they don’t know how to be exclusive themselves?
I hate cheating and dishonesty is sickening 💢😡
I will always be loyal to my future partner but people are human and although my pride and ethics are cemented I will not condemn those who have cheated, bless their hearts as they are fickle beings and I pity their weakness
I hope such a betrayal does not come my way but if it does I will face it and preserve my pride for I know in my heart I did things correctly 💪
I will not let the betrayal of others taint the ethical purity left in my soul
Hook up and cheating culture is disgusting.
based take
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How ruin relationships 101
What I would like to know:
was cheating always a normal thing was always in Japanese culture?
if not, when did that change? Was it like this 5 years ago? 10 years ago? 20?
Stay single if you want multiple partners. Choose wisely and
Stay loyal
Wow you got Yumi Kazama as a guest
ngl you got me in the thumbnail
lol same😂
Well , Nobita trying his best to expose and explain the situations in japan who doesn't know anything about the entertainment industry culture, i hope you do more videos on av actress about being a married woman and doing this av is it ok ? , Anyway thanks for great videos as always 🙌
NTR causing cheating is like saying thriller movies in which people get killed are causing more murder. I mean you can believe this if you want but if you do so I think there are some major flaws in this logic. Its just again searching for scapegoats while real reasons or hints for the acceptance of cheating or stay under-covered people with this opinions do more harm than any good. I would recommend looking in japans history with the cheating topic before making any unreasonable assumptions like porn or hentai anime causing this... that actually the say it in the least harmful way a very simple minded way of thinking.
I think this video needs an update to be more including for this topic, I request starting research also in history especially in Edo-Period I found many hints why this "culture" of cheating is so predominantly reappearing topic.
For me its more like, the western perspective on the topic cheating put more emphasis on cheating, while it has been "always" there but in slightly different variance caused by unknown factors. "normalization" is also a weird term that needs more elaboration to make it more scientific. Sure there might be data showing a rise in cheating (but that can be caused by many things) so with not having on evidence of correlation/causation and the relationship between these terms.
Meanwhile, syphilis rates are skyrocketing in Japan.
普通に不倫はクソ、相手が不倫してたら絶対に離婚します
Things that are accepted are no longer that exciting so they are not that popular in porn often. There has to be a bit of a taboo on it. Cheating in RL is a taboo yet people do it for that reason and if you can get away with it easily maybe it's even more popular. But it will most certainly not make your homelife happier even if it doesn't lead to divorce. If you didn't have a dead bedroom before you are bound to have it afterwards, with a big dose of cold anger under the surface.
It's called desensitization.
@@vorynrosethorn903 In Japan the wives are expected to put up with it, that's not due to desensitization that's from the culture being about keeping things good for other people. Plus outright sexism.
I'm not sure there has been a time where japanese men were not allowed to cheat, at the very least with prostitutes. Even historically marriage didn't seem to make a difference in that though western influence leg to red light districts being closed down more.
@@Ifliethat's also a no go for me. If my woman can't do it that day than it's perfectly fine: we'll do it some other day. I really don't get it: are we (as a society) really down that bad??
@@ortros1 People with a good relationship still cheat too. Just more exciting and easy to them. And if wives are expected to tolerate it what's to stop the husbands doing it? In China it's illegal and still it's a wide spread practice to get a mistress and pay them.
My religion teacher in school said part of getting married is to avoid the other people you feel any attraction to. I think a lot of people never got that advise. They instead hang out more with those other people and think the grass is greener on that side. So they cheat or break up their relationship to try out the new person.
N, even with Japan's anti outsider, discriminatory practices, Japan *IS* a window in to the future of where the rest of the world will go. This is quite disturbing...
My opinions is how much treat people with right away, it’s actually challenging in how long how everything and environments treating around others right or wrong ways through relationships cultures, (someone please give signals if says anything wrong about it please)
She says cheating isn't for her, but she continues to make porn?
We must have very different concepts of cheating.
I agree.
Porn is her job you child. Grow up.
Good job man.
I watched most of the NTR hentai manga and each time it pisses me off. Sometimes even more so when brothers get involved. Me and my older brother, have lots of disagreements but we never ever do this stupidity. It honestly makes someone gets depressed
You are addicted to ntr but claim to hate it?
@@juhadexcelsior na. Most hentai websites is filled with NTR. Like more than 60% of every hentai is filled with NTR.
I don't even feel anything except anger when reading NTR. But then again it's fiction
Its easier to understand a Polygamist than a cheater
I love how frank the people you interview are
Nobita-sama, thank you very much for this wonderful video. I really enjoyed watching it. A video in the same format with Reiko Kobayakawa, also a top milf in JAV, would be much anticipated
Oh yes I support the idea!
I wonder what those in the inaka or outside the city in Japan think of cheating. My guess is that it's more frowned upon. I'm sure there's much more casual attitude towards cheating in NYC than the midwest. I think in the big city you have way more opportunities to cheat. Plus poly relationships are more common in us big cities as well. Japan doesn't have that outlet and is much more traditional so they cheat
I get a kick out of how you had to blur out the entire wall behind you.
At this point they might allow Polygamy/harems just to make sure the population thrives.
Let me tell a case from the country of the Philippines...
A policeman found out that his wife was cheating with another man after he sees his wife getting out of the car he pulls his gun a 45 calibre pistol he shot the cheating man 10 times at the head (during those shots the gun was jammed but it fixed in a matter of calibrating it) and after that his cheating wife runs away but got shot and killed with two shots at the back...
And after that the policeman was arrested after all...
It was caught by a cctv camera all the happenings on that time...
I can fully understand the rage of that policeman...
😡😠
You can understand the rage, that's OK, but I hope you recognize that what he did was much worse than what either of his murder victims did.
@@jen204 yeah, I know killing was wrong and what he did was unforgivable ... The way I say I understand his rage or feelings it doesn't mean I didn't know what's right and whats wrong... The man working so hard to serve and protect the country and also provide for the family and the woman has the nerve to cheat on him?! That's the biggest question on her part why did she do that... But anyway what he did was wrong no matter what...
I don't think what he did was wrong. Cheating of a non married person can be tolerated although l can't say the same thing for a married person. There is promise which should be kept and all those years that has been spent together.
It's not ok to kill people because they cheat....
@@aydogantiras2843it doesn't justify killing, married or not
Why do some even bother getting married?
I understand why tradition, traditional. For 1000+ years. It's still important Now. But see how many people men and mostly woman, have made it close to impossible to have a true strong healthy marriage anymore
Same question in my mind. Why bother with so many difficulties if you want to have sex freely?
@@aydogantiras2843 I guess if you want to spend your later years alone or with a woman that is still fucking other people and you're ok with that arrangement -- you're right. IF you are lucky enough to find someone with the same values then in your later years you won't be alone which is a horrible place to be.
I think you should read “Japan to 1600. A Social and Economic History” by William Farris. There was a time when Japanese women were dominant in society and the mores were very different.
Yumi Kazama is so intelligent and insightful what a good interview and conversation you had with her. She seems sensible and attractive so I can see her appeal would be so wide.
This girl is capping extremely hard. I get the point of being nonbiased and hearing all perspectives but honestly, i'm only interested in what the psychologist and social scientists have to say on social matters when it comes to the benefits and detriments of certain behaviors. Partakers are biased or even deceptive im order to protect their paychecks.
Kazamasan is so nice and lovely. Thank you for sharing this interview!
if she made 2700 movies, its mean every week she acting in 2 movie. start from 1997 until 2023
Some are gonna be compilations of older material.
90% of the video was Japanese with sub. it would have been nice if would have made a conclusion for the video, not all of us interested to watch the whole interview
Pls interview Chisato Shouda
She might not realize it but she has trouble holding down a relationship. The men she’s encountering seem to only want to sleep with her and not commit
Yep, and no quality man will ever want to commit to her. She's made her bed and she will lie in it for the rest of her life.
someone has a collection of her movies 2700 DVD's ?! madness
LOL that screwed me up when she said her fans rents storage units to keep all the movies in
Oh, why cheating is normal in Japan?
Porn is in every country. There is a different cause to why cheating and prostitution is more accepted in Japan by one's spouses.
not related to NTR, there are other issues causing it. If anything NTR might be a form of copium
Someone should tell her that dating is not a relationship ...
It is messed up, married woman working in the p0rn industry. Felt bad for the husband and child.
I think he did a interview with a sexless couple about this
But is cheating truly normalized here in comparison with other countries?
Or is it comparable?
I have been called, i must answer.
If a woman cheats on me, I’m done with her. If she’s faithful to me, I’ll be faithful back!
He comes from the UK, and expect the same norm in Japan? and as if cheating is not common in England? WTF. People just have different way of dealing with thing, and that doesn't mean they would have accepted it if they dealt with it with it calmly and with composed manner. As far as I know, I only heard about the open relationship things in the west not Japan.
「私の青年時代を思うと、日本中、オウム真理教だったのではないか。 外では通用しないことが、内では堂々とまかり通る。」
I have a problem with her answer(7:01). She is implying that the married woman think only of themselves and do not take their husband's feelings into consideration.
Those were carefully picked words. I wonder what she'd say if she was completely open.
Cheating is entirely natural, people are tempted and selfish, and there are circumstances where people are driven to it due to their relationship diving or having other issues. A person's self worth being damaged by their partner is a common cause of going out of their way to feel appreciated.
NTR though... I mean there's a Western interracial equivalent which is fetishistic and sort of treats the dominant parter of that scene like an animal. Despite the "superiority" of one race, it's clear that it's not out of respect, but pure lust driven fascination of physical appearance and large manhoods.
I can't speak much to this mindset, but before NTR it used to be swinging, swapping partners, going to sex clubs and the like, that used to be popular. A sort of pre-emptive strike to cheating, where you'd have not an open relationship, but have "adventures" and deepen the appreciation of your relationship. It's obviously not for everyone. NTR to me seems more about a lack of confidence and becoming subservient to a narcissist.
So much for dreaming to have a Japanese waifu
Is there a video report about the different type of animals available in Japan? Animals exhibit cheating behaviour all the time.
Just another scene from the movie: Japan - The Lost Society.
Bro when does the action begins? Oops just realized im on youtube
SHE SAID SHE WANT REALATIONSHIP AND SEPARATE WHAT SHE'S DOING FROM HER PRIVATE LIFE BUT SHE'S BRINGING HER PRIVATE LIFE TO A LOTS OF PEOPLE BECAUSE THE ACT SHE'S DOING IS PART OF PRIVATE LIFE AND IF MEN AND IT WILL BE NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR HER TO MARRY CAUSE EVEN ON OTHER COUNTRIES IT'S VERY HARD FOR WHO'S DOING THE SAME THING TO MARRY AND IN JAPAN IT WILL BE HARDER THE JAPANESE PEOPLE SO PROUD WITH EVEN DIFFERENT VALUES THAN OTHER COUNTRIES WITH DIFFERENT CODE BEHAVIOR AND EVEN IF SHE WILL MARRY AND HAD KIDS IT'S EFFECT THEM TERRIBLY ON WHAT'S SHE'S DOING BULLIED MENTAL PROBLEMS AND MANY OTHERS ALSO PEOPLE WHO'S DOING THE SAME AS SHE DOING HAS MENTAL PROBLEMS IT'S VERY HARD
How does she handle the STI or STD?
Or she doesnt have any ?
A lot of the times I find that those who cheat tend to do it out of loneliness. Especially in societies where people are working long hours. Dating someone who works a lot means you'll most likely be spending more time alone than with your partner. Doubly so when the partner is a high earner/rich (that money doesn't just fall from the sky, it comes from somewhere). So rather than speaking with their partner about this, they instead resort to cheating because they want to fill that empty void. Of course this isn't the only reason people cheat (lack of sexual satisfaction, falling for someone else, revenge, never really loved their partner and was only using them for resources, etc.), but I do think it's the most common reason in places like Japan where so many people are working over time regularly. And when they are home, they're tired and just want to relax and rest.
Then perhaps the one who is thinking about cheating should communicate with their partner, maybe even break up.
Don't try to make an excuse for cheating, you disgust me.
@@harrysvensson2610 I was not making excuses. If you read carefully, I specifically mentioned that they make the wrong decision of not speaking with their partner. I was just explaining a possible reason as to why. I do not agree with cheating. Cheating is wrong no matter the reason, even if understandable. Learn to read carefully before accusing someone.
I think the link between NTR and real life cheating is likely pretty weak because, if it did cause it, you'd expect the heaviest users to be the most affected and the group that watches the most porn is single men by a mile. There are plenty of married men who still watch of course, but they don't tend to be the ones who buy over 2000 MILF DVDs.
Yeah, it’s the same old media theory effect that’s been debunked since the 80s and 90s. People keep bringing it up (video game cause violence) because it’s an easy scape goat than fixing the real problem.
A sound argument. I agree on his opinion. People who cheat most are the people who are already popular among men/women. So individuals who watch a lot of porn, in this case suspected actors of cheating, are actually no means to reach sex that's why those individuals watch a lot porn.
What is NTR?
2700? That would mean that she averaged about 100 videos a year.
One of my favorite jav actress from glory quest
if you know how, you can profit off this culture. During covid, I capitalized on the cheating women. Got a lot of love love and expensive gifts from these women. One woman would take me to an expensive lunch at the Marriot Hotel and then pay for the room and bring me expensive gifts, all just to spend the day with her. She is one of many and it's still going over 3 years now.
Never had a cheating problem because all my relationships were open. Seems like a much better solution than hiding things. Just be honest about what you want with your partner.
yeah. Cheating is bad because it's dishonesty. But maybe that's the issue about how human nature works and how artificial monogamous relationships are.
Marriages were pretty much always for the upper class and for political/social reasons. Men would often have mistresses, although women wouldn't because of pregnancy reasons, and social reasons.
The main question people should be asking is what do they want out of a relationship in the first place?
'I've never cheated because I've never been loyal', ok then, not sure that scales well though.
@@vorynrosethorn903 redefining cheat as simply not engaging in monogamous relationships is about as intelligent as saying you got assaulted after being punched in a boxing match.
@@GameFuMaster Bible defines it that way and it's good enough for me.
The solution for you is removing loyalty and thus removing love rotfl
Well, this kind of problem explains the low birth rate of Japan.
I think I only live once, have I been prayed for by an ema in one of the jinja in Japan, I want to be healed.
Japanese need to learn to
Embrace concept of love. They stubbornly refuse to embrace these values and opt for a paradoxical stoicism that hurts their happiness in the end. So unnecessary.
Nobita, do you know about non-monogamous communities over Japan (not about cheating, but previous agreement between all parts for non standard relationship)?
oh god, Yumi. baby 💕
I was surprised too
She belongs to the streets
We must stay focused
There’s a big difference between men and women cheating. If a man cheats, there is often no emotion or financial investment in the women, the family unit stays together. When a women cheats, the marriage is over, she is emotionally invested in him enough to give it up. Men have to pay while women often don’t. Something happens when a couple breaks up and she sleeps with another man in between, it’s over forever.
Difference indeed yet a lot of them still stay married regardless. Cheating is cheating if as a man it hurts to get cheated on why should women be quiet and endure? So women can't enjoy sex too? They're not hormonal human beings too? Since you all want to cheapen sex well there you go sex is sex regardless of who's doing what.
@@authornikkih8266 The difference is men pay and provide for a women which is why it hurts more, women don't pay or provide or protect. If women want to still sleep around, stay single. As a man i could sleep with 100 women and still bond with my woman the same. If a women sleeps with a 100 men she is psychologically broken and can never pair bond with a man again.
@@authornikkih8266 women stay married to men who cheat is because men provide financial and protect, women don’t traditionally. If a women wants to still sleep with other men, she should stay single. It’s far more painful for a man to provide for his women who is cheating compared to a woman who cheats who isn’t financially invested generally. When a men cheats, it’s like satisfying a need like using the bathroom, when a women cheats it’s romantic and it’s the end of the marriage. The marriage and family unit can survive if a man cheats but as we have witnessed, when a women cheats, the marriage can’t survive, the husband, children, and wife are ruin. As a man i could sleep with 100 women and stay mentally the same, if a women sleeps with 100 men she loses her ability to pair bond with a singular man, she becomes broken and traumatized forever. A women cheating on her husband is like a husband financially providing and protecting another women which hurts the family and children. There is a basic agreement in marriage/committed relationship between men and women, men provide financial support, protection, and status while women provide access to regular sex and birth children. If a wife no longer provides sex, she is breaking the agreement just like if a man no longer provides money, he is breaking the agreement.
@@ramenprince6256 bahahahhahaha I see now I get where this answer is coming from and excuse me let me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. You know in Japan host clubs exist right? Ever heard of male escorts? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh my goodness you're a riot. Don't worry I get where your answer is coming from no need to explain further. Y'all are so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@authornikkih8266 I'm genuinely trying to inform/enlighten you. I have access to these host clubs. You laugh it off and have an emotional response to my logical answer, I can see your likely too broken and delusional to accept the truth. You are a prime example of why Western men have given up trying take modern women/western women seriously, you laugh it up and cry alone when you have to live with the consequences of your choices. All the best to you.
nobita san please interview: Juri yamaguchi, Aika yumeno, yayoi mizuki, nakayama fumika, nene tanaka, Kawakita Haruna, Sezaki Ayane, chitose saegusa, Sakura Minami, then especially Maya kikuchi.......plzzzzzzzzz🙏🙏🙏
She isn't aware of the negative effect it has on her culture ---
I wish I had some way of showing you my story!
Am studying in Kyoto and have been dating a delivery health worker who is also a instagram model and recently she has been making my life a living hell!
If I tell people the truth it’s defamation and deportation but she can say whatever she wants about me!
Then just break up bro. Physical appearance is not all about a person, try dating someone with good attitudes and morality.
@@aydogantiras2843 we’ve been broken up for a while and she is ruining my future in Japan via defamation but because the truth is also considered defamation in Japan if I say anything I could be charged for that!
On of my favourite actresses
5:32 they want the bedroom fun not a date let alone a relationship. And the fact that she thinks married women should do this makes it even worse.