What Scares Me The Most About Modern Dating For All Of You
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After working part-time, working out, making food, and watching videos like these on modern dating, who has time left for a date?
Not me 😂, i love single life at 51, zero marriages, zero divorces
Very funny 😷🥸
There’s no guarantee. Last 9 years had two relationships with “Christian” women and one actually accepted a ring and then a month later gave it back. The other we were ring shopping and she just wouldn’t choose… my mistake was allowing them way too much time. 4 years is too long to vet them. My advice vet hard in the beginning and if they aren’t nailing all the questions with the mature correct actions and answers then run and don’t look back.
I’m 42 and these were supposed to be grown ass women
Yeah it’s wild these older women still think they have forever to be picky. The last two I dealt with are now 41 and 44 I’m 42. Are they saving up and working for retirement?? How hard will that be alone. Do they know what it’s like to be working to 65 or 70 years old as a woman? Women aren’t built to get up and go to work 40 years and if they do it wears them out (they get weathered). Women don’t think past tomorrow and even if they did it would be the wrong move. Keep building and grinding men learn to enjoy leveling up. In four or five years I’ll still be able to get a woman that’s 41 or 44, those women will be hard pressed to get anything let alone a guy that’s got his housed paid off and is stacking for the future of whatever is coming down the pipe.
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485Not all women want to get married and have children! It’s 58 percent single women and 42 percent of single men owning 35.2 million homes in the USA. Women have surpassed men in college competition. After several relationships I decided to stay single at the age of 38. Since then I owned several homes, most of them paid cash, I only buy my German cars cash and I always have at least 100k on my savings account and no credit card debt. I travel the world and enjoy sports, SPA treatments, hiking and enjoying the nature. I don’t think I could do this with a man or children by my side.
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 true, but who wants to sleep around without a ring? It's better to be celibate or marry.
@@RedLegPiper I’m against sleeping around and yes men and women should be celibate unless they get married.
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 💯
Best to just avoid these jezebels altogether.
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This pent up sexual tension needs to go somewhere bro
No cap your hand is safer. Just don’t take more than 5 mins or else you’re wasting time
Your causing much more pent up frustration either during the build up or the break up with them^^
Facts
I got marriied three weeks ago. It lasted a week. It's really not worth the mental stress.
New Guinness world record you have the shortest marriage ever😁
@@smokeybear7669damn. I thought I was bad with relationships. What the hell was he thinking?
Are you serious?
@@Jake23115 im afraid so. A week it lasted. Gaslight after gas light. Theres only so much a man csn take. Learn from my mistake, brothers👍💯
@@smokeybear7669nah my grandpa his first marriage lasted not even 24 hours and i’m 19 and i just learn he had 3 marriages when whole time i thought he just had 1
Terry you are the realest dude out here right now when it comes to life and dating. There’s not one youtuber that speaks the truth and doesn’t hold back one but other then you. Keep it up man, you’re video help me so much and let me know I’m not alone in this absolutely chaos of a dating scene and terrible terrible women we have to deal with today.
I feel most broken people are conditioned to jump from person to person. They'll take whatever they can then move on to the next. They view everything as expendable with others. As long as there's options nobody will settle with one person. Most are weak AF.
I have never done that in my life but the man that I have dated definitely did
Men need to stop looking in Walmart, the gym, the club and the trailer parks for women. Good lord.
I buy a large pizza for my girl and she want a coke an side salit. Hell no. And her cuze do not smell good. Naww get some soap.
LOL So true, King. Random emotion is the method of the lazy, even among the supposedly redpilled.
@evasionhunter these simps are missing out on greatness because they circle themselves around toxic masculinity. These men will die old, bitter, and alone. By choice.
Found my ex at the library. She ended up being a narc with bpd
Do you think Walmart women are better than Dollar General women? 😂😂😂
She told me it was 'unforgivable' when I lost my job after almost a year of pulling her and her kids out of squalor living conditions. After her house was livable and I lived with her she said 'this is my house and I'm breaking up with you'. I left that day and we haven't spoken since.
maybe terry will return your money for his game not working, he is also catching up now. he has to hold his tears for two empty pool's worth before these chicks will let him drop.
maybe terry will return your money for his game not working, he is also catching up now. he has to hold his tears for two empty pool's worth before these chicks will let him drop.
maybe terry will return your money for his game not working, he is also catching up now. he has to hold his tears for two empty pool's worth before these chicks will let him drop.
Same thing with my mom. I would pay her bills never kick her out and then when she's paying the rent she wouldn't threaten to kick me out. Women aren't good leaders.
@@peytonedwards4225 I can't believe your own mom would do something so terrible like that to you. God Bless You Man 🙏 It was heartbreaking for a girlfriend to do it but I couldn't compare a mother 💔
The timing of your videos always on point
Only Jesus saves from hell. The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not our works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
Jesus saves. Buy Ivory clean it, my girls private need Ivory.
shortsighted take
I’m nearly 60 on my second marriage. My first marriage was exactly the modern marriage that failed. She wanted someone else. A better man. I had to let her go although I humiliated myself by begging her to stay. I got my revenge because she couldn’t stop calling me for some reason. Now that I remarried again, I wish I stayed single, but this realization came a year ago. Either we make it to retirement or she leaves because she’s unhappy.
Wouldn't recommend any of that my ex wife cleared me out, gonna be homeless real soon cause of it.The judges will give your house, cars and all bank accounts to the woman even if they cheat on you, all my reality.
Why you didn't made a prenup
jesus dude. marriage is basically male hostage at this point, no fault divorce laws need to be repealed
Women have taken it tooooo far .....MEN HAVE adapted to such a degree that the Dating game has shifted ... And it will BE WORSE FOR WOMEN .... Now men are on Game !
Women are on game two we no longer sleep with men without a ring or at least a investment of some sort
@@PersianDollTarot sounds like prostitution 😂 you just exposed yourself as a who-er 🤡
@@PersianDollTarot sounds like prostitution 😂 you’ve just shown your true colors 🤡
@@PersianDollTarot sounds like pr0stituti0n 😂 you’ve just shown your true colors 🤡
@@PersianDollTarotSleeping around is still a thing and it will take drastic change,maybe in 100 years...but for now sleeping around is new normal...
Unshaken. As men we shall rise to any occasion. Women in college are after a matriarchy. and this cannot be as we're not the same. #patriarchy
Select someone that never leaves their house [personal space]. Virtue ideology [doesn't matter what ideology/religion- multiple exist] and a happy person.
There’s too many damn narcs for anyone to try to stay with someone now of days. I’m 51 and I’ve never seen anything like it in my life. This world is degenerate!
Yeah, it’s just tiktok brain and thots on Insta wanting an easy way out
Satan is on the march. GODS SPEED 📿
Great video Terry!
Thank you for the video Terry ❤
Like J. Cole once said, “Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved, don’t save her”
I would love to be saved
How does one know when someone is trying to help you if they don't communicate so you know they are there to help
@@amanda-co1vq for the most part that’s not the case unfortunately
I would appreciate being 'saved' also 🙏🙏🫶😃 @amanda-co1vq
She doesn't want to be saved, then does, then she wants to save herself, or does she? She doesn't know herself, she says. Well, good luck, don't come back. You're done. 🎉
Thank You ! . you are on target
Recently found your channel, it's been outstanding brother much thanks!
Glad your here today! 🙏🧚🏼♀️🫶🩵💜🩷🩵💜🩷💯
I would just stop dating and go primal
Thanks bro goin through some things right now but thanks for the guidance 💯
Pure Golden Truth 👐🧐☺️🫡😑
If you sleep around it messes up the guys too not as bad as woman but fursure messes with your head. Work on yourself
Good men simply are not interested in sleeping around.
💯I have seen this also and I genuinely wasn’t expecting it
God bless you 🙏🏼💯✨✨🙏🏼💯💯🌠
Im not worried because I ain't playing anymore.😮😂
So true Terry. So true.
" They done , Breh ."..😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I'm now 50 enjoyed most of my time with Women, however now I dont make them a priority.
True bro
Stop worrying about where you’re gonna STICK it Just go to work!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you just looking for trouble😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
bang bang hahaha!!
The way is the Goal
Yes the pair bonding is 100% right. My friends have tried getting me to go on dating apps or just anything to hookup and saying i need to have experience before 30, and one friend told me that its not good im going to get attached to the first girl i get with and im like isnt that what is suppose to happen..?! Like in the book of revelations people wont know right from wrong...
Don't think about women too much, you will get depressed that's my opinion. Just go have fun at strip clubs.
Yeah, strip clubs bring lasting happiness... best to add lots of internet porn too... living in a permanent illusion/fantasy is a path for personal growth 🤣
@@Hiker_Mike Personally, I'm passed that. I just know there are guys who have an itch to scratch. Once you realize this entire world is an illusion focusing on exiting it is your only true goal.
@@Hiker_Mike It appears YT just deleted my reply, did you get it?
@@Monster33336 YT is a pain w/r to censorship. I can't see some comments, including my own sometimes. I think your comment is here but I can't open it.
The cats out the bag. Literally
I know this to be true, TJJ, because I'm experiencing a brain injury right now from these fools. I really want to get an EEG and ECG scan done on both my heart and my mind just to be better safe than sorry, and if GOD forbid it turns out, I do have a brain/heart injury or both I can catch it early thats assuming ofcource I've not left it to late if I have I've come to terms with it and have accepted my fate with a profound peace toward it it's a given fact.
What scares me most is avoiding women, they don't like it and launch a false accusation.
Or I somehow get coerced into unknowingly dating a tro0n or something.
Been celibate for almost 5 years and counting.
I tall. Not balding yet. Blue eyes. Fit. Not flashy with money, but stable and working a basic unskilled job. Single moms think I am perfect. It just seems like the worst people expect me to "step up" for them, and I won't.
Sometimes if a man testosterone is low he won’t really chase women which is natural for men to do just look at the old film men were very masculine always looking to charm a woman. Mostly there could be something wrong with your hormones I mean most of us have imbalances because of the foods and the lifestyle we live most of the lotion things that you use on your body are causing hormone destruction. If you were really honest with yourself most of your ambition comes from the pursuit of wanting a woman in your life and wanting to provide something to her and if that’s not the case then some thing is genuinely off or maybe you haven’t really met anyone worth pursuing which is also possible put yourself in better places position yourself where your reciprocal would be
Or worse off go as far as to try and ruin every ounce of your reputation by convincing the law that you're a sexusl predator that forced himself on her or some shit like that I've heard of other guys testimonies that this as happened to and they got absolutely wrecked by the courts some even facing custodial sentencing
There's no one out there worth dating anymore.
Just date as friends only to get to know her. If she constantly has ethics after months. THEN when it feels right, ask to escalate the relationship to go steady if you feel you are starting to love her. This is the only way I want to do it now on.
-and plus we live in a Cesspool.
So true tho. You cannot love anyone else until you love yourself. Men and women both. I love myself and have now for the last 10 months. Now I am in a happy relationship. Bc I love myself. I now longer identify with my “trauma” Ew. Smh. But MEN AND WOMEN BOTH DO. ITS NOT GOOD.
I'm scared of not finding someone compatible with me. Not making the right decision, taking too long to start a relationship, losing opportunities.
If you start looking around in depth, you'll begin to notice that there are actually a lot of people who would be compatible with you.
But your list of compatibility requirements is going to change when you realize the answer is going to look a much different. I think it was on Eharmony that I decided to see who liked similar music, and no doubt the list then got incredible small...but then it was apparent that none of those results were of men I'd actually want to date.
So the question we have to get to, is what are the absolute essentials that without... everything would just fall apart.
The heavy price, is getting left because that person will be like oh my God I’m actually too damaged to marry you and then both people can’t ever have kids. It’s really sad. people use each other until they are 35. And then it’s too late for women at least. Women need to have boundaries.
People don’t get what they want, they get what they deserve
All these girls are bops. The sooner you realize this the easier life will get for you. Oh yeah have fun competing with the most successful men on social media
Young man you need to get you one of those new robot A.I. girlfriends. One with a pretty mouth
and these "damaging" is not just an opinion or just a point of view. No, nowadays we have all the studies and data that shows the damage.
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Just the thought of getting caught within a modern-day marital trap where the woman gets half of everything is enough to put me off the idea even when I did everything right by the biblical word I'd rather remain single than to even focus on marriage even females for now I wouldnt say I have fear toward any of this I would however say that I'm skeptical of it all and don't plan to become another one of these male statistics within said dynamics!
Prenups are a thing. Laws also vary from state to state, most women who initiate divorce proceedings do so the result of their husbands' adulteries, and its actually quite difficult, time consuming, and expensive for a woman to acquire half of a man's income and possessions.
California, for example, is a no fault state which penalizes no one for infidelity, which in turn throws the number one reason women file and seek half out the window, completely changing the outcome.
@photographyenthusiast9941 I would have met you down the middle and somewhat agreed with you on that, after reading through other guy's testimonies that's beside the point because even those within the court of law are sometimes known to throw them out.
I've heard guys share their testimonies of this happening to them even when they did everything right by the biblical book too!
@@WalkingMeatSuit1925 And then you hear the horror stories from women. Is the answer really to never marry, and to use sex workers or become a passport bro which is often the same thing? There are crappy risks in this world, but the lesser of two evils in this case is really the greater.
@@WalkingMeatSuit1925
Most good guys I've encountered have fallen for narcissistic women, because
the dating world is often like a game of tug-of-war where we get pulled only by those that are pulling us... and it's often only the narcissists that are doing the pulling.
They zero in on our reluctance to date the wrong people as hot bait to which they jump on with just the right tactics.
@photographyenthusiast9941 only boys that don't have what it takes to keep those sexual urges under control would give up like that me personally I wouldn't even stoop so low and give into sexual impurified behaviours like that. I've learned a new life hack that many guys can master it's not an overnight success and does take hard work thus including late nights and early ass mornings it's called semen retention it fuels ones SOULS life sauce and is packed full of spiritual and psychological health benefits
I wonder why she ran away from him. I wonder why a family that was meant to be became, not meant to be.
It’s to bad the child, never got a chance to witness a happy mommy and daddy. 😢
The trend is
The worse, The better
These days it seems as if women believe a relationship with a man also includes being responsible for their happiness?
That's not how it works!
Yeah that’s codependency and it goes both ways
(It's only a 20 dollar chick off the street, bruh). keep holding.
I'm scared for all of you, lmfao and a no name guy saying it.
JESUS CHRIST and his disciples/saints were known to have a small glass of red wine with meals and everything within moderation TJJ
They thirst for attention. My advice, look the other way!
It’s not how the world works and those women will figure it out when it’s too late to have a family & kids because they didn’t just stop & think. They put it off. It’s pathetic.
JUST GO SINGLE
Everything is against them having that life, so they agree and go against themselves too
Reject 666~!
What do you expect these women to do? Sit around and twiddle their thumbs?
Go get another booster 😂
@@philyeary8809lol the v@x booster?
@@philyeary8809 I didn’t get the booster! You did.
Hold those tears, wolfiepoo. Thanks for the girls scrub.
You should be scared.
I literally do not understand? Why am I not getting better ❤️🩹? It seems like 👍 I am living amongst the walking 🚶 dead 💀
(It's only a 20 dollar chick off the street, bruh). keep holding.
Hold those tears, wolfiepoo. Thanks for the girls scrub.
(It's only a 20 dollar chick off the street, bruh). keep holding.
Hold those tears, wolfiepoo. Thanks for the girls scrub.