Cracking the Codes: Dr. Joy DeGruy "A Trip to the Grocery Store"
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- čas přidán 19. 09. 2011
- FILM AVAILABLE HERE: www.world-trust.org
In this story from Cracking the Codes: The System of Racial Inequity, a film from World Trust, author and educator Dr. Joy DeGruy shares how her sister-in-law uses her white privilege to stand up to systemic inequity.
Some comments have asked for more info on the concept of "privilege" -- often called the flipside of racism. Here it is:
"Privilege exists when one group has something of value that is denied to others simply because of the groups they belong to, rather than because of anything they've done or failed to do. Access to privilege doesn't determine one's outcomes, but it is definitely an asset that makes it more likely that whatever talent, ability, and aspirations a person with privilege has will result in something positive for them." ~Peggy McIntosh
Examples of Privilege: Being able to...
- assume that most of the people you or your children study in history classes and textbooks will be of the same race, gender, or sexual orientation as you are
- assume that your failures will not be attributed to your race, or your gender
- assume that if you work hard and follow the rules, you will get what you deserve
- succeed without other people being surprised; and without being held to a higher standard
- go out in public without fear of being harassed or constantly worried about physical safety
- not have to think about your race, or your gender, or your sexual orientation, or disabilities, on a daily basis...
For more information on this film project, go to www.world-trust.org
This documentary is designed for dialogue and comes with a downloadable conversation guide.
This woman's voice is beautiful and she used it to make a great point.
I've often felt that privilege (and the discrimination it comes from) will only change when the people who benefit from the privilege make the change, when the people who can only lose from changing the status quo make the change.
See, if SHE had said something to that cashier, she would not only have been called an angry black woman stereotype, but keep in mind her claims and complaints would most likely be ignored because she'd be """pulling out the race card""". When people of color such as myself point out racial problems in our society, white people tell us we're pulling the race card. But when white people (or white-passing, in this case) do it for us, they are often listened to, and referred to as noble.
Which isn't to say Cathleen (Kathleen?) didn't do a good thing! It's just that we must keep in mind what would have happened if it were the speaker who had said something.
instead of being ashamed you have privilege and others don't, do this
I love this.
Whenever I see anything like this happening, I'm going to have to step in.
Bystanders can do this in a variety of situations. Racism, sexism, ageism... We all have a responsibility to hold each other accountable in the face of all of these forms of harassment.
I'm Canadian Cree First Nation. I remember when I was in Safeway, and my children and I were followed around by the security guard. I had my phone on vibrate and it went off in my purse so I opened the purse. At the checkout counter infront of all those people...he took me aside and asked to look in my purse. He had seen me open it. My children were devastated as we were dragged to the back of the store to security. He found my wallet and my phone...then I returned all the groceries.
Joy is so eloquent. Amazing!
Great video, I wish more people would use their white privilege to expose racial bias! Kathleen is a great woman!!
That's quite a story. I would pay good money to see the look on that cashier's face.
I've only recently become aware that white privilege exists and that I've benefited from it, but I wasn't sure what to do if I come across a situation like this. I've worried that I'd be taking authority or autonomy from the person of color, not letting them solve the problem. But now that I've seen this, I know what to do. Thank you so much for this video.
What a powerful message - and yet it's sad this is still an issue.
Thank you for uploading this beautiful video.
As a straight, white, male I strive to be as good a person as this woman's sister in law.
This is inspiring. If I ever get the opportunity, I'm going to put my white skin and my voice to good use
Why are we calling her Joy? Isn't it customary to show some respect? Her name is DR. Joy DeGruy.
Your level of maturity and self-control is something that I hope to one day achieve. I look up to you so much, as a woman. Also, this is a great message... had me in tears.
Beautiful. This is the way to use privilege. I dream of a day where no one of any cultural group will have to go through this just because of their skin colour.
It's all about having a sense of awareness. Being aware of your surroundings, aware of the possible mindsets of those that you encounter and being sympathetic to the subjectivity of things. Speaking up rather than remaining silent makes all the difference. I love that your level of awareness has been raised. Kudos and the best of wishes to you!
This makes me want to cry, but I am also loving how she is encouraging people to make changes and step up. She is wonderful and I am sorry this happened to her, but wow how strong she is. I want to be like her.
Very eye opening and done with grace.
As the grandmother of a half black (African) half white little boy, I am now very much aware of this now and slowly feeling my way. How can I use my white privilege to stand up against bigotry without offending the very people I want to stand up for?
Wow. Thanks for posting this. I've been struggling with this a lot and am frustrated at the lack of courage around, the lack of willingness to discuss, let alone act. I can count the number of times that someone spoke up for me- including a time when a straight friend confronted guys for gay-bashing me. We've got to stand up for one another, otherwise there'll be no one left to stand with and then we'll be alone.
Very insightful. I wonder how many times this has happened to me without even noticing.
I am in tears as someone speaks about what unfortunately is nearly a daily experience for me sometimes. When I talk about it few people seem to get what I am talking about. At least with you and your accomplishments someone might hear you because you become privilidged.in another way. I on the other hand am in University trying to get some credentials so that perhaps someone will listen to me an attribute a little validity to my experiences.
I'm glad your in-law stepped in and defended you!
This is the first time I have ever come across the term White Privilege used in a constructive way. Thank you.
That's an amazing story :) and Joy tells it so well!
Beautiful, truly.
Beautiful!
I am in love with the way she talks. I wish was my great aunt of something.
I love this, keep speaking out!
This almost makes me cry
This was really interesting!
this is fascinating.
thanks for this!
Wonderful friend (sister in law)
This is something to make us all think
great video!!!
So amazing!
This is beautiful
Incredible
I didn't even know racism like this existed anymore? Wow...guess I have a lot to learn.
Good story.
yes gurl. PREACH.
Yes!
I very much enjoyed this video thank you
Even though she "can't know for sure" what would have happened if she spoke up it's pretty clear what would have happened. She would have been the "angry black woman" and she would be dismissed or accused of being irate and oversensitive. Just like I am often cast as the "angry lesbian" or "angry feminist" when I speak up about injustices. When you stereotype a group of people as angry and overly sensitive it becomes much easier to dismiss their concerns. It's a clever trick of oppression, no?
And I endeavor to do so. Thank you for such an eloquent reminder.
Love this.
amazing
My husband, who is African-American, and I have similar experiences on a fairly regular basis. I will be treated in an entirely different and more favorable manner than he. When Christopher is standing ahead of me in a line, staff will often offer to help me first, or restaurant staff, assuming that we are not together, will offer to seat me rather than him. The such racism, even today, so deeply pervades our society is disgraceful.
woow. this is brilliant
That was amazing. Thank you for sharing!
Loving! This is real courage, that most don't posses .
beautiful
AMEN.
this nearly brought me to tears. I love this.
I love this story!
This is great
Sometimes I forget I have white privilege, because I would never think of being prejudiced to someone just because of someone's skin colour. I can't believe people are still so close minded. We're all people
It breaks my heart that we live in a world like this. But I am incredibly grateful for people like Joy and her sister who encourage others and speak up against the ignorance and wrong doing of others.
Well said respect
I hope that cashier got fired.
Insightful. Thank you.
This definitely helped me understand a bit better how to use my privilege in a positive way.
ohhh it's so happening
Well!
what an awesome story, thanks for sharing! :D
You nailed it.
AMAZING! Wow, so powerful :)
woww!
Sharing with others at STATE OF THE BLACK PARENT!
Brilliant! We can't undo our white privilege but we can find ways of using it to create justice and better understanding! We don't lose privilege by extending it to others.
Thanks to Joy DeGruy for this terrific story. And to Shakti Butler once again for bringing truth through her films.
also a good thing to note in addition to what the OP said, is that with your white privilege be aware that you have it and that sometimes even white people with good intentions tend to try to put in a voice that overshadows the voices of POC or those without the privilege your possess (male privililge/hetero privilige/etc).
I love this! It's a good and positive video that shows what "whites" can do to help!
I applaud her. That was absolutely great.
Dammn that was an awesome story. Favorited.
Wonderful, I guess that's why there are whites out there who care, that's what you can do
*Round of applause.*
This is awesomeb
wow.....
This is beautiful, I have yet to witness this where I live but I'm doing this every time I see some dumb crap like this happening
Wow, just wow. So much not what I see in my reality (life experience) being part of the "privileged." For lack of a better term, facing it really sucks. I am a west coast transplant from the Bay Area to Alabama. Lots of things different out here. I am sure I understand the dynamics, but I also surely don't want to accept it. I am also sorry that some of the few have predisposed bias on more of the many.
damn this makes me angry
Clapssssss, claps, claps...
Sad to say but it really helps to have white friends at times lol
I don't like this story.
Do we need to depend on white or interracial people to stand up for us?
Black people should be owning their own stores everywhere and secondly using our economic power to decide where we spend our money.
Finally I would have just waited until the cashier was finished and moved on.
this is a sad reality that I wish didn't exist. God forgive me if I have ever made anyone (whatever their race) feel this way. I was in years watching that. what right does ANYONE have to make another human being feel like that? it shouldn't happen. ever.
*claps* :)
*slow claps*
dat white privilege.
great video!
Yes!
Yes!!!!